In memory of Jarom Hadley Nathaniel Rihari. Haka 'Tau Ka Tau'.

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  • @KovuJenkai
    @KovuJenkai 5 років тому +6641

    That boys spirit fell and someone else stepped up and took the reins. That's loyalty right there. That was B-E-A-utiful

    • @bobbyjamain2147
      @bobbyjamain2147 4 роки тому +51

      Wish they should the bro who step up and took over would of been solid to see him at that point take over that what you call having your famz back aroha mai to the whanau

    • @KovuJenkai
      @KovuJenkai 4 роки тому +39

      @@bobbyjamain2147 That's what family is. Loyalty, Aroha, Mana. Chur

    • @thefucrew9865
      @thefucrew9865 4 роки тому +57

      Family, Honor, Pride....only death can take those away.
      They just warn the Gods that another Warrior is enroute to join them.

    • @KovuJenkai
      @KovuJenkai 4 роки тому +10

      @@thefucrew9865 Poetic

    • @thefucrew9865
      @thefucrew9865 4 роки тому +4

      @@KovuJenkai, my Usos !

  • @dropkicknazis5301
    @dropkicknazis5301 6 років тому +4357

    I have never seen (or even heard of) a Haka until today. This is one of the most heartbreaking expressions of grief I've ever seen. It's like a primal scream set to music and given form. Thank you for sharing this, and may, Jarom Hadley rest in peace.

    • @nopalescondido56
      @nopalescondido56 5 років тому +43

      C caymer You’re setting a good example on how to make yourself seem like an ignorant asshole.

    • @steveotene8137
      @steveotene8137 5 років тому +6

      @C caymer you again ya black hua!!! Get the fuck outta here Kunta Kinte... Talk shit about us I'm going to return the favour because I love it!!!👊👊👊🖕🖕🖕

    • @SioneOliveti
      @SioneOliveti 5 років тому

      @C caymer Is that it? oh my god

    • @SioneOliveti
      @SioneOliveti 5 років тому +4

      @Hate hate Hate no

    • @aaronkenny2361
      @aaronkenny2361 5 років тому +13

      @Hate hate Hate i can't believe you're disrespecting this family

  • @cheapship6843
    @cheapship6843 5 років тому +5008

    The man in the middle deserves the biggest amount of respect. If anything, he is the strongest man alive. May the deceased soul Rest In Peace

    • @moniiam
      @moniiam 4 роки тому +6

      ♥️♥️

    • @DeezNuts-sx9jd
      @DeezNuts-sx9jd 4 роки тому +72

      Cheap Ship it's the brother of the deceased

    • @toniswallow3841
      @toniswallow3841 4 роки тому +61

      Pretty sure it's his brother who committed suicide so yeah hes got alot of heart n soul in him..

    • @strangewayz.
      @strangewayz. 4 роки тому +30

      He did his job. He did his job

    • @saulgavira1982
      @saulgavira1982 3 роки тому +2

      Me podrian traducir esto se me hace tan maravilloso que quisira saber que significa o que dicen gracias

  • @ashant6723
    @ashant6723 2 роки тому +580

    That girl who took the lead for a second , she was a flame to ignite the whole funeral again.
    what a woman

    • @thisdjango487
      @thisdjango487 Рік тому

      ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

    • @tuavaresm
      @tuavaresm 10 місяців тому +2

      Thanks for that, they always make things better 🙏🏾

    • @adamkincer
      @adamkincer 11 днів тому

      Right but why was she cut off though? I always wondered that

    • @Wolfgodmak
      @Wolfgodmak 2 дні тому +1

      @@adamkincer the second call out is a mix for both men and women, anyone can chant that but Ig he beat her to it

  • @OceanMcIntyre
    @OceanMcIntyre 3 роки тому +510

    This has to be one, if not the, most moving expression of grief I have ever seen. Simultaneously heart wrenching and beautiful. My heart goes out to all of these people who lost their loved one and friend.

  • @corgems3951
    @corgems3951 6 років тому +6035

    Whenever I see a haka, it sends chills down my spine. This one brought me to tears. If you're struggling, please get help!

    • @Kakashi713
      @Kakashi713 6 років тому +6

      Cor Gems do you think you can translate what they are saying?

    • @luv2stack
      @luv2stack 6 років тому +1

      What is Haka

    • @iXizXmoen
      @iXizXmoen 6 років тому +1

      watch the video

    • @Kakashi713
      @Kakashi713 6 років тому +8

      NoBigDeal it's a traditional dance certain Pacific islanders practice.

    • @ColdConceptOfficial
      @ColdConceptOfficial 6 років тому +16

      The haka is anything but a struggle...im pretty sure its a ceremony (i know nothing about the haka history but too me it seems like a tribute chant) if acceptance to what happens in our lifecycle

  • @DrFodz
    @DrFodz 6 років тому +4067

    Damn i fee like modern society has lost touch to such primal and liberating rituals.

    • @dropkicknazis5301
      @dropkicknazis5301 6 років тому +48

      DrFodz Right? I couldn't agree more.

    • @JanoyCresva
      @JanoyCresva 6 років тому +77

      You act as if not being primal anymore is a bad thing. This is a cultural thing. Us on the mainland never did this. Haka's are still very common now in modern times so not sure what you are saying.

    • @bonesonstones1
      @bonesonstones1 6 років тому +34

      Franken Peter, that is not what they said at all, quit making shit up.

    • @ThatVIPYouLove
      @ThatVIPYouLove 6 років тому +80

      I think they were trying to say that these ways to express emotions are much healthier, and better ways to release the emotions than what we have in a lot of places... funerals of sausage rolls and sorry for your loss are no good.

