I think the traditional definition is the same. However the term is relative per individual. As men grow up not witnessing traditional representation, their idea of "wife" changes -- aesthetics over qualities.
@@janedough6410 that's def not true many men grew up seeing traditional settings and still rather a woman that contributes more than staying home and cooking which is great but doesnt work in our world. Back before the 60s women could be home makers and live off their husbands salary. I'd love to stay home with my kids instead of having them thrown in daycare and I love to cook and was raised to know cleanliness is next to Godliness. BUT we could never survive off my husbands salary and most families couldnt survive off the husbands salary. Most men especially in my generation with a middle wage income that wants children is going to choose a woman that works hard and beings in money as being wifey material hands down. My grandma finds that crazy and has always told us paying half the Bill's isnt for wives it's for roommates but shes from a different generation. That isnt working in ours. Time and time again the couples I see where the woman insists the man takes care of her ends up cheated on and left unless her man is making 6 figures because men rather a woman paying half the Bill's so they can live comfortably, go out and enjoy each other than having no money paying all the Bill's on his income and being stuck home every day off
Possibly too literal. The term "wifey material" in this context are young ladies that possess qualities for an ideal wife. Most guys inquire when they're serious and have their life in order. Finances is not a factor. Young ladies get this title while in school, and it doesn't mean to be a housewife. RE: Grandma - She's right IMO. When you're married tabs shouldn't be "half" because it's combined incomes. One or the other pays. Half is for an acquaintance. Some of us pay full tabs for friends. Your spouse take hierarchy.
@@janedough6410 ain't nothing wrong with both parties paying the bills and both taking care of the house. My aunt and her husband chose to do that : combine their salaries to pay the bills and stuff and they both cook and clean etc so no one in society should put a standard of what and husband and wife material is like do what you want
It scares me that Jeanie felt that way about Freddy and how it’s going now... the fact that you can feel that way about someone and then 10 years later he’s HURTING YOU and showing you a completely different person 😔😔😔😔
I know. I dislike how Jeannie is making herself as the victim as if Freddie is some completely different person. OH PLEASE. We all know how Jeannie is. She's a bit self serving and thoughtless with her words/actions. Freddie also has his flaws. They grew apart, people got hurt, and now, it seems like their friendship is unsalvageable.
GabriellaGlamour Jeannie never liked Freddy like that. She didn't even want to marry him. Why dont you go back and watch all those clips that included him on it and see for yourself. Jeannie knows how to manipulate when it comes to money. That's why she's contesting the prenup. She wants her ex husband's money. Btw this is a old clip.
im absolutely with you. so glad im not the only one who sees this side of her. She knows exactly what to say to win people's heart. People naturally prefer idealism instead of realism and thats how she plays her cards. Giving ideal answers to situations instead of real ones
I've always said " I might've been the one for you, but you weren't it for me". I could've been great for someone else...anybody else, but what I'm looking for...everybody doesn't have. Happily taken now, but my relationships were hard.
I've only called my mom "Rosa" in a grocery store once . She was wwwaayyy focused and wasn't responding to me yelling down the aisle, "Mami!!!" After the fourth time, I yelled, "ROSA!" ... I believe my blood drained to my feet. The death glare of a mother is REAL, And now I do it with my kids 😂
I've done this with my mom at the store too! Although I've justified it with her and said "you know how many people here can be called mom? I wanted you to know I'm calling YOU" 😂
I love Tam. BUT, I don’t think she understands why her college boyfriend called her that. He was buying time. He had no intention of marrying her, and called her wifey to appease her. Men do this all the time. Luckily, she met her Adam!
It’s possible that he had the intention. We, as women need to remember that not all men are the same, just like not all women are the same. The purpose of dating is to find someone to marry. It IS possible you’re right but maybe he was actually courting her and thought she was what he wanted. 🤷🏽♀️ Just saying...
Regardless of the legal standpoint, it’s still cruel. I understand the legal standpoint having a family of many business owners, but it is still unkindly of the team to decide this.
@Ash Tree the legal stand point is the network who owns the youtube channel own the rights to the show and the rights to any clip or segment they post. ABC does this successfully with the view.
Personally I think it helps show that even though in life you are going through some tough segments you shouldn't let them weigh you down completely and by surrounding yourself in a different and positive environment it can help a lot. I truly respect her and all of the other ladies for supporting each other in whatever form they can.
Naima Ismail the way the real are going these days I really don't wanna see them talk more crap. They used to be good on the show now they're just garbage with specs of good news there. They lost it.
@@intrinsicallyme8404 I actually find the show to have meaningful topics still we just get the juicy gossip and clickbait video clips of them talking crap on UA-cam.
That’s not fair to assume you’re only wifey material if you can cook, clean and have kids. Some people CANT have kids, and dudes should be raised to cook and clean after THEMSELVES it’s called being responsible smh.
@@cecemac988 idk what you are talking about but idc who I'm married to, they better have a source of income cause nowadays, its so expensive to just live. The stereotypical stuff is ridiculous like fixing a car, opening the door, paying for dates, etc. However, I think the reason why having a job and paying the bills is a lot of women's standards is because sometimes their income is not enough to support both people. (and that's without kids) So i don't think wanting the person to have a job is a bad thing. (as long as you aren't being hypocritical and wanting them to pay for you the rest of your life)
Grace S all I’m saying is that women are always saying “a man needs to do this” or “it’s a mans job to do that” But when a man says “a woman needs to do this” or “it’s a woman’s job to do that” they get mad and say that’s sexist.
@@cecemac988 Nobody says its a man's job to do this. They say, I would like a man to do... or I prefer if a man did... (aka, having a preference which is perfectly fine) Only sexist people use that term and that's few and far. From what I've heard its more men saying that though but either way your point doesn't make any sense because that term, "its a woman's/mans job to do this," is never if rarely used.
