@@aditisk99 look more carefully. Some parts of the action were done by stuntmen. Slow the video down if you have to. Anyway, the flinging into the fridge was not the actor but a stuntman. Pay attention to the video cuts. Its still a great scene though and very realistic.
Fun fact the first time they did this scene Leo screamed “yes” and the top of his lungs and DeNiro was stunned and so was the rest of the cast. DeNiro actually started to laugh and then said to Leo to take it down a notch.
Mr De Niro was trying to get him to a good acting path as a young kid. If I would become an actor to work with a guy like De Niro, it would be the greatest experience of my life
@@nostalgiajumper0233The ironic thing is in almost every Leo movie there's a scene where he has some kind of outburst 😂 Guess he always knew what he was doing.
My biological dad treated me this way. Truly depressing when people ask me “why was your step dad such and ass hole” to which I reply. Not my step dad. He’s a my real dad. And they have a face of shock.
@@RockyRaccoonRockinShouldn't really be depressing. It's just a statistical fact. That when children state they were abused, the chances of their abuser being a non biological parent is higher than a blood parent. So people tend to assume.
@@NewsHistorian oh man you are soooooo wrong - the cast in this movie is perfect! - both DeNiro and Dicaprio’s acting is brilliant - two phenomenal actors. Cant see any other actors playing in that movie… Its a classic
Fortunately, guys like Dwight are the exception, and not the rule. It's just the truly negative tends to stick out more than the average or even extremely positive examples.
@@jamesmcallister8124 It's true. I know it doesn't seem like it. That's the negative bias in the brain. We all have it, and even I find myself getting sucked in to it sometimes. The nice thing is that once you are aware of it, you can stand back and reel it in, and start seeing things more objectively before it takes you someplace you really don't want to go. But your main point is still correct. I feel sorry for anyone who had a father like Dwight. That;s something no one should ever have to suffer.
Everything was better in the 90s, we reached the pinnacle......then starting from 2006-2008 circa, the world started to go downhill year after year ...
What's Eating Gilbert Grape with Leo and Johhnie Depp. Great movie and acting LThey had a mom that was severely obese that the floor was caving in where she sat on one place for years l. Leo has a good agent. Hes very talented.
When i watch present movies with kids it looks like they took them straight from the street to act in the movies - zero acting talent… That movie back in 90s was a classic. One of the best movies ive seen and both DeNiro and Dicaprio are brilliant. Cant imagine other cast in this movie. Both just nailed their roles 🔥
@@gabrielesolletico6542 You might be thinking of The Score with Ed Norton, Brando and De Niro. De Niro and Dicaprio did star in another movie together called Marvin's Room
Been there with the step dad. He’s dead 20 years but he still haunts and demolishes me in my dreams. I’m 40 next year. He was a violent, jealous, petty, broken, bully and martyr. I’m a recovering heroin and crack addict and I have slip ups now and then. I wake up in cold sweat when I dream he’s coming through the attic trap door (my room Was in the attic for most my childhood) Roaring my name in fury like the Hulk...and I’m trying to use my weight to stop him. The door is lifting and banging up and I’m pushing down so hard. He did give me my two sisters with my mother but he was a violent, psychotic bully and i fear , hate, love and despise him all at once. No beating he ever gave did as much damage as the one he did to my mind and consequently my soul
My older brother is like that toward me. Always has been. He's never choked me out, but when I was 13, he damn near smothered me by squeezing the breath outta me and my mom refused to stop him. They both took 0 accountability for what they did, still refuse to now. I still have terrifying flashbacks, and I'm only at peace when he isn't around. I've had days when I wish he'd leave and find another home, or I wish I was rich enough to move out.
Deniro's foot stomp is legendary and has many victims. Billy Bats , Leo DiCaprio , The Store Owner from the Irishman etc... If he was a a mortal combat character that would be his fatality move.
The boy is hardly a victim. He was a terror and constantly out of control. There are clearly details left out of this story that is not being supplied.
I watched this with my dad as kid ,he taught me so much about life. He was good man. but he died only a few years later. seeing this again makes me realize I died with him that day in September.
If he was there for you in life, he’ll always be by your side, even when you can’t see him. Especially when you come across things that trigger your memories of him, he’s right by your side. I bet he wants nothing more then to see you live a happy life. ☮️ 💟
Notice how his mother did nothing, until she knew Toby was going to leave. She didn't want to be the target of abuse. When her son was the target, she did nothing. His mom failed him.
But then she saved his ass, and Turned against her husband. Sure this took place in the 1950s, women didn't have a lot of freedom, children were the most vulnerable to any kind of crime, and husbands of all kinds were psychopaths who used domestic abuse and family bullying to get their way, but this film, shows how the age of constant abuse was coming to a temporary halt. People have the freedom to speak out for themselves for who they are.
My favorite part is the mom leaving with him, So many women stay in relationships like that cause they feel 'obligated' to. If him and her can get out of a toxic relationship, so can you guys
Yep I know dude. Know a girl like that but she finally moved out and took her kids. Best decision she ever made. Guy beat her, beat her kids, starved her kids, and cause her to miscarry. Was about to be a mob on his ass soon.
Obligated to what? They just stay for the D cuz they're 🅦🅗🅞🅡🅔🅢. Who tf is obligating them? I read stories where mothers picked their new bf over their kid/daughters.
@@TerryUniGeezerPetersonhe does anyway? He does what anyway? What the hell did your comment even mean? Do you not see how your comment is the most confusing thing ever?
i'd argue he was better when he was young, especially when his voice was still going through puberty - he had a lot of crackling and squeaking to play around with. once his voice settled, he's still a good actor, but it limited his vocal range
This fight was so epic with how heated it got. Both fantastic actors from their outbursts to the red hot angry faces. You can tell in this movie the tension between them was only building higher and higher, and it all blows up right here over the mustard, even though it wasn’t really about the mustard. At some point many of us have had tension with others build until one little thing not relevant to the real issue sets everything off. This scene nailed that perfectly. I’ve never had an abusive family, but it still feels real to me for some reason. The anger Leo’s character was feeling, and the psychical stuff. I guess that’s just how good De Niro and DiCaprio are.
