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Self-Conscious Bride Want A Dress That Covers Her Shoulders | Say Yes To The Dress Lancashire
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- Опубліковано 16 сер 2024
- Nikki has lost 8 stone but still feels self-conscious about her body. Will Gok be able to find a dress that makes this young bride feel good about herself.
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Who dragged down this bride to the point where she refused to have a mirror in her house??
I know! She is beautiful. Stunning. Her body is perfect!
First world problems
The society
My Name herself
Shes so beautiful ....its so sad that some bully ass dragged this beautiful woman down coz they were really jealous of her
the dress she picked is so beautiful on her
I started to cry too
Honestly
All the dresses looked good on her☺️
Ikr i dont usually like dresses with sleeves but the one she picked was pretty
don’t confuse brutally honest with toxic
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ACCURATE
CORRECT!! ✔️
lucy A big hint is when the positive comments are all about the dress and never about how beautiful the bride looks in the dress...
BARSSS
So no one is going to talk about the woman who noticed that the bride is not comfortable and confident enough on the second dress?? Everyone was in awe of the second dress but she's the only one who noticed that the bride isn't too fond of it just by her body language. Imagine not mouthing anything but your friend still knows what you truly feel. I love her!!
I noticed that and yes I am so glad she has a friend like that. No mother should ever say I can't find anything to criticize about it! That infers that she normally criticizes everything!
anyone who knows even a little about body language would have noticed that she was not happy in the second one...
I hate when people say "it's not the one for her" because THEY don't like it even though the bride likes it.
I disagree. I think you can tell what someones dress is. If a bride would go alone they would probably pick the first one that they like or even just the first one that fits. I dont think that's right.
Tara Jones because you can't see yourself from the outside, it's people who see you. You can only see yourself from the inside which of cause people don't see you.
Idk I don't agree. Sometimes we as people try to play it safe so we say we love something even if its not exactly perfect. Besides she brought them for their opinion. If she wanted yes men the attendants are being paid to do that. Her loved ones want whats best for them...Usually.
@ I wish you could have read and understood my response first. I wrote in response to someone, I did not say """I"""", I responded why people. Get it right.
I think that they could say it nicer, instead of saying:
"It's not the dress for you"
"I wouldn't pick that if I were you"
Say:
"It's a beautiful dress, but I don't feel you coming thru"
She is so beautiful. Every dress looked good on her. But when she was in the dress she picked, her attitude in that dress was so wonderful to watch.
I would like this but you're at 666 sooo
Agreed, but when she tried on the 3rd dress my jaw dropped and I said to myself, that's the one.
First and last so pretty ,love those 👍🌺
"I don't think there's anything I could criticize" says a lot about how her mom normally acts towards her
That's exactly what I've thought!
how?
@@klim7448 basically the implication is that her mum criticizes her a lot and finds fault in almost everything about her normally. The mum saying what she said in that manner gave the impression that her daughter in the dress is one of the only things she grudgingly could not find fault in.
I'm a potato ohhh ok
Definitely a freudian slip of that dynamic
I LEGIT JUST BURST OUT LAUGHING WHEN I REALIZED THE KAREN’S NAME IS KAREN 😂😂
OMG I thought the exact same
Yippiegal Bahahahaha 🤣🤣
Lol and the daughter even said she is outspoken and stuff 🤣🤣
Carlicia Powell Ik 🤣🤣🤣
I was like damn no wonder like her name is Karen🤦♀️😂
Whenever a bride is super body-concious I always wait to hear the bit about "my mom is brutally honest" and, almost without fail, it's there.
She's not "brutally honest," she's been degrading to you and is projecting hey insecurities about her own body onto you. Often, this comes from a place of love: not wanting their daughter to experience the same feelings of rejection they have (or *think* they have) experienced. However, is far more damaging than it is helpful. I wish mothers would stop teaching their daughters to hate themselves.
Well said, Mary Whipple!! 👍
Mary Whipple agreed 100%, my thoughts exactly
Mary Whipple you're reaching.
Never heard anyone put it out there as beautifully as you did.
That's a 'bit' harsh.
