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  • @yourfavpersuasion9385
    @yourfavpersuasion9385 Рік тому +69

    I had a feeling!! but where is the link tot he other channel??

    • @FayeInTheCity
      @FayeInTheCity  Рік тому +40

      Here ya go! This isn’t the real name of the channel though. I haven’t come up with the name yet: youtube.com/@FayeSpeaks?si=m7TRLCbNx5yE0Irw

    • @70tyms7M
      @70tyms7M Рік тому +10

      Love you, Faye! ❤

    • @tamitriawalker
      @tamitriawalker Рік тому +3

      Following new channel 🎉❤👏🏽🙌🏽

    • @FayeInTheCity
      @FayeInTheCity  Рік тому +3

      @@tamitriawalkerthank you, friend!

    • @denay222
      @denay222 Рік тому +4

      Faye, we adore you... we support you, and thank you for sharing your truth! ❤

  • @tierrasardine562
    @tierrasardine562 Рік тому +231

    My divorce happened over 6 yrs ago & I thought I couldn’t breathe for days. Remarried , a mom of two and now with a supportive & loving husband ❤ life is amazing!

    • @FayeInTheCity
      @FayeInTheCity  Рік тому +73

      I love to hear about the bounce back! Mine up next!!!!

    • @mightystrong5484
      @mightystrong5484 Рік тому +22

      Im,new to a divorce and I tell you the struggle is real BUT I can tell you GOD has been faithful, every tear HE caught them,every break down HE held me up ,every sad day day HE brighten me.......😢it hurts but I know better is coming because I DESERVE IT. I love your great comeback blessing 🙌🏽 GOD IS GOODT.

    • @ladyt4062
      @ladyt4062 Рік тому

      @@mightystrong5484God is AWESOME!

    • @thaniya0201
      @thaniya0201 Рік тому +2

      Amen 🎉❤I can concur.

    • @beautifulishername1876
      @beautifulishername1876 Рік тому +2

      God is good

  • @MrSincerity88
    @MrSincerity88 Рік тому +145

    I’m not married. I’m a man lol but I love your channel. I broke down hearing you talking about praying and feeling like God left you in the fight of your life and I have felt like that. I was spiritually dead. Depression is real and I’m so grateful you fight your way back.

  • @sassysharon
    @sassysharon Рік тому +252

    Faye, Faye, Faye what a testimony😢 Most of us knew that you all wasn’t together,but I’m so glad God healed you before you spoke on it. The fact that you continued to show up on UA-cam while going through that personal pain, God Is Faithful 🙏🏾 He is there for us even though we can’t see it or feel it. So happy to see you happy 🥰

  • @SonnyCarsha08
    @SonnyCarsha08 Рік тому +4

    You know what I've noticed...for some reason, the fact that a person starts focusing more on self-care, looking good, feeling good, and finally enjoying the person that they are instead of putting everybody else first....the insecurities kick in from the significant other. Why does that happen?

  • @shondadavis4128
    @shondadavis4128 Рік тому +100

    We'll ride with you until the wheels fall off. Then we'll walk with you. I'm so glad that you allowed our Father to help you heal.

  • @bag_lady557
    @bag_lady557 Рік тому +105

    “I am the flower that I am watering in this season” - Faye
    Whew!!!! Divorced since 01/23, I felt that!!! 💛🌻

    • @FayeInTheCity
      @FayeInTheCity  Рік тому +4

      🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾

    • @tiannawoods9450
      @tiannawoods9450 Рік тому +6

      Whew….I felt that. Divorced, June 2022. But God is still faithful

    • @SewSoUnique
      @SewSoUnique Рік тому +3

      Yes this hit me. What a refreshing statement!!

  • @AyeItsJu
    @AyeItsJu Рік тому +165

    Heavy on the “it wasn’t our business” lol but I’m happy you’re healing and being obedient to God during your healing !! ❤

    • @FayeInTheCity
      @FayeInTheCity  Рік тому +7

      Thank you!

    • @craftylady11
      @craftylady11 Рік тому +13

      Faye- Sending you love and hugs. Thank you for your transparency and sharing because you really didn’t have to.

  • @SonOfDenis
    @SonOfDenis Рік тому +22

    Caught a good potential name for the podcast: As Life Unfolds

  • @AunH
    @AunH Рік тому +110

    I was aware of a shift, because of the things you no longer talked about. You can't share everything with everybody, because everybody ain't gone be for you! I'm just happy that with prayer & therapy, you are in a better space...Keep going! Stay encouraged! You got this!😎

  • @annyetta890
    @annyetta890 Рік тому +90

    Girl, I am over here crying now. I've been going through HELL but I don't have any friends or a support system, so I'm basically alone in the world and my only interaction with people besides my kids is parasocial with the few people online who I still follow. I am so happy that you made it through your lowest point to find joy again. You put a smile on others' faces and gave us inspiration while you wanted to cry. You deserve every blessing that God has for you! Praying for you and love you!🙏🏽❤️

    • @AuthorLHollingsworth
      @AuthorLHollingsworth Рік тому +10

      Keep your head up 💪🏽 God, got you! Take one day at a time. 😢😢😢🙏🙏🙏🙏💪🏽💪🏽💪🏽

    • @kimpossible1187
      @kimpossible1187 Рік тому +7

      Do you have a church home? Find a good church during the worst points in my life having Jesus and that support system is the ONLY thing that pulled me through

    • @annyetta890
      @annyetta890 Рік тому +6

      @@kimpossible1187 No. I don't attend church. I was raised in the church (preacher's kid), so I believe in Jesus/God/prayer, but I'm not religious.

