GIRL CHAT VAULT: Having Sex on the First Date

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  • Опубліковано 23 лют 2020
  • Real fam, what are your thoughts on getting it on… on the first date?
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  • @dalsangha40
    @dalsangha40 Рік тому +208

    If this line-up was still together and the show still had a live audience…100% this show would still be going

    • @bleudiamondbleu
      @bleudiamondbleu Рік тому +3

      Disagree, the second they started spewing misinformation regarding politics they killed their own show.

    • @dalsangha40
      @dalsangha40 Рік тому +13

      @@bleudiamondbleu yeah I can kinda agree with that. I really enjoyed the casual girl chat but they were a huge let down when it came to politics. I think Amanda Seals was the only one who truly kept it real

    • @kcirdetal9697
      @kcirdetal9697 10 місяців тому

      @@dalsangha40but everybody would be mad at her

    • @Thebiggest7303
      @Thebiggest7303 10 місяців тому +4

      @@dalsangha40nope , couldn’t watch her on Tv she was annoying

  • @trucoyadru
    @trucoyadru 4 роки тому +466

    My current boyfriend is shorter than me and let me tell you, he’s the love of my life. It’s my first time dating someone shorter than me and I’m loving it. He treats me like a queen and I treat him like a king.
    Update: he cheated on me and I left him.

    • @Winterof84
      @Winterof84 4 роки тому +21

      Coya Darling This is encouraging... I just recently started dating a shorter guy than me and it’s my first time ever dating someone shorter plus I swore I never would lol. I’m freaking out coz he treats me so good but I’m still a bit uncomfortable with the height 🤦🏾‍♀️ I do hope I get over it soon Lord!

    • @trucoyadru
      @trucoyadru 4 роки тому +10

      @@Winterof84 girl I swore I'd never date anyone taller than me too, but then came him. I used to feel uncomfortable with the height difference at first too but now I'm over it. All that matters to me now is our love for each other.

    • @Winterof84
      @Winterof84 4 роки тому +3

      Coya Darling thank you for sharing ♥️

    • @tiffanifarrington4039
      @tiffanifarrington4039 4 роки тому +5

      Coya Darling omg girl! I met my husband a month ago! We just couldn’t be away from each other and he is super short! And I LOVE it ! It never was appealing to me! But idk I just love him so much and he puts my heels on like Cinderella and Prince Charming when we go anywhere. We’re so in love! It’s crazy! I never thought I would go for someone like him but 🤩🤩🤩 lol

    • @trucoyadru
      @trucoyadru 4 роки тому +7

      Correcting myself : "anyone taller than me" should be "anyone shorter than me"

  • @sashajolie8995
    @sashajolie8995 4 роки тому +887

    I miss when the real was like this

    • @drewfonseca7438
      @drewfonseca7438 4 роки тому +8

      Sasha Jolie me too but Ashley is not THAT bad lol

    • @drewfonseca7438
      @drewfonseca7438 4 роки тому +27

      Oops Amanda I mean 😂😂😂 didn’t even know her name

    • @sashajolie8995
      @sashajolie8995 4 роки тому +53

      Dru Fonseca lmaooo😂 she’s not horrible but I don’t feel warm energy from her like I feel from the other girls. Also the seating arrangement is weird

    • @Ichigomamii
      @Ichigomamii 4 роки тому +1

      Dru Fonseca 🥴🥴 Amanda 😂😂😂

    • @Tan87ful
      @Tan87ful 4 роки тому +2

      @@sashajolie8995 good point

  • @VultureVlogger
    @VultureVlogger 4 роки тому +1063

    I know this is old but I really miss when it was just 4🥺

    • @dollz6358
      @dollz6358 4 роки тому +11

      VV I was going to say that

    • @madisonportier
      @madisonportier 4 роки тому +16

      Yes 100%

    • @schinreddy
      @schinreddy 4 роки тому +5

      Me too :/

    • @Lyomama22
      @Lyomama22 4 роки тому +5

      I second that 😒😔

    • @ilenix3074
      @ilenix3074 4 роки тому +59

      VV honestly same, amanda don’t fit the damn table 😭

  • @amayashanice178
    @amayashanice178 4 роки тому +472

    Don’t get me wrong, I don’t dislike Amanda. It’s just these ladies are the originals (minus Tamar) and they have a much closer connection (which is expected) they work so well together and you can feel that.

