I just love those two. I have watch this episode and the others so many times months ago. Never wanted their show to end so quick. I wish they could continue together again.
And just to be clear this was 12 years ago. It gets harder to be as close when you get married, make your own family, and move away, it's no bitterness, it's no feud, it's just life... just because you go to the rollercoaster, doesn't mean you can't go back to the teacups.
Yeah, when Tamera married, Tia was pregnant. Their bday came and Tamera celebrated without her (out with friends). Tia didn’t wanna go anyway. She was tired…♥️♥️
Ya but I feel like with twins or some siblings there is some level of dependence and feelings of abandonment and it just bubbles up anytime they sense that the other one is not trying as hard as they are
I love them both so much. But I'm more like Tamara. And many don't understand it. But, it takes a very strong person to be kind, encouraging, bubbly and want to keep the peace in all situations.
Tia, there is no need for you or anyone for that matter, to stand up, lean over your sister and point your finger in her face like that. Not only that when you re-enacted Tamera you didn’t even indicate that she would be crying. Tamera had to share that info. Your actions seemed very abusive. You are blessed to have a sister like Tamera because they are other sisters who would have responded very aggressively to your provocative act. Just because people are reserved doesn’t give you the excuse/right to behave in that way. Being real also involves having sensitivity for others and acting in love. It also involves recognizing your own shortcomings, being truly apologetic, and endeavoring to change. I hope that you have changed in that regard. I pray the best for both of you going forward.
I know this dynamic very well. My sister and I are very bad at communicating. She feels judged always, and I feel judged too. So most of the time when we want to communicate we are already thinking the other one doesn’t understand me and we come in already in your defense mode. I wish we could afford a therapist because we really need help. Although I might have watched this couple of times before, it resonates with me much more now when I see what’s happening in my life
omg i feel for them. myself as part of a twin have such bad communications and i hate it the past gets brought out over and over again instead of moving past the has been and going forward on a clean slate into the future....its just awful
My sister and I have Tia n Tamara relationship. We both have different point of view of life and the way we raise our children. And I feel like I am a Tamara. I hate confrontation. And I can see why they are not super close now. Because I feel like I am getting to that point with my sister.
Anyone else find the counselor’s switch role play directions confusing?? I had to re-listen 3 times. Still didn’t get it, but just moved on and figured I’d get it once the twins did it. 😂
Love them both! But I hope that now that Tamera is a mother she realizes how rude it is to tell a new mother who is overworked stressed and possibly at the time struggling with her relationship that she needs to do more for her kid 😳 some women do want it all and each sacrifice that is made hurts. it wasn’t her place to say that especially not in that way bc my butt would of been like okay so go get my son and bring him to see me then since it’s so important bc isn’t she a part of the village it takes to raise a child? I’m sure there was more to their issue than that but you can’t say stuff like that then go in victim mode we all have the freedom of speech but you have to be ready to receive the response you provoke when it comes to people’s family/kids and apologize if you where in the wrong then when the conversation is had about Tia being aggressive maybe she’d be more open but she’s never gonna admit to being wrong about defending her relationship with her kid even if that issue brought up bigger issues bc in that instance she was right although she may have been the one in the wrong in the frame of the bigger picture.
@@Soigne-he3cyWhy would anyone bash her for marrying a white man..... she's half white? I've never heard anyone say anything Iike that about her. Plus she's still happily married and Tia is divorced!!!!
@@rainesonne1320the fact that she’s 50% white has nothing to do with her choice to marry White being acceptable. The fact that she married who she Loved is what makes marrying him acceptable.
I think they both can be especially if you watch the full old series. And I think Tia has a hard time hearing Tamera bc she sees her as she was versus who she is
Is it because they are twins.....they are just two sisters living their lives like every other normal siblings.... sometimes you work together sometimes you just don't....let them breathe please.....all this pressure.....it's totally uncalled for
Bottom line, BOTH parties have to both want to go to therapy together and both be receptive and not just one accepting it and one saying they have to change… we BOTH have things to work on.