    • @starletmitchell5466
      @starletmitchell5466 Рік тому +6

      Hold to God’s unchanging hand 🤚🏽 He hasn’t brought you this far to leave you. I’m a witness❗️

    • @oneprissymissy
      @oneprissymissy Рік тому +8

      @@annyetta890 I’m a PK too. I had to learn that God is about Relationship with him and not Religion. I pray God leads you to a place that will help you and walk alongside you into relationship with Him💕

  • @jbonniebanks
    @jbonniebanks Рік тому +7

    Faye I can't watch you cry knowing just how much divorce challenges us. Divorce breaks us in ways we didn't know we could break.

    • @FayeInTheCity
      @FayeInTheCity  Рік тому +2

      Chile. It almost took me out! But I made it!!!!!

  • @AliciaElizabeth
    @AliciaElizabeth Рік тому +1

    Your pastor saying “I ain’t seen you, but just letting you know, I ain’t letting you go.” Whew!!
    We thank God!

  • @tamijones3260
    @tamijones3260 Рік тому +29

    After walking away from a 17 year relationship, I have felt the darkness, and the sadness, I still feel those things at times. I have questioned God HEAVILY. Hearing your testimony and seeing your growth gives me hope because I have days were I don’t have it but I have to put on a face of bravery for my children and the world so I can function. Your transparency was refreshing and for some of us NEEDED! Thank you!

    • @FayeInTheCity
      @FayeInTheCity  Рік тому +2

      Thank you!

    • @shortyed5386
      @shortyed5386 Рік тому +2

      YES LORD...I walked away after 19yrs, with a tv and my clothes....I'm sad, depressed, lonely..but so happy I got out

  • @ItsJasDarling
    @ItsJasDarling Рік тому +37

    First of all it wasn’t any of our business! Now of course the OG’s knew but we just prayed for both of y’all and still do cause y’all are Champs parents! Privacy makes healing easier! Big hugs for you booski we still here for you ❤️❤️❤️❤️

    • @mom2js
      @mom2js Рік тому +2

      Agree...knew it but it really was NOT..OUR business and her life to live, share with anyone when she, FAYE was ready, the time was warranted. @FayeInTheCity is a Gem!
      I've been back in STL since 9.10.23 I hope one day, while I'm here to see you outside

    • @FayeInTheCity
      @FayeInTheCity  Рік тому +3

      Love you!

  • @lisajones8005
    @lisajones8005 Рік тому +3

    You did the right thing by not saying anything until you healed. I figured it out awhile ago.

  • @chanreka
    @chanreka Рік тому +29

    When I realize I'm praying for something I try to change my prayer and ask God to give me what he believes i need versus what I want. It's hard to accept but always the best in the end ❤️. Stay blessed more is to come!

    • @shaylakelly3888
      @shaylakelly3888 Рік тому +4

      That part! The prayer is for God to give us what He wills for our lives. While simultaneously praying for the wisdom, grace, and peace to trust Him and obey.

  • @themommymichelle4614
    @themommymichelle4614 Рік тому +45

    I knew this before you said it because I recognized certain things as I have been there. Good for you for maintaining your privacy and having a amicable family relationship 🫶🏾🫶🏾best wishes going forward

    • @FayeInTheCity
      @FayeInTheCity  Рік тому +4

      Thank you, beautiful!

    • @themommymichelle4614
      @themommymichelle4614 Рік тому +10

      @@FayeInTheCity Your’e welcome. This has to be my favorite video you ever posted. Thank you for sharing your faith in God at this depth! He IS good. The vulnerability you gave us was amazing to see and still not telling your business.

  • @tfife
    @tfife Рік тому +38

    As an OG I did notice as well as many others based on your demeanor and how you spoke only about yourself and your son and of course no ring. I never thought to comment and ask because it’s not our business but I love love and I honestly just wanted happiness for you both regardless of the situation. You owe us nothing but thank you for this, you’re an inspiration and will definitely help others. All the best to you and your family ❤
    Also, the part about not wanting anything to do with God hit me hard. I have been in the same place because I have been experiencing infertility for years and I feel prayed out! Thank you for helping me to consider trusting God again, even if natural children may not be in my future.

