Shot 9 times and survived? Truly a miracle she’s alive. Her daughter will wake up one day and realize how blessed she is seeing her mother is still with her
I remember my little sister called herself grown just because she had a baby. And I am the oldest my mother beat my little sister like she was a stranger on the STREETS. And believe me when I tell y’all this I BET she NEVER EVER TRY IT AGAIN. 1 thing about my MOTHER she’s NOT to be PLAYED WITH. She always told us NEVER EVER TAKE HER FOR OUR FRIENDS.
The mother is the leader. She carried her in her womb. Whatever dark spirit she had when she carried her is in her daughter. Looking at her energy on the show, it's obvious that she's a bad mother. She doesn't love her daughter and her daughter knows it. That's why her daughter is treating her this way. She's mirroring her energy.
@@KtotheGActually a mother and father are leaders. Men pass demonic entities as well. God frees if we ask. Stop blaming parents for choices that an able minded person makes. Are your parents responsible for Every choice you made?
People smile when they feel uncomfortable, afraid, nervous, unsafe, etc. To come on stage and be that vulnerable about your trauma at 14 years old alongside a mother who is so angry and unwilling to model forgiveness and healthy behavior... I do not blame her for smiling. It was uncomfortable and she likely did not feel safe. You know what the daughter did do though? The daughter TRIED. Which is more than I can say for the mother. She TRIED to reach out. She TRIED to apologize. She tried. Even though it likely was not comfortable. Please remember that this is a traumatized CHILD. It would behoove all of us to not pass judgement, attack, or hold her to adult standards, especially when they adults in her life don't even hold themselves to the same standard.
Child is hella disrespectful, but as we can all see, she do get it from her mama. Mom is ANGRY for what happened to her and her son as she should be. That incident would be traumatizing for all of us. Before she can have a relationship with her daughter, mom needs therapy to gain coping skills. I wish this family healing.
It's because she's coming across very hood. She's the reason her child is that way. She didn't grow her up in a functioning family. Legs or not they would have been there. She thinks violence would give her respect, when love and respectability also can breed respect.
You all nailed it on the head. I would not and cannot accept an insincere apology. If you are going to apologize with a smile on your face, then you might as well keep that apology. That was an extremely cruel thing to say to your mother. I was 14 years old and I never disrespected my mother. And my mother has never been an easy person to deal with. But I am almost 60 years old and I can say that I have never disrespected my mother.
That girl lucky she had breath after that comment. Woke up the next bc my mama booy...! I bet not close my eyes if I said something like that to my mama under the circumstances
Glad someone said it! That doesn’t excuses the mom’s behavior, but she’s definitely taking advantage of a situation. She’s going to look back and feel so horrible.
i can agree and i never smiled when i had my little phase and i apologized and had a sit down talk with my mom. She knows for sure !!! she is just very young now she will realize she is hurting herself more by continuing to be disrespectful
my mom was shot 9xs too and left in a wheelchair. there is no way in the world my brothers and i would do any of this to my mom. sometimes i feel like she asks us to do a lot but it’s just regular household chores. this girl needs major counseling and the mother needs counseling too. there are so many layers of trauma here
God bless you for appreciating and loving on your mom bc we only get one. Unfortunately my mom was shot too when I was 10 but she didn’t survive. Cherish her daily bc you all are truly blessed to still be able to see her beautiful face🙏🏽🫶🏽
Ok, I’m sorry to hear dat, but did you hear the way she was talking to her Daughter? I probably wouldn’t be AS disrespectful but ima have my disrespect bc I can’t take dat. Nd know y’all r not the same ppl. Like I said I’m sorry to hear all of dat but still
This really made me cry. 😢 I feel sorry for the mother and child. Both were robbed of something special. The mom is angry for what happened to her and the teenager is mad because she lost a piece of her mother. My grandmother was shot over 9 times and paralyzed when I was 8, she died 2 years ago when I was 34. I watched her be angry so many days because of her circumstances but none of her grandchildren disrespected her. I feel for this family😢😢
@@anastasiaxawhy would you accept it if she’s over there smirking? The mother shouldn’t have blown up at her, but this is likely because she’s been through this before where this girl doesn’t follow up with her apologies. And who knows, that smirk may have been seen before and just triggered the mother. The girl laughing is understandable but only if she actually meant that apology, but there’s no way of telling, even for the mother, if she’s smirking through an apology
@@lavoniaholloway1245that smirk says it all. The child knows everybody is gonna think she is acting up because she is a child and that's how she has always gotten away with crapping on her mama. And she has a very unhealthy taste for seeing her mama helpless.
@@gbengaodunusi9704 you never know the full story, even If this were the case she has a mental problem, dissing a literal child does nothing they are still learning about the world
See I was coming to see which person this was about because honestly the mother was more disgusting in my eyes. Then I see more people calling a CHILD out her name so clearly there’s no hope for anyone.
Mother hasn't accepted what happened to her, and neither has she healed from it. The daughter was put into a situation that took away her childhood. They both had to accept and heal from the situation
Making her accountable for chores is not stealing her childhood. She needs to BE a child and get her tail in school. The mom has built up aggression. The entire family needs counseling.
@@FeliciaTorres-gv9vy i think the original poster is referring to the fact she saw her mother get shot and paralyzed as well as her brother. that ruins a childhood, especially when nobody is healing from it. she had to call the police to save her mother and brother. that’s a lot and maybe what made her think she’s browner than she really is and that’s unfair to her but she’s not understanding that she has to heal that pain to thrive the way she wants to.
@trinastafford6306 the mother is a paraplegic. It matters not that she is 14 she is a child and for now her mother's condition has to take precedent. The is child rude, disrespectful, expelled from school, steala etc there is no way i as a parent will accept this level of disrespect. No way.
@@Ariel-hy4md how can you say that unless Yu know her personally but honestly sometimes our parents are good parents that try pushing us in the right way but being the person iam I regret not listening to my mom
I agree. It’s a lot of misplaced anger and healing that needs to take place. The young girl is acting out. They’re all angry due to unfortunate events. Neither of them are innocent.
As someone who was a troubled teen, I really like this, yes the daughter is acting ways she shouldn’t be but she needs someone to help understand her and to help correct those mistakes bcuz yelling doesn’t fix anything
I swear ! She gave no real valid reasoning to be acting like that and I been thru some terrible shi in my childhood and I never treated my mom like this even when we had our disagreements. I wish I was her big sister I’d give it to her 🤣
I agree. I felt he was too easy on her. Yes, agree to understand, Let her know she doesn't disrespect your mom like that, who is disabled. Her mother has been through alot.
I grew up with a physically disabled parent who became restricted to a wheelchair at the start of my life. one thing that I know from my experience is that it’s more than chores. he would ask me to do chores that we both could do- but would make it my responsibility simply because being fully abled made the task easier, no matter how busy I was. and that’s acceptable every once in a while- but when you have a parent who recently permanently disabled, and hasn’t yet fully processed what that means- there’s this whole grieving process, mental health and social dynamic shift in their lives. my dad for example, had so much going on he didn’t consider how much he was putting onto me. He spent my childhood depressed, so my dad glued to the couch for hours not willing to shift to his wheel chair, would shout across the house for me to bring him things, water, soda, cigarettes, lighters, remote, phone, ash tray, snacks, full plates of food, whatever you name it. He’d do this all day, 7 days a week. eventually, when I was still pretty young he forgot what please and thank you meant. so he’s screaming my name across the house, and ordering me to grab something, and not saying thank you, multiple times a day. oh and if I said “in a minute” or “gimme a second” he say “do what I said, right now,” and if I ever said no, he would lose his mind call me everything under the sun starting with disrespectful and lazy through the R-slur and fat. it didn’t matter if I was busy with literal homework, he’d expect me to stop what I was doing and wait on him like a maid. when I got older I realized the disrespect for me and my time I became “disrespectful” right back. my mouth never got as lethal as this girls, but if it had I would’ve put my safety at risk, as my father had gotten violent with me for saying less. it was definitely more than chores because my chores where all still expected along with waiting on him hand and foot while he also expected perfection from a child because I was abled and it should be “easy.” I also noticed how the mom blew a fuse when the daughter mentioned mace and was using more intimidating communication tactics with her daughter in that moment and It was just way too familiar for me. as well the mother expecting the daughter to have adult responses mentally and emotionally while expecting her to stay in a child’s place socially. This may not be the same as my situation, but there is definitely so much more to this dynamic that I don’t think the daughter has the maturity or words to articulate yet. I hope they both get the long term help they need.
EXACTLY !! This little girl is showing her defense mechanism against her mom. Her mom was trifling before she got shot, then once she hit that wheelchair, oh buddy boy, it was on! She is about to let the world know she does not appreciate this hand that has been dealt to her and it starts with her 14 year old kid that she wants to become an adult with everything except having sex. Poor kid. Her mother made her into that monster. You see her dial it back once she was shown some respect though.
Stop no I don’t know what show u all are looking at but ur situation was bad I feel sorry that u had to face that but her mom asking her to do normal chores that an able parent would ask a child if that was my mom she wouldn’t have to ask it would be already done knowing she couldn’t walk every again where is the love for her mother and the respect where I believe and feel she loves her daughter but that disrespect it’s not in the nature of a parent too put up with that disrespect from ur child and why would u give that disrespect too ur parent disable or not.
