Fell in lust but believes she was sent by God

Поділитися
Вставка
  • Опубліковано 11 сер 2023
  • CONTACT ME FOR COACHING:
    linktr.ee/theshumakeway
    BECOME A CHANNEL MEMBER:
    / @theshumakeway .
    INSTAGRAM:
    The Shumake Way: theshumakew...
    TIK TOK:
    www.tiktok.com/@theshumakeway...
    FACEBOOK:
    / theshumakeway
    My Studio Equipment:
    Camera: amzn.to/3DQNPPd
    Capture Card: amzn.to/3Nv4b4c
    Lens: amzn.to/3WpYwk0
    Microphone: amzn.to/3NwQFNB
    Stream Deck: amzn.to/3U2yUYL
    Main Light: amzn.to/3T0PIOG
    Affiliate links are in this description, which means I may receive a small commission if you purchase a product or service listed here.

КОМЕНТАРІ • 122

  • @creating1_c1999
    @creating1_c1999 11 місяців тому +216

    People will use God, blame God, but don't even know God.

    • @Proverbs-vw2sc
      @Proverbs-vw2sc 11 місяців тому +12

      THIS!!!!

    • @zooey3785
      @zooey3785 11 місяців тому +11

      💯

    • @MR-cr7yc
      @MR-cr7yc 11 місяців тому +11

      People totally use god out of context!

    • @bronz7053
      @bronz7053 11 місяців тому +16

      Exactly... but haven't prayed in God knows when

    • @completelysharise1372
      @completelysharise1372 11 місяців тому +5

      👏🏽💯

  • @SolanaSoul
    @SolanaSoul 11 місяців тому +104

    Women need to hear this. ‘Cause too many women think they’re that exception to the rule instead of operating out of a place where they understand that 99.99999% of these men are not Yah’s best for you.
    And if it’s God’s best, no amount of patience and standards are gonna run them away. Close your legs, don’t get comfortable, be alert always. Don’t be in this spirit of desperation to get a man 🤎

  • @tessw9744
    @tessw9744 11 місяців тому +66

    Out here fornicating and saying *"God sent him."*
    SMH
    If some man I just met told me he loved me, that would be the last date. That's needy as heck. Gotta be a set up! She's too old for that mess.
    That's gonna crash and burn as fast as it started. I don't even give it a year. 😂

    • @winning3329
      @winning3329 11 місяців тому +2

      That's the lover boy technique that tate teaches his followers to play women with

  • @ladynottingham89
    @ladynottingham89 11 місяців тому +74

    This is why you have to read the word of God constantly and pray without ceasing. Once your mind becomes aligned to the things of the world it becomes hard to have discernment when something comes from the enemy. All these unclean spirits come into your soul and you start acting crazy. I say it from personal experience. I had a season of rebellion in my spiritual life and it cost me dearly. Now looking back I can see things clearly because the Lord has opened my eyes to how spiritually blind I was and he has freed me spiritually. I doubt that union will last.

    • @jr8694
      @jr8694 10 місяців тому +1

      I feel this comment. I'm in that situation right now.

    • @camm8642
      @camm8642 8 місяців тому

      so true....

  • @N.O.W.826
    @N.O.W.826 11 місяців тому +42

    Lust rushes. Love waits. 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

  • @AyeJye
    @AyeJye 11 місяців тому +32

    God is a God of ORDER period!!! I’ve moved too fast before and everything that is out of order is not of God !!

  • @erind2261
    @erind2261 11 місяців тому +28

    I experienced this before. I always reply: if God truly told you this, wouldn't God tell me this too. I didn't get no confirmation.

  • @lavish169
    @lavish169 11 місяців тому +22

    Ppl love to validate their love with sex.

  • @gigijohn316
    @gigijohn316 11 місяців тому +37

    When we become Christians and have a relationship with God, God’s wishes take precedence over our own desires. He becomes a priority in our lives. In relationships, if we do not have a firm foundation, it can draw us away from this priority.