What I thought was so great about this scene was the DiCaprio character no longer cared. He had enough. He knew Dwight was stronger, and could probably kill him -- and probably could have had his mom not interjected, but even then, guys like Dwight tend to be too big of cowards -- and he didn't care anymore, but he was going to hurt him as much as he could on the way out. There is also the reality of what happens when you no longer care about the consequences. Which although, is usually not a good place to be, but in some cases like this one, it can be the most empowering.
I havent watched the movie, but being with a single mother is hard. Ive seen it destroy mens lives after they ive it all in the relationship. Women can be a very scary toxic mix.
@@idkhowishouldnamethispf2991 that’s why it’s called a movie dumb ass. Their sayin Robert made them hate him ( in this movie ) not that hard too comprehend english
I really love the dynamic between Toby and Pearl as they grow older. They clearly come to see one another as true siblings, and really care about each other.
@@crashbandi-cody6782don’t worry, it was confirmed she eventually left and joined her siblings in Seattle 😃👍 Don’t forget this so based on a true story
that's how my mom treated me and im a female. some people are just born miserable and take it out on others.dont worry im 40 now and live on my own those years are behind me
@Freddy Muldoon my dad was mean to. I spilled paint on his precious mustang and got grounded for a week. another time I stole his cigarettes and he said I couldn’t watch the new episode of boy meets world
Same sictch but I’m a guy and it’s terrifying to get Beat by a woman who thinks that food clothes and a roof over your head is all you need to qualify as a parent just flog your kids day after day because “sarcasm “ she had a shit childhood and being a mother is a thankless worthless job! Folks like this should be flushed down a mega toilet!
@@chocolateface8664 😅 sorry but your dad sounds reasonable not mean, you ruined his car and stoled cigarettes and you expect him to be nice ? 😂 I’m 21 and realize that’s the most stupid thing to do
"u better do your homework kid or imma come into your room bust your head open then come back again after u come outta your coma and bust it open AGAIN... understand"
I went through 6 years of this. My Mom’s boyfriend, the older I got, the worse he acted. Me and my two sisters could NEVER do anything right. And you couldn’t question anything he said or did. It was always,” Quit acting like you grown!l Or ,”Shut up, you don’t know anything!” Or, “ you think you are smarter than me?” No, just read different books about different things. He ended up going to prison and we moved far away. Took years, to learn, finally, about Narcissistic personality Disorder and lots of study on self-esteem, to realize these people are wounded. They almost need sympathy, but from a big distance! I used to hate my Mom’s boyfriend, but after meeting his family, I realized he never had a chance. But, It wasn’t my fault or problem! Bye-Bye!
I had it like this growing up... Got into it once with my stepdad. I literally packed my mom's things up FOR HER and we left. We were good as gone for a weekend, but unlike DiCaprio and his mom in this movie, we went back. I walked in the old house and mom was getting the cases out the car. Pops was drinking himself to death and I had to carry him to the shower to have him come to. When the water got him out of it he looked up, started crying, stood up, grabbed me fast for a hug, and I wasn't even half scared of him at that point. The man was stressed beyond belief, working himself mentally and physically into the ground. Now that I'm 28 and have been working about as hard as he was, I do house demolitions, I understand how easily it can be to slip into depression trying to provide. The next day or two, mom admitted all the cheating and everything throughout childhood. Him and my mom may have gotten divorced, but he was still never just a stepdad. Moral of the story, there's a lot of time in our short lives. You can either forgive and move on alone, or you can forgive together. All I know is him and I are as close as we are because of that fight, and seeing him like that.
I'm not a fan of abusive entities raising children. I will not call them parents, because PARENTS are souls who treat their children with respect from day one. Too many souls out there who should NEVER be allowed to raise children.
This is what brought Leonardo DiCaprio to Martin Scorsese's attention, as De Niro praised him to Scorsese and told him that he was good. Scorsese has said that it was unusual for De Niro to praise a fellow actor...
I saw this movie once - probably around 1994. Too emotional for me, I’ve never been able to sit down and revisit it. Not cause it’s bad, but because it’s that good.
in real life, she'd come back. she'd come back at least three more times before leaving for good. by then, the trauma to the kids would've already been permanent. think about that next time you think about going back
DeNiro hardest role. Because the man is nothing like that. So it’s even harder to watch him being this violent and mad. Lesson at the end of this movie is beautiful.
but he is not big enough to fight with De niro . Here De Niro is a healthy and physically strong man in here compared to him, Dicaprio is a little, and remember when you are a boy yet, it is hard when you fight with a man but if he was 20 to 22 years old he could have chance. but in here he is maybe 16 or 17.
@@gevorgmovsisian2025are you talking about actors? like seriously? you think the actors strenght must equal the characters? also many lightweight men can easily beat up men with 10 or 15 more kg, is not that important in people with no fighting ability, age matter not so much either, especially in a chaotic fight like this where even weapons get involved.
well lets say you are right but fighting is much more about experiene and it depends with whom you are fighting , well i was not talking about actors. @@dagan8659
Both of them pour out their soul into the character, creating an incredibly realistic and impactful scene ❤️. This scene can't be outdone more than this. 💯
like the scene when that actress that killed her abusive husband cuz her kid said U DON'T HAVE TO TAKE IT ANYMORE...underrated scene cuz leo looks right at dwight as they see this on tv and it was a real case...he was thinking of it also and that look they share no words but they are both understanding each other...kinda chilling and powerful
You don’t see acting like this anymore, I wouldn’t be surprised to find out they were actually fighting and the director told them who ever wins the fight gets a 5 million dollar raise
It's like DeNiro took the script from my father on how you demean and belittle a child. I saw this film when I was 20 and it has stayed with me since. I'd never seen such a similar representation of what me and my family experienced daily, until I saw this.