That lil girl taking advantage of the fact that her mother in a wheel chair.. it ain’t just about the mother being mad about getting shot. She grown as hell
Did you hear that the mother mace's her child and just look at the way we all felt bad for her when she first started talking. We were definitely on her side when her daughter opened her mouth (at least the daughter didn't put on a show). The daughter pushed the right buttons and the 'real' mum came out.... no more sympathetic, sweet momma. The way she spoke to her 14 y/o was atrocious, smh. You give respect to get respect AND parents are their children first teachers PERIOD. Seems to me she is raising the child to be a carbon copy of her. That child is hurting.
I don't agree. We can clearly see the mother's behavior. It's clear her daughter is acting out and mirroring her mom. She isn't taking advantage she is trying to figure it out. This child wants love from her mom and she isn't getting it. The mother is Stuck in anger due to being paralyzed
Exactly and the sad part is these weirdos on here making it seem like the mom is wrong.. Kamaro is a weirdo too because nobody should talk to their mother the way this girl is the worst
@@Quietaskept461Adults say stuff they don't mean all the time. You are taking about a literal child. Moms and dads still need to lead by example and earn their child's respect even though they are parents. Macing your child is crazy. That's wild. That child should go live with relatives or something because that is not normal discipline.
@@vixen_0072and you think it was okay for the daughter to crack a hit on her mothers head with a bottle because she told her to clean up…simple things any 13-14 should be doing. you sound mad ignorant! why should she give up her child because she’s in a wheel chair? there are thousands of parents who chair bound and STILL take care of their kids. the daughter just no longer has respect for her mom because she knows her mom can’t do anything. why would the mother give her out of control daughter to another relative. are you okay? don’t you think she’s just going to act the same way either way?! if she’s doing this to her own mom then she’ll do the same to anyone else. i’ve been in a house with parents, cousins, aunts, uncles, whatever and they call cursed and you know what I did as a kid and still now as a 20 year old? respect my elders. just because my mother is cursing around the house did not give me the opportunity or option to do the same because she’s a grown adult. I respected and still respect my mother and all family members and anyone else older than me.
Yep. My mom has a coldness for me and I didn't start stealing til 18 because I was denied stamps, was staying with someone who didn't share food or get groceries, and I had to survive til I found a job.
The mom is still dealing with the trauma of the shooting, and now, being a woman with a disability. She's got a lot of anger and can't hear anything. She wants to be mad at her daughter. She needs to deal with her anger. She is struggling to accept her Disability. Its heart breaking and it's a journey. I hope she heals. I feel so bad for the daughter, she's 14 years old. She's a child.
@@egujuga She should be held accountable no one is saying she shouldn’t. It also starts with the mother children are a reflection of the parent, her mom is angry and children can feel that and they grow up in it and then they become angry from being in a hostile environment and they’re both feeding off of each other. The only real way to fix this would be to separate them it’s both of their fault, the majority also falls on the mother because she’s an adult she’s the parent and she allowed that kind of environment to fester which yes she’s human but she also held the responsibility to have a healthy environment for the children, and the mother doesn’t want to accept any fault for her raising her daughter to be the way she is.
❤❤❤🎉🎉 yes he will take the time to get to the root with the kids and make them feel heard and gives them the respect and I can relate but you know you not right and you know better and let's do better. The mom is being rude and she needs to learn how check that attitude and the mom needs to be educated that's the bottom line with the mom she needs to be educated.
@@thizz7074girl hush! She needs to be in juvenile court for Stealing and acting a damn fool in school! The police won't be Karamo when she gets time for the crime! Learn now before it's too late!! Y'all say anything for degenerate behavior!
I was diagnosed with rheumatoid arthritis during the first the first lockdown and my eldest son who is now 15 really couldn't handle what was happening to me so he rebelled and went into himself. he never spoke to me like that but he changed big time. i saw it and i embraced what he was feeling and i found him the help he needed to get through it.. now he is much happier in himself because he is armed with the tools he needs when it all becomes to much for him. i am so proud so him. Watching these two made me so sad cus that little girl just wants her feelings and experience validated. i think mum is still so angry about what happened and i get it. it took me a minute to understand that i had to grieve my former self. it has been hard accepting that this is the new me. i understand where both are coming from. i do pray they both try and listen to one another and begin to heal
exactly! the daughter seems like she was raised well! look how they both came dressed and the pictures of the family before. it’s obvious the daughter is just using her mom being paralyzed as advantage to do anything she wants and the fact her mom can’t do anything about it makes her upset. telling her child to do simple chores but yet the daughter gets mad…
But if the mom can’t even respect her child just as a human being how will she be able to model that for her daughter? She’s rude because thats what she knows how to be but when mom starts talking you start to see what’s happening.
Sometimes kids do those things as a cry for help. The little girl did not get a mouth like that out of the blue or attitude out of the blue, her demeanor mirrors her mother's. They are both carrying a lot of anger, the family needs so much help
The mom is cursing back…the daughter brought her to down to her level. She is a child don’t do that. When you act like her she is going to treat her like everyone else in her life!
Mom hasn't healed from what happened to her. It changed all of their lives! Her daughter is at that crazy age. I pray for them to find peace & healing.
He had to remember he had cameras on him😂😂…cause baby the way I would have flew over there🤨..WHO TF U TALKING TO LIL ASS GIRL😡I WILL GLADLY DO WHAT YO MAMA CANT DO WITH ALL RESPECT ✊🏾
I can't believe how he just validated all of her bad, disrespectful behaviors. He just handed her an entire License For Bad Behavior!! This is how pipelines to prison begins!!!!!!
@@cathryncoleman6460why do some adults have 0 sympathy for a child’s situation. She witnessed a violent home invadion at a young age, watched her mom become disabled, had to take up all the households roles and look after her younger sibling. She was a kid who was made to act like an adult, that along with her mum cussing her out and belittling her. Y’all just see her as any other kid, when she’s not. This is the problem with blk people we don’t care for a kids wellbeing and mental health, and always expect 100% from a kid after doing the bare minimum or even less than it.
As a child who’s mom was paralyzed from the waist down when I was 8..I could never. Karamo didn’t acknowledge the hurt of the mother. That is why the mother is hurting. She laughed during her apology. As a child who is now an adult. I would never..this behavior was unacceptable and it wasn’t made clear enough from Karamo for me.
Exactly he’s making it all about the mom and it’s wild. The daughters behavior is disgusting, zero compassion and empathy for her own mother. I thought there was something super traumatic the mom did but it all boiled down to cleaning up????? This is crazy
@@biggerthanlyfe9853 exactly and her mother was not perfect but look how the child talks to adults immediately without much provocation. The mother has trauma of her own while trying to still be a mother. She could have literally had some sympathy.. “stand on that, oh you can’t” my mama woulda snatched me up so good right while she in that chair. She even laughed during the apology which KARAMO DIDN’T even acknowledge!! Painted the mother as if she is just so unforgiving..she was hurt and while the pain was on her face that child laughed. Found it humorous that her mother feels shame and disappointment.
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Shit probably happen no kid unless they got mental issues gon act like that outta the blue ....she either saw her mom acting that way or smth happen that we dk bout
She also knows that her mom isnt ready to forgive. So he ce the coping mechanism. Her mom is causing trauma to her unknowingly. Putting your child down , talking crazy to them that will cause a child to not react properly. I know from experience.
The smiling is usually a coping mechanism…… it usually because the daughter feels embarrassed about her past actions and not that she found it funny……. My daughter does the same thing when I call her out, she smiles because she feels embarrassed and that I can SEE her. It’s her coping mechanism, so let’s not make this lil girl out to be that she was not genuine. Learn human behaviour people, it will make your judgements of others less harsh
I hate that s*** too and society will sit here and blame her mother but her mother said she has been doing that s*** to her for years and like she said if she wasn't in that wheelchair she wouldn't be popping off like that.. mom said she is getting worse..
Parenting is the hardest occupation on earth. but when you are injured and broken physically and mentally and they are all that you have.. frustrations, tears, cursing, mean words, manipulations spicy emotions and brokenness comes out more often than. kindness and niceness. *hurt people hurt people* and everyone needs help because the entire family is crushed & broken.
Y’all have got to stop blaming the mom all the way. The daughter came in rude asf in the beginning. Yes them mom probably has a big part into why she speaks that way but the way these kids are today, you could have a angel as a mother and they’ll STILL act this way.
@@Ghostaredead watch the video again and you come back and tell me what should he have done differently besides making excuses and saying she just a kid watch the video again
@@Ghostaredead make sure next time when you comment at me make sure your using the right word plus I’m not gonna go back and forth with you in these comments cause that’s something I don’t do like i said and imma say it again watch the video and you tell me what you think he should’ve done differently besides making excuses for the girl thank you 🙏🏾 💯
@@isaiahmiles5642 you obviously have difficulty reading! I Never made any excuses for her! I just asked you a question and it’s clear you don’t have an alternative way for him to handle it. Lol
Imagine experiencing a home invasion, seeing your siblings shot and your mother ended up paralyzed. Karamo empathised with her because he sees a very hurt and traumatised child. She was expected to be "normal" about something so deep that adults break down over. Her attitude towards her mother and the audience is unresolved defensive anger and she only gives her mother the same energy back. I pray that they can heal from this.
