What I learned so far -slow movement -eye contact while talking -low hand gestures -speaking slowly lowering voice near end of sentence - short sentences -sit straight up little slouched - keep chin up - only glance to right or left when losing eye contact never down -leaning forward trying to get attention (more important) but lean back let them come to u -hand shake w strong eye contact -wide stance - invading personal space alpha move - laughing is weak can smirk at times.
A thing I noticed about Tommy is his complete lack of blinking. When he's looking at someone and talking to them, or if a moment is intense, he doesn't blink at all. He holds eye contact SO strongly there is ZERO blinking, I think that's super cool.
@@stonecat676 tommy isn’t gay as the show portrays him and he doesn’t blink. So yes it is gay. ( i have nothing against gay people its just a joke lol)
@@1STMAN do you think he'd be good in something like Marvel? I honestly don't know, but he seems to play the more serious roles better, at least that's the vibe I get. Maybe he could pull off anything though, who knows?
Just wanted to add few notes - the way they are dressed has a big factor on body language. When Tommy shifts as Alfie looks at the pin, its an impatience shift, not a vulnerable move. Cillian has said in interviews breaking down Tommy’s character that he feels everyone around him is slow, you can see that in this scene. He’s waiting for Alfie to give him what he wants, because he always gets what he wants, one way or another. Big part of his character in general. In my opinion, Tommy seems like he just wants to get this out of the way.
Thanks for that. Yeah the pacing makes sense knowing Tommy as a character. Clothing 100% changes everything, especially the fit. Women, clothing and BL is also a must
Summary 1. Gesture in the area of your stomach. 2. When you gesture palms down. 2. Speak in short sentences. 3. Hold eye contact while talking. 3. Stay calm. 4. Slow reactions. 5. Sit upright. 6. Don´t show emotions. 7. Move slowly.
The most killer line was when Tommy checked his pocket watch and both men turned suddenly. And Tommy says “just checking the time, carry on” CARRY ON. He’s saying he’s willing to die with them.
I personally think it's the most important/most powerful thing you can do just from experience. Combine this with being in good shape with good posture and it's dynamite
Well that sucks for me. I shrivel at the mere thought of looking into someones eyes for more than a few seconds. But i've been working on it. It's not as bad as it used to be
Cheyenne Weston try to figure out what there eye colour is, or look at there monobrow area, that always help if ur finding it hard, maintain eyesight all the way through tho
@@elainewalter8685 the non stop eye to eye contact might be a bit awkward in most situations. What I've learned as a waitress - try to look more at the bridge of their nose, then eyes for a bit and nose again. It's not as intense but maintains the same amount of connection with the person you are speaking with.
There's something also to be said about the cut of Tommy's clothes. Take a closer look whether it's seams or padding cillian carries them formidably. That long coat with the flare and scarlet silk lining is simply genius! If you note in later seasons the coat is closer and the lining becomes white.
Another important detail you missed nearing the end of the exchange is when Tommy says "4 minutes", when Alfie checks the watch, eluding to him that he has been keeping track, whilst remaining perceptive and talking at the same time. Such importunity is put into so subtle a detail, which is what makes it so impressively enjoyable. Edit: and something else, you don't seem to realize that Tommy intentionally give off false signals to pull Alfie into a trap, and when Alfie places his entire confidence on that final point, Tommy destroys him with one single judicious move.
@@owaingum6468 If you are afraid to miss out on your homies then I have BAD news for you. You are just not alpha material. Cause If you were, your homies would surely want to involve you in everything even if you don't respond to their horn, they would make sure you notice them not the other way around.
@@gauravparsheera of course I mean randomly seeing them apart by themselves just randomly in public, plus real alphas look at every single person passing, could be a potential threat and I have to obviously quiet them down with ( or without) force, also that never happens bcs I just exude alpha pheromones
tommys general disposition is calm, methodical. he looks as if he never feels pressure, and that he is always ahead of his opponent and he mixes all that with this confidence that beams from him. The actor playing Tommy is god tier at playing his role. Like someone will basically lay out how his has tommy by the balls and tommy will just lean back in his chair with his hands closed together and he feet up calmly looking at him like, "oh really?" or "can I speak yet to make a fool of you."
Years ago, in an online body language course. However it changed to right, now they're saying it depends on which hand you are which makes sense to me due to right and left brain
theres a distiction between left handed and right handed people. One side of your brain is logical and one is creative and those side switch places depending whether u r left handed or right handed. Look it up
One last thing to mention is at the end after Thomas taps his friend on the back he never looks back to see if he’s following him or slows down to let him catch up. He keeps moving at his pace and keeps his eyes towards what’s ahead.
I think you should do a body language video on young vito corleone in Godfather 2. He attains the qualities that you are discussing here, but he also has a gentlemanly way of doing things, he never raises his voice and barely speaks and when he does speak it is only filled with quality, important sentences. He is the ultimate of confidence without arrogance
Also the Way he stands when getting up with arms on the desk with a wide stance is also alpha and the way he says “just sign here” acting in agreement he follows along and it quickly calms Alfie down and gets him out of his personal space
24:18 I don’t think Tommy’s fidgeting in my opinion at least it sounded like he sighed and with that kinda nonchalant look at his face I think he’s trying to express that he’s bored like he doesn’t care
Haha yeah for some reason we have a reputation of being soft, I think TV has done that. Actual Britain is so rough. Everyone thinks it's central London everywhere, in reality it's east, north and south London
@@1STMAN , really true , I live up north and work in the building trade with some rough abrupt assholes who just don’t care what people think about them , I worked down south for 2 weeks last month , it’s mad how softer people as a whole seemed to be , everybody was very submissive
@@kjeezy2990 Go to a poor city in France and you'll see a destroyed people desperate and sometimes cruel. They're hard and angry from generations of being forgotten and killed from people found in the same situation. There's good people and bad, but both will be forced to mess with you. Plus Gaul's were Celtic warriors that migrated to France. Never underestimate people because of their appropriated culture.