    • @leahmason824
      @leahmason824 Рік тому +5

      Praying for you during this struggle. I hope you do keep praying and redevelop a good relationship with God. Sometimes it feels like He's left us, but don't give up HE loves you and he's still with you ❤

    • @tfife
      @tfife Рік тому +2

      @leahmason824 thank you for your kind words ❤️

  • @Nerd_Jee
    @Nerd_Jee Рік тому +21

    I relate to your story so much. I’m 36 yrs old and I am currently separated and going through divorce. We have no children. The difficulty in making that decision is no joke. I can confirm that things do get greater later. You and I both got married in 2018. So I definitely feel this in another level.I’m Muslim and I’m heavy on my faith journey and prayer definitely helps. Family support helps. Faith family helps. You definitely need a village. I admire your courage. I haven’t told anyone outside of my family and spiritual leader about my situation neither because it helps in the healing process. Staying offline has also helped. I appreciate your channel for more reasons than you think. Thank you.

  • @divinemsm716
    @divinemsm716 Рік тому +10

    Precious Faye. The best marriages end in tears. When a “one flesh” relationship is torn apart, whether by death or divorce, there is going to be bleeding and pain. You have carried yourself admirably, and I for one am so so proud of you. God bless you sweet sister. I will be holding you close in prayer. 🙏🏽❤️

  • @ItsmeTinaP
    @ItsmeTinaP Рік тому +60

    Praying for you Faye!!! I am going through a divorce as well and it definitely feels like you are grieving. I made peace with God about it and now, just like you said, it's time for me to water me. We got this!!

    • @FayeInTheCity
      @FayeInTheCity  Рік тому +3

      Amen! And thank you!

    • @LaToyaPlansLife
      @LaToyaPlansLife Рік тому

      I'm sorry to hear that. I just got married 08/11/23 and I don't want to think about that level of hurt. I'm praying for you lady🙏🏾💕

    • @DeborahWaterman-k3m
      @DeborahWaterman-k3m Рік тому

      Thank you for sharing such an inspirational testimony. May God continue blessing you 🙏🏽🙏🏽

  • @nikkic2710
    @nikkic2710 Рік тому +1

    "I AM THE FLOWER THAT I AM WATERING IN THIS SEASON "

  • @la9863
    @la9863 Рік тому +4

    “You may not get the answer you want, but what’s coming us greater than what you lost.” - Reverend Elder Pastor Faye Preachhhhh!! Amen!
    “You might take a loss but you’re gonna GAIN!”

    • @NikkiaSings
      @NikkiaSings 9 місяців тому

      I ran around my kitchen one good time 😂💯 A WHOLE word!!

  • @shaylakelly3888
    @shaylakelly3888 Рік тому +16

    I feel every bit of this! I'm a PK, raised COGIC and church is all I know. No one really tells you how divorce can literally feel like you're in mourning 💔 We know all about keeping the faith, right? Baybeee, it's so hard to accept God's version of answering our prayers sometimes. Donnie McClurkin's song "Stand," hits different after a divorce!!
    I'm proud of you for being so brave, and sharing your testimony 💓 This is how we overcome!!

    • @FayeInTheCity
      @FayeInTheCity  Рік тому +2

      Girl. When I tell you Stand was on REPEAT some days?!!! Whew!!

    • @DK-qj7cr
      @DK-qj7cr Рік тому

      You are in mourning: death of your relationship…BUT the person is still alive 🤷🏽‍♀️😒😶☝🏽

  • @lmbigelow2
    @lmbigelow2 Рік тому +34

    Ms Faye....
    Thank you for your transparency. April15, 2022 I lost my boyfriend of 2 years to pancreatic cancer. I, too, was in a dark place, mad at god.... thank you...with this, I now God is still good and he is still in control. I still have faith that I can move on too!
    Love you and your content!!

    • @MsSunshineRae
      @MsSunshineRae Рік тому +7

      I'm just sending you love. I lost my fiancé on April 17th, 2022, from pancreatic cancer. I understand the pain and darkness. Praying for you.

    • @timaaa50
      @timaaa50 Рік тому

  • @inspiredeyes8652
    @inspiredeyes8652 Рік тому +26

    I appreciate your honesty. I ended a 14 year relationship it was hard I realize people are always looking for the"tea" but there is no tea. It was time it was God's timing. Personally rough, but I thank you for your testimony. Being a church girl I get it. You reminded me to continue trust in God's plan. Thank you

  • @HazelGoddesss
    @HazelGoddesss Рік тому +22

    Thanks for your transparency Faye. I haven’t been married, but ending a relationship (especially after a child is born) is HARD. Glad you’re happy, healing and thriving!

  • @TreyMcLaughlin
    @TreyMcLaughlin Рік тому +1

    This whole testimony blessed me! Thank you for sharing with us. Praying you continue to thrive and flourish.
    P.S. in my mind .. you're my cousin 😂

  • @carmenbaylies
    @carmenbaylies Рік тому +36

    Auntie! First. Your City Gang is here! Second. You got me crying...Ma'am, The LORD still provides. Third. We cannot wait to see how Auntie Faye hits life like Lil Kim in the Jump Off!! Fourth. You are a blessing and inspiration. Thank you. We pray you continue to elevate to that higher self. GOD's Got a Blessing with Your Name on It!

