Feeding a family on a food stamp budget
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- Опубліковано 21 чер 2015
- Healthy food is hard to come by in many sections of Bridgeport, CT. Especially on a food stamp budget. We follow a single mother shopping as she tries to make her SNAP benefits stretch.
Why do people only blame the mom in this situation? The dad is just as irresponsible as her for "popping out kids." I think she is doing the best she can with what she has
Which dad
The dad cant have an abortion
@@zzzELEVENzzz the mother cant wear a condom, now can she?
@@lottie9677 The point was the woman has final say in whether the child is born (into terrible circumstances). But responding to what you said, the woman can utilise pre emptive birth control too, I think the pill is even heavily subsidised?
IG profile you do realize some of them act all nice until a kid is involved then bail. Stop acting like u know everything
Some of y'all have never struggled, and it shows.
@Beiza Gomez Definitely got a point there.
@Beiza Gomez exactly
Beiza Gomez some of us were born into it not like we had the choice to exist
Hypothyroidism exists, dumb ass! I have it and people are shocked that I'm still chubby (138 pounds), especially after knowing that I eat under 800 calories and exercise 5 hrs a day. 🙄 Normal thyroid people would are 5ft tall would weight under 90 pounds at my lifestyle. No amount of exercise and under eating will make me be at a normal weight. I struggle just to maintain this current weight so shut your fucking face bitch! You don't know their medical history and family history.
Juci Shockwave what are you eating exactly?
She’s doing a great job. She tries to buy as healthy as possible, even commuting to go to a real grocery store. At least she cares about her kids.
Doesn’t care enough to commute to a job though
um....you can see she is NOT doing a good job, shes as unhealthy as you can be!!!
@@suewomack5960 1 health isn’t only measured in weight, 2 she’s doing the best with what she has. Get over your privilege.
@@M.Ramgattie you have a hard time accepting reality.........kinda like CNN
@@OfficialJoshG1 maybe instead of judging her you grow up and be an adult. She lost her job and things aren't always easy. She's done her best as a single mother with four kids. It's shitty of you to say what you did because you don't know what she's been through. Get off your high horse. Anyone can end up like this so stop talking. You opinion isn't valid so don't say anything unless you were in her shoes
My grandma gets $72 a month. It’s so heartbreaking. It’s like she worked her whole life to struggle like she did when she was working? This is frustrating to see.
elderly needs more help. that's around what my grandma gets. it's fine because our family all pitch in to make sure she has everything she needs
lillian p Yes, they really do. I do worry about the elderly who don’t have family to help them, there’s probably way more than I want to think 💔
Before we joined our ex stepmoms food stamps she was only getting $64 a month it is ridiculous how little people care about their own kind smh
It’s insane that the elderly get the least in food stamps benefits after working and retiring. It’s sad that seniors are either starving or having to go to the local senior center for three meals a day. This should not be.
Hope you help her.
In India, being round and overweight is often seen as a sign of wealth and prosperity. Being thin is generally associated with poverty. Quite the opposite in the US.
Trixies Tube dude I almost had a stroke trying to read that
All the bad food that makes your fat is cheap.
@@xxjessabugxx Never been on welfare, but when I got fat and had to lose weight I went grocery shopping with my nutritionist. and basically, everything I assumed was healthy was bad for me. The cereal I choose granola, guess what so much sugar in it I might as well been eating fruit loops. If you are trying to feed 5 mouths and make the dollar go as far as you can you can't afford the fruit alone and go right for your starches.
No that's not true. In America the skinny skinny people dont have alot of food in there house or dont want to eat. And that fat people have a lot of food to eat or its in the blood or in there inherited of being fat. Back in the day in the depression times, the fat people had a lot of money and the Native American people didn't have any money and which was skinny especially the immigrants. So you can't be really sure about that it's only about how your financial issues are. It does not matter what body type you are so don't be making suggestions that you don't know and please be 100% accurate.
Trixies Tube - Where do you live? Healthy food is not expensive. One just needs to know where to shop! I get my fruits and vegetables from a Farmers Market, a whole weeks worth for $25. And you don’t need a gym membership or personal trainer to lose weight (unnecessary luxuries). You can exercise outside for free. Go walking, jogging and running outside. Do your sit ups at home. One needs to be motivated and willing to change! Fast food is expensive. It cost almost $10 for a value meal at McDonalds.
Think about the elderly Americans who have to decide if they will pay for medications or food with no ability to get a job.
yourfavnurseb the government gives the senior citizens money
@@leslie8639 not anymore
im disabled but im only 11
yourfavnurseb doesnt exist. youre buying democrat bullshit. the only old people who cant afford medicine and food, are the obese single moms of four who didnt work, like this fattie in the video.
Facts
What a great mom, I can tell by the way she speaks. She is really trying to make the best out of her and her kids lives
She is quite dumb too. This was an avoidable situation. Why does she keep having kids? Especially the newest one, while she is unemployed.
KOOWNM YO she was probably already pregnant with the youngest before she became unemployed
@@koownmyo How about you stop shaming her for the kids she has. She's doing great. Unlike you.
@@koownmyo did you listen she lost her job as teaching assistant . She did not quiet you idot
Its both of their responsibility. If you can't afford yourself, you cant afford your kids. Society shouldn't be responsibility for your bad choices.
As a kid I had this misconception, DEVELOPED COUNTRIES - everybody has job, free education, healthy food and no poverty.
