"Intimacy" The R Spot Episode - 17
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- Опубліковано 5 лют 2025
- The R Spot episodes is where Iyanla shares messages, stories, and ideas to develop healthy relationships, and mend the ones that are broken. If you want to send Iyanla questions or share relationship issues; send correspondence to: www.IyanlasFixins@gmail.com
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I think I could solve all my major life issues with a 20min sit down with this women
Me too
Yessss
"It is your responsibility to learn how to protect your heart". So true!
So true! We are responsible to let others know what we will and will not tolerate. We have a to protect our space and energy at all times :)
This hit home. Sometimes you need that reality check that in our own lives, we have both hero and villain...
Thank you for these lessons.
I need to raise my standards in relationships starting with loving, valuing and accepting my Self! You’ve given me the direction that I have needed all my life. Thank you wise, loving one!
Deep and on point. . Thank you, and thank God for woman like you.
This was excellent! I love her comment at the end about the laws of the universe and what goes around goes around. So true.
Hi Iyanla. Such a inspiration and source of strength. I know men cheating in relationships is not a new topic by any means but I could use a word of encouragement as I just found out a guy I was seeing for two years had a wife and kids of his own. I'm a single mom struggling in every way and he knew this. He just didn't care about lying to a woman who had it rough already. Incredible.
Iyanla, I just wanted to say thank you for your gift of The R Spot to us!!
As always you deliver such a great message in a calm and soothing voice!
WOW, WOW .....these R spots are incredible!!
when I shared my deepest hurts with my soon to be exhusband he threw it up in my face when he was mad ,because of the lust I was blinded I take responsibility for that but he lied and held back who he was
Oh thank you so much for this message. I’m new here but this video was right on time for my current marriage trauma. I love my husband and he needs to know I appreciate him more. Thank you again!
I love Iyanla because she makes me think & have the desire to change what needs to be changed in my life. Ty.
Thank you, Iyanla, for hearing your calling & responding. If it were otherwise, there would be so much more pain in the world.
All of those violations were part of the reasons for the end of my 34 year marriage... Very much eye opening having the exact verbiage for it.. Thank you Iyanla!
Wow 34 years! How did you cope for so long?
Michelle, that type of relationship I thought was normal from watching my parents and siblings in their marriages. I started praying and watching Iyanla and Oorah developed a voice for myself and children. Too much to get into but now Im trying to figure out life at 53. 🤔
Carolyn vazquetelles me too!
Wow! But you did it! You're stronger than you realize! Sometimes it takes time for us to realize what our boundaries are...then even more time to establish them in our relationships. Congratulations on finding your voice and sticking up for yourself no matter the outcome!! :)
Carolyn vazquetelles 53 years young and now you can look for true love ❤️ and true life
Can you do a segment on starting over after being in a long time committed relationship?(divorce or breakup)
what goes around comes around - be with me for who i am. so much wisdom. thank you.
You are too cute. Like the way you ended this discussion. Also, what a strong analogy about the animal's belly and the bat. Woe! This will definitely help me be mindful with my children especially. Thank you.
So fitting for me in this moment... As always, thank you for spreading your love Iyanla! 💕💕💕
woow.. what a beautiful life lesson u just taught this guy.. thank you
Into me see. Yes. a mistake I had made for years and not allowed them to be into me. Or be into them and see their value and they value me. unconditionally without bringing up my past or faults. love it.
Christ in heaven, the segment about intimacy between parental and adult-children hit the V spot, of validation.
💡🕊📖
So nice I had to play it twice (or maybe more). As always you deliver the exact message that I need to hear and share!
Iyanla for President!
I wanted to cry, my 19 year marriage gone. All I wanted: In-to -Me-See!
Praying for your continued healing and growth. I know it's hard to see, but there is beauty in your journey. Give yourself the opportunity to learn from your situation and continue to put yourself first. Every failed relationship has the unique ability to teach us lessons so that we may apply the skills learned to our next relationship. Do some reflection during your quite time...you will be amazed at what is revealed to you. :)
I hear you. Just a new situation I'm in. Thank You
You will love again :)
Yeah, but not rushing
Totally agree...
