I'm Paralyzed & My Daughter Is Downright Cruel! | KARAMO

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  • Опубліковано 9 тра 2024
  • Chloe is a survivor of a tragic shooting that left her paralyzed from the waist down but now feels like she's struggling to save her daughter's life. Meh'lan is a teen acting like an adult who has been downright cruel to her mother, telling her to "stand on it, oh I forgot you can't." Chloe demands her children respect her, wheelchair or not, but Meh'lan says her mother is twisting the truth. This family has experienced a major tragedy, can Karamo help this mother and daughter heal their relationship?
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  • @Cydnicole
    @Cydnicole 26 днів тому +2844

    I don’t like how the mom’s feelings are getting disregarded. She has a valid reason to be angry. The daughter is a brat and is beyond disrespectful.

    • @josephinebrooks4249
      @josephinebrooks4249 25 днів тому +150

      Agreed I was like dang it seems the mom not getting no type of support.

    • @rihannahaiti5570
      @rihannahaiti5570 25 днів тому

      It's because she's coming across very hood. She's the reason her child is that way. She didn't grow her up in a functioning family. Legs or not they would have been there. She thinks violence would give her respect, when love and respectability also can breed respect.

    • @debbieasemota2965
      @debbieasemota2965 25 днів тому +79

      This child needs good disciple, she is damn rude!

    • @cynthiafrench4411
      @cynthiafrench4411 25 днів тому +7

      @Cynicole you are so true

    • @queenofheart99999
      @queenofheart99999 24 дні тому +3

      True

  • @sedariamatthews301
    @sedariamatthews301 28 днів тому +5855

    I fully believe if ur momma wasn’t in that chair , she would have her child under control 😭

  • @pinkapplebottoms-
    @pinkapplebottoms- 18 днів тому +769

    "stand on that, oh i forgot you cant" is crazy😭

    • @Matt-ro1rx
      @Matt-ro1rx 17 днів тому +11

      😂😂😂😂😂 that shit was crazy

    • @cassidybostick4567
      @cassidybostick4567 16 днів тому +1

      What’s the time stamp

    • @jazzmonvincent4904
      @jazzmonvincent4904 15 днів тому +11

      That girl lucky she had breath after that comment. Woke up the next bc my mama booy...! I bet not close my eyes if I said something like that to my mama under the circumstances

    • @sanaa1922
      @sanaa1922 14 днів тому

      @@cassidybostick4567 0:39

    • @Beekeeper-wu4bh
      @Beekeeper-wu4bh 13 днів тому

      Time stamp?

  • @juliannamariee_
    @juliannamariee_ 19 днів тому +222

    my mom was shot 9xs too and left in a wheelchair. there is no way in the world my brothers and i would do any of this to my mom. sometimes i feel like she asks us to do a lot but it’s just regular household chores. this girl needs major counseling and the mother needs counseling too. there are so many layers of trauma here

    • @rachelchandler3308
      @rachelchandler3308 16 днів тому +2

      Speak!

    • @angelacleveland75
      @angelacleveland75 12 днів тому +4

      I'm so sorry that happened to you. You will reap your reward by taking care of your mother. All the best to you.

    • @KIANA..
      @KIANA.. 11 днів тому +3

      U and her are NOT the same 💕

    • @separateifyoucantrelate.
      @separateifyoucantrelate. 10 днів тому +1

      God bless you for appreciating and loving on your mom bc we only get one. Unfortunately my mom was shot too when I was 10 but she didn’t survive. Cherish her daily bc you all are truly blessed to still be able to see her beautiful face🙏🏽🫶🏽

    • @Theyfw_layia
      @Theyfw_layia 6 днів тому

      Ok, I’m sorry to hear dat, but did you hear the way she was talking to her Daughter? I probably wouldn’t be AS disrespectful but ima have my disrespect bc I can’t take dat. Nd know y’all r not the same ppl. Like I said I’m sorry to hear all of dat but still

  • @aidenloudermill8754
    @aidenloudermill8754 29 днів тому +10554

    who else here from tiktok 😂😂

  • @ashleybrown7752
    @ashleybrown7752 29 днів тому +3993

    “Oh I forgot you can’t “ is a crazy thing to say wow

  • @berryberry_1
    @berryberry_1 17 днів тому +169

    If I was talking to my mom like that she would’ve standed up that day 😂😂

  • @Mz-Denise-2472
    @Mz-Denise-2472 22 дні тому +182

    Mom hasn't healed from what happened to her. It changed all of their lives! Her daughter is at that crazy age. I pray for them to find peace & healing.

  • @kholynwilson1360
    @kholynwilson1360 26 днів тому +1751

    Nope. Blaming the mom all the time is CRAZY !!!!! Some kids really are smart enough to manipulate

    • @nokuthulajele9709
      @nokuthulajele9709 26 днів тому +89

      She's really a product of her own mother... the mommy is hurt and she thinks so little of herself that she thinks other people see her that way 😢

    • @KtotheG
      @KtotheG 25 днів тому +63

      The mother is the leader. She carried her in her womb. Whatever dark spirit she had when she carried her is in her daughter. Looking at her energy on the show, it's obvious that she's a bad mother. She doesn't love her daughter and her daughter knows it. That's why her daughter is treating her this way. She's mirroring her energy.

    • @cynthiafrench4411
      @cynthiafrench4411 25 днів тому +42

      I agree. Children don't talk to their parents like that just because they are teenagers.

    • @Butterfly-yk9bw
      @Butterfly-yk9bw 25 днів тому +1

      Frr

    • @BS-kf7ge
      @BS-kf7ge 24 дні тому +12

      @@KtotheGActually a mother and father are leaders. Men pass demonic entities as well. God frees if we ask. Stop blaming parents for choices that an able minded person makes. Are your parents responsible for Every choice you made?

  • @Ramon-fv6be
    @Ramon-fv6be 28 днів тому +4095

    she don’t need karamo. she needs BEYOND SCARED STRAIGHT

  • @SymbolicMetaphors
    @SymbolicMetaphors 12 днів тому +33

    That apology with the smile and laugh. I wouldn't accept it either.

  • @Jadanotwaydaa
    @Jadanotwaydaa 21 день тому +133

    Y’all missing a really big part in their problem . It would be different if mom were innocent and didn’t act or speak like she does . You can see it clear as day that the daughter is a reflection of her mom. Unfortunately not the good side . When a child acts like this it’s because they have no respect for the person they’re disrespecting. What everybody wants to do is blame her for her disrespect instead of asking why is there disrespect? This is why the daughter feels misunderstood.

    • @Jadanotwaydaa
      @Jadanotwaydaa 21 день тому +31

      We’re so quick to just think people are just supposed to be a certain way . That baby just needs a better influence. Mom already said it herself that what she went through basically shaped her attitude. Shouldn’t be raising no kid with that attitude unless you want them to turn just like that …..

    • @Z_aire
      @Z_aire 21 день тому +1

      This! ^^^^

    • @xxiroman2546
      @xxiroman2546 15 днів тому

      Right on the nail ! And the fucked up part is they’re more like this with there daughters and not the boys and than be the first to be like my sons don’t act like my daughters do🤌🏽 swear moms be the first to create bitter black women and dependent ass men 🤌🏽

    • @theyluv_evie9964
      @theyluv_evie9964 12 днів тому +5

      @@Jadanotwaydaafinally someone who said it I’ve been going thru these comments and they just disgust me saying they would put there kid in foster care and shit like this girl has been thru some shit and was forced to grow up faster then other kids she took in things her mother said and became just like her mother causing her to say disrespectful things to her mother . A kid doesn’t just come out the womb calling there mom a bitch and sh they learn that shit from someone and most of the time it’s there parents .

    • @angelacleveland75
      @angelacleveland75 12 днів тому +1

      I hear you...but mama grown.

  • @ashleyomega9569
    @ashleyomega9569 29 днів тому +4829

    She’s so disrespect & cringey she’s gonna look back on this and feel so embarrassed 🤦🏿‍♀️

    • @TF-gf3fs
      @TF-gf3fs 29 днів тому +336

      The stupid part is she thinks this makes her look cute right here.

    • @lovelywilson2112
      @lovelywilson2112 29 днів тому +148

      @@TF-gf3fsright with them busted braids and edges if you stealing stuff use it to make you look better

    • @lesley5380
      @lesley5380 29 днів тому +82

      On the Internet forever..

    • @essence____beauty_92
      @essence____beauty_92 29 днів тому +18

      Facts 🤦🏽‍♀️🤦🏽‍♀️🤦🏽‍♀️

    • @gabiburns2289
      @gabiburns2289 29 днів тому +141

      See I was coming to see which person this was about because honestly the mother was more disgusting in my eyes. Then I see more people calling a CHILD out her name so clearly there’s no hope for anyone.

