Girl Chat: First Dates, and Unattractive Mates
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- Опубліковано 28 тра 2024
- Adrienne Houghton, Jeannie Mai, Loni Love, and Tamera Mowry-Housley discuss what to do when your feelings shift for your partner. They also chat all about first dates!
Would you go on a second date with someone who had bad breath? Sound off below!
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I LOVE these old girl chats BUT when Jeannie talks about Freddie and how their marriage is and then you remember the present you’re like 🥺☹️
Yes
Yes but shes clearly much healthier and happier now.
Things happen when you get divorced. The divorce process for most people gets messy. Keep in mind. Also she had a better attitude initially, and then as the divorce progress her feelings got more negative.
That's why I don't pay attention to people's relationships bcuz she acted like he was so great look at them now
Right!!! I was like um how did I accidentally choose an old episode but they uploaded it recently wtf why so out of order
Y'all gonna quit complaining about these old clips. Some of us can't catch every Girl Chat and this is a whole UA-cam blessing. Thank you The Real!!
Ebonee May 😂🙌👍
Ebonee May Agreed. I don’t have a TV so this is all I watch!
Agreed 💯💯👏🏽👏🏽
On behalf of all of my African people out there, geography books don’t bite so read them! Ignorance is unattractive. 🤦🏾♀️
Preach honey 🙌
When I first saw this video when they were talking about giving back to your partner and doing something thoughtful for them I thought about it and wanted to try it out. When my man was taking a shower i threw his towel in the dryer on full heat so when he gets out (you know how your usually freezing even if the heaters on) he has his warm towel to warm him up. He was totally thrown off by it and he loved it now we do it to eachother everytime we shower
That's sweet
Thts so fucking cuteeeee
Awww :)))
Awwwww how sweet🥰🥰😍😍
What attracts me to a guy is sense of humor and personality.
I am shook by how uneducated people are when it comes to Africa. Please note: Africa is the second largest continent in the world (Asia is number 1), there are 54 countries in Africa with a variety of different languages and cultures. Lord have mercy! sigh.😥
@Luísa Pinto Exactly my point, I mean I don't expect people to know everything about Africa but atleast what I've mentioned above. My 9 year old cousin knows the 7 different continents by heart. 😑😒
💯👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾I’m African btw
Preach. It automatically turns me off when someone is ignorant enough to not know if Africa is a continent. It shows how dumb someone is.
Someone recently asked me what the African flag is and I was like wtf
Luísa Pinto we know what the higher ups allow us to know about Africa . Forgive our ignorance a lot of us honestly don’t know (I did tho lol)
Tamera is such a natural beauty shout out to her stylists too. Hot mama
Sierra Johnson j no.
Sierra Johnson day th
To be fair guys Jeannie used to talk about her husband A LOT so it's hard to sift through all the hot topics were freddie isn't mentioned. I mean imagine having to sift through all the segments were Tamera doesn't talk about her kids.
Sarah for real. Every comment is like “they shading her” blah blah like damn chill out
She'd never be uploaded if that's the case 😂😂😂😂😂
Perfect point Sarah!
Lmfao!!!! 😂🤣 good point
Perfect example referring to Tamera!
I absolutely LOVE how tams face lights up every time she talks about Adam, its great to know that there are some people who truly love each other out there.
Who keeps uploading chats where jeannie talks about her exhusband?? #Shadeee
Right?! #petty!
She said her husband of 10 years, aren't they divorced?
Yes! That’s not cool!
Riiigghhttt?? So shaddy..
Joseph Guardado yes! This is an a clip
So... some African-American people in the crowd thought Africa was a country ??? Duuude, how awkward is that? Thats soo embarassing
And they are just ignorant. Being from Africa and seeing how guys even have no idea whether it's a continent is just..I'm even speechless
And I bet most of them are from the south smh. My parents and I always knew it was a continent.
I love the real !!!the girls are awesome they are all Gorgeous !!
People just forget sometimes, I don’t think it’s very embarrassing
Lauren J People just forget that Africa is continent? Like they don’t know what a continent is or they actually think their is a single country out there called Africa? The US education system is failing.
Man... I've totally been through this. I was attracted to the mind, and the chemistry that we had, but physically there was just no attraction at all. I feel you need a combination of physical, mental, and sexual chemistry for anything to work.
I agree with u 💯
The physical initially pulls u in. The sexual gives you a good time & the emotional keeps you going.
U right.
@@memshinlamed9079 perhaps God would give you children who are "ugly" and that will teach you to be humble and realise when you calling someone physical looks ugly you are insulting the Creator that gave them that look.