My father is like this. He loved my brother and i but he didn’t know how to love. He treated us like this and drove us away. Finally, haven’t spoken to my dad in months. Hope he’s well but idk if will ever speak to him again
I feel bad for Robert De Niro's character in this movie. He reminded me a lot of my dad and on surface level it is easy to hate him. But there is always a lot more to things like this. At the time, it was easy to hate him, but now that I am older and look back and have a bit more knowledge about my dad and his past and have a better understanding of everything, I felt really sorry for him. There are things about his life which I still won't know or understand, but from what I do know and understand now, I have a lot of sympathy for him.
Yes, exactly this! Something about the way he repeats "What about me?" makes me feel like he went through the same pain he inflicted on his stepson. Makes me want to cry for the younger version of him.
Your sympathy is true, and compassionate, and valid, don't ever change it. Sadly it's also exactly why women stay. Why they waste their lives believing that "what about me" is a good enough reason not to leave. (Almost) no one is wholly evil, and there are many reasons to have sympathy for those who destroy the lives of others, because they were born or created 'needy' or selfish. We can always find the good in them if we try. But STAYING won't make His Life Better. It will only serve to destroy both lives. She will never make him happy. She can't ever fix him. She is only enabling him. I'm just saying this - - to all women out there, don't sacrifice your life for a sad hopeless cause. Get space and years between you - and only then - will it be safe to feel that compassion for him again. For now - turn it off. It's your turn. What about you.
@@whatson94 The step son was out of control long before he got to that household. The movie shows him doing horrible things and was he was constantly in trouble. It was even mentioned in the movie that he had to move because of his trouble with the law. It is suppose to be a true life story so there are details clearly being left out of the movie.
🤣🤣🤣🤣 I'm sorry, I can't help but laugh at the part when Leo smacks De Niro's butt with the mop handle at 1:39!! Lol and then he crashes into the stove!! 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤙🏻🤙🏻🤙🏻
Having an abusive man-child as a step father is the definition of misery. But having an abusive man-child as a biological father is straight up hell on earth. Dont know how tf I survived that, but it is what it is
The most adorable thing about it is that Dwight is that kind of people whose lives ain't worth a shit and, the moment they leave this world, those who knew them will celebrate they're gone for good. Really, these situations make your blood boil. No one has to stand a bully...never.
This and this!! All the people that bullied me through life ended sad and bitter, and eventually they showed their true colors. Always stand up to your bullies.
This reminds me of the first time i fought back against my father. I wouldn't say that he was abusive, but when i got punished, i got the shit kicked out of me. He was terrifying because he was 6'3 and has over 100 pounds on me, and getting the balls to fight someone that large and violent is scary as hell. Kids these days have no idea what it was like prior to the internet and everyone being spoiled
I remember my older brother and dad fighting like this. I was prolly around the same age as Eliza dushku and I did the same thing. I knew I couldnt break it up so I jus ran outside to be with our dog till I heard things die down inside My brother didn't come home for a couple days. I still remember going with my dad to go get him. They reconciled
My mom's bf back then was this way with me. She didnt notice at first. He started small. Then it gradually escalated. Until one night. He threw my mom across the kitchen. I fought back, and he threw me too. I didn't give a God forsaken damn. Thats my mother. We left that sick fuck the same day. He went to jail. Never saw him again.
Man DeNiro was hard on this kid. I get that he wanted him to be responsible and to not lie but damn he went a little overboard in my opinion. Guy was just a bully looking for a fight and knew this kid couldn't defend himself
I don’t think he has any good intentions to be honest. He may use that as the excuse to treat him that way but he is simply a sadistic bully in this film.
Me and my old man, we never quite had that fist fight, in 22 years after leaving home, I think we’ve had less than a hours conversation in all that time. I’m very introverted,hardly a whisper in society, I done well for myself, got a profession. Tried love once,think she wanted the house I bought more than me. But I love it, travel a lot, loads of hobbies, reading.I’ve turned into that late 30’s, know my place in the world, don’t give a shit what people think, worked through issues and finally found peace.
What i find strange is that RD really looks like the kind of person that would do this IRL. just has the face.. LOL the casting directors back then where magical.
It was the 50s social services didnt really exist like today kids were on there own which is why so many grew up to be violent have grandkids that are violent today
Were they even acting...?!! Leo's rage felt so real. Such good actors both of them.
And De niro really flunged him into the fridge.
Ikr, it feels too real gosh
yeah both of them get extremely red and flushed in their faces...its awesome how well it was done
@@aditisk99 look more carefully. Some parts of the action were done by stuntmen. Slow the video down if you have to. Anyway, the flinging into the fridge was not the actor but a stuntman. Pay attention to the video cuts. Its still a great scene though and very realistic.
It made me cry tho
Didn't think I could hate De Niro so much, incredible acting from him and Leo
Deniro went kinda easy on him. He could have knocked leo out in an instant with one punch to the face when he had him on the ground
we love him but we hate the character
Are you finished? I mean you got so much self-pity
@@JustSomeKittenwithaGun ? u good bro
@@2ksoulja The joke ⬆️ you ⬇️
Fun fact the first time they did this scene Leo screamed “yes” and the top of his lungs and DeNiro was stunned and so was the rest of the cast. DeNiro actually started to laugh and then said to Leo to take it down a notch.
He's not the director
@@TriciaTakanawa_But he's De Niro...😉
Mr De Niro was trying to get him to a good acting path as a young kid. If I would become an actor to work with a guy like De Niro, it would be the greatest experience of my life
@@nostalgiajumper0233The ironic thing is in almost every Leo movie there's a scene where he has some kind of outburst 😂 Guess he always knew what he was doing.
You’re full of it. What’s the source?
As someone who has experienced a gruesome step dad, this gives me the chills and makes me extremely angry. Great performance.
My biological dad treated me this way. Truly depressing when people ask me “why was your step dad such and ass hole” to which I reply. Not my step dad. He’s a my real dad. And they have a face of shock.