Grace S is you’ve never heard these phrases that’s fine but I hear them all the time. You mentioned preference earlier. That’s my point. If a man “prefers” a woman who can cook, clean and wants children why do so many women get offended and say that’s sexist? If he thinks all a woman is worth is cooking, cleaning and breeding then yes, thats wrong. But otherwise I don’t get the outrage?
SIERRA MCCHRISTIAN Nobody gets mad at men saying they want a woman that cooks and cleans. Women get mad at men who think it’s a woman’s “role” to cook and clean or like it’s something they have to do because they’re a woman that’s we get mad at.
Adrienne and I are too similar. My mom and I have such a relationship that it’s just funny to call her by her first name. Also, I didn’t grow up either calling people Ma’am, Sir, Mr., or Ms. I can say what, or yeah no biggie
That’s interesting because I remember one time I said huh to an adult and she thought it was disrespectful. I went home and asked my mom was I wrong? She told me no, and as long as you don’t say what because that’s disrespectful. However, everyone household is different so what was wrong for her wasn’t wrong for my mom.
Kayla Rogan I’m not sure why huh is considered a disrespectful response, I think it’s an informal response compared to a formal response of excuse me, I didn’t understand. I don’t believe huhing is flat out disrespectful, maybe more so the way you say it lol
@@LordLex My father gets so mad when I say "What do you want?" I always call them mamma and babaa when talking to my mother or father out of respect to them but they don't care if I say their first name in private at home but not in public. Crazy middle eastern family.
My moms name is Kim... but me and her having a playful mother and son bond I gave her a nickname... I gave her the nickname Kimmy G ! So we compromise and I still call her mom I usually only call her Kimmy G whenever I'm just being dumb and goofy but i know my place.. she is the mother , I am the child and I remain respectful to her ! Every parent-child relationship is different !
My son and I are the same way. He's a very respectful teenager and he playfully calls me by my first name sometimes. I think it's funny. I don't make him say ma'am either. But anyone will tell you how respectful he is.
Same with me and my mother. I sometimes jokingly call her by her nickname “Rene,” but I still know my place. My boyfriend finds it so disrespectful that I call her that even if it’s just jokingly, but I guess that shows every family is different.
My moms my best friend so I call her ma. Mom. ,mommy . Or by her first or middle name , it’s not offensive at all and she knows I respect her . It’s crazy how people are raised differently
I've had guys call me that but it's not something I value or aspire to because to me it feels like playing into respectability politics. If you want to compliment me, then compliment me. Don't make me complicit in the marginalization of other women because they might not fit into what is a man's ideal for a wife. Also I have a lot of aspirations and qualities I want to be respected for before being a good wife.
Thank you Ellabelle. This is exactly how I feel about this stupid wife material trope. It’s the same as the Queen / Good Woman nonsense. It’s all based on men’s expectations of women and it marginalizes women who won’t and don’t fit the stupid criteria
Thank you EllaBelle18. I'm so tired of men looking for qualities like their mom that they fail to see anything else inside of me. I met a guy years ago that didn't even know my full name or anything about me, knew him for about 2 hours and he decided I was the one, meanwhile he was married and tried to hide it. He started talking about me being a step mother to his kids and I had no clue he had kids or other women with his kids. He felt by the 3 questions he asked me, through a text and 2 hours of hanging around me was enough for him to come to the conclusion of making me an option. He thought he knew me. I find that a lot of men are looking for "Mom material" not wife material. My ex thought I was his mother. He had no plans of marrying me or anything or providing. He was lazy AF after we lived together for a few months. Which snuck up on me. He wanted me to be the man in the relationship and be his mother and every other title. I got rid of his sorry ass, he wasn't like that at first but he waited until I did better in life financially and was a selfish opportunistic asshole.
I'm so happy that the girl chat segment is on UA-cam and that it is longer now 🙌👏 I love watching them and hear their opinions but it's difficult from Austria 😔 so thank youuuu ❤️
"Wifey Material" is defined differently from man to man. Everyone is different and seeking different attributes in their potential life partner. Also, I will be calling my mother, "mommy" until the day I die😂🤣
Briana Molina I’m glad you respectfully brought this to my attention. I am ethnic too, although my skin is indeed much much lighter compared to Adrienne’s. In my case I don’t tan well so I wouldn’t know all that well. The reason I brought up the fact that she is ethnic was because I remember seeing an interview of Rashida Jones correcting the interviewer when she complimented her tan.
I love Loni's sense of humour. I love Jeannie's impressions of her Mom. And I love Tamera and Adrienne, like damn wish I could have some friends like them.
Wifey material is subjective to the person using the term. It is not bad if the person is using the term to describe a person they desire. It becomes bad when they use it in the sense of a social construct as if there is baseline version of wifey material. If I had a wife I would allow her to cook if she wants to cook but it’s not because of that skill that makes her any less “wife-able” than the next girl. For example talking to your friend about how wifey material is like having a conversion about how they are applicable to the status quo. I don’t think it had anything to do with sensitivity. It’s just acknowledgement.
Literally this is the best talk show on tv today! No talking about politics daily, it’s a fun place to get away from life. Love, love, love these ladies!💕💕💕💕
Here's the thing though, Tamera is RIGHT ! There's nothing wrong in BEING wifey material. I'm not saying everyone should be, especially if they don't want to be. Being 26, I've realized that I don't want to be GF material anymore...I want to be wifey material. You're not going to marry your gf, you're going to marry your POTENTIAL WIFE!
I am not married yet, but I think in a marriage both spouses need to contribute the equal amount of responsibilities, love, and effort in order to keep the marriage going strong for many years.