  • @keepswimmingdori9888
    @keepswimmingdori9888 Рік тому +2

    The tears are rolling honey I never felt words so true got me crying in my room dog looking at me crazy lol but that healed heart is a blessed one love you ❤

  • @Tyasiaaaa
    @Tyasiaaaa Рік тому +3

    This was so encouraging and such a blessing! My husband and I decided on a divorce a little over a week ago and I had been pleading with God to fix my marriage as of recently my prayer is just Lord let your will be done but over this past year my relationship with God has been beyond my wildest imagination ❤❤ he is so so good and merciful! I believe the Lord allowed me to see this to continually remind me there is hope on this side of eternity! Thank you!!! ❤❤❤❤❤

  • @UnpopularOpinionByNkiruka
    @UnpopularOpinionByNkiruka Рік тому +1

    Been divorced going on ten years next year! Have not dated anyone since then and have remained celibate bc I’m been working on myself by healing from a marriage that almost destroyed me. But God!!! My children try to get me back on the dating scene but I refuse bc I have seen what is out there and I don’t want any of that in my space. God pulled me through the divorce so why would I put that back in my life. If God wants me to get married again He himself will have to come tell me himself when he part the Heaven to give me that word!

  • @mrs.b.a.8448
    @mrs.b.a.8448 Рік тому +10

    Faye, while I haven’t went through a divorce, I can relate about not getting what you asked for from God and straying away. As Christians we always quote “your will be done” until it is. This really blessed my soul tremendously and I truly appreciate your openness and giving God the praise for it all. There is no limit to where he will take you because you really put “your faith” in him. Again thank you and know this has truly blessed me!!!

  • @tatertot58
    @tatertot58 Рік тому

    My God My God!! This message was for me! In 2007 my stepdad was diagnosed with terminal cancer. I was like you brought up in church! In ministers class at the age of 12. My pastor prophesied that if I laid hands on my step dad he would be healed. Well I did that but he died. It’s been 16 years and I still haven’t come back. God, I’m grateful you didn’t stay gone too long. Please y’all pray that I make my way back to my savior! This message was for ME! I have tears in my eyes.

    • @tatertot58
      @tatertot58 Рік тому

      This video really made me realize I’ve been holding a grudge with God. Idk how I let this happen when I’m forgiving folks left and right but leaving my roots!

  • @sunshine_4_me
    @sunshine_4_me Рік тому +7

    I went through a divorce last year that was finalized in February. Truly understand pulling away from God. Thank you for sharing this. I recently went to church for the first time since the divorce. Been feeling the call to fasting as well. Thank you ❤

  • @DannielovesJesus
    @DannielovesJesus 10 місяців тому +1

    What a testimony Faye. I am a pastor. I grew up in church also. For years I ran away from call of God on my life. Depression is real . Our God is so faithful even we are not . Praise the Lord for what He is doing in your life. Continue let your light shine .
    Thank you for sharing . That calls for a praise break right now . Key up the Hammond B3
    Shonda🙌🏽

  • @persephonebailey7292
    @persephonebailey7292 Рік тому +20

    Faye I have always admired you ever since I found you while trying to figure out this natural hair thing…But Sis when I say somebody needed this testimony today I am speaking of myself. I appreciate you being authentic as well as vulnerable even though you owe none of us an explanation. I am so happy that you are okay and I’m a better place. I look forward to your podcast and anything else you bring because you are one of the most positive, influential yet realistic person on this platform. Just know that you helped many today…for that I am forever grateful❤❤❤

  • @soulstrength
    @soulstrength Рік тому +1

    For I reckon that the suffering of this present time are not worthy to be compared to the glory which shall be revealed in us! Girl...we go through circumstances, and a lot of times we don't understand why. We do feel like we are in the fire by ourselves. We feel abandoned by God and others. But I'm holding on to when God is finished purging us through whatever fire we're going through, we're going to come forth as pure gold. A greater blessing is coming!!! Stand strong, keep doing what you're doing, and keep trusting God! I love you sis! ❤

  • @CurlsofaCPA
    @CurlsofaCPA Рік тому +7

    There were definitely random moments where I just felt impressed to pray for you not knowing what you were going through. Thank you so much for sharing your testimony (almost had me in tears driving 😂) healing looks good on you 🥰

  • @AbsolutelyJessica
    @AbsolutelyJessica Рік тому

    "How can you help if you are hiding?"... That's a real word.

  • @kandyapplekush6023
    @kandyapplekush6023 Рік тому +6

    Hey Faye definitely feeling the it ain’t our business. Ik idk u but I’ve loved u since day one. Amen

  • @ladyt4062
    @ladyt4062 Рік тому

    Growing up in church, sometimes it’s no different from being in the world.
    You have to have God in your life outside of the church building.
    We also have to be careful marrying someone who may be unequally yoked.
    We definitely will have our trials and tribulations, just like Job.

