Stop Being NEEDY and Do THIS To Get His Attention!

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  • @elizabethodame9751
    @elizabethodame9751 Рік тому +24

    I promise I will never be needy again .

  • @magorzatagoliszewska8090
    @magorzatagoliszewska8090 Рік тому +14

    I promise, I will stop begging. I will never be needy again. Thank you coach ❤

  • @alegnavblack
    @alegnavblack 2 роки тому +57

    This won’t work on a malignant narcissist. Once they decide to discard you because they are bored of you or they have a new source of supply, there’s nothing you can do but live your life and give him the silent treatment.

    • @CryptoQuest1
      @CryptoQuest1 Рік тому +1

      💯

    • @tlc6756
      @tlc6756 Рік тому +1

      Exactly...see it for what it is and remove him from your life.

    • @fatimah338
      @fatimah338 10 місяців тому

      Bitter reality😢😢😢😢

    • @nataliagonzalez6745
      @nataliagonzalez6745 7 місяців тому

      And then what happens…?

    • @motivations9296
      @motivations9296 6 місяців тому +1

      Exactly i am doing this now and he doesnt care he still hasn't called me

  • @chimeyantandajunji3854
    @chimeyantandajunji3854 Рік тому +23

    He ghosted me and I moved on now he wants me back and I am not interested.

    • @---dx4ut
      @---dx4ut 5 місяців тому +1

      Powerful 🫶🏻👏🏻

    • @annomega3352
      @annomega3352 4 місяці тому

      Someone said this, i fhe ghosted you, respect the dead, organize his funeral and don't disturb him again😂

  • @noraaruwa8717
    @noraaruwa8717 10 місяців тому +8

    Am ready to stop being needy

  • @vanessamansfield4252
    @vanessamansfield4252 2 роки тому +28

    I learned that having distance really does work , still being connected with feelings , ie: we have gone a few weeks without commuting it"s not that all is lost , rather it"s allowing space for growth .

    • @effatsharmin8389
      @effatsharmin8389 2 роки тому +1

      Distance works for some? To me, always..distance does it's distance thing..ha ha..

    • @angeliclight-h8h
      @angeliclight-h8h 7 місяців тому +2

      Hi even when i stop calling him i stop sending him messages its the same story he will call me but not see me he talks to me about his friends or about his family nothing about us so the silent treatment does not work for me shoyld i stop answering his calls alltogether what should i do now please let me know meeting new people is nor that easy so what now can i do ?

  • @I.Z.Official
    @I.Z.Official 7 місяців тому +4

    I gave him space he came back and started playing his games again so I ended it , walked away and blocked him. He has blown his chances.

  • @naomig571
    @naomig571 Рік тому +14

    Omg, I just poured out my whole heart talking about the past and my emotions and begging in a letter and I saw this video write after I wrote it and thank God! Because this video told me to do the complete opposite. Tearing up letter now and rewriting - thank you!

  • @SHAMMALANADENDLAA
    @SHAMMALANADENDLAA 2 роки тому +29

    Hi Alex ..I am from India..You changed my life by transforming me from needy to a self-controlled lady..Thanks a ton Alex..

  • @BBFLY_RISEN
    @BBFLY_RISEN Рік тому +4

    I PROMISE you Alex 🙋🏿‍♀️!!!

  • @tszprejda40
    @tszprejda40 7 місяців тому +3

    I promise I will stop begging and tomorrow will be better than yesterday.

  • @drgoodwell1082
    @drgoodwell1082 2 роки тому +7

    Thank you nos I have no begging no needy no asking no calling no tecting

  • @angelinazimmerman9519
    @angelinazimmerman9519 8 місяців тому +3

    Yes, i believe that space is good for growth i agree 💯%.

  • @chidinmaodunukwe9628
    @chidinmaodunukwe9628 6 місяців тому +1

    am ready to stop beging too

  • @rachelgrace5987
    @rachelgrace5987 2 роки тому +13

    I'm going to do all this! How exciting! Keep your fingers crossed for me x

  • @mariannaoosthuizen9639
    @mariannaoosthuizen9639 7 місяців тому +3

    I don't beg ANYONE. NEVER!

  • @benterakinyi7135
    @benterakinyi7135 2 роки тому +12

    I promise you coach not to be needy to someone 🙏🙏

  • @crispinadavid2369
    @crispinadavid2369 2 роки тому +6

    I am from the Philippines, I love to listen to your advice. I hope I will gain strength to be strong. Thank you so much.

    • @crispinadavid2369
      @crispinadavid2369 2 роки тому +1

      I promise , I will not beg anymore. Thank you so much.

