Alex, I just turned 76, a widow for almost three years and looking again for a wonderful love ! I listen to you faithfully and am learning! I LIVE your strong French accent! Pat
@@FrenchRelationshipExpert you know, just to know you are there with your sympathetic wisdom means so much to all of us I am positive...merci beaucoup encore....
You hit on alot good points Coach Alex, now I understand ,I won’t doing these things anymore trying new things, enjoy my life focus on my life, I’ll be distance for 21 days strong.
Your advices helps sooo much! Continue being a coach. You’re not just a coach by the way you’re like a psychologist. Thank you very much Sir! You’re an Angel of people with broken💔
DON'T lose or change Your strong French accent for anyone or anything..That is apart of who You are & that's a GOOD thing 😊..Thanks for all of Your help & advice 😊
I'm always super busy and always need more time to do my things/goals; hence, I'm sincerely not bothered not to receive a text or call from a guy. Usually, I tell men that I want someone handsome, tall, rich, educated and I never hear from them again because they lose interest faster than a speeding car. However, I do not mind being single because I want an alfa male. 😢😻
If he distance his self from You mostly he have other options and mostly online man he will on of on you like a bus the better block and delete him not waste your time he text you back if his options not work on him let him Go forever move on and forgot about him
@@FrenchRelationshipExpert sir iam from India, luckily I got your channel. I should thank you sir for your valuable advice for we women. Really its helping me to cope with my relationship.
Hi Kamara! We can absolutely make an appointment to talk! You can book a coaching session with me using this link: www.frenchrelationshipexpert.com/coaching/
You don't have to be home all the time. Go for walks by yourself; or if you can't leave, read a book, do some arts and crafts, yoga, exercise, meditate things that you enjoy doing alone.
LADIES I’ll SAY THIS ONCE! IF HE GHOSTS YOU THEN MOVE ON! NO GAMES NO NOTHING JUST MOVE ON! HE HAS COMMUNICATION ISSUES AND HOW WILL YOU EVER BUILD SOMETHING WITH SOMEONE LIKE THAT! A REAL MAN WOULD NEVER!
i don’t agree. if you’re in that situation to proof the guy, who you are, you lost. the guys are interested or not. he won’t commit after 21 days, because you started with amazing crocheting. however, i love your energy, alex.
Hi Alex, your points are so true! I have a guy who been very close for quite some time, suddenly he distant him off and he did mentioned that we were "too clingy" and eating together too often even after gym. Im sure he has feeling/like me, he distant me but he is replying me, acting like normal in the gym. I tried to not message him at all for 5 days and live my life, and i found out he actually muted my story and post in IG when I started to not texting him (we are texting now already), it is an act to stop himself from thinking about me. He is not entirely ignoring me but he is doing all these. It's confusing. Can I have a kind advice from you? much love! xoxo. From Malaysia: Irene
Hi Irene, I would love to help you with this. I would need to know a little more about your situation before I can give you proper advice. I hope you can book a coaching session with me! www.frenchrelationshipexpert.com/coaching/
Hi Alex, I have messed things up with this lad I really like. I've been seeing him a few weeks, but when we make plans, it never happens. He has gone very distance from me cos he has a lot with his dad not being well. On nye I asked him could we do something in a few weeks he said we will. I got a bit selfish and said to him I thinks its best if we delete each other. He said he didn't want to because he like me. In the end I have deleted him. I think I need to cos I wanted his attention and was fed up making plans then nothing coming of it. I want to talk to tell why I've done it and explain. I feel like I've just messed things up bad times and he not gonna wanna talk to me. Plus he lives round the corner and I have to walk down his road sometime. I don't know how to be when I see him . Should I say hi or will he be angry with me
Is there a chance he's ever being distant because he's waiting for you to make the first step? Because he's waiting for you to go to him??? I'm older than him by 6yrs and we've been in a relationship for 6 months now and it's been going well but I'm starting to feel he's always waiting for me to make the first move all the time Eren I never make the first move. I've always made him do it but it's very difficult to know and getting fed up with him sometimes being distant. I will wait it out and he does come round but it's scary because don't want to lose him but if this is what it takes By the way never lose your French accent!!!