I have missed Gok..... This bride looked beautiful in that dress she picked in the end....hopefully it builds up her confidence, at least a little bit...
Gok is absolutely lovely. So, so nice And if anyone is going to build up her confidence, Gok would be the person.
There is something about Gok. His sensitivity and compassion are wonderful. He knows how to make a bride comfortable. I love watching him.
I love him too. He really is the best at what he does. Every time one of his episodes pops up for me, I watch it. Doesn't matter if I have seen it ten times. I love him to pieces!
I went and tried on dresses alone. I wanted to pick the dress that I loved, and not care what anyone else thought. It worked out perfectly for me. Bought the 3rd dress I tried on and it contained every feature that an uppity, super-skinny woman at a designer shop told me that I should avoid "for my body type". Turns out a sweetheart neckline with off the shoulder sleeves and a princess style skirt with a fitted bodice looks AMAZING on a chubby bride. Screw the haters!!
Hate it when people start talking about which body types look good in what. If you’re curvy, you can look good in a fitted dress or a ball gown style or literally anything that is properly fitted to suit the silhouette. I’m glad you got a dress you looked great in and I hope that uppity lady didn’t get to you!
I did the same in the beginning. All on my own to figure out what I want. Then went with my Mum and daughter..... Was all good for me
That lady was just mean. The dress you got is usually the type of dress I like! You quite literally described my prom dress lol. It honestly depends on confidence. If you like the dress, your smile alone will make it look 10 times better.
I am so very proud of you! Good for you for sticking to your guns and trying on what you wanted and finding the dress that made you so happy. Who in the hell is anyone, much less a wedding dress consultant to say such remarks! The dress you described sounds similar to mine and I was overweight and only 5"2" and it made me look great. I do not have a big frame and am curvy and that woman not only should not be allowed to work in this field, but she is stupid. That is exactly the style that makes most women look beautiful! I bet you looked gorgeous!
Well done for going on your own.... only YOU know what you want... no pressure or opinions from others !!!👍👍👍
Love Gok in say yes to the dress. He's the only one who cares about what the bride wants and how she feels, not just how much money can be made out of the bride. This bride looked beautiful in her dress. As soon as she came down the stairs you could see her glowing x
Look for Curvy Brides Boutique, Al and Jo are an angels, picking up every brides self esteem :)
Liga Sinica I love Al and Jo too they are such beautiful souls. Xx ❤️❤️🥰
haley cook also Randy is super kind to the brides
Did you see his smile at the end?? He looked so happy and proud of her!
Wholeheartedly agree!!
It broke my heart to hear her talking about taking all the mirrors out of her home. Everyone deserves to love themselves and walk through this world with confidence, and she is absolutely stunning regardless. Beautiful bride and there is NOTHING WRONG with her shoulders in the slightest
“It broke my beard” 🤣🤣 I know you probably meant heart but that just cracked me up
Elizabeth Roy lmao oops!
Justin Gary her shoulders specifically, but to hear her talk about herself she just doesn’t think she’s pretty in general
@@BornNoU I can understand her perspective. I'm a similar size and although I didn't really fuss about whether my wedding dress was "right" for me (i basically picked one i thought was pretty that was $125 on ebay), when i look at my wedding pictures all i see are big fat arms, a great sloping bosom, a big fat belly... it's a kind of imposter syndrome, i feel like i'm just a poser pretending to be a beautiful bride.
@@dietotaku Same here. I lost some five stones a couple of years back and fit into a size 18/20. Now I'm back to a 26, and the only mirror in my house is my bathroom mirror. Whenever I pass a full length mirror, I just want to crawl out of my skin.
"I don't think I can criticize IT."
"Wow IT looks stunning."
No mom SHE looks stunning. Forget the dress and compliment ur daughter
Honesty doesn't have to be BRUTAL. It can be earnest, constructive, and tactful.
Love without truth is hypocrisy.
Truth without love is brutality.