  • @noelle2654
    @noelle2654 4 роки тому +78

    Here's the thing: if a guy kisses you or touches you and you didn't actually want him to, then after you say "Hey i really wasnt ok with that" if he says sorry or feels really bad and you can tell it was innocent, then don't go around telling people it wasn't. There's a difference between genuinely not knowing, and doing something that is uncalled for.

  • @SMAnthonyW
    @SMAnthonyW 4 роки тому +1132

    Who did their makeup on this day...
    Ashes to ashes... dust to dust

    • @jeremygodwin5007
      @jeremygodwin5007 4 роки тому +28

      🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

    • @gperez4808
      @gperez4808 4 роки тому +13

      Cold 🤣🤣

    • @amberaishaa
      @amberaishaa 4 роки тому +13

      screaming

    • @ugochiifunaya2436
      @ugochiifunaya2436 4 роки тому +13

      Lmao.....it's the lightening though and coz she's dark skinned

    • @naylani7790
      @naylani7790 4 роки тому +69

      I think it’s mostly just the lighting...but Loni’s concealer and setting powder is just trifling 💀

  • @monsterbrandman
    @monsterbrandman 4 роки тому +541

    They should have just stayed with the original 4 ladies a Tamar replacement wasn't needed.

    • @dgenral7
      @dgenral7 4 роки тому +10

      She was more than needed

    • @atomknight8361
      @atomknight8361 4 роки тому

      Agreement

    • @amandaquest105
      @amandaquest105 4 роки тому

      Totally agree.

    • @sweetrisse
      @sweetrisse 4 роки тому +18

      When it was just the 4 if them they did full segments about fat people sex and dating short guys🙄 Amanda brings more substance to the show and brings a deeper perspective. I love these ladies but the show was starting to feed the stereotype that this is all that young women of color talk about. We have intelligent conversations too!

    • @amayashanice178
      @amayashanice178 4 роки тому

      AT ALL

  • @VellaBella4
    @VellaBella4 4 роки тому +465

    Lord why they gave Loni the Morticia Adams makeup look

    • @RycN2Fu
      @RycN2Fu 4 роки тому +10

      🤣🤣🤣

    • @ValerieAbena
      @ValerieAbena 4 роки тому +15

      Jeannie’s make up is pretty light too

    • @crazy-beautifulgg5978
      @crazy-beautifulgg5978 4 роки тому +4

      😂😂💀

    • @Dulce-cm2kx
      @Dulce-cm2kx 4 роки тому +11

      Hey. I love Loni. Leave her alone!
      She's beautiful no matter what.
      They just went a little too light around the eyes. That's all. 😁

    • @AhsanAli-zm2ij
      @AhsanAli-zm2ij 4 роки тому

      xxx@@RycN2Fu

  • @Lyomama22
    @Lyomama22 4 роки тому +109

    Miss this type of energy. I love when it was just the 4 of them.

  • @allyc4712
    @allyc4712 4 роки тому +159

    I don't know if it's just me, but I don't think it takes away from the moment at all if you just take a breather and ask if everything is good. Every guy I have dated after college has always asked me "Can I kiss you?" before the first kiss. And If we are getting a little frisky a "you good?" "is this okay" "do you like that" before going all the way to me is sweet. You don't need to do every step of the way, but communicating and making sure everyone is enjoying themselves is something I like and prefer.

    • @Tan87ful
      @Tan87ful 4 роки тому +7

      Agreed

    • @alex_n215
      @alex_n215 3 роки тому +15

      That’s honestly a really hot thing to do.

  • @iraisrodriguez1536
    @iraisrodriguez1536 4 роки тому +592

    I love all the ladies! But I gotta be honest! I just want them to them four! On the show!!! It’s just better energy!!!

    • @gerardog6548
      @gerardog6548 4 роки тому +61

      Irais Rodriguez yesssss, no hate towards Amanda, but she doesn’t fit the vibe. She was good as a guest host

    • @karij8197
      @karij8197 4 роки тому +10

      Amanda made the show 100x better

    • @mrstwilight411
      @mrstwilight411 4 роки тому +12

      Ever since Amanda came the topics have been more outside of the box and more interesting

    • @melanieg3045
      @melanieg3045 4 роки тому +7

      Irais Rodriguez four is better than more.

    • @lillianxyz8086
      @lillianxyz8086 4 роки тому

      @@karij8197 I like Amanda.

  • @daboys7983
    @daboys7983 4 роки тому +34

    Really miss these 4. The show will never be the same again

  • @plusjongin8807
    @plusjongin8807 4 роки тому +132

    i feel like there needs to be a destigmatization of communication during sexual encounters. there’s nothing wrong with having an open and truthful conversation before a sexual encounter discussing ones kinks, how you can please your partner, what they are comfortable/uncomfortable with, etc. don’t expect romcom sex where you just fall into bed and have passionate sex. speak to your partner!