I definitely think Tommy is extremely alpha and the video was very interesting, but I don’t think violence is actually rely alpha the most power is held when they are unflinching and calm , I think violence is rarely necessary to make someone dominant and is rarely needed in the modern day and day to day situations.
I’ve noticed that about myself just not reacting to loud noises or things that would usually make people jump...textbooks dropping water bottles clanging on the floor....and I thought it was weird that I never reacted to them like everyone else did
It would be great to have Leonardo Di Caprio's body language analyzed. I'm enjoying this content so much, and given the videos on Ragnar and Bjorn, plus this one, it came to my mind how most of the gestures you're highlighting really make for a rule of thumb when it comes to show confidence and relaxed openness. Still, I feel like Leonardo Di Caprio shifts the frame a bit: he's not always relaxed, he's really open to emotions and often expresses his rage, his gestures aren't on the truthplane, they reach up to eye level (think of the Wolf of Wall Strett, or The Great Gatsby), he genuinely smiles and his tone of voice is calm, but way softer. It would be great to see how he still manages to show as a person that charismatic. Cheers man, thanks for sharing such dope videos and thoughts.
@@1STMAN the before and after would just make it spicier I guess. "How social approval changes yout body language". You're welcome, thanks to you for sharing.
honestly respect you for stating opinions that are unpopular. Only listen to the people who can back up their disagreements. Some of these people seem like theyre just unwilling to be non politically correct
100% you can never give anything away good or bad. Estate agents for example, I've viewed houses with people who get excited the moment they walk in and start shouting about how big the house is haha, it's like ffs that's an extra £10k valuation then
Haha no, they used to. I had a bunch of James Bond videos with close to 1mil. But they all got deleted. Basically started this channel again like 2 years ago
Whenever I m talking to someone I'm finding It awkward to look into their eyes because I see myself from their vision and it s kind of.. I dont know but after this video... U made me confident enough to look dead into their eyes without giving a fuck about what is about to happen, thanks my guy, really, thanks.
Holding eye contact for too long girl's will just think you're a creep. And if you stared at me I'd just think you're a weird one, really people judging life from movies
@@gabewilkes8813 I just think too many people are too full of shit these days, especially this Turkey. Look at the mug on her, and she thinks she's just irresistible
Once I was assault by a man with a gun: He pointed the gun to my chest. I remember I don't looked the gun (on my work teaches us don't look guns because you miss important details--- I worked in a hotel, by the way). I just look the guy to his eyes directly. He don't said any, just move his hand. So, I said: Ok, you want the money not my personal papers. I put my hand on my purse and took the money from my wallet and gave to him. He pointed me trough a window in the taxicab I was. He get inside the half body just to rush take the money. He still carry the gun, but I just continued watching his eyes. He was on a motorcycle and he and his partner left. The taxi driver told me: You never loss your control, you are so cold!!! And I said to him: well, I could kill him with the gun on my purse, but I really I will don't do that for $40 I just can kill to defend my life (obviously I didn't carry any gun, I told that because the taxi driver wasn't assault (he must to carry more money than me) and he stop the car early on traffic light when he saw them. Could be all them partners. So, I can really need feels me "safe" even with him. Of course when I said that, I saw him directly to his eyes too. By the way, I am a women 5´3" feet's.
@@1STMAN I've subcribed tho, I believe your channel will help my mindset and life style a lot (I'm just nearly 16 btw:DD). Very brilliant work, sending love from Vietnam.
Would love to see situational body language analysis videos from you mate, just boiled down and discussing circumstances such as being around a female, being around men, dealing with intense conversations and etc. You’re very good at these analysis and I agree with them very much.
Thanks man. I have a video where Ronaldo meets Conor Mcgregor where I was to show what happens when two high value men meet. I think this would go well
The topic is interesting and the acting great. But the mix of coach/ pickup artist I get from you just makes me not want to watch. Advocating for "some violence" in common interactions between anyone is just a cherry on top.
That's cool man. I'm certainly not PUA driven, I believe men should raise general social value and let women chase them. However these videos were made with that direction in mind for the guys who were focused on 1 hit social situations
All the 'alpha' talk he does makes me want to split my skull open as well. The only time you'll want to listen to any of this guys advice is when you wanna appear as a massive jerk off lmfao.
It’s interesting how you talk about how to apply this alpha behaviors to seducing women as if no woman could ever be watching this video, or just showing this traits. I don’t think you say it with bad intentions but it is food for thought :)
Hahaha yeah the world's a big place. I know heels, pushup bras and makeup are there as aids, but I still find the woman attractive? Sometimes it's just nice to see what you want to see, regardless of how it got there.
