People make mistakes if they come back, be kind, be forgiving. Let love do it's thing. Be the bigger person and take one day at a time. It will last if it has to. Move on if you have to but forgive them. Love, light and kindness. Stay strong.
I’ve been the toxic one in the relationship. I hurt her so many times. She finally left, I’m working on myself through therapy. I want to be a better person, I hope she comes back but if not I can still be a better person
From what my ex did to me (mostly lying, hiding our relationship etc) I do deserve so many more chances, he wouldn't be able to give them to me for the rest of his life. Then again, what's the worth of all these chances if he keeps lying and not committing? Obviously, me wanting him to be honest and making me a priority was enough for him to end it all and point his fingers at me for being jealous and pushy. No contact for 3 weeks now and I haven't heard a thing.
We were together for 2 years found out she is BPD. I got mad a her daughter for breaking a house rule yelled at her about it. Then my ex bounced. She turned it on me when she left saying I kicked her out. I went into no contact stayed in it until I broke down 45 days into I needed to get her off my cell bill. Pretty sure she used that as a direct indirect when I contacted her. Saying things like I haven’t come to see how she is living and how terrible her life was leaving. She wouldn’t transfer her lines off my plan. So I disconnected them due to the fact that I’m not going to pay for her phone bill. Pretty sure she’s gone for good. However staying strong in NC (4 months ) now feeling great been working on myself mentally & physically and getting to the point of moving on. I miss her but I’m not a simp. I’m the prize and not going to be manipulated or controlled when they left. Bye Felicia. If it’s meant to be they will come back.
As a person who has previously been a single mother I would not take kindly to someone yelling at my child. Guess it all depends on whether or not you were playing a fatherly role to the child. If you want her back, I hope you can resolve matters. I hope your comment about your being the prize is about making yourself feel better because of the rejection and has nothing to do with her status as a single mother
bpd is a serios personal disorder (untreated) , these relationships make you lose yourself. The only relationship you should have is anything that make her seek therapy, with being aware setting boundaries.
@@camellia8625 it was breaking a house rule. It was smoking weed next to her own 7 year old sisters room which pissed me off. Yeah fatherly role because both her daughter and my daughter’s room. I understand being a single mother and that was more of a no go for me.
I always said this too. As soon as someone shiny and new pranced by, I got kicked to the curb. I probably did make mistakes, but nothing that deserved being verbally abused and betrayed.
I was with my girl for 2 years we lived together i proposed to her in December 2023 she said yes!! and she left me in mid march and we had such a healthy relationship 😢 she broke up and said she needs space and i smutherd her im in alot of pain and when i see her stories from a fake account she seems happy posting pretty pictures posting memes of self love and stuf about inner peace i just cant believe we broke up one time and all that work i put in she didn't even want to give us another chance just walked away like i ment nothing and its killing me everyday i feel broken and confused i pray she comes back but i really don't know 😢😢 i miss her so much but I can't control nothing she said if were ment to be the universe will bring us back 🤷💔
Bro listen I was in the same boat identical stories actually. Pretty crazy but anyway. Let time pass. Relax urself. Try not to think of bad shit or what she is doing .. go to gym and better urself in anyway u can … be with ur family work more study more … do More of whatever improves ur life and for ur future and family’s future. Stay busy do more and better … FOR URESLF NOT ANYONE ELSE …. And I promise u she will Hear or see what ur up to … and she will come back but this will take time lotssss of time … months and months and months later …. And if not. Quess what with so much shit improving on urself that u did … u gonna be getting all the girls … I know I know u don’t care u want her only … bro I get it … relax and let time pass and stay busy. She will come back or she won’t but life will go on no matter what … just think … if she didn’t consider giving u another chance or was not willing to talk it out or take a break to think of ways on how both of us can work this out bc u both really want it that bad … then if she ain’t like this then trust me u don’t want to build a future wit someone who is not at least willing to work it out. Their love for u is not real or truly or they are not in hardcore in love with u … and u never wanna be wit some one that is only 90% in love wit u. It’s 100 percent ride or die or move on