Yeah, all developed countries have that except the US. Obviously there is poverty in every country but ie here in Austria being poor doesn’t mean you have to worry about food or rent. You just simply belong to the lowest 10% according to wealth. If you don’t have a job, you get money from the government (about a 1000$ + 250$ per child, you get paid your rent as long as you try to get a new job or further education, education is free in general, food laws here are way stricter than in the US and therefore Food is also healthier. It’s like that in every single developed country, just not the US.
@@sophieblabla4888 healthy food is not hard to get in the US, its not a luxury either. It just takes some simple research. And education isnt free by any means. Public education is funded through tax dollars that the government takes from people who have jobs. Thats why public education is so bad, because the government controls the spending.
Being poor in America means you have to worry about food and rent, thats why they have welfare programs (also funded by tax payers). And what you described about getting free money is literally our unemployment system, except you also get taxed on it.
Its not good a system. I dont have the answers, but still. No animosity, just my point of view.
Absolutely not! The poverty here in the West is very evident! I also kept saying that India is really poor, on my first visit there before returning home to the UK and finding it here also.
I don't know who classified US as a first world country when they have 50 million citizens living below the poverty line, This is definitely not a developed country.
@@Lola-pq6wm
Also the poverty line is inadequate. If it was adjusted it would be 150 million people.
Also to add to some people's comments on here, fresh veggies and fruits are a luxury. A person earning around minimum wage or just above it would lose a over a half hour wage just on 2 green peppers alone.
A milk and loaf of bread is nearly an hour's pay. People who say it's not are privileged and are full of shit.
I can tell Mercedes doesn't really have anybody to talk about this with :(
@@thatoneguy6776 wtf i've seen you writing vile (in my opinion) comments all over this section. All I'll say is this: if you think that taxpayer money is more important than someone's life, you have seriously messed up priorities.
@@thatoneguy6776 sounds like ur the one that's suicidal. Get help buddy
She should talk to whomever keeps getting her pregnant.
@@octopuswiggle4933 if they care about their life... we wouldnt have to
Should try to be friends with Audi and BMW.
That's why I don't have kids. I can barely take care of myself lol. I'll pray for her though she seems really strong.
Edit: I had my first child May 2018. I’m not on any government assistance. Lol still nothing wrong with it though.
+Shawnae Shanique bless
co-signing for real and I'm pretty damn expensive so... one or more kids would be murder on the funds!
should be more folks with ur common sense.
Same here.
Exactly!
Community gardening I think would be ideal in these communities or at least the development of vertical farming considering most of the buildings in that city are abandoned. That is a must. It would be a good source of employment as well
Exactly. Teach a man to fish and he can feed himself for a lifetime!
One thing about that is the plot usually costs money, and with families that are on Snap usually don't have the extra cash to afford that.
@@reneeprice8459 The government should buy the plot instead of giving out food stamps. That way people could plant year after year. And eat healthier. This processed junk people buy isn't nutritious.
@@jgreen3602 Okay then you have to wait for it to grow. What if there is a blight, or anything else. Also the government thinks that things like that are a luxury not something that people need. Also is the government paying for water, seeds, and things to help during the winter. Etc. Might as well cut out the middle man, and give a ration of money.
@@reneeprice8459 develop a non-profit organization that focuses on vertical farming. It’s indoors which means it’s all year round and it will provide jobs for people that need it. The solution presents itself. I understand where you are coming from, but to have something sustainable that is long term as well is way better than something that is temporary.
seeing this 6 years later, i hope she and her kids get the life they deserve, sending nothing but love ❤
Do you really believe her? $5 a day on food but you can't question how she gained over 300 pounds? Wow...
@@alucardbalmond3480Cheap foods are higher in fats, sugar and salts.
@@nesswhopees right... $5 a day for her family will make her and her family bones. She is trying to get a bigger welfare. Why can't you see it?
@@alucardbalmond34805 dollars a day per person* she has 4 kids including herself so it’s 5 people total which is about $25 a day in meals maybe less cuz the baby, it ain’t much but they won’t be reduced to bare bones by the budget
@@alucardbalmond3480so little minded. She said 5.00 a day per person.
My mother has always said "The system is there to keep you there."
Some genetic cliche statement. Might as well say "it is what it is" . Wtf does that even means
yeah the system forced her to have 4 kids
+Check Mate I know right, sounds some ignorant comment some uneducated people would say, with no evident for the general statement "the system to keep u there". And no one forced these hoes to have kids to be leeching on tax payers money
That makes NO sense.
How the welfare system is there to keep you there.
We don’t understand how blessed we are
Seriously
Living by handouts is not a blessing. Poverty is actually a curse.
Kiki's Kurls that’s not what I’m saying love. I’m saying that fortunate people don’t understand how blessed they are.
@@kasidi002 amen
@@kiki1573 what makes you think she gets handouts? A lot of ppl that are well off and successful weren't always well off (just like me when I was growing up). We went through struggles too. I busted my ass to get myself where I'm at now.
Some of the comments on here are disgusting its not like she isn't trying, it's like yall think being on foodstamps is a choice and that it is so great. When you have 4 kids plus two adults to feed it really doesn't go that far... this woman lost her job so she was clearly working and I'm guessing losing her job wasn't by choice but at the end of the day she still has babies to feed and THATS what foodstamps are there for, to help those who NEED it... like this family does! Unless you've been in this situation you have no idea how much it sucks and how much of a failure you feel like at times depending on the government to feed your family, it can he degrading especially for women when it's our job to take care of our kids and we feel like we're failing by not being able to provide like we want to.... this isn't a life style choice, its a means of survival.
