How To Build Quiet Confidence That Commands Authority

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  • @stevenhudson6354
    @stevenhudson6354 Рік тому +5395

    Success is not built on success. It's built on failure, It's built on fraustration. it's built on fear that you have to overcome. I pray that anyone who reads this will be successful in life

    • @rebeccagilbert7691
      @rebeccagilbert7691 Рік тому +1

      @Carl Garza O' Yes I'm a living testimony of Mrs Victoria Alejandro.!

    • @rebeccagilbert7691
      @rebeccagilbert7691 Рік тому

      Victoria has changed my financial status for the best.!

    • @rebeccagilbert7691
      @rebeccagilbert7691 Рік тому +2

      All thanks to my aunty who introduced her to me.!

    • @libbystevens4328
      @libbystevens4328 Рік тому

      @joshua730thphilibus2 Victoria Alejandro has really made name for herself

    • @libbystevens4328
      @libbystevens4328 Рік тому +1

      I'm not here to converse for her but to testify just for what I'm sure of

  • @user-em6ie2be7x
    @user-em6ie2be7x Рік тому +2398

    Keeping a straight face in any stressful situation definitely helps you exude Confidence.

    • @cal1b31
      @cal1b31 Рік тому +7

      Can you explain what you mean

    • @aru-YT
      @aru-YT Рік тому +62

      @@cal1b31 try not to look away from their eyes too much or down at the floor, look at their eyes when they're talking and switch looking at each eye. open gestures look confident. also take slow breaths through your nose to calm you down, you can even do this in the middle of listening to someone talk just don't make it too obvious. i also heard some people take ashwaganda to calm their nerves, i haven't really tried that but some people say it works well

    • @quanvo3883
      @quanvo3883 Рік тому +17

      @@aru-YT ashwagandha helps calm your mind, relieves stress and better sleep. One of the side effects is that it kills emotions, however, it depends on the person.

    • @aru-YT
      @aru-YT Рік тому +12

      ​@@quanvo3883 I actually have been trying them for a few days to deal with stress and anxiety, I'd agree that it depends on the person with the completely killing emotions part, as of yet it just makes me feel less stress and a little bit calm, kinda like I don't really fear or stress about things even social anxiety.

    • @RainbowBandana
      @RainbowBandana Рік тому +8

      ​@aru you was saying wise words until you threw in drugs smh

  • @Sebbir
    @Sebbir Рік тому +640

    Another fun thing Tommy does is always knowing the names and whereabouts of the love ones of people he is talking to. So if the conversation goes south he can always bring it up to lighten the mood. It’s very effective

    • @timossynodias4688
      @timossynodias4688 Рік тому +66

      yes cause he is actually capable of doing something harmful to them unlike you and probably most of us, he is actually threatening them in a way

    • @hellopiecake1234
      @hellopiecake1234 Рік тому +67

      @@timossynodias4688 well yeah, that was the joke.

    • @edppcz
      @edppcz Рік тому +10

      You keep your friends close and your enemies closer.

    • @amiteshdashsamant6320
      @amiteshdashsamant6320 7 місяців тому +1

      @@timossynodias4688 That was the joke man. You can be really not wise, can't you be?

    • @Writingaid
      @Writingaid 7 місяців тому

      😂😂😂

  • @AkashiShitamura
    @AkashiShitamura 18 днів тому +1404

    The fact that nobody talks about the forbidden book Mareska Manipulation on Vexoner speaks volumes about how people are stuck in a trance

  • @StormClaws7
    @StormClaws7 Рік тому +215

    I've been binging a lot of Charisma on Command videos and then after a while I sort of realized, maybe we've been doing it wrong; just copying their behaviors don't result in the confidence portrayed by the exemplified characters -- they are the way they are because of the situations they were put in. I was about to critique it in the older version of this video and then you put the first point addressing exactly that. Bravo!

    • @scottwarren4998
      @scottwarren4998 Місяць тому

      So the best way is to pretend you are in on the deal. then you go to the other party and listen to their proposal/threats too. And now, you finally can make a decision what to do.

  • @noahhradek5426
    @noahhradek5426 Рік тому +482

    The ability to turn a difficult situation into a resource is difficult itself but very helpful.

    • @OmarHamza-nz9ob
      @OmarHamza-nz9ob Рік тому

      Please tell me how can I deal with this difficult situation...
      How can a non Muslim (christian, hindu, buddhist or atheist) respond to a arrogant muzlim if the muzlim starts to bully the non muslim by saying: *"Come to our mosque even if you aren't a Muslim come to our mosque, leave everything."*
      How can a non Muzlim respond to diffuse the situation?
      Please reply

    • @noahhradek5426
      @noahhradek5426 Рік тому +1

      @@OmarHamza-nz9ob tell them you're not muslim and it would be an issue with your own religion if you went.

