That’s why she be with them so much bc she knows what she has done. Is children don’t understand some of this stuff til we cool down n is willing to actual pay attention.
Her daughter is taking the steps, she was just raised by it like you said so it was peeking out but they will be lovely, and then HER daughter will grow with more whole pieces with the work her mom put in- HEAL THEN REACH BACK, PPL🧡🧡🧡🧡
You can tell he is a social worker/therapist. I am so in love with this guy. I hope this show stays the same and doesnt turn into the other crazy shows where they throw things at each other... I dont think it will he doesnt seem he's into that. ❤
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I don't give a Damn, Mothers should never ever take their past on their kids at all. Its not the kid's Fault, they didn't ask to be here. So I disagree that she loves her kids. Its just Black Mothers has troubles with Loving their kids
@@knightclassic1 No one ever really PURPOSELY takes their past out on people… it’s just a crazy ass thing that so happened to happen to people that are abused especially younger…. You end up more likely to abuse others or in situations where the abuse perpetuates unconsciously… you have to unpack these things and deal with them many don’t even realize how badly impacted they are from their past
You're right but remember , everyone is not wired the same . Everybody don't process their emotions the same way. Sadly. Hurt people do hurt people and the cycle isn't impossible to break , but HARD for some and easy for others. I just wish for peace and healing for all. Truly@@dd4run
@@dd4run it is always a choice however when u finally realize the reasons for your choices why you were drawn to them subconsciously… you can then Consciously take the step to make the right choices and correct your path. Again if you were taught or developed one way through experience to do something for your entire life, how would you know it’s wrong? What about why it’s wrong? And then, how long will it take you to relearn and adapt to a new way after?
Very well done, he gained the mom’s ear by him removing the daughter, focusing on her and listening. He showed compassion and empathy so she felt heard.
You're right. Any other show, we would've all left angry at the mom, but because he got her to open up and reveal another side, we were able to see things from another perspective. Because I was definitely on the daughter's side initially and the mother was coming off very aggressive, IMO.
I love this mama. She keep it real and telling the story of so many women of color who have kids and have NEVER been taught how to communicate, all they know is how to fight. Always in survival mode. I respect her, and I respect the fact she came on national TV and was so vulnerable. I hope for the best QUEENS! 🫅🏿 Peace, LOVE & light!✨✨
100% learned behavior, and it's obviously been passed down thru generations because look how Malika turned up. Ms Michelle is straight up FLAWDA and I pray she's able to get that hurt taken care of. This was soooo sad man
And that’s the problem people like enabling that behavior ain’t none of that shit cute it’s disgusting having kids and don’t even know how to treat y damn self but know how treat a kid yea right
If that man is from a stable and well to do family, he should NEVER have lowered his standards to be with a girl from such a broken home, with such an ill and toxic mother! This WILL NOT END WELL FOR HIM! Why he would run the risk of having a child in a family like this?! They will NEVER be equally yoked and this relationship will NEVER work! My child could NEVER bring this toxicity and mess around me! SMH! This is absolutely gross and debilitating!
Her mother is what we call a G HOWEVER as a protective mom myself you gotta know when to let your kids sink or swim. They will learn one day. When you're fighting with them to do right, your approach must completely change. Its hands off and much prayer. God bless yall❤
This woman/mother has touched me like no other guest on any show.... the passion for her children, her raw honesty, charming... harsh but caring...that woman is a blessing to people I promise you!
I didnt expect the ending. The pain was real in this one. I am truly happy that they found their voices and were able to communicate their true feeIings. I hope they continue to fight "themselves" to find the peace they so desperately need. Namaste
I knew mothers who was disrespectful and terrible all her children she birth became intellectuals lawyer, engineer etc... Not all bad parents bring forth bad seeds only God knows where to distribute blessings.
You a black woman right? You don't have to answer that. Just by your comment I know you a black woman. I can see why black women the less desired women. Because y'all say dumb shit like this
@@gemmapugh4144she didn’t do that on purpose, like she said, she literally didn’t know no better and she’s learning. She’s trying, that’s the love, the effort. You expecting her to be a perfect parent and that doesn’t exist
Momma is protecting her and she’s a real OG! That girl is doing some illegal activity right now and momma still ain’t telling on her. Momma knows her secrets and daughter needs to humble herself.
Whoooooo ooooh!!!! I agree with u 💯 I can see right thru everything and did u notice that the daughter didn’t want her mommy to speak ? She wanted to look perfect on camera while her and have her mom looking like an outlaw
This momma definitely loves her children and would definitely lay her life down for them, they both are hurting and if they can get pass that they will be unbreakable.
Mother has gone over and beyond. It's nothing else for her to do but stay out the way everything will come together in time. I had an auntie who was like this with her daughters, which is very protective and definitely would clean the streets if someone came against them 🤔 sometimes you just can't see the trees for the forest. I am praying it works for all of them. ❤❤
The fiancé put a good show on then when the mom came out he showed his true colors talking about you wanted this fraud money tho . Proving what the mother said . Shoulda kept his mouth closed .
This was so good to watch. Her momma just never got a chance to “vent” really. They love each other. Hope their healing journey is filled with blessings ✨
I noticed the daughter didn’t deny nothing that the Momma was saying about what the daughter has done, the daughter had an “idgaf” attitude & wasn’t honest about her short comings but wanted to air her business out. I’m always the first to tell the truth on myself before I say something about someone else’s business.