(Wish I could remember who said that)
Gok is the missing piece of say yes to the dress! please post more of himmm
I could literally watch Gok all the time, he’s wonderful
Me too! Wish I could subscribe to just his videos, or just the UK ones at least.
sinewilltryeverything
Their dresses are pretty affordable compared to the US version, that dress would've been 5k in the US version. The employees are respectful, the family is sweet, everything about this is perfect
But you do realise that tge value of the pound is more than the US dollar though
Britni Seivwright right also dresses in US cost more cause of import and delivery fees
Wedding gowns are usually made in the UK due to access to resources
@@britniseivwright2746 Yeah not a lot though
It's less than a hundred dollars short of what the average dress price is on the us version 🙄😒
The NY version takes place in one of the most expensive cities in the US, and a lot of celebrities shop there- of course their styles are going to be more expensive. The prices in the Atlanta version are much more reasonable
This bride is drop dead gorgeous. Anyone who ever made her feel bad about herself must have been jealous and wanted to try and knock her down to make themselves feel better.
I totally agree!! this comment should have been number 1, on top.
And that would be her awful narcissistic mother.
Mom: starts being really picky
Me: hmmmm
Mom: name is Karen
Me: I KNEW ITT
You know, some of us actually have that freaking name. And the stupid, immature trend of "karen" is very offensive. Just as offensive as saying the bride is fat. And gross. This generation is so stupid.
@@medievaldruidess ok boomer
SHE EVEN HAS THE HAIR!!
Karen... Karin...Karin Ritter... Come Out GERMANS
@@medievaldruidess someone's butt hurt
That mom is insane. The first dress was light and ethereal and gorgeous on her. I think it was just the family’s personal preferences getting in the way
I loved them all on her. Who did her so dirty that she feels so badly about herself? She’s lovely!
Smash Her mother, who is literally named Karen.
It’s probably her mum. She literally says, “Nothing I could criticize,” or something like that meaning she’s constantly criticizing her daughter.
It's her mother.... Straight up can see its the Karen
One big hitter is definitely the mother. I actually prefered the 2nd dress on her, but you have to go with the dress that gives her joy - and that all important confidence.
At 26 I started covering and removing my mirrors. I couldn't stand looking at myself. At 66 I still can't look at myself after decades of therapy.
My mom gave me $200 for a wedding dress but I looked so horrific in everything. Ended up spending the $$ on tiles for my fireplace and $40 on a vintage black thrift shop dress I hated but could get into.
I truely know what she's going thru.
That lace on the first dress was gorgeous on her. Honestly for those who may wedding dress shop some day, DON'T be afraid to do one appointment alone without all the opinions (pick a place with good consultants). You can always bring people the next time.
I took one person because I knew better than to take my very opinionated family. I would've never chosen a dress & would've been in unhappy tears if I had.
Oh my gosh, that third dress is the prettiest dress I've seen on the show. She is perfection in it, extremely beautiful.
Gok has such a beautiful personality....
He makes every bride happy....
He has great empathy!
IDK why but I want to hug her. She's so cute n seems polite genuine soft kinda person .. I wish I had her as my friend or elder sister.. Loved her n yup that outfit Is crazy hell gorgeous on her .❤
And he even had to say to the mother do you want to hug your daughter! I am just the opposite, I have to hold myself back from hugging my 2 girls too much. I'm not at the wedding dress stage and just to share I grew up with 3 brothers, played sports with them, never really wanted to play with dolls, am very girly looking and love all feminine things etc., but having my 2 girls when little was like having dolls to dress up, ha ha. They also played multiple sports and the younger one, again, very girly looking but wearing black leggings, baseball hat backwards cut off at the waist T shirt, skateboard, you get the picture and not so into trying on dresses for her senior Prom - I always thought with her coloring she would look gorgeous in lavender, but of course would support her in choosing what she wants. The first dress she puts on, steps out of the dressing room and literally every mother there, including me gasped! Ha ha - it was lavender tool with a wide, horsehair hem strapless with same lavender appliques all over the bodice and it just zipped up like it was made specifically for her! She was smiling - it was amazing, then she asked if she could try on the other dresses - I was like "Of course!" It was like the heavens opened up and the angels were singing, ha ha! She chose the lavender dress!! OMG!