    • @noahhradek5426
      @noahhradek5426 Рік тому +1

      @@OmarHamza-nz9ob tell them you're not muslim and it would be an issue with your own religion if you went.

    • @focuspocus5236
      @focuspocus5236 10 місяців тому +6

      ⁠@@OmarHamza-nz9ob in this sort of situation, I personally would state that just as they have their own beliefs, so do you. Just as you have chosen to respect their religion and not to push your beliefs on to others, tell them that you also wish they would respect your beliefs. If they still pursue you on this issue, should ask them, if they were willing to leave behind their religion for yours. And once they reply they aren’t, you can inform them that you feel the same way.

    • @OmarHamza-nz9ob
      @OmarHamza-nz9ob 10 місяців тому +1

      @@focuspocus5236 Nice suggestion thanks..

  • @jayceazar1476
    @jayceazar1476 Рік тому +67

    "He who remains calm in the face of adversity, while all others fall apart....is truly in control"

    • @kennethbedwell5965
      @kennethbedwell5965 Рік тому +1

      Or does not understand the gravity of the situation.🤔

    • @nicolpineda8632
      @nicolpineda8632 10 місяців тому +3

      ​@@kennethbedwell5965 That's why in addition to being calm, you also have to show that you know where you stand. You can show concern and insertion at the same time without losing the façade of tranquility and security.

    • @ExoticalT369
      @ExoticalT369 5 місяців тому

      Yep!

  • @SeanLunny
    @SeanLunny Рік тому +156

    I always take a deep breath and respond - I think that’s the difference - respond vs react.

    • @DonnieBrascoo
      @DonnieBrascoo Рік тому +3

      Breathing deeply worsens anxiety. You should practice slow breathing..

    • @btown418
      @btown418 Рік тому +8

      “Between stimulus and response, there is a space”

    • @ryankavanaughreal
      @ryankavanaughreal Рік тому +8

      @DonnieBrascoo usually deep and slow breathing are the same thing in this context

  • @AliVoe
    @AliVoe Рік тому +163

    You want to know what's better than looking confident?
    BEING confident! 😎

    • @chrissmith4568
      @chrissmith4568 8 місяців тому +4

      "I am my deeds and everything I do is a reflection of self" I think this fits what you said.

    • @user-rz9bk4of7v
      @user-rz9bk4of7v 6 місяців тому +6

      How bro felt commenting this: 😈
      Vs
      What bro actually is: 🤡

    • @AliVoe
      @AliVoe 6 місяців тому

      @@user-rz9bk4of7v So true though🫥

    • @AlistaTudor
      @AlistaTudor 2 місяці тому

      ​@@user-rz9bk4of7v and how did you feel when commenting that?

    • @haidenlevan244
      @haidenlevan244 2 місяці тому

      ​@@user-rz9bk4of7vBruh, your dull

  • @WilliamJonesChess
    @WilliamJonesChess Рік тому +500

    Key Moments
    [square brackets= own thoughts]
    00:20 He does not overreact. [Wow. It shows that he has leverage. You need him more than he needs you.]
    1:19 Exposure Therapy
    2:00 Ask a question you know you are in charge of. What is your dog’s name? [ Tom shows that he does not care what you have to say. He has leverage.]
    7:40 Turn a bad situation into a great one. Tommy makes a bad situation better than if it never happened in the first place.
    9:12 How can the thing I least want be valuable to another goal?

    • @joshuaa9517
      @joshuaa9517 Рік тому +6

      Thanks man

    • @WilliamJonesChess
      @WilliamJonesChess Рік тому +4

      @@joshuaa9517 You are welcome

    • @FroggyPrince
      @FroggyPrince Рік тому +6

      he literally made the timestamps in the video when he posted it

    • @joshuaa9517
      @joshuaa9517 Рік тому +5

      @@FroggyPrince no but this guy summarised it

    • @Cormac-jd2kx
      @Cormac-jd2kx 6 місяців тому +1

      00:00 how to be so lost you think a video showing a Hollywood star can improve your life 😂😂😂😂

  • @twentydixoncider7443
    @twentydixoncider7443 Рік тому +122

    Fear is a perfectly normal to feel sometimes, it's what you do with that fear that can make you great

    • @maximesauvage530
      @maximesauvage530 Рік тому +7

      I use my fear as it is meant to be used for in the first place, keeping me from putting myself in dangerous or uncomfortable situations.

    • @ianneon6509
      @ianneon6509 9 місяців тому +2

      Few people have said this out loud. WE know because WE listen, watch and feel.
      Bravo friend, Bravo.