Not only that, atleast he can have surgery (Not that he needs it. He is beautiful) but it's a shame u can't change ur ugly personality.
Michelle Moulton 💀💀💀
Stop lying LANI, you said there's no racist agenda against black men and black women and that where on the same boat with whites and asians, first get your facts straight before you come to an conclusion. If that's true why are laws more stricter in the black community than white communities, why are black babies being cared for and not dying as much by black doctors compared to white doctors, ya search for a video a white doctor was arrested for illegally selling black baby parts, and what about over 23 black missing children found on a truck kidnapped by white men in atlanta why aren't you talking about why isn't that in the media or even ellin on her show naming her wayfair pillow line after black missing children, why are cops, politicians and courts being more protective of white communities when gun violence happens. They say we need to protect our schools when black people been saying the same thing years back, why are black neighborhoods full of abortion centers which science has proven that abortions causes breast cancer, why are our streets being filled with liquor stores and strip clubs on just about every block, but when it happens to white neighborhoods all of a sudden the law makers wants to stop it. I could go on and on but it seems to me every since you'll got with that white guy you've changed, No not all white people are bad but that changes nothing about the distrefences all black people are facing with a globalized system built on white privilege and racism full of money, greed and racial supremacy. We can march with them, have them as friends, etc. but that changes nothing about them repping the benefits knowing or unknowingly. Where not on the same boat.... you can't deny that if we where we'd be free to travel any where we want without worrying about being discriminated against or even lynched because of the system set in place. I almost forgot a black man was electrocuted in alabama even after proven innocent for a crime he didn't commit against police, talk about that. Amber Guyger given 5 years compared to a black male police officer who almost did the same thing which he was given life in prison, talk about that. A homeless black women given 50 years in prison for trying to feed her children talk about that. Are we really on the same boat, are we, should us black people really be upset, yes because it's happening to us not them !
HOW IS HALF THE AUDIENCE BLACK AND NOT KNOW THAT AFRICA IS A CONTINENT ...... Thts your mother land 🤦🏾♀️
They might needs non European's geography knowledge.
Ashley Gibson such a shame
A lot of black Americans claim to have no connection with Africa so this doesn’t shock me at all.
well i have to say that a lot of americans dont really recognise countrys from Europa that well after they are out of School from my experience geography isnt a priority for them@@LoveGod1987
@@roses6821 I agreed. I noticed geography is really not priority in school. I wonder if that's why most Americans are only English speaker due to not being culturally expose more. Then again I dont know
You mean to tell me that half the audience did not know that Africa is a continent and not a country? What is going on over there in America? SMH
Changu Selemi IM SAYIN! It’s because in America, when people are talking about how they visited a nation in Africa, rather than saying “I once took a trip to Senegal,” they’ll say “I once took a trip to Africa.” They’ve been doing it for years and it’s really annoying.🙄
Changu Selemi so what?!
I could say the same. America is a continent not a country 😂
Vangie Nickens so you are dumbass
@@Di_777 Agreed! America isn't a continent. The Americas are two seperate continents. North and South.
Central America is not a continent but a number of countries.
I hate when people say america is a continent. It's not. the United States of America is a country in North America. But because it has America in the name people think it is a continent
But back to the overall thing, I think ita juag because when schools talk about Africa they never talk about individual countries.
Except for world history in the 7th grade where they talked about ancient Egypt. They really don't talk about Africa much.
The education system in the U.S focuses mostly on western Europe and the USA.
Not even neighboring countries get much attention. I dont know anything about Canada and most people here don't know that Mexico has states.
It's just a lack of emphasis on history and current event. They have been trying to fix it in the educational system for years now but it is hard since so much power still remains at the local level (not even the state).
Most kids take geography in middle school although now it is supposed to be spread out over the years, so really it makes sense that people wouldn't have much knowledge about Africa unless they are taught at home (either by parents or through their own reading, watching, etc) or have family from those areas.
Ignorant people ☹️🤦🏽♂️ Living in South Africa 🇿🇦, it pisses me off when people say Africa is a country 🤦🏽♂️
I feel the same, I have family and friends from different countries in Africa (Togo, Ghana, South Africa, etc.), I hate when people equate Africa to a country.
It's a continent they don't get that
I feel the same way then them say america is a country, im from costa rica! AMERICA IS A CONTINENT! god...
They need to go back to primary school ......😂😂
That's because bitches are retarded
The harsh reality is that it’s impossible to keep butterflies forever. Every relationship has stages. It’s natural to lose physical attraction to an extent. Eventually, other things will bond you. Other things will matter more. Those things are what makes a marriage last. Not sex.
facts
Well put 🤔
C R Very well SAID!!!!!