  • @christina2311
    @christina2311 4 роки тому +67

    My boyfriend told me before the first date that he would prefer for me to take the lead on physical contact because he didn’t want to make me feel uncomfortable. I thought that was sweet.

  • @kevafisher6921
    @kevafisher6921 4 роки тому +258

    Loni was so much nicer when Amanda wasn’t there

    • @dgenral7
      @dgenral7 4 роки тому +11

      I glad Amanda is there

    • @TEE_SUNSHINE
      @TEE_SUNSHINE 4 роки тому +27

      Idk if nicer is the word...maybe more reserved of her responses but with Amanda she states straight facts

    • @Tan87ful
      @Tan87ful 4 роки тому +1

      @@TEE_SUNSHINE exactly

    • @Lyomama22
      @Lyomama22 4 роки тому +30

      Loni was way more relaxed,Funny, genuine,warm,and enjoyable. Every since Amanda got on Everyone seems so defensive Especially Jeannie and Loni I've noticed A HUGE SHIFT.

    • @Rashida_TX
      @Rashida_TX 4 роки тому

      @@Lyomama22 Agreed.

  • @deshaunaharper6281
    @deshaunaharper6281 4 роки тому +120

    First date sex is too random for me.
    I'm a germaphobe.
    I don't touch random doorknobs, and I don't touch random eggplants.

    • @ellieC18
      @ellieC18 4 роки тому +1

      Deshauna Harper 😂😭

    • @ugochiifunaya2436
      @ugochiifunaya2436 4 роки тому +1

      Lol😂

    • @shalinda4190
      @shalinda4190 4 роки тому

      Sexsi you

    • @evanescenteuphoria8126
      @evanescenteuphoria8126 4 роки тому +4

      All one night stands don't mean you just met the person. Speaking for myself, it was our first official date.

    • @-.a9942
      @-.a9942 2 роки тому +1

      @@evanescenteuphoria8126 in that case was the beginning of a relationship. That’s different and it what I consider one night stand

  • @Rashida_TX
    @Rashida_TX 4 роки тому +114

    I'm so tired of Loni's MUA. Like for real. You gone send her out like that. The whole staff need to be fired for allowing her to go out like that. RIDICULOUS!!! And her seatmates need to speak up too. SMH.

  • @tiffdawn4428
    @tiffdawn4428 4 роки тому +159

    There’s a way to ask for consent and still be in the moment 😂😂 it doesn’t have to be contractual

    • @plusjongin8807
      @plusjongin8807 4 роки тому +22

      Tiff Dawn exactly! if people spoke during sex there would a lot less misunderstandings

    • @darknightemperor8174
      @darknightemperor8174 4 роки тому +6

      Tiff Dawn I’m not surprised where at this point where now we don’t know where the line is drawn, like you said there should 100% consent but contracts and stuff makes it not worth thr
      trouble. The MeToo era has definitely made an impact of the dating scene

    • @tiffdawn4428
      @tiffdawn4428 4 роки тому +8

      plusjongin that’s literally all you have to do. Communicate. What a concept 😂

  • @2hotcoko
    @2hotcoko 4 роки тому +22

    I LOVE EVERY BIT OF THIS SHOW!!! It’s so real. I love watching it on UA-cam. ROCK ON LADIES!!! Please try to stay together and keep having real fun. I love you all. 🥰

  • @stephaniemervil5212
    @stephaniemervil5212 4 роки тому +45

    I’m with Loni on this one. The Me Too movement brought back the fear(respect) for women’s rights and I like that men wait for their cue or ask before doing anything.

  • @monica-ke1dk
    @monica-ke1dk 4 роки тому +113

    Who else misses these types of topics? I feel everything has been so serious on the show lately... I love serious discussions, but I miss the funny, slightly naughty talk!

  • @lexandthecityasmr
    @lexandthecityasmr 4 роки тому +63

    Ya’ll never thank the person who made ya drinks!! 😭 they’re so beautiful all the time give the person some creds ! 🙌🏼🍹🍸🥂

  • @debbyrowey
    @debbyrowey 4 роки тому +47

    Loni love, no girl your make up artiste did you wrong. And no, I wouldn't have sex on the first date. You literally just met this person. You gotta build the connection before getting connected.