Fr I see too many people in these comments hating on the FOURTEEN YEAR OLD for not knowing how to deal with trauma!! Everybody in this family needs therapy asap
@maddo_2197 it's not hating on the little girl that I see. I have dealt with all types of traumatized children, but there is a difference in trauma, and thinking you're grown and being disrespectful!!! This child issues aren't just she's traumatized, she doesn't want to wash dishes and clean, because she looks as her mother as if she is interrupting her free time. And he shouldn't tell the girl that knows what she wants, he should ask her
@@MONTANABOSSBshame! Shame on you and all the people who don’t understand that this girl is a CHILD! If this happened to your family, I don’t think you’d bounce back like everything is ok. This girl has ptsd too! But her feelings get disregarded because she can still WALK?! No ma’am. The mind is very fragile, more fragile than bones and unfortunately it gets overlooked bc the scarring isn’t always visible.
this show is sort of like therapy trying to help people. when i was forced into therapy at exactly her age because of many household issues that were out of my control, i sat there with the therapist smirking too. it’s a way to cope, she’s in survival mode and smirking and laughing is how she shows her suffering bc her household and nervous system taught her not to cry and put up walls exactly like the behavior her mother was displaying. it’s so insane how everyone wants to call her a brat when the mother is the role model. her family went through a traumatic event, and that little girl was the one who found her mother in that state. imagine being that young and seeing your mother physically wounded and having to call 911. imagine the panic she also felt. the whole household felt the same things. it’s not easy to go through something like that at any age, i can see it’s not easy for the mother at all but SHE admitted that when it all happened she started to become very angry with everyone; how do you expect her daughter not to display the same behaviors? the daughter didn’t have a safe space to process. clearly her mother didn’t have a space to process either, but at your early teens you don’t exactly know or can reach out for help, so her mother should’ve been the first to do so as soon as possible. please re-evaluate.
I took it more as she nervous laughs. Not all kids are the same. Some not gonna smirk but others being put on stage being told to say sorry infront of 100+ ppl will get nervous and feel uncomfortable so they hide behind the laugh.
This is just crazy. I would never, ever disrespect my mom in my lifetime or hers. And best believe if I acted like this my mom would gain the strength to get up from that wheelchair.😭🧍🏽♀️
Well why would she when she had the choice not to bring her in this wicked ass world knowing she can't protect her from everything and everyone but still choose to
@@latonyanixon2189she cares . She's a child, I'm only 21 y'all gotta grow up stop stopping to children's levels to one up. Your not in competition. Karamo should have told the mother to be vulnerable at that moment to where the daughter can FEEL her pain, instead of disregarding it. Mother gives out tough love, and knowing that mama if she was standing this will be a totally diff story.
@@samsonmcshay8542 I’m 43 and she doesn’t give a 💩 just like i don’t give a 💩 about your reply because it wasn’t towards you so stop trolling and learn how to spell first
@@samsonmcshay8542I agree, the daughter has a mask on from the pain and trauma and her having to carry a huge weight on her shoulders at such a young age. Hopefully she grows out of that and matures.
@@rapalotkidasya3743she smiled when he validated her feelings and after she laughs she keeps a smile on her face despite the fact people are upset the mom then when he said she needed to work on it she avoided eye contact and wasn’t smiling anymore clearly she hates her mom (could be because of the trauma and not how she actually feels and her stealing could be her way of “getting back” at her mom) or wants to get back at her
7:57 The mom seems toxic… everyone feels sorry for the mom because she’s in a wheel chair but I see beyond that. That little girl has a lot to deal with.
@@ohana317 This bay just wants to be a kid. The mother is aggressive and its not helping. Just because she's in a wheelchair doesn't mean her mothering responsibilities should be passed down to the eldest child. Yes her daughter is disrespectful but we can see where she gets that from
jus cause everyone goes through sum don't mean they can't express their emotions, she's expressing it aggressively because her mother is aggressive, she got it from her mother. who else would she learn such behavior???
This breaks my heart and pisses me off. My mom was paralyzed from the waist down. The best mom in the world and she passed in the pandemic. I miss her so much. I pray this family can come together..😢
Eh... but I'm sure your mom didn't behave in this manner... I'm sure your mom allowed you to still be you and not belittle you like this woman did to her daughter on national tv
This is the son of the mother you seen on this video, I must say your sadly right. She doesn't see her as her daughter anymore. She always wishes she dies and stuff like that after arguments she always starves her but as her big brother I try my best to feed her and help my mom at the same time. It's stressful.
OMG , THIS LITTLE GIRL IS GROWN AS HELL , I'M 50 AND I COULD NEVER TALK TO MY MOTHER LIKE THIS, I DON'T EVEN CURSE IN FRONT OF MY MOTHER, THIS IS DOWN RIGHT RIDICULOUS !
@@Kikabubblyscrub my mother cursed at me and loved me as well. The Bible says honor thy mother and thy father and thay days may be long upon the land. Someone told me once when I was younger, we were Never promised parents with no faults. Our parents have fun and so do we I’ve never met a person who’s not done something or said they shouldn’t have.
She laughed during her "I'm sorry", so i understand why mom is mad as hell. She didn't mean that nor would i think it was genuine. Karamo thinks he was getting through with this child but, she put on what he wanted to see. That's clear. They both need to heal. Especially mother from the trauma. She's still angry and hurt and doesn't know how to channel any of that in the right way.
I feel like laugh because she knows her mother I bet that wasn’t the first time she said she was sorry. I think she laugh to keep from being hurt , rejected and torn down
You are so right. I’m four years older than her and I can tell that “sorry” wasn’t genuine. In our generation, she might’ve thought of it as a smart insult that would’ve made other kids her age laugh. But she said this to her MOTHER. I also understand how her mother influenced her behavior and all that she went through. They both need to learn to heal, respect each other, and understand each other to have a better relationship. And I know the mom has some things that she needs to fix, but that girl is SO disrespectful not only to her mom but to other people like the audience and her teachers. I bet she thinks that she’s right about everything and she didn’t do anything wrong. But yeah, it starts with the mom because she learned that from the mom.
@@willdee-st6ubNobody said the daughter wasn’t rude or disrespectful. But the mother didn’t respect her by being there. Her mother admitted to being a mean person after the shooting. Of course her daughter is mean towards her as well. It’s a response to disrespect. Your child deserves respect just as much as their parents do. You don’t get respect when you call your child a biatch and a wh0re.
@@willdee-st6ub What do you mean?? By pointing out the mom's behavior? Callin' her daughter the b word is something we should look over & just pin everything on the daughter? Alright bookie..
She really fooled this man into thinking she a victim I hate the fact that people don’t realize kids are just as manipulative and conniving as adults sometimes even worse 😂 some kids are just bad and want to be like they bad ahh lil friends, I can assure you 100% that this is the case for this young lady.
@@censored817 yea that’s true, but I was raised in a similar household, and still knew my place as a child and would never disrespect my parents or any adult in that way maybe it’s because I was raised by a single father instead of a single mother, either way, around this age I knew right from wrong, I seen how other peoples households worked and I had the internet in my hands, I knew enough to know that outside influence is just as effective as inside influence
Her mom is dealing with a lot, being shot and in a wheelchair. I don’t care WHAT the mother says she is a child. That is what’s wrong , these new age parents and this new age parenting. It’s not working. My mom was a beast and so would have never and I’m not mad about it.
@@pri.unfiltered fooled ? lets be real BW are always in competition with their daughters... the daughters are treated differently from the boys!!!!!!!!!!!!! she put the responsibility on her damn kid
She is really is tired of her daughter…. I get it! Some people can verbally break you til the point they are 💀 to you and I get that vibe from the mother
I think he tries his best to teach a lesson while not fueling the flames- he keeps the anger down so that they can have a meaningful conversation. It’s not as “entertaining” to see people work things out calmly, but it’s clear that both of those ladies have been hurt and he didn’t want to add to that by being overly harsh to them especially in front of an audience.
She needs Maury for this one. He’s coming from a place of trying to validate the girl. Therefore he can get her to realize her behavior. However tough love is needed here. He is validating her bad behavior. So he gives that to the little girl but coming hard on the mom. Sometimes you have to match their energy.
Uh uh he’s not right at all. We’re parents but these kids needs to understand we’re humans too and have our own battles we facing. These kids nowadays aren’t built like we were. They are entitled ungrateful and disrespectful
Definitely didn’t he made the daughter feel like it cool in a way he should have told her she shorting her days when she disrespect her mom and you only get one mom and once she gone she gone it’s nothing she can get back she gone wish one day she never said that and done that
This is the comment that I was looking for. I honestly think the mother is upset and unreal that she’s in a wheelchair and there’s nothing that she can do about it because she’s just stuck on one comment that her daughter made which was the stand on it I forgot you can’t stand on it.
I’m so sorry mom. You are surely a living miracle. To have a child disrespecting you like that is one of the most hurtful things she could do. She was happy that things went her way. Some of these kids nowadays are something else and not in a good way. Keep your head up. That child doesn’t need someone who is going to give her a slap on the wrist, because when she stand before a judge he definitely won’t. She needs to learn the hard way. Then she’ll be crying for mom. I pray for this entire family.