Humble yourselves, you'll be much happier!
I rather go to a food pantry then to rely on the government for food stamps. I don't make much and only work weekends. My mom suggested me to get food stamps because I spend half of my check on buying food and I mostly buy fruits, vegetables that goes bad in a week and I buy salmon and walnuts. I can't wait to find a way to move out and live off grid and have a huge garden.
She literally had the newest kid while she was unemployed. How stupid can you be?
Yeah but as a cashier and someone who has had food stamps I can tell you a majority of people spend their food stamps on junk which is why we need to take Doritos, candy, energy drinks, cakes, soda all of that off the list of things people should get. Cause if you’re really hungry and starving for good health and nutrition then you should be making your food from scratch . Buying flour in bulk, produce on sale , stuff like that and making sure your cupboards aren’t an open buffet if you’re family is really starving. Also there are a lot of community dinners, that people assume are just for homeless people but again they are community dinners. Also food banks always nearby and a lot will help in emergencies. Thirsty? Find a library they usually have fountains. If this was a 1930 depression people wouldn’t know how to handle themselves and that saddens me. I’ve watched how Americans shop on food stamps and then I’ve watched Indians(from India) and Hispanic buy food. Trust me when I say people who immigrate here know how to shop to maximize what they get cause they are doing it the right way. The food stamp is a trap when you think you can depend on it for the rest of your life. It’s only there to help temporarily. That’s why when you report your earnings they adjust how much food money they’ll give you. Personally I think they could do better on that figuring not everyone could save to move and feed their family at once maybe they should allow 2-3 months for earning more before they adjust it so it gives people a chance to get off the system better since nothing is being solved now. At the end of the day though there is no excuse for starving in America especially democrat cities where there are all these resources.
KOOWNM YO she either was already pregnant before she became unemployed or was with a partner with an income whom them split with her after
@@koownmyo you aren't very bright are you
Here in India The government doesn't gives you money but has dedicated shops where You can get scores of kgs of foodgrains for less than a dollar with your coupon. Got my entitlement today which was 50 kgs of Rice and 14 kgs of wheat for 7 people in my family, like every month. Quality not so good tho, but what even poors like us ask for.
What about street food? I’ve seen prices in India fetch for less than a dollar in rupees?
Thats why dont have kids
@@user-ti6ix5tn2o that is why the developed world is having a child crisis. There fault for not solving inequality issues in the first place!
@@jon6309 in some Indian states, you get a kilo of rice for 1rs, which is 0.01 dollars. And along with buying groceries, it means cooking at home you can have 3 hearty meals for 20 Rs per person a day. I was born in a middle class family and when I used to live alone, my daily food budget was 150 Rs or about 2 bucks. 2 bucks a day you can live quiet comfortably if you know how to cook, not if you buy from outside. Eating out is always costlier than cooking
@@akinbabujoseph3955 I live in Hawaii and love to eat at Indian restaurants once in awhile. They are much pricier than some other restaurants here in Hawaii . A plate of Indian food will cost around $12-$15 which is above average for a quick city centre lunch for corporate workers.
Ssshhhiiiiiiiitttt it's gonna be a long ass minute before I have kids. I'm barely making it alone. God bless, Sister.
Start watching one cute couponer. She gives lots of advice on getting food for cheap/free and how to save money even if you're not into coupons. She might be able to help ❤❤
Guess you have common sense unlike here.
"If you can't feed the baby..don't have the baby."
Michael Jackson
@@redshoefive3234 "If you can't feed em, don't breed' em" -Joe Jackson
If you can't afford to support yourself think twice before you get Children
This is awful. I know this was 5 years ago but I hope her life is better now.
It most certainly has not. She had another child. Like she said at the end of the video, she has nobody but herself to blame.
@@MrGameplayMakerHD how do you know she had another child?
@@esonon5210her facebook account was public a few months ago, it is locked now but she had another child
@@MrGameplayMakerHD another child... gosh I’m trying to feel sorry for this woman but, that’s just completely irresponsible on her behalf 🤦♀️🤦♀️
@@IDFK__ You just cant help some people, lots of people don't understand that
My mom was married. With 4 kids when my dads drug habit developed and she became a single mom because she left. She worked everywhere you could think of. Roofing. She was a prison guard. Daycare worker. Restaurant. Then she got fibromyalgia and was confined to the bed for a year. The meds they gave her made it damn near impossible for her to care for all of us. Eventually my mom just worked through the pain. I hate seeing it. It’s not so black and white. Be mindful.
What Is Fibromyalgia
What an absolute incredible mother,she's doing the best she can.
I went to school, got a master's degree, and then worked 20 years in my field before 2autoimmune diseases left me unable to work anymore. I'm single and have no kids. I've been fighting for SS disability, but it takes forever because you're repeatedly denied. I would give anything to have my life back where I was working and a contributing member of society. I made plans to care or myself and not have children out of wedlock, but I didn't see health problems out of my control robbing me of it all.
You need to get a lawyer, otherwise you will continue to be denied.
Welcome to life enjoy the ride
First of all birth control doesn't always work, and in numerous states there is limited access to abortion, things that can prevent these things.
Second of birth control, yes it exists, but that does not mean women are getting it. Things such as misinformation and stigma are causes.
Third, I don't know if she mentioned this in the video she could be a victim of the teen pregnancy cycle, if you are interested in that look it up, but what if she became a mother young got kicked out, what if she has no support system, do you know her, you don't.