  • @joana0
    @joana0 4 роки тому +64

    Miss them only four :( the new girl does nothing for the show 😩

  • @-ditter
    @-ditter 2 роки тому +6

    I'm taller and weigh more than my husband. We have known each other 20 years, been together 10+ years and married for almost 2 years. He has known me a big since day one and he loves me for me!

  • @dashiajames1882
    @dashiajames1882 3 роки тому +7

    Adrienne said " Maybe you know what you're doing "....she so funny !!

  • @wairimurommy5230
    @wairimurommy5230 4 роки тому +274

    What in the casket ready is going on?! 😬

  • @mayma812
    @mayma812 4 роки тому +170

    All love but, Loni’s makeup....

  • @gricel8402
    @gricel8402 4 роки тому +69

    Gross. You don't know their sexual HX, hygiene practices, do they floss. It's a no for me.

    • @gricel8402
      @gricel8402 4 роки тому +14

      @Jamilla Dobson I said what I said. Period. The end.

    • @gricel8402
      @gricel8402 4 роки тому +7

      @Jamilla Dobson that's fine.
      That is why we as individuals have our personal opinions and answers. It may not be your preference or make sense to you, but it does to me. To each it's own.

    • @jakc3d
      @jakc3d 4 роки тому +2

      Lies.

  • @shaynanichelle8621
    @shaynanichelle8621 4 роки тому +93

    I personally wouldn’t. The first date you’re just getting to know the person.
    No size shouldn’t matter when it comes to love. Why do people care? They’re not in the relationship. I never understood people who care about something that has absolutely nothing to do with them.

    • @sophia-O
      @sophia-O 4 роки тому +8

      Sex is one of the most important things in a relationship. You can have a connection and they can be the best person ever but you dont hit it off in the bedroom, you will be SO unsatisfied as a woman

    • @sophia-O
      @sophia-O 4 роки тому +7

      @Kirsty Birsty YES! Bad sex will never be overlooked. You'll eventually take out your frustration in other aspects of the relationship.

    • @Tan87ful
      @Tan87ful 4 роки тому

      @Kirsty Birsty exactly

    • @cathyb2967
      @cathyb2967 4 роки тому +2

      Shayna Dorsey
      I agree with you .but sometimes l get so horny ..like on holiday ..l banged the waiter at my hotel . My passions were running high .So were his . .

    • @Tan87ful
      @Tan87ful 4 роки тому

      @@cathyb2967 wow. Nice. Lol. Ive had a one night stand before too. I have not done it ever since because of the negative stigma and because of the risk of the guy being a stalker or if I catch an incurable disease.

  • @napigirlpretigirl
    @napigirlpretigirl 4 роки тому +96

    I hate when they have Lonnie in that ghost looking makeup

  • @evanescenteuphoria8126
    @evanescenteuphoria8126 4 роки тому +87

    Don't knock the one night stands! In my freshman year of college I went or with this guy I met and he was finer than frog hair! That man had me doing things we should have went to jail for!! He had me talking in tongues like it was the third Sunday! The next morning I was walking to class thinking about our night and my knees literally buckled from under me! Help me Peter and don't tell Paul! That's why I was a pregnant junior in college. We married,had a beautiful baby girl, I eventually finished law school and we were married for twenty six years. No, he didn't die. I divorced his cheating ass and now I'm living my happily ever after! Take my advice and DON'T HAVE ONE NIGHT STANDS!!!!!

    • @Tan87ful
      @Tan87ful 4 роки тому +5

      Wow

    • @shylabennett8407
      @shylabennett8407 4 роки тому +37

      😂😂😂😂😂 well that took a turn

    • @evanescenteuphoria8126
      @evanescenteuphoria8126 4 роки тому +7

      @@shylabennett8407 ...after 25 big ones.

    • @evanescenteuphoria8126
      @evanescenteuphoria8126 4 роки тому +1

      So should your parents. lol

    • @evanescenteuphoria8126
      @evanescenteuphoria8126 4 роки тому +9

      Let's see... I earned a law degree raised a daughter who's a civil engineer, not to mention two college educated sons, all while being pregnant in college. Your takeaway was my daughter wasn't wanted? Bitch, please don't get it twisted! My daughter, as all my children, are very much loved. I was raised with strength, courage and compassion, as were my children.You sound like a.less than successful jealous bitch. It took eight years for your parents to have you because they knew you were probably going to be a failure. That's what usually happens when siblings procreate. I bet you're a beautiful princess..a la` Fiona!

  • @lorenramdath8649
    @lorenramdath8649 4 роки тому +37

    Whoever did Loni's makeup did her dirty. Get someone who knows how to do dark skin girls right. She's beautiful, and that makeup is hiding her beauty, not bringing it out.

