I agree! An older neighbor lady is constantly complaining about her gentleman friend. When I tell her she doesn't have to tolerate it she says "that's easy for you to say, you have a family". Sometimes I'll gently tell her that her late daughter (with whom she lived before the daughter died) wouldn't want her being mistreated. Sometimes I tell her to dump the boyfriend and adopt more cats.
@@secondbestpriest Okay, if you say so. Anyway, what is this second best priest name about? Are you a priest, and please let me know who the Best one is Have you two ever discussed TMT? (terror management theory). Thanks!
A gun shot to the back of the head and he thought they’d buy that she just started bleeding? I’ve dealt with some really stupid criminals in my career but this takes the cake. Wow
I noticed the lack of intelligence and Dr. G's failure to mention that. This homicide makes no sense. Not thought out or how he thought that he could get away with it.
Never tell anyone what you're going to do. Move out and get a lawyer and let them do all the communication moving forward. Learn from everyone else's mistakes, if you can. Don't let the guy try to make you feel guilty, because he will sure try. Cut off all communication until you are forced to do mediation, which is going to such so much
@@KaarinaKimdalynow there's a coconut involved? This is starting to become more complicated than I had originally anticipated. I was hoping I could just make something like a sugar-free "lime"onade instead of a sugar-free lemonade. Maybe it would just be easier to drink Apple Cider Vinegar mixed with Stevia without having to involve a coconut in the mix.
He did not think about it or plan adequately at all. He wanted to cheat, not work, play video games, fail in school....why would he Not Fail at Murder?
@@conanpowerftw Absolutely, but many don't understand that the harms of excessive gaming can be life changing. If you are doing fentanyl, you know you got a problem ... but how much gaming is too much ... is a bit more subjective.
Exactly. For the life of me I do not know why so MANY young women attach themselves to such losers! Insecurity, neediness and fear of being alone, I would assume…… So tragic.
Perhaps he understood he was punching way above his weight with her and knew she'd be not only fine but better without him around, and his own petty jealousies could not stand the thought of that.
I don't think him leaving her was the concern here. Actually, I take that back now... I think this guy just has the IQ of a brick and no moral compass.
" I'm capable of doing really bad things but I'm a good person " seems to be a common theme. Like the ' bad things ' don't fit the image they have of themselves.
@user-ex3zn5yq4r Some men switch into their "true" personality once they get married. This happened to my sister, and he admitted that he was nice because then she wouldn't have married her. She filed for divorce.
Daniel played games, and the most deadly game was with his Wife's life. He simply was not able to grow up. Well, now, the prison will take care of his needs, and not that same Wife or that same girlfriend.
Stephanie, like so many of us, lowered her standards and settled for so much less than she deserved. It ended badly. Yet that loser still had a gf visiting him in prison. Talk about lowering your standards… We have to hold out for better, Ladies, or just forgo relationships altogether. The price is too high. RIP Stephanie.
Lowering standards, happens, maybe being hopeful and believing in love. It's the murder part that I can't understand? Wondering why the useless guy in this tragic tale, didn't just leave.
@@margaretr5701 I think lack of empathy must definitely have a connection with lack of intelligence, cause these killers all have one thing in common: they act before they think. I mean, if you hate someone so much, why make them suffer at the expense of yourself? It's weird how they never stop to think is this person worth spending the rest of my life in jail?
@@RedditaufDeutsch Yes, baffling. Regarding empathy, apparently it has to be taught and demonstrated, by the time a child is four years old. This requires attentive, tuned in parents, or caregivers. This was something I read a few times, now wondering if murderer's come to be, due to lack of being taught and shown, empathy. Considering many parents are dealing with other issues, with focus elsewhere, it's amazing we have as many functional people, as we do... There must be studies on this! People have been trying to understand killers for decades.... centuries. I remember a study done on infants in orphanages. Babies were well fed and cared for, but didn't thrive, and did poorly in every way. The human brain is complicated and needs more than simple survival skills.
Struggling for the gun & accidental discharge is as believable as the mysterious masked intruder excuse. Sad story again with great analysis. Thanks Dr G😊🤍💚
I was married to such a person and gave up drinking because somebody in the family had to have their act together and it obviously wasn't going to be him. But I understand the temptation!
thank you dr grande for helping me stay sane and practice critical thinking, please know you are appreciated and respected, by thos that struggle every day with mental illness
Texas almost never lets murderers out on their first parole eligibility date, and they set the next eligibility date for 10 years later. Danials maximum sentence release date is 04- 11-2101
Did he think he could get away with this? Seems beyond irrational the whole thing. He must have been intoxicated too, otherwise he is just straight up crazy.