I've actually been in the same school as Mei'lan since 3rd grade and we were in the same class in 5th & 6th grade. She was known as the class clown that was always getting into fights and arguing/yelling with teachers. I haven't seen her since 7th grade, but when this video randomly popped up and I saw her face, I was so shocked. I've never known her personally but hearing about her family's situation is heartbreaking. I didn't see the full episode yet, but I'll definitely be praying for her and her family :((
Shot 9 times and survived? Truly a miracle she’s alive. Her daughter will wake up one day and realize how blessed she is seeing her mother is still with her
im tryna be what im destined to be
I remember my little sister called herself grown just because she had a baby. And I am the oldest my mother beat my little sister like she was a stranger on the STREETS. And believe me when I tell y’all this I BET she NEVER EVER TRY IT AGAIN. 1 thing about my MOTHER she’s NOT to be PLAYED WITH. She always told us NEVER EVER TAKE HER FOR OUR FRIENDS.
AMEN!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
And niggas trying to take my life away
It's not her time God has her here for a reason
“Oh I forgot you can’t “ is a crazy thing to say wow
Nawl fr my jaw dropped when she said that
That was funny as hell ngl i said worse to my demonic mom
😢😢😢what a mean thing to say
EVIL
Shes playing up.because her mother is agressive and nasty
Nope. Blaming the mom all the time is CRAZY !!!!! Some kids really are smart enough to manipulate
She's really a product of her own mother... the mommy is hurt and she thinks so little of herself that she thinks other people see her that way 😢
The mother is the leader. She carried her in her womb. Whatever dark spirit she had when she carried her is in her daughter. Looking at her energy on the show, it's obvious that she's a bad mother. She doesn't love her daughter and her daughter knows it. That's why her daughter is treating her this way. She's mirroring her energy.
I agree. Children don't talk to their parents like that just because they are teenagers.
Frr
@@KtotheGActually a mother and father are leaders. Men pass demonic entities as well. God frees if we ask. Stop blaming parents for choices that an able minded person makes. Are your parents responsible for Every choice you made?
“Stand on it, oh I forgot you can’t” is absolutely disgusting let alone disrespectful! 😡😡😡😡😡
The daughter's apology wasn't genuine because she kept smiling. The mother feels helpless because she's immobile.
You know sometimes smiling doesn’t means that you don’t care it can be a way on how you process things.
That apology was clearly without feeling.
The daughter is afraid to be vulnerable with her mom. She knew her mom wasn’t going to accept it so she kept her guard up.
Tbf where do u think the daughter learnt it from
People smile when they feel uncomfortable, afraid, nervous, unsafe, etc. To come on stage and be that vulnerable about your trauma at 14 years old alongside a mother who is so angry and unwilling to model forgiveness and healthy behavior... I do not blame her for smiling. It was uncomfortable and she likely did not feel safe. You know what the daughter did do though? The daughter TRIED. Which is more than I can say for the mother. She TRIED to reach out. She TRIED to apologize. She tried. Even though it likely was not comfortable. Please remember that this is a traumatized CHILD. It would behoove all of us to not pass judgement, attack, or hold her to adult standards, especially when they adults in her life don't even hold themselves to the same standard.
I fully believe if ur momma wasn’t in that chair , she would have her child under control 😭
i do too
Exactly I agree with you 100%
Agreed !!!!!
Its not always about physical control , the toxicity would still be there.
I agree
Child is hella disrespectful, but as we can all see, she do get it from her mama. Mom is ANGRY for what happened to her and her son as she should be. That incident would be traumatizing for all of us. Before she can have a relationship with her daughter, mom needs therapy to gain coping skills. I wish this family healing.
They all dealing with it her seeing it and her being shot
Her mother got shot and went through a mental breakdown.
Yup the stages of grief for the lost of her independence and mobility.
@@ariamason9324 yep and that’s why what she said hurt her so much!!!And she was smiling while saying it look how she talk to the audience
@@PLEASURE_MeMeand her daughter coming out the room to see her family shot wasn’t traumatizing as well?
“Stand on it…..Oh wait you can’t” MY JAW DROPPED 😬
she don’t need karamo. she needs BEYOND SCARED STRAIGHT
I’m my SOUuUuUlLl
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Exactly !
Frrr
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I don’t like how the mom’s feelings are getting disregarded. She has a valid reason to be angry. The daughter is a brat and is beyond disrespectful.
Agreed I was like dang it seems the mom not getting no type of support.
It's because she's coming across very hood. She's the reason her child is that way. She didn't grow her up in a functioning family. Legs or not they would have been there. She thinks violence would give her respect, when love and respectability also can breed respect.
This child needs good disciple, she is damn rude!
@Cynicole you are so true
True
If I was talking to my mom like that she would’ve stood up that day 😂😂
Onmmm
😂😂😂😂 not gonna yie
Hunny mine would’ve climbed out her grave and put me face first right in her place. 🤦🏽♀️
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You all nailed it on the head. I would not and cannot accept an insincere apology. If you are going to apologize with a smile on your face, then you might as well keep that apology. That was an extremely cruel thing to say to your mother. I was 14 years old and I never disrespected my mother. And my mother has never been an easy person to deal with. But I am almost 60 years old and I can say that I have never disrespected my mother.
"stand on that, oh i forgot you cant" is crazy😭
😂😂😂😂😂 that shit was crazy
What’s the time stamp
That girl lucky she had breath after that comment. Woke up the next bc my mama booy...! I bet not close my eyes if I said something like that to my mama under the circumstances
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Time stamp?
as a girl who used to act the same way, she definitely know what she doing, she just don’t care .
Thank you! Look at her hiding barely her smile. I have a pity for the mother
Glad someone said it! That doesn’t excuses the mom’s behavior, but she’s definitely taking advantage of a situation. She’s going to look back and feel so horrible.
Exactly, I agree
I’m so glad you can look back at the old you and I’m so proud of you
i can agree and i never smiled when i had my little phase and i apologized and had a sit down talk with my mom. She knows for sure !!! she is just very young now she will realize she is hurting herself more by continuing to be disrespectful
my mom was shot 9xs too and left in a wheelchair. there is no way in the world my brothers and i would do any of this to my mom. sometimes i feel like she asks us to do a lot but it’s just regular household chores. this girl needs major counseling and the mother needs counseling too. there are so many layers of trauma here
Speak!
I'm so sorry that happened to you. You will reap your reward by taking care of your mother. All the best to you.
U and her are NOT the same 💕
God bless you for appreciating and loving on your mom bc we only get one. Unfortunately my mom was shot too when I was 10 but she didn’t survive. Cherish her daily bc you all are truly blessed to still be able to see her beautiful face🙏🏽🫶🏽
Ok, I’m sorry to hear dat, but did you hear the way she was talking to her Daughter? I probably wouldn’t be AS disrespectful but ima have my disrespect bc I can’t take dat. Nd know y’all r not the same ppl. Like I said I’m sorry to hear all of dat but still
This really made me cry. 😢 I feel sorry for the mother and child. Both were robbed of something special. The mom is angry for what happened to her and the teenager is mad because she lost a piece of her mother. My grandmother was shot over 9 times and paralyzed when I was 8, she died 2 years ago when I was 34. I watched her be angry so many days because of her circumstances but none of her grandchildren disrespected her. I feel for this family😢😢
I was shot twice by the grace of God .. By the Grace Of God I'm able to walk around ... I'm sorry 😔. I hope your family heals properly 🙏🏾
That apology with the smile and laugh. I wouldn't accept it either.
Me too
The laugh was after her mama denied it.
@@anastasiaxawhy would you accept it if she’s over there smirking? The mother shouldn’t have blown up at her, but this is likely because she’s been through this before where this girl doesn’t follow up with her apologies. And who knows, that smirk may have been seen before and just triggered the mother. The girl laughing is understandable but only if she actually meant that apology, but there’s no way of telling, even for the mother, if she’s smirking through an apology
@@lavoniaholloway1245that smirk says it all. The child knows everybody is gonna think she is acting up because she is a child and that's how she has always gotten away with crapping on her mama. And she has a very unhealthy taste for seeing her mama helpless.
@@gbengaodunusi9704 you never know the full story, even If this were the case she has a mental problem, dissing a literal child does nothing they are still learning about the world
This is so sad because you can tell they’re both dealing with unhealed trauma and they don’t know how to deal with it so they fight :(
That’s basically it.
You said it!!
Exactly, there both dealing with stuff
Very well said 👏🏼
this is the first balanced comment i've seen. they're two DEEPLY scarred people who need to get better.
She’s so disrespect & cringey she’s gonna look back on this and feel so embarrassed 🤦🏿♀️
The stupid part is she thinks this makes her look cute right here.
@@TF-gf3fsright with them busted braids and edges if you stealing stuff use it to make you look better
On the Internet forever..
Facts 🤦🏽♀️🤦🏽♀️🤦🏽♀️
See I was coming to see which person this was about because honestly the mother was more disgusting in my eyes. Then I see more people calling a CHILD out her name so clearly there’s no hope for anyone.
She doesn't know how lucky she is too have her mother....I am 61 & I still cry for my mother RIP '07 she passed.....HAVE MERCY!!!
Mother hasn't accepted what happened to her, and neither has she healed from it. The daughter was put into a situation that took away her childhood. They both had to accept and heal from the situation
Making her accountable for chores is not stealing her childhood. She needs to BE a child and get her tail in school. The mom has built up aggression. The entire family needs counseling.
@@FeliciaTorres-gv9vy i think the original poster is referring to the fact she saw her mother get shot and paralyzed as well as her brother. that ruins a childhood, especially when nobody is healing from it. she had to call the police to save her mother and brother. that’s a lot and maybe what made her think she’s browner than she really is and that’s unfair to her but she’s not understanding that she has to heal that pain to thrive the way she wants to.