@@_luni_2834 genuine question: do you equate confidence with masculine energy? I feel many of the attributes highlighted in this video are tips on exuding confidence rather than masculinity
Great analysis (and great job by Murphy in portraying cool confidence down to the most minute details of body language). Anyone know what program 1M is using for the on-screen highlights?
@@1STMAN these are great to use for females in workplace, I seem to achieve better outcomes when I'm mindful about my voice and body language. But is there a difference between alpha male body language and alpha female body language? It would be so interesting to watch a piece on alpha female like Malena, for example.
Tommy Shelby and I have similar personalities. I often get feedback that I make people uneasy and these videos are helping me pinpoint which of my behaviors is causing this.
9:11 This is a very submissive trait I used to have; Always laughing at jokes despite being unfunny , hence not being taken seriously. I just wanted to make people feel comfortable. Advice to anyone: Being unreasonably nice to people shows respect for them but no respect for yourself .
One thing I like is seeing how he breaks out of his alpha frame at times and does things not consistent... alpha is a place you push yourself to be in.
Hey guys, quick tip... If you walk around trying to imitate a person who is themselves pretending to be someone else (a fictional character, no less), you're not doing it right, in my opinion. If you're playing make-believe like this guy's whole career is, you might fool the idiots.. and that's cool if that's all your goal.. to be the "alpha" over a bunch of fools. But if you actually desire self-fulfillment and to have confidence in your genuine social status, I think you will realize you went down the wrong path.
I really liked the video except for the "Alpha" and "Beta" bs. Also the corona elbow check is very effective in comparison to the normal handshake because you dont touch your face with your elbow and therefor lowering the propabilty of getting sick by alot.
Yeah the alpha beta stuff I've tried to stop, it's just hard in the moment to find words to replace them. Alpha and beta's do exist, but people live in micro communities now so there's levels inbetween each
For future references: you can slow videos down if you want to show some exact moments frame by frame. It'd be easier for you to find what you want to show us and we'd see what you mean even better. Great video anyway as always
I have one question mate, how will a smile affect any conversation and when is it important(as in for dates, formal meetings,etc,) because we rarely see Tommy smiling. And does it make your alpha character weak?
Yes smiling either makes you look weak or more agreeable which technically is weak. Of course life without laughing or smiling would be shit, but my advice would be to smile less. Examples; those men that laugh at every joke/sentence even when they're not funny or doing that weird little smile when you see a woman you like. Strong eye contact will trump all of that very quickly, especially if you then start talking to her. Women find comedians funny and say they want a funny guy, but barely any woman masturbates to Kevin Hart over Jason Mamoa
Hi Caitlin, no not as yet. I want to break female BL down in order to show the guys what to look for. However I have thought about a 1STWOMAN brand. In the future I'll fund a woman I believe in to build it I think. But if you have any specific questions email me at business@krissturmey.com happy to help
@@xod4702 Because people want no business with them. Alpha women are horrible to be around, women need attention, validation and on average care more about how they're viewed; compared to men. Submissive women and masculine 'alpha men' are the best combination. Submission doesn't mean weak, it's a females equivalent of confidence to that of men. If you ever come across alpha women you'll understand
@@kanyewest2729 honey based on my reaction to your spiel, I'd be proud to call myself an alpha woman. Not caring about people's opinions of you automatically attracts the elite - and nothing less. You don't have to worry about their opinions of you in the slightest, you COULDN'T care less. When men realize a woman isn't fawning over him/they're not getting the attention they crave so dearly, the façade falls away and and the insecurities show. An alpha woman is glorious to be around, and everybody (male or female) around her is just as immaculate, because they're all comfortable with who they are and aren't intimidated by her. Notice how this entire channel is for men who want to learn to attract more attention by building this "alpha male" persona, food for thought.
One thing I wish you commented on was right after Alfie grabs the guy and the let’s lose, he adjusts his posture. He brings the arms back and it just looks so damn strong like. Lol I knew it’s about Tommy but that one part always stuck out to me. Such a machismo character haha
At 20:50 when Alfie is playing with the revolver, I would've told Tom Hardy to not place the gun in front of his face because I felt as if he was hiding behind it, what I would've done differently is keep the revolver at the surface of the table and told Tom to lean back into the chair a bit to show he doesn't need a gun to be intimidating and threatening. That would've conveyed so much more confidence in his ability to remain opposing regardless of what he possesses.
@1STMAN 1STMAN Hello man. I am sixteen now i am from russia and i really like your channel. We all want to get more confidence and your channel helps with it. Please keep working, i really appreciate what you do.
Hey Vladislav, appreciate your support buddy and glad I can help. I have a project to film in Moscow soon, I'll let you know if that's anywhere near you
10:48 that's actually very true. The time when i was watching peaky blinders i liked how he walked so i actually tried that after some weeks or so. Womens did noticed.
If I can use her to display what men should look for then it's on topic with the brand. I have ambitions to start a 1STWOMAN/fund someone else to start a 1STWOMAN in the future
@@1STMAN if you do one video it might introduce people to it and if a lot of people like it, you can create one or direct others in the video to create a channel focus. There are probably women who do this already so that would be a good way to direct people to other body language enthusiasts. Just a rec because I think your viewers would quite like it because your work is very enjoyable and interesting!
There's a lot of this, but it's more centred around right brain and left brain. Depending on the hand you are, a lot of things become opposite, like where you look when lying.
Tell me this If i want to make an impression with someone i like do i have to break my eye contact at any point... any should i be more precise or more you know they like?