    • @bonitalehtonen1254
      @bonitalehtonen1254 8 місяців тому +3

      FEAR: the only way out...is through

    • @danbett6717
      @danbett6717 Місяць тому

      N

  • @THECHEESYGRIN04
    @THECHEESYGRIN04 6 днів тому +1

    Basically develop a mindset and show people that you are unaffected by their low-key efforts to put you down! And stay on your path

  • @timaf4458
    @timaf4458 Рік тому +219

    Tommy Shelby suffers from shell shock, or what is known today as PTSD. A lot of people who suffer from that have that cold look in their eyes, it’s not confidence it’s feeling dead inside. I’ve had it and I know people who have it too. It’s nothing to romanticize, don’t try to be a fictional character, they will never live up to the potential of reality. Better a life well-lived with love then trying to cultivate respect through alienating behaviors. Trauma isn’t sexy.

    • @carsonbrown5366
      @carsonbrown5366 Рік тому +36

      Step 1: develop PTSD. Got it👍

    • @KingNez89
      @KingNez89 Рік тому +19

      I'm going to do what works, fck love it's a over rated emotion that gets you know where....I'd rather be respected then loved all day any day of the week....

    • @fahkrudin98
      @fahkrudin98 Рік тому +19

      ​@@KingNez89Damn who hurt you?

    • @AZK91
      @AZK91 Рік тому

      ​@@carsonbrown5366😂😂

    • @CV2T
      @CV2T 10 місяців тому +1

      Same bro same😢 you king keep on rocking!
      I really need some luck shits so fking rough rn, i couldnt say or understand what my emotions are rn, its switching fast 0-100 ​@KingNez89

  • @JentonAktinwson
    @JentonAktinwson 3 місяці тому +724

    I recommend everyone to find the book titled Tate Mindset; it goes deep into all of this, and it changed my life

    • @suhhh950
      @suhhh950 3 місяці тому +1

      i try to find that ebook last week and finally. find it on your channel. thanks dude

    • @TheXunwu
      @TheXunwu 3 місяці тому

      Dog sht

    • @raymondotoole2600
      @raymondotoole2600 2 місяці тому

      I’d rather not read a book by a man who exploits 14-16 year olds on web cam business’s

    • @Just_in_Christ7
      @Just_in_Christ7 2 місяці тому

      It's by Andrew Tate

  • @orientalboy86
    @orientalboy86 Місяць тому +3

    That’s so true, being able to control your emotions and remain calm and steadfast is the hardest challenge for any male. Even in our Islamic faith the prophet peace be upon him said that real strength isn’t beating your opponent but to remain calm and grounded when you’re extremely angry, that requires real strength.

  • @TheRealYou-su1qw
    @TheRealYou-su1qw Рік тому +8

    You have the ability to survive anything that is why despite all the storm made of pain, loss and chaos that you've had to endure, you are still alive and going strong.
    Gone were those days when a problem shared was a problem half solved, but today, a problem shared is a topic for gossip and discussion.
    I know you keep a lot of things to yourself b'cos it's difficult to have a friend who understands.
    Lighten up, laugh more, and don't get so worked up about things. There is so much inside you, and you have what it takes to make the most out of life

  • @garybeltrand5802
    @garybeltrand5802 Рік тому +44

    Ha, I've always done the off-topic question when someone's being confrontational, overly emotional, aggressive, or trying to flex authority on me. Never thought of it as confidence, more just me being weird. Even since back in school, just do it naturally. I'm quieter and somewhat smart but I grew up with dysfunctional people so I'm dulled to drama. I developed a "I don't care" type personality and maybe it's part of that. Just trying to level things down, but in kind of an awkward manner. Throws people off and I get mixed results - sometimes people just calm down, sometimes it pisses them off more, or confuses them.

    • @jayepstein1908
      @jayepstein1908 Рік тому

      It's a different vibe when the person going off topic is a reputable gangster that can have you killed at any moment because you ticked him off.

    • @BlitzEGG
      @BlitzEGG 9 місяців тому

      Same here boss

  • @Creophagous
    @Creophagous 10 місяців тому +7

    When it comes to the actions of others, engaging in fake flexing is exactly what it sounds like-fake. Under pressure, those who adopt this behavior tend to crumble. I've encountered individuals who embraced the "fake it until you make it" mindset, and truthfully, it's quite discernible. Observing others interact with these individuals always brought a smile to my face, as it revealed something that many people failed to see objectively: the susceptibility of individuals seeking attention from those who engage in fake flexing. The moment their insincere acts were exposed, the fake flexers would swiftly and cowardly turn on people, revealing the absurdity of their actions.

  • @alertgasper
    @alertgasper 9 місяців тому +5

    Another factor in exposing yourself to situations. When you resist using your money, looks, or status to get past a difficult situation, you take your strengths and weaknesses out for a ride. you learn more about yourself. You learn what you can handle and what you can't, because you left your comfort zone. "What doesn't kill you, makes you stronger" because you lose your fear of the unknown.
    Often, a leader we marvel at for "always knowing the right thing to do" has just guessed correctly all these times to make it this far. doing something beat doing nothing.
    "align your needs with others" is classic win-win scenario. sometimes you can do your research of their needs by listening rather than hearing. as the nuns used to teach, you have two ears and one mouth to listen twice as much as you talk. Let the other party fill in the silence. figure out why people do what they do. what is their ultimate goal?