Wrd
Honestly Jeannie always has the best things to say in girl chat she always answers the questions for flat out what it is.
Here in 2022 looking at Jeannie and her glow up! I’m so happy for her
Seriously, y'all don't know Africa is a continent? i'm so offended😂
I am European and I am offended too😂
I will never forget hearing Jeannie say that you find out who someone is when they don't get what they want. And Loni is right, too. It isn't just about talking and cuddling, its about still walking in the same direction in life. People change, what they want in life changes, what they're willing to settle with or settle for changes. You can't just bail because life doesn't work out the way you want, but you should never give up your life. Jeannie was right not to have a kid she didn't want. Don't give a career up you would regret not having.
Everyones complaining about the old video uploads lol but whenever they dont upload videos, I watch old videos anyways so I dont mind 😁😊
Stop lying LANI, you said there's no racist agenda against black men and black women and that where on the same boat with whites and asians, first get your facts straight before you come to an conclusion. If that's true why are laws more stricter in the black community than white communities, why are black babies being cared for and not dying as much by black doctors compared to white doctors, ya search for a video a white doctor was arrested for illegally selling black baby parts, and what about over 23 black missing children found on a truck kidnapped by white men in atlanta why aren't you talking about why isn't that in the media or even ellin on her show naming her wayfair pillow line after black missing children, why are cops, politicians and courts being more protective of white communities when gun violence happens. They say we need to protect our schools when black people been saying the same thing years back, why are black neighborhoods full of abortion centers which science has proven that abortions causes breast cancer, why are our streets being filled with liquor stores and strip clubs on just about every block, but when it happens to white neighborhoods all of a sudden the law makers wants to stop it. I could go on and on but it seems to me every since you'll got with that white guy you've changed, No not all white people are bad but that changes nothing about the distrefences all black people are facing with a globalized system built on white privilege and racism full of money, greed and racial supremacy. We can march with them, have them as friends, etc. but that changes nothing about them repping the benefits knowing or unknowingly. Where not on the same boat.... you can't deny that if we where we'd be free to travel any where we want without worrying about being discriminated against or even lynched because of the system set in place. I almost forgot a black man was electrocuted in alabama even after proven innocent for a crime he didn't commit against police, talk about that. Amber Guyger given 5 years compared to a black male police officer who almost did the same thing which he was given life in prison, talk about that. A homeless black women given 50 years in prison for trying to feed her children talk about that. Are we really on the same boat, are we, should us black people really be upset, yes because it's happening to us not them !
"Is Africa a country or a continent?
If he doesn't know the answer I am out already", this killed me @Loni! Hahahaha love you all.
I agree with Adrienne. I've never been out with someone I don't know
If a person say “they just don’t feel it” mean they want out of that specific relationship and want to seek a new person or be single
my babe's mind is very attractive and his kindness is what gets me,,,but all of this are facts
I hate being a college student being being back in school I cant watch episodes of THE REAL. I wish you guys would upload full episodes 💔
Save me like this is the only way I can watch The Real
Mrs Norman
And newer ones😤
You’re going to have to change your class schedule ... priorities 😂
Black in school? Wtf it ain’t got shyt to do w race and here come yu🙄
@@chardonnayred7607 she said being *back* in school not *black* in school
I think she really believed that she had a good marriage but obviously they had bigger issues that killed their relationship 😔 It's sad but she will find her soulmate someday ❤
Nice say my dear
Tamera looks so lovely!
I’m with A on this one. I didn’t have my first day with my husband until after knowing him for a couple months. I never went on a date with a stranger. I’ve always known them one way or another. Less chance of something bad going down. Plus if I come up missing, my circle knows where to find the man
Exactly 💯💯💯👏🏽👏🏽
I agree with Tamera’s 3 date rule. It’s worked for me in the past. Plus, I cut off getting to know an amazing guy I met this year and then he died unexpectedly....so, needless to say, I regret being so cautious of it not working that I didn’t get to see if it would have worked.
Adrienne is a bomb you guys! Just love love her make up, hairstyle. Just everything!
Exactly 💯💯👏🏽👏🏽
I agree with Adrienne, I need to know the person first as a friend and get to know them.
I used to only date friends of friends. That got me the same kind of relationships in the same circle of friends. I threw out "my type" and have never been happier 😇
I really enjoyed this girl chat, filmed so long ago but still relative today, I love all these ladies and what they bring and brought to the show and I'm with Adrienne in the dating thing, gotta know ya, friends first!