Thank you ms. Iyanla... AGAIN lol... I come to you more than any one in my life, you just make me feel like I'll be alright..
thank you for sharing this. I believe God gives you messages to give to others. This touched my heart; was wow, made me cry.
Wish a person like you were my friend or mother.. Your energy is calming and beautiful.. You are truly self aware and this kind of knowledge should come first in schools before normal subjects..
Incredible !!
What an Angel!
What a blessing !!!!
We live and we learn! Love these R spots!
And my name is Felicia, Damn I love this woman
Felicia Tintswalo F-tee That is my name too! I let him go and now I'm doing the work for/with/about me.
Thank you, Iyanla ! I needed this!
I need you to personally minister to my mind body & spirit..i love you!
Thank you. I am glad I found you.
On point and eye opening. Thank you. ❤
amazing messages. I'm going to share this with some of my loved ones.
Lovely! Where can I purchase your positive affirmation t-shirts?
Thank you mam for your teachings 🙏🏽✨
That's beautifully said. Thank You.
thank u for sharing your information with us.. keep doing God's work! we love u..
great, I just told my good friend about this same subject 😃 Wow
Wonderful! While on the subject of intimacy I would love for you to address infidelity and how that destroys intimacy. Since cheating is such a problem in relationships it would be helpful if you tackle this issue in a series addressing (1) cheaters, (2) those who have been cheated on, (3) the other man/woman, (4) emotional infidelity, (5) and when to stay or leave and how to give yourself permission to do either. I know that myself and many people can benefit from your insight on this topic.
Don't take it personally and listen to your gut
Thanks so much for sharing
i so needed to hear this message today. thank you!!!!
thank you so much for your wisdom xxx
Words of wisdom, thank you
Struck a nerve! Thank you!!! I get it now.
this is so true I feel real bad because I did say something tonight that I shouldn't said about my ex-partner I ask God to forgive me right now I would never ever say anything about my ex or any other man I get with because you have convicted me in the heart and everything you said was true for now on it will stay between me and my partner because no one is perfect but I am ashamed for what I have said and I asked God to forgive me but I wouldn't try to put him down because we both was kind of nervous that's what I was trying to express not to put him down but maybe the way I said it God please forgive me never mean to hurt him behind his back because I'm not that person I have to think before I speak
Have you been watching my life lately Miss Iyanla?
Thank You Great Mother🙏🏾
on point love it!!
You are Amazing !
Thank you.
@ 9 min 30 seconds - " bad gossip "
[...or what I like to call Defamation of Character]
[T.W.]⚠️
My whole life my family gossiped behind my back. At 13 as a young girl, I was excelling in private art school, in congruence with myself and the universe, and at ease in my spirit. I recall a dream where I looked out over the meadow behind the house I grew up in to see a tornado approaching and then woke up. The next day my grandparents, the local police, my mother, two sisters and stepfather informed me collectively that I was homeless.
I recall an officer taking me into the basement before I was forced off the property and saying that I needed to emancipate myself from my mother. I didn't know what that meant and I was only 13. I remember I burst into tears I remember my father took me in.
I was Derailed. Out of congruence. Here we are putting the pieces finally back into place
And from there on I felt just a shadow. or the ghost I was never really around. nobody ever really talked to me. or got to know me.... but they spoke on me as if they knew me and nobody had anything positive to say...
I remember being surprised when my grandfather, my mother's father, would say things to me like it's only going to get harder from here. Or don't let us down again. He would tell me that my grandmother - who is technically my mother's stepmother - was my champion. In other words, I was told my whole childhood that there was something * fundamentally * flawed about me. everybody saw it and the only person really standing up for me was her. so I should be grateful. Lastly he would always say remember what God Said. "Honor thy mother and thy father " As if to say I did not respect either of them. However I can't ever remember an instance in my life i felt anyone really spoke to me. I mean *me* who I am.
I am now 37. I am struggling to figure out who I am. I feel trapped inside. But I am blossoming in perfect time with God, all things and nature. Not too fast, not too slow. Even if at first crippled or bent, shriveled or afraid. Sailing on broken pieces as a wise woman once said.
Parents, please listen to her message 🙏
Great points! ❤❤❤
Well put Iyanla
Love this ..
Thank you and love you so much 💋
that was everything!!!
True.
how do you correct these faults?
light light
intimacy
in me see
Into me see
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