  • @JerseyCarolina
    @JerseyCarolina 4 роки тому +32

    I wonder where Tamera got her outfit it's cute❤

  • @jadecolagross4474
    @jadecolagross4474 4 роки тому +19

    Had sex on our first date. We celebrated our four year anniversary this past February and we have a beautiful almost two year old daughter. We’re very happy!

  • @lourdezanderson1377
    @lourdezanderson1377 4 роки тому +11

    Just found this show and I sooo in love with it.

  • @aila2567
    @aila2567 4 роки тому +39

    This is how it should always be. Just THESE FOUR beautiful open minded loving women on The Real. This show really doesn’t need a fifth woman. Love you girls!

  • @tonyanaya9754
    @tonyanaya9754 4 роки тому +38

    I miss just the 4 of them. Amanda kills the vibe 🤷🏼‍♂️

  • @umisunderstood_
    @umisunderstood_ 4 роки тому +5

    Please keep it this way with the 4 ladies!! I miss when J has her voice and amazing input in the convo! We don't need and they don't need the 5th girl.

  • @timeka30
    @timeka30 4 роки тому +14

    I agree with Adrienne. I am not dating a guy shorter than me. I’m 5’2 and that would just look really crazy. I dated a guy the same height as me and it just didn’t work out not just because of his height. I just love tall men!!!!!!

    • @chukwudiokorom6649
      @chukwudiokorom6649 4 роки тому +1

      Good morning, the black beautiful baby, how are you doing,

    • @TheTannia2110
      @TheTannia2110 2 роки тому +1

      I'm the same height I have never been attracted to anyone shorter but the truthbis that would be rare anyway.

    • @sashatiana-alize6186
      @sashatiana-alize6186 Рік тому

      😂😂😂

  • @sevens3
    @sevens3 4 роки тому +6

    @7:40
    I agree, the concept of a "safe word" offers a great deal of value!

  • @in-self-sabotage-mode
    @in-self-sabotage-mode 4 роки тому +16

    Love these ladies. Like the aunties I always needed.💖

  • @jacquintamehlo2868
    @jacquintamehlo2868 4 роки тому +33

    This is when they actually used to give each other a chance to speak😏

  • @simplymonica6888
    @simplymonica6888 4 роки тому +38

    In this clip from right to left I'm getting, Latino flight attendant, Black Mulan, Asian "she wore an itsy bitsy teenie weeny...", and a Biracial spider web lmfao. I love them though. Seriously though, I love Tam's outfit.

    • @TheLifeofAngie_
      @TheLifeofAngie_ 4 роки тому +5

      shamonica stanfield i cant stand you🤣🤣 i love all the names you gave them very great names😭

  • @sweetheart5314
    @sweetheart5314 4 роки тому +7

    Adrienne SURE DID keep Loni acting young w the seating arrangement.

  • @mionahubbard9259
    @mionahubbard9259 4 роки тому +51

    They seemed so much happier back then

    • @jayjanzee9059
      @jayjanzee9059 3 роки тому +2

      Haven't noticed that but so true

  • @JoslynJoy
    @JoslynJoy 4 роки тому +1

    Tamera with the “strong hands” comment. 😂😂🤣 i almost choked in my food😂😂😂😂😂

  • @LivingOnTheContrary
    @LivingOnTheContrary 4 роки тому +79

    Nah fat guys do be suffocating me. Every time he thrusted it was too much pressure . I tried fat guys twice and I don’t like it

    • @kaylachapman6880
      @kaylachapman6880 4 роки тому +25

      lolol girl chilll out im weak

    • @gperez4808
      @gperez4808 4 роки тому +28

      I'm a fat bitch ND I don't like fat men 🤣🤣🤣

    • @Musashi944
      @Musashi944 4 роки тому +2

      TMI

    • @Tan87ful
      @Tan87ful 4 роки тому +1

      Me too lol

    • @kimscheryz2613
      @kimscheryz2613 4 роки тому +3

      Girl I love it. Might be the only one

  • @shekinahsirju1677
    @shekinahsirju1677 4 роки тому +26

    I love Tam's dress 😍

  • @peacelife
    @peacelife 4 роки тому +15

    "True love doesn't see size" ✊✊

  • @ClaytonDerby
    @ClaytonDerby 4 роки тому +13

    I honestly think the real works just fine with just these 4 women.

  • @maleyahrae7495
    @maleyahrae7495 4 роки тому +10

    Adrienne spoke facts!!