  • @burnethaelliott5317
    @burnethaelliott5317 28 днів тому +1725

    The daughter's apology wasn't genuine because she kept smiling. The mother feels helpless because she's immobile.

    • @NBC09
      @NBC09 27 днів тому +103

      You know sometimes smiling doesn’t means that you don’t care it can be a way on how you process things.

    • @YonUndone3064
      @YonUndone3064 26 днів тому +67

      That apology was clearly without feeling.

    • @nyecore
      @nyecore 26 днів тому +91

      The daughter is afraid to be vulnerable with her mom. She knew her mom wasn’t going to accept it so she kept her guard up.

    • @gloopboop5103
      @gloopboop5103 26 днів тому +15

      Tbf where do u think the daughter learnt it from

    • @reannak
      @reannak 26 днів тому +39

      People smile when they feel uncomfortable, afraid, nervous, unsafe, etc. To come on stage and be that vulnerable about your trauma at 14 years old alongside a mother who is so angry and unwilling to model forgiveness and healthy behavior... I do not blame her for smiling. It was uncomfortable and she likely did not feel safe. You know what the daughter did do though? The daughter TRIED. Which is more than I can say for the mother. She TRIED to reach out. She TRIED to apologize. She tried. Even though it likely was not comfortable. Please remember that this is a traumatized CHILD. It would behoove all of us to not pass judgement, attack, or hold her to adult standards, especially when they adults in her life don't even hold themselves to the same standard.

  • @iamthemariam
    @iamthemariam 14 днів тому +31

    Why do I feel Karamo isn't fair on the mum. That woman is really hurt and her daughter also needs help. She's wild!!!

    • @Akua-hx3rb
      @Akua-hx3rb 5 днів тому +5

      Can't you see that her daughter is mirroring her. That's why it's mothers fault.

  • @Aykaitee
    @Aykaitee 18 днів тому +86

    She’s a direct reflection of her mother 🤷🏽‍♀️

  • @nancebug23
    @nancebug23 29 днів тому +3309

    Child is hella disrespectful, but as we can all see, she do get it from her mama. Mom is ANGRY for what happened to her and her son as she should be. That incident would be traumatizing for all of us. Before she can have a relationship with her daughter, mom needs therapy to gain coping skills. I wish this family healing.

    • @user-yo6ji6mt6t
      @user-yo6ji6mt6t 29 днів тому +51

      They all dealing with it her seeing it and her being shot

    • @user-bk7iq3ne7n
      @user-bk7iq3ne7n 29 днів тому +50

      Her mother got shot and went through a mental breakdown.

    • @ariamason9324
      @ariamason9324 28 днів тому +67

      Yup the stages of grief for the lost of her independence and mobility.

    • @user-yo6ji6mt6t
      @user-yo6ji6mt6t 28 днів тому +13

      @@ariamason9324 yep and that’s why what she said hurt her so much!!!And she was smiling while saying it look how she talk to the audience

    • @krisjackson6567
      @krisjackson6567 28 днів тому +21

      @@user-bk7iq3ne7nand her daughter coming out the room to see her family shot wasn’t traumatizing as well?

  • @anissagr523
    @anissagr523 29 днів тому +2076

    Stand on it????? She would’ve been standing right in the foster care system.

  • @jennyorell3646
    @jennyorell3646 21 день тому +129

    All of you guys fail to realize she is young 14 and her mom was shot and had to take all the responsibility of taking care of the house cleaning she has a younger sibling she definitely takes care of him ,she is not able to actually enjoy her teenage years and especially her school life seem she having a very stressful time and having a mental breakdown and her mother seems she has anger issue the daughter learn instead of crying or go out the way to please her mom THERE NOTHING TO ACTUALLY please or satisfy her , because she will always come of strong in a negative belittling shaming her criticizing her , not acknowledging or even consider and appreciate how her daughter doing what she can, it looks like the mom going against her own daughter and clearly got issues , she is a survivor n is traumatize but she it’s seems she’s punish her in a very toxic way .

    • @samanthadiior
      @samanthadiior 17 днів тому +14

      This is no reason to be kicked out of school. No reason to be disrespectful and cussing at her mom. No reason to dodge household responsibilities like chores. No reason to be disrespectful to the crowd either.
      This little girl is very angry and will lead to a life of destruction and chaos if she doesn’t break this generational curse of smart mouthery & toxicity. Terrible example for the younger brother.
      They both have TERRIBLE manners but this girl needs to pave her own way instead of thinking she knows everything & that she’s grown. Not cute!!
      Not all the moms fault either, the mom is matching her daughter’s energy as Karamo says.

    • @prod_EYES
      @prod_EYES 16 днів тому +19

      ⁠@@samanthadiioryou seriously could watch that entire video, read that whole comment and still say “theres no reason for…”? I can tell you aint never been abused by your parent. Its sickening the lack of empathy towards children adults have. It gets even worse when its their own children, parents have absolutely no empathy for their kids. How tf is the mom matching the daughters energy when the mother literally raised the daughter??

    • @kendramcbride1681
      @kendramcbride1681 16 днів тому +5

      Agreed. I dont care what hurtful things my kids may say ill always love them even when it hurts. Im sure the daughter is resentful due to having to take on so much most teenagers don't even have to worry about. Not only that, but Mom is clearly no angel. Daughter needs help so does Mom.

    • @t.s.1868
      @t.s.1868 15 днів тому

      I’m the oldest and have to take care of my younger siblings but I will never act like this towards my mom

    • @jazminejordan5009
      @jazminejordan5009 14 днів тому

      @@t.s.1868 How does your mom act tho? Bc her mom has just as much of a bad attitude as her.

  • @anyacamille
    @anyacamille 20 днів тому +104

    "on my soul" ..gurlll I would've ran onto that stage so fast ta bop ha in da head !!

  • @user-pg8zm5ml7x
    @user-pg8zm5ml7x 29 днів тому +780

    as a girl who used to act the same way, she definitely know what she doing, she just don’t care .

    • @abass4057
      @abass4057 29 днів тому +74

      Thank you! Look at her hiding barely her smile. I have a pity for the mother

    • @TraciTalent
      @TraciTalent 29 днів тому +115

      Glad someone said it! That doesn’t excuses the mom’s behavior, but she’s definitely taking advantage of a situation. She’s going to look back and feel so horrible.

    • @Megan.comyay
      @Megan.comyay 29 днів тому

      Exactly, I agree

    • @88parker
      @88parker 29 днів тому +24

      I’m so glad you can look back at the old you and I’m so proud of you

    • @faithmwanakatwe6267
      @faithmwanakatwe6267 29 днів тому +19

      i can agree and i never smiled when i had my little phase and i apologized and had a sit down talk with my mom. She knows for sure !!! she is just very young now she will realize she is hurting herself more by continuing to be disrespectful

  • @mstangoromeomike1
    @mstangoromeomike1 26 днів тому +411

    The young lady is very disrespectful and wrong. She has taken advantage of her mother's situation.

    • @cathryncoleman6460
      @cathryncoleman6460 23 дні тому +14

      I can't believe how he just validated all of her bad, disrespectful behaviors. He just handed her an entire License For Bad Behavior!! This is how pipelines to prison begins!!!!!!

    • @djdsmooth72
      @djdsmooth72 23 дні тому +4

      exactly

    • @roxannesmith1479
      @roxannesmith1479 21 день тому +2

      Yes That Part it's Shameful😓

    • @Afrogirrl
      @Afrogirrl 13 днів тому +4

      @@cathryncoleman6460why do some adults have 0 sympathy for a child’s situation. She witnessed a violent home invadion at a young age, watched her mom become disabled, had to take up all the households roles and look after her younger sibling. She was a kid who was made to act like an adult, that along with her mum cussing her out and belittling her. Y’all just see her as any other kid, when she’s not. This is the problem with blk people we don’t care for a kids wellbeing and mental health, and always expect 100% from a kid after doing the bare minimum or even less than it.

    • @user-go9hq9jp7v
      @user-go9hq9jp7v 11 днів тому

      I agreed so true no respect at all thought everything was funny

  • @JourniReeves561
    @JourniReeves561 22 дні тому +51

    The way she was smiling after she said a cuss word thinking she was cool and cute

    • @again9002
      @again9002 День тому

      The laugh came because her mother start to curse her after she apologize😂

  • @jazzlyric3407
    @jazzlyric3407 14 днів тому +23

    It’s crazy how ppl are blaming the child for how she acts but look how her mother acts 🤦🏾‍♀️

    • @jordynn21
      @jordynn21 14 днів тому +2

      u get respect when your respectful. if my child wanan be rude imma be rude back

    • @Jas-ly5fz
      @Jas-ly5fz 14 днів тому +5

      @@jordynn21that’s why a lot of ppl shouldn’t have kids..