Im so happy they have girl chat on UA-cam keeps me occupied during the quarantine/pandemic!
where did Adrienne get that blouse
I love these !!!!!! Please keep uploading old and new full videos we love all of them
Anytime you try to mold yourself to please someone, you end up being more unattractive. You have to determine whether the loss in attraction is just words to say “I don’t like what you did” or a deeper loss, that is often times accompanied by an interest in someone else.
What all Adrienne say about the relationships is right. And she's got good friends around her to make it possible..
So when I ask my husband “ what can I do for you ?“ or “ is there anything you need help with ?“ he’s always like “no I don’t need you to do anything I can do it on my own . “ he kills the whole vibe . Like why the hell is he like that ?
B B negative and a little self hating. Keep an eye on that. Hard to be w someone that won’t let you pursue them. It’s exhausting
Yes now I know he really never gave a damn about me .I wouldn’t make someone I love feel bad about themselves . It’s done and I’m glad I’ve moved on from that situation. I will let God handle him.
Wow. Dang
That’s why fall in love with their eyes... (or eyebrows!!) those don’t really change much over the years. Eyes hold so much sparkle and shows emotion.. so deep.
Eyebrows lmao😂
I absolutely adore silk fabric!!! It automatically makes everyone look a bit more Elegant & sophisticated 🥰.
I know all those silk worms make beautiful things...your not vegan then?
Jeanie talking about her ex husband in the present tense should give the clue that it's an old clip. She's even wearing her ring and saying she loves her husband and they've been together for almost 10. Why are they showing an old clip though?
Exactly, so sad.
Nyce Queen they show old clips for ppl like me who just started watching the show...
Jeannie is much more happy and free without Freddie. Kudos to her ❤️
She's a jumper
I love all of their outfits in this one
Tamera looks soooo wifeable in this segment!!!!
Protect Tamera at all costs
This was a great girl chat 🙌🏾😩
This is one of their most interesting conversations
Ok we need a compilation of Loni’s “Höhö” in almost every girl chat 😂😂
Rim_su yesssss
Everyone is attracted to “the brain” until they see a guy doesn’t have money or has a small D etc , physical attraction plays a big part
Simphiwe Hlatshwayo honestly physical attraction is very important too
Physical attraction does play a part to an extent. If your partner is extremely attractive but has a shitty personality, it makes you unattractive to me, regardless of how they look. Having a good personality makes you 10x more attractive imo.
@@alex_n215 exactly 💯💯👏🏽👏🏽
Omg I love y’all. Great show today.
The ladies always happen spot on advice imo.. of course some stuff can seem weird and hash but for the most part there advice is great, also I love there bond together, you can tell they really care for eachother
Omg that has happened to me a couple times. I have a crush on a guy and find him attractive then all of a sudden I wake up and I'm like ew I can't believe i thought u were cute😂.
Has Jeannie ever told the story of how her and Freddie actually met and dated?
You ladies are taking into me!! This was mines and my sons father relationship this is insane!!
I want to see them live 😭💗
I was in a relationship for 3 years and the 3rd year was the hardest on us, we were always fighting and I was the one trying to fix everything but it got to the point where I couldn't fight anymore. He admitted that he was pulling away for awhile and was done for months. Part of me knew the relationship was over but I loved him so much I wanted to fight for us to get better but it just wasn't working. In the end I never once regretted my decision because I knew I tried and being able to say that makes me feel good. No it didn't work out but I know it was something I didn't give up so easily like other things in my life.
I’m french, and i can tell you that people here are going to judge you SO BAD if you got the nerve to say that Africa is a country, especially if you’re black omg🤦🏾♀️
When Jeannie start talking I'm down every single time I'm learning something new from her
That was the shortest 14 minutes ever lol😂 i love girl chat !
You cannot base your relationship on feelings. Love is choice people. You wake up and choose to love them despite how you feel because you made a commitment.
they keep shading jeannie uploading stuff from when she was married...
Right
gvidalq posting a clip as a throwback where she MENTIONS him isn't shade... it's apart of her life and she talked about him on this show for 4 seasons straight and they are good ! She wishes him the best and they both moved on
It’s not like they don’t read the continuous comments of this
That's why it's the real....something real and happening
@@MajesticMyronn I get the one where she mentions him but vids like these where she's celebrating coming up on 10 years and was so excited when we know the reality can feel to intentionally ironic to be accidental.
Awww I see Mama Mai in the audience!! Love her!!
Jeannie always on point with everything she says ! So much wisdom she has !
totally relate to what Adrienne said at 4:27 had an ex who had already given up on us but was too coward to tell me
I LOVE THIS LOOK ON LONI!!!!