You can tell from the what the mother shared that her daughter and her partner, and the things they've done, have brought drama and trouble to their door, and momma went into protection mode. I truly think that she put herself on the line to protect and combat for her child. You can't ask for the beast to be released for the fight and then want it settled after the attack. Like she said some things we have to handle on our own, and she needs to let her daughter handle and sort the mess that she makes, and mom just needs to pray for her protection and share her love and guidance but allow her to walk that walk. Sometimes children need to learn the hard way and the results or faults of their actions.
The mother is a sick and damaged person. She has no credibility. She is a troubled person and needs immediate mental health care. She didn't raise her children.
These bad mother daughter relationships are so sad, i lost my mom at 17 and now at 35 i wish i could see or touch,laugh with my my mom just 1 more time and i appreciate the tome and great relationship i had with her.love on your mother if she is still here you only get one and when they transition that time is over until the next lifetime
This mama is real, raw!!! & I love that. She just come from a tough up bringing & she be in protective mode. She should probably loosen with because of her daughters
I'm going through this right now! They won't tell me what's wrong and only happy when they want something. I have 6 kids with 2 of them acting like her daughter. I feel ALL her pain.
I agree alot with the mother from the child's actions. She kept on interrupting her mother and wouldn't let her talk which is very disrespectful. That showed me alot right there. My mother would have knocked me into next year if I talked to her like that PERIODT.
Her mom never taught her shit bcuz she wasn't around. Why do blk ppl expect kids to be more emotionally mature than their parents? Where are they learning the emotional maturity?🤔 Yall sound crazy.
I have a mother. Just like this woman. My mama will ride behind me no matter what if i’m wrong or right. My mama has said over and over again she will go to jail or die behind me and my sisters. We may not be the best but she means well. I love my mama for having that care in her. So I personally feel where this woman is coming from. As for her daughter, she is entitled. I stand with the mama on this episode 💯👏🏼 And I love her personality 😂😂❤️ But I also feel and see her pain
The daughter has so much anger that she does not know how to control her emotions with her mom. Mom came out cool, but the daughter pushed from her place of anger. Once mom got to that point, she couldn't handle her mom's rage.
This episode was AMAZING! I have total respect for the mother because she has been through some rough stuff for her kids and to protect her children and she not the type to just let some shit go! At the same time she knows she’s a lot and she’s willing to admit she’s wrong and take accountability for her actions and admit she’s wrong.
I see the mother, yes, however the daughter was doing what she claims her mother does. She was disrespectful in not letting her mother talk without her constantly interrupting her. The daughter needs more counseling than her mom. You can clearly see this is a cycle generationally deep.
The daughter is doing what she has learned. This is not to excuse her behavior. It's to say she's doing what she learned to do. They all need counseling
I could understand her Mother she is very over protective of her kids and Love them to pieces this brought me to tears I really like her Mother love the ending ❤️ 💕
Neither of them are all bad, all good or all wrong. The problem is that they were talking past each other because they were in defense mode. You can't hear someone if youre only focused on anger, retaliation, judgment and defense.
Also, it's clear the mother was trying not to throw them under the bus. Looks like she took a charge for them without snitching. She also put these kids too high on a pedestal to be fighting battles they created, and now you are locked up for handling somebody. I understood her mom's frustration cause yall wanna call her violent after she stood on business for yall mess. That would've had me all types of hot. It's clear this woman is a G and that's just the life she has lived.... no judgment
Why I’m I so emotional. Lord help my community. Our men and some times our mothers have left us to carry the load. We have no one to help us. God heal our families! Thank you Karamo🙏🏾
The mama comes from violence, but when Karamo got ready to give her that hug you could genuinely see so much love, so much joy, and honestly her beautiful sense of humor. She reminds me of my aunt that passed away, she was 92 years old, and she left this earth when I was a junior in highschool, and oh the way that woman loved and made people laugh. I really hope the mom goes and gets healing; you know? She deserves that.
Mommy has issues and daughter has issues as we all do for whatever reason.. I'm glad she opening up.. and I pray they continue healing... it was beautiful to see see them loving on eachother.. I can feel the love..her momma is real hood lol loved the realness... and pray she continues on her path of healing.
Lord have mercy on them. She does love her children but I think she’s just mixup, she need counselling. We all need to love our children and have relationships with them. She’s just upset. Her daughter loves her too, they all is mixed up. One they gave to do is change thinking and they will change their lives. May God help you both to sort things out. Ka mara you are a genius and so gentle.
Lord have mercy on them. She does love her children but I think she’s just mixup, she need counselling. We all need to love our children and have relationships with them. She’s just upset. Her daughter loves her too, they all is mixed up. One they gave to do is change thinking and they will change their lives. May God help you both to sort things out. Ka mara you are a genius and so gentle and willing to help them.
I feel her mom!! Me & my mom don’t have the best relationship but she’s definitely going to be there FOREVER! And the fact the daughter wouldn’t let her mom TALK at the beginning shows a lot. She didn’t want her mom to tell what was really going on. The daughter and her “fiancé” done had to stay with her mom & some more stuff. Not on the streets, but with her MOM! I’m so happy the mom was able to tell her side, you’d think she was a monster listening to the daughter.
How could you respect a mother who blames you for her own behavior, her own choices, tells you they don’t like you, calls you a four time murderer, accused your fiancée of touching your daughter then because she gotta camera in her face and because Karamo asked her about accountability, she says “yeah it’s her fault too, not just her kids fault” Why couldn’t she have just taken accountability for her daughter instead of coming on tv making an ass outta herself
You respect your mother period. Doesn’t mean you have to stick around for it but usually theres childhood trauma that they’ve never gotten help with. I don’t have the best relationship with my mother but I will forever respect her because shes ny mother.