  • @patriciagomez8035
    @patriciagomez8035 2 роки тому +5

    Alex you are on point. Ladies this man is the French connection. When I talk to my boyfriend about vacation ,my work or any future plans .
    The man is always intrigued. Good advice…!🤣

  • @RosieMewan-fg5it
    @RosieMewan-fg5it 8 місяців тому +1

    Thank you Alex no more needy

  • @luc3405
    @luc3405 8 місяців тому +1

    thank you, i never was needy, but my bf is avoidant, and i was having a bad period so ended up doing these things. i would say good thing to have your own life and be confident on yourself

  • @Ann-f6t
    @Ann-f6t 10 місяців тому +4

    Thank u so much Alex learned so much about relationship ..

  • @charcollings486
    @charcollings486 8 місяців тому +1

    So amazing that you can convey this clarity for important misconceptions that women have communicating with the man they love. Truly powerful while being easily accomplished. You have turned the light on in the dark of complicated methods we thought we couldn't get right...because they are completely wrong! You are genius! Thank you, Alex!
    Char

    • @FrenchRelationshipExpert
      @FrenchRelationshipExpert  8 місяців тому

      Hi there! Thank you so much for watching and for your comment! I really appreciate this!

  • @tanyabishnoi8879
    @tanyabishnoi8879 2 роки тому +4

    I will focus on the tomorrow not on the past

  • @sudeshnadutta8055
    @sudeshnadutta8055 2 роки тому +8

    Great info ..don't hit them with rationality, hit them with emotions ( the future gorgeous you). ❤️It. From India

  • @Irene-i3s
    @Irene-i3s Рік тому +2

    Stop being needy , thanks coach 🎉

  • @kalelake3067
    @kalelake3067 2 роки тому +3

    Thank you Alex; I promise to talk about my self and talk about the future.. Alex you are really a beautiful caring person; God Bless you..

  • @liliantalbot3805
    @liliantalbot3805 2 роки тому +6

    Don’t be his moza in coach Alex voice 🤣🤣🤣we love you coach

  • @hillarybrown6813
    @hillarybrown6813 Рік тому +3

    Amen. Great job at being specific for free. Needed this

  • @sintelibanda8396
    @sintelibanda8396 9 місяців тому +1

    Please continue helping

  • @katharina1439
    @katharina1439 2 роки тому +11

    First comment😜❤ I just dont understand why men aren't thrilled that we are also interested in them😪 I'm an open book and always tell them I like them back. 😳 Probably this keeps me single

    • @effatsharmin8389
      @effatsharmin8389 2 роки тому +2

      I agree. Can't a woman desire a man?

    • @juicyy3951
      @juicyy3951 9 місяців тому +2

      Same here😭

    • @juicyy3951
      @juicyy3951 9 місяців тому +3

      Like it’s a crime for ladies to express their feelings too🤷🏿‍♀️

  • @tanyabishnoi8879
    @tanyabishnoi8879 2 роки тому +3

    My tomorrow will be better that yesterday

  • @fatimah338
    @fatimah338 10 місяців тому +2

    Love you man!!!❤❤❤

  • @rosielinde8590
    @rosielinde8590 4 місяці тому

    I'm from philipines,I really like how you dicuss about the topic i enjoy watching you because I learn a lot from you❤

  • @Lizzygracias256
    @Lizzygracias256 2 роки тому +3

    Thanks Alex am from Uganda

  • @EleanorNakato
    @EleanorNakato 5 місяців тому

    I hadn't discovered that in me but am in the lecture room learning

  • @leahlopez4187
    @leahlopez4187 2 роки тому +3

    Thank you so much Alex I learn lots of your advices not being needed, distant and feel confident to my self..

  • @sintelibanda8396
    @sintelibanda8396 9 місяців тому +1

    I hear you coach

  • @nguformaria6038
    @nguformaria6038 2 роки тому +6

    Thanks so much Alex I just did this yesterday didn’t know it was the best action u just made my day thank u🙏🏻

  • @RuthElsha
    @RuthElsha 2 місяці тому

    Thank you so much,

  • @EleanorNakato
    @EleanorNakato 5 місяців тому

    Thanks so much for the lecture dear

  • @jacquelinedavis1604
    @jacquelinedavis1604 2 роки тому +4

    I am ready to stop begging

  • @hillarybrown6813
    @hillarybrown6813 Рік тому +1

    One of your best

  • @OluwadamilolaJames-i2r
    @OluwadamilolaJames-i2r 4 місяці тому

    Thanks for this

    • @FrenchRelationshipExpert
      @FrenchRelationshipExpert  4 місяці тому

      You’re welcome! If you need any more help or have questions, feel free to ask. 😊

  • @simplesolutionbysaira
    @simplesolutionbysaira 3 місяці тому

    Thanks

  • @lemagloria
    @lemagloria 2 роки тому +9

    My din't text me for 3 days to 1 week i'm sorry that not being needy i just need a new man that match my energy lmao😂

  • @nancyesposito874
    @nancyesposito874 2 роки тому +2

    Thank you for the great advice

  • @meeksmiinkboutique1681
    @meeksmiinkboutique1681 2 роки тому +2

    🙌🏽🙌🏽 I hope I remember Wednesday so I can tune in!