  • @KB-hj3zs
    @KB-hj3zs Рік тому +9

    Bless you on your healing journey. It wasn’t never any of our business, but thank you for sharing. Namaste.

  • @eclark4610
    @eclark4610 Рік тому +1

    Chess is fun... don't give up on it. :) Thanks for sharing

  • @chandralinton8431
    @chandralinton8431 Рік тому +4

    “I am the flower that I am watering in this season”
    -Faye from the Lou
    I felt this THANG from the tips of my toes to the top of my head! Although I ve never gone through a divorce I have gone through the loss of a relationship. Which, don’t get me wrong, is NOTHING compared to what you are going/have been through. But when I tell you LIFE has been LIFEING!! With NO BRAKES nor breaks, I mean that thing!! The ONLY thing that is keeping me other than my family is God!!
    To sum it all up tho, in the words of MY Pastor Trust God! Trust God and Trust God!!
    I pray your continued healing and happiness.
    Makidada and I’m out! -Faye from the Lou

  • @deborahmckenzie4318
    @deborahmckenzie4318 Рік тому

    God is like every good parent. You get what you need not always what you want. He says no to us, like any parent must say NO to the child at times. Learning life lessons is hard. It’s hell but the gift IS the lesson learned. The wisdom and experience you’re getting.

  • @shaylahhenning
    @shaylahhenning Рік тому +24

    First things first, I’m glad that these past few months have been great for you! Secondly, thank you for being so honest with us and wanting to continue to share content that we can relate to! Lastly, CHEERS TO HEALING!!!! 💖

  • @yolandabeard3473
    @yolandabeard3473 Рік тому

    A divorce is private and should stay that way. I walked away from my abusive relationship with a four month old and no money and only a few people knew. So good for you for dealing with it how you needed to.

  • @YoudontknowMimi
    @YoudontknowMimi Рік тому +23

    Faye! God has you in His hands. I’ve lived through the changes and I understand how it is to deal with something that’s private and you wish it to remain that way. I wish I had the benefit of having someone who respected the boundaries of keeping others out of what started between two people. Your healing is for you and you only-you’ll come out of everything making a better you. People don’t get to feel the pain or the prosperity of your healing, and don’t forget that. Please enjoy yourself 😊

  • @deborahmckenzie4318
    @deborahmckenzie4318 Рік тому

    Divorce goes right to your core. So so hard. No matter the circumstances, it’s hard. God brings you through it but you will be changed.

  • @ToyaB3123
    @ToyaB3123 Рік тому +6

    I’ve been absent for awhile life been kicking my ass! But I just wanted to say thank you for making this video as a mom of a 7month old and currently filing for divorce myself I needed to see this and know it gets so much better on the other side. Appreciate You Faye ❤

  • @deed6041
    @deed6041 Рік тому +4

    Felt this 🙏🏽 my pain was losing my oldest to cancer...God didn't fix it the way we desired.
    It's all a process, a journey...but God 🙏🏽
    Thank you!

  • @christineknight7907
    @christineknight7907 Рік тому +1

    I’m so sorry for what you went thru, but I’m happy that your in a better place. We serve a awesome GOD. Blessings.

  • @Nataye219
    @Nataye219 Рік тому +12

    God bless you both on this journey. You are truly blessed to have an amicable divorce & co-parenting. It is a painful process, so you have every right to be emotional at times. I have always appreciated your honesty. I’ve been there & it wasn’t amicable at all. I was also going through my postpartum healing from our second child & losing my mom. We still aren’t that great, so only deal when absolutely necessary. Since then, God has bless me with my king & another child. God WILL provide sis! Keep your peace sis. Much love always! ❤❤❤

    • @FayeInTheCity
      @FayeInTheCity  Рік тому

      I’m here for the NEW KING, sis! Congratulations!!!!!!!!!!

  • @sweeta6670
    @sweeta6670 Рік тому +1

    I am older then you, My Dear. I have felt the same way at several stages of my life. As if God abandoned me or put too much on me. I did not know it at the time but God was just preparing for other things. But I couldn’t see it at the time and turned away from God. Sweetheart, he brought me right on back. He didn’t do it the way I thought it should be but it all worked out for me for my own good🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾❤️🥰😘

  • @Foxyj310
    @Foxyj310 Рік тому +3

    This video is ministry at its best. I also grew up in church, and I truly love the Lord. The thing is, I was taught a lot about spiritual war fare and how to go about it, but never how to handle things when winning didn’t look like what I was expecting. This truly helps us all learn how to walk it through. And how pleasant it is to see how even during our times of turning our backs on Him, He’s still there waiting on us, and loving us. God bless this channel and your content!!