*growner
@trinastafford6306 the mother is a paraplegic. It matters not that she is 14 she is a child and for now her mother's condition has to take precedent. The is child rude, disrespectful, expelled from school, steala etc there is no way i as a parent will accept this level of disrespect. No way.
This daughter is not realizing that this mom is done on all platforms the daughter is cold and she will see in life her ways
Not her telling the audience stfu and then saying "On my soul" is crazyyyyy 💀
she wanna go viral so bad 😂😂😂😂😂😂
Her cursing, her tone, the eye rolliing…she is beyond disrespectful.
She get it all from her mom
Most these lil girls now & days feel obligated have no respect or morals
@@Ariel-hy4md how can you say that unless Yu know her personally but honestly sometimes our parents are good parents that try pushing us in the right way but being the person iam I regret not listening to my mom
I agree. It’s a lot of misplaced anger and healing that needs to take place. The young girl is acting out. They’re all angry due to unfortunate events. Neither of them are innocent.
@@3j-f418 this exactly god bless🙏❤️
As someone who was a troubled teen, I really like this, yes the daughter is acting ways she shouldn’t be but she needs someone to help understand her and to help correct those mistakes bcuz yelling doesn’t fix anything
That mother is going through it. My heart goes out to her and her children
Stand on it????? She would’ve been standing right in the foster care system.
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You hear me!!!!!!!! Stand on being a foster child.
This ‼️
The daughter is mad disrespectful and as a teen myself she has no reason for coming out the mouth the way she does. Her mom needs personal therapy.
I swear ! She gave no real valid reasoning to be acting like that and I been thru some terrible shi in my childhood and I never treated my mom like this even when we had our disagreements. I wish I was her big sister I’d give it to her 🤣
I agree, but she's in pain. Bit they both need help
Agreed
I agree. I felt he was too easy on her. Yes, agree to understand, Let her know she doesn't disrespect your mom like that, who is disabled. Her mother has been through alot.
I definitely agree with you love. And the mother isn’t any better for talking to the daughter like she’s another adult out in the street.
I grew up with a physically disabled parent who became restricted to a wheelchair at the start of my life. one thing that I know from my experience is that it’s more than chores.
he would ask me to do chores that we both could do- but would make it my responsibility simply because being fully abled made the task easier, no matter how busy I was. and that’s acceptable every once in a while- but when you have a parent who recently permanently disabled, and hasn’t yet fully processed what that means- there’s this whole grieving process, mental health and social dynamic shift in their lives.
my dad for example, had so much going on he didn’t consider how much he was putting onto me. He spent my childhood depressed, so my dad glued to the couch for hours not willing to shift to his wheel chair, would shout across the house for me to bring him things, water, soda, cigarettes, lighters, remote, phone, ash tray, snacks, full plates of food, whatever you name it. He’d do this all day, 7 days a week.
eventually, when I was still pretty young he forgot what please and thank you meant. so he’s screaming my name across the house, and ordering me to grab something, and not saying thank you, multiple times a day. oh and if I said “in a minute” or “gimme a second” he say “do what I said, right now,” and if I ever said no, he would lose his mind call me everything under the sun starting with disrespectful and lazy through the R-slur and fat. it didn’t matter if I was busy with literal homework, he’d expect me to stop what I was doing and wait on him like a maid. when I got older I realized the disrespect for me and my time I became “disrespectful” right back. my mouth never got as lethal as this girls, but if it had I would’ve put my safety at risk, as my father had gotten violent with me for saying less. it was definitely more than chores because my chores where all still expected along with waiting on him hand and foot while he also expected perfection from a child because I was abled and it should be “easy.”
I also noticed how the mom blew a fuse when the daughter mentioned mace and was using more intimidating communication tactics with her daughter in that moment and It was just way too familiar for me. as well the mother expecting the daughter to have adult responses mentally and emotionally while expecting her to stay in a child’s place socially. This may not be the same as my situation, but there is definitely so much more to this dynamic that I don’t think the daughter has the maturity or words to articulate yet. I hope they both get the long term help they need.
Wow that is a lot to endure as a child. Thank you for giving another point of view 😢
that was really insightful, thanks for sharing that
Your so strong 😢.
EXACTLY !! This little girl is showing her defense mechanism against her mom. Her mom was trifling before she got shot, then once she hit that wheelchair, oh buddy boy, it was on! She is about to let the world know she does not appreciate this hand that has been dealt to her and it starts with her 14 year old kid that she wants to become an adult with everything except having sex. Poor kid. Her mother made her into that monster. You see her dial it back once she was shown some respect though.
Stop no I don’t know what show u all are looking at but ur situation was bad I feel sorry that u had to face that but her mom asking her to do normal chores that an able parent would ask a child if that was my mom she wouldn’t have to ask it would be already done knowing she couldn’t walk every again where is the love for her mother and the respect where I believe and feel she loves her daughter but that disrespect it’s not in the nature of a parent too put up with that disrespect from ur child and why would u give that disrespect too ur parent disable or not.
That lil girl taking advantage of the fact that her mother in a wheel chair.. it ain’t just about the mother being mad about getting shot. She grown as hell
Facts! She’s a little butt head.
I disagree
Did you hear that the mother mace's her child and just look at the way we all felt bad for her when she first started talking. We were definitely on her side when her daughter opened her mouth (at least the daughter didn't put on a show). The daughter pushed the right buttons and the 'real' mum came out.... no more sympathetic, sweet momma. The way she spoke to her 14 y/o was atrocious, smh. You give respect to get respect AND parents are their children first teachers PERIOD. Seems to me she is raising the child to be a carbon copy of her. That child is hurting.
Es miss kassy I red ur comment and ur rite d saying goes like like daughter is like d mother,,,,,, blessings
I don't agree. We can clearly see the mother's behavior. It's clear her daughter is acting out and mirroring her mom. She isn't taking advantage she is trying to figure it out. This child wants love from her mom and she isn't getting it. The mother is Stuck in anger due to being paralyzed
Why do I feel Karamo isn't fair on the mum. That woman is really hurt and her daughter also needs help. She's wild!!!
Can't you see that her daughter is mirroring her. That's why it's mothers fault.
This woman has been on a dating show....she did not mention her son being shot also....she has a very nasty attitude.
@@Ronni-hh1vj she doesn't need to tell everything. It's about her and her daughter 🤷🏽♀️
If she keep on behaving like this she gonna have kids with thugs.
Her daughter need to respect her what if she was in the wheelchair her mom wouldn't treat her like that
That smirky apology definitely wasn’t enough for mom. That’s why she snapped. But mom also had this coldness in her heart for her daughter. Sad.
Exactly and the sad part is these weirdos on here making it seem like the mom is wrong.. Kamaro is a weirdo too because nobody should talk to their mother the way this girl is the worst
@@Quietaskept461bc they came on here to heal so they BOTH need to heal and shes the PARENT
@@Quietaskept461Adults say stuff they don't mean all the time. You are taking about a literal child. Moms and dads still need to lead by example and earn their child's respect even though they are parents. Macing your child is crazy. That's wild. That child should go live with relatives or something because that is not normal discipline.
@@vixen_0072and you think it was okay for the daughter to crack a hit on her mothers head with a bottle because she told her to clean up…simple things any 13-14 should be doing. you sound mad ignorant! why should she give up her child because she’s in a wheel chair? there are thousands of parents who chair bound and STILL take care of their kids. the daughter just no longer has respect for her mom because she knows her mom can’t do anything. why would the mother give her out of control daughter to another relative. are you okay? don’t you think she’s just going to act the same way either way?! if she’s doing this to her own mom then she’ll do the same to anyone else. i’ve been in a house with parents, cousins, aunts, uncles, whatever and they call cursed and you know what I did as a kid and still now as a 20 year old? respect my elders. just because my mother is cursing around the house did not give me the opportunity or option to do the same because she’s a grown adult. I respected and still respect my mother and all family members and anyone else older than me.
Yep. My mom has a coldness for me and I didn't start stealing til 18 because I was denied stamps, was staying with someone who didn't share food or get groceries, and I had to survive til I found a job.
The smirk on her face is a dead giveaway that there’s nothing genuine about her apology. I wouldn’t except it either.
who else here from tiktok 😂😂
Me lol 😂
Me lmao , this lil girl needs some straightening 😂😂😂
Me 😂😂
Me 😂
Meee
The mom is still dealing with the trauma of the shooting, and now, being a woman with a disability. She's got a lot of anger and can't hear anything. She wants to be mad at her daughter. She needs to deal with her anger. She is struggling to accept her Disability. Its heart breaking and it's a journey. I hope she heals. I feel so bad for the daughter, she's 14 years old. She's a child.
her being 14 don't mean she should not be held accountable for the bs they do and they know it's wrong
@@egujugayou under everybody comments you must be the mom 💀💀
@@egujuga she is modeling her mother and her mothers anger her mother is 1000000% at fault for how her daughter is
@@egujuga She should be held accountable no one is saying she shouldn’t. It also starts with the mother children are a reflection of the parent, her mom is angry and children can feel that and they grow up in it and then they become angry from being in a hostile environment and they’re both feeding off of each other. The only real way to fix this would be to separate them it’s both of their fault, the majority also falls on the mother because she’s an adult she’s the parent and she allowed that kind of environment to fester which yes she’s human but she also held the responsibility to have a healthy environment for the children, and the mother doesn’t want to accept any fault for her raising her daughter to be the way she is.