    • @TheStickNodesBaddies
      @TheStickNodesBaddies 13 днів тому +3

      @@Jas-ly5fzu expect for the momma to just let her talk to her like that? Absolutely not, respect is earned not given. If you wannabe rude and disrespectful,i’ll match your energy. Yes the mom shouldn’t cuss at her child like that but it’s not right for the child to do it. The child thinks cause her moms in a wheelchair she can’t slap the taste out her mouth. I feel like the child would let her friends talk to her mom like that because she thinks it’s CUTE when it’s not.

    • @theyluv_evie9964
      @theyluv_evie9964 12 днів тому

      @@TheStickNodesBaddiesbut how is the kid supposed to change if the mom doesn’t the kid wants to change yu can see by just simply watching the video but the mom doesn’t try to talk to her kid respectfully and it shows .

    • @lonelymind5726
      @lonelymind5726 2 дні тому

      @@jordynn21 and youre not supposed to have kids if this is your mentality. she literally witnessed her momma and brother get shot.. then had to take care of everyone.. it doesnt warrant a lot but she couldve went through WAYY more .

  • @xoiewerdebaugh7051
    @xoiewerdebaugh7051 24 дні тому +723

    If mama wasn’t paralyzed she would have her under control I can tell.

    • @mersaidesmiller-breland9472
      @mersaidesmiller-breland9472 24 дні тому

      You mean whoop her ..?

    • @SimminWhileBlack
      @SimminWhileBlack 22 дні тому

      What? Cuz she’d be physically assaulting her instead of verbally abusing her

    • @X0Xcandace
      @X0Xcandace 21 день тому +20

      & her daughter knows it

    • @brandytaylor2121
      @brandytaylor2121 20 днів тому +4

      Like for real the mom see through all that BS that little girl throwing karamo

    • @brandytaylor2121
      @brandytaylor2121 20 днів тому +2

      Kids like this is very dangerous that mama better sleep with one eye open and one eye close like seriously

  • @Introverted_Genuine
    @Introverted_Genuine 29 днів тому +1360

    The daughter is mad disrespectful and as a teen myself she has no reason for coming out the mouth the way she does. Her mom needs personal therapy.

    • @TemprisBlow-Deloatch
      @TemprisBlow-Deloatch 28 днів тому +49

      I swear ! She gave no real valid reasoning to be acting like that and I been thru some terrible shi in my childhood and I never treated my mom like this even when we had our disagreements. I wish I was her big sister I’d give it to her 🤣

    • @auzy2u845
      @auzy2u845 28 днів тому +19

      I agree, but she's in pain. Bit they both need help

    • @Kevdog1920
      @Kevdog1920 28 днів тому +2

      Agreed

    • @AngelaHarrelson
      @AngelaHarrelson 27 днів тому +8

      I agree. I felt he was too easy on her. Yes, agree to understand, Let her know she doesn't disrespect your mom like that, who is disabled. Her mother has been through alot.

    • @Redzsolit1990
      @Redzsolit1990 27 днів тому +5

      I definitely agree with you love. And the mother isn’t any better for talking to the daughter like she’s another adult out in the street.

  • @tawana8922
    @tawana8922 22 дні тому +39

    This was the saddest video ever for me. I feel that the mom feels like her power was taken away the day she lost the use of her legs and her daughter saying that to her was in the mother's mind the person who shot her, shooting her again. I've never been shot, but I understand how having someone you love use what brought great pain as a way to victimize you again. It digs deeper than the actual initial injury. So, the mom put a wall up so as to never feel that pain again. I'm praying for you and your daughter because God can take what the devil meant to destroy you and turn it for your good!!!

  • @donuts5710
    @donuts5710 20 днів тому +23

    That girl is HORRIBLE. Are we just gonna ignore the narcissistic smirks?

  • @trinastafford6306
    @trinastafford6306 29 днів тому +918

    Mother hasn't accepted what happened to her, and neither has she healed from it. The daughter was put into a situation that took away her childhood. They both had to accept and heal from the situation

    • @FeliciaTorres-gv9vy
      @FeliciaTorres-gv9vy 29 днів тому +55

      Making her accountable for chores is not stealing her childhood. She needs to BE a child and get her tail in school. The mom has built up aggression. The entire family needs counseling.

    • @andreaphillips420
      @andreaphillips420 29 днів тому +46

      ⁠@@FeliciaTorres-gv9vy i think the original poster is referring to the fact she saw her mother get shot and paralyzed as well as her brother. that ruins a childhood, especially when nobody is healing from it. she had to call the police to save her mother and brother. that’s a lot and maybe what made her think she’s browner than she really is and that’s unfair to her but she’s not understanding that she has to heal that pain to thrive the way she wants to.

    • @andreaphillips420
      @andreaphillips420 29 днів тому +2

      *growner

    • @josweetlove1537
      @josweetlove1537 29 днів тому +7

      @trinastafford6306 the mother is a paraplegic. It matters not that she is 14 she is a child and for now her mother's condition has to take precedent. The is child rude, disrespectful, expelled from school, steala etc there is no way i as a parent will accept this level of disrespect. No way.

    • @MrROCKMUZK
      @MrROCKMUZK 29 днів тому +2

      This daughter is not realizing that this mom is done on all platforms the daughter is cold and she will see in life her ways

  • @halosane4170
    @halosane4170 26 днів тому +631

    Her apology wasn't genuine anyway so her mom didn't have to accept it. That girl is disrespectful as hell and should be grateful her mom is only in a wheelchair and not in a grave. You don't treat your loved one that way.

    • @julietedochem6217
      @julietedochem6217 25 днів тому +8

      Thank you

    • @denisedean2446
      @denisedean2446 25 днів тому +39

      Her mom speaks to her daughter horribly and her daughter is a reflection of the mom.

    • @Khloe.1
      @Khloe.1 25 днів тому +36

      If the mother would actually listen to her daughter instead of yelling at her all the time then maybe the daughter wouldn’t act like that and she also gets her behavior from her mother , and I understand where both of them are coming from but the parent is supposed to set a example for the child.

    • @ayeeeitssondynn
      @ayeeeitssondynn 25 днів тому +27

      @@Khloe.1 yall also have to realize that she is an disable parent , she makes sure she has clothes on her back , food in her mouth , roof over her head . all she has to do is to go to school and do dishes, clean up. most of the time you have to help ur disable parent but shes not even asking for that ,the mom has some things to fix but i belive that she did not mean that "sorry " she said . but the mother is wrong for having a reaction like that ?the child is being disrespectful n the mother is reacting js like the daugher .

    • @brijay34
      @brijay34 25 днів тому +21

      She was laughing that apology was so fake smh

  • @Prod.Xin2
    @Prod.Xin2 17 днів тому +21

    She really fooled this man into thinking she a victim I hate the fact that people don’t realize kids are just as manipulative and conniving as adults sometimes even worse 😂 some kids are just bad and want to be like they bad ahh lil friends, I can assure you 100% that this is the case for this young lady.

  • @shanisemitchell2483
    @shanisemitchell2483 16 днів тому +6

    That girl is a menace.

  • @kyleejohnson8364
    @kyleejohnson8364 29 днів тому +761

    This is so sad because you can tell they’re both dealing with unhealed trauma and they don’t know how to deal with it so they fight :(

    • @mindfulnus
      @mindfulnus 29 днів тому +15

      That’s basically it.

    • @keshaunthompson8294
      @keshaunthompson8294 28 днів тому

      You said it!!

    • @1onejotarokujo
      @1onejotarokujo 28 днів тому

      Exactly, there both dealing with stuff

    • @joy2theworld488
      @joy2theworld488 28 днів тому

      Very well said 👏🏼

    • @kyyomilo
      @kyyomilo 25 днів тому +9

      this is the first balanced comment i've seen. they're two DEEPLY scarred people who need to get better.

  • @royaltriann6316
    @royaltriann6316 22 дні тому +624

    Her cursing, her tone, the eye rolliing…she is beyond disrespectful.

    • @Ariel-hy4md
      @Ariel-hy4md 19 днів тому +29

      She get it all from her mom

    • @selfmadegussymoto
      @selfmadegussymoto 16 днів тому

      Most these lil girls now & days feel obligated have no respect or morals

    • @selfmadegussymoto
      @selfmadegussymoto 16 днів тому

      ​@@Ariel-hy4md how can you say that unless Yu know her personally but honestly sometimes our parents are good parents that try pushing us in the right way but being the person iam I regret not listening to my mom

    • @MYXLDFO
      @MYXLDFO 16 днів тому +11

      ⁠@@Ariel-hy4mdno as you clearly see its the little girl, but I’m not gonna say the mom is completely innocent.