    • @bojangles4791
      @bojangles4791 6 років тому +59

      We have lost our spiritual connection with ourselves and nature and replaced it with ego and dopamine hits from social media.

  • @Sovietcatsdrinkvodka
    @Sovietcatsdrinkvodka 4 роки тому +2854

    Jarom was a friend of mine. I met him in 2014 in my first year of high school. He was the first new friend I made there. I remember playing knuckles with him in tutor and he'd always win. He told me he could never lose because of his calloused knuckles. I was there that day. I was in the doorway of the chapel (behind the crowd to the right) and I couldn't see through my tears and an elderly lady held me in her arms. 3 years this year. Still miss you everyday Jarom. Kia Kaha

    • @GigglesPisano
      @GigglesPisano 4 роки тому +43

      My condolences to you. Huge hugs~

    • @kyahrae9586
      @kyahrae9586 4 роки тому +33

      sending you hugs from the other side of the world. i hope the guy in the blue is holding up okay still 💕

    • @chrissaxon4626
      @chrissaxon4626 4 роки тому +9

      How did he pass?

    • @ethanIsMyDaddy
      @ethanIsMyDaddy 4 роки тому +14

      chris saxon commited suicide ....

    • @chrissaxon4626
      @chrissaxon4626 4 роки тому +25

      @@ethanIsMyDaddy what a shame. To be that low in life and think thats the only way out. If only he had waited a month, or year, maybe things would have gotten better. Great Haka. What a way to honor him! Good job.

  • @John-Joseph
    @John-Joseph 3 роки тому +275

    This brings tears every time I watch it. I use it to help myself grieve. All humanity needs tribal generational grief and ritual. Many of us are disconnected from grief and it stagnates like a poison in our veins. Watching that young man's soul bleed for his loved one as his friends help support him as he falters with sorrow fills me with empathy and joy and I thank you all for this window into a healthy grieving community. Respect and love to you all.

    • @antisocialal4799
      @antisocialal4799 2 роки тому +13

      I’m going to be honest, the most stuffiest and depressing funerals I have ever been to are white funerals. I’m not saying we have to boogie down, but can’t we do anything other than have small talk to people you don’t know?

    • @lburgess63
      @lburgess63 2 роки тому

      What they just said

    • @rickymarino1208
      @rickymarino1208 2 роки тому

      Very true. I find it soulless and going through the motion of a funeral a bland process.

    • @JljJj-
      @JljJj- Рік тому +2

      The leading man was crying why... Was he his friend or brother??

    • @Pete-ov7kj
      @Pete-ov7kj Рік тому +1

      @@JljJj-it was his older brother who died.

  • @jthughes9820
    @jthughes9820 Рік тому +70

    "It was a warning...to whom...they are warning the dead sir, a warrior is about to arrive."
    -Brent Spiner, Star Trek
    The raw emotion of these men shows not only the respect they had for him, but the warrior
    spirit of their people that lives forever. Mad respect from a 1st Infantry veteran. JT

  • @thedonfonz2481
    @thedonfonz2481 5 років тому +1293

    Whats really hearty is when another dude takes lead while the fella here in the middle uses his strength to get through.. 💯

    • @philipburns4646
      @philipburns4646 5 років тому +13

      Bro your comment👌

    • @apu6216
      @apu6216 5 років тому +10

      That there was beautiful wasn't it?

    • @russellbudell4389
      @russellbudell4389 5 років тому +42

      When the woman in the back starts to yell is when you know it's a really emotional moment - traditionally women don't participate in Hakas.

    • @mikey-leekereopa-white1915
      @mikey-leekereopa-white1915 4 роки тому +36

      @@russellbudell4389 Women did participate in Haka but weren't allowed to Lead a haka.

    • @anaherahiraka3782
      @anaherahiraka3782 4 роки тому +12

      Russell Budell mmm not true, women can most definitely perform haka. Some haka can restrictions to the leads of the haka being only male.

  • @ash7324
    @ash7324 4 роки тому +2017

    1:30 when he's overcome with emotion, someone picks up the lead seamlessly. This is such a moving display

    • @kristasewell1165
      @kristasewell1165 3 роки тому +1

      Lmfao

    • @exdee__
      @exdee__ 3 роки тому +45

      @@kristasewell1165 what's funny Krista? Your race have no culture?

    • @reddwolfe2613
      @reddwolfe2613 3 роки тому +13

      @@kristasewell1165 ?

    • @totallyrealreactions5023
      @totallyrealreactions5023 3 роки тому +32

      @@kristasewell1165 what exactly is wrong with you? I sincerely hope you never have to go through the pain that these young men, who you are laughing at, are experiencing.

    • @aprilpt
      @aprilpt 3 роки тому +32

      It’s pretty much our custom when performing if someone can’t finish their line and they choke up with emotion someone who is near them will take over, especially performing for someone who has passed

  • @benjamincjholmes
    @benjamincjholmes 4 роки тому +970

    The brother leading the Haka...its the most moving thing I've ever seen in my whole life. How unimaginably difficult that must have been, but after everytime he almost breaks down (understandably) he finds strength from deep within to keep moving . Its truly inspiring to say the least. I've watched this a few times over the years and it does me in everytime.

    • @Hederrrcole88
      @Hederrrcole88 2 роки тому +7

      I’ve watched these a few times over the years as well. And every single time I feel an ache in my chest for the guy in the blue shirt. I hurt for all of them but the love he had for his friend ( I assume)… I want a friend like that. When I hear this.. I feel it, it makes me cry and Gives me goosebumps. Kia Kaha Kia Maia

    • @dwaterson21
      @dwaterson21 2 роки тому +8

      @@Hederrrcole88 That was his younger brother in the blue shirt. And he truly felt the spirit of the Haka. He kept fighting to the bitter end.