Alex, I think I'm a little bit confused about a man being distant He still texted me every day, but one day, he only ask one question about me, usually, there are many questions about me And still the same day, he shared about his daily life, like what he's doing, shared what food he doesn't like But the text become shorter, longer to reply than usual Then I feel anxious, and I don't want to become needy, confront him, ask him why while we are not in committed relationship I'm also afraid to give him attention cuz In my mind, full of thoughts "does he pull so that I initiate contact to make him feel good that he got me?" With that kind of emotion, question, then I'm being distant I didn't reply to his message and he is not looking for me either It's been 2 days already Does the tips in this video can be applied in my situation, Alex?
Quick question: can a guy be not romantic that he doesn’t know how to show the girl he cares. Example: hasn’t sent or planned anything for anniversary or bday. Hasn’t made much efforts to visit etc that my friend feels like she puts more efforts than he does. They are in long distance, but seems like the guy has a hard time ask for days off to visit or initiate video chats or messages.
Sorry, but your friend must accept that he's just not interested in her. There isn't even a real relationship, from what you say. I don't believe there's any such thing as a long-distance relationship, unless you're engaged or married to him. Stop fooling yourselves, ladies, when it's so obvious that a man is just not interested in you. Stop clinging desperately to so-called LDRs.
Sud we make decision with intuitions …how do you beautiful ladies decide … relying solely on gut feelings ?do u always feel suspicious. …. R these gut feelings trying protect us …with our survival mode human behavior or sud we just ignore them stop overthinking it until we catch the needle in the haystack by it’s own natural course ….it says nice girls have tendency to become anxious because of our anxious attachment style so we start doubting when everything is going great …. But all their actions show everything going great especially in our favor like receiving gifts dining u to high end restaurants with commitment but why deep down u feel insecure … when he keep making your feel ur the prize n his committed long term …. How do u develop your confidence to higher level ? Self love dating in abundance or hobbies ? Any thought on this ladies ?or is it your fearful part of ego that does not want you let go n trust universe to do it’s job give u the abundance of love happiness
I think woman should match his investment, don't put all heart and trust in a man at the early stage. So when you find the way to get his back it means you fall in love with him deep down and sure he knows that as an instinct. It isn't good for a woman in that situation any way.
One week ago he plan for wedding,bext day he ghosted me when i ask him why he reply at my meseges in 3,4 hours. I week already sence no sign. I didnt text ,didnt call.... I let things like this to see what he will do..... Thankx Alex🫶
Alex, I just turned 76, a widow for almost three years and looking again for a wonderful love ! I listen to you faithfully and am learning! I LIVE your strong French accent! Pat
Thank you so much for the support! I'm always happy to help!
😊😊😊
Thank you Alex and don't change, your accent is fine, it's your wisdom and kind heart that is a wonderful help and comfort..
I'm always happy to help Laila! Thank you so much
@@FrenchRelationshipExpert you know, just to know you are there with your sympathetic wisdom means so much to all of us I am positive...merci beaucoup encore....
You hit on alot good points Coach Alex, now I understand ,I won’t doing these things anymore trying new things, enjoy my life focus on my life, I’ll be distance for 21 days strong.
I know how hard this can be but you got this!
@@FrenchRelationshipExpert I got this💪🏽💪🏽 only because of you!!
@@victorianorris1916 any updates now ? How was it ?
Your advices helps sooo much! Continue being a coach. You’re not just a coach by the way you’re like a psychologist. Thank you very much Sir! You’re an Angel of people with broken💔
Thank you so much for watching!
Thank you so much I will keep in mind for the next self development , and I love your accent. That makes you unique 😊
Good morning from Arizona USA. You’re the best coach. Thank you
Thank you so much for watching Rose!
Great Content I love it
Thank you so much 😊
DON'T lose or change Your strong French accent for anyone or anything..That is apart of who You are & that's a GOOD thing 😊..Thanks for all of Your help & advice 😊
Thanks alot Alex, I really needed of this topic, thanks again Alex
You're always welcome Syra!
Great points and great delivery, the topic very interesting and entertaining as always 🥰
Thank you so much!
U r fantastic Alex
Thank you so much! I appreciate your support!
DearAlex, I like ur accent ❤️ pls take love from Bangladesh 🇧🇩🇧🇩🇧🇩
Thank you so much for your support!