I think the issue is that sometimes the term "wife material" can be used to looked down on someone.. I have a lot of guy friends & some of them look at a girl for & see that she's sexy but can't cook..& other traits that the stereo typical wife material. & deem her as just for fun & sex, w/c is totally unfair. I think that instead of stop using it.. we jut redefine it a bit & spin it into more positive, like they say emphasize how it could be different w/ every peron. or emphasizes other good traits like being loving, loyal & such cause I think thats more important than cooking skills honestly.
T Y my friends being sexist.. they are not sexist or even a bad person in general, because if they were, i will not be friends w/them.. they are just not that woke, or they are conditioned to think that way(because we live in a more conservative country), or even simple ignorance.. i am not excusing their behavior, in fact as their friend i take it as my job to help correct their behavior by educating them on this. the world is not black & white, yes there are those that are very good & very bad but there are plenty of kinds of people in between & a lot f the are more on the good side, gou cant just dismiss those just because there not perfect. YOU yourself ARE Not perfect. does your flaws define you? because labels such as "being sexist" is not thing you just throw around on anyone. its such an condemning title reserved only for those who truly deserve it, cause if you start throwing it on anyone, it looses its true weight.
T Y & also women & men can be friends.. i'm not gonna explain further on that cause if you cant see that for yourself i doubt anyone can make you understand.
I mean isnt it ok for people to have standards? Whats the issue? Some women have standards that some men thing are rediculous but, doesnt mean those women shouldnt have em. Whats the issue here?
If I were a man I would def want a woman who can cook. Food is tradition and a gift. Why are we surprised most guys would want this in a longterm partner? Why would we be mad at it? If you dont cook then find a guy who doesn't care, and stop hating on the others for having a preference.
I think it's disrespectful towards Jeannie. They don't post videos which include Tamar...for obvious reasons so why don't the stop posting videos in which Freddie is mentioned? Also for obvious reasons.
@@MsSexyladyinred it's not for obvious reasons they can get sued captilizing off vids with tamar this is helping jeanie image keeping viewers sympathetic of her and showing Freddie's babymom is a liar slandering jeanies name.
Omg..... Tamera touched my spirit with that message 😂👏 "yeah" "huh" and "what" ... automatically getting checked. I don't even think I had the courage to ever speak to my parents that way to get checked to begin with. Even a "yes" was followed by "yes who?"... "yes, sir"
Yes!! Adrienne got it. A “wifey material” shoutout be someone that can cook, clean, take care of house duties. A “wifey material” it’s someone that is career focused, has future plans, is motivated, serves God, can lead others into being successful, and so on. Cleaning and cooking is something that can be taught. The rest, it’s something that has to already come with the person.
I think wifey material depends on who the person is. Your definition of wifey is your definition, it might be different from person to person. I agree with Tamera on her points. As for husband material I need you to love God because I do, definitely a family man, he has to be stable in what he wants to do in life (dude can’t be figuring it out... he has to have it figured out). Now calling my Mama by her name Lawd have mercy, I would be dead lol. But I only do it when I’m playing around (but I say her whole name) or she’s just not getting it. Same my parent would not let us respond with “what”, “huh”, or “yeah”, they would literally restart their question or say “what was that”.
Here to just say I am so happy to see how far Jeanie has come ! She has a man who truly cares for her and makes her whole ! It’s amazing to see how she felt about Freddy and now look at her life !
@Lizzie Robertson most likely to prove how Jeannie was a good wife and that she didn't talk badly about Freddie on the show when they were married. Just a theory. I know it's gotta be for the divorce settlement.
@@chantelshernelle7722 are you talking about the video Daytime Tea time did? That would make sense since side chick is trying to ruin jeannie's character so she won't get money.
@@filmadcamp1512 jeannie filed so Freddie could have the family he wanted, meaning kids. She let him go so he could truly be happy. I wouldn't be surprised if one of the next lengthy clips is where she mentions why she filed. That would prove how she put Freddie's needs before her own. And he didn't contradict her putting that out there. I don't he's said anything on the divorce yet. His side chick baby mama has been doing all the talking.
@Ash Tree EXACTLY!!! Jeannie spoke positively of him up to when he announced his pregnancy. Now all of a sudden she is saying something different and is allegedly contesting a prenup she signed. Jeannie said many things about Freddy and her marriage that made me see that she no longer wanted to be married. Beginning with her admitting that she did not want to marry him to begin with.
So we just gonna act like Freddy ain't dog Jeannie out and you guys are posting this in the midst of their divorce? 👀👀 She loved him so much and he just played her. Smh
@@nyanzarojas8776 He allowed his baby mom??? Can someone disallow YOU from defending YOURSELF when another woman and her friends lead blogs to believe you did something that you did not do, when that woman's friends and fans harassing you and cussing you out??? I know I don't need anyone's permission if I felt i needed to defend myself.
@@filmadcamp1512 He definitely cheated on her while they were still married. Jeannie was happy for him BEFORE she realized the timing of the pregnancy.
I love how tamera really recognised and mentioned about how there are relationshios and you have to rember the status and respect them by that status... i love tamera soul.. whoever does not you aint HUMAN!!! LOVE U TAMERA.!!!
Ohh noooo my daughter never calls me by my name.. she didnt even know I had another name besides mom up until the age of 4 almost 5 years old.. she is 6 now.. and that's only cuz I told her my full name and # just incase she ever gets lost..
I never called my mother mom or mama I called her by her nickname I called my grandmother mama. It was no disrespect and I loved my mother more than I loved anyone else in the world. l called her what other family members grandparents, aunts and uncles called her. Now being an older woman I hate when people always address me as mam or Miss whatever. All it does is remind me that I am old and it seems like my new name is mam and not my given name like everyone one else is called by. Even my boss calls me Miss, it's really weird. People say its respect, that funny, being old should'nt be the only reason someone shows you respect.