Yeah break eye contact after she breaks it, unless it's an intense moment, then make her break it twice. But never break it by looking down, she'll do that. Only ever look to the left or right to break eye contact
I believe Thomas' hand gesture was more to mock Alfie, since hand gestures are staple of how that character expresses himself. At least that's what I believe.
Thomas Shelby * breathes*
1stman: This is how Alpha men should breathe
Hahahaha - have you seen him breathe though? Tommy Testosterone Shelby
@@1STMAN Fookin Testosterone
Is he on TRT? 🤔
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
hahhahhahha
What I learned so far -slow movement -eye contact while talking -low hand gestures -speaking slowly lowering voice near end of sentence - short sentences -sit straight up little slouched - keep chin up - only glance to right or left when losing eye contact never down -leaning forward trying to get attention (more important) but lean back let them come to u -hand shake w strong eye contact -wide stance - invading personal space alpha move - laughing is weak can smirk at times.
You can teach the next video! Haha
Yeah text the part 2 pls dude
Party 2 pls
if you try too hard to do it, you end up having a seizure, it has to come naturally lol
Tommy moves head 1 inch. *guy pauses video. “Did u saw that alpha move?”
Hahaha this cracked me up
😂😂😂😂✌
😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣
What does the alpha means??
I come from Taiwan so my English is not good.
@@mindy7743 like boss, top tier. Think of a lion, they’re one of the alphas of the animal kingdom
A thing I noticed about Tommy is his complete lack of blinking. When he's looking at someone and talking to them, or if a moment is intense, he doesn't blink at all. He holds eye contact SO strongly there is ZERO blinking, I think that's super cool.
that isn't just super cool I think it intimidates the person he is confronting as well and might make them obey him and do what he want.
Kind of like a cat looking at prey!
Anna Huang you could’ve just said lion
fellas is it gay to blink
@@stonecat676 tommy isn’t gay as the show portrays him and he doesn’t blink. So yes it is gay. ( i have nothing against gay people its just a joke lol)
Damn the actor who plays Tommy is just so good. He plays the role so well
He's a beast. There's talk of him playing Dr Doom in Marvel which would be fun
1STMAN that would be Amazing
@@1STMAN do you think he'd be good in something like Marvel? I honestly don't know, but he seems to play the more serious roles better, at least that's the vibe I get. Maybe he could pull off anything though, who knows?
@@wilio9098 he performed role of nomadic in batman trilogy. So yea, he'd suit.
@@vighneshshetty18 yea i guess you're right, he was good as scarecrow
Just wanted to add few notes - the way they are dressed has a big factor on body language. When Tommy shifts as Alfie looks at the pin, its an impatience shift, not a vulnerable move. Cillian has said in interviews breaking down Tommy’s character that he feels everyone around him is slow, you can see that in this scene. He’s waiting for Alfie to give him what he wants, because he always gets what he wants, one way or another. Big part of his character in general. In my opinion, Tommy seems like he just wants to get this out of the way.
Thanks for that. Yeah the pacing makes sense knowing Tommy as a character. Clothing 100% changes everything, especially the fit. Women, clothing and BL is also a must
Summary
1. Gesture in the area of your stomach.
2. When you gesture palms down.
2. Speak in short sentences.
3. Hold eye contact while talking.
3. Stay calm.
4. Slow reactions.
5. Sit upright.
6. Don´t show emotions.
7. Move slowly.
Neighbour: screams followed by gunshot
Me: ignores it to be extra alpha
Just do the part 2 by order of the peaky blinders
Hahaha yes Sir
Don't do this to your girlfriend worst mistake in my life
@@rahulraj97 lol what?
@@rahulraj97 hey , it's me your brother😂
@@1STMAN how should we stand straight? I mean what should we do with our hands?
Tommy has got more testosterone then testosterone himself.
He is on TRT maybe. Although he has a small muscle.
Lmao we’re just all trying to become him
honestly yeah
Haha, you came around! Your previous comments were "what is this"
@@1STMAN “what is this” was directed to the guy that wrote the comment talking shit about you because he made no sense. I love these videos man
Gosh u're a girl :)
@Devon Kammeron right
"One of the best alpha things to do is be slow"
*me acting slow*
"as long as you dont overdo and look STUPID"
Me: *acts as if i wasnt trying anything*
Slow but not too slow haha
Don't like it slow, too damn bad.
Man.. you've come a long way. If one compares your current self to what I see in the video. Respect
The most killer line was when Tommy checked his pocket watch and both men turned suddenly. And Tommy says “just checking the time, carry on” CARRY ON. He’s saying he’s willing to die with them.
I actually did that during a heated argument with friends and literally made the situation came to a conclusion.
Been held at gunpoint once. The key is to look him in the eye with the mist bored expression you can muster til they lose their nerve
Really? Where do you live man?
@@1STMAN philly.
@@sinwithagrin4243 sounds about right lmao
lol😂
Then losing their nerve is potentially the worst thing that could happen to you. When someone feels in power he is predictable.
Slow reactions and staying cool is one of the fundamentals of acting charismatic
Thomas Shelby, Arthur Shelby, Harvey Specter, Michael Westin, James Bond (Craig), Danny Ocean and Rusty the guys I try to learn from
The Oceans guys are the kings of body language
Arthur shelby is the crazy one
Where is Don 'Wardaddy' Collier
Where is ragnar lothbrok?