That’s still not an excuse for how she treated her children , she probably did the best she could but it wasn’t enough her children needed more that what she could give them and then she also gave them trauma as well and it shows in Malikas behavior,the way she speaks to her children is a result of her past trauma and she needs to own up to that as their mother and apologize those kids don’t owe her anything because at the end of the day she made those she was the parent In the situation and if you wanted for your kids you should’ve did better instead of blaming for the way that they are.
Don’t let me her presentation fool you, momma is a REAL ONE and she knows whats up! I fell out when momma told the husband “Ya better sit ya soft ass down!” 😂😂😂
God bless this family!. Please know that me and hundreds more are rooting for y’all relationship in addition to the other siblings. Karamo, please note you knocked this one out the ball park! Phenomenal job.
God is so good. I feel blessed to hear their story. I've been there and I know her pain❤ stay strong Mama stay strong. Express yourself from the heart. I don't know y'all but I love you all 💯👑👑💪🏾
I love the mother I was recently on the show with my daughter and I feel her pain absolutely I'm in tears because these kids don't understand what we have in go through for them I feel Michelle I fought my daughter battles but yet I'm the bad guy at the end of days I feel you Michelle love you girl you spoke for all the parents that's going through the same thing love you Michelle
Lord in Heaven knows this remind me of one of my daughters..smh This is not a good relationship with a parent and child at all. This is so awesome that Karamo have such a healing to families in this toxic situation. ❤️ 😊
This mother is different than a lot of the others that be on here. You can tell she loves her kids but she has a lot of healing to do. And when the mother thought that the granddaughter had been molested, the mother probably been through the same thing.
Exactly!! And before she kept quiet that shit go down she said something to protect her grand baby! Maybe she didn’t go about it the best way but she wasn’t gonna let it slide and that I can respect
The mother is out of control with all the violence! God thank you for parents that warranted respect and were good parents! This behavior is passed on for generations! Prayerfully this show will help them!
Everyone grows up differently. She found her mom dead, I think that would Take a mental toll on anyone. And from what I’m hearing, she’s violent protecting those kids! I don’t think you really heard what she was saying
@@TierraD5397Bro there’s so many ways to protect your kid and show them you love them, but whole time she was doing neither. She knew she had all them problems and didn’t get help and have 7 kids??? Your brain must be a pea
@@zareyyxans listen, I said everyone grows up differently! You’re right, there are many ways to show your love for your children but she may not know those ways! She stated she found Her mom deceased, that alone can traumatize someone for the rest of their life! And other than that, it means she didn’t have a mother to show her love! So please don’t come for me on this platform. Questioning my intelligence isn’t the way to go sweetheart. Make your statement & let that be. You’re a little too wrapped up in my opinion for you to feel the need to even say some weird shit like that. I took a psychology & sociology course when I got my bachelors & we did numerous reports about how traumatizing shit like this can really scorn people! Her not getting counseling most likely contributed to that.
Best episode. The mother is looking to feel safe. She needs her children to love and embrace her so she can stop fighting. She just wants to feel stable.
@@MyaVatMii do you mean “you’re”? I don’t mind being called toxic if I’m not okay with anyone talking to the woman that birthed me in a respectful manner. I would never talk to anyone’s parents like that. You can bring a point across without putting down the woman who raised the person you claim to love. If my man had a mother I believe isn’t good for him, I’ll care for him, be there for him and never raise my voice at his mother. If that makes me toxic, I’m good being toxic.
Mom has done her best. Imagine her what she’s been through. She is over protective because of her experiences! She is trying to break a cycle…she just wants the best for her and her grandchildren. I can see it clearly!!!
Only the bad ones don't.... but the good one's get the terrible children... this young generation doesn't take accountability for nothing. But feel so entitled to everything.
This episode spoke to me loudly. Grew up around a lot of trauma and violence me and my mom have a horrible relationship but I changed when I had my daughter straight from the hood but I’ll never let the world or my trauma shake the bond I have with my daughter like my mother did to me. Beautiful story ladies so glad to witness a mother and daughter actually work through their struggles, blessings to this whole family ✨
I cried through the whole thing. I love them🥹 that’s a real mother right there straight out the hood!❤️💪🏽she was brought up rough & without a voice which caused it to become a continuous cycle .. so glad they both were able to see eye to eye & hear each other out. DEFINITELY wanted to hug them both 🥹❤️ therapy would definitely be a good fit for them. #neverjudgeabookbyitscover! Ever!
Like mother like daughter the mother has a deep problem. We need to get to the root of the mother, something is wrong Lord heal both mother and and Daughter 🙏🙏
The mother comes from violence , has shown her children violence , and now her children perpetuate violence. Break the cycle..please.
Exactly this!
Easier said than done
That’s why she be with them so much bc she knows what she has done. Is children don’t understand some of this stuff til we cool down n is willing to actual pay attention.
Sometimes even the next generation can’t break the cycle. We are taking it apart bit by bit but we can’t do it all 😞
Her daughter is taking the steps, she was just raised by it like you said so it was peeking out but they will be lovely, and then HER daughter will grow with more whole pieces with the work her mom put in- HEAL THEN REACH BACK, PPL🧡🧡🧡🧡
You can tell he is a social worker/therapist. I am so in love with this guy. I hope this show stays the same and doesnt turn into the other crazy shows where they throw things at each other... I dont think it will he doesnt seem he's into that. ❤
True! Dr Phil always provokes/ doesn't intervene in extreme conflicts. Koramo always does the opposite
Same here fam ❤💯😘🙏🏽
Same here!!!
