From Unloved “Nice Guy” to Irresistible Heartthrob 😏 (5 Key Strategies!)

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  • Опубліковано 27 вер 2024

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  • @CoachMelannie
    @CoachMelannie  5 місяців тому +5

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    • @santiagopaden8487
      @santiagopaden8487 5 місяців тому

      Thank You Melanie, I found this video very informative. "Nice Guys finish last" has always been my anthem because of my up bringing. Always taught the old school ways in church, be courteous, be kind, compliment, open doors, help when needed, above all be a Christian man after Jesus. That being said, these are all the traits that have always put me in the friends zone every time I finally work up the courage to speak to a girl I like. Example, you are beautiful for instance, the kind of girl I would pursue. Qualities like yours are inside and out are what I am looking for. Now, if you were a woman in my circle I would be careful not to cross boundaries unknowing if the tell tale signs of interest. For me, I find it difficult to know when I have the go ahead to flirt and not get hurt, know what I mean? Women will be as nice to a guy as received, but hard to decipher if is code for shes interested. I have failed many times thinking hey I think she is interested cause she is inquiring about me. Wrong, she's just being nice, but I end up asking for a number or if she is free for a date maybe too soon or she has a boyfriend, and is just nice to everyone.
      In the end as a guy who has dated toxic women, been the doormate, places my own self in the friends zone time and time again, I don't think I have the energy anymore to really try anymore to know when the window of opportunity is apparent or even a window at all.
      If there is a god and he has a plan, why is it so hard to find love anymore, women don't want what we were taught as young men, we were given all the wrong teachings based on old ways. If God could just find it in his heart to send out a Melanie in my life and help me to make all the right moves, and get the girl, I might finally be able to live.

  • @adamllamas4654
    @adamllamas4654 5 місяців тому +7

    I hit 40 last year and I've never felt so lonely and alone 😔 😢

  • @zairehaylock4974
    @zairehaylock4974 5 місяців тому +3

    Hi, Mel. Zaire Haylock here. I love your video...as a nice guy.

  • @johnstevens6223
    @johnstevens6223 5 місяців тому +1

    Thank you Melannie for sharing this beautiful video 📸📸 love your beautiful smile 😁😁

  • @sven_ampleforth
    @sven_ampleforth 2 місяці тому

    Hi Coach Melannie!!!
    I really like the last one: Invest in yourself.
    I think this one opens a lot of doors, and confidence is one of them.
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    It is hard to choose a DONUT, I mean; they have a lot of toppings, like sugar, chocolate, strawberry, coconut, sprinkles, and many more.
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    Have a nice day.
    May God bless you.

    • @CoachMelannie
      @CoachMelannie  Місяць тому +1

      You are so right, investing in yourself can dramatically help build more confidence! And confidence is something that influences every area of your life. Thank you for your kind comments and support!!

  • @1344ch
    @1344ch 5 місяців тому

    I have ONE donut left from breakfast this morning, and because YOU said "donut" I will have it for dinner! 🍩
    ...and because I don't have time really to eat anything else before church this evening.

  • @johnlarue2248
    @johnlarue2248 5 місяців тому

    Very well done Melannie!

  • @mr.goodwrench8273
    @mr.goodwrench8273 5 місяців тому

    Donut. Howdy Melannie. I'm so glad you did a video on this subject. This is something I had struggled with in the past, yet I have worked on self-improvement and gotten past it I believe. Every strategy you spoke about are all equally important. About donuts. We here in North Carolina have the Krispy Kreme Donuts. The best all-around donuts. I'm not sure if Krispy Kreme has any donut stores there in Utah, yet if they don't, y'all need a few of those stores there. Thank you again for another fine video. Have a great weekend and a safe week ahead. May God richly bless you always. 🙏

    • @CoachMelannie
      @CoachMelannie  5 місяців тому +1

      I'm glad it was helpful! I think more people need to know it's completely possible to be kind AND be a heartthrob 😊 Thank you so much for your support and kindness! God bless! 🙏

  • @savinggracechurch4112
    @savinggracechurch4112 5 місяців тому

    I think my biggest struggle is forgetting to smile and for being scared to reply.
    Been on my own for years. Not that I get lot's of smiles I get scared to do something about it.
    Before I was saved it was even harder being in and out of homelessness, sleeping rough etc.
    Anyway church in a bit let's hope I get noticed in the clicky church I have attended for years.
    I dress well and yet I'm the invisible man!

  • @dextertatum1128
    @dextertatum1128 5 місяців тому +1

    🍩...Awesome video!!

  • @renatoparedes7
    @renatoparedes7 5 місяців тому

    Excelent video❤

  • @loukinistino9010
    @loukinistino9010 5 місяців тому

    I water outside some times! lol

  • @RaulNussbaum
    @RaulNussbaum 4 місяці тому

    Twenty years without a donut!? I mean I'm not a Homer donut-eating machine, but 20 years!

  • @wtv252425
    @wtv252425 4 місяці тому

    Donuts!!!!!!

  • @robertobravo6834
    @robertobravo6834 5 місяців тому

    I strongly recommend you all the song "No More Mr. Nice Guy" by Alice Cooper. You can find it here on UA-cam.

  • @et76039
    @et76039 5 місяців тому

    A jelly doughnut will set my heart on fire.

  • @georgesnell7364
    @georgesnell7364 5 місяців тому

    Luv you...

  • @johnjeannineball1335
    @johnjeannineball1335 5 місяців тому

    Donut!

  • @georgesnell7364
    @georgesnell7364 5 місяців тому

    Donut...have 2

  • @allenallen5040
    @allenallen5040 5 місяців тому

    Is this supposed to be high speed?

    • @angeldiaz762
      @angeldiaz762 5 місяців тому

      I clicked on 1.25x, so... did you?

  • @roybeach102
    @roybeach102 5 місяців тому +1

    Donut

  • @rickkillian2378
    @rickkillian2378 5 місяців тому +3

    What kind of "Donut" should we get 🤔
    A Variety😊

  • @SantaFe19484
    @SantaFe19484 5 місяців тому

    Donut!

  • @howardrempel328
    @howardrempel328 5 місяців тому +1

    Donut

  • @CarlosIowa
    @CarlosIowa 5 місяців тому +2

    450 views in one hour on a Saturday. I'm impressed. And will watch later. Gym Time. And McDonalds. 😂

  • @nsp74
    @nsp74 12 днів тому

    thank you, coach,
    you really are a blessing

  • @RichQ33
    @RichQ33 5 місяців тому +1

    Doughnut great video kind of made me think of how I dress sometimes used to dress way better when I was younger but just kind of wear whatever now thinking I should go out and buy some nicer clothes soon

  • @jimgarland2653
    @jimgarland2653 Місяць тому

    thanks for sharing

  • @davidshere2438
    @davidshere2438 5 місяців тому +1

    Great video. Thanks for sharing . I ate a mini donut just today!

  • @turbowissl0121
    @turbowissl0121 5 місяців тому +1

    Donut!!

  • @sydneytshabadira8754
    @sydneytshabadira8754 5 місяців тому

    Thanks for the fully loaded content Melanie
    It makes me look forward to the better me and to offer my Gorgeous woman the best of me
    You

  • @jonp.6759
    @jonp.6759 5 місяців тому

    Love your videos Melanie! Keep up the great work.

  • @MsTiger6969
    @MsTiger6969 5 місяців тому

    Jelly

  • @troutsneak
    @troutsneak 5 місяців тому

    Donuts