    • @ColleenScatena69
      @ColleenScatena69 2 роки тому +2

      Same here I cry every time I watch it

    • @wendi101076
      @wendi101076 Рік тому

      What a great release. Grief is a hard pill to swallow. This video is beyond beautiful!😅

    • @Ali-in-Wonderland.
      @Ali-in-Wonderland. 3 місяці тому

      he lit found and felt Kia Kaha

  • @MarquitaMaverick
    @MarquitaMaverick 2 місяці тому +3

    Every year I come back to this.
    I will never forget the first time I was introduced to the ceremonial aspects of Māori culture. This just always moved me differently and I hope that young man has found healing.

  • @EddieG1888
    @EddieG1888 3 роки тому +121

    I'm a 46 year old guy, and I find this to me equal amounts heartbreaking and awe-inspiring. Had me in tears watching it this morning, Jarom's brother is a brave guy to have stepped up in this tribute to his brother. I don't think I could have.

    • @yasmin5552
      @yasmin5552 2 роки тому +6

      The grief of the youngman at the front in blue shirt, brought me to tears. I wasn't there, neither do i umderstand what was being chanted, but i felt his pain in this video.

  • @joaoghiraldini1795
    @joaoghiraldini1795 4 роки тому +701

    I wanna witness something like this once in my life. This spirit of union, togetherness and the untamed expression of emotions. Incredible.

    • @KailuaKoda
      @KailuaKoda 3 роки тому +13

      It’s intimidating as hell in person..

    • @dommyboysmith
      @dommyboysmith 3 роки тому +5

      Very well put. Both of you.

    • @itzwilza7189
      @itzwilza7189 2 роки тому +5

      Its another level of wow...I use to go school in NZ and I loved it...kapa haka was the best...I felt alive when doing it...all the adrenalin you get when you feel united

    • @imchase7796
      @imchase7796 2 роки тому

      Something we have lost. Now we go against each other
      It’s rare I should say

    • @joetimms1638
      @joetimms1638 2 роки тому

      Our haka from Waikato is enraging for warfare. You’ll feel something shake through you

  • @sloshed-rat
    @sloshed-rat 4 роки тому +454

    Once again proof that you can cry and still have a warrior's spirit. Cheers and condolences

  • @jennatolls904
    @jennatolls904 3 роки тому +1146

    1:17 the pause that he gave was like he’s trying to get himself together and his friends begin to grunt and shriek in encouragement knowing he is not alone. then when he feels like he can’t anymore and breaks down his friend continues for him. that’s so amazing of this culture.

    • @spontan3ously_me
      @spontan3ously_me 2 роки тому +19

      Why we can't gather all the cultures together and find one universal way of becoming one x

    • @lourdesblueblood1
      @lourdesblueblood1 Рік тому +4

      @@spontan3ously_me Same reason why we can’t heard cats.

    • @aryansigrid
      @aryansigrid Рік тому +3

      @@lourdesblueblood1 Weirdo answer!

    • @aryansigrid
      @aryansigrid Рік тому +1

      @@spontan3ously_me It doesn't happen dude, it's already been written, read The Bible some time, we're in the End times, it only gets worse!

    • @edenn012
      @edenn012 Рік тому +8

      Not a weirdo answer. The brother has got it exactly. The leader is the leader... we can only encourage him until he actually falters. Then second strongest will carry him. And you're right. The grunting and shrieking was his boys reminding him they were there and encouraging him.

  • @LillaBjörn95
    @LillaBjörn95 3 роки тому +27

    I imagine being able to able to let out this much raw emotion at a funeral could be really helpful in the healing process. This was beautiful to watch.

  • @TerriThorns
    @TerriThorns 3 роки тому +142

    This video is so emotional for me I lost my brother to suicide and I remember when he lived in New Zealand ChristChurch for abit and he loved it there and always wanted to back but never got to. When he got back to the UK he was like you never guess what I learnt the Haka at school and it was awesome and I sat there and watched him do it, he loved everything about New Zealand. one day im going to go there for him and take a picture with me so it feels like he is there too

    • @ayyyemossy1355
      @ayyyemossy1355 2 роки тому +1

      I’m so sorry for you loss.
      There are some things that last beyond time and death. Love and culture are two of them.

    • @spontan3ously_me
      @spontan3ously_me 2 роки тому

      Where ever you go right beside you he will be x

    • @shanefraser7764
      @shanefraser7764 2 роки тому +1

      We would love to have u here🇳🇿🇳🇿🇳🇿❤️❤️❤️🙏🙏🙏🌏🌈🏌🏻‍♀️🎟🏝🏝🏝🏖🏖🏖🏔🗻🛤🌌🌌🌌🧘‍♂️⛷🥂💐🌲🌳☘️🌻🪴🌺🍀💐🌾🥀🌿🎋🌲🪕📸📸📷📷📷📸📸📷📷📷📸📸📸📸📸📸📸

    • @dioniesueiti-toka4622
      @dioniesueiti-toka4622 Рік тому +1

      Ka Aroha for you, your whanau and brother's spirit. It will be wonderful for you to bring something to NZ for your brother. We Māori call this tradition - Kawe mate. We do this for our departed loved ones. It means “carrying the dead.” This tikanga takes place after the death of a loved one. It invokes her or his memory, with a representation of that person as a potent visual symbol. Nau mai, hoki mai - Welcome back!