Both need to be held accountable regardless of their ages !
The way Karamo can get through to people is AMAZING!! Truly gifted.
Gives me chills every time he goes straight to the heart (issue) 🏆🥇
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Yesss
❤❤❤🎉🎉 yes he will take the time to get to the root with the kids and make them feel heard and gives them the respect and I can relate but you know you not right and you know better and let's do better. The mom is being rude and she needs to learn how check that attitude and the mom needs to be educated that's the bottom line with the mom she needs to be educated.
@@thizz7074girl hush! She needs to be in juvenile court for Stealing and acting a damn fool in school! The police won't be Karamo when she gets time for the crime! Learn now before it's too late!! Y'all say anything for degenerate behavior!
I was diagnosed with rheumatoid arthritis during the first the first lockdown and my eldest son who is now 15 really couldn't handle what was happening to me so he rebelled and went into himself. he never spoke to me like that but he changed big time. i saw it and i embraced what he was feeling and i found him the help he needed to get through it.. now he is much happier in himself because he is armed with the tools he needs when it all becomes to much for him. i am so proud so him. Watching these two made me so sad cus that little girl just wants her feelings and experience validated. i think mum is still so angry about what happened and i get it. it took me a minute to understand that i had to grieve my former self. it has been hard accepting that this is the new me. i understand where both are coming from. i do pray they both try and listen to one another and begin to heal
She was rude before her mom was. She’s rude in school, she’s stealing out of stores and all the mom wants is for her daughter to respect her!
She probably lacks respect for authority because how her mom handled/handles her before and after the incident
exactly! the daughter seems like she was raised well! look how they both came dressed and the pictures of the family before. it’s obvious the daughter is just using her mom being paralyzed as advantage to do anything she wants and the fact her mom can’t do anything about it makes her upset. telling her child to do simple chores but yet the daughter gets mad…
Agree that’s a lil rotten helfa
But if the mom can’t even respect her child just as a human being how will she be able to model that for her daughter? She’s rude because thats what she knows how to be but when mom starts talking you start to see what’s happening.
Sometimes kids do those things as a cry for help. The little girl did not get a mouth like that out of the blue or attitude out of the blue, her demeanor mirrors her mother's. They are both carrying a lot of anger, the family needs so much help
The mom is cursing back…the daughter brought her to down to her level. She is a child don’t do that. When you act like her she is going to treat her like everyone else in her life!
They both need to help. I wish that Kamaro would have been able to get the mom some counciling, because mom can't do it on her own.
@@mykarma2..No she cannot.
She is a 14 yr old child.
All that smart azz talking...this is why I could not teach inner city schools.
Someone is going to do some damage to this little girl, if she does stop.....
Mom hasn't healed from what happened to her. It changed all of their lives! Her daughter is at that crazy age. I pray for them to find peace & healing.
The daughter didn’t mean it with all that smiling and laughing
Listen…. Karamo’s face when she told the audience “y’all can stfu too” he wanted to jump out that chair😂🤦🏽♀️
Omg.. I so peeped that.. that head tilt.. 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Crowd went crazy. Lol
He had to remember he had cameras on him😂😂…cause baby the way I would have flew over there🤨..WHO TF U TALKING TO LIL ASS GIRL😡I WILL GLADLY DO WHAT YO MAMA CANT DO WITH ALL RESPECT ✊🏾
She trying to have a, cash me outside moment. Lil girl ,stop frfr
@@simonasweet9085what’s worse is, she actually made a career from that. That’s insane
If mama wasn’t paralyzed she would have her under control I can tell.
You mean whoop her ..?
What? Cuz she’d be physically assaulting her instead of verbally abusing her
& her daughter knows it
Like for real the mom see through all that BS that little girl throwing karamo
Kids like this is very dangerous that mama better sleep with one eye open and one eye close like seriously
The apple doesn’t fall far from the tree! The daughter talks just like her mother!
you are supposed to learn from what they do and do better
Mom can’t even hear NOBODY but herself
@@egujugaok? She’s a child sthu
@@egujugahypocritical if the other person doing the same thing
@@egujuga She’s a child. She’s not in a stage in her life to do better than what she’s been taught by her parents.
Smh that little girl knows what she's doing. Damn give her mother some grace!
The young lady is very disrespectful and wrong. She has taken advantage of her mother's situation.
I can't believe how he just validated all of her bad, disrespectful behaviors. He just handed her an entire License For Bad Behavior!! This is how pipelines to prison begins!!!!!!
exactly
Yes That Part it's Shameful😓
@@cathryncoleman6460why do some adults have 0 sympathy for a child’s situation. She witnessed a violent home invadion at a young age, watched her mom become disabled, had to take up all the households roles and look after her younger sibling. She was a kid who was made to act like an adult, that along with her mum cussing her out and belittling her. Y’all just see her as any other kid, when she’s not. This is the problem with blk people we don’t care for a kids wellbeing and mental health, and always expect 100% from a kid after doing the bare minimum or even less than it.
I agreed so true no respect at all thought everything was funny
As a child who’s mom was paralyzed from the waist down when I was 8..I could never. Karamo didn’t acknowledge the hurt of the mother. That is why the mother is hurting. She laughed during her apology. As a child who is now an adult. I would never..this behavior was unacceptable and it wasn’t made clear enough from Karamo for me.
Exactly he’s making it all about the mom and it’s wild. The daughters behavior is disgusting, zero compassion and empathy for her own mother. I thought there was something super traumatic the mom did but it all boiled down to cleaning up????? This is crazy
@@biggerthanlyfe9853 exactly and her mother was not perfect but look how the child talks to adults immediately without much provocation. The mother has trauma of her own while trying to still be a mother. She could have literally had some sympathy.. “stand on that, oh you can’t” my mama woulda snatched me up so good right while she in that chair. She even laughed during the apology which KARAMO DIDN’T even acknowledge!! Painted the mother as if she is just so unforgiving..she was hurt and while the pain was on her face that child laughed. Found it humorous that her mother feels shame and disappointment.
Karamo failed miserably! He was more on the daughter’s side who showed no remorse for her actions.
exactly & don’t make it about the child regardless of the matter that child needs to have respect my mother would’ve have me looking for my teeth
I agree 💯
Her daughter said “stand on it . . . . oh you *CANT* 😮 I would’ve needed Jesus
Nah cause I bet I would've got up from that wheelchair though on everything.
Jesus loves you all ✝️❤️🙏🏾 Repent 💖 HE took upon himself all sins of humanity so you could be forgiven 🥰Surrender and give your life to HIM 🙏🏾 HE will heal all your pain 💖🙌🏾
Gurl that's deep and says alot.... I seen videos of them that daughter needs help and mom needs counseling
Imagine all of the nasty things her mother told her. But y'all don't care about that part.
Shitttt I would’ve needed more than Jesus 🤣
She ain’t have to tell her “stand on it oh i forgot you can’t” that’s beyond crazy
I feel this mother. That little girl is rude and disrespectful as hell.
Exactly
FRLLLL and I would never be that disrespectful to my mother
Shit probably happen no kid unless they got mental issues gon act like that outta the blue ....she either saw her mom acting that way or smth happen that we dk bout
Exactly!!!
Because that poor woman’s daughter thinks that she’s faking being a wheelchair user, when really she is not at all! 😡
The fact that she said sorry while smiling just means that she’s not serious 😭😭
She also knows that her mom isnt ready to forgive. So he ce the coping mechanism. Her mom is causing trauma to her unknowingly. Putting your child down , talking crazy to them that will cause a child to not react properly. I know from experience.
She is a kid the mother needs to toughen up she is the adult if she weak the kids will continue to do her bad she needs parenting classes
wasnt so sure... the fact there iin court is serious
The smiling is usually a coping mechanism…… it usually because the daughter feels embarrassed about her past actions and not that she found it funny……. My daughter does the same thing when I call her out, she smiles because she feels embarrassed and that I can SEE her. It’s her coping mechanism, so let’s not make this lil girl out to be that she was not genuine. Learn human behaviour people, it will make your judgements of others less harsh
@@talye 🗣️👏🏾👏🏾they don’t know thanks for making it simple for their simple minds
I hate when lil girls think this behavior is cute and acceptable
Wheeeeeew chilllle mine would be tore up I want to say something but 😡😡
Her mom is very disrespectful. She didn’t get here by herself
@@krystalbobbett5175Yea and I’d call cps because we not about to fight 14 year olds.
She thinks it’s “cute” and “acceptable” because of the way her mom talks to her. I’d think it’s acceptable when my own family acts like it is.
I hate that s*** too and society will sit here and blame her mother but her mother said she has been doing that s*** to her for years and like she said if she wasn't in that wheelchair she wouldn't be popping off like that.. mom said she is getting worse..
Parenting is the hardest occupation on earth. but when you are injured and broken physically and mentally and they are all that you have.. frustrations, tears, cursing, mean words, manipulations spicy emotions and brokenness comes out more often than. kindness and niceness. *hurt people hurt people* and everyone needs help because the entire family is crushed & broken.
Y’all have got to stop blaming the mom all the way. The daughter came in rude asf in the beginning. Yes them mom probably has a big part into why she speaks that way but the way these kids are today, you could have a angel as a mother and they’ll STILL act this way.
I agree
An
So true
Exactly! 💯
Yo!! she should have been a West Indian we don’t play tht.