  • @kellharris2491
    @kellharris2491 10 місяців тому +6

    People act like only men are lusty. Women are lusty too.

  • @Redismycolor82
    @Redismycolor82 11 місяців тому +21

    I won't say it's not possible to find true love when meeting someone aligned with you... but I believe in this situation both parties are love bombing, lust, not love, and codependency due to attachment styles.

  • @shettikkawoods3248
    @shettikkawoods3248 11 місяців тому +20

    God doesn’t ordain love ❤️,through worldly immorality. Treat ones body as a temple. Looking through the heart with God first . Equally yoked. Godly within through solid foundation.

  • @joequinbrownsr2414
    @joequinbrownsr2414 11 місяців тому +16

    God will not do that people think it's okay to have sex before marriage. Me and my wife did it the right way we waited till marriage I wanted this to be my only marriage. God did put us together i was praying for a wife in she came 7 years still going.

  • @sunnyhunn9315
    @sunnyhunn9315 11 місяців тому +17

    That’s not God sent, because God doesn’t violate His Word and He doesn’t lead us to do anything that grieves The Holy Spirit. And people just add “God” to their desires and experiences for their own sake, and don’t sincerely and purely knows who God is. It’s lust! LUST!
    It’s sooo raunchy and disrespectful how she’s speaking about their sexual encounters, because not only is it already immoral, it’s also a graphic narrative that people don’t need access to, ANND they don’t know each other’s sexual health and she unwisely slept with that dude.
    It’s quite disturbing and disgusting, and they’re supporting her shenanigans and think this is joke…no wonder this culture is full of perversion and immorality. Shame.
    This woman is a disgrace, and she needs a real encounter with Jesus, and to be told “GO AND SIN NO MORE.” She’s delusional, and like Jesus told the woman at the well, that man you’re with is NOT your husband. Plus, she needs a new environment, one that tells her the truth; she’s full of herself.

  • @gloriamathews6452
    @gloriamathews6452 11 місяців тому +29

    People just want to do what they want to do and put God into their mess. People always want to say God told them something, well I am a firm believer God didn't tell them anything that does not line up with the word of God.
    You NEVER hear people say God told me to get some where and sit down, pray, read my bible and let the Holy Spirit lead me!
    Great video and keep up the great work.👍❤

  • @MzSweetzTalk
    @MzSweetzTalk 11 місяців тому +10

    Facts, even employers give a 90 day Probationary Period; before an employee is official. Time to hire & fire someone...

  • @KeciaB21
    @KeciaB21 11 місяців тому +17

    He knows she is desperate so it’s easy to love bomb her.. sad

  • @KeyahD
    @KeyahD 11 місяців тому +32

    Love bombing...

  • @Tel934
    @Tel934 11 місяців тому +19

    Yeah, Imma need them to keep God’s name out their mouths.

  • @melanatedtelevision
    @melanatedtelevision 11 місяців тому +37

    I saw this episode. And I feel her friends don’t tell her the truth because she may take the criticism as “hating” or “judgmental”. I think she was desperate to validate her self worth, by having a man.

    • @nik-at-nite
      @nik-at-nite 11 місяців тому +2

      Shoot, the marriage happened so quick I wonder if she even told anyone her plans before she made them

    • @yardena1234
      @yardena1234 11 місяців тому

      If all women had 💯💯knowledge of the world , there would be no children. We all come here big Man and Woman tougher

  • @MrElly228
    @MrElly228 11 місяців тому +20

    Thank you for this. I Was in a relationship for 22years and got cheated on multiple time. Now I feel like I never knew this person.

  • @m.h6858
    @m.h6858 11 місяців тому +8

    If GOD has sent someone to you, He would have also SENT confirmation to YOU!!!
    Him saying that wouldnt have been the first time you're hearing that.
    God would have had you working towards marriage under HIS guidance. And still, you should have went to God for confirmation as to if HE'S the one He sent for you!
    Counterfeits offten come before the God ordained, trust me, I learned the HARD way! 😩😩
    Narcissists are REAL!!