  • @danjo141
    @danjo141 6 років тому +3750

    (Rough) Translation:
    Descending/ approaching
    Descending/ approaching
    Descending upon Whakatu, who await you here
    And prepare for your arrival
    There will be continuous battle
    Give me your threats and I shall make short work of them, in the heat of battle

    • @islandking8358
      @islandking8358 6 років тому +63

      Beautiful, just beautiful. Love from your neighbours Fiji 🇫🇯 ☺

    • @isaacmacias9633
      @isaacmacias9633 6 років тому +9

      Nice

    • @irishinojosa4658
      @irishinojosa4658 5 років тому +19

      Danninaut thank you for this I’ve been looking for the translation

    • @anthonysteven1481
      @anthonysteven1481 5 років тому +9

      the meaning is so deep! Amazing...

    • @seanlandry2803
      @seanlandry2803 5 років тому +23

      Thank you for sharing the words to an American. All of the Hakus I have seen really are beautiful and I feel badly for the guy in the light blue shirt. The pain must be unbearable. May your friend rest in peace.

  • @jermaynehughes8912
    @jermaynehughes8912 5 років тому +478

    I watch this Haka over and over again. The young man in the light blue really got to me, not to exclude any of the other young people in this Haka. I can feel their pain, anger, confusion with just their movements. I don't speak the language but it's truly touching. I'm from America and we lost touch with our ancestors and rituals in my book. Especially being half Native American myself so this really hits home for me. I wish you all the best, take care of yourselves and each other.

    • @itscooltobeyou
      @itscooltobeyou 4 роки тому +23

      It's never too late to practice who you are. Colonization has done it's best to erase us, but we are still here, and guarantee if you searched for some traditional knowledge you would find it, it is your right. No one can get between you and your soul and spirit.

    • @wellnative1
      @wellnative1 4 роки тому +15

      Find your tribe. We are still here. We still have our traditions. Someone will help you learn. Much love.

    • @israelboakes6710
      @israelboakes6710 3 роки тому +2

      Good luck to you too

    • @yanzionly
      @yanzionly 3 роки тому

      i feel the same, i dont understand a single word, but i was in tears. the emotion is powerful

    • @alisonholland7531
      @alisonholland7531 3 роки тому +5

      My children are one eighth Native American, but we don't know much more than that, how he ended up in Australia we've no idea but I'm very proud to know my beautiful kids have a connection to such amazing people, the reason I commented is that my daughter is married to the most loving, kind and caring man who is half Maori so my granddaughter has the blood of two first nations in her veins - she is stunning, I've never ever seen a baby quite like her and I love her with every fibre of my being.
      James is forever showing her the Haka and the emotions that get stirred up in me are so powerful, my son in law is honestly the best person whose ever come in our lives, we all love him, me like he's my own son, and my children like he's their brother 💖

  • @ryugujiken6936
    @ryugujiken6936 5 років тому +2073

    when the girls joined in i almost burst into tears

  • @1bls
    @1bls 2 роки тому +53

    Imagine having this many friends, friends that would pay you this massive respect

  • @falkirk8413
    @falkirk8413 5 місяців тому +5

    Just a 40 y/o man crying for your loss and the pain and strength displayed here. God bless you all

  • @jonesman23
    @jonesman23 6 років тому +1238

    Ok....that’s heartbreaking😢. But also show‘s how powerfull the Haka is if you want to show someone your last Respect

    • @tackeybud1338
      @tackeybud1338 4 роки тому +1

      @Hate hate Hate u are cursed bad luck will follow u. Swt knightmares

    • @tackeybud1338
      @tackeybud1338 4 роки тому

      @Hate hate Hate u bring kids n2 ur sick troll games lol ur pathetic 😂 😂 😂

    • @tackeybud1338
      @tackeybud1338 4 роки тому

      Ouch I stubbed my toe u barstard

    • @tackeybud1338
      @tackeybud1338 4 роки тому

      @Hate hate Hate 😂 😂 barstard

  • @tonymccabe2171
    @tonymccabe2171 6 років тому +242

    Everytime I watch this I cry, Jarom must have been a special guy, The grief his brother feels is evident and tangible, I hope his family have found comfort, especially his brother, Hugs from Ireland.

  • @scottgibson1119
    @scottgibson1119 6 років тому +474

    That is most manly outpouring of grief and emotion I have ever seen. I wish I knew how to do this - I have a few things I would like to get off my chest.

    • @uBmaniac
      @uBmaniac 4 роки тому +5

      I know it's a year since you shared but I hope sharing my raw reaction to comment will help.
      "oh, brother.. ".

    • @rockemack
      @rockemack 4 роки тому +17

      Masculine, yes. Manly, no. This is an important distinction. And if you want to get things off your chest, go see a therapist

    • @ataahua-mareeedwards5690
      @ataahua-mareeedwards5690 4 роки тому +5

      This is to pay our last respect to our loved one that’s just passed away this is our song this ain’t a grieving process

    • @lazyshoggy
      @lazyshoggy 3 роки тому +1

      If you need to express emotions, do it- manlyly or not. Nobody has the right to judge you on that. Fuck this society if it doesn't allow you to do that basic thing.

  • @nihilisticemoidiot5813
    @nihilisticemoidiot5813 3 роки тому +2

    I come and watch this every few weeks

  • @verasweeney
    @verasweeney 6 років тому +718

    I am sobbing. I had to stop and get a hold of myself before I could write this. This was filled with so much emotion and hurt and love and life. So much anger. So much sadness. I mourn for you. I am sorry for your loss. I understand it. I know suicide. Here’s to hoping we don’t have to know it again.

    • @victorbradic1755
      @victorbradic1755 6 років тому +17

      vera sweeney i agree. You could tell this was done with heart, and emotion. I don’t see anything wrong with them doing this. It shows great respect, pride and love they have for their culture and family.

    • @pilar2087
      @pilar2087 6 років тому +2

      Well said! Thanks!

    • @MrDavidelliottjr
      @MrDavidelliottjr 6 років тому +1

      Same here.