  • @ALMad04
    @ALMad04 Рік тому

    Y’all can say what you want about the Daniel Fast,….but…..BABEEEE!!!!!…..every time I do, I be on a whole other level!🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾

  • @LysaRenee
    @LysaRenee Рік тому +3

    This was absolutely inspiring, rejuvenating, hilarious, heartfelt, and down right real! I relate in soooo many ways. Like literally the spiritual rebirth and reconnect is beyond our comprehension! God does not allow us to move without purpose even in our pain. Obedience and Faith truly does hurt at times. Some folks might not get it, but the believers, We Get It lol. You are glowing something healthy honey and I love that you are blossoming so beautifully. It warmed my spirit to hear your transformation and God's love on your light. I will continue to pray for your healing, amazing journey with co-parenting, business, friends, family, and restored and new love! Thank you for the content, you are inspiring me to do the same!

  • @joycealynp
    @joycealynp Рік тому

    Whew chile! This was on time because let me tell you, I have been screaming, “why didn’t you fix this.” Recently my therapist told me, “he did fix it, just not the way you wanted it.” Ohhh the revelation

  • @blissfulmom21
    @blissfulmom21 Рік тому +4

    Praise God for the softnening of our hearts. Thank You God, that Your grace is sufficient! Thank you for holding your daughter up even when she was struggling to hold herself up. God I thank You!

  • @Cassi_The_Digital_Safe_Space
    @Cassi_The_Digital_Safe_Space Рік тому +2

    Finally, my pumpkin can breathe. I love you, I’m proud of you. #angelsdoexist ✨

  • @alee7322
    @alee7322 Рік тому +6

    I’m an OG here. I knew something was going on. When those cracks showed I just sent hugs, prayers and love. So now knowing what you went through I will continue to send love prayers and hugs. ❤❤

  • @learningthruliving
    @learningthruliving Рік тому +4

    “I am the flower that I’m watering in this season,” whewwwww. I felt that deeply. Thank you Faye for sharing your testimony. I’m working on pouring into myself right now, so it’s beautiful to see what you’ve been able to overcome. I was even convicted and received confirmation about needing to fast because like you I’ve felt like I’m in a rebellious phase for the very same reason as you.

  • @thee_esquire
    @thee_esquire 11 місяців тому

    Hey! We are NOT ashamed of the gospel of Jesus Christ! His strength is made perfect in our weakness! This was beautiful - just like a teacher, God is often quiet during testing.

  • @SonOfDenis
    @SonOfDenis Рік тому +12

    Hey Faye ❤ I’m glad to hear you both are peacefully parenting&I’m glad to see you’ve healed. Love you 💗

  • @ivymerritt7577
    @ivymerritt7577 Рік тому +2

    I'm sorry you and DJ are no longer together. I always thought that you were a beautiful couple. I hope great things happen to two both of you. And I am very impressed with how you have approached your divorce. I HATE it when people trash their former partners. Personally, I think it reflects poorly more on the person doing the trashing than the one being trashed. You should ALWAYS trying to bring positivity no matter what! 💖💖💖💖💖

  • @jamelewiggins7683
    @jamelewiggins7683 Рік тому +6

    I had not caught on to what you were going through, but I am glad you are healing & thriving. In the midst of your transition, I also was going through a transition in losing my Mama to Cancer. She's been gone 6 months now & the pain is INCREDIBLY HORRIBLE.
    I kind of believe your message came at the right time because I also have been feeling "some kind of way" about losing my Mama. I start my healing journey this week.
    Thank You for your words...they spoke to my heart. I know I need to reach out to God instead of turning my back & shutting down. I cannot say that I have peace, but I have to believe that I am on the road to it.
    And on another note, Congratulations to you on your journey to Happiness. I'm sure you feel a sense of lightness with this disclosure, even if you feel a little vulnerable. Thank You for trusting us with your update because WE STAN FOR SOME FAYE!!!😊😊😊
    I wish You & Your Family the BEST TO COME! ❤❤❤

  • @michellecathcart2994
    @michellecathcart2994 Рік тому

    God is not a fixer..HE is loving Father who keeps us in the darkest times and in the happiest times of our lives and in between. What we do in the "in between" times will keep you in the dark times. If you do nothing in the in between, you can't get mad when He doesn't show up the way you want Him. He wants you in prayer, fasting all the time! HE wants to hear from you all the time!

  • @amandapierce4507
    @amandapierce4507 Рік тому +6

    Father I thank you for this message this morning! Thank you Faye for listening to his word and being willing to share! You have saved some lives and some souls with this one! Lord the way I'm boo hooing in here lol. This message was for me lol. LORD I THANK YOU! Now let me find the other channel cuz I love a little mess to 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽😭😭😭🤣🤣🤣🤣❤️❤️❤️

  • @eminitemi4513
    @eminitemi4513 2 місяці тому

    Life does happen! I totally feel you on the not wanting to talk to God part. But as you said, He never lets us go and is always patiently waiting to come back. Thank you for sharing and praying for more joy and strength for you, Faye.

