dear netflix what is this? | netflixs problem with consent
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- Опубліковано 9 лип 2024
- netflixs problem with consent | Bridgerton, Umbrella Academy, Sienna Mae
I don't know if it's just me, but I've seen a concerning Trend with a lot of Netflix's most popular TV series that I really feel like needs to be discussed. In this video, I will be talking about the concept of consent and how Netflix and its most popular shows have a weird relationship with proper consent. If you're interested in my deep dive, watch until the end. I promise you won't regret it.
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0:34 self-promo
1:10 what is consent?
2:22 the problem with Bridgerton
9:17 the problem with umbrella academy
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That "couldn't and wouldn't" line just FILLS ME WITH RAGE with how unreasonable and victim-blaming it is.
Like, "couldn't" is PERFECTLY FAIR AND ACCURATE. If someone's married and someone else flirts with them, the usual response is "I can't, I'm married". Not won't, CAN'T. If someone's vegetarian or vegan, and you offer them meat, they don't say "I won't eat that," they say "I can't eat that." I drink alcohol sometimes, but once or twice a year I'll avoid alcohol for a month, and when I tell people "oh, no thank you, I can't have a beer because I'm doing a dry month," NO ONE has ever said "well you COULD, you just won't."
It is absolutely fair and normal to say "I can't" purely on the basis of a promise you've made to yourself, and the fact that Daphne tries to pretend otherwise to use incorrect pedantry to justify her actions is just reprehensible.
What Daphne did is flat out reproductive coercion. In my eyes that's WORSE than rape.
I really think Allison has no concept of consent. I'm really disappointed in how she s*x**lly assaulted Luther in Season 3, after spending years in a healthy, consensual relationship with Ray Chestnut. And to answer 16:30, ABSOLUTELY. In fact, in season 1, her flashback while driving included all the times she "rumored" things to get her way, from "I heard a rumor I was perfect for the role", which got her her movie star status at the beginning of the show, to "I HEARD A RUMOR YOU LOVED ME", likely directed at her ex-husband. She was court-ordered to go to therapy for visitation rights for a VERY good reason. As for Luther not talking about this, I think he didn't want to drive another wedge in their already unraveling family, or risk his newfound happiness by something he had no control over. Luther has always been conflict-averse after all.
Thank you so much for commenting! It was literally infuriating to see Allison, completely spiral the way she did in season three of umbrella academy. I really hope that Netflix doesn’t just slide over the trauma that Luther went through this season because I feel like male victims deserve to be taken seriously and I hope Luther get more character development in terms of that.
The fact that I continually have to tell people the reproductive coercion is bad is very alarming to me, and I’m glad that you were able to get my points on that.
@@ellapastoral So many people just don't have a concept of consent and bodily autonomy, at least not in other people, it's terrifying.
Quick tangent: I’d been following the depp v heard case since the uk trial in 2020, and was highly anticipating the VA trial-watched ~90% of it. My mom works across the street from the courthouse where the trial took place, at the hotline for victims of SA, so the case hit very close to home (quite literally), despite not being that huge of a depp fan.
I did laugh at the memes, but also felt so icky about how many there were-it felt like a train just to hate on a woman because HEY LOOK THIS ONE DESERVES IT or something. And like, yeah, I do think Amber is a complete liar and deserves to be shamed into oblivion, but I’m very wary of anyone who says the same who hasn’t delved into that case the way I did.
Once again, stellar video, Ella ❤
Thank you so much for commenting again! And yeah you voiced my opinions exactly! I personally don’t like Amber heard at all but seeing the way everyone was so quick to throw her under the bus and literally make fun of her r*** testimony was extremely alarming to me ! 😨
It’s been implied that Allison had made her the first ex-husband/baby daddy fall in love with her, by saying the phrase “I heard a rumor that you love me”.
Oh wow I seriously never picked up on that until the third season
@@ellapastoral That was either to Luther or Patrick. You decide, but Allison has been a little, you know, it’s likely she at least forced Patrick into staying with her.
@@BLe-uw3vy and they had a daughter together so it might have been even worse than what she did to Luther
I was scrolling through this channel and landed on this. And after watching this, it just affirmed my opinion. I am also someone that reads as well. And seeing this often in visual and reading material just hurts.
I am literally working on a second video about this
AHHH YOU MADE THE VIDEO sorry for being late it’s so cool tho
Thanks for watching ! I was holding this video hostage tbh 😭😭
Great video!! Thank you so much for making this♥️👏🏻
No problem! I really felt like this topic needed to be talked about !
@@ellapastoral it most definitely did!! And I also feel like such things are so criminally overlooked once genders are reversed. Kudos to you for speaking up and not shying away from this VERY disturbing but very important topic.
Question does the honeymoon have an issue too
The first time when they had sex? Personally for me no because they were both consenting to everything they were doing at that moment
For me it questionable
@@quinishashorts73 explain plz
@@ellapastoral ok but, I don't know how much I can go into. When Daphne and Simon were walking on their walk he gave her permission to do certain thing. But on honeymoon he does not ask to do that thing with her he just does it.
@@quinishashorts73 It’s been so long since I’ve watched season one so I probably missed a bunch of problematic aspects of their 18+ relations 🫤