Just because you don't have sex before marriage doesn't mean you are wifey material. Cooking and cleaning doesn't make you wifey material..your character and who you are make you wifey material for a particular man. It's what he wants and what he is looking for...
Jeannie: “he’s such a goooood guy” Jeannie now: “I can’t believe y’all let me marry him. I feel salty towards anyone who attended my wedding and supported that relationship”😂💀
Adrienne made a good point. The definition of "wife material" has changed over time.
I think the traditional definition is the same. However the term is relative per individual. As men grow up not witnessing traditional representation, their idea of "wife" changes -- aesthetics over qualities.
@@janedough6410 that's def not true many men grew up seeing traditional settings and still rather a woman that contributes more than staying home and cooking which is great but doesnt work in our world. Back before the 60s women could be home makers and live off their husbands salary. I'd love to stay home with my kids instead of having them thrown in daycare and I love to cook and was raised to know cleanliness is next to Godliness. BUT we could never survive off my husbands salary and most families couldnt survive off the husbands salary. Most men especially in my generation with a middle wage income that wants children is going to choose a woman that works hard and beings in money as being wifey material hands down. My grandma finds that crazy and has always told us paying half the Bill's isnt for wives it's for roommates but shes from a different generation. That isnt working in ours. Time and time again the couples I see where the woman insists the man takes care of her ends up cheated on and left unless her man is making 6 figures because men rather a woman paying half the Bill's so they can live comfortably, go out and enjoy each other than having no money paying all the Bill's on his income and being stuck home every day off
Possibly too literal. The term "wifey material" in this context are young ladies that possess qualities for an ideal wife. Most guys inquire when they're serious and have their life in order. Finances is not a factor. Young ladies get this title while in school, and it doesn't mean to be a housewife. RE: Grandma - She's right IMO. When you're married tabs shouldn't be "half" because it's combined incomes. One or the other pays. Half is for an acquaintance. Some of us pay full tabs for friends. Your spouse take hierarchy.
it depends on the person like everyone has certain traits and characteristics that suits their life and beliefs
@@janedough6410 ain't nothing wrong with both parties paying the bills and both taking care of the house. My aunt and her husband chose to do that : combine their salaries to pay the bills and stuff and they both cook and clean etc so no one in society should put a standard of what and husband and wife material is like do what you want
I hate when guys are like "You need to be more wifey" because he wants food or to have clean dishes... "You need to be more hubby" where's my house?!
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Exactly
Right 😂😂😂
@Briana Molina Women have standards for men aswell.
I absolutely love Tamera's outfit. The color suits her a lot. And the hair and makeup, everything is just stunning.
Ikr so do I!
Tamera has been looking great lately.
Tamera is one of those people that could pull off anything, she always looks beautiful
Tamera’s been bringing it lately!
She looks amazing
The moment Loni said, "I remember it was September 24, 1976, . . ." I died
Lol, me too!!😆😂🤣
“He’s my husband but he’s also my life partner, so I want to do life with him” first of all that was Beautiful!😭😭😍
Agreed :))
No it isn't because "steven" and "aden" aren't supposed to be satan children they are Yeshua's family. 🤣🤣🤣🤣
@@antonialovesyou4462 what?
I'm sorry no.... I'm 26 my moms name is Mom. She doesn't have a first name to me. Her name is Mom.
😂😂😂
OML
Me too. I agree girl
🤣Soooo, what do you do when someone ask, what's your mother name?
@@astinmartin413 say mom, because if I didn't I could feel my mama's death stare from wherever she would be.
It scares me that Jeanie felt that way about Freddy and how it’s going now... the fact that you can feel that way about someone and then 10 years later he’s HURTING YOU and showing you a completely different person 😔😔😔😔
or they hurt each other? i don't think it was one sided. We surely gotta hear Freddy's side. He's got a story too
Divorce shows the ugliest side of people who at one point love each other
I know. I dislike how Jeannie is making herself as the victim as if Freddie is some completely different person. OH PLEASE. We all know how Jeannie is. She's a bit self serving and thoughtless with her words/actions. Freddie also has his flaws. They grew apart, people got hurt, and now, it seems like their friendship is unsalvageable.
GabriellaGlamour Jeannie never liked Freddy like that. She didn't even want to marry him. Why dont you go back and watch all those clips that included him on it and see for yourself. Jeannie knows how to manipulate when it comes to money.
That's why she's contesting the prenup. She wants her ex husband's money.
Btw this is a old clip.
im absolutely with you. so glad im not the only one who sees this side of her. She knows exactly what to say to win people's heart. People naturally prefer idealism instead of realism and thats how she plays her cards. Giving ideal answers to situations instead of real ones
Adrienne's make up is so snatched here .... yasss girl!
All my men thought I was wifey material but I didn't feel any of them were fit to be my husband.
I've always said " I might've been the one for you, but you weren't it for me". I could've been great for someone else...anybody else, but what I'm looking for...everybody doesn't have. Happily taken now, but my relationships were hard.
I've only called my mom "Rosa" in a grocery store once . She was wwwaayyy focused and wasn't responding to me yelling down the aisle, "Mami!!!" After the fourth time, I yelled, "ROSA!" ... I believe my blood drained to my feet. The death glare of a mother is REAL, And now I do it with my kids 😂
VeronicaVeeTV the death glare, I so know that 😂!
@@AahyiSam time STOPS with that glare...and not in a good way! Lol
I've done this with my mom at the store too! Although I've justified it with her and said "you know how many people here can be called mom? I wanted you to know I'm calling YOU" 😂
ginashas 😂
@@ginashas yyyyeeeesssss
I love Tam. BUT, I don’t think she understands why her college boyfriend called her that. He was buying time. He had no intention of marrying her, and called her wifey to appease her. Men do this all the time. Luckily, she met her Adam!