    • @3j-f418
      @3j-f418 15 днів тому +12

      I agree. It’s a lot of misplaced anger and healing that needs to take place. The young girl is acting out. They’re all angry due to unfortunate events. Neither of them are innocent.

  • @unxque587
    @unxque587 18 днів тому +13

    I've actually been in the same school as Mei'lan since 3rd grade and we were in the same class in 5th & 6th grade. She was known as the class clown that was always getting into fights and arguing/yelling with teachers. I haven't seen her since 7th grade, but when this video randomly popped up and I saw her face, I was so shocked. I've never known her personally but hearing about her family's situation is heartbreaking. I didn't see the full episode yet, but I'll definitely be praying for her and her family :((

  • @kiki12732
    @kiki12732 10 днів тому +10

    People are blaming the child but fail to realize it starts at home. Whatever you put into your child’s ears pours from their mouths. Although it doesn’t make it right for the daughter to be disrespectful to her mother.. I think it’s time the adults as parents take accountability for what they say and do to their children. Words hurt and they stick… these are learned behaviors that turn into anger and resentment because there is a disconnect in communication. If you cannot learn how to properly communicate with your children don’t expect them to know how to effectively communicate with you. It is your job to be the BIGGER PERSON (the adult). Even if it is hard, it is your job as parents to teach them. This is why children grow up hating their parents because their whole childhood they’ve felt like their parents hate them.

    • @chybandss552
      @chybandss552 10 днів тому +2

      so real . my life in a nutshell .

    • @kiki12732
      @kiki12732 8 днів тому

      @@chybandss552 sorry to hear that, it’s unfortunate that our loved ones can’t see what they do to us.. or better yet they don’t want to. I hope you find clarity in your situation to be able to maintain and healthy lifestyle, a healthy you in general. Sending healing ❤️‍🩹

    • @taylorpegues5871
      @taylorpegues5871 4 дні тому

      Woa the daughter is a sole reflection of her mother! Her mother cusses and talks to her daughter like shes in a gang fighting In the streets! The daughter mimicks her mother 100% The daughter is the young version of the mother!!!!!!! So sad

    • @kiki12732
      @kiki12732 День тому

      @@taylorpegues5871 exactly, her mom is failing to realize that she created her own monster by the lack of communication, accountability and compassion she had for her child’s feelings. It starts with the parents.

  • @Walksonthesky
    @Walksonthesky 28 днів тому +561

    Her daughter said “stand on it . . . . oh you *CANT* 😮 I would’ve needed Jesus

    • @itsbrelowkey7731
      @itsbrelowkey7731 26 днів тому +30

      Nah cause I bet I would've got up from that wheelchair though on everything.

    • @Soulfulchrist.
      @Soulfulchrist. 26 днів тому +14

      Jesus loves you all ✝️❤️🙏🏾 Repent 💖 HE took upon himself all sins of humanity so you could be forgiven 🥰Surrender and give your life to HIM 🙏🏾 HE will heal all your pain 💖🙌🏾

    • @kookie1999at
      @kookie1999at 26 днів тому +4

      Gurl that's deep and says alot.... I seen videos of them that daughter needs help and mom needs counseling

    • @KtotheG
      @KtotheG 25 днів тому +10

      Imagine all of the nasty things her mother told her. But y'all don't care about that part.

    • @KiyaorKi
      @KiyaorKi 25 днів тому +4

      Shitttt I would’ve needed more than Jesus 🤣

  • @antonettestrong1430
    @antonettestrong1430 29 днів тому +1015

    I hate when lil girls think this behavior is cute and acceptable

    • @krystalbobbett5175
      @krystalbobbett5175 29 днів тому +26

      Wheeeeeew chilllle mine would be tore up I want to say something but 😡😡

    • @teeone2574
      @teeone2574 29 днів тому +52

      Her mom is very disrespectful. She didn’t get here by herself

    • @iisunzo
      @iisunzo 29 днів тому

      @@krystalbobbett5175Yea and I’d call cps because we not about to fight 14 year olds.

    • @iisunzo
      @iisunzo 29 днів тому +37

      She thinks it’s “cute” and “acceptable” because of the way her mom talks to her. I’d think it’s acceptable when my own family acts like it is.

    • @christybunn4396
      @christybunn4396 29 днів тому +17

      I hate that s*** too and society will sit here and blame her mother but her mother said she has been doing that s*** to her for years and like she said if she wasn't in that wheelchair she wouldn't be popping off like that.. mom said she is getting worse..

  • @eleicesiag9066
    @eleicesiag9066 16 днів тому +10

    I feel this mother. That little girl is rude and disrespectful as hell.

  • @noblackzone
    @noblackzone 20 днів тому +12

    That girl was really disrespectful & it’s disgusting imagine how the mother feels. she can’t walk or nothing, then gotta take care of a disrespectful brat.

    • @Mslee8320
      @Mslee8320 7 днів тому

      I see both sides🤷🏽‍♀️ the daughter was traumatized too she found her mother and brother shot up. From there that can mature a child in a way. She is acting like a grown woman because of what she has seen. The mother’s attitude doesn’t help either. Stop only blaming the child like they don’t have parents who play a role in who their child becomes

  • @teehee83
    @teehee83 29 днів тому +1765

    The apple doesn’t fall far from the tree! The daughter talks just like her mother!

    • @egujugapupfh7543
      @egujugapupfh7543 29 днів тому +49

      you are supposed to learn from what they do and do better

    • @carolharris5455
      @carolharris5455 29 днів тому +87

      Mom can’t even hear NOBODY but herself

    • @princesskodsoj7709
      @princesskodsoj7709 29 днів тому

      @@egujugapupfh7543ok? She’s a child sthu

    • @davyunwashington3613
      @davyunwashington3613 29 днів тому +40

      @@egujugapupfh7543hypocritical if the other person doing the same thing

    • @Bella_Noche337
      @Bella_Noche337 29 днів тому

      @@egujugapupfh7543 She’s a child. She’s not in a stage in her life to do better than what she’s been taught by her parents.

  • @niqquethomas4799
    @niqquethomas4799 29 днів тому +1089

    She was rude before her mom was. She’s rude in school, she’s stealing out of stores and all the mom wants is for her daughter to respect her!

    • @girl-gx2ls
      @girl-gx2ls 29 днів тому +67

      She probably lacks respect for authority because how her mom handled/handles her before and after the incident

    • @kaila8188
      @kaila8188 28 днів тому +46

      exactly! the daughter seems like she was raised well! look how they both came dressed and the pictures of the family before. it’s obvious the daughter is just using her mom being paralyzed as advantage to do anything she wants and the fact her mom can’t do anything about it makes her upset. telling her child to do simple chores but yet the daughter gets mad…

    • @angiejackson8007
      @angiejackson8007 28 днів тому +14

      Agree that’s a lil rotten helfa

    • @krisjackson6567
      @krisjackson6567 28 днів тому +29

      But if the mom can’t even respect her child just as a human being how will she be able to model that for her daughter? She’s rude because thats what she knows how to be but when mom starts talking you start to see what’s happening.

    • @DarthFurie
      @DarthFurie 28 днів тому +22

      Sometimes kids do those things as a cry for help. The little girl did not get a mouth like that out of the blue or attitude out of the blue, her demeanor mirrors her mother's. They are both carrying a lot of anger, the family needs so much help

  • @vthe_listener886
    @vthe_listener886 9 днів тому +4

    I went to school with her and would've never known this would be her life😢 she is an amazing singer just thought I'd put it out there❤ I'm praying for them 🙏🏽

  • @nalu5803
    @nalu5803 17 днів тому +14

    that little girl is grieving the person her mama was before she became paralyzed. she acts out because her mama hurts her. laughing and smiling is a coping mechanism used when you can't cry in front of others.

  • @DaughterOfZionLebo
    @DaughterOfZionLebo 29 днів тому +1756

    The mom is still dealing with the trauma of the shooting, and now, being a woman with a disability. She's got a lot of anger and can't hear anything. She wants to be mad at her daughter. She needs to deal with her anger. She is struggling to accept her Disability. Its heart breaking and it's a journey. I hope she heals. I feel so bad for the daughter, she's 14 years old. She's a child.