SOME ARE NOT EDUCATED ENOUGH WHEN IT COMES TO COMMUNICATE VS DICTATED, AND ANGER MANAGEMENT AND RESPECT; AND DON'T FORGET, LOVE AND KINDNESS!!! READ BOOKS, 📚📚📚 START WITH THE MOST IMPORTANT - YOUR BIBLE, ME LIKE JESUS!!! 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾😇😇😇🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾
This mother was abused and traumatized as a child and was unable to have a voice. She needs therapy but I do believe she loves her kids and grand kids
I don't give a Damn, Mothers should never ever take their past on their kids at all. Its not the kid's Fault, they didn't ask to be here. So I disagree that she loves her kids. Its just Black Mothers has troubles with Loving their kids
@@knightclassic1 No one ever really PURPOSELY takes their past out on people… it’s just a crazy ass thing that so happened to happen to people that are abused especially younger…. You end up more likely to abuse others or in situations where the abuse perpetuates unconsciously… you have to unpack these things and deal with them many don’t even realize how badly impacted they are from their past
I agree ❤
You're right but remember , everyone is not wired the same . Everybody don't process their emotions the same way. Sadly. Hurt people do hurt people and the cycle isn't impossible to break , but HARD for some and easy for others. I just wish for peace and healing for all. Truly@@dd4run
@@dd4run it is always a choice however when u finally realize the reasons for your choices why you were drawn to them subconsciously… you can then Consciously take the step to make the right choices and correct your path.
Again if you were taught or developed one way through experience to do something for your entire life, how would you know it’s wrong? What about why it’s wrong? And then, how long will it take you to relearn and adapt to a new way after?
Omg😢😩
"I don't need anything from my children but for them to do right, so that I can sleep at night"🙏🏽❤️
I really understand and feel where the Mom is coming from❤❤💯💯
I felt that in my soul
That part..
Well said 👏 ❤!
I felt this🙏🏾
Karamo did a good job navigating this episode. Bravo
The black community we need healing ! Nothing wrong with therapy ✨. Prayers to the mother and daughter ❤️
I am glad we got your permission to get therapy 😂
@@changestartsnow5116at your big age you sound ignorant but not surprised…
@@PolitiChic1Please stop trying to start shit on this video and let these families heal. 💀
Black community?!? This is their business, don’t put this on all of us.
@@SimplyCryss THANK YOU! I hate it when people do that shit 🙄
Not the boyfriend saying "my parents have 2 Mercedes and a yacht." Like that defines stability 😂
Defines Financial stability for sure..😨
Pretty much!!!
@@nappydotjarbeing financial stable doesn’t make your parents stable u can have so much money in the world and still lack everything else.
I know that though?🤨 And I only said it defined 'Financial Stability', I wasn't saying it defined stability itself.@@Bremonaee
But he was staying with the mother in law and his gf is jobless
Very well done, he gained the mom’s ear by him removing the daughter, focusing on her and listening. He showed compassion and empathy so she felt heard.
You're right. Any other show, we would've all left angry at the mom, but because he got her to open up and reveal another side, we were able to see things from another perspective. Because I was definitely on the daughter's side initially and the mother was coming off very aggressive, IMO.
I love this mama. She keep it real and telling the story of so many women of color who have kids and have NEVER been taught how to communicate, all they know is how to fight. Always in survival mode. I respect her, and I respect the fact she came on national TV and was so vulnerable. I hope for the best QUEENS! 🫅🏿 Peace, LOVE & light!✨✨
She's delusional and deeply mentally disturbed. There's no excuse for birthing kids into such chaos.
I love this!!!
The mother needs to get help to heal from her past traumas.
She should have had a drug test done to see if she was clean from drugs she was so erratic
@@Blossomwinter72drugs? This is how some people express themselves it’s an actual rollercoaster for some
@tamsera9685so she's either ON drugs or needs drugs to control her chaotic behavior. Imagine growing up around someone who behaves likes this.
100% learned behavior, and it's obviously been passed down thru generations because look how Malika turned up. Ms Michelle is straight up FLAWDA and I pray she's able to get that hurt taken care of. This was soooo sad man
I have a sister just like this. Straight Flawda. Without the prison but no one else in the family is like this.
I love this mother she wears her heart on her sleeves, nose running , tears flowing " I still look good ". 😂
And that’s the problem people like enabling that behavior ain’t none of that shit cute it’s disgusting having kids and don’t even know how to treat y damn self but know how treat a kid yea right
Girl what? How is that enabling??? She is standing on every wrong she did and is not lying on anything.
@@rjeent1516 that wasn't the what they said stupid
Eeeeeeeeewwwwww! SMH!
If that man is from a stable and well to do family, he should NEVER have lowered his standards to be with a girl from such a broken home, with such an ill and toxic mother! This WILL NOT END WELL FOR HIM! Why he would run the risk of having a child in a family like this?!
They will NEVER be equally yoked and this relationship will NEVER work!
My child could NEVER bring this toxicity and mess around me! SMH! This is absolutely gross and debilitating!
Love this video, a mom called her daughter bro the hood is strong with this one
Same here 😂😂😂
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Right
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The hair and makeup was my first clue . How can a black woman think this is a good look ? Looks like a clown .
Her mother is what we call a G HOWEVER as a protective mom myself you gotta know when to let your kids sink or swim. They will learn one day. When you're fighting with them to do right, your approach must completely change. Its hands off and much prayer. God bless yall❤
Prayer lol
Who tf called her a G? Why because she’s aggressive and delusional?