Fourth The fact you are going to look at someone in poverty and say wElL yOU sHoUldN't hAvE hAd 3 kIds, and then refuse them basic human necessities
NO
how about instead of judging them we help them and break the cycle.
no wonder America is the laughing stock of the world, Jesus Christ with people like you here
Im in awe of how apathetic these comments are. I have an autoimmune disorder too that has left me disabled to the point where I am practically bed ridden but atleast I have my family to care for me because I cant work. Im sorry youre going through that alone I cant even imagine
İ have autoimmune diseases and single too . hopes best for us all
$726 a month? Damn, my family could stretch that dollar to last for months and still eat well. The trick is to learn to cook and buy ingredients, never junk food.
TheOneZenith exactly. I know family of 5 on the dave Ramsey plan who use 400 dollars a month as thier food budget.
Exactly. And she has 4 kids, not 4 grown men to feed.
She's buying tiny yogurt packages with M'n'Ms, c'mon.
One of those costs as much as a big package of plain yogurt.
Lmao how could you make a meal for at least four people for less than 24 dollars per meal?
Fla Boi easy. Certian food items are inexpensive. Rice. Beans. Spagheti. Chicken to name a few. Back in my broke college days my boyfriend and I use to do weekly grocery for 40 dollars a week at aldi. A dozen eggs were 70 cents. . 5 pounds of potatoes for 2 99.
Fla Boi Are you serious or joking? Because I’ve got recipes to feed eight that cost less than $20.
This is extremely humbling, as much as I support less Government spending, we need to help single fathers and mothers because many people grew up (including me) with parents who weren't too well off. Just look around you each day, think of everything you've been given, everything you've experienced, and thank god for the position you are in. Because the most admirable thing for many people is the humbleness and the fact that you don't take your family or your life for granted. Thank god for mine and thank god for yours.
We need to support birth control and that's it.
No we should give out condoms to Single Mother and Deadbeat Fathers. Not Food Stamps. If you can’t feed them don’t breed them.
@@ramizinam7665 okay but what do we do to the men and women who its too late?
@@petegriffinhoapresident Let them starve
I like to be 250 pounds and still act like I'm under fed. Lmao only in America.
I’ve been there . It humbled me . There were nights I only had enough food for my daughter so only she ate . I kept telling myself it was temporary and I tried to learn about my situation to never be in that position again . Now I work at a Fortune 500 company , have my Jeep Wrangler I’ve always wanted and I can pay all my bills and save money and my daughter is in gymnastics . It takes hard work and a vision . I’m never going back there again .
This is so inspiring
I’ve no kids, but I’m in a very difficult situation myself for the past 5 years, and covid made it a lot worse.
How did you manage to get to where you are today?
Awwwww i prayed u come into so much money
I wish her the best of luck, at least she's taking care of her kids the best way she can in her situation and not on the streets.
Inmywordz True, she's doing the best she can given her situation. That's admirable
relying on the govt, taxes from other people's hard earn money is really what I call "taking care of her kids"
RocknRollDina She doesn’t have a choice. That money is there to help people.
MomoNo Hanna
The pill is a healthy choice.
Good grief! The pill isn't 100% (it doesn't work all the damn time). Also it is not healthy! Have you seen the side affects? Women can die from the pill. I'm guessing you are a man. Also, if you are a man if you don't want kids get a snip! Or just don't have sex, stop leaving birth control up to women. Take some responsibility.
I'm thankful for the way I grew up. ❤ was never hungry, always fed.
Ikr I just realized how spoiled and rotten I am
Lol they over here getting only half a meal while am crying over not getting another big mac
Same here with me
Oh. I cant really say anything because my mother is single and has to rely on Food Stamps for 3 kids.
I often wonder what happend to this family I hope their doing good now . She's such a good mum who is just trying to get by ❤
They need to utilize the abandoned lots and have urban gardens where they can grow their own food.
They need an urban design that doesn't require to travel 45 mins to get produce
It’s not just “more” jobs, it’s jobs paying a decent wage.
When I look for part time jobs on indeed and filter it for paying over $15/hr, over half of them disappear.
This tells me that most of the new jobs pay less than $15 an hour...ironically, once many just make that amount, they will take away any extra benefits you were eligible for...it’s a no win situation.
Gotta work your way up the ladder. You're always going to start at the bottom
@@katherinesproat1081 but can everyone just "get to the top"? No, there has to be slaves at the bottom to serve those at the top. We need real living wages
@@skullthunder3181 that's not how "working your way up the ladder works". You start at the bottom. And unfortunately that means you don't make a livable wage. Yes it sucks. But you gotta work for it.
@@katherinesproat1081 ...but why does it have to be like that? Why cant we adopt the model of the scandinavian countries, which have the highest economic mobility in the world simply because the people are paid decent wages
@@skullthunder3181 I didn't know that. But it sounds nice. But I'm sure it isn't all that it's cracked up to be. In life I've learned that just because something looks good doesn't mean it is. Usually there's a "but" or a consequence. I will be sure to look into that sometime.
My mom is a single mom with seven children and a $20,000 yearly budget. We own our house, fortunately, but she's too proud to use food stamps so our pantry is typically composed of cereal and rice.