    • @egujugapupfh7543
      @egujugapupfh7543 29 днів тому +229

      her being 14 don't mean she should not be held accountable for the bs they do and they know it's wrong

    • @princesskodsoj7709
      @princesskodsoj7709 29 днів тому

      @@egujugapupfh7543you under everybody comments you must be the mom 💀💀

    • @taylorw7349
      @taylorw7349 29 днів тому

      @@egujugapupfh7543 she is modeling her mother and her mothers anger her mother is 1000000% at fault for how her daughter is

    • @courtany7871
      @courtany7871 29 днів тому +85

      @@egujugapupfh7543 She should be held accountable no one is saying she shouldn’t. It also starts with the mother children are a reflection of the parent, her mom is angry and children can feel that and they grow up in it and then they become angry from being in a hostile environment and they’re both feeding off of each other. The only real way to fix this would be to separate them it’s both of their fault, the majority also falls on the mother because she’s an adult she’s the parent and she allowed that kind of environment to fester which yes she’s human but she also held the responsibility to have a healthy environment for the children, and the mother doesn’t want to accept any fault for her raising her daughter to be the way she is.

    • @Luxordolls
      @Luxordolls 29 днів тому +51

      Both need to be held accountable regardless of their ages !

  • @user-nf9li3yo7h
    @user-nf9li3yo7h 24 дні тому +513

    That lil girl taking advantage of the fact that her mother in a wheel chair.. it ain’t just about the mother being mad about getting shot. She grown as hell

    • @ericalashay0209
      @ericalashay0209 22 дні тому

      Facts! She’s a little butt head.

    • @tenishashaw5853
      @tenishashaw5853 22 дні тому +5

      I disagree

    • @kassey3425
      @kassey3425 21 день тому +11

      Did you hear that the mother mace's her child and just look at the way we all felt bad for her when she first started talking. We were definitely on her side when her daughter opened her mouth (at least the daughter didn't put on a show). The daughter pushed the right buttons and the 'real' mum came out.... no more sympathetic, sweet momma. The way she spoke to her 14 y/o was atrocious, smh. You give respect to get respect AND parents are their children first teachers PERIOD. Seems to me she is raising the child to be a carbon copy of her. That child is hurting.

    • @yevonreed5503
      @yevonreed5503 21 день тому +1

      Es miss kassy I red ur comment and ur rite d saying goes like like daughter is like d mother,,,,,, blessings

    • @miashalon2944
      @miashalon2944 21 день тому +9

      I don't agree. We can clearly see the mother's behavior. It's clear her daughter is acting out and mirroring her mom. She isn't taking advantage she is trying to figure it out. This child wants love from her mom and she isn't getting it. The mother is Stuck in anger due to being paralyzed

  • @Personal_Favorite_ZW
    @Personal_Favorite_ZW 12 днів тому +6

    If i ever spoke to my mom like that, I'd have not been able to exist to watch this video today 😂😂😂😂

  • @SadeRoberts-mt8xo
    @SadeRoberts-mt8xo 21 день тому +13

    Oh my goodness.. This child has no respect at all!! This is crazy..

  • @kimanihoward6321
    @kimanihoward6321 23 дні тому +199

    Not her telling the audience stfu and then saying "On my soul" is crazyyyyy 💀

    • @taliatifany
      @taliatifany 7 днів тому +1

      she wanna go viral so bad 😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • @taylorjaye7555
    @taylorjaye7555 28 днів тому +910

    Listen…. Karamo’s face when she told the audience “y’all can stfu too” he wanted to jump out that chair😂🤦🏽‍♀️

    • @sheenasimon1399
      @sheenasimon1399 27 днів тому +46

      Omg.. I so peeped that.. that head tilt.. 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

    • @nl401
      @nl401 27 днів тому +14

      Crowd went crazy. Lol

    • @greglatties3975
      @greglatties3975 27 днів тому

      He had to remember he had cameras on him😂😂…cause baby the way I would have flew over there🤨..WHO TF U TALKING TO LIL ASS GIRL😡I WILL GLADLY DO WHAT YO MAMA CANT DO WITH ALL RESPECT ✊🏾

    • @simonasweet9085
      @simonasweet9085 27 днів тому +33

      She trying to have a, cash me outside moment. Lil girl ,stop frfr

    • @VONiiE8
      @VONiiE8 26 днів тому +4

      @@simonasweet9085what’s worse is, she actually made a career from that. That’s insane

  • @sharonspencer6402
    @sharonspencer6402 14 днів тому +6

    Still don’t give her a right to disrespect her mom she should take care her mom while she down and Unless she repent God will deal with her

  • @Abbyleemiller101
    @Abbyleemiller101 18 днів тому +7

    “ Stand on that, oh I forgot you can’t.” is crazyy😭😭

    • @LionLThePrince781
      @LionLThePrince781 17 днів тому

      Stolen comment. 🙄

    • @Abbyleemiller101
      @Abbyleemiller101 15 днів тому

      @@LionLThePrince781 sorry if it looks like I stole a comment I guess great minds think alike but there's no need for an attitude

    • @Abbyleemiller101
      @Abbyleemiller101 15 днів тому

      @@LionLThePrince781 oh I found the comment I supposedly "stole" but they were both 2 days ago so how would you know if I stole it or not

  • @priscahwairimu5420
    @priscahwairimu5420 29 днів тому +417

    She no longer views her as her daughter anymore she's done with her you can just see it

    • @feen4motion
      @feen4motion 28 днів тому +31

      yea the dynamic switched. she sees her as a girl as a street same as the daughter

    • @GOOFYDUDE999
      @GOOFYDUDE999 28 днів тому +31

      This is the son of the mother you seen on this video, I must say your sadly right. She doesn't see her as her daughter anymore. She always wishes she dies and stuff like that after arguments she always starves her but as her big brother I try my best to feed her and help my mom at the same time. It's stressful.

    • @NatashaYoungqueenofnewyork
      @NatashaYoungqueenofnewyork 28 днів тому

      ​@@GOOFYDUDE999I'm sorry you and your family are going through this

    • @tinajackson6875
      @tinajackson6875 28 днів тому +11

      It's shameful and look how humble she became when karomo spoke to her with love and understanding.

    • @tatyananajee
      @tatyananajee 27 днів тому +6

      @@GOOFYDUDE999I’m so sorry to hear that

  • @gabriellea.3732
    @gabriellea.3732 29 днів тому +551

    That smirky apology definitely wasn’t enough for mom. That’s why she snapped. But mom also had this coldness in her heart for her daughter. Sad.

    • @christybunn4396
      @christybunn4396 29 днів тому +54

      Exactly and the sad part is these weirdos on here making it seem like the mom is wrong.. Kamaro is a weirdo too because nobody should talk to their mother the way this girl is the worst

    • @garyahreedjr3125
      @garyahreedjr3125 29 днів тому +24

      @@christybunn4396bc they came on here to heal so they BOTH need to heal and shes the PARENT

    • @vixen_0072
      @vixen_0072 29 днів тому +38

      @@christybunn4396Adults say stuff they don't mean all the time. You are taking about a literal child. Moms and dads still need to lead by example and earn their child's respect even though they are parents. Macing your child is crazy. That's wild. That child should go live with relatives or something because that is not normal discipline.

    • @kaila8188
      @kaila8188 28 днів тому +8

      @@vixen_0072and you think it was okay for the daughter to crack a hit on her mothers head with a bottle because she told her to clean up…simple things any 13-14 should be doing. you sound mad ignorant! why should she give up her child because she’s in a wheel chair? there are thousands of parents who chair bound and STILL take care of their kids. the daughter just no longer has respect for her mom because she knows her mom can’t do anything. why would the mother give her out of control daughter to another relative. are you okay? don’t you think she’s just going to act the same way either way?! if she’s doing this to her own mom then she’ll do the same to anyone else. i’ve been in a house with parents, cousins, aunts, uncles, whatever and they call cursed and you know what I did as a kid and still now as a 20 year old? respect my elders. just because my mother is cursing around the house did not give me the opportunity or option to do the same because she’s a grown adult. I respected and still respect my mother and all family members and anyone else older than me.

    • @nicoleraheem1195
      @nicoleraheem1195 28 днів тому

      Yep. My mom has a coldness for me and I didn't start stealing til 18 because I was denied stamps, was staying with someone who didn't share food or get groceries, and I had to survive til I found a job.

  • @SandraWAsumu
    @SandraWAsumu 19 днів тому +4

    Oh my God. How can life be this level of messed up? I understand that Karamo can only do so much with the time that he has. And I appreciate the work he does.
    That child needs discipline. SHE WAS LAUGHING at her mother while she was "apologizing" to her... what?
    I hope that family finds the healing she deserves. I really do.