This man is 100% guilty. Stephanie looked to be in a deep sleep when Daniel photographed her 20 minutes before this horrible crime. There is no way I believe Stephanie woke up from a seemingly alcohol induced deep sleep and tried to take a firearm. It makes no sense, Daniel. He’s where he belongs, he’s dangerous.
@@souksmith4492 Once again, YT deleted my comment that had nothing wrong and could only be deemed offensive by a person who happens to be one of the many murd3r3s who are both l@zy and d-mb.
Also she was a successful goal oriented person. She was giving him chances so the marriage could succeed. Probably her first important project failure.
Yeah nearly all these domestic hom's include insurance payoffs,, and we KNOW these insurance companies don't care about the person's motive behind getting life insurance on someone...
Why's that matter? They're not paying out unless they can't avoid it. If she's missing or murdered, I don't think they have to pay, period. For this reason, probably.
@@windsofmarchjourneyperrytr2823 Not so. If the missing person is declared deceased, then the insurer pays. They also pay in murder cases once the beneficiary is cleared of any responsibility.
@@micnorton9487 I don't like the insurance industry at all but they aren't in the business of speculating about anyone's motives for taking out a policy. That would create way too many legal issues, too.
Sad…I wonder why her friend introduced her to him since he had no ambition. Since he is in Texas he should have gotten the death penalty for shooting his wife while she was a sleep.
As I entered my late 20s and early 30s people, women, tried to match me up with anything that was single. Some were awful in various ways. There are women who think being married is the only important thing, and you must do it at all costs. Some are the matchmakers, and some are the hopeful brides. I was hurt and insulted.
Another take away: this goes to show how anyone can be victimized. She was intelligent, beautiful, ambitious in a good way, educated, and clearly tolerant. Reiterating: this is so sad.
The person who had the 'shorter list' of problems, slept on it, while intoxicated. Perhaps, all the "special education" courses/interactions background, she possessed, could have made this victim's tolerance level super high I guess.
We love you and your sense of humor Dr. Grande! I was on another UA-cam channel and someone wrote, "Damn, that was harder to get through than a Dr. Grande pun! " 🤣
I used to be very selective with my 👍s, but I've decided to give them to all of the videos for around 10 channels I support. It helps with the UA-cam algorithm. I don't comment unless I feel inspired, although the number of comments-even if they're vapid-also helps a channel so I try to do it with the less successful ones I wish to help grow.
Dr Todd I was watching a crime series the other day, an American series of real cases, and you appeared suddenly explaining something about borderline disorder
Dr.Grande, can you look into the case of Mariah Woods? A 3 year old who went missing out of Jacksonville NC and was found in a couch cushion submerged in a lake. The mother boyfriend is serving time for the crime
How creepy is their wedding photo when they are, supposedly, "in love" and smiling into each others eyes...Little did poor Stephanie know that she was smiling into the eyes of a wolf in sheeps clothes...an evil and crazed individual who would one day shoot her to an, "immediate unliving state" in cold blood...I vow I will NEVER marry again!..
He phones 911 and tells the Police she is bleeding and unconscious. He conveniently omits the part about the hole in her head from his gunshot, Why should he get parole. Frome the list of features mentioned, none give hope that he might be salvageable or able to be rehabilitated.
Thank you for giving such a fine eulogy of this young woman with so much life ahead of her. Somewhere she learned she wasn't worth a better man, and whoever gave her that message should be ashamed.
What a creepy bastard. He doesn't deserve any chance at parole.
The first red flag of a total creep is him taking pictures of sleeping girls.
Never ever settle! I don’t care how lonely or hopeless you feel. Don’t settle or you will keep on settling!
I agree! An older neighbor lady is constantly complaining about her gentleman friend. When I tell her she doesn't have to tolerate it she says "that's easy for you to say, you have a family". Sometimes I'll gently tell her that her late daughter (with whom she lived before the daughter died) wouldn't want her being mistreated. Sometimes I tell her to dump the boyfriend and adopt more cats.
