Emotional Fluency: The Language Black Boys aren't Taught | Nate Evans Jr. | TEDxWhiting

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  • Опубліковано 26 лип 2022
  • Nate Evans Jr. discusses an issue within black communities that persists due to the lack of mental health awareness. Nathan Evans Jr. is a First-Generation High School & First-Generation College graduate. He creates experiences for apprehensive students to feel worthy when they are waging a war in their mind. Nate is a #1 best-selling author, a highly requested speaker, mindset coach and podcast host. He also is a youth mentor and educational consultant. He lives by the quote, "CHANGE WHAT WE NORMALIZE™” which was inspired by his mission to eradicate the stigmas around mental health amongst Gen-Z. This passion was birthed by his own battles with mental health issues as a teen and young adult due to childhood trauma in which he overcame. With this motivation, he has developed workshops for high schools, colleges and non-profits based around mental health, emotional wellness and resilience. This talk was given at a TEDx event using the TED conference format but independently organized by a local community. Learn more at www.ted.com/tedx

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  • @ronanderson8490
    @ronanderson8490 Рік тому +69

    We also lack emotional fluency because we have a subsect in our community who allow celebrities, sports stars to be our heros, and this deep attachment to pop-culture and obsession of trying to be viewed as "cool."

    • @TechTakeOver2023
      @TechTakeOver2023 5 місяців тому +3

      Or validation

    • @CdmanChris
      @CdmanChris 4 місяці тому +2

      This!!! So true. And we look up to people whom haven’t done the healing they need to

    • @JohnDoe-pd4jo
      @JohnDoe-pd4jo 3 місяці тому +1

      It’s deeper than this simple minded shii….

    • @mshill2406
      @mshill2406 Місяць тому

      Agreed and they take on a self centered attitude like those celebrities

  • @bryantdeshields1170
    @bryantdeshields1170 Рік тому +67

    It’s a shame that this young brother doesn’t get the recognition and respect he deserves in Atlantic County , NJ . Keep up the good work.

    • @PrettyFinessa
      @PrettyFinessa 18 днів тому

      I’m sure this young man gets the respect he deserves, do you mean you want him to become popular or well shared ? I like my gems to be well kept secrets, like appreciated amongst his community because the ones that blow up change the format and ruin the magic, among other things. This young man deserves a particular type of crowd that genuinely respects and understands his craft & he’ll be just fine ❤

  • @holisticevolutioninc3550
    @holisticevolutioninc3550 11 місяців тому +19

    Thank you for speaking on this! Our young males of color need to hear it from men in their community!!

  • @laquittapearson2052
    @laquittapearson2052 Рік тому +39

    This was absolutely beautiful. This is needed in our communities. So simple steps but because the trauma deeply rooted in our community many need to be taught just those 4 steps!!

  • @michaeljones3604
    @michaeljones3604 18 годин тому

    I needed to hear this today.. Somebody still cares. 🙏🏼💯

  • @almightyyotto
    @almightyyotto Рік тому +7

    I had to watch this twice. man man man.

  • @Mrsneekzlojik
    @Mrsneekzlojik 3 місяці тому +7

    I don't often go through and listen to Tedx Talks, but this one...my family was there but I definitely dealt with some of the things here... I'm here for it...I want to help.
    Shared this video on LinkedIn too.

    • @NateEvansJr
      @NateEvansJr 2 місяці тому

      Thank you for taking the time to watch and share

  • @apc5755
    @apc5755 11 місяців тому +15

    🦋🌎I hope Nate’s endeavors for emotional fluency and creating a safe space becomes nation wide and global. Thank you for addressing how intergenerational trauma, abuse and dysfunction needs to stop so the healing can begin.🦋🌎

  • @rodinmotion4331
    @rodinmotion4331 Рік тому +14

    THIS DESERVES A STANDING OVATION, LET'S GO NATE🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥

  • @hellonomasonto
    @hellonomasonto Рік тому +7

    I had to watch this twice and ponder what he's saying. Very emotional and thought-provoking. Thank you for the talk.

  • @Kwealthy03
    @Kwealthy03 Рік тому +11

    Wow! What a powerful and thought provoking presentation. I’am so proud of you Son. Keep up the good work. God has gifted you for such a time as this. 🙏🏽❤️

  • @liamatsutv
    @liamatsutv 2 місяці тому +4

    WOW! This needs to be seen by SOOOOOO many more people!

  • @jeromepeterson7150
    @jeromepeterson7150 Рік тому +8

    Wow! Very Powerful! Great Job Sir!!!!