The best relationship coach.. you motivate me in my daily life.. thank you so much ❤❤❤ Love & blessings from Mauritius
Thank you so much for the support!
The problem is when after being both distant, they do come back yes, but only to check😂
Know the difference btwn a Hoover & a genuine return. It's balanced.
Alex sir
U gave very valuable advices
It will help people a lot
I'm always happy to help Amina!
I’ve learned every day a brand new tip.Thank you Alex🙏
You're always welcome!
Thank you so much for good advice mr Alex
You're always welcome Barbara!
Thanks a lot Alex for your great advice😊
You're always welcome Meenakshi!
Thank you for the video Alex
You're always welcome Jessie!
Thank you 😊 👌🏽
You're always welcome Ocee!
Thanks u Alex ur advice I listened ur advice..I have more mistaking my passed ..thanks ur channel..
I'm always happy to help Lan!
Hello,from
PHILIPPINES🥰
i like your video,it's clear and the way you explained,with feelings,came from your heart🥰
i'm single 53yrs old
Thank you so much for watching my videos!
This is helpful Alex. Thanks alot
You're welcome Ada!
You so right
Thank you so much for watching!
Am also in that situation
These questions are for me anytime he is distancing himself from me and I start loosing myself 😢😢😢
I know how hard this must be Aysha
@@FrenchRelationshipExpert very hard
Love it 🙏😊
I'm always super busy and always need more time to do my things/goals; hence, I'm sincerely not bothered not to receive a text or call from a guy. Usually, I tell men that I want someone handsome, tall, rich, educated and I never hear from them again because they lose interest faster than a speeding car. However, I do not mind being single because I want an alfa male. 😢😻
Wait 'til you meet the Omega¡
If he distance his self from You mostly he have other options and mostly online man he will on of on you like a bus the better block and delete him not waste your time he text you back if his options not work on him let him Go forever move on and forgot about him
Absolutely ryt 😊
Thank you Kavita!
Agreed sir 💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯
Thank you so much for watching Betcy!
@@FrenchRelationshipExpert sir iam from India, luckily I got your channel. I should thank you sir for your valuable advice for we women. Really its helping me to cope with my relationship.
very true
Who s coach to u❤😂😂
Thank you so much for watching!
Hi Alex! Post videos for Married couples as well..
Hi Praicy,
Thank you so much for the suggestion! I will keep this in mind for future videos!
All these videos apply long term too if you're not dating you're not loving
Keep your french accent ! The french touch is une arme de séduction massive 🙈🤣 je le vois chaque jour à Tenerife en tant qu expatriee française ! ;)
Thank you Alex 😊 This will work in LDR ?
Hey Alex, I will want to talk to you about my relationship. Can we please make an appointment
Hi Kamara!
We can absolutely make an appointment to talk! You can book a coaching session with me using this link:
www.frenchrelationshipexpert.com/coaching/
I don't know how can i be distant if we are living togeather :/
You don't have to be home all the time. Go for walks by yourself; or if you can't leave, read a book, do some arts and crafts, yoga, exercise, meditate things that you enjoy doing alone.
Comment différencier entre les hommes qui retournent à cause de leur égo où bien amour ?
Aaah, mais oui ....c'est comme c'as
... mais un monde sans les hommes ?????
The cycle. Progressive ? Or dismissive.
How will this work when you live together
LADIES I’ll SAY THIS ONCE! IF HE GHOSTS YOU THEN MOVE ON! NO GAMES NO NOTHING JUST MOVE ON! HE HAS COMMUNICATION ISSUES AND HOW WILL YOU EVER BUILD SOMETHING WITH SOMEONE LIKE THAT! A REAL MAN WOULD NEVER!
i don’t agree. if you’re in that situation to proof the guy, who you are, you lost. the guys are interested or not. he won’t commit after 21 days, because you started with amazing crocheting. however, i love your energy, alex.
You are right.
If hè is distance. Just leave!
Hi Alex, your points are so true! I have a guy who been very close for quite some time, suddenly he distant him off and he did mentioned that we were "too clingy" and eating together too often even after gym. Im sure he has feeling/like me, he distant me but he is replying me, acting like normal in the gym. I tried to not message him at all for 5 days and live my life, and i found out he actually muted my story and post in IG when I started to not texting him (we are texting now already), it is an act to stop himself from thinking about me. He is not entirely ignoring me but he is doing all these. It's confusing.