  • @ianchesney9639
    @ianchesney9639 Рік тому +10

    I did this exposure therapy with women, always awkward and weird around women when asking for their number for a date or whatever.....the only way to achieve things in life weather it's money, talking to girls correctly etc ..is repeating failure until failure is no more, it's really the beauty of life you can mold yourself into anything you desire.

  • @AshleyMWilliams89
    @AshleyMWilliams89 Рік тому +10

    I'm so glad you used Peaky Blinders, they are perfect demonstrations for this video. Tommy and Alfie are my favorite characters of any show ever, love seeing them featured here❤

  • @justalwaysanime
    @justalwaysanime 6 місяців тому +5

    This is true.thomas is so confident that even it says in his eyes

  • @jimhalpert0
    @jimhalpert0 Рік тому +9

    How to Win Friends and Influence People is a good book regarding this topic

  • @piuli95
    @piuli95 Рік тому +7

    Were so anxious to look weak so we avoid mistakes and slow our trial and error learning process.

  • @Loirn-onajourney
    @Loirn-onajourney Рік тому +30

    Being calm is a superpower. Be super.

  • @sable5517
    @sable5517 Рік тому +7

    Charlie! You have a way of speakin man. Thank you for the words.

  • @RealIndian821
    @RealIndian821 2 місяці тому +45

    I used this in front of my boss. He fired me.

    • @votuhtx
      @votuhtx Місяць тому +1

      You must have not have had season 3 script writers for your life lol

    • @HridoyHasan-nf1ke
      @HridoyHasan-nf1ke Місяць тому

      😂😂😂

    • @hajra3610
      @hajra3610 Місяць тому

      😂😂😂😂😂 sorry

    • @zzZ3ro-aX
      @zzZ3ro-aX Місяць тому +1

      Now you are boss

    • @machiavelligaming9755
      @machiavelligaming9755 Місяць тому

      mine sucked me off, wild world

  • @LASMONN
    @LASMONN Рік тому +76

    Sometimes not doing anything is the most reasonable thing to do.

  • @archive6094
    @archive6094 Рік тому +57

    Fun Fact: David Bowie was a huge fan of the Peaky Blinders and gave permission for music from his final album to be featured in Series 3

  • @baka2040
    @baka2040 Рік тому +53

    Very interesting, subscribed. I have spent many years in customer service. About five years in I determined that the only successful people in this line were sociopaths. While that sounds harsh, it really depends on your motivation and sense of morality. I need to get what I want, at the same time convincing you that I know what you want, and how to get it. This is what I am missing in my current situation. I need to draw from that so that I may achieve success. Disclaimer, I don't what to screw anyone over. I just want things to work out my way once in a while. Maybe even help lift someone up along the way

  • @lukerXIII
    @lukerXIII 7 місяців тому +4

    Walking around the job site before an interview gets you into the field of the vibe that's going to be the routine you're going to be hard for if you walk in with that mindset you automatically get the job every time, trust!

  • @syedali1401
    @syedali1401 Рік тому +8

    the best and quickest thing you can do before a fight or when a girl approaches you, is to keep your eyes relaxed and soft but focused and look both of their eyes very slowly.

    • @makoshark69x96
      @makoshark69x96 Рік тому +3

      SOFT, RELAXED EYES... THAT'S GREAT ADVICE ! I CAN FEEL IT ALREADY !

    • @Wisdomforthehour
      @Wisdomforthehour Рік тому +1

      Sounds like you have experience. 😂

  • @kalebwieland4938
    @kalebwieland4938 Рік тому +1

    It's a really neat method even mentioning your own loss, then finish with what the other person's gain is.

  • @Steadyawake
    @Steadyawake 9 місяців тому +3

    The vato loco look and mad dog stare never fails, trust me and try it, practice and perfect it on that grandma that walks around the neighborhood

  • @StuartLoria
    @StuartLoria Місяць тому +1

    Confidence come from results, you wanna get good at something, get positive feedback for every little step forward you take, that is how video games do it, you get addictive to things you are good at.

  • @verynormalyoutubeuser
    @verynormalyoutubeuser 6 місяців тому +3

    this has to be the best video that i have watched all day, you earned a subscriber bro

  • @lyndonbauer1703
    @lyndonbauer1703 Рік тому +5

    I've never heard of a state breaking question, but I realised I do this often when dealing with customers at work. 'what's your dog's name' I've said more times than I can count.
    Great video!

  • @ianberry5879
    @ianberry5879 Рік тому +7

    It helps to have a script writer that draws out your personal scenes for the camera, and to be a good actor, so confused men can idolize you like a fictional character badass in a Hollywood production and picture themselves as being the same, as they post Joker/Shelby/Reacher/Taxi Driver/ memes about pushing a good man to his breaking point, then go right back to doing absolutely nothing.