  • @rodinmotion4331
    @rodinmotion4331 Рік тому +6

    Man!!! Nate this was awesome, very proud of you Young King💚💚💚🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽💚💚💚

  • @user-zx7ic6js8y
    @user-zx7ic6js8y 11 місяців тому +9

    Extremely profound! So very proud of you!

  • @PastorProphetessDeeModeste
    @PastorProphetessDeeModeste 6 днів тому

    Keep up the great work!

  • @saraburns1675
    @saraburns1675 Рік тому +2

    thank you for sharing such a heartfelt message

  • @user-do4vk7vq6k
    @user-do4vk7vq6k Рік тому +4

    Excellent Ted talk Nate. We need to hear this message more often. Thank you for being open to share !!!!

  • @NakiaToliber
    @NakiaToliber 2 місяці тому +1

    Thank you for sharing your story and shedding light on this very important topic that needs more attention!

  • @thatssoairee
    @thatssoairee Рік тому +1

    This was really good!

  • @naeromnallih
    @naeromnallih 6 місяців тому +1

    thanks for this

  • @cordrellcolbert4550
    @cordrellcolbert4550 Рік тому +6

    This really resonates deeply with me and feels like exactly what i needed to hear, thank you for this!

  • @wvuk
    @wvuk Рік тому +3

    Just what I needed to help with my son. Thank you. Off to look for your book

  • @duranrussell9978
    @duranrussell9978 8 місяців тому +1

    Great talk Nate! Keep up the good work!

  • @nikkiacomm
    @nikkiacomm 8 місяців тому +1

    This is great information.

  • @ottogreenjr.7857
    @ottogreenjr.7857 10 місяців тому +1

    Brilliant!!!!

  • @krose5965
    @krose5965 9 місяців тому +1

    Thank u do much

  • @waltlikka
    @waltlikka Рік тому +7

    This is powerful & resonated with me on so many levels.

  • @HARSHKUMAR-bv3zv
    @HARSHKUMAR-bv3zv 6 місяців тому +1

    thanks Nate Evans Jr for motivating me i was feeling very low but after he changed my point off view to myself

  • @Tyreeleslie
    @Tyreeleslie Рік тому +3

    Right on my brother.

  • @jansonovia
    @jansonovia Рік тому +1

    Incredible.

  • @CommunityDynamic
    @CommunityDynamic 5 місяців тому +1

    Nate Evans, Jr. thank you for this presentation.

  • @EricMHowardII-yh1rn
    @EricMHowardII-yh1rn 2 місяці тому

    Thank you for being honest about what happened to you that was not easy to do. Listen with understanding, Opening up your heart to display tender affection. Encouragement is inspired by faith, hope and love. Truthful and respectful dialogue is needed now more than ever before in human history.

  • @user-pf7ww8ky8z
    @user-pf7ww8ky8z 6 місяців тому +1

    Thank you for i needed to see this. A

  • @gregschaub7199
    @gregschaub7199 3 місяці тому +1

    Really inspiring. Thank you

  • @jamespossible2601
    @jamespossible2601 10 місяців тому +1

    Such an important share, thank you Nate.

  • @RobertHMarshallJr
    @RobertHMarshallJr 10 місяців тому +1

    Amazing

  • @arlettaalleninspires
    @arlettaalleninspires Рік тому +16

    Wow this is powerful Nate!!! Especially the part about not wanting to die but wanting to kill the pain!!! I can relate!!!

    • @NateEvansJr
      @NateEvansJr Рік тому +1

      Thanks for watching and sharing Arletta!

  • @CareerDropout.
    @CareerDropout. 4 місяці тому +1

    This message is essential.

  • @kirasoul
    @kirasoul 3 місяці тому

    I'm so thankful for this video. Perfect example. Many young men can benefit. Shout out Memphis I'm from there!

  • @Deshawn144
    @Deshawn144 Рік тому +1

    I know Nate we used to live on the same block good to see him doing well 🙏🏾🔥

  • @originaleverythingelseisca5977
    @originaleverythingelseisca5977 7 місяців тому +1

    I love this, it is well overdue

  • @saraburns1675
    @saraburns1675 Рік тому +7

    in young men, regardless of race or color, depression and anxiety present as ANGER

  • @shenetricharris2887
    @shenetricharris2887 Рік тому +6

    This is a very profound message that is needed in the community! Excellent job Nate!