I wouldn't go for Arthur Shelby, he is impulsive and easy manipulated. Definetley not somthing a alpha male would do
"tommy is completely unreactive"
my crush : hey, hi... ( blushes )
me : 👁👄👁
So if you want to be more attractive strong eye contact is very very important.
I personally think it's the most important/most powerful thing you can do just from experience. Combine this with being in good shape with good posture and it's dynamite
Well that sucks for me. I shrivel at the mere thought of looking into someones eyes for more than a few seconds. But i've been working on it. It's not as bad as it used to be
Cheyenne Weston try to figure out what there eye colour is, or look at there monobrow area, that always help if ur finding it hard, maintain eyesight all the way through tho
@@elainewalter8685 the non stop eye to eye contact might be a bit awkward in most situations. What I've learned as a waitress - try to look more at the bridge of their nose, then eyes for a bit and nose again. It's not as intense but maintains the same amount of connection with the person you are speaking with.
There's something also to be said about the cut of Tommy's clothes. Take a closer look whether it's seams or padding cillian carries them formidably. That long coat with the flare and scarlet silk lining is simply genius! If you note in later seasons the coat is closer and the lining becomes white.
Yesss, leather jackets do this too, they add a shoulder structure like nothing else can, good spot
You broke this scene down better than the directors would
Haha thank you
Another important detail you missed nearing the end of the exchange is when Tommy says "4 minutes", when Alfie checks the watch, eluding to him that he has been keeping track, whilst remaining perceptive and talking at the same time. Such importunity is put into so subtle a detail, which is what makes it so impressively enjoyable.
Edit: and something else, you don't seem to realize that Tommy intentionally give off false signals to pull Alfie into a trap, and when Alfie places his entire confidence on that final point, Tommy destroys him with one single judicious move.
Thanks man good spots
Next, how to piss like tommy Shelby. Honestly but this was a good video and well put together
Hahaha thanks man, I'm sure there's a way to look good pissing
yo if someone beeps the car horn im looking everytime, it could be the homies driving past. i dont wanna miss out on that
💪🏼 THE BOIS
Hahaha that's true, just turn slowly instead
@@1STMAN can’t miss out sorry
@@owaingum6468 If you are afraid to miss out on your homies then I have BAD news for you. You are just not alpha material. Cause If you were, your homies would surely want to involve you in everything even if you don't respond to their horn, they would make sure you notice them not the other way around.
@@gauravparsheera of course I mean randomly seeing them apart by themselves just randomly in public, plus real alphas look at every single person passing, could be a potential threat and I have to obviously quiet them down with ( or without) force, also that never happens bcs I just exude alpha pheromones
tommys general disposition is calm, methodical. he looks as if he never feels pressure, and that he is always ahead of his opponent and he mixes all that with this confidence that beams from him. The actor playing Tommy is god tier at playing his role. Like someone will basically lay out how his has tommy by the balls and tommy will just lean back in his chair with his hands closed together and he feet up calmly looking at him like, "oh really?" or "can I speak yet to make a fool of you."
In short u can say man's got swag
Haha yeah he does well
This is one of the best videos I've seen on UA-cam
Thanks Jesse, unreal series
Where did you learn about the "looking left signifies thinking or lying, looking right indicates trust" concept? That's so freaking interesting
Years ago, in an online body language course. However it changed to right, now they're saying it depends on which hand you are which makes sense to me due to right and left brain
theres a distiction between left handed and right handed people. One side of your brain is logical and one is creative and those side switch places depending whether u r left handed or right handed. Look it up
Did I just watch 30 minutes of someone explaining body language yes I did am I going to watch part 2 yes I am
Did I like and love this comment? Yes I did
One last thing to mention is at the end after Thomas taps his friend on the back he never looks back to see if he’s following him or slows down to let him catch up. He keeps moving at his pace and keeps his eyes towards what’s ahead.
Great spot, that's really good body language analysis man
this video was actually really cool and interesting. i watched the whole 30 minutes ahah. sick video
Haha thanks man it's a long video so I appreciate your time
1STMAN now i know how to a be the alpha person of me group hahah
Wait a minute this video was 30 min long
Wtf just notice
Well I guess time flies when you enjoy something...
I think you should do a body language video on young vito corleone in Godfather 2. He attains the qualities that you are discussing here, but he also has a gentlemanly way of doing things, he never raises his voice and barely speaks and when he does speak it is only filled with quality, important sentences. He is the ultimate of confidence without arrogance
Also the Way he stands when getting up with arms on the desk with a wide stance is also alpha and the way he says “just sign here” acting in agreement he follows along and it quickly calms Alfie down and gets him out of his personal space
"Sometimes a little bit of violence is what someone needs"
me in my mind most of the time: "I choose violence"
24:18 I don’t think Tommy’s fidgeting in my opinion at least it sounded like he sighed and with that kinda nonchalant look at his face I think he’s trying to express that he’s bored like he doesn’t care
Yeah that could be the case
Never thought i would go to a brit about being an alpha male. Well met
Haha yeah for some reason we have a reputation of being soft, I think TV has done that. Actual Britain is so rough. Everyone thinks it's central London everywhere, in reality it's east, north and south London
@@1STMAN , really true , I live up north and work in the building trade with some rough abrupt assholes who just don’t care what people think about them , I worked down south for 2 weeks last month , it’s mad how softer people as a whole seemed to be , everybody was very submissive
It’s the French that are soft
@@kjeezy2990 Go to a poor city in France and you'll see a destroyed people desperate and sometimes cruel. They're hard and angry from generations of being forgotten and killed from people found in the same situation. There's good people and bad, but both will be forced to mess with you. Plus Gaul's were Celtic warriors that migrated to France. Never underestimate people because of their appropriated culture.