    • @vandeezey
      @vandeezey Рік тому

      Is that what happened to you?

  • @broadcastingtechnogtech1283
    @broadcastingtechnogtech1283 Рік тому +9

    Please make a video on how to protect self-respect while being calm and non reactive

  • @velttokakka
    @velttokakka Рік тому +9

    When someone is about to punch me i just block the shot with my face and look cool. Works just like in movies

  • @jackreacher.
    @jackreacher. Рік тому +1

    I'm the optimist. I do it because the outcome is rewarding in spite of my expectations. Risk everything and lose it all? The loss is a great lesson for re-defining value. Experience will always equal material gain. Only perpetual winners can enjoy goodwill and blue sky.

  • @sss_0.
    @sss_0. 9 місяців тому +3

    The thing about me is, I do pretty much all of these. I'm quite observative and idk if this will seem weird or not but I can tell how someone feels with their face expressions and tone of their voice really easily (I'm pretty sure a lot can do that aswell anyway). So ik how to behave around ppl to keep them comfortable or to fit in their moods. Not many ppl understand that from me and exclude me out of things

  • @nealmaxwell790
    @nealmaxwell790 8 місяців тому +1

    I developed the state of calm by being in a factory setting after being laid off from an engineering position. I was around guys who were Crips, some of them would get in my face or brandish weapons over minor offenses. I learned to stay calm, remind them of what they had to lose.

  • @djtdawg87
    @djtdawg87 Рік тому +7

    Hey guys can y'all please, please do a video on James Spader's character of Raymond “Red” Reddington from The Blacklist, i mean not only is he a total badass but he's also super smart and confident and doesn't care what others think of him at all, he would be great to do a video on i think.

  • @johnvarnadoe4231
    @johnvarnadoe4231 Рік тому +347

    How to be confident : always hold you’re pinky out when drinking anything. -Patrick star

    • @Jkim890
      @Jkim890 Рік тому +33

      When in doubt pinky out

    • @BigMcLargeHuge125
      @BigMcLargeHuge125 Рік тому +10

      Don’t forget those sentence enhancers!

    • @pinkyless
      @pinkyless Рік тому +3

      What if you don’t have a pinky?

    • @maryjanerx
      @maryjanerx Рік тому +1

      I thought that was for putting on airs

    • @Jkim890
      @Jkim890 Рік тому

      @@pinkyless That’s just fancy talk

  • @nathananderson8720
    @nathananderson8720 Рік тому +10

    This is one of the channels that gave me the courage to start my UA-cam channel 2 months ago about self development. Now I have 144 subs and almost 75 hours of watch time. I know it’s not comparable with others but I’m still proud I started because I’ve been learning so many lessons that I couldn’t have learned without getting started in the 1st place.

    • @fatking2612
      @fatking2612 Рік тому +1

      Wish you have success 🙏🏻

    • @nathananderson8720
      @nathananderson8720 Рік тому +3

      @@fatking2612 Thanks so much!
      I realized that the main reason for doing this is not about the success but the inspiration I've been providing some people with my stories while helping others do the same as I shared the lessons & experiences through making videos to have a sense of meaningful purpose. Therefore, I’m planning to quit nursing to pursue youtube full time as there are lots of issues in our traditional health systems as these don’t align with my values. It’s a huge learning curve but I love helping people through making videos.
      Also, as part of my video creation progress, I’m switching to a better editing software and a camera so the learning curve is much higher and slows down the completion speed of my next videos so please hang on tight! I do appreciate your support and kind words! I am hoping that you can join me with this endless personal development journey! :)

    • @katie3657
      @katie3657 Рік тому +1

      Just subscribed!!

    • @nathananderson8720
      @nathananderson8720 Рік тому

      @@katie3657
      I am so thankful for each person who subscribed and engaged with my content and any other creators who silently work hard behind the scenes despite countless struggles that are not being shown in the videos. As long as someone gains value from our art and creations, that’s really what really matters at the end of the day. This really truly makes me happy.
      When I was a kid, all I wanted was to have a career that pays well so I can buy whatever I want but now that I’m grown up and went through tons of setbacks from losing tons of people in my life, getting lost in the world with full of life traps, being ridiculed for pursuing my dreams, and so on, I can say that long-lasting happiness can’t be bought or earned because it comes from within us.
      Continue to grow as a person and I’m so glad that you’re part of this journey!
      I’m hoping to upload my next one this month, which is more than an hr long. I’ve been working hard for many months now to present it in the best way I can. I hope that you’ll enjoy it! Thanks so much again for your support! ❤️

  • @jiena1924
    @jiena1924 3 місяці тому +1

    Could u plz make some videos about dealing with a job interview??😊😊
    I love ur videos tho, learning a lot

  • @michaelisonyoutube
    @michaelisonyoutube Рік тому +18

    Hi! I love your videos. Thank you for motivating me to start my own UA-cam account.