My ex step father was a drunk psycho even worse than Dwight from the age of 11 to 16 years old he turned my home into a nightmare
@@RockyRaccoonRockinShouldn't really be depressing. It's just a statistical fact. That when children state they were abused, the chances of their abuser being a non biological parent is higher than a blood parent. So people tend to assume.
@@RockyRaccoonRockin people rlly get shocked by that?
I wanted to fight mine too
Leo was 18 here and looks 13 lol
Yeah, he was a late bloomer. Growing Pains
19
*WHAT!?*
I agree.
Then he did Kate Winslet and grew a BEARD!
Robert De Niro's acting is phenomenal in this scene, especially toward the end.
Acting like the asshole you are is such good acting
This movie was fantastic.
Decaprio wasn't behind either.
DeNiro is overrated and miscast here.
@@NewsHistorian oh man you are soooooo wrong - the cast in this movie is perfect! - both DeNiro and Dicaprio’s acting is brilliant - two phenomenal actors. Cant see any other actors playing in that movie… Its a classic
“I know a thing or two about a thing or two.” Love that line.
yeah i say that all the time
I'm gonna start saying that.
I know a thing or three about a thing or three. XD
@@youaretearingmeapartlisa7253 sameee haha
@@BS-uw4wn I KNOW A THING OR FOUR ABOUT A THIENG OR FOUR
It’s horrible that so many people must’ve had to deal with this when they were kids. Its quite scarring
Fortunately, guys like Dwight are the exception, and not the rule. It's just the truly negative tends to stick out more than the average or even extremely positive examples.
@@ZetaReticuli_ fair enough
@@jamesmcallister8124 It's true. I know it doesn't seem like it. That's the negative bias in the brain. We all have it, and even I find myself getting sucked in to it sometimes.
The nice thing is that once you are aware of it, you can stand back and reel it in, and start seeing things more objectively before it takes you someplace you really don't want to go.
But your main point is still correct. I feel sorry for anyone who had a father like Dwight. That;s something no one should ever have to suffer.
my brother was EXACTLY like dwight...even would say and do the same things... i took it for like 30 years then gave up
@@kimmyfreak200 Im sorry you had to endure that for so long. Hope you can find peace now
90s movies are so gritty and visceral they just hit different.
Everything was better in the 90s, we reached the pinnacle......then starting from 2006-2008 circa, the world started to go downhill year after year ...
What's Eating Gilbert Grape with Leo and Johhnie Depp. Great movie and acting
LThey had a mom that was severely obese that the floor was caving in where she sat on one place for years l. Leo has a good agent. Hes very talented.
@@stiwy7376 '70s, actually. '90s pale imitation of '70s.
To this day, Leonardo DiCaprio sings praises to Robert De Niro giving him some acting props! A sign how good both actors are.
And soon they'll be teamed up again in Scorsese's next picture.
omg I know! I know more about celebrities than those dick riding people who keep up with actual heroes or people who run the world. celebs 100%
Well, in DeNiro's case, it wasn't acting. He's really like Dwight.
this isn't acting this is meta.
real as fuck...this is why Leonardo DiCaprio is an amazing actor. he went toe to toe with Deniro as a teenager 😳
Whats meta lol
He blows my mind with every role he's done
Oh yeah, Robert de Niro meta his fist around Leo's throat. Basketball Ball Diaries is a good one too
When i watch present movies with kids it looks like they took them straight from the street to act in the movies - zero acting talent… That movie back in 90s was a classic. One of the best movies ive seen and both DeNiro and Dicaprio are brilliant. Cant imagine other cast in this movie. Both just nailed their roles 🔥
Leo is unlike any other
Didn’t know Leo could act this well even when he was this young
He was nominated for an Oscar when he was 19. He was a star from the very beginning
Of course he did didn’t you see What’s Eating Gilbert Grape.
@@SKYREAPER30 that was a really good movie
leo was nominted for an oscar for whats eating gilbert grape, and when he was on growing pains he always held his own
When he Was A teen Is When he had his best Performances. Such As this, Basketball Diaries, & What’s Eating Gilbert Grape
Grown man biting a kid's finger is something else. This character was fucked up.
dwight was a man child...never grew up lol
Pretty much. He’s a Malignant Narcissist. That’s the kind of fucked up shit they do behind closed doors.
Actually he’s a teenager in this what I mean is Leonardo
Fighting dirty
He seems more like an abusive older brother than an abusive stepfather. That's how fucked up immature he is.
You’ll never find another rarity of a De Niro and DiCaprio collaboration like this.
Isn't there that movie, with Marlon Brando, Robert De Niro and Leonardo Di Caprio all in?
@@gabrielesolletico6542 only a movie with Marlon Brando and Johnny Depp that I know of.
@@gabrielesolletico6542 You might be thinking of The Score with Ed Norton, Brando and De Niro. De Niro and Dicaprio did star in another movie together called Marvin's Room
Killers of the flower moon
They’re working together again in an upcoming movie called Killers of the Flower Moon
Been there with the step dad. He’s dead 20 years but he still haunts and demolishes me in my dreams. I’m 40 next year. He was a violent, jealous, petty, broken, bully and martyr.
I’m a recovering heroin and crack addict and I have slip ups now and then. I wake up in cold sweat when I dream he’s coming through the attic trap door (my room
Was in the attic for most my childhood) Roaring my name in fury like the Hulk...and I’m trying to use my weight to stop him. The door is lifting and banging up and I’m pushing down so hard. He did give me my two sisters with my mother but he was a violent, psychotic bully and i fear , hate, love and despise him all at once.
No beating he ever gave did as much damage as the one he did to my mind and consequently my soul
Try EMDR…you don’t have to live in that fear. 🫂 Give it back to him…
Wow thank you so much for sharing. I had never heard of this before and it seems fascinating and very helpful. I appreciate your reply ✌️🙂
@@mccarthy5825Thanks for being courageous to share.Wishing you well with your recovery.