Funny how humans have become so “connected” in terms of technology and physical access to more people than ever before yet people lack simple empathy respect and communication skills lol. I sometimes feel most adults nowadays have the self centeredness and emotional maturity of a three year old toddler lol.
People don't care as much to make that kind of effort BECAUSE it's too easy to do things without face-to-face/voice contact. Strip technology away, then folks don't know what to do/don't REALLY know each other.. then you get these situations like theirs.
They were never one...they were always two. They were and are not meant to be mirror forever. Tia ha and may still have a problem letting Tamera be herself. Tamera being real is her own expression p. It does not need to match Tia, her husband, and friends. She is being real as herself just as Tia is. It is important to simply let people be themselves. Love them where the stand no matter how far away that is. I am happy Tamera is happy in her life with her husband. Tia is amazing in her own ways and there is no competition. Tia makes fun of her sister because she finds her unrelated. It's mean as heck...it is not her being funny, she means it. I am so happy Tamera is with her family where she can be her and not have to explain or make excuses for or deny who she is. In the end it is pure jealousy.
It’s time for them to go to Jesus and repent and ask Him to forgive them. They have been blessed beyond and for this they should be greatfull. Where is the younger brother? What kind of example are they setting for Him?. What kind of example are they setting for their kids? Love covers a multitude of sin. Y’all need to hug it out. Forgive each other I only have one sister no brothers both our parents are deceased I don’t know how i would be if I stop talking to my sister. When husband and wives come an go Family is all that is left. Remember it’s the enemy of your soul that comes to kill steal and destroy. It’s never the person we are not fighting flesh and blood powers and principalities wickedness in high places. Jesus is the answer.
perception is not reality, it is opinion formed from outside perspective AND no one has the power to hurt another’s feelings .. the power and control of process & handling, lies within oneself yet.. communication is paramount, as is understanding and empathy of others process (including individual boundaries) - because we are all imperfect human beings, trying to learn the navigation of our respective, unique course through this journey called, life 🤍
I just love those two. I have watch this episode and the others so many times months ago. Never wanted their show to end so quick. I wish they could continue together again.
And just to be clear this was 12 years ago. It gets harder to be as close when you get married, make your own family, and move away, it's no bitterness, it's no feud, it's just life... just because you go to the rollercoaster, doesn't mean you can't go back to the teacups.
Theyre still close in real life..Tia just lying now for her new reality show....they were recently on vacation together right before Tia new show
Tia?? Is that you?
Yeah, when Tamera married, Tia was pregnant. Their bday came and Tamera celebrated without her (out with friends). Tia didn’t wanna go anyway. She was tired…♥️♥️
Tia is such a liar, you were making fun of her when you say she talks like a valley girl
Ya but I feel like with twins or some siblings there is some level of dependence and feelings of abandonment and it just bubbles up anytime they sense that the other one is not trying as hard as they are
Sisterhood has its ups and downs. Have to balance setting limits but also keep an open heart.
I'm glad this is available!!! but E you shady lol 🍿🍶🔥
Very 😭😭😭
How?
@@Q.T-T”E” is posting this in the wake of the news that the two sisters don’t really communicate as much anymore.
I felt that Tamera. I'm sitting here in tears .
I love them both so much. But I'm more like Tamara. And many don't understand it. But, it takes a very strong person to be kind, encouraging, bubbly and want to keep the peace in all situations.
Ugh. Tia 😵💫😫 I feel for tamera so much
Tia made that show hard to watch. She was selfish.
@@shanonlee8216she still selfish
Tia, there is no need for you or anyone for that matter, to stand up, lean over your sister and point your finger in her face like that. Not only that when you re-enacted Tamera you didn’t even indicate that she would be crying. Tamera had to share that info. Your actions seemed very abusive. You are blessed to have a sister like Tamera because they are other sisters who would have responded very aggressively to your provocative act. Just because people are reserved doesn’t give you the excuse/right to behave in that way. Being real also involves having sensitivity for others and acting in love. It also involves recognizing your own shortcomings, being truly apologetic, and endeavoring to change. I hope that you have changed in that regard. I pray the best for both of you going forward.