I don't know why every time she opens her eyes she looks surprised she is so BEAUTIFUL
You know what I love most about this.. is how Gok looks at all these beautiful brides! He looks at them like they're his work of art. He seems really genuine and I love watching these videos. :) This woman is gorgeous and her dress was super lovely on her. Gok really is amazing.💕
Nothing like a supportive gay boy... Every woman should have at least one.
The last dress makes her look like a princess. the bride should have most self confidence her body looks great!
Her look of surprise everytime she opens her eyes.... It's lovely to see but so heartbreaking too
OMG when I saw the final dress I shouted at the screen THAT'S THE ONE!
Gok has such an eye for what suits people.
32 years ago, the only "entourage" I wanted was my Mom. We chose my beautiful wedding gown,the bridesmaids' gowns and my Mom's gown without input from anyone else. Some friends have said they can't bear looking at their wedding photos because they "settled" for a dress they didn't really like. How very sad for them. My Mom, who died almost 20 years ago, looked beautiful, and I'm still delighted with the perfect wedding dress she helped me choose. Maybe some day my own daughter will decide to wear my gown, but I won't be disappointed if she doesn't. Weddings should be happy occasions surrounded by love. Don't drag a dozen "friends" and family members along and let them tell you what they like. Your day. Your choices. Your memories.
My mom and I picked out both of my wedding dresses, with no one else around. My first husband died and I was lucky enough to find another good man.
Jolynn - you are absolutely so right! I did the same thing, went to Kleinfeld's 27 years ago when it was in Brooklyn, NY driving from NJ with just my mother. I not only got my "Eve of Milady" dress I re-designed the sleeves to be off the shoulder ballgown sleeves so sit was actually an original - no one else had a dress like mine!
Touching story. Loved it. I went with my mom and sister to choose my dress. It will be our 20th anniversary in June. I'm sure I am older than you. I got married at 39, and people said we both looked in our late 20's not 30's!! We sure did . Sorry, talking about the dress , we needed no one else to hice an opinion. After seeing many dresses at the shop windows , I decided to try on the one I really liked. Pure magic. It was the one. My mom also chose the first wedding dress she tried on! She passed away 7 years ago, but I keep fond and loving memories of that day like you with your mom. Blessings!!!
I shopped with my fiance. The only thing I would change after 30+ years is the poof short sleeve to a fitted shirt sleeve.
"I think I look nice" that broke my heart 💔 who did this to this sweet girl
When she said "I feel like I can walk down the isle in this dress and not be worried that everyone is looking at me" it broke my heart. This is her big day everyone should be looking at how absolutely stunning she is! I feel so awful for her having such toxic people in her life to where she feels so ugly. She is beautiful.
To this bride ... Girl you're Gorgeous 😍 there is NOTHING WRONG WITH YOU. I pray that you find the confidence inside of you and rock the body God gave you. Have a happy marriage and life.
It’s amazing how slight differences in design make a dress PERFECT for the wearer. That last dress was PERFECT!
The bride is so pretty! We all have our insecurities but i can see that she is a very nice person. I love the gown that she chose. So stunning and beautiful. ♥️
She looks stunning. Her entourage has one person with taste and manners. When a mother acts like that, it is pretty obvious why the bride is insecure. Mum's a horror.
I love the way you treat your brides. You are kind and patient, so every bride feels listened to and knows that she is in the most beautiful bride.
Gok is the best. 2nd are the Curvy bride ladies.
Her chosen dress is immaculate and so absolutely flattering. That's the best dress, the one that empowers you to feel confident and helps you look your best.
The way she looks at the mirror when she first sees herself in the gown is so precious ❤💖 Aunty Gok's magic is really something special!
Gok is simply wonderful, this SYTTD and Curvy Brides Boutique are my favourites to watch, the episodes on both always fills me with joy :)
Kinda get how she feels. I had cystic acne for 8 years. I had the most awful unsightly scars and bumps all over my face and back. When I went into changing rooms with those bright white lights, seeing myself from all angles, I would break down every. single. time.
My skin is much better now but emotional scars run deep. We all don’t quite see eye to eye with the person in the mirror at some point or the other. Stay strong. The cracks are on the mirror, not you.
That's a beautiful comment!
I hope u r doing well !