  • @tyrarice7318
    @tyrarice7318 10 місяців тому +4

    Yes, I totally agree. Amos 3:3 - How can two walk together unless they agree? Consider God first and make sure He is also the center of your life.

  • @OceanisInfinite
    @OceanisInfinite 11 місяців тому +10

    That’s call game!!!

  • @briggettmumphrey3226
    @briggettmumphrey3226 11 місяців тому +5

    Decency is still something I know I definitely want

  • @Lightreign888
    @Lightreign888 11 місяців тому +7

    Not all relationships are of God. 🤦🏾‍♀️

  • @keahharrison4765
    @keahharrison4765 11 місяців тому +5

    I believe in love at first sight but this ain’t it. But I was this person before. My children’s father told me the same thing (this was back when I didn’t know God) but thank God for the Holy Ghost because once I got saved God told me to RUN. So I’m telling anyone that might be in this position to RUN FAST. This isn’t Godly at all. God does not go back on his word.

  • @Nikita_848
    @Nikita_848 11 місяців тому +2

    You're absolutely right. It's crazy what's going on in dating and how ppl go about relations these days. The levels of depravation are ridiculous.

  • @Redismycolor82
    @Redismycolor82 11 місяців тому +4

    Its so much to unpack here😔

  • @ForbsieLaLa
    @ForbsieLaLa 11 місяців тому +2

    Sure I believe in instant connections, but I will not be a fool to rush into anything with anyone I do not know, and you cannot know all you need in one day. Too many of us are hell bent on learning the hard way. I guess I will keep my boring stuck up self at home and alone.

  • @Redismycolor82
    @Redismycolor82 11 місяців тому +5

    When did we get away from seeing people in all their seasons(courting) thn moving forward? And waiting until after them seasons to sleep with them?

  • @mgh174
    @mgh174 11 місяців тому +3

    True. It’s not God it’s something else

  • @briggettmumphrey3226
    @briggettmumphrey3226 11 місяців тому +3

    It makes sense what you said but people are going to do what they want to do it’s sad but true

  • @Eucala
    @Eucala 10 місяців тому +1

    Anything that starts fast, will end fast.

  • @Imluhvin
    @Imluhvin 11 місяців тому +7

    And she’s been with a lot of men not even judging 1:53

  • @m.h6858
    @m.h6858 11 місяців тому +3

    We gotta realize that Satan is a god, too.
    So, using that logic, we know who REALLY matched them together because NONE of what she saying is giving the MOST High God!! How do I know? The Lord told me I will know them by their FRUITS, and this "apple tree" is producing oranges.🍊 🤔🤔 4:58

  • @alexisagginie4574
    @alexisagginie4574 11 місяців тому +3

    LUST, is psrt of all of us. How do you use it to become sensible, balanced, righteous and godly? This has to be dealth with. These harbour temptations!

    • @kaylabean3693
      @kaylabean3693 4 місяці тому

      You need to pray to the Lord and ask Him to take it away

    • @alexisagginie4574
      @alexisagginie4574 4 місяці тому

      @@kaylabean3693 the Lord just does not take it away by magic. You, the person has to see it is wrong, useless and harmful to your spirit. Then you need to take resolute action to rid yourself, with the help of Yahweh!

    • @kaylabean3693
      @kaylabean3693 4 місяці тому

      @@alexisagginie4574 I don’t recall ever saying the Lord is going to use magic. We are to give our grievances to the Lord because He is the only one that has the power to take it away

    • @alexisagginie4574
      @alexisagginie4574 4 місяці тому

      @@kaylabean3693 BE clear. You still have to be ACTIVELY involved in removing it. Everything comes through your Mind!