You're ok now son, it's over you can breathe and let that all go. Peace be with you.
Jesus heals. Your real Heavenly Father loves you so much. Satan tried to destroy you and your father image because God loves you.
Dwight decided to pick a fight with teenager due to jealousy and pettiness, what a childish man.
My older brother is like that toward me. Always has been.
He's never choked me out, but when I was 13, he damn near smothered me by squeezing the breath outta me and my mom refused to stop him. They both took 0 accountability for what they did, still refuse to now.
I still have terrifying flashbacks, and I'm only at peace when he isn't around.
I've had days when I wish he'd leave and find another home, or I wish I was rich enough to move out.
and he was damn there getting whooped on too dats da crazy part😂
@@bradyryan5105I hope you’re able to move somewhere safely very soon. I’ll pray on it, so be prepared when it happens.❤
@@LameBoii2Suave That’s not crazy, plenty of teenagers are capable of beating adults.
@@H.K.5 i love it
Deniro's foot stomp is legendary and has many victims. Billy Bats , Leo DiCaprio , The Store Owner from the Irishman etc... If he was a a mortal combat character that would be his fatality move.
Yep the legendary goodfella stomps. lol
Hahahahahaaaa!
underrated comment
The boy is hardly a victim. He was a terror and constantly out of control. There are clearly details left out of this story that is not being supplied.
The foot stomps in Irishman was not as fatal as the ones in this and Goodfellas
I watched this with my dad as kid ,he taught me so much about life. He was good man. but he died only a few years later. seeing this again makes me realize I died with him that day in September.
If he was there for you in life, he’ll always be by your side, even when you can’t see him. Especially when you come across things that trigger your memories of him, he’s right by your side. I bet he wants nothing more then to see you live a happy life. ☮️ 💟
Dear God. Your father still watches you. Life...I just dont get it. Why do we lose our loved ones so quick. Its so unfair. My heart goes out to you.
I'm so sorry for your loss, Mr. James. I hope you can come back to life again because your dad was a good man and that's what he'd want for you.
Maybe not, maybe just maybe he's living through you still with the things he taught you.
Weirdo. Your strange
Notice how his mother did nothing, until she knew Toby was going to leave. She didn't want to be the target of abuse. When her son was the target, she did nothing. His mom failed him.
Never thought of it like that
But then she saved his ass, and Turned against her husband. Sure this took place in the 1950s, women didn't have a lot of freedom, children were the most vulnerable to any kind of crime, and husbands of all kinds were psychopaths who used domestic abuse and family bullying to get their way, but this film, shows how the age of constant abuse was coming to a temporary halt. People have the freedom to speak out for themselves for who they are.
She's a flake and naive
I wonder why the mother didn't take her son somewhere to live where he would be out of harms way.
She saved him during the fight. Why are you making things up 😂
I fought my abusive dad. It wasn't easy but I made him listen and he didn't mess with me or my mom again.
My favorite part is the mom leaving with him, So many women stay in relationships like that cause they feel 'obligated' to. If him and her can get out of a toxic relationship, so can you guys
I feel sorry for Dwight daugther who couldn't have left him with them.
Yep I know dude. Know a girl like that but she finally moved out and took her kids. Best decision she ever made. Guy beat her, beat her kids, starved her kids, and cause her to miscarry. Was about to be a mob on his ass soon.
Obligated to what?
They just stay for the D cuz they're 🅦🅗🅞🅡🅔🅢.
Who tf is obligating them?
I read stories where mothers picked their new bf over their kid/daughters.
i have no sympathy for women who decided to marry scumbags, unless ofcourse they were forced to, which is never the case
This is a movie
This was how my life was for me n my two sisters being raised by a single father. We thought it was normal, and we never stood up to him except for me
My heart goes out to you both. Hope pops apologized and you guys made up
my mom treated me that way .everytime I watch this movie it takes me back.
I’m sorry to hear that my heart goes out to you guys🙏🏿❤️
Oh fuck.... Hopefully you good now and not traumatized. 🙂👍
@@Blodia1990 they don't have to forgive the bastard.
Robert de Niro makes you want to beat the crap out of him. Great acting. When you favorite actor can make you hate him for a moment
He does anyway.
@@TerryUniGeezerPetersonhe does anyway? He does what anyway? What the hell did your comment even mean? Do you not see how your comment is the most confusing thing ever?
@@TerryUniGeezerPetersontrump voter
@@h.cinema2301How?
huh?
DiCaprio got an Oscar nomination that year... but not for this movie. Dude was insanely talented even at age 19.
This film is exactly why De Niro told Scorsese about him afterwards and that’s why he’s now Scorsese’s second biggest collaborator
i'd argue he was better when he was young, especially when his voice was still going through puberty - he had a lot of crackling and squeaking to play around with. once his voice settled, he's still a good actor, but it limited his vocal range
Wow he looked really young for 19
Until The Revenant which he finally won the Oscar.
He was 18
This fight was so epic with how heated it got. Both fantastic actors from their outbursts to the red hot angry faces. You can tell in this movie the tension between them was only building higher and higher, and it all blows up right here over the mustard, even though it wasn’t really about the mustard. At some point many of us have had tension with others build until one little thing not relevant to the real issue sets everything off. This scene nailed that perfectly. I’ve never had an abusive family, but it still feels real to me for some reason. The anger Leo’s character was feeling, and the psychical stuff. I guess that’s just how good De Niro and DiCaprio are.
@Tom Cameron very well neatly and properly summed up by you.
What I thought was so great about this scene was the DiCaprio character no longer cared. He had enough. He knew Dwight was stronger, and could probably kill him -- and probably could have had his mom not interjected, but even then, guys like Dwight tend to be too big of cowards -- and he didn't care anymore, but he was going to hurt him as much as he could on the way out.
There is also the reality of what happens when you no longer care about the consequences. Which although, is usually not a good place to be, but in some cases like this one, it can be the most empowering.