  • @princessg
    @princessg 2 роки тому +1

    Hello. Thank u for very good message for us…I am Grace from Japan
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  • @amrita_Sa
    @amrita_Sa 2 роки тому +3

    Thank you very much, Alex 🙏🙏 this will help me a lot 🙏🤓 🇮🇳🇮🇳🇮🇳

  • @jacklineradido8675
    @jacklineradido8675 2 роки тому +3

    Excellent tips.
    Good job!

  • @chombashamanze8010
    @chombashamanze8010 Рік тому +2

    Am ready to stop begging

  • @terit1387
    @terit1387 2 роки тому +4

    Thank you Coach Alex! I really love your video. It helps me being grounded in dating and serves as a great reminder. It is always so uplifting and motivating. And I was able to understand male psychology so much better!
    Thank you I will keep following your advice!

  • @ashikasharma9457
    @ashikasharma9457 2 роки тому +4

    Love it!!

  • @NinaMary
    @NinaMary 2 роки тому +8

    But how to challenge when there is no communication ?? When he doesn’t contact me ??

    • @kimgordon3695
      @kimgordon3695 2 роки тому +2

      If it's a brief window of time it's masculine need to retreat & focus
      If it's constant & a cycle, it's abuse.

  • @JennymolWillie
    @JennymolWillie 10 місяців тому +1

    Hi Alex, thanks for your great advice, my name is jenny and I'm from Papua New Guinea South pacific, I always do this to be needy and rushingnal in my love life, now I heard from you than I will be stop doing this, I want to be a challenge woman, I promise

    • @FrenchRelationshipExpert
      @FrenchRelationshipExpert  10 місяців тому +1

      Hi Jenny! Thank you for your message, and I'm glad to hear that you found the advice helpful. Recognizing patterns in our behavior is the first step towards positive change. It's great that you want to challenge yourself to be more balanced and less needy in your love life. Remember, being independent and confident in yourself can make you even more attractive. Take things at your own pace and focus on your personal growth. You've got this! If you ever need more advice or support, feel free to reach out.

    • @JennymolWillie
      @JennymolWillie 10 місяців тому

      @@FrenchRelationshipExpert thank you so much coach Alex, I will do that to support my love life

  • @mjpninja4950
    @mjpninja4950 2 роки тому +3

    I've watched your video for awhile now and I love your advice always. Its authentic!
    Keep it up!😊

  • @friedapark
    @friedapark 8 місяців тому +1

    I promise not to beg or being needy

  • @angelinazimmerman9519
    @angelinazimmerman9519 8 місяців тому +2

    I promise i will not be Needy for someone.

  • @camehdinhobangura3396
    @camehdinhobangura3396 Рік тому +1

    I promise Alex I will make him crazy about me

  • @safimakula7586
    @safimakula7586 2 роки тому +3

    It like you already know what am going through right now

    • @effatsharmin8389
      @effatsharmin8389 2 роки тому

      Relationship coaches know everything. Psychology.

  • @GabySeazarh
    @GabySeazarh Рік тому +1

    Alex!!!Wow😃

  • @esthermogerle4867
    @esthermogerle4867 9 місяців тому +1

    I promise. Esther from germany

  • @buhlemhlongo7481
    @buhlemhlongo7481 4 місяці тому

    I yes Alex I m Gona stop being needy

  • @renukamane2117
    @renukamane2117 2 місяці тому

    I promise 50%❤❤

  • @Myoung-rr7nl
    @Myoung-rr7nl 2 роки тому +2

    Fabulous,!