Sincere n hearty wishes from my side😊
Blessings to you!
"The cracks are on the mirror, not you." That is really going to stay with me. Thank you for saying it! ❤
I've been binge watching on Say Yes to the Dress. Gok's approach to the bride's dilemmas and how he presents them is just divinely transformational. lol They glow from within!
looooove how relaxed these episodes are with Gok
Gok Wan is magic.
Love him so much!
kitty62862 me too, he’s such an inspiration!
Once again Fairy Gok-Mother comes to the rescue on a cloud of glitter and sparkles. GOD I LOVE THIS DRESS
This version of SYTTD is the best. Each person’s appointment seems to be so personal & special. Keep up the good work 🙂🇹🇹
She is such a beautiful woman and looked gorgeous in all the dresses, but when she put on the third one my jaw literally dropped 😮 I hope she has a blessed wedding day and all the happiness she deserves! x
I thought she look beautiful in every dress but the last dress IS ABSOLUTELY STUNNING ON HER... SHE LOOKS AMAZING IN THAT LAST DRESS
How much is Gok so lovely sensitive and caring I just adore him. I’m liking Stella York’s designs. The third dress is really nice
I just love Gok. I don't even want to get married but I want a wedding. Is it okay if my girlfriends and I just have wedding to ourselves where we just find the perfect dresses and embrace the best versions of ourselves?
Yes! You can it's called a friendship wedding I believe but it's a thing look it up!! 😁
Can I come? 😆
@@maryapatterson YES
Sounds like great fun! Go for it! Am I invited?😊
That sounds beyond narcissistic to me. Weddings are about committing and binding your life to another person. They are gathering together in the sight of God, your friends and family as you promise to love, honor and cherish someone who means everything to you. Someone who will always promise to love, honor and cherish you too. NOT exalting yourself or your friends. 🙄
Why don’t they show Gok more often ? I love him and how he makes brides feel. 🥰
What a pleasure to see Mr Gok again !
The bride looked lovely in each dress, but , yes the 3rd dress had me in tears for her, She simply looked gorgeous .
Wishing Her and her Husband many happy years together .
I just love Gok 😍💞 he is so considerate and sensitive to everyones individual feelings.
I love that she smiles the entire time. How joyous. I wish everyone did this.
So beautiful.
Isn’t it funny how other people can tell you if they think something is “right” for you? When actually you only know what is right for you. So sad... others peoples opinions are just.. opinions.....
wdym? her friends were right. they thought she would look better in sleeveless but they could tell she wasn't comfortable so it wasn't the right dress. and good thing too because if she had gone along she wouldn't have found that amazing dress that fit her like a glove and had everything she wanted.
I get what you’re saying and most cases that’s right but she wanted their opinions. Because she doesn’t have the confidence in herself and she wanted reassurance. Nothing wrong with their opinions they were honest, respectful and caring of her feelings
I agree. But when we look at ourselves we always bring ourselves down so we need an outside opinion. We cannot see ourselves fully without a mirror either. Others see us fully. So yes while we know what WE like, we also sometimes need the help of someone else's opinion and why you should only bring trustworthy people to these appointments, so they can tell us the truth and no jealousy hindering the judgement.
Lol y’all took what I said and put your own twist on it. I hear ya. Go off.
I sometimes don't know myself lmao
She’s beautiful and I hope she recognizes that on her wedding day and moving foreword.
So glad that one friend spoke up and said something positive about the first dress!
OMG GOK TOTALLY ROCKS!! He’s so understanding to every bride 👰🏼♀️ and we need more like him!❤️
Yess gok is back and the bride is beautiful
guys the shirt she was wearing covers much of the shoulder/arm part that she’s self conscious about. the thinner straps on the second dress are different than the shirt straps.
Thank you for giving this beautiful bride her confidence back.