@@cathywithac3793she needs to go to church, bingo night, a senior citizens center, she needs to get involved in her community and make friends.
@@cathywithac3793 Poor lady, losing her child.
She needs grief support and friends.
This doctor is better than a sleeping pill.
She obviously chose this guy because of his looks. Shallow decisions often leads to shallow outcomes, unfortunately
Dr. Grande almost ran out of unflattering adjectives when describing Daniel.
Oh I think he had plenty on hand!
What are you trying to stick up for Daniel? What are his fine qualities you'd like to tell us ? Thanks!!
@@gigi9301he's not sticking up for him
@@secondbestpriest Okay, if you say so. Anyway, what is this second best priest name about? Are you a priest, and please let me know who the Best one is Have you two ever discussed TMT? (terror management theory). Thanks!
@gigi9301 my handle is a reference to an TV show called 'Father Ted', set in Ireland
A gun shot to the back of the head and he thought they’d buy that she just started bleeding? I’ve dealt with some really stupid criminals in my career but this takes the cake. Wow
Horrible man, he doesn't deserve parole.
Dr. Grande is NOT a horrible man. Be kind.
@@josephalmond3759 Uhh, I think Daniel is the horrible man.
@@Muffy-b1g my word.
@@Muffy-b1g No, no... I'm sure the OP meant Dr G.
@@josephalmond3759lol
He was not only not ambitious, he was unintelligent. Daniel was guilty, guilty, guilty.
I noticed the lack of intelligence and Dr. G's failure to mention that. This homicide makes no sense. Not thought out or how he thought that he could get away with it.
might as well had a sign on his forehead, "I did it"
A 30 year prison sentence does way more to keep him away from his girlfriend than poor Stephanie ever could. He’s an absolute moron
Never tell anyone what you're going to do. Move out and get a lawyer and let them do all the communication moving forward. Learn from everyone else's mistakes, if you can. Don't let the guy try to make you feel guilty, because he will sure try. Cut off all communication until you are forced to do mediation, which is going to such so much
Exactly, spot on! Leave and go no contact!
But if there’s too much evidence on you there’s no point
@@Jimimar360 haha that's brilliant, it made me reinterpret a full 180 degrees what she wrote.
she wasn't the brightest bulb on the Christmas tree either. Instead of supporting them, she should have told him to get off his lazy a$$ early on.
You got it exactly backwards. The murder was because he wanted to leave her for his girlfriend. Her wanting to split up wasn't a factor.
He really isn't too bright, he killed his meal ticket.
Lately I've been drinking fresh lemon juice. Should I switch to lime?
@@thecorrectoification Most assuredly, and you should put the lime in the coconut. . .
@@KaarinaKimdalynow there's a coconut involved? This is starting to become more complicated than I had originally anticipated. I was hoping I could just make something like a sugar-free "lime"onade instead of a sugar-free lemonade. Maybe it would just be easier to drink Apple Cider Vinegar mixed with Stevia without having to involve a coconut in the mix.
@@thecorrectoificationDo as you like with your citrus juice.
I was referring to the Harry Nilsson song. . .
Very good comment!!😂
This hurts my soul. She was too good for him in every way
Yes but women want these men more than anything. She sealed her own fate.
@@SinisterScoundrel6562lol I can take a few guesses why they don’t want you
ABSOLUTELY 🥲
Stephanie was a friend of mine. We acted together. You are 100% correct.
How do these people think they are just going to walk away from murder like this?
They think they are smarter than what they are.
They are narcissistic people. They are only able to think the moment. They are incapable to think tomorrow
Below room temp IQ 😂
He did not think about it or plan adequately at all. He wanted to cheat, not work, play video games, fail in school....why would he Not Fail at Murder?
@@nhmooytis7058Fahrenheit or Celsius?
Video games addiction ruins so many marriages.
Could be generalised to addictions
Flat Earth theory is about to end mine.
lol
@@AllergicToFantasy 😂😂😂
@@conanpowerftw Absolutely, but many don't understand that the harms of excessive gaming can be life changing. If you are doing fentanyl, you know you got a problem ... but how much gaming is too much ... is a bit more subjective.
She had basically zero in common with him but here you are..
That’s me and my husband. We are unevenly yoked.
@@DominiqueFrancon Same for me and my husband, and our differences made it work.