Because oh God all this over mustard Dag. He act like that was Gold
The way they didn't even punch each other, it's like watching animals mauling each other.
This was a powerful scene. The reality of dealing with a sociopathic father.
No, the reality of trying to discipline some punk, hotshot kid.
@@user-qn1zp5bi2h You're mad, bro'.
this was deniro's year too.. a bronx tale, and this boys life.. two great flicks
@@user-qn1zp5bi2h you're an absolute buffoon
I havent watched the movie, but being with a single mother is hard. Ive seen it destroy mens lives after they ive it all in the relationship. Women can be a very scary toxic mix.
Robert De niro made me angry in this movie. Real talk
That’s what makes him such a great actor. He can make you hate him with a passion. One of the greatest actors ever.
Great actor.
It's just a movie, i mean they both leonardo dicaprio and robert de niro are so good actors u literally don't have to be angry lol.
@@idkhowishouldnamethispf2991 that’s why it’s called a movie dumb ass. Their sayin Robert made them hate him ( in this movie ) not that hard too comprehend english
@@tylerwaynemillir9457 wow wow don't be so mad kid😱 just calm down and stop crying
damn was mustard that expensive back in the day
I wondering the same damn
He's mad the kid got the scholarship. Just pure jealously.
Nope she the psychologically of an abusive asshole
You see how poor they are.
@@katalinmigray2527 yeah they are cuz Dwight sucks and cant afford to keep 10 cents worth of mustard in the house
I really love the dynamic between Toby and Pearl as they grow older. They clearly come to see one another as true siblings, and really care about each other.
She had to be left with him.
Kinda messed up she had to stay behind though
@@crashbandi-cody6782don’t worry, it was confirmed she eventually left and joined her siblings in Seattle 😃👍
Don’t forget this so based on a true story
It was 1992 not 1993 🙃
DiCaprio is literally the goat of acting
Most definitely 💯
This fight was even more intense and infuriating than the bear scene in The Revenant.
Well yeah, poor bear had no clue.
Dwight’s a fucking asshole.
Nor did he get an Oscar for this or the revenant I think the bear won tho lol
this was deniro's year too.. a bronx tale, and this boys life.. two great flicks
This scene was harder to watch than the scene in Death Wish (1974) when the thugs break into the apartment and mug the women
@@ericfuller2035he actually did win for the revenant. his first win
3:25. Leo’s face? Priceless.
stop😭😭 he looks so cutee
IT SO FUCKING CUTEEE
HES SO CUTE STOP😭
That's a cute face of sweet revenge
Mistakes Leo face priceless
that's how my mom treated me and im a female. some people are just born miserable and take it out on others.dont worry im 40 now and live on my own those years are behind me
;(
I'm so sorry, I hope you're doing well now :)
@Freddy Muldoon my dad was mean to. I spilled paint on his precious mustang and got grounded for a week. another time I stole his cigarettes and he said I couldn’t watch the new episode of boy meets world
Same sictch but I’m a guy and it’s terrifying to get Beat by a woman who thinks that food clothes and a roof over your head is all you need to qualify as a parent just flog your kids day after day because “sarcasm “ she had a shit childhood and being a mother is a thankless worthless job! Folks like this should be flushed down a mega toilet!
@@chocolateface8664 😅 sorry but your dad sounds reasonable not mean, you ruined his car and stoled cigarettes and you expect him to be nice ? 😂 I’m 21 and realize that’s the most stupid thing to do
And now they played in Killer of the Flower Moon together.
Fun fact: DeNiro was so impressed with Leo’s performance that he later down the road recommended him to Martin Scorsese.
Imagine if joe Pesci played the father🤣🤣💀💀
In that case it would be “what do you mean I’m not funny?”
You hear a little girl, Frankie? Is that a little f**kin’ girl? 🤣
"u better do your homework kid or imma come into your room bust your head open then come back again after u come outta your coma and bust it open AGAIN... understand"
"I've known your fucking mother 35 years, you think I'm gonna fucking divorce her for you??"
@@johngriswold4303 I think Negan would be a cool dad. He fed Carl spaghetti
Leonard Di Caprio’s acting is brilliant in this.
I felt so bad for that girl!
wha happen to herrrrr ????
@@jaebanns3804 The end of the movie said she got married, and made a family when she got older
Gtfo
@@MetAlcboy nice mate
@@MetAlcboy who the hell cares what about the boy
Fun Fact: None of Robert De Niro’s dialogue and acting was scripted; the film crew just filmed him on set when he was in a good mood…
I went through 6 years of this. My Mom’s boyfriend, the older I got, the worse he acted. Me and my two sisters could NEVER do anything right. And you couldn’t question anything he said or did. It was always,” Quit acting like you grown!l Or ,”Shut up, you don’t know anything!” Or, “ you think you are smarter than me?” No, just read different books about different things. He ended up going to prison and we moved far away. Took years, to learn, finally, about Narcissistic personality Disorder and lots of study on self-esteem, to realize these people are wounded. They almost need sympathy, but from a big distance! I used to hate my Mom’s boyfriend, but after meeting his family, I realized he never had a chance. But, It wasn’t my fault or problem! Bye-Bye!
I root for you bro.
Was your mom aware that this was happening?
Not having a chance doesn’t excuse his actions. The way he treated you and your mom was wrong and he must be held responsible for it.
Leonardo DiCaprio has been amazing since he was young. Jesus
He is really cute and really good
Yup, he had been! And he still is!
Jesus???
The sad thing is that this happens in hundreds of thousands of homes everyday
And in most cases, nobody is there to stop them and the kid ends up dying from abuse.
All over the world
You don't know the half of it
@@djnoneofyourbusiness525 yep, and the parent/step parent usually gets by with it
Do you actually have the stats on how often this happens? I obviously know it happens somewhere, i just wanna know where you got that number.