I definitely think Tommy is extremely alpha and the video was very interesting, but I don’t think violence is actually rely alpha the most power is held when they are unflinching and calm , I think violence is rarely necessary to make someone dominant and is rarely needed in the modern day and day to day situations.
still you shouldnt have to be in trouble for slamming someone you know on a post to help him get his shit together
@@samuelbrunet1726 amen brother, however, alot of dudes just never had fathers around. And that's a shame.
This is what I’ve been looking for, for ages. Do some more vids on tommy Shelby plz
Will do, I'm doing a body language analysis day tomorrow
I’ve noticed that about myself just not reacting to loud noises or things that would usually make people jump...textbooks dropping water bottles clanging on the floor....and I thought it was weird that I never reacted to them like everyone else did
It's a great trait
I mean it kinda makes sense for tommy too. Lots of loud banging noises in the war!
You must be a badass then if you don’t look when someone drops a water bottle
It would be great to have Leonardo Di Caprio's body language analyzed.
I'm enjoying this content so much, and given the videos on Ragnar and Bjorn, plus this one, it came to my mind how most of the gestures you're highlighting really make for a rule of thumb when it comes to show confidence and relaxed openness.
Still, I feel like Leonardo Di Caprio shifts the frame a bit: he's not always relaxed, he's really open to emotions and often expresses his rage, his gestures aren't on the truthplane, they reach up to eye level (think of the Wolf of Wall Strett, or The Great Gatsby), he genuinely smiles and his tone of voice is calm, but way softer.
It would be great to see how he still manages to show as a person that charismatic.
Cheers man, thanks for sharing such dope videos and thoughts.
WOWS would be good I feel, before and after the money. Thanks for the support man
@@1STMAN the before and after would just make it spicier I guess. "How social approval changes yout body language".
You're welcome, thanks to you for sharing.
honestly respect you for stating opinions that are unpopular. Only listen to the people who can back up their disagreements. Some of these people seem like theyre just unwilling to be non politically correct
I just can't deal with the PC world we live in now, it doesn't help development. Thanks Harrison
"I don't care... because I'm already dead" - Gawdamn
I respect that point in a business scence ur facial expressions should be neutral
100% you can never give anything away good or bad. Estate agents for example, I've viewed houses with people who get excited the moment they walk in and start shouting about how big the house is haha, it's like ffs that's an extra £10k valuation then
Man i loved the video .. i thought this had like millions of views man u deserve more
Haha no, they used to. I had a bunch of James Bond videos with close to 1mil. But they all got deleted. Basically started this channel again like 2 years ago
Whenever I m talking to someone I'm finding It awkward to look into their eyes because I see myself from their vision and it s kind of.. I dont know but after this video... U made me confident enough to look dead into their eyes without giving a fuck about what is about to happen, thanks my guy, really, thanks.
"Guys keep eye contact with a woman she'll fall apart"
Me, a woman: not if I keep eye contact back and HE fall first
yes maam, it's so much more fun to see the guy fall apart
Holding eye contact for too long girl's will just think you're a creep. And if you stared at me I'd just think you're a weird one, really people judging life from movies
@@throttlehouse7239 I feel like as long as it’s not like 👁👄👁 and you aren’t to intense it will be ok
@@gabewilkes8813 I just think too many people are too full of shit these days, especially this Turkey.
Look at the mug on her, and she thinks she's just irresistible
@@throttlehouse7239 lol!!!!
Great video - great explanation! Keep up with the good work.
Thanks Miro, hugely appreciated buddy. Will do.
Once I was assault by a man with a gun: He pointed the gun to my chest. I remember I don't looked the gun (on my work teaches us don't look guns because you miss important details--- I worked in a hotel, by the way). I just look the guy to his eyes directly. He don't said any, just move his hand. So, I said: Ok, you want the money not my personal papers. I put my hand on my purse and took the money from my wallet and gave to him. He pointed me trough a window in the taxicab I was. He get inside the half body just to rush take the money. He still carry the gun, but I just continued watching his eyes. He was on a motorcycle and he and his partner left. The taxi driver told me: You never loss your control, you are so cold!!! And I said to him: well, I could kill him with the gun on my purse, but I really I will don't do that for $40 I just can kill to defend my life (obviously I didn't carry any gun, I told that because the taxi driver wasn't assault (he must to carry more money than me) and he stop the car early on traffic light when he saw them. Could be all them partners. So, I can really need feels me "safe" even with him. Of course when I said that, I saw him directly to his eyes too. By the way, I am a women 5´3" feet's.
You're a gangsta! Great call $40 is not worth a shootout.
this deserves way more views! great job on this one!! 💛
Thanks Saninka, that UA-cam algorithm sleeping haha
Incredible Analysis & my favourite films, I've pressed the like button in the first 30 seconds.
Haha thanks man. I don't watch a lot of tv, but I watched every episode of this
@@1STMAN I've subcribed tho, I believe your channel will help my mindset and life style a lot (I'm just nearly 16 btw:DD). Very brilliant work, sending love from Vietnam.