She looked absolutely stunning in the first one and then the last one was just perfect for her. I loved dresses like the one she chose with the mesh and applications going down your arms- it’s not just slimming but also so ethereal and makes you seem light rather than heavy. Shes so beautiful I hope her husband is helping her feel that way and see that truth ❤
“I feel like I could walk down the aisle without worrying about anybody looking at me”
Girl if you’re the bride they’re gonna look 😅
I think she meant "looking at her" as in seeing her imperfections, but love this comment😂
exactly what i was thinking 😂😂
I have the very same problem. I am thinking of getting married only with my husband by my side and nobody else 😅
@MayaPan-Miller She said I feel like I could walk down the aisle and not be worried that everyone’s looking at me.
@@lumideji Exactly! She wanted a dress design that would help her to be able to walk down the aisle...."without WORRYING about anybody looking at me".
You missed the "worrying" part in that sentence, Maya Pan-Miller.
I haven't seen a woman so beautiful in a dress like that in quite a few episodes. She looks gorgeous it matches her sweet demeanor. Congrats! You rocked it!
She looks drop dead gorgeous!!!!
Watching these makes me think I'll just go shopping for my dress on my own 😂 no one's got time for that negativity
When i tried some bridal dresses. I went alone.
She looked beautiful in everything. She deserves to know that it’s because she’s beautiful already and the dresses just accentuate that truth
OMG FINALLY ANOTHER LANCASHIRE ONE!!! Gok is my absolute favorite by far. This final dress pick was PERFECT for this bride, she wanted lace sleeves and that dress had beautiful lace and her figure looks amazing in it!!! Absolutely gorgeous
GOK is so kind and sensitive. Thank goodness for him. The last dress was the best. I love the sparkles on the lace
Broke my heart when she said she took all the mirrors out of the room. No one should ever feel this way. I hope she surrounds herself with people who make her feel beautiful and not pull her down or criticise her.
She took out all the marriors in her house wow! In reality she is so beautiful! Every woman is beautiful but alot of times we compare ourselves to other but we all are flowers, Every flower is different but all special 🌻🌹🌷🌺🌸💐
So sad about the mirrors 😢.
I love Gok he makes the women feel so confident and unlike other shows is mindful of the budget.
LOVE that 3rd dress on her! Beautiful dress! And, had to add - Gok did his magic again! Lovely bride.
I legit gasped when she came down in the third dress! She looked stunning! Thank you, Auntie Gok!
Finally Aunty Gok...missed him so much!
Beautiful bride and gorgeous dress she picked.. But got to say 2nd dress was ABSOLUTELY STUNNING on her.. only her happiness matters on the day😍 good luck dea
The sweetest bride I have ever seen, Nikki you are beautiful inside and out.
One of the most beautiful episodes! That dressed was stunning on her!
The last dress was absolutely perfect for Nikki. She positively glowed!
Oh my gosh the one she picked looks so amazing on her! The neckline totally complements her figure, she looks like a million bucks in that dress!!
That third dress. WOW. She looked gorgeous.
I love this beautiful bride, such a gentle soul, simply gorgeous.
No, you don't have to tell her. For the love of not everyone needs to hear what's in your head, sometimes stop talking.
The dress she chose is beautiful, and she's going to be a GORGEOUS BRIDE!
The dress she chose is absolutely gorgeous on her - I love this version. Why don't the others have these dresses???
Shes sooo beautiful!!! Its crazy to think that so many of us women are going through these battles everyday and its so sad 🥺
All of the dress were great on her. And her husbain to be is a very lucky man.
That dress is absolutely beautiful on her. I’m in tears
She looked stunning in that dress she chose .....confidence radiating from her 😊
I love the way she was self conscious about her shoulders, but shes wearing an off the shoulder top in the interview bits
She's absolutely a gorgeous girl & the gown s hug e chose is perfect.
Gok is back! For yet another feel good episode 🌸🌸
WOW! She is gorgeous! Nikki truly doesn't realize how stunning she is, dress or no dress, she is so beautiful. That dress was perfect, btw.
She looks ABSOLUTELY stunning in the dress she chose. Suits her so much and she nailed the loom what a beautiful bride. Don't hide yourself away you're a beautiful women with nothing at all to feel not confident about your body! She's gorgeous 😍❤💍👰
3rd dress looks really gorgeous on her
seeing her face light up in the third dress made ME want to cry
The dress she chose was BEAUTIFUL. She looked stunning👍
His "My darling.." is sooo sweet