    • @kaylabean3693
      @kaylabean3693 4 місяці тому

      @@alexisagginie4574well duh lmao faith without works is dead

  • @jubilantmornings8492
    @jubilantmornings8492 11 місяців тому +6

    She’s delusional

  • @survivorship4290
    @survivorship4290 11 місяців тому +8

    This whole video! 💕💕💕

  • @yashitupman
    @yashitupman 11 місяців тому +3

    i wish you can not only react but teach men better thing for life , in a full video because you're starting to become what i need to learn how to be a real men in this world ,because i'm still 21 and wishing to be the best man in my environment

  • @alaneofmyown
    @alaneofmyown 11 місяців тому +5

    I just do not understand this type of foolishness beyond the age of 25.. that woman is like almost 50

    • @kellharris2491
      @kellharris2491 10 місяців тому +1

      Maybe that's the problem. Like maybe she feels she is past her good times and so she latches on to the first guy that she feels a spark with. It's like a midlife crisis kind of thing.

  • @BubbasJuice2145
    @BubbasJuice2145 2 місяці тому

    And keep your focus on what brought y’all together every time things got rocky. I went back to what brought us together because that love that day should be the love we have, but you can’t when you live in the world it can’t be sunshine and happy flowers, but flies and gum drops and can’t so, you must have the respect and love for the other person and if you both have a vision to grow move forward full speed ahead you’ll be together longer than you know God bless you

  • @shettikkawoods3248
    @shettikkawoods3248 11 місяців тому +3

    Exactly truth 💯

  • @Elson79
    @Elson79 11 місяців тому +7

    I think we start a completely new school. A school for teaching young girls/
    Education - careers
    Deportment
    Femininity
    How to be modest yet classy and elegant
    Morals.
    I agree with you Q pill when I saw this video I was astonished and amazed at the level of degeneracy my sisters seem to have fallen to. I pray this sister wakes up.

    • @olilumgbalu5653
      @olilumgbalu5653 11 місяців тому +3

      And what would a school for young boys teach them?

    • @far6311
      @far6311 11 місяців тому +1

      What is deportment? I’m about to google it--->
      deportment (noun): a persons behavior or manners. A class I might need 😅

  • @goddessb582
    @goddessb582 9 місяців тому

    Lol this was crazy! I seen this episode. I couldn't believe it.

  • @shettikkawoods3248
    @shettikkawoods3248 11 місяців тому

    Spiritual growth

  • @shettikkawoods3248
    @shettikkawoods3248 11 місяців тому +5

    Discernment

  • @zooey3785
    @zooey3785 11 місяців тому +4

    😒..... that's all I gotta say about that.

  • @saraalfredo227
    @saraalfredo227 10 місяців тому

    sounds lirics to my hears🤤

  • @MrsRens-LionessofJudah
    @MrsRens-LionessofJudah 11 місяців тому +4

    I do think god told him that she was his wife. Its just not the God of the bible. Satan speaks too.

  • @chloelageaux769
    @chloelageaux769 11 місяців тому +5

    Extremely misguided! This is why it's IMPERATIVE to know God for yourself or you will be mislead by these foolish people!! God is not going against His word!

  • @Keonahawk24
    @Keonahawk24 11 місяців тому +4

    FOOOOOOL ISHHHHHH

  • @lifeoftee1835
    @lifeoftee1835 3 місяці тому

    2 Words: Spiritual Narcissists

  • @androyd87tv
    @androyd87tv 10 місяців тому

    I think the wildest part is they grown. I would think this was a no brainer.

  • @BxBayou
    @BxBayou 11 місяців тому +1

    I kno Ye is looking @ her friend starting her count down 10...9...8...

  • @evettesmith5308
    @evettesmith5308 11 місяців тому +3

    ❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @kiranholt3296
    @kiranholt3296 11 місяців тому +6

    The God of this world is Satan.1 John 5:19. That is the god they are referring to 1000%

  • @HISFAVR-ug5kt
    @HISFAVR-ug5kt 11 місяців тому +5

    Who is that woman???