Would love to see situational body language analysis videos from you mate, just boiled down and discussing circumstances such as being around a female, being around men, dealing with intense conversations and etc. You’re very good at these analysis and I agree with them very much.
Thanks man. I have a video where Ronaldo meets Conor Mcgregor where I was to show what happens when two high value men meet. I think this would go well
I'm really hoping that this channel gets 9 million subscribers. It's really useful ❤
Keep moving forward mate 💪
Thanks Bakir. 9 million? Now that would be nice! Glad it helps man
@@1STMAN yeeh what you're posting on your channel is amazing i like it tho. ❤🙏
Enjoyed this thoroughly mate, and learned a lot, thank you for this good work.
You should do one of these for the confrontation between Tommy and Alfie in season 3. One of my favorite scenes.
Yeah 100% might be my next PB video
Yess thank you i wanted something like this
No worries my man
1STMAN do more on tommy Shelby bro
@@zain4554 will do. Just got back from Birmingham actually
Imagine collecting information about everything you watched and saw like this video... but in real time.
The Matrix
The topic is interesting and the acting great. But the mix of coach/ pickup artist I get from you just makes me not want to watch. Advocating for "some violence" in common interactions between anyone is just a cherry on top.
That's cool man. I'm certainly not PUA driven, I believe men should raise general social value and let women chase them. However these videos were made with that direction in mind for the guys who were focused on 1 hit social situations
All the 'alpha' talk he does makes me want to split my skull open as well. The only time you'll want to listen to any of this guys advice is when you wanna appear as a massive jerk off lmfao.
It is an actual good show
It’s interesting how you talk about how to apply this alpha behaviors to seducing women as if no woman could ever be watching this video, or just showing this traits. I don’t think you say it with bad intentions but it is food for thought :)
Hahaha yeah the world's a big place. I know heels, pushup bras and makeup are there as aids, but I still find the woman attractive? Sometimes it's just nice to see what you want to see, regardless of how it got there.
Woman with these traits are the least attractive. Masculine and masculine doesn't work well together.
@@_luni_2834 genuine question: do you equate confidence with masculine energy? I feel many of the attributes highlighted in this video are tips on exuding confidence rather than masculinity
@@kylee7973 he is exuding high levels of power rather than high levels of confidence. High levels of power is a masculine trait.
great content. Subscribed
Love your content man. Awesome 😎
Great analysis (and great job by Murphy in portraying cool confidence down to the most minute details of body language). Anyone know what program 1M is using for the on-screen highlights?
Great breakdown brotha
Thanks Jorge
I’m a female and do the same things that an “alpha guy” would do.
Interesting! What type of men do you seem to attract?
@@1STMAN more of the softer guys actually, the people that are shy and less social.
Same with me. And I seem to attract the same type of men as Alexa Korba.
@@1STMAN these are great to use for females in workplace, I seem to achieve better outcomes when I'm mindful about my voice and body language.
But is there a difference between alpha male body language and alpha female body language? It would be so interesting to watch a piece on alpha female like Malena, for example.
@@1STMAN nobody
Tommy Shelby and I have similar personalities. I often get feedback that I make people uneasy and these videos are helping me pinpoint which of my behaviors is causing this.
9:11 This is a very submissive trait I used to have; Always laughing at jokes despite being unfunny , hence not being taken seriously.
I just wanted to make people feel comfortable.
Advice to anyone: Being unreasonably nice to people shows respect for them but no respect for yourself .
One thing I like is seeing how he breaks out of his alpha frame at times and does things not consistent... alpha is a place you push yourself to be in.
Hey guys, quick tip... If you walk around trying to imitate a person who is themselves pretending to be someone else (a fictional character, no less), you're not doing it right, in my opinion. If you're playing make-believe like this guy's whole career is, you might fool the idiots.. and that's cool if that's all your goal.. to be the "alpha" over a bunch of fools. But if you actually desire self-fulfillment and to have confidence in your genuine social status, I think you will realize you went down the wrong path.
Amazing! Well done. Can you make a video with Michael Gray body analysis?
Also found he blows smoke into their faces when he is displeased without saying a word.
Hahaha yeah that's gangsta
It’s my two favorite things body language and peaky blinders
Thought you were going to say me?
I really liked the video except for the "Alpha" and "Beta" bs. Also the corona elbow check is very effective in comparison to the normal handshake because you dont touch your face with your elbow and therefor lowering the propabilty of getting sick by alot.
Yeah the alpha beta stuff I've tried to stop, it's just hard in the moment to find words to replace them. Alpha and beta's do exist, but people live in micro communities now so there's levels inbetween each
@@1STMAN no its fine
@@1STMAN id prefer you'd use these terminologies
@@1STMAN yeah it'd be great if you stopped with those terms thanks
For future references: you can slow videos down if you want to show some exact moments frame by frame. It'd be easier for you to find what you want to show us and we'd see what you mean even better. Great video anyway as always
I have one question mate, how will a smile affect any conversation and when is it important(as in for dates, formal meetings,etc,) because we rarely see Tommy smiling. And does it make your alpha character weak?