❤well said
Who tf is "we"? Not one woman in my family behaves like this bird. WE call this a mess.
This is not embarrassing at all. We love them. God bless them. I hope they find peace together
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 What? This is beyond embarrassing!
She love them kids but at the same time the hood built her.
@imperfectnurse and that's all that is....if nobody understood what you said, i did..well said
🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼
And that’s it! Well said 🙌🏾
That’s it that’s all
Oh well! I wonder if she knows how to act in work situations... if you know how to act there, you can act right and communicate with your children!
This woman/mother has touched me like no other guest on any show.... the passion for her children, her raw honesty, charming... harsh but caring...that woman is a blessing to people I promise you!
Exactly! I was thinking the same thing. I haven’t seen another mother that I felt for like this one.
I felt every word from the Mom, omg I was in tears 😢 I love the Mom and I don't even know her❤💯❤
This episode has touched my heart . I wish that I could hug and talk with Michelle. She’s been traumatized and I can relate. Hugs to the both of you.
" I don't have to deal with you all I gotta do is give you to GOD " ❤🙏🏽
I FELT THE HECK OUTTA THAT!
In order to protect your own peace of mind, You have to love some family members ( even if it's your own mother or your own daughter) from a distance.
I didnt expect the ending. The pain was real in this one. I am truly happy that they found their voices and were able to communicate their true feeIings. I hope they continue to fight "themselves" to find the peace they so desperately need. Namaste
Yeah Its hard being Black in positive way. This has to do with Slavery
Momma is not perfect, and Nobody is. I love her, and I definitely feel her pain ❤️
Agree ❤
I knew mothers who was disrespectful and terrible all her children she birth became intellectuals lawyer, engineer etc... Not all bad parents bring forth bad seeds only God knows where to distribute blessings.
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She took accountability
You a black woman right? You don't have to answer that. Just by your comment I know you a black woman. I can see why black women the less desired women. Because y'all say dumb shit like this
This is definitely tough love, no one is perfect after all but this Mamma right here! She's a real mother, very protective and straight forward.
No. No. No. The mother hasn’t got over her childhood trauma, and she’s given it to her children. That’s not love.
@@gemmapugh4144she didn’t do that on purpose, like she said, she literally didn’t know no better and she’s learning. She’s trying, that’s the love, the effort. You expecting her to be a perfect parent and that doesn’t exist
@@gemmapugh4144they don’t know what tough love is.
Those kids raised themselves.
She's a nutcase
Satan is busy trying to destroy families. DON'T LET HIM!❤
This comment! Aameen. ❤
Yesssss he is!!
Religion has nothing to do with it. That's ignorant. It's the people making dumbass decisions . Don't blame religion on this it's the ppl.
... Ably assisted by the toxic folk in THE COMMUNITY!
the devil is a liar
Mommy had me when she call her bro. 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
😂😂🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Yeah it's a no for me. Saying Bro to anyone is benign. 🤦🏽♀️
😂😂😂😂
Not that serious. She’s HURT
@@toriblack3998Wow. Now we can't say bro to our bros.
Momma is protecting her and she’s a real OG! That girl is doing some illegal activity right now and momma still ain’t telling on her. Momma knows her secrets and daughter needs to humble herself.
She better stop because mom told on her on TV😢
@@jazzylady5245 they was pushing all of her buttons
Exxxxxactly!! Daughter definitely not a saint!
@@tashaterrell7249she, the daughter said that herself😭…..
Whoooooo ooooh!!!! I agree with u 💯 I can see right thru everything and did u notice that the daughter didn’t want her mommy to speak ? She wanted to look perfect on camera while her and have her mom looking like an outlaw
When he gave her that hug!!!!!! It made her feel safe great job!!!!
One of the guest is just breaking me down, the young man in the black check shirt at corner is being crying through out.
@@GraceEdwards-vk8yyat which minute
I loved this episode,I felt it.
Imma tell my grandkids THIS LIL BOOSIE MOM
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“I don’t like her character. She creep” 🤣🤣🤣
I had to chuckle at that😂
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I love her, but I don’t like her😂😂😂
😂😂😂😂 the moma is a fool with it. Haa
"Girl it's not worth staying mad. Yo mama crazy good and she got yo back. You lucky!!!"💕💕💕
Not really! Do you want a violent unstable volcano around? Not all fights require shouting!
No, she’s not lucky, because her mom is a very volatile person and needs help
This momma definitely loves her children and would definitely lay her life down for them, they both are hurting and if they can get pass that they will be unbreakable.
She don’t love them 🙄
@@lolitadiaz0113this is disrespectful to even say. Of course she does
my points exactly
@@lolitadiaz0113Not our fault u was abandon.
@@kayaeofficialI would never threaten to take off my jacket to fight my kid
Mother has gone over and beyond. It's nothing else for her to do but stay out the way everything will come together in time. I had an auntie who was like this with her daughters, which is very protective and definitely would clean the streets if someone came against them 🤔 sometimes you just can't see the trees for the forest. I am praying it works for all of them. ❤❤
Daughter need to relax' she to ignorant
Mom is so real' she know herself
Fr the daughter odeeee and the man is definitely the problem
KARAMO is amazingly patient!❤
The fiancé put a good show on then when the mom came out he showed his true colors talking about you wanted this fraud money tho . Proving what the mother said . Shoulda kept his mouth closed .
They need to cease their operations before the FEDs see this and get curious 😂😂😂
This lady need a show. I also feel she has an anointing for speaking.
RIGHT!
Definitely!