  • @sheilawilliams2836
    @sheilawilliams2836 Рік тому +3

    You absolutely spoke to me in this video. Thank you for sharing--I'm still coming out of God's no for another aspect of my life. You encouraged this older lady.❤

  • @Sheridesignz
    @Sheridesignz Рік тому +1

    I feel this same exact way now. I'm going thru a divorce as we speak it's very hard for me to talk to God and other people . 😢

  • @cleverfox259
    @cleverfox259 Рік тому +7

    Chilllle, when i tell you this came right on time, going on a fast has been on my mine for the last 2 weeks, mind you, i have never fast a day in my life, i am going to take this as a confirmation to do it. And im glad you have healed and still healing. You have been one of my top youtubers for the last couple of years now, and i will continue to support you no matter what, because you are sooo real and down to earth.

    • @FayeInTheCity
      @FayeInTheCity  Рік тому +2

      Thank you so much! 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

    • @blissfulmom21
      @blissfulmom21 Рік тому +2

      This!! God has been laying it on my heart to fast and I’m like God I just can’t! But Faye spoke of the Daniel’s fast and I’m like. I can do this. I need to do this. My spirit needs me to do this!

  • @deborahjordan394
    @deborahjordan394 Рік тому +1

    God is so faithful!!! Real talk - I faded away from channel when husband began to be included. I believed what your friends told you and saw a spiritual shift. God wanted me to hear your testimony today. So godly happy for you!

  • @BritBoo16
    @BritBoo16 Рік тому +4

    It really wasn’t none of our business but I definitely love this new era of you booski! You know I rocks with you till the wheels fall awfffff and I’m so proud that you can still smile through uncertainty, the unknown, and the rockiness that comes with life! Just know you are STILL THAT GIRL ❤😘🥳 free at last!!!

  • @LCREEDTV
    @LCREEDTV Рік тому +1

    Faye this video was needed moreeeeee than you know, thank you!!!! 😭😭😭

  • @techielady
    @techielady Рік тому +4

    Bless you Faye!!! I totally respect your feelings on speaking on things OR NOT! It is your peace and life to protect. I pray you both are able to continue to raise your son in unison and agreement! I also believe that you will find that LOVE that you still believe in and shall be blessed and continue to prosper! You have already shown that God has his hand on your life! You are blessed and highly favored. Love one of your Internet Aunties lol

  • @suzg7425
    @suzg7425 Рік тому

    The fact that you are putting God first is amazing. Trust me he will take you further than you could ever imagine if you rely upon him. I love God is is wonderful and I'm glad for your "rebranding"

  • @rosajohnson5212
    @rosajohnson5212 Рік тому +4

    The death of a marriage (divorce) is worse than losing a relative or friend, in physical death. I, now personally feel like it is the ultimate test of your faith in God.
    So glad that you made it through the struggle.❤

  • @MrsDivaTurtle
    @MrsDivaTurtle Рік тому

    God may not come when you want 'em but God's always right on time!!! I got divorced in 2021 and my life has improved exponentially year after year since. #GodIsAmazing

  • @ilemamonique
    @ilemamonique Рік тому +1

    Im so sorry Faye. Im praying for you🙏🏽. Im going through divorce now but we've been separated for 3 years. I'm the happiest ive been in years.

  • @toyamo08
    @toyamo08 Рік тому

    girl you're welcome for your privacy...as a silent watcher I'm ready to listen to the podcast while I'm working

  • @tapa428
    @tapa428 Рік тому

    Hi Faye, I watched your YT video update. You dont know me, but I felt so compelled to share, I am so proud of you!! Our sons are 3mths apart, you and I are 1 year apart. I felt like everything I was going through, you were also, in another way. I became temp handicapped the week before I gave birth. An ulcer ate away a LARGE part of my leg limiting my mobility. My husband(7years) became a child when we had our new born. I wanted to leave him EVERYDAY but felt stuck bc I didnt have any money coming in. When disability was approved, I felt like a super human. I was in a wheelchair, using a bedside commode and taking on most of the responsibility including bottles & midnight changes on my own while he slept peacefully on the couch. Hence cosleeping 🙃. Once the $ started coming in, I didnt need him. I gained 105 lbs (2022) after losing 73(2019-2021)to boost fertility. YOUR content inspires me to do better for myself; mind, body and spirit! THANK YOU ❤️🫂

  • @candicer2336
    @candicer2336 Рік тому +1

    I admire your courage to share. I can say there is life after divorce. I have thrived in my education, career, and love life since my divorce ten years ago. You have a beautiful spirit and you will continue to do amazing things. Enjoy life and your beautiful baby boy! ❤

  • @quelsplace5956
    @quelsplace5956 Рік тому +1

    Your transparency and authenticity is what initially drew me to your channel and it is still what's keeping me! Just know, you haven't seen the TIP of what God has in store for you 😉!! The full favor you have on your life has not yet been revealed! I'm so happy for you!!

  • @dcameron1213
    @dcameron1213 Рік тому

    It was none of our business! Your journey is just that YOURS. And your relationship with GOD is just that YOURS. But He is real. Congratulations to your breakthrough. I ask God to work with me to show me what He has for me and my life. Amen.

  • @Kenyahs_Mommy
    @Kenyahs_Mommy Рік тому

    Me and my husband have been on the Daniel fast for a little over 3 months now, and our church just joined in with us.