  • @chuchuuf
    @chuchuuf 12 днів тому +2

    my mum was like this. and I was like this child, bc she stressed me tf out, her words were hurtful, so I responded with her same attitude. Then I realized that I was doing that with myself and my friends who didn't deserve it. I started therapy and I got better. Guess who didn't. They both need to heal and be respectful and caring to each other. It is very frustrating that nobody listen to you, so I hope that they're both okay, specially that kid, because she wants to heal and got time to do it. I hope her momma too

    • @chuchuuf
      @chuchuuf 12 днів тому

      and I also think that you gotta earn respect. She is your daughter, you gotta be a example for her.. and she is being one. A bad one. I really hope she can learn to heal 😢

  • @eboneeprice9908
    @eboneeprice9908 29 днів тому +753

    The mom is cursing back…the daughter brought her to down to her level. She is a child don’t do that. When you act like her she is going to treat her like everyone else in her life!

    • @mykarma2
      @mykarma2 29 днів тому +39

      They both need to help. I wish that Kamaro would have been able to get the mom some counciling, because mom can't do it on her own.

    • @VeronicaJohnson-yn1cr
      @VeronicaJohnson-yn1cr 29 днів тому +4

      ​@@mykarma2..No she cannot.

    • @VeronicaJohnson-yn1cr
      @VeronicaJohnson-yn1cr 29 днів тому +6

      She is a 14 yr old child.

    • @VeronicaJohnson-yn1cr
      @VeronicaJohnson-yn1cr 29 днів тому +13

      All that smart azz talking...this is why I could not teach inner city schools.

    • @VeronicaJohnson-yn1cr
      @VeronicaJohnson-yn1cr 29 днів тому +8

      Someone is going to do some damage to this little girl, if she does stop.....

  • @boricuababyyyyy5156
    @boricuababyyyyy5156 24 дні тому +269

    when that lil girl said watch your mouth to her mama I lost it😬

  • @YonaGirll
    @YonaGirll 4 дні тому +2

    i hate these comments just coming for the daughter when she clearly gets it from her mother. that baby is hurt and her mom isn’t making it no better by talking to her any type of way. they’re both speaking out of anger and until her mom can grow up and fix it her daughter will keep doing the same thing as her

  • @FlaCouponGalGuidry
    @FlaCouponGalGuidry 20 днів тому +3

    Here from TT. I know exactly what she needs. This child is out of control.

  • @thedondoll4747
    @thedondoll4747 29 днів тому +514

    As a child who’s mom was paralyzed from the waist down when I was 8..I could never. Karamo didn’t acknowledge the hurt of the mother. That is why the mother is hurting. She laughed during her apology. As a child who is now an adult. I would never..this behavior was unacceptable and it wasn’t made clear enough from Karamo for me.

    • @biggerthanlyfe9853
      @biggerthanlyfe9853 28 днів тому +68

      Exactly he’s making it all about the mom and it’s wild. The daughters behavior is disgusting, zero compassion and empathy for her own mother. I thought there was something super traumatic the mom did but it all boiled down to cleaning up????? This is crazy

    • @thedondoll4747
      @thedondoll4747 28 днів тому +39

      @@biggerthanlyfe9853 exactly and her mother was not perfect but look how the child talks to adults immediately without much provocation. The mother has trauma of her own while trying to still be a mother. She could have literally had some sympathy.. “stand on that, oh you can’t” my mama woulda snatched me up so good right while she in that chair. She even laughed during the apology which KARAMO DIDN’T even acknowledge!! Painted the mother as if she is just so unforgiving..she was hurt and while the pain was on her face that child laughed. Found it humorous that her mother feels shame and disappointment.

    • @audreyreid7451
      @audreyreid7451 28 днів тому +47

      Karamo failed miserably! He was more on the daughter’s side who showed no remorse for her actions.

    • @JoshuaJohnson-zj6yr
      @JoshuaJohnson-zj6yr 28 днів тому +14

      exactly & don’t make it about the child regardless of the matter that child needs to have respect my mother would’ve have me looking for my teeth

    • @cynthialogan5158
      @cynthialogan5158 28 днів тому +4

      I agree 💯

  • @Lover4Fash
    @Lover4Fash 23 дні тому +729

    That little girl is smirking. We are in a different time, she doesn’t care. She’s clearly fooling Karamo.

    • @elisaajamilaa
      @elisaajamilaa 22 дні тому +36

      coming from a girl 2 years older than her who was a troubled child, ur comment is extremely valid

    • @tamaraborges6268
      @tamaraborges6268 21 день тому +31

      this show is sort of like therapy trying to help people. when i was forced into therapy at exactly her age because of many household issues that were out of my control, i sat there with the therapist smirking too. it’s a way to cope, she’s in survival mode and smirking and laughing is how she shows her suffering bc her household and nervous system taught her not to cry and put up walls exactly like the behavior her mother was displaying. it’s so insane how everyone wants to call her a brat when the mother is the role model. her family went through a traumatic event, and that little girl was the one who found her mother in that state. imagine being that young and seeing your mother physically wounded and having to call 911. imagine the panic she also felt. the whole household felt the same things. it’s not easy to go through something like that at any age, i can see it’s not easy for the mother at all but SHE admitted that when it all happened she started to become very angry with everyone; how do you expect her daughter not to display the same behaviors? the daughter didn’t have a safe space to process. clearly her mother didn’t have a space to process either, but at your early teens you don’t exactly know or can reach out for help, so her mother should’ve been the first to do so as soon as possible. please re-evaluate.

    • @BriannaWells-yf3ml
      @BriannaWells-yf3ml 21 день тому +8

      And is she’s young and heartless

    • @thepoweroftheoilofjoy
      @thepoweroftheoilofjoy 21 день тому +9

      Yes. She is nasty and rude. Seems heartless too

    • @christpusha
      @christpusha 21 день тому +22

      I took it more as she nervous laughs. Not all kids are the same. Some not gonna smirk but others being put on stage being told to say sorry infront of 100+ ppl will get nervous and feel uncomfortable so they hide behind the laugh.

  • @shawniecefoster1806
    @shawniecefoster1806 13 днів тому +3

    The fact that he’s blaming her mom is crazy.. this lil girl don’t have a damn about her mom .. and he knows this

  • @Myig3100_Deandre
    @Myig3100_Deandre 19 днів тому +4

    These kids these days dont understand a disobedient child will shorten your days of living 🙏

  • @keishah.1562
    @keishah.1562 22 дні тому +172

    That mother is going through it. My heart goes out to her and her children

  • @fatoud7152
    @fatoud7152 29 днів тому +1528

    The mom is kinda rude as well, it’s not 100 percent her fault but the apple doesn’t fall far from the tree

    • @teehee83
      @teehee83 29 днів тому +44

      Just said the same thing! Totally agree!

    • @princesskodsoj7709
      @princesskodsoj7709 29 днів тому +63

      Def the mom’s fault. Children mock behavior so she definitely got it from her

    • @rae2626
      @rae2626 29 днів тому +30

      Yh cause she is going back and forth with her like she’s grown/her equal. She talk like her 🤷🏾‍♀️

    • @torry24
      @torry24 29 днів тому +7

      Kinda rude!?

    • @cassandrastanton7955
      @cassandrastanton7955 29 днів тому +50

      Her mom is dealing with a lot, being shot and in a wheelchair. I don’t care WHAT the mother says she is a child. That is what’s wrong , these new age parents and this new age parenting. It’s not working. My mom was a beast and so would have never and I’m not mad about it.

  • @i-zumba8569
    @i-zumba8569 21 день тому +13

    Karamo pls bring this girl to Nigeria and give us just 6 months with her. Her mother will be impressed with her behavior and character. I promise you.

  • @eboneyjasmine478
    @eboneyjasmine478 17 днів тому +3

    The moms energy rubs off on the child‼️the child is also angry because that day changed her life as well

  • @ProfessorCupcakeTV
    @ProfessorCupcakeTV 29 днів тому +352

    I guarantee you the school is NOT lying about her behavior. She’s extremely belligerent & disrespectful. Unreal!!

    • @inyouressence
      @inyouressence 29 днів тому +23

      And her mother isn’t? That’s where she learned it from….smh

    • @willdee-st6ub
      @willdee-st6ub 29 днів тому +13

      ​@@inyouressenceby your comments you supporting this rude diabolical daughter actions

    • @iisunzo
      @iisunzo 29 днів тому

      @@willdee-st6ubNobody said the daughter wasn’t rude or disrespectful. But the mother didn’t respect her by being there. Her mother admitted to being a mean person after the shooting. Of course her daughter is mean towards her as well. It’s a response to disrespect. Your child deserves respect just as much as their parents do. You don’t get respect when you call your child a biatch and a wh0re.