    • @RebelMaus
      @RebelMaus 6 років тому

      Same here @vera sweeney every single time I see this.

    • @oatlatte000
      @oatlatte000 5 років тому +12

      C caymer don’t be an asshole, somebody lost a life.

  • @hannaniahwilliams1057
    @hannaniahwilliams1057 6 років тому +376

    Y’all I cried and couldn’t stop . This is beautiful . I can’t tell you how many times I’ve watched this . The love and support is amazing

  • @senorpigeon9564
    @senorpigeon9564 5 років тому +546

    Damn I thought the guy in the middle was getting tired but he was crying. Respect.

    • @CristinaAshley8
      @CristinaAshley8 4 роки тому +69

      It was his brother....

    • @BleachLore
      @BleachLore 4 роки тому +34

      You would also be crying if ur younger brother took his own life..

    • @Nomad3421
      @Nomad3421 4 роки тому +22

      its his brother that passed away

  • @dbr1usa32
    @dbr1usa32 3 роки тому +3

    What a strong and fitting tribute to a loved one. I recently lost several friends suddenly who got no fitting tribute in my mind. I would have loved to perform something like this with my brothers for these men. Mr Hadley... I am in the north east of the united states and I hope you see this some day... but your touching Haka has made its way all the way from your home to pennsylvania. You have honored your brother across oceans and countries. Thank you for your show of love for your brother. I can only hope that some day I will earn the honor of something similar. God bless you and your brother.

  • @katrinamiles3783
    @katrinamiles3783 2 роки тому +5

    I don't know any of this situation. But I do know, there is power in love. Watching him not be able to continue, to have to intake air, his whole demeanor. I am so sorry for his loss. I'm a nobody, and I have shed many tears watching this. Pain links us all together. To REALLY feel for another persons loss.

  • @realmanaesthetics
    @realmanaesthetics 5 років тому +186

    "It is only the dead who have truly witnessed the end of the war"
    - Plato.

    • @Absolute055
      @Absolute055 4 роки тому +1

      For war is without end

    • @emelyarye2641
      @emelyarye2641 3 роки тому +1

      the war is the world, and the world is the war

  • @ktwren3334
    @ktwren3334 6 років тому +685

    As a suicide survivor from both my mother (53) and little sister(16) (after my little brother(19) died from alcohol overdose) I understand your pain. What a beautiful tribute you did for your brother. I am still cleaning up my tears. Thank you for sharing this.❤

    • @dogwood178
      @dogwood178 6 років тому +36

      Your brother died and then your mom and sister committed suicide? Anyhow, that's a horrible thing to have to happen, I'm sorry and I admire your perseverance. Best of luck.

    • @CalicoJoeJoe
      @CalicoJoeJoe 6 років тому +15

      You are a strong, precious soul. I pray for your everlasting peace and strength. Walk tall.

    • @angelo1962
      @angelo1962 6 років тому +6

      I'm sorry to hear that. Be strong. Walk tall. I'm a survivor myself. Life MUST go on. ;

    • @Tinseltopia
      @Tinseltopia 6 років тому +5

      I feel stupid to ask, but what's a suicide survivor? Is it surviving an attempted suicide?

    • @Masternuckable
      @Masternuckable 6 років тому +8

      Tinseltopia From the sound of it, she was saying she the family member of those who committed suicide. I.e. She survived them.

  • @scarecrow9239
    @scarecrow9239 4 роки тому +94

    Knowing he's doing this for his brother, the way he struggles to keep going despite how hard it is, accepting someone he'd literally grown up with......

  • @Mrs-qj3bm
    @Mrs-qj3bm Рік тому +6

    I am not from new Zealand but I love this sooooooo much and how you show so much love to someone who has passed away. This was so touching and it made me cry and wish that I could have this done when I pass away someday. The way this was done was so beautiful and touching. May the Lord Jesus bless you all. Love to you all From Australia

  • @dawnyandandy
    @dawnyandandy 2 роки тому +3

    I want to climb through the screen when they have finished and give the lad at the front a hug x😢

  • @nigellangridge1975
    @nigellangridge1975 4 роки тому +21

    417 dislikes. That’s 417 people with no heart, soul and compassion.
    This is power. This is fire. This is respect. This is pure. This is the connecting of souls.

  • @jibm4402
    @jibm4402 6 років тому +155

    Damn the guy in tears and emotion trying to keep going choked me up, I'm sorry for your loss.

  • @nichline
    @nichline 4 роки тому +159

    A Haka is like the most honorable, respectful, moving and beautiful gift the Maori culture can give to someone in my opinion

  • @tonygarcia356
    @tonygarcia356 Рік тому +1

    This is a beautiful way to show love and respect, to the departed loved one. I admit that it made my eyes well up with tears. That young man was truly loved.

  • @belinda8068
    @belinda8068 Рік тому +8

    This is so insanely touching 🥹 I could feel the guy at the fronts emotion through my screen. The way the ladies in the corner supported the men and joined in 🥹 omg my heart ❤

  • @melidagarcia6504
    @melidagarcia6504 5 років тому +117

    You can see his pain.. I'm crying so hard, I cant imagine him, all them doing haka in memory for his beloved friend. My condolences.

    • @iffoster22
      @iffoster22 5 років тому +11

      It's even sadder when you realize it's his BROTHER

    • @melidagarcia6504
      @melidagarcia6504 5 років тому +3

      @@iffoster22 oh no. :'( thanks for the info.

    • @yanzionly
      @yanzionly 3 роки тому

      yes, the pain is tangible.

    • @ChezzaOuttaNowhere
      @ChezzaOuttaNowhere 3 роки тому +1

      Man i cannot stop crying. The resonance.