Can I have a kind advice from you? much love! xoxo.
From Malaysia: Irene
Hi Irene,
I would love to help you with this. I would need to know a little more about your situation before I can give you proper advice. I hope you can book a coaching session with me!
www.frenchrelationshipexpert.com/coaching/
Hi Alex, I have messed things up with this lad I really like. I've been seeing him a few weeks, but when we make plans, it never happens. He has gone very distance from me cos he has a lot with his dad not being well. On nye I asked him could we do something in a few weeks he said we will. I got a bit selfish and said to him I thinks its best if we delete each other. He said he didn't want to because he like me. In the end I have deleted him. I think I need to cos I wanted his attention and was fed up making plans then nothing coming of it. I want to talk to tell why I've done it and explain. I feel like I've just messed things up bad times and he not gonna wanna talk to me. Plus he lives round the corner and I have to walk down his road sometime. I don't know how to be when I see him . Should I say hi or will he be angry with me
Is there a chance he's ever being distant because he's waiting for you to make the first step? Because he's waiting for you to go to him??? I'm older than him by 6yrs and we've been in a relationship for 6 months now and it's been going well but I'm starting to feel he's always waiting for me to make the first move all the time Eren I never make the first move. I've always made him do it but it's very difficult to know and getting fed up with him sometimes being distant. I will wait it out and he does come round but it's scary because don't want to lose him but if this is what it takes
By the way never lose your French accent!!!
Even in weeks men can ignore you?
Alex, I think I'm a little bit confused about a man being distant
He still texted me every day, but one day, he only ask one question about me, usually, there are many questions about me
And still the same day, he shared about his daily life, like what he's doing, shared what food he doesn't like
But the text become shorter, longer to reply than usual
Then I feel anxious, and I don't want to become needy, confront him, ask him why while we are not in committed relationship
I'm also afraid to give him attention cuz In my mind, full of thoughts "does he pull so that I initiate contact to make him feel good that he got me?"
With that kind of emotion, question, then I'm being distant
I didn't reply to his message and he is not looking for me either
It's been 2 days already
Does the tips in this video can be applied in my situation, Alex?
Quick question: can a guy be not romantic that he doesn’t know how to show the girl he cares. Example: hasn’t sent or planned anything for anniversary or bday. Hasn’t made much efforts to visit etc that my friend feels like she puts more efforts than he does. They are in long distance, but seems like the guy has a hard time ask for days off to visit or initiate video chats or messages.
Sorry, but your friend must accept that he's just not interested in her. There isn't even a real relationship, from what you say. I don't believe there's any such thing as a long-distance relationship, unless you're engaged or married to him. Stop fooling yourselves, ladies, when it's so obvious that a man is just not interested in you. Stop clinging desperately to so-called LDRs.
I love your accent, Alex! No need to work on it!
Sud we make decision with intuitions …how do you beautiful ladies decide … relying solely on gut feelings ?do u always feel suspicious. …. R these gut feelings trying protect us …with our survival mode human behavior or sud we just ignore them stop overthinking it until we catch the needle in the haystack by it’s own natural course ….it says nice girls have tendency to become anxious because of our anxious attachment style so we start doubting when everything is going great …. But all their actions show everything going great especially in our favor like receiving gifts dining u to high end restaurants with commitment but why deep down u feel insecure … when he keep making your feel ur the prize n his committed long term …. How do u develop your confidence to higher level ? Self love dating in abundance or hobbies ? Any thought on this ladies ?or is it your fearful part of ego that does not want you let go n trust universe to do it’s job give u the abundance of love happiness
I think woman should match his investment, don't put all heart and trust in a man at the early stage. So when you find the way to get his back it means you fall in love with him deep down and sure he knows that as an instinct. It isn't good for a woman in that situation any way.
One week ago he plan for wedding,bext day he ghosted me when i ask him why he reply at my meseges in 3,4 hours.
I week already sence no sign.
I didnt text ,didnt call....
I let things like this to see what he will do.....
Thankx Alex🫶
Thank you!
You're always welcome Jean!
Thank you Alex 😊 This will work in LDR ?
Yes!
Thank you Alex 😊 This will work in LDR ?
Yes Milly!