    • @angelacarlisle1708
      @angelacarlisle1708 28 днів тому +1

      Shes hurting

    • @Berriyes
      @Berriyes 28 днів тому +2

      @@willdee-st6ub What do you mean?? By pointing out the mom's behavior? Callin' her daughter the b word is something we should look over & just pin everything on the daughter? Alright bookie..

  • @abigailscotlandcarey9182
    @abigailscotlandcarey9182 28 днів тому +282

    The fact that she said sorry while smiling just means that she’s not serious 😭😭

    • @alinaspears7893
      @alinaspears7893 27 днів тому +21

      She also knows that her mom isnt ready to forgive. So he ce the coping mechanism. Her mom is causing trauma to her unknowingly. Putting your child down , talking crazy to them that will cause a child to not react properly. I know from experience.

    • @tj8888
      @tj8888 27 днів тому +3

      She is a kid the mother needs to toughen up she is the adult if she weak the kids will continue to do her bad she needs parenting classes

    • @HarmonRAB-hp4nk
      @HarmonRAB-hp4nk 26 днів тому +1

      wasnt so sure... the fact there iin court is serious

    • @talye
      @talye 23 дні тому +2

      The smiling is usually a coping mechanism…… it usually because the daughter feels embarrassed about her past actions and not that she found it funny……. My daughter does the same thing when I call her out, she smiles because she feels embarrassed and that I can SEE her. It’s her coping mechanism, so let’s not make this lil girl out to be that she was not genuine. Learn human behaviour people, it will make your judgements of others less harsh

    • @tj8888
      @tj8888 23 дні тому

      @@talye 🗣️👏🏾👏🏾they don’t know thanks for making it simple for their simple minds

  • @bossladysy5500
    @bossladysy5500 17 днів тому +4

    no respect given, no respect gave. this is the case here . both parties is wrong & daughter is getting it from somewhere. “I” believe even if the mom wasn’t paralyzed, they would be going through the same thing . Mom lacks accountability and her daughter mimics what she sees

  • @BrownskinnBarbiie
    @BrownskinnBarbiie 17 днів тому +1

    As a person who has trauma with her mom like this ongoing I feel both sides so hard.

  • @demetriadavis7083
    @demetriadavis7083 27 днів тому +154

    OMG , THIS LITTLE GIRL IS GROWN AS HELL , I'M 50 AND I COULD NEVER TALK TO MY MOTHER LIKE THIS, I DON'T EVEN CURSE IN FRONT OF MY MOTHER, THIS IS DOWN RIGHT RIDICULOUS !

    • @Kikabubblyscrub
      @Kikabubblyscrub 25 днів тому +2

      Did your mother curse at you growing up?

    • @cynthiajohnson8925
      @cynthiajohnson8925 25 днів тому +2

      I'm 65 never disrespect my parents.

    • @BS-kf7ge
      @BS-kf7ge 24 дні тому

      @@Kikabubblyscrub my mother cursed at me and loved me as well. The Bible says honor thy mother and thy father and thay days may be long upon the land. Someone told me once when I was younger, we were Never promised parents with no faults. Our parents have fun and so do we I’ve never met a person who’s not done something or said they shouldn’t have.

  • @zara198522
    @zara198522 26 днів тому +169

    Imagine experiencing a home invasion, seeing your siblings shot and your mother ended up paralyzed. Karamo empathised with her because he sees a very hurt and traumatised child. She was expected to be "normal" about something so deep that adults break down over.
    Her attitude towards her mother and the audience is unresolved defensive anger and she only gives her mother the same energy back. I pray that they can heal from this.

    • @lebitsolebeseromo4682
      @lebitsolebeseromo4682 23 дні тому +23

      Thank you, finally someone understand what a bystander trauma is, this child is as traumatised as her mother and brother, but her mother doesn't see it because "she didn't get shot"

    • @maddo_2197
      @maddo_2197 23 дні тому +13

      Fr I see too many people in these comments hating on the FOURTEEN YEAR OLD for not knowing how to deal with trauma!! Everybody in this family needs therapy asap

    • @MONTANABOSSB
      @MONTANABOSSB 23 дні тому +8

      ​@maddo_2197 it's not hating on the little girl that I see. I have dealt with all types of traumatized children, but there is a difference in trauma, and thinking you're grown and being disrespectful!!! This child issues aren't just she's traumatized, she doesn't want to wash dishes and clean, because she looks as her mother as if she is interrupting her free time. And he shouldn't tell the girl that knows what she wants, he should ask her

    • @ursulatroxler7428
      @ursulatroxler7428 23 дні тому +5

      Finally the correct way to respond to trauma.

    • @LUV2H8M3
      @LUV2H8M3 22 дні тому +2

      I agree 10000%

  • @user-tn6mb5ci5k
    @user-tn6mb5ci5k 20 днів тому

    We need more people like him frl bc he understands and hears people for real like we really need more people to stand up and do this cus most shows have fool of people.

  • @j.chloesauls20
    @j.chloesauls20 15 днів тому +2

    "on my soul"😂😂😂

  • @neko5201
    @neko5201 24 дні тому +347

    Everybody goes through something, this lil girl needs a reality check🤦🏾‍♀️

    • @ohana317
      @ohana317 22 дні тому +8

      Or maybe you need a hug too

    • @refmokobe7698
      @refmokobe7698 21 день тому +9

      ​@@ohana317 This bay just wants to be a kid. The mother is aggressive and its not helping. Just because she's in a wheelchair doesn't mean her mothering responsibilities should be passed down to the eldest child. Yes her daughter is disrespectful but we can see where she gets that from

    • @Aseeyah-vt9kl
      @Aseeyah-vt9kl 21 день тому +5

      And a therapist!! Add communit service. Mom needs healing from the trauma.

    • @user-kajdjshxus
      @user-kajdjshxus 21 день тому +5

      jus cause everyone goes through sum don't mean they can't express their emotions, she's expressing it aggressively because her mother is aggressive, she got it from her mother. who else would she learn such behavior???

    • @kianaclemons
      @kianaclemons 21 день тому

      ​@@refmokobe7698 stfu if I was her mom " your getting kicked out " like wtf she said " stand up on that oh I forgot you can't" like wtf

  • @ozaddyo9130
    @ozaddyo9130 29 днів тому +297

    no way the daughter is smiling like that the whole time. i couldnt take an apology from someone like that while they smiling about it too...crazy

    • @christybunn4396
      @christybunn4396 28 днів тому +16

      I agree these weirdo people on here making it seem like how the daughter is acting is okay..

    • @IssaYouTube
      @IssaYouTube 28 днів тому +5

      Nahh it's because she's still immature.... nobody's saying it's okay.

    • @rapalotkidasya3743
      @rapalotkidasya3743 28 днів тому +8

      laughing is sometimes a coping mechanism… notice how when she was talking to karamo when her mom left she didn’t laugh or smile.

    • @AnonymouseLuhv
      @AnonymouseLuhv 23 дні тому

      @@rapalotkidasya3743she smiled when he validated her feelings and after she laughs she keeps a smile on her face despite the fact people are upset the mom then when he said she needed to work on it she avoided eye contact and wasn’t smiling anymore clearly she hates her mom (could be because of the trauma and not how she actually feels and her stealing could be her way of “getting back” at her mom) or wants to get back at her

  • @cheekycece
    @cheekycece 15 днів тому +2

    8:50 I’m convinced yall didn’t watch the full thing cuz everyone keeps glossing over this part she’s literally hurting nd all yall can do is blame her and not hold the mother accountable it’s fucking stupid. I’m a year older than her and I can clearly tell 🤦🏾‍♀️

  • @Ash-qi3fu
    @Ash-qi3fu 3 дні тому +1

    The daughter is not sorry and that is so obvious, the momma gon just have to be the bigger person and heal without that apology.

  • @shynbryt11
    @shynbryt11 28 днів тому +539

    The daughter is a mirror of her mother. Change your behavior, and then she will change hers. It starts with you, MOTHER!!

    • @alinaspears7893
      @alinaspears7893 27 днів тому +82

      A lot of people are missing this. Solely blaming the child. That scares me🤧

    • @sharond642
      @sharond642 27 днів тому +15

      This is a tragedy that affects so many families and communities. So much pain and not enough learning of how to react and deal with life. So sad!

    • @YonUndone3064
      @YonUndone3064 26 днів тому +18

      ​@@alinaspears7893And blaming the mother alone is the way to go, i guess?

    • @ChangingMyFutureADayAtATime
      @ChangingMyFutureADayAtATime 26 днів тому +28

      He is siding with this disrespectful wanna be tough child who’s clearly lying and bullying a disabled mom.