I know this dynamic very well. My sister and I are very bad at communicating. She feels judged always, and I feel judged too. So most of the time when we want to communicate we are already thinking the other one doesn’t understand me and we come in already in your defense mode. I wish we could afford a therapist because we really need help. Although I might have watched this couple of times before, it resonates with me much more now when I see what’s happening in my life
I’m a cancer and I can relate to Tamera more than Tia. We can be real, but we don’t do rude.
Exactly 👍
I'm a cancer, and I never knew they were as well, but I kept saying, they give me cancer energy. Baby we don't do shade.
One thing Tia's beautiful big eyes will do...is to cry. 🥺
Loved that therapist! ❤
therapy needed again
Tia 13mins in Tia totally misinterpreted and made up what she thought of her sister 😂😂😂😂😂
It takes YEARS in therapy to resolve stuff!! one or two sessions is never gonna do it... they have to change completely for each other
Tia does seem like that kind of person though. How is one so much more sensitive than the other. So interesting.
omg i feel for them. myself as part of a twin have such bad communications and i hate it the past gets brought out over and over again instead of moving past the has been and going forward on a clean slate into the future....its just awful
They remind me so much of Mary Mary ❤
I think because they worked together for so long it’s hard to split work life
Wow I thought they were 2 peas in a pod I stand corrected
Praise God for them doing that because we love them both .❤❤❤❤❤❤
This is hilarious! my sister and me can relate to this! 😂❤ all love ❤
I guess these are the receipts
At 1:24 tamera apoke facts now look
My sister and I have Tia n Tamara relationship.
We both have different point of view of life and the way we raise our children. And I feel like I am a Tamara. I hate confrontation. And I can see why they are not super close now. Because I feel like I am getting to that point with my sister.
Anyone else find the counselor’s switch role play directions confusing?? I had to re-listen 3 times. Still didn’t get it, but just moved on and figured I’d get it once the twins did it. 😂
You'll are shady for reposting this.
I always wondered if Jerome was the baby cousin they use to babysit, cause they always gave that.
Uploading these clips while Tia has a new reality show and the whole estranged sisters thing is shady. 😂
Tamera paints her as an aggressive blk woman 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 im dead
Tia is an aggressive woman! She's half white!
Stop projecting
@@Queen_A8723 WTH are you talking about blackie😂🥴🥲
@@AngelAngelagross
Love them both! But I hope that now that Tamera is a mother she realizes how rude it is to tell a new mother who is overworked stressed and possibly at the time struggling with her relationship that she needs to do more for her kid 😳 some women do want it all and each sacrifice that is made hurts. it wasn’t her place to say that especially not in that way bc my butt would of been like okay so go get my son and bring him to see me then since it’s so important bc isn’t she a part of the village it takes to raise a child? I’m sure there was more to their issue than that but you can’t say stuff like that then go in victim mode we all have the freedom of speech but you have to be ready to receive the response you provoke when it comes to people’s family/kids and apologize if you where in the wrong then when the conversation is had about Tia being aggressive maybe she’d be more open but she’s never gonna admit to being wrong about defending her relationship with her kid even if that issue brought up bigger issues bc in that instance she was right although she may have been the one in the wrong in the frame of the bigger picture.
The look she gave her at 5:44 :/
Now they don't even talk anymore 😭
All old videos show how incredibly rude and bossy Tia is. Yet, people always bash Tamera because she married a white guy lol
@@Soigne-he3cyWhy would anyone bash her for marrying a white man..... she's half white? I've never heard anyone say anything Iike that about her. Plus she's still happily married and Tia is divorced!!!!
I just saw an interview of Tia . It’s not true that they are not talking
@@rainesonne1320the fact that she’s 50% white has nothing to do with her choice to marry White being acceptable. The fact that she married who she Loved is what makes marrying him acceptable.
@@rainesonne1320People say it all the time😏
Tia, from me watching, you do put Tamera down
Tamera has a problem taking accountability for her actions that contribute to the issues between her and Tia
I still can't tell them apart 😂
🚫 they do not look alike at 40. 12yo them yes.
Tamera is chubbier and bubblier, and has a cute lil mole on her face! She is my favorite
I can tell ,soon as they open their mouth
Tamera can be judgmental. She was like that on The Real too she just never owns it. Tia is just direct with her communication.