Yes smiling either makes you look weak or more agreeable which technically is weak. Of course life without laughing or smiling would be shit, but my advice would be to smile less. Examples; those men that laugh at every joke/sentence even when they're not funny or doing that weird little smile when you see a woman you like. Strong eye contact will trump all of that very quickly, especially if you then start talking to her. Women find comedians funny and say they want a funny guy, but barely any woman masturbates to Kevin Hart over Jason Mamoa
@@1STMAN Thanks mate! Will be looking for more Tommy's breakdown from you!
Really informative
Thank you for watching buddy
i this man, thank you for this video
Thanks Mateo, appreciate you watching
Love this video. Keep it up, please.
Can you recommend any reading material on this subject?
Thanks Ben will do. Mark Bowden is the best at BL in the world I think
Bro do you have an “alpha female” equivalent video? X
Hi Caitlin, no not as yet. I want to break female BL down in order to show the guys what to look for. However I have thought about a 1STWOMAN brand. In the future I'll fund a woman I believe in to build it I think. But if you have any specific questions email me at business@krissturmey.com happy to help
alphas females are perceived as less attractive then submissive women, just a fact for thought
@@kanyewest2729 and why would an alpha female care about attracting people
@@xod4702 Because people want no business with them.
Alpha women are horrible to be around, women need attention, validation and on average care more about how they're viewed; compared to men.
Submissive women and masculine 'alpha men' are the best combination.
Submission doesn't mean weak, it's a females equivalent of confidence to that of men. If you ever come across alpha women you'll understand
@@kanyewest2729 honey based on my reaction to your spiel, I'd be proud to call myself an alpha woman. Not caring about people's opinions of you automatically attracts the elite - and nothing less. You don't have to worry about their opinions of you in the slightest, you COULDN'T care less. When men realize a woman isn't fawning over him/they're not getting the attention they crave so dearly, the façade falls away and and the insecurities show.
An alpha woman is glorious to be around, and everybody (male or female) around her is just as immaculate, because they're all comfortable with who they are and aren't intimidated by her.
Notice how this entire channel is for men who want to learn to attract more attention by building this "alpha male" persona, food for thought.
Bro what the fuck? Why did I not know about this channel before? THIS IS GOLD
One thing I wish you commented on was right after Alfie grabs the guy and the let’s lose, he adjusts his posture. He brings the arms back and it just looks so damn strong like. Lol I knew it’s about Tommy but that one part always stuck out to me. Such a machismo character haha
I'll do a video on Alfie specifically soon, but great spot
Didn't even realise this is 30 minutes long
That must be a good thing! Same on my end, they feel like 5 minutes when I make them
At 20:50 when Alfie is playing with the revolver, I would've told Tom Hardy to not place the gun in front of his face because I felt as if he was hiding behind it, what I would've done differently is keep the revolver at the surface of the table and told Tom to lean back into the chair a bit to show he doesn't need a gun to be intimidating and threatening. That would've conveyed so much more confidence in his ability to remain opposing regardless of what he possesses.
Powerful content.
Thanks man
@1STMAN
1STMAN Hello man. I am sixteen now i am from russia and i really like your channel. We all want to get more confidence and your channel helps with it.
Please keep working, i really appreciate what you do.
Hey Vladislav, appreciate your support buddy and glad I can help. I have a project to film in Moscow soon, I'll let you know if that's anywhere near you
10:48 that's actually very true. The time when i was watching peaky blinders i liked how he walked so i actually tried that after some weeks or so. Womens did noticed.
Amazing video. Thank you.
Thank you for watching
Love this video
This is on of my favorite scenes - top 5.
do one on a female alpha
If I can use her to display what men should look for then it's on topic with the brand. I have ambitions to start a 1STWOMAN/fund someone else to start a 1STWOMAN in the future
@@1STMAN if you do one video it might introduce people to it and if a lot of people like it, you can create one or direct others in the video to create a channel focus. There are probably women who do this already so that would be a good way to direct people to other body language enthusiasts. Just a rec because I think your viewers would quite like it because your work is very enjoyable and interesting!
L & R looks are known as eye predigates, they come from NLP & (after observation) are solid tells for imagination or memory.
3:52 is it because because of right hand dominant culture? Letting the weaker side to be more vulnerable?
There's a lot of this, but it's more centred around right brain and left brain. Depending on the hand you are, a lot of things become opposite, like where you look when lying.
Breaking eye contact has always felt weirder than holding it for me.
Looking away from somebody is just... rude.
Yeah I agree, I always feel awkward for the person I'm talking to when they can't focus
Yeah I agree, I always feel awkward for the person I'm talking to when they can't focus
A comment so nice he said it twice
@@jimjackson9326 I'm just special I guess .
Tell me this If i want to make an impression with someone i like do i have to break my eye contact at any point... any should i be more precise or more you know they like?
Yeah break eye contact after she breaks it, unless it's an intense moment, then make her break it twice. But never break it by looking down, she'll do that. Only ever look to the left or right to break eye contact
Tommy’s expression in the first scene reminds me of Steve McQueen in Bullitt.
Interesting I have learn something new thank you, I'm gald that I stable upon this 👍
Thanks for watching man
I think (as u said) a lot of people would be suprised what one slap can do.
Stings like fuck too, really gets your attention
Underrated Actor...I'd love to see him as James Bond...He would be Brilliant
Brilliant video.
Manliest show there is.
Wait until you see some of the shows on the upcoming streaming platform we're building
I believe Thomas' hand gesture was more to mock Alfie, since hand gestures are staple of how that character expresses himself. At least that's what I believe.
Good work
Thanks Aditya