  • @AllFather-TheStoicGod
    @AllFather-TheStoicGod 4 роки тому +935

    When the women get involved it adds another level of power to it.

    • @fireuser11
      @fireuser11 2 роки тому +21

      Always 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥

    • @PolynesianPrincessa
      @PolynesianPrincessa 2 роки тому +21

      Thats collective mana

    • @greenspoon6181
      @greenspoon6181 2 роки тому +10

      I felt it two.

    • @rodrigodiaz6812
      @rodrigodiaz6812 2 роки тому +6

      All together

    • @JayGrinding
      @JayGrinding Рік тому +11

      Hate to be scientific, but when men hear a women’s shriek, we primally go into a protective state which explains why it got so energised. Respect to all of them for finding the strength to do this

  • @Ebizzill
    @Ebizzill 6 років тому +275

    only 17. so young. So so sorry for your loss

  • @TakayMatthews
    @TakayMatthews 10 місяців тому +2

    Yo I literally idk what they are saying but this has to be the most beautiful heart wrenching thing I’ve ever seen! The brother damn man I can feel his pain!

  • @oddron8643
    @oddron8643 Рік тому +4

    Everytime I see this, the raw emotion the man in the middle is expressing emanates through my phone, and gets to me. This is powerful

  • @jadedx2012
    @jadedx2012 5 років тому +29

    You don't just see his pain, you hear it. You feel it. I cry everytime I watch this.

  • @kersh122010
    @kersh122010 4 роки тому +12

    I am still watching this, years later, feeling the sadness of your grief... but still in awe of this beautiful COMMUNITY. They were grieving the loss but, they were there for AND with the one grieving the most.
    It's about family. It's about who you are, where you come from, who is with you when you feel alone.
    I find myself being envious of such ties.
    I couldn't respect this any greater. ROOTS, COMMUNITY, HISTORY, FAMILY.
    They are never alone when they have each other.
    Absolutely beautiful and so rare these days. I pray they never lose this, as so many of us have.

  • @anthonysteven1481
    @anthonysteven1481 5 років тому +67

    This is the most emotional HAKA Dance I've ever seen in my entire life, and this is so special!
    The guy in the front front, in the middle with light blue outfit was so expressive (and I suspect he is the brother of the lost soul) and I was in tears when he was breaking apart.
    Such a special for a send-off and this video is so touching.
    Thank you for posting Anthony Hall!

  • @scoobstopb
    @scoobstopb 2 роки тому +11

    I've seen this a hundred times and tonight I was moved to tears.

  • @taylorarmes08
    @taylorarmes08 3 роки тому +10

    I keep this video saved on my UA-cam and occasionally come back to watch it and get chills every time. This is absolutely beautiful. ❤️❤️

  • @Obutor
    @Obutor 4 роки тому +73

    This is 2020 and tears still rolling😭 from watching this

  • @dillonwong3646
    @dillonwong3646 5 років тому +27

    This chills me to the damn core. There is no way to show emotion and power than Haka. As a Canadian that has no knowledge in this, I absolutely love it and wish I could one day become involved in something this beautiful ♥️ RIP ♥️

    • @iffoster22
      @iffoster22 5 років тому +2

      Same here in the States. I wish we had cultural roots like this to keep us strong for now and generations to come

    • @melissajohnson1489
      @melissajohnson1489 4 роки тому +6

      TeaFos The Haka is powerful. USA Does have a powerful culture though. I am a Native American and our private dances (not ones put on for show but on privately own stomp grounds) are just one of many powerful parts of the Indigenous Northern Americans. Also, the Maori embraces all people; so, you or anyone can perform the Haka as long as you do it correctly and at appropriate times.

    • @gediyonmoges11
      @gediyonmoges11 4 роки тому

      Same here. Such a beautiful display of grief and courage. Love the culture.

  • @zeeshanbcj
    @zeeshanbcj 4 роки тому +40

    My soul cries whenever I see this video, May Allah Almighty bless them all.

  • @drewrunsgood
    @drewrunsgood Рік тому +3

    I saw this awhile back and after being in a mental health hospital for the past 4 or 5 days, I saw how terrible some people really have it in life, and I was reminded of this video and how important it is to be strong and have community and friends that care about you and love you.
    I am so sorry for your loss, guys. I would do anything to give you a hug and let you cry all over me, brother. I am crushed, but he had such a special purpose, and I pray to have friends like these someday.
    Life is so, so short everyone. Let’s make the best of it, no matter what. Let’s make sure the enemy hears our roar, and that he cannot and will not move us, regardless of the evil that we experience. We will destroy it!!
    Tau Ka Tau!!!

  • @elanhunter310
    @elanhunter310 3 роки тому +4

    I’m white Australian, I don’t fully understand the history or cultural significance but what I do understand is the humanity.... the passion the respect and the pure raw emotion I feel whenever I see one performed... Orissa so moving and so beautiful...

  • @ShoJ369
    @ShoJ369 5 років тому +13

    No matter how many times I watch this, I cry. Jared's pain is phenomenal, you can feel it through the VT. Fair play to him, for doing this for his brother. 😥 😭. .

  • @rizhelannsupremo8244
    @rizhelannsupremo8244 6 років тому +11

    Watched this for the 6 times and I cried 6 times too. Can't understand the words but the chant pierces to my soul along with the guy who look so broken but gave all his strength to lead the haka.

  • @crimsoncaper6784
    @crimsoncaper6784 4 роки тому +69

    That young man w/ the blue shirt/tie was so overcome by emotion but he fought thru & finished it. He's a stronger man that I am; I'd be crying like a blubbering fool. I had tears in my eyes at the start of this vid & when the girls chimed in, I teared up even more. I'm a 52 yr old man and I'm not afraid nor embarrassed to admit that I teared up alot while watching this. Just sayin'. 🇨🇦👊🏻🤙🏻

  • @DhevendranGovender
    @DhevendranGovender 10 місяців тому +2

    My name is Roman Govender from South Africa. My late dad was a diehard all blacks fan & so am l. I always get emotional when I listen to the haka.