  • @kevinb.8649
    @kevinb.8649 7 місяців тому +2

    Another trick is speaking in a low voice where it’s not mumbling but hard to kinda hear u can control others by making them move to you drawing them in and when they do u know u have them in a way or interested for sure but what you say and the words you choose to say it in matter.

  • @adolfhipsteryolocaust3443
    @adolfhipsteryolocaust3443 Рік тому +7

    I find the allaining your needs with the other person's usually doesn't work because most people don't want to be happy and like having problems

    • @nolesy34
      @nolesy34 Рік тому +1

      Your probably reich

  • @dillonhastings8438
    @dillonhastings8438 10 місяців тому +18

    #1 be a WW1 veteran

    • @ThisIsCexary
      @ThisIsCexary 3 місяці тому

      Bro u be ded if ur a WW1 veteran

    • @kwocci3049
      @kwocci3049 2 місяці тому

      ​@@ThisIsCexary ???

    • @edwardtheone9079
      @edwardtheone9079 Місяць тому

      ​@@kwocci3049either by war or old age

  • @King-Chick
    @King-Chick Рік тому +7

    Thank you for teaching me to be the man.
    Btw I am gonna say 1 fact, if you struggle today, exercise today, feel pain today, etc., that would be the reason of your success tomorrow.

  • @softtouch6
    @softtouch6 Рік тому +6

    This video will upgrade your standard of living

  • @nasirmehmood4228
    @nasirmehmood4228 Рік тому +23

    I can't imagin how this guy went this far with his channel by just taking a clip and just explain it as it goes, if an actor blink he'll say '' the guy blinked because he wants to show to the interviewer that he's not sleeping he's awake and attentive and this is how you show to the people that you are always aware of your surroundings blah blah'' and if the actor doesn't blink he'll say '' the guy didn't blink and kept staring at the interviewer this is how you show them that I am not just giving you an interview and answering your question I am giving you a warning that you should be careful with your questions and treat me respectfully or you'll be the responsible for the consequences, this is you let them treat you as you want''
    Well done brother I must say

  • @sosa41604
    @sosa41604 7 місяців тому +1

    Thank you for reuploading!

  • @user-ad01f
    @user-ad01f Рік тому +6

    In order to achieve calmness in stressful situations l think you have to learn how to respect death and pain for those are the biggest punishments the world can possibly give. Once you learnt seing death and pain as a lesson instead of the end or a failure you won.

    • @bridaw8557
      @bridaw8557 Рік тому +1

      There are also the other fears a person needs to resolve within themselves; social rejection/ ostracization. It’s feels like actual pain and most people go to great lengths to avoid this outcome as well.

  • @yasirkayoom4809
    @yasirkayoom4809 Рік тому +1

    I should have downloaded your previous Tommy Shelby video........ please find a way to make it available to us❤

  • @TaHrPa
    @TaHrPa Рік тому +156

    Step number 1:
    Be a fictional character played by a professional actor with 20 experts writing your every line, movement, thought and facial expression.

  • @iamthemoss
    @iamthemoss Рік тому +1

    UA-cam, the great protector of our feelings and safety.

  • @wilmavantrier2998
    @wilmavantrier2998 Рік тому +3

    Things you will learn at acting school and playing your part in a movie, after 50 times doing it wrong than suddenly it is successful ❤❤❤

    • @OmarHamza-nz9ob
      @OmarHamza-nz9ob Рік тому

      How can a non Muslim (christian, hindu, buddhist or atheist) respond to a arrogant muzlim if the muzlim starts to bully the non muslim by saying: *"Come to our mosque even if you aren't a Muslim come to our mosque, leave everything."*
      How can a non Muzlim respond to diffuse the situation?

    • @Wallace-rv1pi
      @Wallace-rv1pi Рік тому

      Hi dear how are you doing?

    • @OmarHamza-nz9ob
      @OmarHamza-nz9ob Рік тому

      @@Wallace-rv1pi 😥Yesterday, I had a dialogue with a Muzlim👳...
      Like this
      👳: *"Accept ezlame, otherwise you will go to hell."*
      😓: No, I am not interested.
      👳: Not interested in what.
      😓: In changing my beliefs.
      👳: Why?
      😓: It's none of your business.
      👳: How its none of my business?
      😓: I don't wanna have a dialogue on this topic.. I will not accept islam.. That's all don't waste my time..
      👳: *Is that the level arrogance you have with Allah?*
      What would you have replied if you were there in my place?
      Please tell me..
      Also tell me about some humours responses that can be given at such incidents.