Stay strong my friend
I hope the best for you bro
Maybe she shouldn't of had so many children 💤 if she really needed help she can get it no sympathy over here
she needs to stop breeding
barley is cheaper and healthier than rice. Beans and oats are cheaper and healthier than cereal. Eggs, apples, frozen kale, canned tomatoes, canned tuna and salmon are cheap and fairly healthy When I'm broke I make crabby patties:
2 cans of salmon ($0.88 each)
1 can of crushed tomatoes ($1.00)
half a chopped onion ($0.85)
1 egg: $0.33
leftover bread crumbs ($0.00)
a bit of grated cheese ($0.60)
olive or peanut oil ($0.60)
greens: ($3.00)
mix in bowl, and turn into patties, put on grill, cook for 5 minutes each side and put over bed of greens done. This feeds 4 people, for l$1.81 a serving (and I probably overestimated the costs.) For 8 people that would be $14.52 a meal. I can see how that adds up, but it has a lot more nutrition value than processed breakfast cereals and rice all the time and when one has 7 children, one has to expect a higher grocery bill.
I buy whole chickens, and I get 5 meals out of it, roast chicken potatoes and salad, chicken salad, a chicken stir fry, then take all the bones and skn and make bone broth, make chicken soup, and then make rissotto. $9 for a chicken, plus some greens, vegetables, noodles, rice etc, and you have some great meals for on the cheap. :) Let's say you have 3 chickens for 8 people.
3 chickens- $27
1 lb of potaotes: $4.00
3 heads of spinach: $7 (for salads)
5 chopped of tomatoes: $5 (for salads)
2 large bag of frozen vegetables for soup, stirfry, and risotto: $12
spices: $2
2 packs noodles for soup and stirfry: $8
salad dressing: $0.85
rice: 2.00
That's $13.37 per meal to feed 8 people healthy balanced meals. That's not bad
Has anyone looked more into the fact that she lost her job as a teachers assistant? She said so herself that using food stamps was just a temporary thing until she is able to get back up on her feet. Not many people can just live it up and throw away what they have in a day. This woman is just trying to provide for her family like almost any mother out here. The only difference is that she's just getting a little bit of help with the food stamps.
Finally someone with a brain.
Simply Human But why the hell did she have another child?
sure... temporary for at least 2 years...! (sarcasm)
and she got pregnant (for the 4th time) after losing her job!
Teachers Assyrian don't pay Shit. I bit she was still getting some food stamps.
Simply Human maybe she should've stopped having cistern without a father to help raise them. Its really her own fault. The rich don't have kids workout 2 parents to raise them. This is why you are in the Situation you are in.
This is why I'm one and done. My son will be 8 in December; I will be 30 in September. It's hard enough to raise 1. I will be praying for this lady and her children. 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
I wish you the best! 💜🙏🏼
@@oldsoul4762 thank you! 😘
I'm a sigle child, my mom wanted at least one more kid but I had a lot of health issues growing up and they ended up spending a lot more than they expected on me. Sometimes it's better to have one child and give the best life for them
Platano saves lives 🍌 🍌......I grew on food stamps and there were some months were hard my grandmother made fried eggs 🍳 fried 🧀 and platano for dinner 3 days a week still my favorite plate. My mother struggled and went to college raising 4 kids...I respect this lady and hopes her and the kid finds stability.
Awww your story is similar to mines.my grandma cooked for us and she had 6 kids. She raises them all on her own .. she also Wants her kids and grandkids to be successful.... I'm thankful for Platonos and cheap food.. this literally saved us as kids
I have no issues feeding someone. I believe it's our job in a society to take care of one another. This means, on a basic level, that everyone should have access to food and water. I will gladly support tax dollars finding these campaigns...however, i personally know those who intentionally leech off the backs of society. My feeling is, as long as you are working, disabled, or are on unemployment you should receive benefits. There's no shame in working a minimum wage job. Too many think this is beneath them.
+Galaxy Rhen I get food stamps, am disabled and can't work and what makes me so mad is when people gripe and moan about people getting benefits when they should not and then these people turn around and talk about a person they know who is doing just that. Too many people are talking about people they know dishonestly getting benefits and what they should be doing is reporting them and keep making a fuss until something is done about that person.
***** The person I'm referring to receives benefits for claiming she can't read or write. That would be my word against hers. This lady is not a relative, but what if she was? Would I turn her in if she was say, my own mother? Relatives and close friends are usually the ones close enough to see behind their deceptions. I wouldn't ask families to turn in their own members.
Galaxy Rhen Wrongly getting benefits is stealing and fraud. If you had definite evidence that someone from among your relatives stole property from another person I'm sure you would turn them it. This is the same thing. Of course, I was talking about when you have definite proof. I was not talking about people using their own guidelines, rather than the governments/state as to who is worthy to get benefits or who do not have definite proof turning people in. That is not right.
+jfsfrnd This is what she told me she receives. She refers to it as her "nut check" so I'm assuming it's considered a mental disability. Also, she's been on the program for many, many years. Perhaps the rules are different now than at the time.
+jfsfrnd Regardless, she is fine, and even openly admits to cheating the system. My point still stands.
Even further, my observations only solidify my second point which is it is my word against hers and the "doctor" who originally saw her. Therefore, there's nothing that I can do. It was up to the doctor who originally fell for her BS in the first place.
Now, to my first point. She is a proud societal leech. She spends her day watching Jerry Springer and robbing families of our local foodbank's resources. We are paying for her to do so. If you're okay with that, so be it. I am not.
“I’m here through the choices I’ve made.” I’ll shut my mouth now. She gets it.
I was so glad to hear her say that. She's not a victim and that is refreshing to hear especially when many people in these situations blame everyone but themselves. She may eventually get ahead just cause she knows that it is up to her.