  • @gabebohannon2077
    @gabebohannon2077 5 місяців тому +1

    Genuinely, and I am not joking one of the most beautiful things ever. So much respect.

  • @Cosmickayellie
    @Cosmickayellie 4 роки тому +16

    I forgot about this and now that I’m seeing it again I’m full of emotion. I adore how even the women joined in. I don’t know what culture this is, but it’s beautiful..

  • @xunyap97
    @xunyap97 6 років тому +14

    This video is keep showing on my timeline and i keep avoiding it because i know it will make me cry. May his soul rest in peace

  • @bumble2able
    @bumble2able 4 роки тому +12

    I’m a Pom but lived in New Plymouth for a while as a kid, I remember Haka for our PE teacher, it was electric. Haka is spiritual and goes beyond understanding, your brother no doubt heard this and is in the next life smiling 🙌🏻❤️🙌🏻 SKÅL!!!!!! 🙌🏻

  • @chasesmith7495
    @chasesmith7495 3 роки тому +4

    I just started randomly watching things on UA-cam and came across this video and I know nothing ab y’all a culture but I can just tell this was extremely powerful. It brought tears to my eyes by just all the love and strength that I saw. That’s just absolutely amazing to watch. I’m sorry for your loss and let there spirits Rest In Peace ♥️♥️

  • @sharonnotch6154
    @sharonnotch6154 2 роки тому +21

    I have watched this video At least 20 times and every time I do I get choked up. . The loyalty they had for their friend and the sadnes is so overwhelming, but also admirable.

  • @dalmassor1069
    @dalmassor1069 6 років тому +18

    Truly a powerful dance. My family preformed a Haka for my going away to college, as in my family, its a way of being seperated, for hopes never to return home. Very emotional, and very lovingly done, by any ways of celebrating, or mourning.

  • @SunnyState0
    @SunnyState0 6 років тому +10

    This is so powerful and immersive. I teared up without hesitation, which happens rarely (dead inside). I wish I could open up and express my grief that way.

  • @mandiehayes
    @mandiehayes 5 років тому +6

    I saw this a year ago on facebook and i still come back to watch it just because the energy that comes from this video. Its heartbreaking but wholesome at the same time. I was in tears and still do cry watching this

  • @N5CProductions
    @N5CProductions 10 місяців тому +1

    6 years later I keep coming back because of the pure emotion. It helps me feel when I'm numb. It reminds me people would miss me.

  • @falaofutaapaisa4863
    @falaofutaapaisa4863 2 роки тому +3

    Always gets me everytime I watch this. It's easy to say hi but hard to say goodbye. It's even more devastating that you have to deal with it for the rest of your life. Always check on your love ones and never take for granted the times you spend together.

  • @johnlee703
    @johnlee703 5 років тому +8

    Absolutely amazing. New Zealand, Maori...your Haka is beautiful. For wedding, for funeral, for honoring... Haka is so beautiful that the emotions, and the feelings sends waves of emotions that just cannot be described. It is powerful. I love the the Maori's culture and should be preserved and continue to thrive.

  • @andrew41980
    @andrew41980 4 роки тому +92

    For I may face any enemy, knowing who stands at my back.

    • @siamiko9286
      @siamiko9286 3 роки тому +2

      Damn I was already crying from the video and then this comment just made me lose it 😭😭😭😭

    • @dwaterson21
      @dwaterson21 2 роки тому

      The Haka can truly give one the power to destroy the devil himself.

  • @susanswales8313
    @susanswales8313 9 місяців тому +4

    There are no words, but my heart was in sync with you all. Much respect from the UK.❤

    • @susanswales8313
      @susanswales8313 4 місяці тому

      I watch this with the hairs on the back of my neck standing up and tears streaming down my cheeks thats because its very beautiful emotion creating thing to not only watch but to hear also.

  • @Patricia-sv8zb
    @Patricia-sv8zb Рік тому +2

    Every once it a while I feel the need to watch this again! 😢

  • @Heavygusto
    @Heavygusto 2 роки тому +1

    I was not expecting anything nearly as emotionally compelling as this. Got a grown man crying. Respect and condolences to the loved ones.

  • @bendarrington1028
    @bendarrington1028 2 роки тому +12

    That is heartbreaking and touching to watch at the same time. Such a lovely tribute to the gentleman 🙏❤️

  • @jillm6239
    @jillm6239 4 роки тому +16

    The strength I see in the young man's face who's in the front & center is admirable. He is an inspiration to me& many others who have seen this VIDEO. You did AN AMAZING thing by participating thru that whole ceremony the best you could!!! I watched this video twice on Facebook & twice on UA-cam i bawled my eyes out for 30 mins+ straight. Your love &passion shows!! Your strength shows!! Your RESPECT shows more than ANYTHING ❤❤❤ i hope you all heal from your losses. Watching & respecting from CAPE COD, MASSACHUSETTS. -JILL

  • @khykhy
    @khykhy 5 років тому +10

    Thank you for sharing such a painful moment with us. We are more alike than we are Unalike. I applaud this young man’s courage

  • @channelremoved
    @channelremoved 2 роки тому +2

    I am emotionally wasted. Thanks for that masterpiece and brotherhood moment.