@@edgardiaz2361 you're right bro you're alright bro her family follows me and sister brother and Mom I just bought myself a new 2020 drop top Maserati and I was snooping on her page from a fake account which I don't do anymore all she post is memes about self-love working on herself she's supposed to take pictures but you don't really look too happy in the pictures you don't release smile I've done so much for her I'm fly dude I know I can get other women but I just need to heal I pray she does come back but you know she might not I really have to accept that I just wish you showed me that what we built together means something and that's what kills me bro cuz all of my exes before her were real toxic people and they all came bac but my fiance we were great it was nothing toxic the bond with immaculate so what you're saying is 100% bro thank you for even responding brother ❤️❤️❤️🔥🔥
@@edgardiaz2361 wow thanks bro for the reply I really appreciate it I have been working on myself it's been extremely hard we had contacted each other a couple times after but it was just because I owed her some money on her credit card and she just doesn't seem upset she said she cares about me but there's no real valid reason it just breaks me for someone to just leave me when there was no true reason
We dated for 3.5 years, I just want to forget her because i know she will never come back, been in no contact for 4 days and feelings are very miserable, and whats making me sadder is she seems really okey and happy and moved on quickly while here i am suffering everyday, I hope i come to this comment in the future and say that i moved on:( Update after 2 months: I tried to text her multiple times but she didn’t care, I finally accepted a month ago and really started feeling relief and moving on, she reached out 3 days ago and i didn’t answer, today she called me 5 times and i didn’t answer, i don’t feel like before and really really time can change all feelings guys, be patient❤️
idk the situation of the breakup but 3.5 years is waaay too long for someone to be happy and unbothered by it in normal circumstances. hold strong, I know it hurts like crazy.
As long as he pay me the $9000 I gave him to pay back child support so he can get his passport so we’ll travel 🤡🤡 after 2 years he said “ I’m not ready for a serious relationship” I’m angry and mad for wasting my time at 39.
and if you really think you want some magic beans that will just get your ex back... maybe you should watch the movie titled White Zombie.. it's an old black and white film where the guy does something to the woman so that she will be his... it works but he finds he is even more sad afterwards.
People make mistakes if they come back, be kind, be forgiving. Let love do it's thing. Be the bigger person and take one day at a time. It will last if it has to. Move on if you have to but forgive them. Love, light and kindness. Stay strong.
I’ve been the toxic one in the relationship. I hurt her so many times. She finally left, I’m working on myself through therapy. I want to be a better person, I hope she comes back but if not I can still be a better person
From what my ex did to me (mostly lying, hiding our relationship etc) I do deserve so many more chances, he wouldn't be able to give them to me for the rest of his life. Then again, what's the worth of all these chances if he keeps lying and not committing? Obviously, me wanting him to be honest and making me a priority was enough for him to end it all and point his fingers at me for being jealous and pushy. No contact for 3 weeks now and I haven't heard a thing.
We were together for 2 years found out she is BPD. I got mad a her daughter for breaking a house rule yelled at her about it. Then my ex bounced. She turned it on me when she left saying I kicked her out. I went into no contact stayed in it until I broke down 45 days into I needed to get her off my cell bill. Pretty sure she used that as a direct indirect when I contacted her. Saying things like I haven’t come to see how she is living and how terrible her life was leaving. She wouldn’t transfer her lines off my plan. So I disconnected them due to the fact that I’m not going to pay for her phone bill. Pretty sure she’s gone for good. However staying strong in NC (4 months ) now feeling great been working on myself mentally & physically and getting to the point of moving on. I miss her but I’m not a simp. I’m the prize and not going to be manipulated or controlled when they left. Bye Felicia. If it’s meant to be they will come back.
As a person who has previously been a single mother I would not take kindly to someone yelling at my child. Guess it all depends on whether or not you were playing a fatherly role to the child. If you want her back, I hope you can resolve matters.
I hope your comment about your being the prize is about making yourself feel better because of the rejection and has nothing to do with her status as a single mother
bpd is a serios personal disorder (untreated) , these relationships make you lose yourself. The only relationship you should have is anything that make her seek therapy, with being aware setting boundaries.
@@camellia8625 it was breaking a house rule. It was smoking weed next to her own 7 year old sisters room which pissed me off. Yeah fatherly role because both her daughter and my daughter’s room. I understand being a single mother and that was more of a no go for me.
For once I want to be someone's first choice and not someone they come back to because they couldn't find better
Same, just same. I want someone to choose me for once.
Hard in these times where everyone seems to be so self absorbed! We’re all working too much to survive.