😂@@DominiqueFrancon
@😂It-is-me...Melsie
Exactly. For the life of me I do not know why so MANY young women attach themselves to such losers! Insecurity, neediness and fear of being alone, I would assume…… So tragic.
I genuinely don't understand the thought process behind this.There didn't appear to be any substantial consequences for him leaving her.
Perhaps he understood he was punching way above his weight with her and knew she'd be not only fine but better without him around, and his own petty jealousies could not stand the thought of that.
I don't think him leaving her was the concern here.
Actually, I take that back now... I think this guy just has the IQ of a brick and no moral compass.
" I'm capable of doing really bad things but I'm a good person " seems to be a common theme.
Like the ' bad things ' don't fit the image they have of themselves.
PHSACO-PATHICO
I married a dangerous, lazy loser too, but by the grace of God I escaped unscathed.🙏
But none of it is your fault, right?Bwhahaha🤣🤣🤣🤣
@@SeemoreButts-d6x …. Nope, I was working two jobs while he gambled away our rent money.
@user-ex3zn5yq4r Some men switch into their "true" personality once they get married. This happened to my sister, and he admitted that he was nice because then she wouldn't have married her. She filed for divorce.
which god ?
@@HemiChrysler … the one and only God, our Creator.
Daniel played games, and the most deadly game was with his Wife's life. He simply was not able to grow up. Well, now, the prison will take care of his needs, and not that same Wife or that same girlfriend.
Stephanie, like so many of us, lowered her standards and settled for so much less than she deserved. It ended badly. Yet that loser still had a gf visiting him in prison. Talk about lowering your standards… We have to hold out for better, Ladies, or just forgo relationships altogether. The price is too high.
RIP Stephanie.
Agreed..................
Lowering standards, happens, maybe being hopeful and believing in love.
It's the murder part that I can't understand?
Wondering why the useless guy in this tragic tale, didn't just leave.
@@margaretr5701 I think lack of empathy must definitely have a connection with lack of intelligence, cause these killers all have one thing in common: they act before they think. I mean, if you hate someone so much, why make them suffer at the expense of yourself? It's weird how they never stop to think is this person worth spending the rest of my life in jail?
@@RedditaufDeutsch Yes, baffling.
Regarding empathy, apparently it has to be taught and demonstrated, by the time a child is four years old.
This requires attentive, tuned in parents, or caregivers.
This was something I read a few times, now wondering if murderer's come to be, due to lack of being taught and shown, empathy. Considering many parents are dealing with other issues, with focus elsewhere, it's amazing we have as many functional people, as we do... There must be studies on this! People have been trying to understand killers for decades.... centuries.
I remember a study done on infants in orphanages. Babies were well fed and cared for, but didn't thrive, and did poorly in every way. The human brain is complicated and needs more than simple survival skills.
I would never lower my standards so much as to date a woman who would visit me in prison
“Heavily into video games and possessing little ambition.” Oof I feel called out
I felt the sting of that one too😂
wtf, how could he think he would get away with this? it's like he was desperate to be sent to prison
Well, someone has to take care of him, lol
Struggling for the gun & accidental discharge is as believable as the mysterious masked intruder excuse. Sad story again with great analysis. Thanks Dr G😊🤍💚
“Clothing challenged photographs” 😂
A new way of saying 'naked'
A coward. He belongs in Prison.
As if I was married to a loser like Daniel, I’d probably have a drinking problem too!
I was married to such a person and gave up drinking because somebody in the family had to have their act together and it obviously wasn't going to be him. But I understand the temptation!
You must be a weak person to do that. You would be a loser too. Shame
everytime a spouse is the first to call 911 it calls for a huge red flag , it just does!!!
thank you dr grande for helping me stay sane and practice critical thinking, please know you are appreciated and respected, by thos that struggle every day with mental illness
Instead of working I’m speculating about what could be happening in a situation like this.
Texas almost never lets murderers out on their first parole eligibility date, and they set the next eligibility date for 10 years later. Danials maximum sentence release date is 04- 11-2101
*Daniel's
Did he think he could get away with this? Seems beyond irrational the whole thing. He must have been intoxicated too, otherwise he is just straight up crazy.
Can you analyze the Claus Von Bulow case?
She went into a ‘persistent vegetative state’ in 1980 and died of a cardiac arrest in 2008. Claus died in 2019.