Please get that poor girl some help. Seeing my mama in a wheel chair is no joke. It sets her off big time. That family NEEDS emotional support😢
I'm in a wheelchair
The daughter is a mirror of her mother. Change your behavior, and then she will change hers. It starts with you, MOTHER!!
A lot of people are missing this. Solely blaming the child. That scares me🤧
This is a tragedy that affects so many families and communities. So much pain and not enough learning of how to react and deal with life. So sad!
@@alinaspears7893And blaming the mother alone is the way to go, i guess?
@ChangingMyFutureADayAtATimeyou are unserious 😭
Watch your mouth; so disrespectful 😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢
“Stand on it is crazy”… smh that’s probably one of the most hurtful thing you can say to your mother when shes wheelchair
That girl is disrespectful Karamo did not handle that correctly at all
So is the mother! What should he have done differently?
@@Ghostaredead watch the video again and you come back and tell me what should he have done differently besides making excuses and saying she just a kid watch the video again
@@isaiahmiles5642 you made the statement not me! Lol wtf your response says it all .
@@Ghostaredead make sure next time when you comment at me make sure your using the right word plus I’m not gonna go back and forth with you in these comments cause that’s something I don’t do like i said and imma say it again watch the video and you tell me what you think he should’ve done differently besides making excuses for the girl thank you 🙏🏾 💯
@@isaiahmiles5642 you obviously have difficulty reading! I Never made any excuses for her! I just asked you a question and it’s clear you don’t have an alternative way for him to handle it. Lol
Imagine experiencing a home invasion, seeing your siblings shot and your mother ended up paralyzed. Karamo empathised with her because he sees a very hurt and traumatised child. She was expected to be "normal" about something so deep that adults break down over.
Her attitude towards her mother and the audience is unresolved defensive anger and she only gives her mother the same energy back. I pray that they can heal from this.
Fr I see too many people in these comments hating on the FOURTEEN YEAR OLD for not knowing how to deal with trauma!! Everybody in this family needs therapy asap
@maddo_2197 it's not hating on the little girl that I see. I have dealt with all types of traumatized children, but there is a difference in trauma, and thinking you're grown and being disrespectful!!! This child issues aren't just she's traumatized, she doesn't want to wash dishes and clean, because she looks as her mother as if she is interrupting her free time. And he shouldn't tell the girl that knows what she wants, he should ask her
Finally the correct way to respond to trauma.
I agree 10000%
@@MONTANABOSSBshame! Shame on you and all the people who don’t understand that this girl is a CHILD! If this happened to your family, I don’t think you’d bounce back like everything is ok. This girl has ptsd too! But her feelings get disregarded because she can still WALK?! No ma’am. The mind is very fragile, more fragile than bones and unfortunately it gets overlooked bc the scarring isn’t always visible.
That little girl is smirking. We are in a different time, she doesn’t care. She’s clearly fooling Karamo.
coming from a girl 2 years older than her who was a troubled child, ur comment is extremely valid
this show is sort of like therapy trying to help people. when i was forced into therapy at exactly her age because of many household issues that were out of my control, i sat there with the therapist smirking too. it’s a way to cope, she’s in survival mode and smirking and laughing is how she shows her suffering bc her household and nervous system taught her not to cry and put up walls exactly like the behavior her mother was displaying. it’s so insane how everyone wants to call her a brat when the mother is the role model. her family went through a traumatic event, and that little girl was the one who found her mother in that state. imagine being that young and seeing your mother physically wounded and having to call 911. imagine the panic she also felt. the whole household felt the same things. it’s not easy to go through something like that at any age, i can see it’s not easy for the mother at all but SHE admitted that when it all happened she started to become very angry with everyone; how do you expect her daughter not to display the same behaviors? the daughter didn’t have a safe space to process. clearly her mother didn’t have a space to process either, but at your early teens you don’t exactly know or can reach out for help, so her mother should’ve been the first to do so as soon as possible. please re-evaluate.
And is she’s young and heartless
Yes. She is nasty and rude. Seems heartless too
I took it more as she nervous laughs. Not all kids are the same. Some not gonna smirk but others being put on stage being told to say sorry infront of 100+ ppl will get nervous and feel uncomfortable so they hide behind the laugh.
This is just crazy. I would never, ever disrespect my mom in my lifetime or hers. And best believe if I acted like this my mom would gain the strength to get up from that wheelchair.😭🧍🏽♀️
I do Agree...
The fact that he’s blaming her mom is crazy.. this lil girl don’t have a damn about her mom .. and he knows this
Don’t give not 2 💩💩
Well why would she when she had the choice not to bring her in this wicked ass world knowing she can't protect her from everything and everyone but still choose to
@@latonyanixon2189she cares . She's a child, I'm only 21 y'all gotta grow up stop stopping to children's levels to one up. Your not in competition. Karamo should have told the mother to be vulnerable at that moment to where the daughter can FEEL her pain, instead of disregarding it. Mother gives out tough love, and knowing that mama if she was standing this will be a totally diff story.
@@samsonmcshay8542 I’m 43 and she doesn’t give a 💩 just like i don’t give a 💩 about your reply because it wasn’t towards you so stop trolling and learn how to spell first
@@samsonmcshay8542I agree, the daughter has a mask on from the pain and trauma and her having to carry a huge weight on her shoulders at such a young age. Hopefully she grows out of that and matures.
no way the daughter is smiling like that the whole time. i couldnt take an apology from someone like that while they smiling about it too...crazy
I agree these weirdo people on here making it seem like how the daughter is acting is okay..
Nahh it's because she's still immature.... nobody's saying it's okay.
laughing is sometimes a coping mechanism… notice how when she was talking to karamo when her mom left she didn’t laugh or smile.
@@rapalotkidasya3743she smiled when he validated her feelings and after she laughs she keeps a smile on her face despite the fact people are upset the mom then when he said she needed to work on it she avoided eye contact and wasn’t smiling anymore clearly she hates her mom (could be because of the trauma and not how she actually feels and her stealing could be her way of “getting back” at her mom) or wants to get back at her
OMGGG? “ oh i forgot u can’t “ IS INSANE 😭😭😭😭😭😭
da way she kept repeating was fmuuuu😂😂😂😂😂
7:57 The mom seems toxic… everyone feels sorry for the mom because she’s in a wheel chair but I see beyond that. That little girl has a lot to deal with.
@@iamthemissinglink9101 what really did you just say that wow hope that never happens to you
Everybody goes through something, this lil girl needs a reality check🤦🏾♀️
Or maybe you need a hug too
@@ohana317 This bay just wants to be a kid. The mother is aggressive and its not helping. Just because she's in a wheelchair doesn't mean her mothering responsibilities should be passed down to the eldest child. Yes her daughter is disrespectful but we can see where she gets that from
And a therapist!! Add communit service. Mom needs healing from the trauma.
jus cause everyone goes through sum don't mean they can't express their emotions, she's expressing it aggressively because her mother is aggressive, she got it from her mother. who else would she learn such behavior???
@@refmokobe7698 stfu if I was her mom " your getting kicked out " like wtf she said " stand up on that oh I forgot you can't" like wtf
This breaks my heart and pisses me off. My mom was paralyzed from the waist down. The best mom in the world and she passed in the pandemic. I miss her so much.
I pray this family can come together..😢
That’s scary ending up paralyzed from the waist down can’t even imagine that’s like limb loss but paralysis is worse than losing a limb
@@elijahmcdonald1349 I totally agree
Eh... but I'm sure your mom didn't behave in this manner... I'm sure your mom allowed you to still be you and not belittle you like this woman did to her daughter on national tv
Sorry for your loss
I’m sorry for your loss ❤
She no longer views her as her daughter anymore she's done with her you can just see it
yea the dynamic switched. she sees her as a girl as a street same as the daughter
This is the son of the mother you seen on this video, I must say your sadly right. She doesn't see her as her daughter anymore. She always wishes she dies and stuff like that after arguments she always starves her but as her big brother I try my best to feed her and help my mom at the same time. It's stressful.
@@Narly_0I'm sorry you and your family are going through this
It's shameful and look how humble she became when karomo spoke to her with love and understanding.
@@Narly_0I’m so sorry to hear that
Karamo is SO understanding omg. I love the way he tells them he understands them. Because the way that little girl was talking I was losing patience🤣
OMG , THIS LITTLE GIRL IS GROWN AS HELL , I'M 50 AND I COULD NEVER TALK TO MY MOTHER LIKE THIS, I DON'T EVEN CURSE IN FRONT OF MY MOTHER, THIS IS DOWN RIGHT RIDICULOUS !
Did your mother curse at you growing up?
I'm 65 never disrespect my parents.
@@Kikabubblyscrub my mother cursed at me and loved me as well. The Bible says honor thy mother and thy father and thay days may be long upon the land. Someone told me once when I was younger, we were Never promised parents with no faults. Our parents have fun and so do we I’ve never met a person who’s not done something or said they shouldn’t have.
when that lil girl said watch your mouth to her mama I lost it😬
Sad
Thiss!!!
Girl smh
Frlll when my mom saw this on facebook she said she wanted to jump through the phone and smack the luh girl.
Me too cuz wtf u talking too
She laughed during her "I'm sorry", so i understand why mom is mad as hell. She didn't mean that nor would i think it was genuine. Karamo thinks he was getting through with this child but, she put on what he wanted to see. That's clear. They both need to heal. Especially mother from the trauma. She's still angry and hurt and doesn't know how to channel any of that in the right way.