@@vickieclark5931 Has she given up custody of her kids yet?
Yep her fault for keeping her legs open
You didn’t listen to the part that said she lost her job. She was making a great living before. Anyone can loose their job
@@1818dedee Then get another and it is her fault she lost her job. And I can't lose my job, unless I kill someone, then I could apply somewhere else. Which is why in the ideal world, people should wait until they have a stable job like being a doctor.
Irrelevant to the issues being discussed but the mum is just beautiful.
Probably why she keeps having kids with multiple partners lmao
I worked myself out of that exact situation and also with some luck finding an amazing husband and starting a successful business but I’ll never forgot how that felt. I’ve said it before - being poor in American is the most expensive thing you can deal with.
I hope this woman got through those hard times.
Yes, would love an update on her. Congratulations on your success!
Many people only use food stamps to buy other stuff like chips soda candy but this woman uses those food stamps to buy her kids meals and I'm proud of that God bless you ma'am
Boat Up My dad does the same thing.
In my opinion, you shouldn't be able to use food stamps for things like junk food and soda.
If 1 in 5 children in the U.S. are being fed from food stamps, it's not the people it's the system. Why work when you only make a few dollars more working some low paying job. People need an incentive to work. Give them a job that pays a livable wage and they will work. Why have the stress of working when your still miserable and can barely put food on the table. Who wouldn't rather stay home and have more free time. Education makes your goals more attainable and puts you closer to finding a better job. The system needs to be overhauled, are govt is for business we need to put the priority back on the people.
#voteforbrenie2016
+oishi chowdury * bernie
+oishi chowdury is Bernie going to create jobs?
John Madden no but he is going to get people more money by making things more affordable
oishi chowdury How is he going to make "things" more affordable?
Good luck right now! Grocery prices are so high, just like fuel prices. I paid $13 for two pounds of ground beef so I could make chili. That is outrageous! A hundred dollars used to get you a full shopping cart of groceries. Now it’s a few bags maybe.
Same...I bought ground chicken for Taco meat because it was a few dollars less per pound. It's bad when you can buy a chuck roast on sale for cheaper than ground beef.
@@dizzledazzle3941 I didn’t even think of that. I’ll have to check it. Almost worth just buying a meat grinder and using other beef cuts
What grocery store? 2 pounds costs my about $9 at my local Wegmans
@@relentero8547 it’s a place called Winco. It’s a cheap grocery store. Basically the cheapest one. I am in California too though. Maybe I should have mentioned that
@@outdoorsanimalsandmusic3014 I’ve heard of Wisco but I’ve never seen one. I’m not surprised now since it’s Cali with all the regulations on products. I feel bad for your gas prices too. I’m from Pennsylvania and regular gas is around $3.40-3.50 a gallon compared to almost $6!
She never let a tear fall. This woman is superwoman
This is where extreme couponing comes in handy
Righttttttt!! She wouldn't even pay for anything If She played it smart
Where is she going to use coupons? They don't have real grocery stores where she resides just corner stores. You can't use extreme coupons at a corner store.
MyChoclateThunder actually i get 2 pounds worth of news papers day and that gives me the certain coupons I need to get me the 5 dollars worth of sweets I like
@@kingkingfling3387 I understand that you use coupons. I still use coupons. But I also live in an area where I have 4 major supermarkets. This lady has none. You guys are missing the point. Your giving her something that she cannot utilize. How is that helpful?
MyChoclateThunder there is one thing that would help her buy healthy food
I love how all the fathers walk away like “ it’s not my problem”. Yes it is feed your kids you made them too . She’s there every day taking care of the kids . Why give her grief ? Poor woman is only trying her best with what she has . And daycare costs a fortune so lots of single moms are stuck in a no win situation !!. I hope she has brighter days ahead x
Sharon Flynn - agreed it is disgusting how they are not helping to care for their kids. But i think the people are pointing out how since her kids fathers have all just walked away, she should stop having relationships with these losers and deadbeats for her childrens sake. These so called men are no good and she can do bad by herself she doesnt need these men making life harder for her by getting her pregnant again. The last child she had means she got pregnant while unemployed and that didnt help her and her 3 children because now she has another mouth to feed. These men are the worts scum of the earth but they didnt make the baby alone. She was there too and is stuck with thr consequences
Sharon Flynn so u wanna say my dad was in jail my mom RAN AWAY to diffrent country and its his fault omg suicide on 14/2/2019 i dont even wana be 16
Sharon Flynn As a female I just want to say: Women need to own up and stop blaming the dead beats they chose. Stop spreading your legs for every guy you date. Have self respect ladies!
I'm not for kicking a person while they're down but to single out men (the father's) in this situation is ridiculous! Accountability for closing your legs, protecting yourself knowing that 1 child was already a struggle!!!!!!! We can man bash all day long but it doesn't negate the fact that she put herself and her kids in this situation!
That's why you don't have sex with a deadbeat.
I hope sis and her kids are doing well in this pandemic 🙏🏾
She's such an amazing mother. Sending sooo much love to this family!!
The lady named Debbie Stokes at the Eat Smart Marketplace pantry is such a Beautiful Soul. I can see it in her eyes. She is kind and she genuinely cares for others. Thank you Debbie.
Amen she is doing God's work! I pray for them all!