Only speculating about would could be happening in a situation like this... Side eye... Everytime! 😂❤
Yes! His facial expressions are such an addition!
A failing engineering student fails to engineer a believable narrative that he didn’t kill his wife to escape his involvement with her.
She was a beautiful and talented child!
Child? She was 29 years old. Hardly a child.
He should spend the rest of his life in prison. He is a coward and a psychopath
Have a wonderful weekend Dr. Grande.😊😎
You rock, Dr. G!!!!! Ah-oooooooooi!!! Happy Full Moon!!!!!!! 💖
Lets hope he remains in prison
I love it when Dr G. says clothing challenged photos 😂
You hit it once again, Dr Grande 😊 Thanks!
This man is 100% guilty. Stephanie looked to be in a deep sleep when Daniel photographed her 20 minutes before this horrible crime. There is no way I believe Stephanie woke up from a seemingly alcohol induced deep sleep and tried to take a firearm. It makes no sense, Daniel. He’s where he belongs, he’s dangerous.
She died peacefully (not knowing it) and with no pain. RIP
Daniel isn't the sharpest tool in the shed.
And lazy too.
@@souksmith4492 So many of these people that commit these horrible crimes are both sooo lazy and astoundingly stupid.
@@souksmith4492 Once again, YT deleted my comment that had nothing wrong and could only be deemed offensive by a person who happens to be one of the many murd3r3s who are both l@zy and d-mb.
@@souksmith4492 Just like so many who commit such acts. **waits for my innocuous post to get deleted again**
Very sad , I wonder if he was intoxicated , I hate alcohol...
Happy Friggin’ Friday, Doc 🤙🏼🤙🏼🤙🏼
Thank god it's Saturday where I am.
Women, prepare.you must change the house locks, get a safe place and serve divorce papers thru a lawyer and keave the same day
I definitely think you did not use enough adjectives to describe Mr Douche Canoe toward the end.
Your delivery is impeccable, as always.
What a terrible friend to set her up with that loser.
Always interesting
Thank you ❤
It really is unfortunate in the past 30 years with the lack of ambition in men!
It probably doesn't help that for the past 30 years boys have been told that their male ambition contributes to the societal tyrannical patriarchy.
Oooh, i was waiting for this =)
Sometimes you don't even really know the people you spend every day with. If someone doesn't want to be honest, you can't make them.
Very, very sad cases, family murderes in the states, almost for no big reasons, stupid people like Daniel, not deserve their partners like his wife.
You are amazing Dr. G!!
Steph delayed her leaving him because she loved him not for alcohol.
Also she was a successful goal oriented person. She was giving him chances so the marriage could succeed. Probably her first important project failure.
I just want to say, She is so absolutely gorgeous 🙏🏼
DID SHE HAVE A LIFE INSURANCE POLICY?
PARDON?
Yeah nearly all these domestic hom's include insurance payoffs,, and we KNOW these insurance companies don't care about the person's motive behind getting life insurance on someone...
Why's that matter? They're not paying out unless they can't avoid it. If she's missing or murdered, I don't think they have to pay, period. For this reason, probably.
@@windsofmarchjourneyperrytr2823 Not so. If the missing person is declared deceased, then the insurer pays. They also pay in murder cases once the beneficiary is cleared of any responsibility.
@@micnorton9487 I don't like the insurance industry at all but they aren't in the business of speculating about anyone's motives for taking out a policy. That would create way too many legal issues, too.
Too much interest in video games as an adult? Such a red flag!
You are so good at summing things up! and in just 12 minutes
…but HIS luck had just run out..
Hi Dr Grande.... so sad for the girl. I had a creepy, lazy, abusive, cheating boyfriend like that... thankfully I put him out 😠
Sad…I wonder why her friend introduced her to him since he had no ambition. Since he is in Texas he should have gotten the death penalty for shooting his wife while she was a sleep.
As I entered my late 20s and early 30s people, women, tried to match me up with anything that was single. Some were awful in various ways. There are women who think being married is the only important thing, and you must do it at all costs. Some are the matchmakers, and some are the hopeful brides. I was hurt and insulted.
He wasn’t always a loser. (I was friends with her.)
What a shame . She looked like such a nice girl who had her whole life ahead of her ! 😢
how many of those plaid shirts do you have and where can I get some⚛😀
Good Day, Dr. Grande. 👌
Great Diagnosis, I concur.