  • @ForbsieLaLa
    @ForbsieLaLa 11 місяців тому +2

    You cannot be living how you feel and expect God to work for you. Nope you need to show him you are serious about him and he will show up for you. I mean he is always there for us but you can't keep choosing YOU and he keeps showing you otherwise and expect it to work in the end, then blame other folks and say God got you. Be accountable

  • @rachelphillips5576
    @rachelphillips5576 11 місяців тому +2

    Men in church will say that God sent them to single women in church. I've heard this line before. Just be honest.God did not send you nobody . You just listed after her body. Why do people feel the need to lie on God. For one, because they don't know the Word of God.

  • @yardena1234
    @yardena1234 11 місяців тому

    Vampire🤔🤡

  • @AMiah-jz8uu
    @AMiah-jz8uu 11 місяців тому

    Mad rashet

  • @yardena1234
    @yardena1234 11 місяців тому

    How is sex immoral please
    ?

    • @heavenly213
      @heavenly213 11 місяців тому +4

      Only the marriage bed is undefiled!

    • @yardena1234
      @yardena1234 10 місяців тому

      Undefiled🤣🤣🤣🏃‍♀️👑

  • @shafserious2805
    @shafserious2805 11 місяців тому +2

    What does God say in the Quran? That He revealed the torah and the gospel. So read the Quran and let me no what God says about zinah.

    • @keyairaspivey5093
      @keyairaspivey5093 11 місяців тому +5

      We're Christians, and we believe in the Bible.

    • @shafserious2805
      @shafserious2805 11 місяців тому

      @@keyairaspivey5093 Yes which means u have to believe in Quran because of my initial comment

    • @heavenly213
      @heavenly213 11 місяців тому +2

      ​@@shafserious2805You have it backwards! That literally means the quaron is telling YOU that the torah (old testiment) came first and that it is the truth YOU have to believe Moses words and the Prophets and Jesus as well.
      However Bible believers have no such obligations. The bible NEVER tells us to read the quran infact it never acknowledges it at all or muhammad so your twisting the narrative. don't even know what the point of you bringing it up was!

    • @shafserious2805
      @shafserious2805 11 місяців тому

      @@heavenly213 lol come on mate! Allah is basically says in the Quran that the previous scriptures were revealed by Him! They endorse previous scriptures and correct where misguidance has crept in!! Guidance has always come from the one God. Due to the nature of man corrupting guidance- prophets came to bring people back on to the path of truth and they bought updated guidance and evidence. So now they bible got all twisted with the trinity theory and additions by kings and Queens- now we have the Quran to put that straight!

    • @shafserious2805
      @shafserious2805 11 місяців тому

      @@heavenly213 and Jesus never said he was the final prophet and did clearly say that there will be a prophet after him and to follow his guidance- that is clearly stated in the Bible- which you guys twist into the trinity theory! The trinity theory is a modern belief that was incorporates into the Bible! Please read the bible cover to cover and this will become very apparent. Ive bought this up because adultery is mentioned much more in the Quran with its punishments and the Bibld even attributes adultery to some of the prophets!

  • @yardena1234
    @yardena1234 11 місяців тому

    Nothing wrong with having sex. Noone can stop it. Its nature👨‍🎓💯🤩

    • @lelo46
      @lelo46 11 місяців тому +6

      Can you drop a time stamp of where he specifically said “sex” in general, is wrong?
      I don’t think he said that or said that he was trying to stop the world from the natural act of having sex. Maybe I missed that part.

    • @cela9852
      @cela9852 10 місяців тому +2

      Something is wrong with having sex too early with someone you want to be with seriously. Sex is amazing and that is why it so good at blinding people's logic when it comes to choosing a partner. Very and I mean very few couples have been able to build healthy relationships that start off with sex. Keep in mind I said HEALTHY RELATIONSHIPS. Some couples have started off like this and been together for years all whilst being dysfunctional.