Adam is racist and brings out tameras submissive qualities in a bad way
It’s possible that he had the intention. We, as women need to remember that not all men are the same, just like not all women are the same. The purpose of dating is to find someone to marry. It IS possible you’re right but maybe he was actually courting her and thought she was what he wanted. 🤷🏽♀️ Just saying...
Or he was in college and wasnt ready to get married at 17 but acknowledged her as more than a play thing you all are super dramatic
orrr cause she was a virgin
BlackGirlLovesAnime6 How is he racist?
Adrienne nailed it. I advise women to take "husband material" as seriously.
Lengthy NEW girl talks?? Also. Whoever is posting these...why are y’all posting these when you darn well know Jeannie is going through divorce.
Laeni Rose Castaneda for real!!! They need to be sensitive about this topic.
That's what I said it breaks my heart whenever she talks about how great Freddy is
Regardless of the legal standpoint, it’s still cruel. I understand the legal standpoint having a family of many business owners, but it is still unkindly of the team to decide this.
@Ash Tree the legal stand point is the network who owns the youtube channel own the rights to the show and the rights to any clip or segment they post. ABC does this successfully with the view.
Personally I think it helps show that even though in life you are going through some tough segments you shouldn't let them weigh you down completely and by surrounding yourself in a different and positive environment it can help a lot. I truly respect her and all of the other ladies for supporting each other in whatever form they can.
Whoever was doing Adrienne’s makeup here needs to be rehired I love her makeup here 😍😍
So on point👌🏾
Maybe if we start complaining in the comments again they’ll give us actual lengthy *NEW* content 🤷🏽♀️
Lol
Naima Ismail the way the real are going these days I really don't wanna see them talk more crap. They used to be good on the show now they're just garbage with specs of good news there.
They lost it.
@@intrinsicallyme8404 I actually find the show to have meaningful topics still we just get the juicy gossip and clickbait video clips of them talking crap on UA-cam.
Yeessss!!!! Ugh
😭😭😭
“ It was.. September 24th, 1976...” was one of the funniest Loni moments in the entire show history😂😂😂
That’s not fair to assume you’re only wifey material if you can cook, clean and have kids. Some people CANT have kids, and dudes should be raised to cook and clean after THEMSELVES it’s called being responsible smh.
@@cecemac988 idk what you are talking about but idc who I'm married to, they better have a source of income cause nowadays, its so expensive to just live. The stereotypical stuff is ridiculous like fixing a car, opening the door, paying for dates, etc. However, I think the reason why having a job and paying the bills is a lot of women's standards is because sometimes their income is not enough to support both people. (and that's without kids) So i don't think wanting the person to have a job is a bad thing. (as long as you aren't being hypocritical and wanting them to pay for you the rest of your life)
Grace S all I’m saying is that women are always saying “a man needs to do this” or “it’s a mans job to do that” But when a man says “a woman needs to do this” or “it’s a woman’s job to do that” they get mad and say that’s sexist.
@@cecemac988 Nobody says its a man's job to do this. They say, I would like a man to do... or I prefer if a man did... (aka, having a preference which is perfectly fine) Only sexist people use that term and that's few and far. From what I've heard its more men saying that though but either way your point doesn't make any sense because that term, "its a woman's/mans job to do this," is never if rarely used.
Grace S is you’ve never heard these phrases that’s fine but I hear them all the time. You mentioned preference earlier. That’s my point. If a man “prefers” a woman who can cook, clean and wants children why do so many women get offended and say that’s sexist? If he thinks all a woman is worth is cooking, cleaning and breeding then yes, thats wrong. But otherwise I don’t get the outrage?
SIERRA MCCHRISTIAN Nobody gets mad at men saying they want a woman that cooks and cleans. Women get mad at men who think it’s a woman’s “role” to cook and clean or like it’s something they have to do because they’re a woman that’s we get mad at.
Adrienne's comedic timing and delivery when saying her mom's name is everything 😂
Wife material means, is a woman that a man wants to take home. It is someone that he wants to be serious with but it really depends on a man actually.
"Francis 😂"then black out....
That's how you know you had a black mother 😂😂😂
I remember when the girl chat segments always started with “I was reading an article on...”
Lol like no y’all weren’t! 😅
lol
I was just thinking the same thing!! 😂
They might read them. I once did a segment on local TV, and I had to research articles on hot topics at the time so I had something to talk about.
"In a recent article from madame noir" lol
Vicky lynn 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
“Francis”’ and that’s the last thing I remember. 😂😂😂
I thought this was a new clip until I heard Jeannie talk about Freddy as her husband,,wump...guess not. Oh well I still watched it thru. lol
they ain't finalized yet. jeanney is a snack.
Yjoww even Jeezy is history now
9:21 its was september 24th of 1976 , i came from school feeling some type of way HAHAHAHAAHHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHHA
Andersia Fernas lmaoooo
So apparently survival skills is wifey material🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄
so?
😂😂😂😂😂
(**throws trophies and plaques in your direction**)
@@tamtamr9081 q
unicorn chic I think the term was created to identify a woman a man wanted to spend his life with, but maybe isn't ready for the commitment.
Adrienne and I are too similar. My mom and I have such a relationship that it’s just funny to call her by her first name. Also, I didn’t grow up either calling people Ma’am, Sir, Mr., or Ms. I can say what, or yeah no biggie
Lmao, I died when Tamera said Aden called her Tamera 😂😩
Tamera, yessss we could never say “what” or “huh” that was a big nono
Still can't and I'm 44
That’s interesting because I remember one time I said huh to an adult and she thought it was disrespectful. I went home and asked my mom was I wrong? She told me no, and as long as you don’t say what because that’s disrespectful. However, everyone household is different so what was wrong for her wasn’t wrong for my mom.