  • @tifahxx
    @tifahxx 4 роки тому +117

    that's a no no for me you gunna have to marry me first

    • @luluseatowngetdown6251
      @luluseatowngetdown6251 4 роки тому +16

      That’s ok. But sexual compatibility is really important in a marriage.

    • @FourSeasons04
      @FourSeasons04 4 роки тому +16

      Kudos to you! There's nothing like a woman who knows her worth👍☺

    • @lindat.7520
      @lindat.7520 4 роки тому +7

      So do you want him to screw other women while he's waiting lmao

    • @shantell4847
      @shantell4847 4 роки тому +36

      @@lindat.7520 No if he's not willing to wait he can move on

    • @lindat.7520
      @lindat.7520 4 роки тому +3

      @@shantell4847 they definitely should.... But most don't I believe.

  • @Simplelivingslowliving
    @Simplelivingslowliving 4 роки тому +12

    Whoever did lonis makeup needs to rethink their career .

  • @Beautyinwverything
    @Beautyinwverything 4 роки тому +99

    Loni looks like she is about to audition for Rule Pauls drag race....

    • @cynthiap.2573
      @cynthiap.2573 4 роки тому

      Story Daniels and now she’s actually on Rupauls drag race

  • @BabyDoll-rv3hr
    @BabyDoll-rv3hr 4 роки тому +8

    When ade was talking about the nibbling... that ish was hilarious

  • @kimshanique9962
    @kimshanique9962 3 роки тому +8

    Dont be comin up on my ig mad at me
    I gotta hold his stomach, l gotta hold my stomach
    Loni is hilarious.

  • @twentysvn
    @twentysvn 2 роки тому +1

    Floral Gin still makes me bust out in laughter. I want them to say ‘Potatoey Vodka’ next time 😂

  • @PoopyDoopy39
    @PoopyDoopy39 4 роки тому +20

    i had no idea tamera went to the same college as me

  • @northwoodlandhills
    @northwoodlandhills 4 роки тому +6

    I love how Loni says “breave’ 😂

  • @SC-ik1cd
    @SC-ik1cd 4 роки тому +3

    It’s not May! I wish they would post the full episodes at least if they aren’t going to post recent ones. Not everyone has a tv! Put the full episodes on Netflix or on here! I’m happy for this 14 min clip tho! Thank youuuuu

  • @autumn3540
    @autumn3540 4 роки тому +23

    Ya’ll, her make up looks fine. Quit being cats and listen to what they’re saying.. rude comments really arn’t wanted or necessary

    • @DOTMH_1
      @DOTMH_1 4 роки тому

      Lies.

    • @autumn3540
      @autumn3540 4 роки тому +5

      You guys are so negative, omg

  • @czarinaczar
    @czarinaczar 4 роки тому +3

    Loni's dress!😍😍 I cannot see all of it, but love it! 😍😍

  • @Missclady
    @Missclady 4 роки тому +22

    love it when Amanda isnt there

  • @sixtwofive6683
    @sixtwofive6683 4 роки тому +19

    They are all so beautiful

  • @tearsofawaterfall2656
    @tearsofawaterfall2656 Рік тому +2

    To be fair you say it sucks that the guy isnt making the first move but it isnt, it only sucks if you like the guy. If it stops a guy you dont like from making a move then it’s great

  • @jennasmith6718
    @jennasmith6718 4 роки тому +3

    I can so relate cause my boyfriend is a foot taller than me and he’s on the thin side but he’s fit as hell and I’ve always gotten people who act like such a struggle to kiss or complain that they couldn’t date a thin guy. Honey that’s why I’m dating him and you’re not cause I CAN make it work.

  • @nolor8397
    @nolor8397 4 роки тому +19

    Loni's highlight is distracting but I love her though

  • @laurab.9710
    @laurab.9710 3 роки тому +7

    I've dated tall guys, my height, and literally a head shorter than me, and I always told myself I'd go for someone like 6 inches taller than me. In the end, I was talking to a guy without knowing he's shorter than me, and imma tell you, him in general is what I fell for that when we're together, it doesnt even matter, and it doesn't matter to him either cause he was calling all the shots hahaha
    Who cares about a number, you'll miss out on that guy/girl you are looking for.

    • @kristababyy47
      @kristababyy47 2 роки тому +2

      Its like Zach and Tori Roloff. She is "normal" height and he has dwarfism and their marriage is beautiful.