Daniel was blanked, he basically blanked himself.
Yeah, he's a blanker!
Amazing that 2 women considered him a catch
What an absolute waste of lives.
Another take away: this goes to show how anyone can be victimized. She was intelligent, beautiful, ambitious in a good way, educated, and clearly tolerant. Reiterating: this is so sad.
These US courts need to come up with consistent terms for murder and other crimes. Parity is a foreign concept to these unjust courts
The person who had the 'shorter list' of problems, slept on it, while intoxicated. Perhaps, all the "special education" courses/interactions background, she possessed, could have made this victim's tolerance level super high I guess.
I just saw you in my favorite show, ‘Who The Bleep Did I Marry’, that’s awesome man, congratulations!
Coyod avoid w full background check in most of these. Better yet, go find the exes.
The "age progression" photo @ 6:22 is amazing !
We love you and your sense of humor Dr. Grande! I was on another UA-cam channel and someone wrote, "Damn, that was harder to get through than a Dr. Grande pun! " 🤣
Lived in TX for 36 years and have never heard Corsacana pronounced that way.
Maybe in 30 years he'll break his video game addiction.
The bizarre thing about it is he was a loser, a murderer, a total invalid BEFORE she agreed to marry him. That is WHO he is.
and she's blind to see that too.
@@stfuplsok yeah because she’s dead
Too bad her parents could not intervene and get her away from that horrible situation in time.
Who hasn't taken sleeping photos of their wife? Wait, what?
She wanted out too so he didn't have to kill her.
They don't want you. They just don't want anyone to have you
I grew up with the Kirkpatricks. It's surreal to see someone-you-know's life summed up into a 13 minute video.
While I don’t make comments or “like” every video. I am an avid subscriber. Thank you for your efforts, Dr. Grande.
I used to be very selective with my 👍s, but I've decided to give them to all of the videos for around 10 channels I support. It helps with the UA-cam algorithm. I don't comment unless I feel inspired, although the number of comments-even if they're vapid-also helps a channel so I try to do it with the less successful ones I wish to help grow.
"Clothing challenged" photos. hahaha
Dr Todd I was watching a crime series the other day, an American series of real cases, and you appeared suddenly explaining something about borderline disorder
What a burden on the 2 sets of parents involved.. Unimaginable. 😔
Dr.Grande, can you look into the case of Mariah Woods? A 3 year old who went missing out of Jacksonville NC and was found in a couch cushion submerged in a lake. The mother boyfriend is serving time for the crime
I just figured out that Dr Grande on half playback speed appears intoxicated and makes him even more hilarious!
How creepy is their wedding photo when they are, supposedly, "in love" and smiling into each others eyes...Little did poor Stephanie know that she was smiling into the eyes of a wolf in sheeps clothes...an evil and crazed individual who would one day shoot her to an, "immediate unliving state" in cold blood...I vow I will NEVER marry again!..
He phones 911 and tells the Police she is bleeding and unconscious. He conveniently omits the part about the hole in her head from his gunshot, Why should he get parole. Frome the list of features mentioned, none give hope that he might be salvageable or able to be rehabilitated.
“Clothing challenged photographs…” 😂😂😂
I love your sense of humor Dr. It makes the difficult subjects a bit more digestible.
Dr. Grande please do a video on Ressa Tessa and Legion!!!! Please!
NEVER tell a man to give up his hot rod, even if it's a mustang!🐎🕊
Why do women who are successful fall for useless mates?
They want a man.
@@judithgannon5642 ...any man.
I felt like Stephanie’s father would contact Justin to probably tell him not to come near him or step in front of his car
Hi Dr Grande, this case sounds like a Gothic Novel from the Victorian Age.
As always I learn something new from your videos.
How did he expect to get away with it?
On the other side, she died peacefully (not knowing it) and with no pain. RIP
Hi Dr Grande 🤗 And Mrs Grande 🤗 Can you please analyse the case of the Baldwin movie set shooting? ❤❤
Video games have caused a myriad of problems, one being violent behavior.
FYI, it is Corsi CAN a, like I can do it.
Thank you for giving such a fine eulogy of this young woman with so much life ahead of her. Somewhere she learned she wasn't worth a better man, and whoever gave her that message should be ashamed.
Strange that he took a picture of her before he did it. So maybe he could go back to it and relive the events. Weird.