But if her being direct hurts her sister, find a different way to communicate
Exactly!!!
I think they both can be especially if you watch the full old series. And I think Tia has a hard time hearing Tamera bc she sees her as she was versus who she is
She is and she’s also conflict avoidant which is very hurtful if you’re a direct person
Judgmental how? 😂
Is it because they are twins.....they are just two sisters living their lives like every other normal siblings.... sometimes you work together sometimes you just don't....let them breathe please.....all this pressure.....it's totally uncalled for
Relationships are complex, genuinely Tia is the problem, she needs to let her guard down and let go.
Bottom line, BOTH parties have to both want to go to therapy together and both be receptive and not just one accepting it and one saying they have to change… we BOTH have things to work on.
Funny how humans have become so “connected” in terms of technology and physical access to more people than ever before yet people lack simple empathy respect and communication skills lol. I sometimes feel most adults nowadays have the self centeredness and emotional maturity of a three year old toddler lol.
People don't care as much to make that kind of effort BECAUSE it's too easy to do things without face-to-face/voice contact. Strip technology away, then folks don't know what to do/don't REALLY know each other.. then you get these situations like theirs.
@@ellepee89 oh yea no question. People are real bold thru the phone, they wouldn’t have the sane energy in person.
I pray for, feel you both, and genuinely cover you beautiful sisters in prayers, in Jesus mighty matchless name
Reality tv ruins relationships.
Tamera is definitely too soft & emotional
No She’s not. Tia is rude and exhausting!
Both can be true
Tamera is the more sensitive one.
Tia looks immature
Tamera looks very mature
Look who Tia friends are loud and confrontational
They were never one...they were always two. They were and are not meant to be mirror forever. Tia ha and may still have a problem letting Tamera be herself. Tamera being real is her own expression p. It does not need to match Tia, her husband, and friends. She is being real as herself just as Tia is. It is important to simply let people be themselves. Love them where the stand no matter how far away that is. I am happy Tamera is happy in her life with her husband. Tia is amazing in her own ways and there is no competition. Tia makes fun of her sister because she finds her unrelated. It's mean as heck...it is not her being funny, she means it.
I am so happy Tamera is with her family where she can be her and not have to explain or make excuses for or deny who she is. In the end it is pure jealousy.
Please stay away from social media. 💕
These exercise were supposed to be done separately
Normal sister relationship
IS TIA JEALOUS OF TAMERA?
My comment is for Tamera, Keep praying Jesus knows and see what wrong Linda
This is not new!
Clickbait!!!!! But they knew that 🙄
That’s insane for twins to be at odds y’all are twins literally the same dna and person lol 😅😅😅😅 it’s like being mad at yourself
Twins are still 2 separate beings..they are their own beings
You definitely can't be a twin. They are individuals
Tia is the problem!!
It’s time for them to go to Jesus and repent and ask Him to forgive them. They have been blessed beyond and for this they should be greatfull. Where is the younger brother? What kind of example are they setting for Him?. What kind of example are they setting for their kids? Love covers a multitude of sin. Y’all need to hug it out. Forgive each other I only have one sister no brothers both our parents are deceased I don’t know how i would be if I stop talking to my sister. When husband and wives come an go Family is all that is left. Remember it’s the enemy of your soul that comes to kill steal and destroy. It’s never the person we are not fighting flesh and blood powers and principalities wickedness in high places. Jesus is the answer.
Stop airing your dirty laundry.
Tia is so annoying.
perception is not reality, it is opinion formed from outside perspective
AND
no one has the power to hurt another’s feelings .. the power and control of process & handling, lies within oneself
yet.. communication is paramount, as is understanding and empathy of others process (including individual boundaries) - because we are all imperfect human beings, trying to learn the navigation of our respective, unique course through this journey called, life
🤍
Tia seems like she wants to chastise the people in her life
They both talk too much
Too much talking and not enough listening to one another...so sad 😢
Why do you say that? It’s a reality show that was aired years ago so they must be dialogue. It’s not a silent film.