Kayla Rogan I’m not sure why huh is considered a disrespectful response, I think it’s an informal response compared to a formal response of excuse me, I didn’t understand. I don’t believe huhing is flat out disrespectful, maybe more so the way you say it lol
@@LordLex My father gets so mad when I say "What do you want?" I always call them mamma and babaa when talking to my mother or father out of respect to them but they don't care if I say their first name in private at home but not in public. Crazy middle eastern family.
@@kaylarogan8988 she sounds like a good mom.
"And that's all I remember from that day." I freaking love Loni LOL
Adrienne ALWAYS got that mug in her hand LMAO
I noticed that too...She thinks she's important..silly Nancy
John Hull she’s important, you incels are just weird
@@jwh648 jealous much. She is important and she is allowed to hold her mug
@@alina9924
Lol
@@Oholoco
Ok
LONI HAD ME SCREAMING 😂😂😂with that story 😂😂😭😭😭
My moms name is Kim... but me and her having a playful mother and son bond I gave her a nickname... I gave her the nickname Kimmy G ! So we compromise and I still call her mom I usually only call her Kimmy G whenever I'm just being dumb and goofy but i know my place.. she is the mother , I am the child and I remain respectful to her ! Every parent-child relationship is different !
My son and I are the same way. He's a very respectful teenager and he playfully calls me by my first name sometimes. I think it's funny. I don't make him say ma'am either. But anyone will tell you how respectful he is.
Same with me and my mother. I sometimes jokingly call her by her nickname “Rene,” but I still know my place. My boyfriend finds it so disrespectful that I call her that even if it’s just jokingly, but I guess that shows every family is different.
My moms my best friend so I call her ma. Mom. ,mommy . Or by her first or middle name , it’s not offensive at all and she knows I respect her . It’s crazy how people are raised differently
Same, I call my mommy lystry boss or lish because her name's like lystra
Tamera is literally a whole QUEEN. QUEEN MATERIAL sis
I've had guys call me that but it's not something I value or aspire to because to me it feels like playing into respectability politics. If you want to compliment me, then compliment me. Don't make me complicit in the marginalization of other women because they might not fit into what is a man's ideal for a wife. Also I have a lot of aspirations and qualities I want to be respected for before being a good wife.
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smart sis
Thank you Ellabelle. This is exactly how I feel about this stupid wife material trope. It’s the same as the Queen / Good Woman nonsense. It’s all based on men’s expectations of women and it marginalizes women who won’t and don’t fit the stupid criteria
Thank you EllaBelle18. I'm so tired of men looking for qualities like their mom that they fail to see anything else inside of me. I met a guy years ago that didn't even know my full name or anything about me, knew him for about 2 hours and he decided I was the one, meanwhile he was married and tried to hide it. He started talking about me being a step mother to his kids and I had no clue he had kids or other women with his kids. He felt by the 3 questions he asked me, through a text and 2 hours of hanging around me was enough for him to come to the conclusion of making me an option. He thought he knew me. I find that a lot of men are looking for "Mom material" not wife material. My ex thought I was his mother. He had no plans of marrying me or anything or providing. He was lazy AF after we lived together for a few months. Which snuck up on me. He wanted me to be the man in the relationship and be his mother and every other title. I got rid of his sorry ass, he wasn't like that at first but he waited until I did better in life financially and was a selfish opportunistic asshole.
@@yourdwellingspace7407 wow. I'm sorry you had to go through that smh
I'm so happy that the girl chat segment is on UA-cam and that it is longer now 🙌👏 I love watching them and hear their opinions but it's difficult from Austria 😔 so thank youuuu ❤️
"Wifey Material" is defined differently from man to man. Everyone is different and seeking different attributes in their potential life partner. Also, I will be calling my mother, "mommy" until the day I die😂🤣
Tamera is drop dead gorgeous and Adrienne's makeup is on fire!
Sometimes Adrienne speaks and i'm like "wow". I love that Israel looks at her like magic.
Wow I love Adriennes skin 😍
Right, it's glowing!!
@@teap.9045 That's that gold blush/ highlighter.
Briana Molina that’s not a tan. She’s ethnic, so that’s her natural color.
Briana Molina I’m glad you respectfully brought this to my attention. I am ethnic too, although my skin is indeed much much lighter compared to Adrienne’s. In my case I don’t tan well so I wouldn’t know all that well. The reason I brought up the fact that she is ethnic was because I remember seeing an interview of Rashida Jones correcting the interviewer when she complimented her tan.
I love Loni's sense of humour. I love Jeannie's impressions of her Mom. And I love Tamera and Adrienne, like damn wish I could have some friends like them.
Wifey material is subjective to the person using the term. It is not bad if the person is using the term to describe a person they desire. It becomes bad when they use it in the sense of a social construct as if there is baseline version of wifey material.
If I had a wife I would allow her to cook if she wants to cook but it’s not because of that skill that makes her any less “wife-able” than the next girl. For example talking to your friend about how wifey material is like having a conversion about how they are applicable to the status quo.
I don’t think it had anything to do with sensitivity. It’s just acknowledgement.
Literally this is the best talk show on tv today! No talking about politics daily, it’s a fun place to get away from life. Love, love, love these ladies!💕💕💕💕
the real is hella messy for these old clips....
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Here's the thing though, Tamera is RIGHT ! There's nothing wrong in BEING wifey material. I'm not saying everyone should be, especially if they don't want to be. Being 26, I've realized that I don't want to be GF material anymore...I want to be wifey material. You're not going to marry your gf, you're going to marry your POTENTIAL WIFE!
yes!! people who dont like that term are just sour grapes!
Thank you ! I totally agree.