I had it like this growing up... Got into it once with my stepdad. I literally packed my mom's things up FOR HER and we left. We were good as gone for a weekend, but unlike DiCaprio and his mom in this movie, we went back. I walked in the old house and mom was getting the cases out the car. Pops was drinking himself to death and I had to carry him to the shower to have him come to. When the water got him out of it he looked up, started crying, stood up, grabbed me fast for a hug, and I wasn't even half scared of him at that point. The man was stressed beyond belief, working himself mentally and physically into the ground. Now that I'm 28 and have been working about as hard as he was, I do house demolitions, I understand how easily it can be to slip into depression trying to provide. The next day or two, mom admitted all the cheating and everything throughout childhood. Him and my mom may have gotten divorced, but he was still never just a stepdad. Moral of the story, there's a lot of time in our short lives. You can either forgive and move on alone, or you can forgive together.
All I know is him and I are as close as we are because of that fight, and seeing him like that.
That story hit me in the heart❤
I'm not a fan of abusive entities raising children. I will not call them parents, because PARENTS are souls who treat their children with respect from day one. Too many souls out there who should NEVER be allowed to raise children.
One of the most intense scenes I've ever watched. Deniro and DiCaprio are amazing.
I really like De Niros face impression at 1:45. It is one second performance that stunningly shows you a vicious toxic person
He looks demon possessed, lol.
@@thaistomp narcissists tend to look that way.
This is what brought Leonardo DiCaprio to Martin Scorsese's attention, as De Niro praised him to Scorsese and told him that he was good. Scorsese has said that it was unusual for De Niro to praise a fellow actor...
Leo's screams really traumatized me 😭😢😱
C'mon on.
They both deserve an oscar
Both are some of my favorite actors of all time. Hell we grew up with Leo 😂🔥
He did so good in this fight
Jay Gatsby vs. Murray Franklin
I saw this movie once - probably around 1994. Too emotional for me, I’ve never been able to sit down and revisit it. Not cause it’s bad, but because it’s that good.
If you went through this, I'm glad you survived. I'm glad you're still here. Purpose.
Yes! Those people who are bullying knows their life worth shit
Don’t waste mustard.
in real life, she'd come back. she'd come back at least three more times before leaving for good. by then, the trauma to the kids would've already been permanent. think about that next time you think about going back
I couldn't imagine doing this to my son. I straighten him out when I need to but my boy is my life. Much less a step child. It's just bullying.
DeNiro hardest role. Because the man is nothing like that. So it’s even harder to watch him being this violent and mad. Lesson at the end of this movie is beautiful.
De Niro is abusive
@@RocketmanRockyMatrix What?!?!?
@@RocketmanRockyMatrix he's also a leftist
@@bradyryan5105 he’s actually a nice guy
@@bradyryan5105 Cry harder, Republicant.
at least he had some balls to fight him....when u get to that point to where you big enough like "yeaa....i can take him" i respect it
He would've won... if he didn't get the broom hit out of his hands.
but he is not big enough to fight with De niro . Here De Niro is a healthy and physically strong man in here compared to him, Dicaprio is a little, and remember when you are a boy yet, it is hard when you fight with a man but if he was 20 to 22 years old he could have chance. but in here he is maybe 16 or 17.
@@gevorgmovsisian2025are you talking about actors? like seriously? you think the actors strenght must equal the characters? also many lightweight men can easily beat up men with 10 or 15 more kg, is not that important in people with no fighting ability, age matter not so much either, especially in a chaotic fight like this where even weapons get involved.
well lets say you are right but fighting is much more about experiene and it depends with whom you are fighting , well i was not talking about actors.
@@dagan8659
and i am talking about real fight.@@dagan8659
Now that, my friends, is what you call God level acting.
Both of them pour out their soul into the character, creating an incredibly realistic and impactful scene ❤️. This scene can't be outdone more than this. 💯
what every boy wants to do on a abusive father
like the scene when that actress that killed her abusive husband cuz her kid said U DON'T HAVE TO TAKE IT ANYMORE...underrated scene cuz leo looks right at dwight as they see this on tv and it was a real case...he was thinking of it also and that look they share no words but they are both understanding each other...kinda chilling and powerful
0:19 😡STOP!
With a dad like him we ain't needs enemies...
You don’t see acting like this anymore, I wouldn’t be surprised to find out they were actually fighting and the director told them who ever wins the fight gets a 5 million dollar raise
Cant believe Leo was 19 here he looks about 14.
I think he was actually 16/17 when the movie was shot
@@luzoliveira9920 Leo was born in '74
@@joshuaadamus7305 Yes, I may be mistaken but I think the movie was shot prior him being 19
@@joshuaadamus7305 Post-prod took longer back then. Movies didn't come out 6 months after filming, sometimes two or three years.
@@sosotess oh..okay 👍
1:25 Dude. Leo has always had the best screams in acting. They sound so real
As someone who has been in the kids position all of that hatred came back up when de Niro was choking him gave me a whole flashback
same here
What a sick world we live in. It obviously doesn't need to be this way.
Robert De Niro went super saiyan God level in this scene.
It's like DeNiro took the script from my father on how you demean and belittle a child. I saw this film when I was 20 and it has stayed with me since. I'd never seen such a similar representation of what me and my family experienced daily, until I saw this.
De niro kicking him like he did to billy batts in goodfellas 😂😂
Same character in every movie.
This was more epic than Batman VS Superman
More epic than captain America vs iron man
@@Karlebow571 fr
@@Karlebow571 Anything is better than those haha
That’s not saying much.
My father is like this. He loved my brother and i but he didn’t know how to love. He treated us like this and drove us away. Finally, haven’t spoken to my dad in months. Hope he’s well but idk if will ever speak to him again
My dad is almost the same 😕
I feel bad for Robert De Niro's character in this movie. He reminded me a lot of my dad and on surface level it is easy to hate him. But there is always a lot more to things like this. At the time, it was easy to hate him, but now that I am older and look back and have a bit more knowledge about my dad and his past and have a better understanding of everything, I felt really sorry for him. There are things about his life which I still won't know or understand, but from what I do know and understand now, I have a lot of sympathy for him.