  • @UnityBeginWithin33
    @UnityBeginWithin33 8 місяців тому +2

    THAT WAS AMAZING AND AWESOME 🤩 ✨ AMAZING PRESENTER AND PRESENTATION

  • @wellbodisalone
    @wellbodisalone 11 місяців тому +1

    This video is worth watching twice!

  • @brad8497
    @brad8497 Рік тому +1

    Love all y’all fellas ❤❤

  • @FaeDruid
    @FaeDruid 4 місяці тому

    This was well worth listening to.

  • @rebeccanicolas2557
    @rebeccanicolas2557 4 місяці тому +3

    Hello! Is there anyway to get in contact with you to visit my school to speak to my boys?

  • @askforwisdomfirst
    @askforwisdomfirst Рік тому +3

    Just Wow! I really felt that!

    • @NateEvansJr
      @NateEvansJr Рік тому

      Thank you for watching 🙏🏾

  • @ChocLei
    @ChocLei 3 місяці тому +1

    Thank you for this message!

  • @andreanjoku-tade8162
    @andreanjoku-tade8162 Рік тому +4

    Thank you!

    • @NateEvansJr
      @NateEvansJr Рік тому

      Thank you for watching 🙏🏾

  • @datruthruth9948
    @datruthruth9948 3 місяці тому

    Damn! Good stuff.

  • @Jvaldes609
    @Jvaldes609 Рік тому +3

    Great talk. Keep going forward.

  • @tonyajowilliams575
    @tonyajowilliams575 Рік тому +2

    Great content Nate!👍🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽The part that really stood out is when you said not wanting to die but wanting to kill the pain🔥

    • @NateEvansJr
      @NateEvansJr Рік тому +1

      Thank you for investing the time to watch Tonya!

  • @tes_speaks
    @tes_speaks Рік тому +4

    Outstanding concept, MUST WATCH! Great job Nate 🔥

  • @ashacherian3353
    @ashacherian3353 Рік тому +2

    Great work. Wishing you the very best in your endeavors. God bless you

  • @dejonking794
    @dejonking794 Рік тому +2

    We got this ✊🏽

    • @NateEvansJr
      @NateEvansJr Рік тому +1

      Appreciate you watching Dejon!

  • @TheRealThrivalist
    @TheRealThrivalist Рік тому +1

    I do like it🎉

  • @KeithTheTherapist
    @KeithTheTherapist Рік тому +2

    Incredible!11111

  • @YBNormal423
    @YBNormal423 Рік тому +2

    LETS GO NATE 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥

  • @Calmly-replied111
    @Calmly-replied111 10 місяців тому +8

    😮 That only 18,000 people have watched 👀 this as 2023 is the tragic 😥 😔 Shame on the process that doesn't push this information forward!!!

    • @PrettyFinessa
      @PrettyFinessa 18 днів тому

      51k in a year doesn’t seem bad. However people have to grow or want to grow to become emotionally fluent so they need to have in interest in this topic.

  • @TSquared2001
    @TSquared2001 3 місяці тому +1

    This is real

  • @sedecim
    @sedecim 10 місяців тому +1

    Bless

  • @catedoge3206
    @catedoge3206 Місяць тому

    real.

  • @cuzinlucky7836
    @cuzinlucky7836 9 місяців тому +1

    🔥

  • @kennethjones7123
    @kennethjones7123 8 місяців тому +1

    💯

  • @oliviasmith234
    @oliviasmith234 5 місяців тому +1

  • @brandieharnack1552
    @brandieharnack1552 11 днів тому

    ❤❤

  • @jessespearman9234
    @jessespearman9234 2 місяці тому

    Does anyone have the link to the video of Corey and Noah he had screenshots of?

  • @brienfarmer6846
    @brienfarmer6846 11 місяців тому +1

    LIL TIF

  • @tyronewingo8653
    @tyronewingo8653 10 місяців тому +1

    🎁 🙏🏿

  • @DomCTBG
    @DomCTBG 28 днів тому

    😥💕💕💕💕

  • @Aussiechick77
    @Aussiechick77 7 місяців тому

    To rich and name dropping...not cool ..get overyourself get humble

  • @ARDG89
    @ARDG89 Місяць тому

    He got me until he brought up racism in freaking 2022. 🤡🤡🤡

  • @sasazamami
    @sasazamami Рік тому +1

    This is BS

    • @jamiewashington4319
      @jamiewashington4319 Рік тому +5

      What does that mean? I"m not sure I understand?

    • @kikataye6293
      @kikataye6293 Місяць тому

      @@jamiewashington4319 he’s pretty much not agreeing with this video for some reason