I like your perspective! Worded extremely well. 💙
What the hell does this even mean???😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
@@diamond_p Thank you!! I really appreciate it ❤
Is the intern Jamal uploading these clips??? Something isn’t right lol
😂😂 Jamal
BluSunflower8 Jones her name is Christina I thought or Tiffany idk
Oh okay. Someone said Jamal
The intern Jamal is one of Loni's recurring jokes, I don't think there's actually an intern for The Real named Jamal lol
I am not married yet, but I think in a marriage both spouses need to contribute the equal amount of responsibilities, love, and effort in order to keep the marriage going strong for many years.
I think the issue is that sometimes the term "wife material" can be used to looked down on someone.. I have a lot of guy friends & some of them look at a girl for & see that she's sexy but can't cook..& other traits that the stereo typical wife material. & deem her as just for fun & sex, w/c is totally unfair. I think that instead of stop using it.. we jut redefine it a bit & spin it into more positive, like they say emphasize how it could be different w/ every peron. or emphasizes other good traits like being loving, loyal & such cause I think thats more important than cooking skills honestly.
T Y That's ridiculous of course men and women can be friends.
T Y my friends being sexist.. they are not sexist or even a bad person in general, because if they were, i will not be friends w/them.. they are just not that woke, or they are conditioned to think that way(because we live in a more conservative country), or even simple ignorance..
i am not excusing their behavior, in fact as their friend i take it as my job to help correct their behavior by educating them on this.
the world is not black & white, yes there are those that are very good & very bad but there are plenty of kinds of people in between & a lot f the are more on the good side, gou cant just dismiss those just because there not perfect. YOU yourself ARE Not perfect. does your flaws define you? because labels such as "being sexist" is not thing you just throw around on anyone. its such an condemning title reserved only for those who truly deserve it, cause if you start throwing it on anyone, it looses its true weight.
T Y & also women & men can be friends.. i'm not gonna explain further on that cause if you cant see that for yourself i doubt anyone can make you understand.
I mean isnt it ok for people to have standards? Whats the issue? Some women have standards that some men thing are rediculous but, doesnt mean those women shouldnt have em. Whats the issue here?
If I were a man I would def want a woman who can cook. Food is tradition and a gift. Why are we surprised most guys would want this in a longterm partner? Why would we be mad at it? If you dont cook then find a guy who doesn't care, and stop hating on the others for having a preference.
ok tam tam i am living for the makeup, outfit, and hair! 🙌🙌🙌
“He’s such a GOod... guy...” ughhhgh y’all better leave her alone
Strippers can't have personal and deep relationships? Strippers don't deserve love? Way to dehumanize them Loni.
No they can't and they dont
@@avataz take your dumb comments elsewhere, noone cares what you have to say
@@ellapinkleton1829 oh ok, thanks ella lol
@@avataz strippers are literally humans.
@@rachelg6289 so?
Girl Chat: Uploading The Real Segments with Mentions of Freddie
They throwing Shade🌴🌴🌴🌴🌴
This is the second video already 🙄🙄🙄😐
I think it's disrespectful towards Jeannie. They don't post videos which include Tamar...for obvious reasons so why don't the stop posting videos in which Freddie is mentioned? Also for obvious reasons.
agreed!
@@MsSexyladyinred it's not for obvious reasons they can get sued captilizing off vids with tamar this is helping jeanie image keeping viewers sympathetic of her and showing Freddie's babymom is a liar slandering jeanies name.
Omg..... Tamera touched my spirit with that message 😂👏 "yeah" "huh" and "what" ... automatically getting checked. I don't even think I had the courage to ever speak to my parents that way to get checked to begin with. Even a "yes" was followed by "yes who?"... "yes, sir"
THIS IS OLD HAHAHAHA 💀😩😂 The Real daytime is PETTY. P E TO THE T T Y. 😂😂 Im not complaining though, please post more lengthy videos.
sarah phinees
Omg are you referencing the Petty Starkeisha videos?? 🤣🤣
💀💀
sarah phinees oh Chileeee petty isn’t the word! Jessie just take the wheel. I keep looking at the posting date hoping it was posted last year🤐
ARosa09 I sure am
I said umm this can't be the original date because she's anti Freddy now
I’ve watched this so many times. Still makes me laugh 😂
Thanks for the longer clips!!!
Yes!! Adrienne got it. A “wifey material” shoutout be someone that can cook, clean, take care of house duties. A “wifey material” it’s someone that is career focused, has future plans, is motivated, serves God, can lead others into being successful, and so on.
Cleaning and cooking is something that can be taught. The rest, it’s something that has to already come with the person.
A wifey material doesn’t have to be career focused.
I think wifey material depends on who the person is. Your definition of wifey is your definition, it might be different from person to person. I agree with Tamera on her points.
As for husband material I need you to love God because I do, definitely a family man, he has to be stable in what he wants to do in life (dude can’t be figuring it out... he has to have it figured out).
Now calling my Mama by her name Lawd have mercy, I would be dead lol. But I only do it when I’m playing around (but I say her whole name) or she’s just not getting it.
Same my parent would not let us respond with “what”, “huh”, or “yeah”, they would literally restart their question or say “what was that”.
Here to just say I am so happy to see how far Jeanie has come ! She has a man who truly cares for her and makes her whole ! It’s amazing to see how she felt about Freddy and now look at her life !
Nildaaaa 😂😂😂😂😭 adrienne to me is the funniest
Loni you are hilarious sis 😂 you all are!!! Love the vibes ladies always 💕💋🌸
I feel like these are being posted for a reason 🤔
LMHO they sure are.
@Lizzie Robertson most likely to prove how Jeannie was a good wife and that she didn't talk badly about Freddie on the show when they were married. Just a theory. I know it's gotta be for the divorce settlement.
y'all seen the video of freddy side chick tryna expose Jeannie...apparently idk but it could be that
@@chantelshernelle7722 are you talking about the video Daytime Tea time did? That would make sense since side chick is trying to ruin jeannie's character so she won't get money.
Loni said "Black magic"...i'm dyyyyiiiiinnnggg!!