  • @kristinaxox3
    @kristinaxox3 4 роки тому +1

    Jeannie’s blush is so pretty 🌟🌟🌟

  • @nyashachihambiro3004
    @nyashachihambiro3004 4 роки тому +4

    😂whoever baked Loni forgot to take off the rest of the power 😂_ ❤️ love you girl

  • @naomijonas1553
    @naomijonas1553 4 роки тому +4

    This is really interesting and I’m an new watcher of the real

  • @ajamama
    @ajamama 4 роки тому +13

    I’m tryna figure out why tameras drink is darker than the rest of the ladies

  • @ms.bubs4fun506
    @ms.bubs4fun506 4 роки тому +13

    The love of my life was a hook up. We're in love now. The key is not the physical but the nonchalant attitude. I wasn't trying to trap my man and I made it clear that I was dating others and didn't want a commitment. He wanted that challenge and stole my heart. The challenge is not always sex.

    • @Tan87ful
      @Tan87ful 4 роки тому +1

      Wow.

    • @Tan87ful
      @Tan87ful 4 роки тому +1

      Wow

    • @85Zeroangel
      @85Zeroangel 4 роки тому +1

      Preach👍

    • @milagrosgranados1316
      @milagrosgranados1316 4 роки тому +2

      That’s absolutely beautiful. I really think it depends on the person and how they were raised . I agree some hook ups turn into loving fulfilling relationships. It’s ok to hook up if the person likes you and wants to move forward with you then awesome and if not it’s ok. Just be safe. What someone does is there business.

  • @cristianboo718
    @cristianboo718 3 роки тому +4

    Love isn’t always looks it’s whats inside
    You want someone that going to “do you” & leave.
    Or
    Have someone that going to show you passion and show you love

  • @janat39
    @janat39 4 роки тому +11

    So..... Loni's make up artist really let her walk out looking like cake face....? like maybe it looks good in person but under these studio lights......huuuuuuuuney no!

  • @yessicagomez7509
    @yessicagomez7509 4 роки тому +2

    The lady @ 12:20 who was gonna clap but stopped when she realized no one else was clapping lmao

  • @ttstephanie0629
    @ttstephanie0629 4 роки тому +9

    Y'all look beautiful!!! Thank you for doing mocktails too because I don't drink!!!

    • @czarinaczar
      @czarinaczar 4 роки тому +1

      I found out they are just as tasty. I've tried them the times I was the driver, coz I do not touch alcohol when I'm going to drive..

    • @ttstephanie0629
      @ttstephanie0629 4 роки тому

      @@czarinaczar people like you make my heart smile!!! I'm so grateful for people like you that are thoughtful enough to think of others safety. We're all in this together. Ijs

    • @czarinaczar
      @czarinaczar 4 роки тому +1

      @@ttstephanie0629 💜

  • @MajesticMyronn
    @MajesticMyronn 4 роки тому +37

    Ok I honestly have to say... true love should outweigh ( no pun intended ) the other stuff such as weight... my mom and dad have been married for 15 years together 20 years and my mom has always been the beautiful curvaceous, plus-sized one in her relationships but the one thing I have to give props to my dad is he never made her feel as if she's less beautiful just because she happens to be a big woman... he loved her just way she was and is and that's all that matters

    • @SMAnthonyW
      @SMAnthonyW 4 роки тому +7

      Myronn Coleman this is beautiful! Love is love.

  • @AkireMaru
    @AkireMaru 4 роки тому +6

    Any man that admits he’s in a relationship with x other people is not going to be serious with you now or ever. No man who is seriously interested will risk losing you by making you feel you are just one of many even if he is dating others.

    • @85Zeroangel
      @85Zeroangel 4 роки тому +2

      Not true, he's honest. Think about it this way, would you rather have a guy say "I'm looking for love, and that's why I'm date multiple people, to find the right one for me" or someone who doesn't say it, but is still looking around.

    • @AkireMaru
      @AkireMaru 4 роки тому

      People are not islands. Guys will have friends and deeper relationships before they meet you. If a guy approaches me and tells me he is single, when he is not, I can work with that. Because I know he is trying to impress me and if he likes me as a person, the other women will fall off his radar. It’s guys that approach you and could care less about impressing you and reveal they are sleeping and talking to others that you should run away from. Because any man who is properly chasing you, wants to really impress you and will not risk it by offering up such info. It’s likely he just wants sex and doesn’t see you as gf material. Women will always have competition, but let a man chose you and earn you. Don’t worry about other women. Honestly, I don’t believe in sleeping with a man either before marriage. That keeps your mind clear and your options open if he’s not actively pursuing you.