    • @wilmavantrier2998
      @wilmavantrier2998 Рік тому

      @@Wallace-rv1pi Hi Wallace I am doing great thanks, wrong foto not trustworthy, doing body language now 😎

    • @Wallace-rv1pi
      @Wallace-rv1pi Рік тому

      Are you a man or a woman?

  • @Francis_UD
    @Francis_UD 6 місяців тому +2

    Stay far from weak 👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻👊🏻👊🏻👊🏻👊🏻

  • @CygnusX-11
    @CygnusX-11 Рік тому +9

    I roll my eyes everytime he use clips and characters from a hollywood movie or a show to back up what he's saying! i mean Cillian Murphy is one the most introverted and reserved celebrities in real life...

  • @MichaelAussie05
    @MichaelAussie05 Рік тому +12

    How to be fearless under pressure?
    1. Step one be a sociopath with ptsd.
    2. Step two read rule 1.

  • @SimpleaYoungBoy
    @SimpleaYoungBoy Рік тому +1

    Good information right here, thanks man

  • @olderbadboy
    @olderbadboy Рік тому +6

    Saw your talk on Destiny channel and i think you're a very nice human . I am stalking you now and my guts were right. You give valuable and entertaining content .

  • @copycat21c
    @copycat21c 10 місяців тому

    Outstanding summary clearly translated for real-world applications. Thank you.

  • @Shonenfanboy1048
    @Shonenfanboy1048 Рік тому +3

    can you do a video on how to break rapport

  • @Erick-xk4ug
    @Erick-xk4ug Рік тому +6

    I really love Tommy. He is so cool and inspired.

  • @samserious1337
    @samserious1337 Рік тому +2

    What if there is no way for "exposure therapy"? It's either the situation or avoid the situation.

  • @armageddonready4071
    @armageddonready4071 Рік тому +3

    Marine corps boot camp was my “exposure therapy”

  • @Top5Education
    @Top5Education Рік тому

    Watched again - really enjoyed (again)

  • @monchichipower6334
    @monchichipower6334 Рік тому +7

    Do a video on how to combat getting roasted or bullied

  • @JayTheStoic
    @JayTheStoic Місяць тому

    As the Stoics said:
    “It’s not what happens to you, but how you react to it that matters.” - Epictetus
    Which basically means: Your response to events shapes your experience, not the events themselves.

  • @shaunm9025
    @shaunm9025 Рік тому +3

    he's almost similar to reddington.
    need to start watching this show, seems promising.

  • @bobbyprasaddas7694
    @bobbyprasaddas7694 Рік тому +1

    How are you making such videos without copyright infringement ? Can someone explain . i am genuinely interested.

  • @wuzaishoa2016
    @wuzaishoa2016 Рік тому +71

    You can't ever be fearless but you can mask your fear as if you're unaffected

    • @yamz1156
      @yamz1156 Рік тому +3

      Facts, fear is felt through the entire body. Wether you accept it or not

    • @OmarHamza-nz9ob
      @OmarHamza-nz9ob Рік тому

      How can a non Muslim (christian, hindu, buddhist or atheist) respond to a arrogant muzlim if the muzlim starts to bully the non muslim by saying: *"Come to our mosque even if you aren't a Muslim come to our mosque, leave everything."*
      How can a non Muzlim respond to diffuse the situation?

    • @OmarHamza-nz9ob
      @OmarHamza-nz9ob Рік тому

      @@yamz1156 Yes Exactly, it is true...
      How can a non Muslim (christian, hindu, buddhist or atheist) respond to a arrogant muzlim if the muzlim starts to bully the non muslim by saying: *"Come to our mosque even if you aren't a Muslim come to our mosque, leave everything."*
      How can a non Muzlim respond to diffuse the situation?

  • @marteerens
    @marteerens Рік тому +2

    I really recommend you analyse James Acaster... Most fearless person ever

  • @INSANESUICIDE
    @INSANESUICIDE Рік тому +122

    The character suffers severe PTSD and has some serious issues with repressed emotion. There are many cases of people surviving war finding out it is over, they sit down and lower their guard and is overcome and straight up die from repressed stress or just have mental breaks. There is a time and a place to put your emotions to the side, but you always have to sort it out sooner rather then later, stress has a significantly higher interest rate than the bill you missed a payment on. Stay safe folks.

    • @Superhero-Motivation
      @Superhero-Motivation Рік тому +12

      I have not seen the video but I agree. When you have PTSD or any mental illness, repressing emotions is probably the most counterintuitive thing you can do

    • @PLsexpicklePL
      @PLsexpicklePL Рік тому

      @@Superhero-MotivationAbsolutely. Self-isolating is horrible if you have ptsd. You’ll simply get worse and worse.

    • @maximesauvage530
      @maximesauvage530 Рік тому

      I don’t have any mental illness and still it is very hard for me to show my emotions to others, I am just like this. In the beginning I never noticed this myself until I did theater at school and the teacher wanted me to show her anger, joy and sadness and at that moment I realized that I never really displayed these emotions an open manner, even though I still felt the emotions inside and the result was I didn’t know how I could possibly simulate it, I was completely lost and I didn’t do the exercise with the other students, which kind of pissed the teacher off 🤷‍♂️.