I always said this too. As soon as someone shiny and new pranced by, I got kicked to the curb. I probably did make mistakes, but nothing that deserved being verbally abused and betrayed.
Maybe they come back cause you are their best option?
It very simple when you like someone be direct. Then let them react they will show mutual or not simple..
I was with my girl for 2 years we lived together i proposed to her in December 2023 she said yes!! and she left me in mid march and we had such a healthy relationship 😢 she broke up and said she needs space and i smutherd her im in alot of pain and when i see her stories from a fake account she seems happy posting pretty pictures posting memes of self love and stuf about inner peace i just cant believe we broke up one time and all that work i put in she didn't even want to give us another chance just walked away like i ment nothing and its killing me everyday i feel broken and confused i pray she comes back but i really don't know 😢😢 i miss her so much but I can't control nothing she said if were ment to be the universe will bring us back 🤷💔
Bro listen I was in the same boat identical stories actually. Pretty crazy but anyway. Let time pass. Relax urself. Try not to think of bad shit or what she is doing .. go to gym and better urself in anyway u can … be with ur family work more study more … do More of whatever improves ur life and for ur future and family’s future. Stay busy do more and better … FOR URESLF NOT ANYONE ELSE …. And I promise u she will Hear or see what ur up to … and she will come back but this will take time lotssss of time … months and months and months later …. And if not. Quess what with so much shit improving on urself that u did … u gonna be getting all the girls … I know I know u don’t care u want her only … bro I get it … relax and let time pass and stay busy. She will come back or she won’t but life will go on no matter what … just think … if she didn’t consider giving u another chance or was not willing to talk it out or take a break to think of ways on how both of us can work this out bc u both really want it that bad … then if she ain’t like this then trust me u don’t want to build a future wit someone who is not at least willing to work it out. Their love for u is not real or truly or they are not in hardcore in love with u … and u never wanna be wit some one that is only 90% in love wit u. It’s 100 percent ride or die or move on
@@edgardiaz2361 you're right bro you're alright bro her family follows me and sister brother and Mom I just bought myself a new 2020 drop top Maserati and I was snooping on her page from a fake account which I don't do anymore all she post is memes about self-love working on herself she's supposed to take pictures but you don't really look too happy in the pictures you don't release smile I've done so much for her I'm fly dude I know I can get other women but I just need to heal I pray she does come back but you know she might not I really have to accept that I just wish you showed me that what we built together means something and that's what kills me bro cuz all of my exes before her were real toxic people and they all came bac but my fiance we were great it was nothing toxic the bond with immaculate so what you're saying is 100% bro thank you for even responding brother ❤️❤️❤️🔥🔥
@@edgardiaz2361 wow thanks bro for the reply I really appreciate it I have been working on myself it's been extremely hard we had contacted each other a couple times after but it was just because I owed her some money on her credit card and she just doesn't seem upset she said she cares about me but there's no real valid reason it just breaks me for someone to just leave me when there was no true reason
We dated for 3.5 years, I just want to forget her because i know she will never come back, been in no contact for 4 days and feelings are very miserable, and whats making me sadder is she seems really okey and happy and moved on quickly while here i am suffering everyday, I hope i come to this comment in the future and say that i moved on:(
Update after 2 months: I tried to text her multiple times but she didn’t care, I finally accepted a month ago and really started feeling relief and moving on, she reached out 3 days ago and i didn’t answer, today she called me 5 times and i didn’t answer, i don’t feel like before and really really time can change all feelings guys, be patient❤️
idk the situation of the breakup but 3.5 years is waaay too long for someone to be happy and unbothered by it in normal circumstances. hold strong, I know it hurts like crazy.
Understand the stages of a break up. It's been 4 days, she's probably in relief stage right now.
Honestly, stay in 100% no contact. Within a month she will reach out. Be strong. You have to be strong. Don't reach out under any circumstances.
3.5 years??? Nah shes struggling give it time
Its been 12 days now , she didn’t reach out and i am feeling a little better but still thinking about her
As long as he pay me the $9000 I gave him to pay back child support so he can get his passport so we’ll travel 🤡🤡 after 2 years he said “ I’m not ready for a serious relationship” I’m angry and mad for wasting my time at 39.
and if you really think you want some magic beans that will just get your ex back... maybe you should watch the movie titled White Zombie.. it's an old black and white film where the guy does something to the woman so that she will be his... it works but he finds he is even more sad afterwards.
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