    • @AkireMaru
      @AkireMaru 4 роки тому

      Mogens Linnet and Loni has low self esteem. No woman should come on TV and brag about her sexual escapades like she is a dude. She acts low value and cheap, so men see her as such.

    • @AkireMaru
      @AkireMaru 4 роки тому +1

      Mogens Linnet Think about it like this: if you were the most beautiful woman in the world, and you had rich men from the world pursuing you for marriage, which one of the stupid suitors would risk losing his chance to be with you by telling you “oh btw. I’m seeing other women”? Zero. Any guy that says that to you believes you’re average, at best, and you should view it as an insult. Who is pursuing who?

    • @85Zeroangel
      @85Zeroangel 4 роки тому +1

      @@AkireMaru you have a point. But women want what other women want. There a reason, that men in a relationship get hit on constantly and single men don't.

  • @mimimella383
    @mimimella383 4 роки тому +13

    Sex on the first date is not for me but I wont judge anyone else for it. Do what works for you!!!

  • @luluseatowngetdown6251
    @luluseatowngetdown6251 4 роки тому +47

    Everyone’s drink looks different

  • @azramerlin8024
    @azramerlin8024 4 роки тому +5

    Loni looks gorgeous as always

  • @mohammedalhafezismailaliis9150
    @mohammedalhafezismailaliis9150 3 роки тому

    Iam interested about this and am proud to be a part of the the Real

  • @Raquel-rg8eq
    @Raquel-rg8eq 3 роки тому +6

    I’ve dated multiple men shorter than me it wasn’t a problem for me because I liked them for who they were and eventually it became a problem for them and became self conscious from people saying he was not man enough for me “I am more than my body” I love that

  • @JP-ob6kv
    @JP-ob6kv 3 роки тому +3

    y’all just didn’t learn about consent. That’s why jeannies saying her guy friends are “scared” to make the first move. They don’t understand how to ask for consent. If they did they wouldn’t be scared.

    • @shawnettethompson1514
      @shawnettethompson1514 3 роки тому +1

      J P I think the reason jeannie’s guy friends are afraid to ask because if alcohol is involved on the date they have sex the woman doesn’t remember consenting to sex then presses charges on the guy that’s why the guys are afraid

  • @ronnielodge7032
    @ronnielodge7032 3 роки тому +1

    Not the arm strength 😂😂😂

  • @wendy9267
    @wendy9267 4 роки тому +40

    Loni's makeup wow😂

    • @tyckeri
      @tyckeri 4 роки тому +2

      They should not bake her face

  • @bintajillfatty8012
    @bintajillfatty8012 3 роки тому

    One of my best show much love too you girls I love you so much all the way from Gambia🇬🇲

  • @Rubrick23.
    @Rubrick23. 4 роки тому +5

    Guess what if a man is having a one night stand.....= A woman having some night stand too. But ppl act like men do it more often.

  • @a.sydney5036
    @a.sydney5036 4 роки тому +47

    Loni’s hands and chest vs her face? Woah.

  • @mandisamarie4375
    @mandisamarie4375 4 роки тому +7

    Y’all know y’all wrong for that thumbnail 🤣🤣🤣

  • @karengutloff2004
    @karengutloff2004 4 роки тому +3

    Nah! No sex on the first date. I don't know you!

  • @KHelen-oi9nt
    @KHelen-oi9nt 4 роки тому +4

    This was a good segment

  • @jimharris9877
    @jimharris9877 4 роки тому +2

    I stumbled upon this channel and have enjoyed watching their videos. HOWEVER, I don't like it when they are hypocrites. For example, all of them would have trouble (with the exception of Lonnie) dating a man shorter than them. Yet, at the end of the video they are proud of the woman who has a thick torso and thighs but has a boyfriend who has six pack abs - and saying that (in so many words) two people should be able to love one another REGARDLESS of looks/size, weight, etc. If they really believe that, they should have no problem dating someone who is smaller than them. (BTW, I'm normal height), but of course they would!!!

  • @crystaldavis2816
    @crystaldavis2816 4 роки тому +10

    Damn I love this show. Smh.

  • @sydo7647
    @sydo7647 9 місяців тому

    What Jeannie is saying at 4:05 is SO FREAKING spot on yo

  • @valerieking5265
    @valerieking5265 4 роки тому +3

    I've never asked a man how tall he is before meeting him. I married a man that's shorter than me and I'm 5' 8"

  • @MalloryNewcomb
    @MalloryNewcomb 4 місяці тому

    What I like is how they include a mocktail for those of us who are alcohol-free