I admire your perspective, Jeffrey.
Yes, exactly this! Something about the way he repeats "What about me?" makes me feel like he went through the same pain he inflicted on his stepson. Makes me want to cry for the younger version of him.
Your sympathy is true, and compassionate, and valid, don't ever change it. Sadly it's also exactly why women stay. Why they waste their lives believing that "what about me" is a good enough reason not to leave. (Almost) no one is wholly evil, and there are many reasons to have sympathy for those who destroy the lives of others, because they were born or created 'needy' or selfish. We can always find the good in them if we try. But STAYING won't make His Life Better. It will only serve to destroy both lives. She will never make him happy. She can't ever fix him. She is only enabling him. I'm just saying this - - to all women out there, don't sacrifice your life for a sad hopeless cause. Get space and years between you - and only then - will it be safe to feel that compassion for him again. For now - turn it off. It's your turn. What about you.
@@whatson94
The step son was out of control long before he got to that household. The movie shows him doing horrible things and was he was constantly in trouble. It was even mentioned in the movie that he had to move because of his trouble with the law.
It is suppose to be a true life story so there are details clearly being left out of the movie.
@bighand69 that doesn't excuse anything that Dwight did to him.
🤣🤣🤣🤣 I'm sorry, I can't help but laugh at the part when Leo smacks De Niro's butt with the mop handle at 1:39!! Lol and then he crashes into the stove!! 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤙🏻🤙🏻🤙🏻
Brings Back Good Memories Of My Father, Good Times!
Now the girl gonna have to fight him
bro ☠️
She was probably being abused before Toby got there. That's probably why she was happy to see him get some HEAT.
02:06 is gonna be my new profile pic
The longer you look the funnier it gets 😂🤣
LMAOOAOA
😂😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣😅😅😅😆😆😆😄😄😄
Bruh
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Two of Martin Scorsese’s favorite actors to work with Deniro and DiCaprio, fighting it out in this film … brilliant
Dwight: what about me?
Me in the crowd : no body gives a shit about you Dwight
As a big brother seeing him as small brother made me cry
Having an abusive man-child as a step father is the definition of misery. But having an abusive man-child as a biological father is straight up hell on earth. Dont know how tf I survived that, but it is what it is
The most adorable thing about it is that Dwight is that kind of people whose lives ain't worth a shit and, the moment they leave this world, those who knew them will celebrate they're gone for good.
Really, these situations make your blood boil. No one has to stand a bully...never.
This and this!! All the people that bullied me through life ended sad and bitter, and eventually they showed their true colors. Always stand up to your bullies.
Some people cause joy wherever they go. Others, whenever they go.
I love his heart. He fought back
2:05 I really which they could remake this movie with Toby having a few months of Brazilian Jujitsu under his belt just for this scene!
This makes me wanna jump on the screen into the movie and put a bullet to Dwight's fucking ugly face
Leonardo Dicaprio is a great actor. Even when he was young.
This reminds me of the first time i fought back against my father. I wouldn't say that he was abusive, but when i got punished, i got the shit kicked out of me. He was terrifying because he was 6'3 and has over 100 pounds on me, and getting the balls to fight someone that large and violent is scary as hell. Kids these days have no idea what it was like prior to the internet and everyone being spoiled
That’s Robert De Niro in real life that’s how he really is
Really he is that’s how he is in real life
This movie sums up my old mans life in a nutshell…
Wow. I feel sorry for you.
I remember my older brother and dad fighting like this. I was prolly around the same age as Eliza dushku and I did the same thing. I knew I couldnt break it up so I jus ran outside to be with our dog till I heard things die down inside My brother didn't come home for a couple days. I still remember going with my dad to go get him. They reconciled
This was our step monster. The physical wounds have healed but the mental ones we're still fighting long into adulthood😢
If nobody made films of these moments, noone else would ever be convinced they were REAL.
It's a good thing they got out Dwight's house for good and I heard that Dwight died in 1992 in the concrete
🤔 How did he die?
Concrete is an even bigger shithole than portrayed in this movie
@@noahmijo why?
@@panosficl to sum it up, meth and nazis
@@noahmijo That sums up most of Washington if not all of it.
My mom's bf back then was this way with me. She didnt notice at first. He started small. Then it gradually escalated. Until one night. He threw my mom across the kitchen. I fought back, and he threw me too. I didn't give a God forsaken damn. Thats my mother. We left that sick fuck the same day. He went to jail. Never saw him again.
Man DeNiro was hard on this kid. I get that he wanted him to be responsible and to not lie but damn he went a little overboard in my opinion. Guy was just a bully looking for a fight and knew this kid couldn't defend himself
I don’t think he has any good intentions to be honest. He may use that as the excuse to treat him that way but he is simply a sadistic bully in this film.
@@MrShandy123 yeah he definitely was a fuckin jerk to this kid. Reminds me of my dad when i was young. Just a bully looking for a fight
@@dmays8960 same
A little overboard?
Me and my old man, we never quite had that fist fight, in 22 years after leaving home, I think we’ve had less than a hours conversation in all that time. I’m very introverted,hardly a whisper in society, I done well for myself, got a profession. Tried love once,think she wanted the house I bought more than me. But I love it, travel a lot, loads of hobbies, reading.I’ve turned into that late 30’s, know my place in the world, don’t give a shit what people think, worked through issues and finally found peace.
What i find strange is that RD really looks like the kind of person that would do this IRL. just has the face.. LOL the casting directors back then where magical.
I guess the difference between me and Leo’s Ma was that I’d have kept goin’ with that baseball bat sort of like what happened to Joe Pesci.
Don’t feel bad for the girl, she grows up to be rescued by a spy hero and then develops into a great cheerleader
Excellent acting. Always loved this movie.
Kills me that the state didn’t take the daughter away from him
It was the 50s social services didnt really exist like today kids were on there own which is why so many grew up to be violent have grandkids that are violent today
Christ, this was so well acted by the three of them 👏