My husband and I have five kids together and about 5 years ago he was diagnosed with valley fever had to have his lung removed, etc...at the time our special needs daughter was in and out of the hospital from having brain surgery, to mouth surgery, to a g-tube placement...times were hard and we had to go on food stamps we only had 3 kids back then though... Fast forward to now we are off of snap and raising our five kids without government help!! By God's grace my husband was able to pick up more work and pay the bills back that set us back...and by God's grace our daughter is also in a better place!! So not everyone abuses the system there are families who actually need the help!!
Wow. Kuddos to you and your husband! I agree, not everyone abuses the system. If you need the help it's not greedy or selfish to ask. Only, of course you don't take advantage once your back up on your feet. I hope God can continue to bless your family's health and give you all the support and love to be happy!
You are correct but I bet you didnt walk around with a coach purse and by steaks. That's what drives me nuts. Btw. Glad your family is doing better.
the government does help with children that have disabilities..
Sr. Romero for every one of you there’s 100 that don’t. The math doesn’t add up. Do away with all of it period.
Sr. Romero i love your comment but please next time say by the Lord Almighty's Grace since gdd isnt the name of the lord.
Grew up in a similar situations. As I watch this it 😢brings back memories mom and me would walk to the corner store and carry the bags back home which was a 15 min walk. I remember seeing how frustration she was that the price of veggies and fruits were more expensive than the grocery store which was a good min away from our apartment. My moms income ( which wasn't much) made us unqualified for food stamp. It breaks my heart because I remember that look of desperation but yet strength to preserve through it all. It was rough.
I hope you made better decisions than your mother to get a better living
Difficult roads leads you to beautiful situations. I’m honestly thankful I’ve struggled to get the life I wanted now❣️ be humbled. Nobody but God can judge
U can have a good job and have 1 kid and still struggle and some women dont get child support
Simple solution don't have kids .
@@riverdaletales8457 most people don't plan children. Most babies are accidents, I was a oops baby.
@@suspish2240 ever heard of condoms ? Birth control pills ? Morning after pills ? Vasectomy ? All these choices to prevent having kids , sure one kid can be an "accident" but 3 4? Blahahaha that's just you being careless
Riverdale tales are you prolife? cause if you say all those things i hope you’re pro choice. if a women can’t support a child or the child will not have the proper care. abortion is the more likely choice. also no father?? she’s not getting child support? don’t just blame her. blame the dead beat father as well
@@victoria-sb2xp pro life pro choice? that's all bullshit people just need to not have kids if they not ready pretty simple
She should definitely try couponing! You can buy hundreds of dollars worth of food with a bunch of coupons it's amazing. It really saves you a lot of money. Wishing her the best of luck! ❤
Snow White my mom does that and it saves us soooo much money that every christmas the tree is overflowing whith presants
I wish my parents would do that.
we try... It all depends on region tbh
She doesn't need to cut corners to save money! She's getting it for free! If she actually worked she'd know the value of a hard days, honest pay!
She should definitely try getting her tubes tied.
Honestly, the fact that there's not a supermarket within a mile in some places seems dystopian to me. I live in a "bad" neighborhood in Argentina, but there's always a fruit & vegetables market or a nice variety of meat 3 blocks from my house. The situation of the working and poor people in the United States is really, really bad for what I've seen
It’s weird because it depends on where you live. We don’t have corner markets or any food stands really unless you’re in a big city.
@@relentero8547 wow, it's so weird... I'm Brazilian and I'm in the Amazon, here there is an abundance of fruit, meat and fish everywhere.
@@vanessaguimaraes01 yeah I wish we had a forest with diverse foods like that. We don’t have anything close to that. We just have farms that grow fruit and raise animals for meat and stuff
@@relentero8547 but is it not allowed for there to be small enterprises? like raising pigs, chickens...
@@vanessaguimaraes01 no there are. Plenty of places raise chickens and pigs for commercial use. It’s not super common but they exist.
She doesn't look underfed. She looks better fed than people who work. She has too many kids, don't have kids you can't afford.
I know what it's like to be in her shoes. Growing up in New Zealand, my Father was an alcoholic. Each week he had to have his Alcohol first before the Family had anything. My Mum worked, but it wasn't enough - she was trying her best to provide for us (LOVE YOU MUM!) but my Father had sent her to the Supermarket with only $30 per week to feed a family of 6. Don't you pricks in the comment section put this woman down or her Family for not doing enough, or call her a "bludger", "lazy" etc... Because you have NO IDEA what it's like until you have walked in OUR SHOES. 😡
A lot of us do have an idea of how it is. Not everyone is well to do over here in fantasy land.
Dark Jedi $30 there is like $2000 USD right?
I'll never be in those shoes. I'll never have 4 kids knowing that I can't support that many kids. It's called being a responsable adult and taking a freaking pill is all it takes.
+Seductive Styles: exactly! i could somewhat easily afford to have a second child. But neither kid would be going to a private school, nor have private english classes (we're portuguese), nor going to both soccer and chess classes - like my only child does. Because we only have 1 child, we can afford to go abroad on holidays every year. our house is almost paid already (we're in our middle 30s), we'll have money for his college/university, and if either I or my husband happens to lose our jobs, we'll still be confortable for at least 2-3 yrs, without having to change our lifestyle much. In an already over.crowded world, having kids without the means to afforrd them is both selfish and stupid!