The choice of these old uploads is so confusing to me. Is it deliberate?
Carolyn Simon someone definitely casting shade. Maybe Freddie’s new girlfriend broke into the studio and posted it
Ash Tree - it cannot prove that since Jeannie FILED FOR DIVORCE.
@@filmadcamp1512 jeannie filed so Freddie could have the family he wanted, meaning kids. She let him go so he could truly be happy. I wouldn't be surprised if one of the next lengthy clips is where she mentions why she filed. That would prove how she put Freddie's needs before her own. And he didn't contradict her putting that out there. I don't he's said anything on the divorce yet. His side chick baby mama has been doing all the talking.
@Ash Tree EXACTLY!!! Jeannie spoke positively of him up to when he announced his pregnancy. Now all of a sudden she is saying something different and is allegedly contesting a prenup she signed.
Jeannie said many things about Freddy and her marriage that made me see that she no longer wanted to be married. Beginning with her admitting that she did not want to marry him to begin with.
Tamara talked and describes everything soo cool and cute! Love her
when love hits you chances are you won't care about your list as long as they have some of the things it works though.
The look is so important!!!!!!! I feel you Adrienne!
So we just gonna act like Freddy ain't dog Jeannie out and you guys are posting this in the midst of their divorce? 👀👀
She loved him so much and he just played her. Smh
Freddy did not dog her out. Freddy moved on after she filed for divorce and Jeannie was happy for him.
@@filmadcamp1512 and then he allowed his baby mom to trash her all over social media, but he moved on right.
@@nyanzarojas8776 He allowed his baby mom??? Can someone disallow YOU from defending YOURSELF when another woman and her friends lead blogs to believe you did something that you did not do, when that woman's friends and fans harassing you and cussing you out???
I know I don't need anyone's permission if I felt i needed to defend myself.
@@filmadcamp1512 He definitely cheated on her while they were still married. Jeannie was happy for him BEFORE she realized the timing of the pregnancy.
FilMAD Camp Well she was being a homewrecker thats why she was called out
I agree with Adrienne. It depends on the man.
I definitely feel the same way...!!
It depends on the guy.
Thank yoouu Tamara!!!!!! 👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏 "he who finds a wife finds a good thing."
I love how tamera really recognised and mentioned about how there are relationshios and you have to rember the status and respect them by that status... i love tamera soul.. whoever does not you aint HUMAN!!! LOVE U TAMERA.!!!
I Love Jeannie's jacket!
So crazy how loni is so different now since she’s with James and it’s so good to see her so happy
Ohh noooo my daughter never calls me by my name.. she didnt even know I had another name besides mom up until the age of 4 almost 5 years old.. she is 6 now.. and that's only cuz I told her my full name and # just incase she ever gets lost..
What's your moms name?
"Mommy"
Lol so cute!😄
@@nicelydone4846 yup
I never called my mother mom or mama I called her by her nickname I called my grandmother mama. It was no disrespect and I loved my mother more than I loved anyone else in the world. l called her what other family members grandparents, aunts and uncles called her.
Now being an older woman I hate when people always address me as mam or Miss whatever. All it does is remind me that I am old and it seems like my new name is mam and not my given name like everyone one else is called by. Even my boss calls me Miss, it's really weird. People say its respect, that funny, being old should'nt be the only reason someone shows you respect.
Adriennes makeup is giving me LIFE!
Loni, killed me! So you even remember the date...
I live in Belgium and we don’t have « the real » here, so when they put long clips like that I LIVE for it thank you 🙏🏾💓💓
Cool. I've always wanted to visit your country. I hope I can do it one day
Loni is too funny. Francis! And that's all she remembered from that day. Lol!😁😁😁😁!
Lmfaoooooo Adrienne in this one .Maaaaa! Nildaaaaa 😂🤣
I call my mom "pili" sometimes, her name is Pilar, and believe me my respect for her is beyond any name.
Yea Adrienne seems really happy with Hougton
ohh maybe they are posting this because after the divorce gets finalized maybe any clips with mention of freddie wont be allowed to be posted
I miss these segments!!!!
Just because you don't have sex before marriage doesn't mean you are wifey material. Cooking and cleaning doesn't make you wifey material..your character and who you are make you wifey material for a particular man. It's what he wants and what he is looking for...
Tameras definition of her marriage enlightens me. I won’t get married if I don’t feel this way about the man I’m marrying 😍🥰
Awkward watching this at the end of 2019 and Jeannie is divorced and with jeezy lol 😅
OMGSH, I’m rolling…I love when Loni reminisces back to the 70’s/80’s lol 😂
I can totally relate to Adrienne 😂😂
82 sounds like something done with noticeing Congratulations Lady 82😊😂🎉❤
I’ve come to realize if it’s more then the usual 2-4 minuets... it’s a super OLD clip 😒
Tamera needs to get her ass off the fence on every issue and that's the real
STOP POSTING OLD VIDEOS WITH NEW CAPTIONS !!!!
10:03 Adrienne baby that’s a New York thing🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼❤️❤️❤️😂😂😂
When my older sister was little she use to call my dad by his name Tony because that the only thing she'd ever hear other people call him.
When Lonnie said "black magic" I DIED and went to HEAVEN lmfao !!!!
Tamera complaining that people are sensitive... Imagine that.
LOL well they kind of are...
😂LMAO
People are nowadays unfortunately.
Yeah, I know how ironic?
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣right. Imagine that
"She Can
Make Us
A Power
Couple
She's A
Go Getter
She's Career
FOCUSED.."
Adrienne slay the ponytail plz🤗😄
freddy is a good guy ? man she loved him
Miss waiting these old segments
Jeannie: “he’s such a goooood guy” Jeannie now: “I can’t believe y’all let me marry him. I feel salty towards anyone who attended my wedding and supported that relationship”😂💀