Love this talk..love from Malaysia ❤u guys are awesome
oh yes Adrienne I have...I'm afraid this is exactly what is happening right now and it's with my husband of almost 5years🙄 and yes Loni absolutely great question!!
Africa is the world's second largest continent behind Asia. At about 30.3 million km2 (11.7 million square miles) including adjacent islands, it covers 6% of Earth's total surface area and 20% of its land area. Africa accounts for about 16% of the world's human population. The continent is surrounded by the Mediterranean Sea to the north, the Isthmus of Suez and the Red Sea to the northeast, the Indian Ocean to the southeast and the Atlantic Ocean to the west. Africa has 54 countries and its average population is the youngest amongst all the continents. Africa is the most multilingual continent in the world, and it is not rare for individuals to fluently speak not only multiple African languages, but one or more European ones as well.
Am from the republic of Benin I fluently speak French and English, and my country has over 69 local languages.
Africa is a continent
You're welcome ❤️
I hate watching these flashbacks clips when Jeannie talks about her OLD marriage. But the great thing is, she better than ever now her divorce glow up is snatched!! So you go Jeannie!!👏✌💋
I agree with Adrian! Dating people you don’t know 🥴 I like knowing friends first 👍🏼
Is Africa a country or a continent🙄
Continent
@@nl9343 lol
Of course it is a continent. Oh but is it ? Is it not a country?!... Ok girl let's have a vote, oh yeah, we got it, it is a continent!
This show is so inspirational, brings tears to my eyes every time.
Found it offensive actually 🙄
Anne 😍😍😍
My Grandmother always told us, don't start nothing you can't continue. And if you start something you better keep it going..
Aw I love that mamma mai be in the audience
True you have to be mature & discipline to know & recognize you can’t be life committed to somebody where it’s just physical attraction you have to be attracted to the right things I ask the right questions on the first date so I will know if you are worth my time or not and sometimes I ask questions before the date so I can say boy bye you got to have discernment
Loving Adrienne's hair n styling..
I used to think I don't like Adrienne lol now I realise that it's because we have a similar personality type and way about how we handle ourselves wow!
I've been with my husband 18 years and my favourite thing is when he says "I like you".
Love you guys ❤️❤️❤️❤️
Jeannie said “i feel this” LOL yes you did girl
best girl chat ever
Dont post old clips where Jeanie talks about her ex... Shaaaade
@Hershey11 I don't know fully either. But Im Pretty sure her and husband are going through divorce
I love this show. I love too self love talk shows.
Someone who is a provider and proactive in there efforts to be one. Someone I'm not related too by blood or in spiritual essence.
I only watch The Real on UA-cam, so whenever Jeannie starts talking about her husband it always throughs me off because I know they haven't been together for a long time now.
I love theses ladies, but Jeannie is deff my fave! Helllooooo Hunnnayyyyyy! 😍😍
If someone switches up on me that is an extreme turn off, because I’m real asf and loyal. If you say you’re one thing and that you’re all in and as soon as I turn around you out. You ain’t real or loyal so we don’t mesh well because I am.
I don't know about you guys but I am kind of getting tired of watching videos and halfway through realizing I've seen it before, I love you guys but I look forward to seeing the latest videos, this was them at a different time in their life and it's a bit strange to bring old ones back up.
Ghaniza W thank you!
Thank you Loni. Africa is a continent and I come from Zambia which is a country in the African continent.
I see myself one day on that table.... I love you all.
also they all look exceptionally good
You don't go on dates with people you don't know? Who you dating? Your brother?
You know full and well that everyone dates someone not related to them. Everyone who's married today started off as strangers before their intro and journey.
she is saying she does not date total strangers im the same way
I also rarely go on dates with complete strangers. I prefer to pursue romantic and intimate relations with people I already feel safe with. A lot of people don't go on dates with people they've never met.
I think she answered when she mentioned it. Did you not hear? Didnt you lsn to the scenarios she gave? Or you gotta be cool making a stupid comment like this -.- if you dont agree with her ways its on you but you can't be commenting smthn stupid when what she meant is explained. "WiTh YoUR bRoThEr"
I’m like her, I don’t trust just about anyone to take me on a date. I need to be friends before we are an actual thing
Love Jeannie's top 😍
youtube recommended this to me like it knew i had to just nd my current relationship. i feel so bad but it be like that
i love u guyss 😘😘
Lol..🤣🤣🤣they hit good points...like they say people change
Tamara is so real!
Tamera hairstylist does a bomb job ❤️
Sometimes people choose the wrong partner in the first place and then as time goes on it doesn't work.