    • @antonioharris7996
      @antonioharris7996 26 днів тому +4

      @@ChangingMyFutureADayAtATimeyou are unserious 😭

  • @isaacngondwe7505
    @isaacngondwe7505 29 днів тому +249

    That child is having a traumatic inbalace, she needs psychological help.

    • @evonza4858
      @evonza4858 29 днів тому +25

      So does the Mom 😘🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽

  • @ostringfellow0
    @ostringfellow0 12 днів тому +1

    This is the reason kids has no respect for adults. When you have other adults validating their disrespect!!!

  • @Warzoneguy12
    @Warzoneguy12 13 днів тому

    I was like this as a teen but I never cursed at my momma. Deep down I knew she was just tryna help but I didn’t want it. I was going through a lot of shit and she ain’t know nothing about it until I told her years later. Sometimes kids act out because they’re going through something deep down. I haven’t finished watching the video but I hope to God she realizes the pain that she putting her momma through. I put my momma through so much shit and realized that them so called people that I called friends, didn’t gaf about me…my momma did.
    Edit: they both need counseling! The momma needs to start respecting her daughter and the daughter needs to respect her momma. I understand exactly what both of them are going through!

  • @karengordon8819
    @karengordon8819 25 днів тому +166

    Please get that poor girl some help. Seeing my mama in a wheel chair is no joke. It sets her off big time. That family NEEDS emotional support😢

  • @Mightbecasca
    @Mightbecasca 23 дні тому +383

    That child has some demons. She really needs to be prayed for. God help that family

    • @nijah_______
      @nijah_______ 22 дні тому +9

      In the name of Jesus

    • @skypie5374
      @skypie5374 21 день тому +8

      God help that entire family.

    • @fadethechannel
      @fadethechannel 19 днів тому

      If there was a god maybe his/her ass should’ve stopped the shooting? Just maybe?

    • @djredd1225
      @djredd1225 19 днів тому

      The bloodline has demons! People are so surprised when their kids act out as if they don't know where it comes from.

    • @pytt.lexiiii
      @pytt.lexiiii 19 днів тому +2

      THIS IS THE SAME WOMEN WHO LIED TO DUTCHESS ON BLACK INK NYC ABOUT CEASER MAKING HER SISTER GET AN AB*ORTION😂😂! SOME PEOPLE WILL DO ANYTHING FOR VIEWS

  • @KaniyaFields-st6dt
    @KaniyaFields-st6dt 13 днів тому +3

    “ we are survivors (the pain i her voice 😢😢)

  • @DIVINELOVEBENJAMIN
    @DIVINELOVEBENJAMIN 15 днів тому +3

    The audience stopped cheering the moment they got their own piece 😭

  • @nellya.9401
    @nellya.9401 28 днів тому +355

    Y’all have got to stop blaming the mom all the way. The daughter came in rude asf in the beginning. Yes them mom probably has a big part into why she speaks that way but the way these kids are today, you could have a angel as a mother and they’ll STILL act this way.

  • @isaiahmiles5642
    @isaiahmiles5642 27 днів тому +195

    That girl is disrespectful Karamo did not handle that correctly at all

    • @ronm3034
      @ronm3034 26 днів тому +9

      So is the mother! What should he have done differently?

    • @isaiahmiles5642
      @isaiahmiles5642 26 днів тому +7

      @@ronm3034 watch the video again and you come back and tell me what should he have done differently besides making excuses and saying she just a kid watch the video again

    • @ronm3034
      @ronm3034 26 днів тому +2

      @@isaiahmiles5642 you made the statement not me! Lol wtf your response says it all .

    • @isaiahmiles5642
      @isaiahmiles5642 25 днів тому +4

      @@ronm3034 make sure next time when you comment at me make sure your using the right word plus I’m not gonna go back and forth with you in these comments cause that’s something I don’t do like i said and imma say it again watch the video and you tell me what you think he should’ve done differently besides making excuses for the girl thank you 🙏🏾 💯

    • @ronm3034
      @ronm3034 25 днів тому +2

      @@isaiahmiles5642 you obviously have difficulty reading! I Never made any excuses for her! I just asked you a question and it’s clear you don’t have an alternative way for him to handle it. Lol

  • @Nat-yc4tb
    @Nat-yc4tb 20 днів тому +1

    he's right, they both need to listen and go to therapy, go through their trauma and everything

  • @mizzylena645
    @mizzylena645 21 день тому +1

    The mothers situation is causing her a lot of anger, and the daughters behavior is adding fuel to it😔its truly sad

  • @AngelChristinaaa
    @AngelChristinaaa 23 дні тому +306

    This breaks my heart and pisses me off. My mom was paralyzed from the waist down. The best mom in the world and she passed in the pandemic. I miss her so much.
    I pray this family can come together..😢

    • @elijahmcdonald1349
      @elijahmcdonald1349 20 днів тому +5

      That’s scary ending up paralyzed from the waist down can’t even imagine that’s like limb loss but paralysis is worse than losing a limb

    • @AngelChristinaaa
      @AngelChristinaaa 20 днів тому +2

      @@elijahmcdonald1349 I totally agree

    • @coreyvaught2595
      @coreyvaught2595 17 днів тому +1

      Eh... but I'm sure your mom didn't behave in this manner... I'm sure your mom allowed you to still be you and not belittle you like this woman did to her daughter on national tv

    • @Mrsmissie
      @Mrsmissie 17 днів тому +2

      Sorry for your loss

    • @kaylakegler24
      @kaylakegler24 17 днів тому +1

      I’m sorry for your loss ❤

  • @omamarvis4845
    @omamarvis4845 26 днів тому +102

    I think sometimes Koramo excuses these teenagers bad behavior. They are bad kids, just admit it

    • @user-qw2ve1ev2r
      @user-qw2ve1ev2r 24 дні тому +2

      they really not i was like this because i was so hurt in the mother know what she doing😢so whenever the girl apologized she would laugh

    • @tameralbird
      @tameralbird 24 дні тому +2

      @@user-qw2ve1ev2rno i've seen girls that act like her, They take advantage of situations. If her mom wasnt in a wheelchair she wouldn't be acting out

    • @user-qw2ve1ev2r
      @user-qw2ve1ev2r 24 дні тому +1

      @@tameralbird ehh but yall blaming it all on her when she's a reflection of her mother hall gotta stop

    • @cupcake2009ist
      @cupcake2009ist 23 дні тому +1

      It’s more to it though these new age parents are something else

    • @rosylanlove8075
      @rosylanlove8075 10 днів тому

      He does

  • @luvlejj
    @luvlejj 17 днів тому

    i feel for this mom so much… her feelings are valid & she doesn’t deserve to be shitted on by her daughter after going through so much…

  • @MissUnderstoodasAlways
    @MissUnderstoodasAlways 16 днів тому

    Heartbreaking. That little girl is beautiful.

  • @bossibunz8143
    @bossibunz8143 29 днів тому +474

    The way Karamo can get through to people is AMAZING!! Truly gifted.

    • @gerdavandersan2018
      @gerdavandersan2018 29 днів тому +8

      Gives me chills every time he goes straight to the heart (issue) 🏆🥇

    • @mamameya77
      @mamameya77 29 днів тому +1

      💯🦾❤️

    • @teeone2574
      @teeone2574 29 днів тому +1

      Yesss

    • @thizz7074
      @thizz7074 29 днів тому +1

      ❤❤❤🎉🎉 yes he will take the time to get to the root with the kids and make them feel heard and gives them the respect and I can relate but you know you not right and you know better and let's do better. The mom is being rude and she needs to learn how check that attitude and the mom needs to be educated that's the bottom line with the mom she needs to be educated.

    • @khrismoney8888
      @khrismoney8888 29 днів тому

      ​@@thizz7074girl hush! She needs to be in juvenile court for Stealing and acting a damn fool in school! The police won't be Karamo when she gets time for the crime! Learn now before it's too late!! Y'all say anything for degenerate behavior!

  • @Queensofafrica8
    @Queensofafrica8 29 днів тому +140

    She is really is tired of her daughter…. I get it! Some people can verbally break you til the point they are 💀 to you and I get that vibe from the mother

    • @auzy2u845
      @auzy2u845 28 днів тому +3

      I green but hold the mom accountable. The daughter is pain and the mom cuees her what does that fix 🤪s?

  • @niya9948
    @niya9948 13 днів тому +1

    Children are a reflection of the person raising them. Not saying the girl is right for cursing and being disrespectful but we don’t know what is being said and done to her behind closed doors

  • @TonTon-ye8kg
    @TonTon-ye8kg 9 днів тому +1

    11:13 ‘I still just gotta be the bigger person?’
    And that’s exactly why your kid is disrespectful, you’re a mother not her friend or big sister