  • @ameersheikh9695
    @ameersheikh9695 Рік тому +3

    In real life it’s hard to do this, we are not move set we don’t have a director or anyone who remains us we are just acting it’s good to calm every time but sometimes you lose

  • @Planetary-1
    @Planetary-1 8 місяців тому +1

    The fact they blur the weapons, but not the most deadliest, which is Tommy Shelby himself.....

  • @Dragnerve.
    @Dragnerve. Рік тому +4

    can you do one on Mads Mikklesen ?

  • @tomcat8001
    @tomcat8001 9 місяців тому

    Thank you i view the world in Steph curry's perspective and it makes me more confident :)

  • @jamesward5721
    @jamesward5721 Рік тому +3

    He developed this trait by reading the script. He's an actor.

  • @EmmanuelMentore-r4u
    @EmmanuelMentore-r4u 3 місяці тому

    honestly who is disliking dis videos bro dis is a w

  • @BnDTV
    @BnDTV Рік тому +4

    I love the way you do your subtitles - what software are you using to create the subtitling in your videos?

  • @ReconVette19D
    @ReconVette19D Рік тому +2

    I like this one so please re up every 6-8 weeks

  • @marendse6561
    @marendse6561 Рік тому +25

    Step 1: Fight in a war.

  • @MackTrainingAcademy
    @MackTrainingAcademy 7 місяців тому +2

    You build to success with each failure.

    • @KarenTondro
      @KarenTondro 2 місяці тому

      But you should try to make as least errors as possible

  • @TheCUBARY
    @TheCUBARY Рік тому +10

    Fun fact- the intro may or may not have been an AI generated Charlie voice👀
    (Podcast listener here!)

  • @dhairyadave1806
    @dhairyadave1806 5 місяців тому

    good video, thanks

  • @williampowell3378
    @williampowell3378 Рік тому +4

    2:19 break frame

  • @pro_armwrestler
    @pro_armwrestler 2 місяці тому

    thank you i used to be the nerdy kid with high marks now no one dares to fight me.cause they know that it will backfire.

  • @leadsolo2751
    @leadsolo2751 9 місяців тому +4

    Tommy Shelby is an Imaginary Character in a TV Series - And Portrayed by a Good ACTOR following a Well Written Script !! 😅

  • @tonymn1985
    @tonymn1985 Рік тому +2

    Its really easy to say but actually doing it is another thing trust me

  • @tonynugget7223
    @tonynugget7223 Рік тому +3

    Meditation is the only way. It helps keep your emotions flatline as well as a heap of other benefits.

  • @jodidavis6595
    @jodidavis6595 Рік тому +2

    What a great show. Loved this. Rip Pauly

  • @swarnabhg4721
    @swarnabhg4721 Рік тому +9

    so as we say.. *"Dont mess with Peaky Fooking Blinders"*

  • @mxria.azzxhra
    @mxria.azzxhra 5 місяців тому +1

    I'm curious. Well, actually this is really helpful on being confident - keeping a straight face, calm, witty and the power of eye contact, etc.
    But the thing is that i believe we are living in a society which values feelings of others so I think, it'll be better if we can balance the facts and the emotion to have more respects from others. You know, when people are trying to mess up with you, you'll try to argue with them about the rights and wrongs. And of course, you'll win, but don't you care on how it will affect the person? - they will be sad, depressed, and ashamed and these things will lead to hatred. Don't you think of that? They'll try to start a war with you endlessly.
    But what if you actually values the person's feeling (after they lose)? You try to comfort them by saying things like "you're not that bad", " be proud of yourself*, or "stand proud, you're strong"? I think this method will more likely to lead you to more respects from not just the person, but the world. Everyone have feelings, right?
    Nah, this is just my opinion abt how to gain respects from others but do take on what really matter most in this world.
    Heart.

  • @jamiepike6909
    @jamiepike6909 8 місяців тому +15

    I can’t stop thinking how many people will fail in life trying to act this way😂

    • @jamiepike6909
      @jamiepike6909 6 місяців тому

      @@seyiesetuosopfii3153 nope, but you most definitely are. 🤣

    • @nosisckymusic
      @nosisckymusic 5 місяців тому

      If you lack understanding

    • @jamiepike6909
      @jamiepike6909 5 місяців тому

      @@nosisckymusic I’m sure some 5ft 2 8 stone guy is going to benefit from this🙄😂

  • @DevilFrog61
    @DevilFrog61 Рік тому +1

    In my opinion….99% of it is keeping a straight face and Speaking SLOWLY without stuttering. If you can’t do those two things forget the rest of this stuff honestly …and it’s hard to fake, gonna take practice and time