This was so good to watch. Her momma just never got a chance to “vent” really. They love each other. Hope their healing journey is filled with blessings ✨
I noticed the daughter didn’t deny nothing that the Momma was saying about what the daughter has done, the daughter had an “idgaf” attitude & wasn’t honest about her short comings but wanted to air her business out. I’m always the first to tell the truth on myself before I say something about someone else’s business.
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She said she did her dirt😢
That momma was one the REALEST guest ever on this show.
You can tell from the what the mother shared that her daughter and her partner, and the things they've done, have brought drama and trouble to their door, and momma went into protection mode. I truly think that she put herself on the line to protect and combat for her child. You can't ask for the beast to be released for the fight and then want it settled after the attack. Like she said some things we have to handle on our own, and she needs to let her daughter handle and sort the mess that she makes, and mom just needs to pray for her protection and share her love and guidance but allow her to walk that walk. Sometimes children need to learn the hard way and the results or faults of their actions.
The mother is a sick and damaged person. She has no credibility. She is a troubled person and needs immediate mental health care. She didn't raise her children.
So true
Lovely
@@jewels5642right
I agree
I LOVED THIS EPISODE!!!
This momma loves her children. She has character. Daughter has to express herself but stay respectful!!
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I agree also. 👍💯
🎯 You are 100 percent correct. The daughter's actions showed me a lot.
Yes. Absolutely. The daughter is very disrespectful@@neecyboyd9116
respect goes both ways and clearly that hasnt been happening
These bad mother daughter relationships are so sad, i lost my mom at 17 and now at 35 i wish i could see or touch,laugh with my my mom just 1 more time and i appreciate the tome and great relationship i had with her.love on your mother if she is still here you only get one and when they transition that time is over until the next lifetime
This mama is real, raw!!! & I love that. She just come from a tough up bringing & she be in protective mode. She should probably loosen with because of her daughters
The mother is so dramatic 😂😂😂😂 she need her own tv show 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 dwl I’m laughing and crying with her 😂😂😂😂😂
FR. Momma is HILARIOUS 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
This is so sad, she asks like a man
I actually feel for the mama ❤
WHY????
@@knightclassic1HELPP LMAOO
Yes ma'am me as well
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Totally agree
I'm going through this right now! They won't tell me what's wrong and only happy when they want something. I have 6 kids with 2 of them acting like her daughter. I feel ALL her pain.
Story of my life
So sorry, sometimes I think we as mother's need to get together and help each other to heal and overcome
Me too
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Michelle is HILARIOUS. She said baptize her in some GIN 😂😂😂
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I agree alot with the mother from the child's actions. She kept on interrupting her mother and wouldn't let her talk which is very disrespectful. That showed me alot right there. My mother would have knocked me into next year if I talked to her like that PERIODT.
Knocking you into next year is really great parenting. That would make you a really successful person.
@@Zorobbabelikr and more 😂💯
**sigh** This is not great. Lol
Her mom never taught her shit bcuz she wasn't around. Why do blk ppl expect kids to be more emotionally mature than their parents? Where are they learning the emotional maturity?🤔 Yall sound crazy.
I have a mother. Just like this woman. My mama will ride behind me no matter what if i’m wrong or right. My mama has said over and over again she will go to jail or die behind me and my sisters. We may not be the best but she means well. I love my mama for having that care in her. So I personally feel where this woman is coming from. As for her daughter, she is entitled. I stand with the mama on this episode 💯👏🏼 And I love her personality 😂😂❤️ But I also feel and see her pain
The daughter has so much anger that she does not know how to control her emotions with her mom. Mom came out cool, but the daughter pushed from her place of anger. Once mom got to that point, she couldn't handle her mom's rage.
One of the best episodes I ever saw. I truly see the mom & her struggles. Salute to both of them ❤️
This episode was AMAZING!
I have total respect for the mother because she has been through some rough stuff for her kids and to protect her children and she not the type to just let some shit go! At the same time she knows she’s a lot and she’s willing to admit she’s wrong and take accountability for her actions and admit she’s wrong.
Nope, is wrong as a mom, you don’t EVER treat your children like that. I wouldn’t have my children around her at all, toxic.
Karamo u r so kind. You just make this angry mother calm and loved. God bless u!🙏🏽❤️
“This angry mother” .. she’s a lot more complex then that
I see the mother, yes, however the daughter was doing what she claims her mother does. She was disrespectful in not letting her mother talk without her constantly interrupting her. The daughter needs more counseling than her mom. You can clearly see this is a cycle generationally deep.
The daughter wouldn't shut up my daughter is just like that! I had to learn to let her go until she is ready she grown!
The daughter not being fully truthful. That's what that means!!!
The daughter is doing what she has learned. This is not to excuse her behavior. It's to say she's doing what she learned to do. They all need counseling
There's a young man in the audience that needs to talk his ....
Like mother like daughter, they're mad and bad as each other, "mouthy"
I could understand her Mother she is very over protective of her kids and Love them to pieces this brought me to tears I really like her Mother love the ending ❤️ 💕
Neither of them are all bad, all good or all wrong. The problem is that they were talking past each other because they were in defense mode. You can't hear someone if youre only focused on anger, retaliation, judgment and defense.
Also, it's clear the mother was trying not to throw them under the bus. Looks like she took a charge for them without snitching. She also put these kids too high on a pedestal to be fighting battles they created, and now you are locked up for handling somebody. I understood her mom's frustration cause yall wanna call her violent after she stood on business for yall mess. That would've had me all types of hot. It's clear this woman is a G and that's just the life she has lived.... no judgment
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You may as well be Karamo! What an excellent analysis. 🎉
Why I’m I so emotional. Lord help my community. Our men and some times our mothers have left us to carry the load. We have no one to help us. God heal our families! Thank you Karamo🙏🏾
No she didn't say- baptize me in some Gin, I can't 😂
Lol
My mother is the same exact way. I feel for you. This episode made me cry.