  • @myafelicia
    @myafelicia 3 роки тому +1

    As a mother of two sons, I cannot find ways to express how much my heart aches for the entire family and all of their friends. I can only hope that you all can feel my love that I'm sending to you all. May your loved one watch over you all

  • @cbarnes9808
    @cbarnes9808 5 років тому +4

    The moment you except love you must also except pain. Their outpouring of grief, respect, love, and prayer crys for this persons safe journey is overwhelming. My heart ached for them all especially that man in the light blue. My condolences.

  • @808Xian
    @808Xian 3 роки тому +28

    This is one of those things you can't explain . It's really like seeing ghosts or spiritual entities and they grab you. There's no words. This is who we are as people. I love you all.

  • @austrian_emperor2920
    @austrian_emperor2920 4 роки тому +33

    This haka really gets me emotional. I don't even wanna think about how it would feel like to lose one of my brothers

  • @sjy3706
    @sjy3706 2 роки тому +1

    I am from Michigan never traveled far. But I swear this one of the most beautiful rituals I've ever witnessed. May your love one be happy

  • @badmomba
    @badmomba 2 роки тому +2

    Every time I come across these videos I feel like I've somehow stood by and watched something ancient and sacred, something I don't understand at all, but feel the emotions from. Chills ...

  • @sddacus
    @sddacus 4 роки тому +5

    I'm a suicide survivor. My best friend committed suicide in November 1995 (her memorial service was on my 19th birthday), and my uncle committed suicide in May 1999. I battle suicidal thoughts, and the last time I attempted to take my own life was in December 2017. I have found my reason to live (my autistic son would be the one who finds my dead body ~ I would NEVER do that to him), but the battle is still hard. Thank you for posting this. You can FEEL their heartbreak. I KNOW the thoughts! I KNOW the pain! Please, if you're thinking of ending your pain ~ STOP! REACH OUT! CALL SOMEONE! Don't make a permanent decision on a temporary situation.

  • @miyashi3897
    @miyashi3897 5 років тому +44

    I got so emotional after watching this, respect the culture.

  • @Sebastian-gc5lc
    @Sebastian-gc5lc 5 років тому +34

    I've watched many hakas in my life and this is one of the most emotionally raw I've seen - definitely brought tears to my eyes. This is also the first one where the screaming and screeching was so prominent - imagine hearing that barely contained rage on the battlefield - I'd shit myself.
    The way the guy seamlessly took up leading the chant when the brother broke down - if it was me that guy would have my undying love and respect for life.

    • @jillsmith5303
      @jillsmith5303 3 роки тому +1

      Crying like a newborn. So emotional.

    • @southpacificpyrex1708
      @southpacificpyrex1708 3 роки тому

      Beautiful words. Love from New Zealand 👍

    • @jillsmith5303
      @jillsmith5303 3 роки тому

      @@southpacificpyrex1708 Much love right back at you from the UK.

  • @darkmynx1
    @darkmynx1 Рік тому +1

    I've seen this, in person, at a friend's funeral. I can honestly say it was one of the most beautiful, powerful & moving experiences.

  • @Lilbee730
    @Lilbee730 7 днів тому +2

    one of the most moving and powerful videos on the internet. kia ora to all maori brethren from over here in the uk, this video helped me realise that i feel completely disconnected from any sense of cultural heritage, and it fills me with such a deep respect for maori people for clinging onto your customs, culture and heritage in the face of my ancestors and other bastards trying to take it away from you. i hope i get to visit and hear some of yalls stories in the flesh one day

  • @seunghoonewnamjoontopbamba2929
    @seunghoonewnamjoontopbamba2929 7 років тому +275

    Beautiful and power. Definitely made me cry. Sorry for your loss

    • @DanWaters73
      @DanWaters73 6 років тому +1

      Your name is a mouthful!

  • @moranmaisilvadeoliveira3758
    @moranmaisilvadeoliveira3758 3 роки тому +3

    I am not part of this culture but I couldn't get pass the first min without bursting into tears. And I wish I could give the guy in the first row a hug. May you no longer feel sorrow.

  • @rebornlovecare4evermorenas278
    @rebornlovecare4evermorenas278 6 років тому +75

    My heart goes out to this wonderful family and friends . To the guy in the light blue , I feel the pain of losing someone close . You are always going to be watch , and the person who has pass is proud of you , An will be by you . Your emotions I felt them , I wanted to hug you , I felt it . This is so beautiful, this just makes you feel apart of it. God bless you !

    • @tackeybud1338
      @tackeybud1338 4 роки тому

      @Hate hate Hate if it hasn come yet your time is coming u are cursed.. Sweet knightmares n gdluck

    • @hayleyblackmore3896
      @hayleyblackmore3896 4 роки тому

      What's wrong with you please tell me

    • @hayleyblackmore3896
      @hayleyblackmore3896 4 роки тому

      And what's that got to do with this

    • @hayleyblackmore3896
      @hayleyblackmore3896 4 роки тому

      And what does seasonal allergies have to do with you being a dick

    • @hayleyblackmore3896
      @hayleyblackmore3896 4 роки тому

      Yea and you said seasonal allergies so I asked you what does seasonal allergies have to do with you being a dick
      Now I asked you a question are you gonna answer it

  • @jennifernagore1981
    @jennifernagore1981 2 роки тому +3

    This is absolutely beautiful. I have seen this video many times over the years and every time I have been moved to tears! The raw emotion and profound grief. My heart went out to them when I 1st saw this and my heart still goes out to them! I hope that they were able to find some peace.

  • @SatansMasterPiece
    @SatansMasterPiece Рік тому +1

    I come back to this video almost yearly to see the beauty and the passion and honor of these beautiful people who are honoring their friend/family that had passed.

  • @1HillbillyGirl
    @1HillbillyGirl 6 років тому +23

    Their pain is palpable... heartbreaking, magnificent strength in their tribute.