  • @divineacceleration1979
    @divineacceleration1979 Рік тому

    We have nothing in common except growing up in church. And I left church a long long time ago. No husband, no kids but what you said abt God and feeling like He abandoned you? I felt that to my bones. I've been trying to work on my relationship with him but it has been the fight of my life. I get so discouraged cause I guess deep down I've always felt abandoned by Him. You have encouraged me to keep trying. I needed to see this. Also I did notice something was up but that was your business. I'm so happy that you are happy and thriving. I'm going to keep trying and I hope that He hasn't given up on me because I feel like I gave up on Him. Thank you for the testimony and the encouragement. God bless😊

  • @msfit23
    @msfit23 6 місяців тому

    Thank you for that ❤ last August after losing someone I thought God had blessed me with, I didn't hate God, but I was So angry I didn't want to be in the same room with Him

  • @CutiepieCaramel
    @CutiepieCaramel Рік тому

    Babes, I never comment on your vids. I watched you recently and you mentioned him, and my spirit said 'naw, dawg 🥴, but okay though 😬'... However, GIRL SAME ❤. I've been saved since I was 4 yrs old, and have been divorced (I'm also a boy Mom). Your transparency is greatly appreciated, and I'm glad that you're healing and full of joy. Sometimes, God's answer is no because he has to break us down to rebuild us for the incredible blessings HE has for us 🙏🏽. I humbly came to God, and surrendered all because his path is the ONLY path I should be on. I'm happily married now, and living more deeply within my faith in Jesus Christ of Nazareth! It's so peaceful on the other side of the storm. Sending you love and Internet hugs (you are squozed ret neow)!

  • @TarrishaByone
    @TarrishaByone Рік тому +1

    You did the right thing by not talking about it. And protecting yourself and everyone around you. Because so many people have opinions and they're not always good.

  • @asiadelgado3733
    @asiadelgado3733 Рік тому

    Hi Faye. I am not sure if you will see this, but maybe someone will, and this could be encouraging for them. I had my daughter in September this year. 5 days after she was born, I went into postpartum psychosis and was hospitalized for 6 days straight. The day I got out of the hospital I got a call from my uncle saying that my daddy was in the hospital. He had already passed away but I didn't know until I got to the hospital 5 hours away from me. The mental hospital I was in was the most traumatic situation I had ever been in. I was going through the mental aspects of being in psychosis, going through postpartum, being away from my daughter for 6 days (mom guilt), and the death of my dad. September was a month of the lowest for me mentally but through it all the Lord led and got me through all of it. I praise Him for the grace that He gave me to keep on going. Its true what His word says that His yoke is easy and burden is light. I know that it was the all the Lord that I was broken but He healed me has no other person could even get close too. I praise Him for the joy and peace and happiness I feel even though yes I went through something incredibly hard the Lord held me and brought me every step of the way and I am better off for it. My husband was also my rock in this all and my beautiful church family prayed for me and the Lord gave me grace to pray as well. Also yes to therapy!! May the Lord bless you Faye and anyone who reads this.

  • @denisehall3366
    @denisehall3366 Рік тому

    Why would you do this to me?! I’m not a “crier”, but my eyes had a little glisten on them. I am so proud of you!

  • @sonriendo33
    @sonriendo33 Рік тому +1

    ❤ my God!!! Wow!

  • @BeingLaLaa
    @BeingLaLaa Рік тому +1

    Needed this ❤ going through a similar situation but with 2 children

  • @tiraswinton7242
    @tiraswinton7242 Рік тому +1

    "I am the flower that I am watering in this season"...I love that! I am going to print that out and post it all around my house as a reminder to myself. Thank you for being so transparent. This is really helping me right now. Prayers to you in your journey. 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

  • @angelafoster3807
    @angelafoster3807 Рік тому

    Faye, thank you for sharing, because you didn't have to. I was in your shoes when I was 35 years old with two beautiful children. Like you, I did the work and got through it with the grace of God. Today I am 64 years old remarried now for 23 years, retired and truly living my very best life. My children are grown doing very well and I am a grandma. All these years my children's father loved our children more than the reason's why we didn't make it and we are still family. My husband is a gift from God and he understood the need for my ex-husband to remain involved in our lives. My children never had to choose between their mother and father and that was the greatest gift we gave them. I am proud of the respectful way we treated our children and how much they appreciate and love how we put them first. To hear this from our children feels me with joy. Stay encouraged Faye because as you know, there is truly life after divorce. God Bless You, the best is yet to come just keep God first as you are doing.

  • @timaaa50
    @timaaa50 Рік тому

    They say the end of a marriage is like a death. Glad you are healed from that pain. On another note I am tuned in for the new content cause I’m 40 and trying hard to find love again

  • @Sandy-ox4ym
    @Sandy-ox4ym Рік тому

    Thank you for your transparency. We as christian think we cant get mad a God. , but he already knows. Wow. God speed sis.