I feel like laugh because she knows her mother I bet that wasn’t the first time she said she was sorry. I think she laugh to keep from being hurt , rejected and torn down
People nervous laugh all the time during tricky
I believe she laughed to keep from crying. 😢
You are so right. I’m four years older than her and I can tell that “sorry” wasn’t genuine. In our generation, she might’ve thought of it as a smart insult that would’ve made other kids her age laugh. But she said this to her MOTHER. I also understand how her mother influenced her behavior and all that she went through. They both need to learn to heal, respect each other, and understand each other to have a better relationship. And I know the mom has some things that she needs to fix, but that girl is SO disrespectful not only to her mom but to other people like the audience and her teachers. I bet she thinks that she’s right about everything and she didn’t do anything wrong. But yeah, it starts with the mom because she learned that from the mom.
the laugh was prolly cause she js felt uncomfortable. karamo said it as well!
The daughter's laugh just tore deeper than the original insult. Can't imagine living with the quality of life the mom lacks having.
I guarantee you the school is NOT lying about her behavior. She’s extremely belligerent & disrespectful. Unreal!!
And her mother isn’t? That’s where she learned it from….smh
@@inyouressenceby your comments you supporting this rude diabolical daughter actions
@@willdee-st6ubNobody said the daughter wasn’t rude or disrespectful. But the mother didn’t respect her by being there. Her mother admitted to being a mean person after the shooting. Of course her daughter is mean towards her as well. It’s a response to disrespect. Your child deserves respect just as much as their parents do. You don’t get respect when you call your child a biatch and a wh0re.
Shes hurting
@@willdee-st6ub What do you mean?? By pointing out the mom's behavior? Callin' her daughter the b word is something we should look over & just pin everything on the daughter? Alright bookie..
Karamo face killed me . “ i did all that work for nothing “ 😂😂😂😂
It’s not funny.
Cryn 😂🤣
@@kathconservit is
The mother is the issue too. This disrespect happened prior to the shooting.
WHEN SHE SAID “Y’all can shut the f*ck
up too , on my soul “ I FEEL DOWN ON MY FLOOR LAUGHING SO HARDDD😂😂😭😭
😭😭😭 On my soull
I wouldn't have teeth 😂
That child has some demons. She really needs to be prayed for. God help that family
In the name of Jesus
God help that entire family.
If there was a god maybe his/her ass should’ve stopped the shooting? Just maybe?
The bloodline has demons! People are so surprised when their kids act out as if they don't know where it comes from.
THIS IS THE SAME WOMEN WHO LIED TO DUTCHESS ON BLACK INK NYC ABOUT CEASER MAKING HER SISTER GET AN AB*ORTION😂😂! SOME PEOPLE WILL DO ANYTHING FOR VIEWS
She really fooled this man into thinking she a victim I hate the fact that people don’t realize kids are just as manipulative and conniving as adults sometimes even worse 😂 some kids are just bad and want to be like they bad ahh lil friends, I can assure you 100% that this is the case for this young lady.
AMEN
FACTSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSS, you said it 😅
But he is right also ... She talks exactly like her mom they obviously from the hood ifykyk where is her father....
@@censored817 yea that’s true, but I was raised in a similar household, and still knew my place as a child and would never disrespect my parents or any adult in that way maybe it’s because I was raised by a single father instead of a single mother, either way, around this age I knew right from wrong, I seen how other peoples households worked and I had the internet in my hands, I knew enough to know that outside influence is just as effective as inside influence
Some of these kids need to be in a scared straight program like shows used to do back in the day.
The mom is kinda rude as well, it’s not 100 percent her fault but the apple doesn’t fall far from the tree
Just said the same thing! Totally agree!
Def the mom’s fault. Children mock behavior so she definitely got it from her
Yh cause she is going back and forth with her like she’s grown/her equal. She talk like her 🤷🏾♀️
Kinda rude!?
Her mom is dealing with a lot, being shot and in a wheelchair. I don’t care WHAT the mother says she is a child. That is what’s wrong , these new age parents and this new age parenting. It’s not working. My mom was a beast and so would have never and I’m not mad about it.
"stand on it oh yh i forgot u cant" killed me💀
the way she talk w/ her mom vs just karamo…. speaks volumes
Yes…..
!!
NOBODY seems to get this!!!!
don’t be fooled😌
@@pri.unfiltered fooled ? lets be real BW are always in competition with their daughters... the daughters are treated differently from the boys!!!!!!!!!!!!! she put the responsibility on her damn kid
Let her leave when she is 18. Let her see what life is all about. She is so rude and disrispectful to her other. What a brat!
Did you even watch the video
That child ain’t disrespectful she just overworked and tired and her mom don’t treat her nicely
Let her leave NOW!! Eff 18!
@@glossedbyki9277she dont even do chores and she do whatever she want💀 wym she over worked
She is really is tired of her daughter…. I get it! Some people can verbally break you til the point they are 💀 to you and I get that vibe from the mother
I green but hold the mom accountable. The daughter is pain and the mom cuees her what does that fix 🤪s?
“Stand on it oh wait u can’t.” HAD ME DEAD😂
KARAMO DID NOT DO HIS JOB! BY NOT PUTTING THAT LIL GIRL IN HER PLACE
He’s always pacifying this situation it get on my nerves
I think he tries his best to teach a lesson while not fueling the flames- he keeps the anger down so that they can have a meaningful conversation. It’s not as “entertaining” to see people work things out calmly, but it’s clear that both of those ladies have been hurt and he didn’t want to add to that by being overly harsh to them especially in front of an audience.
She needs Maury for this one. He’s coming from a place of trying to validate the girl. Therefore he can get her to realize her behavior. However tough love is needed here. He is validating her bad behavior. So he gives that to the little girl but coming hard on the mom. Sometimes you have to match their energy.
Uh uh he’s not right at all. We’re parents but these kids needs to understand we’re humans too and have our own battles we facing. These kids nowadays aren’t built like we were. They are entitled ungrateful and disrespectful
Definitely didn’t he made the daughter feel like it cool in a way he should have told her she shorting her days when she disrespect her mom and you only get one mom and once she gone she gone it’s nothing she can get back she gone wish one day she never said that and done that
PLEASE when she didn’t accept the apology I screamed
LMFAOOOO 😭😭😭
I think sometimes Koramo excuses these teenagers bad behavior. They are bad kids, just admit it
they really not i was like this because i was so hurt in the mother know what she doing😢so whenever the girl apologized she would laugh
@@AjaiFields-u6cno i've seen girls that act like her, They take advantage of situations. If her mom wasnt in a wheelchair she wouldn't be acting out
@@Ren_Bon ehh but yall blaming it all on her when she's a reflection of her mother hall gotta stop
It’s more to it though these new age parents are something else
He does
As a mother, being hurt by a child that grew within you after dealing with a traumatic LIFE CHANGING event is a pain beyond words. 😢
Karamo please bring them back for an update after they've had some Counseling and growth!!! Oh and prayer!!! Whewww lots of prayer!!❤❤❤🙏🙏
It scares me that this girl will be let loose in society- I hope she and her family get the help they need after living through all that trauma
Mom needs counseling she’s bitter about her being paralyzed and she’s not in control. I feel bad for her because she’s not ready. Sad sad sad
Shut up. That child is clearly getting a thrill from overpowering her own mom
This is the comment that I was looking for. I honestly think the mother is upset and unreal that she’s in a wheelchair and there’s nothing that she can do about it because she’s just stuck on one comment that her daughter made which was the stand on it I forgot you can’t stand on it.
I’m so sorry mom. You are surely a living miracle. To have a child disrespecting you like that is one of the most hurtful things she could do. She was happy that things went her way. Some of these kids nowadays are something else and not in a good way. Keep your head up. That child doesn’t need someone who is going to give her a slap on the wrist, because when she stand before a judge he definitely won’t. She needs to learn the hard way. Then she’ll be crying for mom. I pray for this entire family.
She went from being so sweet an maybe misunderstood to SUPER DISRESPECTFUL!!!!
Girl: “And y’all could stfu too”
Audience: “Ohh 👏👏👏👏”
😩😩😂😂 That was their literal response!
No brain. People applaud bad behaviour. Foolish.
on my soul
@@its.aaliyah08get outtttt 😂🤣😂🤣
It was more like Ohhhh😮🙃🤨
That child is having a traumatic inbalace, she needs psychological help.
So does the Mom 😘🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
“Oh I forgot you can’t” is S tier disrespect. Definitely need to keep that one in my back pocket 😂😂😂
“Stand on it, oh, i forgot you can’t.” HAS MY CRYING WHAT?! 😭
LITERALLY PLSSS LIKE “I FORGOT YOU CANT” 🤣😭😭🤣🤣
😭😭😭😭😭that caught me completely off guard
Yeah tf I'm pissed tf off
Yeah that Little girl cringed asf😭 it’s like she trying to hard with all that eye rolling n neck rolling😂😂😂😂😂
I've actually been in the same school as Mei'lan since 3rd grade and we were in the same class in 5th & 6th grade. She was known as the class clown that was always getting into fights and arguing/yelling with teachers. I haven't seen her since 7th grade, but when this video randomly popped up and I saw her face, I was so shocked. I've never known her personally but hearing about her family's situation is heartbreaking. I didn't see the full episode yet, but I'll definitely be praying for her and her family :((
ha momma need to let me n my cousins at ha she ain’t neva gone disrespect another adult again after this😭😂