The mother said her daughter fought and she had to go help her it’s the parent right to protect the children
This is a mother?
@@kattiethomas4687Chile... 😮
@@kattiethomas4687 Why u so mad
The mama comes from violence, but when Karamo got ready to give her that hug you could genuinely see so much love, so much joy, and honestly her beautiful sense of humor. She reminds me of my aunt that passed away, she was 92 years old, and she left this earth when I was a junior in highschool, and oh the way that woman loved and made people laugh. I really hope the mom goes and gets healing; you know? She deserves that.
Dang I had a Friend LIKE THIS MOM😢🙏🏽Praying for her children and healing,Communication &Understanding
❤ I just luv Karamo. You can tell he genuinely cares about helping folks.
The way the mom is sitting 😂😂😂
Mommy has issues and daughter has issues as we all do for whatever reason.. I'm glad she opening up.. and I pray they continue healing... it was beautiful to see see them loving on eachother.. I can feel the love..her momma is real hood lol loved the realness... and pray she continues on her path of healing.
Lord have mercy on them. She does love her children but I think she’s just mixup, she need counselling. We all need to love our children and have relationships with them. She’s just upset. Her daughter loves her too, they all is mixed up. One they gave to do is change thinking and they will change their lives. May God help you both to sort things out. Ka mara you are a genius and so gentle.
Lord have mercy on them. She does love her children but I think she’s just mixup, she need counselling. We all need to love our children and have relationships with them. She’s just upset. Her daughter loves her too, they all is mixed up. One they gave to do is change thinking and they will change their lives. May God help you both to sort things out. Ka mara you are a genius and so gentle and willing to help them.
The mama ain’t no joke she hood asf😂😂 she told the boyfriend I’ll make a threat and it will really happen.
You see he sat down lol
She not smart to say it on TV 🤨
@@SedB101She told him to sit and where to sit! 😂
@@SedB101in a hurry
Yessss that part😂
I feel her mom!! Me & my mom don’t have the best relationship but she’s definitely going to be there FOREVER! And the fact the daughter wouldn’t let her mom TALK at the beginning shows a lot. She didn’t want her mom to tell what was really going on. The daughter and her “fiancé” done had to stay with her mom & some more stuff. Not on the streets, but with her MOM! I’m so happy the mom was able to tell her side, you’d think she was a monster listening to the daughter.
The Mama & Daughter are so beautiful ❤️ I hope it all works out! Think this is my favorite episode.
How could you respect a mother who blames you for her own behavior, her own choices, tells you they don’t like you, calls you a four time murderer, accused your fiancée of touching your daughter then because she gotta camera in her face and because Karamo asked her about accountability, she says “yeah it’s her fault too, not just her kids fault” Why couldn’t she have just taken accountability for her daughter instead of coming on tv making an ass outta herself
You respect your mother period. Doesn’t mean you have to stick around for it but usually theres childhood trauma that they’ve never gotten help with. I don’t have the best relationship with my mother but I will forever respect her because shes ny mother.
She isnt perfect. But this woman is holding herself accountable
Because her mom is a human and makes mistakes, she wasn’t speaking out of anger it ain’t right but that’s her momma
This mom is so likeable
Agree!
The mom has admitted her misplaced anger and the fact that she found her mom dead. Thats possibly a reason for her behavior towards her children.
That’s still not an excuse for how she treated her children , she probably did the best she could but it wasn’t enough her children needed more that what she could give them and then she also gave them trauma as well and it shows in Malikas behavior,the way she speaks to her children is a result of her past trauma and she needs to own up to that as their mother and apologize those kids don’t owe her anything because at the end of the day she made those she was the parent In the situation and if you wanted for your kids you should’ve did better instead of blaming for the way that they are.
@@alarey4450 long post talking abt nothing just hush
Yeah finding a parent deceased is enough to change anyone. Especially when she may have had unresolved issues with her mom
That daughter is full of it! She thinks she's better than her mom because she been to jail!
Don’t let me her presentation fool you, momma is a REAL ONE and she knows whats up! I fell out when momma told the husband “Ya better sit ya soft ass down!” 😂😂😂
It's good to recognize a generational curse so it can be broken. I salute this mother and daughter. The daughter took the right step... It STOPS here.
I LOVE THIS MOMMA!! 😢Oh my God she is a GREAT MOM! I want her book. What’s her name?
Bump
What makes her a great mom?
The daughter is not even letting the mom finish a sentence in front of an audience so I can only imagine have she be behind close doors
God bless this family!. Please know that me and hundreds more are rooting for y’all relationship in addition to the other siblings. Karamo, please note you knocked this one out the ball park! Phenomenal job.
God is so good. I feel blessed to hear their story. I've been there and I know her pain❤ stay strong Mama stay strong. Express yourself from the heart. I don't know y'all but I love you all 💯👑👑💪🏾
I like how he asks for a hug instead of assuming everybody is so excited to see him they are open to a hug.