  • @Lizzygracias256
    @Lizzygracias256 2 роки тому +1

    Thanks 👍 Alex i like this

  • @dafnejimenezb5040
    @dafnejimenezb5040 2 роки тому +1

    I like it a lot, didn’t notice i was acting needy lol but that’s cool i know now

  • @CelestinaOfori-dt9mo
    @CelestinaOfori-dt9mo 10 місяців тому +3

    I promise to not being needed anymore

  • @suzansuzan9372
    @suzansuzan9372 2 роки тому +5

    Thank you Alex! Love it ...I go for it 🙏☘️🐞🌈😇

  • @brigittebaker4411
    @brigittebaker4411 2 роки тому +1

    Hi Alex, I am from Germany

  • @lyluu2308
    @lyluu2308 2 роки тому +1

    hello from Croatia 🇭🇷🇭🇷❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @fatimarezai631
    @fatimarezai631 7 місяців тому

    Ur laughing style❤❤

  • @kellynelly9827
    @kellynelly9827 2 роки тому +1

    Hi Alex am from Kenya you really help me a lot thanks

  • @MsTahB
    @MsTahB 2 роки тому +1

    This is the first time I've heard this

  • @tsebosei1285
    @tsebosei1285 2 роки тому +1

    The future is expensive amen

  • @reshmaramharack4017
    @reshmaramharack4017 2 роки тому +1

    I will

  • @blancabartolome2352
    @blancabartolome2352 2 роки тому +2

    Hi ...Philippines

  • @evalove6444
    @evalove6444 2 роки тому

    Watching from 🇬🇭 Ghana .Thank you for the tips

  • @fatemeasa7885
    @fatemeasa7885 2 роки тому +1

    I promise to not being needy anymore

  • @reinoldlouw-zh3mw
    @reinoldlouw-zh3mw Рік тому +1

    It was really handsome,I will challenge him

  • @mariamuniz5752
    @mariamuniz5752 2 роки тому +1

    Hi Alex. I'm from El Paso

  • @abbysoriano8745
    @abbysoriano8745 2 роки тому +1

    Thank you coach Alex
    I follow your vedio
    Really it works

  • @Ayurwedgirl
    @Ayurwedgirl 2 роки тому +1

    Love from 🇮🇳India

  • @martaolewinska9781
    @martaolewinska9781 11 місяців тому +1

    I promise! :)

  • @rosemarydeborah3726
    @rosemarydeborah3726 8 місяців тому +1

    Challenge

  • @jacquelinedavis1604
    @jacquelinedavis1604 8 місяців тому +1

    Ready to stop begging

  • @Madhumita_mondal295
    @Madhumita_mondal295 9 місяців тому

    I see you from 🇮🇳 India. Like your video.

  • @jihanvirginiac.tandayu6755
    @jihanvirginiac.tandayu6755 2 місяці тому

    I will never initiate messaging him anymore. It's his turn now 😅

  • @nikolinajakic9037
    @nikolinajakic9037 2 роки тому

    Soo true. I was soo needy to new guy over text that he ran off. But he said on our first date he had 3 year relationship that was serious after he got divorced but he also said he wants a relationship but was a litlle bit insecure

  • @sintelibanda8396
    @sintelibanda8396 9 місяців тому

    Sinte from Namibia

  • @DESCROMEBOY
    @DESCROMEBOY 7 місяців тому +2

    I will not be needy

  • @ek8928
    @ek8928 2 роки тому +1

    promiseee

  • @sintelibanda8396
    @sintelibanda8396 9 місяців тому

    Hi Coach profitable

  • @claudettebennett6242
    @claudettebennett6242 2 роки тому

    Jamaica

  • @donnacastanedo3816
    @donnacastanedo3816 2 роки тому

    Hello from Texas

  • @Chen87960
    @Chen87960 2 роки тому +2

    Hello, Sir Alex thank you for all the videos you make it really helps .❤
    Sir Alex, what im going to do if he said he likes me but he doesn't want commitment? Thank you so much Sir Alex.🙏

  • @valeriek1378
    @valeriek1378 2 місяці тому

    We had an amazing date but I got too excited. He only wants to be friends.

  • @candace7340
    @candace7340 2 роки тому +3

    I was trying to be his friend while he got a girlfriend. He would call occasionally but I couldn’t call him. I hung in there for so long it’s crazy waiting for 8 months. I finally said I’m moving on and can no longer do this. So we ended up in no contact because I just got tired. It’s a relief not to have to wait for his call and I’m ready to try dating. I’m assuming this is going to affect him because I no longer feed his ego? Does no contact work if he has a relationship and it’s been 8 months and we are just now in no contact?

    • @beac8238
      @beac8238 Рік тому +3

      He has a whole girlfriend who he probably talks to every day and sees at least 3 times a week. Please be honest with yourself. Move on, work on your self esteem, seek God for healing and peace, get active so you can be happy, open yourself to real friendships with other men.

  • @ashitamohile1593
    @ashitamohile1593 2 роки тому +2

    Thanks Alex. If we talk about ourselves, won’t that be projected as narcissistic? Shouldn’t we instead ask him questions about himself?