I Love KARAMO THANKS FOR GIVING KARAMO HIS FLOWERS 💐
I love this mom❤❤❤
She's not the best but she's not the worse. She just need to be taught and shown a better way.❤❤❤
I love the mother I was recently on the show with my daughter and I feel her pain absolutely I'm in tears because these kids don't understand what we have in go through for them I feel Michelle I fought my daughter battles but yet I'm the bad guy at the end of days I feel you Michelle love you girl you spoke for all the parents that's going through the same thing love you Michelle
That part
Not until we older and walking in your shoes❤ then we get it lol
You crazy. This lady is a drug addicted and in and out of prison.
What episode was you on?
It’s not a child’s responsibility to take for the parents. Tht come later. But it shouldn’t be expected
Lord in Heaven knows this remind me of one of my daughters..smh This is not a good relationship with a parent and child at all. This is so awesome that Karamo have such a healing to families in this toxic situation. ❤️ 😊
This mother is different than a lot of the others that be on here. You can tell she loves her kids but she has a lot of healing to do. And when the mother thought that the granddaughter had been molested, the mother probably been through the same thing.
Exactly!! And before she kept quiet that shit go down she said something to protect her grand baby! Maybe she didn’t go about it the best way but she wasn’t gonna let it slide and that I can respect
The mother is out of control with all the violence! God thank you for parents that warranted respect and were good parents! This behavior is passed on for generations! Prayerfully this show will help them!
Everyone grows up differently. She found her mom dead, I think that would
Take a mental toll on anyone. And from what I’m hearing, she’s violent protecting those kids! I don’t think you really heard what she was saying
@@TierraD5397Bro there’s so many ways to protect your kid and show them you love them, but whole time she was doing neither. She knew she had all them problems and didn’t get help and have 7 kids??? Your brain must be a pea
@@zareyyxans listen, I said everyone grows up differently! You’re right, there are many ways to show your love for your children but she may not know those ways! She stated she found
Her mom deceased, that alone can traumatize someone for the rest of their life! And other than that, it means she didn’t have a mother to show her love! So please don’t come for me on this platform. Questioning my intelligence isn’t the way to go sweetheart. Make your statement & let that be. You’re a little too wrapped up in my opinion for you to feel the need to even say some weird shit like that. I took a psychology & sociology course when I got my bachelors & we did numerous reports about how traumatizing shit like this can really scorn people! Her not getting counseling most likely contributed to that.
Watching from Kenya.🥰🥰 lets respect,forgive and peace is a paramount for each..love your shows Mr Karamo🤩🤩🤩
I thank God for the mother he bless me with
I feel feel that daughter is hell and tryna come off all good. That momma ain’t been perfect but the daughter seem to be full of shit
Spot on!
FACTUALLY SPEAKING!
I love the mom! She REAL AND RAW
This hit home. I’m glad they’re getting the help they need
Best episode. The mother is looking to feel safe. She needs her children to love and embrace her so she can stop fighting. She just wants to feel stable.
That mama is HOOOOOOOODDDDDD 🥷🏿. Loved the happy ending
Even if my mom was the worst, i’d never allow my man to talk down on her like that. Nah… that would be the last of us
@@MyaVatMii do you mean “you’re”? I don’t mind being called toxic if I’m not okay with anyone talking to the woman that birthed me in a respectful manner. I would never talk to anyone’s parents like that. You can bring a point across without putting down the woman who raised the person you claim to love. If my man had a mother I believe isn’t good for him, I’ll care for him, be there for him and never raise my voice at his mother. If that makes me toxic, I’m good being toxic.
@@MyaVatMii and one thing about parents and children is they easily forgive each other… and who will look stupid for being disrespectful.
@@MyaVatMii 🙄. From everything I typed, that’s all you took from it? It’s for clarity’s sake. And thank you, I’m having a good day 👍🏾
@@SavvyShenanigansFINANCElol. That’s all he could say because you’re not toxic.
@@MyaVatMii lol. Go read
Mom has done her best. Imagine her what she’s been through. She is over protective because of her experiences! She is trying to break a cycle…she just wants the best for her and her grandchildren. I can see it clearly!!!
Break what cycle? If she was trying to break a cycle she would’ve went to therapy long ago.
Ain’t no doubt that this woman love her kids!!!
"It didn't start with me" okay...but it could have ended with you if you got help. Admitting doing wrong is so unnatural to some mom's 😢
Only the bad ones don't.... but the good one's get the terrible children... this young generation doesn't take accountability for nothing. But feel so entitled to everything.
@@tricethomas9653 Maybe they don't know accountability bcs their parents also do not exercise accountability like ever.
@@forevergodly167EXACTLY😂 how can you tell someone to take accountability when you don’t do it yourself!!! Make it make sense
This episode spoke to me loudly. Grew up around a lot of trauma and violence me and my mom have a horrible relationship but I changed when I had my daughter straight from the hood but I’ll never let the world or my trauma shake the bond I have with my daughter like my mother did to me. Beautiful story ladies so glad to witness a mother and daughter actually work through their struggles, blessings to this whole family ✨
This was one of the best episodes Karamo, this realness & rawness of it. I wish this mama & her children nothing but the best ❤
I LOVE the fight in her mom!!!!
I cried through the whole thing. I love them🥹 that’s a real mother right there straight out the hood!❤️💪🏽she was brought up rough & without a voice which caused it to become a continuous cycle .. so glad they both were able to see eye to eye & hear each other out. DEFINITELY wanted to hug them both 🥹❤️ therapy would definitely be a good fit for them. #neverjudgeabookbyitscover! Ever!
Wish this family peace and blessings
Like mother like daughter the mother has a deep problem. We need to get to the root of the mother, something is wrong Lord heal both mother and and Daughter 🙏🙏
I think this was one of my favorite episodes and I love them mom and I hope that they continue healing