Chase Phillips I know what it feels like. My family has 6 kids and one mother. My dad is obsessed with politics and has lived in Africa for 5 years. We were stable before he left because he had a job. But now that he's gone, my family now relies on government loans, or whatever their called. My father has visited two times for a short period of time. He sends us money every once in a while, but it's not enough. We also have a terrible neighbor who frightens us, so it's a tough situation. But, good luck to anyone struggling financially :)
The disrespect in the comments is horrid. Not everyone on the system is lazy and collect checks as it goes. I know people on welfare, and still struggle to take care of their children. There are people who don't abuse the system. Smh.
Clorox Bleach Hey, I see you literally everywhere lol.
Angelz Treasure same XD
Clorox Bleach mr. Bleach almost every video I watch you comment how do you know what I watch
Clorox Bleach should've add "shut up and drink me" as ur last sentence
good trolling clorox!
When you have kids & you’re a single parent or unmarried living separately it’s hard to maintain a job. It’s not that you don’t want one, it’s just that you know your attendance might make you lose your job anyway. The only job that lines up with a child’s schedule is a school teacher. Food stamps, wic, and food banks are definitely necessary. I’m sure many people with opinions never been in these situations or felt like they were “stuck”.
pfft... i lived with a Vietnamese girl she worked 7 days a week ......you will hate this 20k a month....her kids leached it all
@@SnapCracklePip 20k what her kids bought and how many she had
@@SnapCracklePip i mean someones kids are always gonna become before a boyfriend/partner i dont understand this entitled logic.
When ur kids go to school it's hard to find a job 9-3 and what do u do when kids are off unless you can afford daycare
@@keshainmycasa3988 makes sense yeah but damn 20k for the kids?? in 1 month
Let’s be real… With 4 kids she’s getting $12k/year JUST for the child tax credit. She’s getting back pretty much everything she pays in taxes, then a shit ton of money in benefits. This has nothing to do not having enough money, it has to do with bad decisions. Like having 4 kids who you can’t even afford to FEED on your own. Period.
so glad I'm not a person who judges! Stuff happens in life that is unforeseeable, there is point in bitching, you just got to get it done. I hope she pulls through this... xoxo
I judge people and expect the same.
If she had judged the guys in her relationships it's a pretty good chance she wouldn't be in this situation with four kids.
4 different times???
Chet youbetya yes. Just like I'm sure this isn't the first time you comment something so stupid. Move along.
Aww does the truth go over your simple head
@Chet youbetya
It would seem so, wouldn't it? She couldn't refute your statement itself so she decided to attack you personally instead.
Man, a lot of folks commenting on this video would be screwed if you were actually poor.
How do you know a lot of us aren't already poor BUT we didn't choose to have massive expenses--expensive cars, fancy houses, children...? If someone's poor but still decides to have expensive things, they shouldn't complain later and they shouldn't demand others pay for them.
No pfp no opinion
I lived off less than $100 a month for all of my food expenses last year while working as an unpaid intern. It was hard but not impossible, and taught me a lot about how to buy the right groceries and cook food that’s healthy and long lasting. Don’t buy garbage processed food, don’t buy unhealthy things. But fresh veggies, beans and rice.
@@Stellie3341 Thank you! Many of us continued to live the way we did while in college--eating rice, beans, sale vegetables, and virtually no luxuries (or foods that contribute to diseases that require expensive medical visits). We continued to ride our bikes and take public transportation. We continued to shack up, sometimes uncomfortably, with other adults in rooming groups. We lived like we were dirt poor while working and saving a few dollars here and there--only to have more and more of our pittance of a pay taken against our will to fund things we strongly disagree with, like career welfare. I have no pity for people who complain about how hard life is but then decide to shove that hardness on innocent kids' backs while forcing other tax payers to fund their choices.
Or maybe we have been “poor” and didn’t rely on government for help. Instead, we put our big girl pants on and worked our asses off to get to where we are today: financially stable and independent.
How come men will argue that it's her fault she should take responsibility? But the moment it's like that in court there like no it takes a sperm and egg to make a baby that's my baby I want because I have nothing else to love me now.
She just can’t seem to learn her lesson. It’s her fourth kid. Should have gotten the memo already
I feed my family of four on a budget of $400 a month and we eat well. I was kinda disappointed to see her buying name brand items (Aunt Jemima syrup, yogurt with the candies on top, Babybel cheeses, and name brand formula) instead of store brand which saves a ton of money. Heck, I can't afford those name brand items...and we are a working family.
+Roberto LaCraveon thank you for seeing my point this is ridiculous people use the system every chance they get eating good meal name brand food I'm sitting here trying to stretch a dollar
Its not that I have a problem with her on food stamps is where she says $700 is not enough what is she buying three little ones and myself 450 dollars a month on groceries and we eat very well what is she buying that's $700 it's not enough for groceries damn how much does she want 1000
+Jocelyn Paul $700 for 5 people is actually too much. You can buy organic at Whole Foods with that much and still have money left over, the problem is that people like her don't know how to cook , don't bother learning healthy recipes, because they think that people who do eat healthy and exercise are shallow, so they buy the frozen pizzas and burgers and cry about being obese , while living in this Hollywood mentality, that they will never be given the chance of having. She should have stopped at one child, and gone back to school, to become an actual teacher. Also, these obese women are always getting pregnant by anyone who thinks their cute, what happened to just dating and not opening your damn legs. She obviously had enough to pay a babysitter to have sex. SMH
+jeniece grear "Not judge", people who work hard all damn day have the right to judge, she has 4 kids and has the nerve to complain, had she had some morals and self esteem 1st she wouldn't be obese, second she would respect herself enough to get married or have a career at least. I only feel bad for the kids that didn't ask to be here and will sadly repeat the cycle again and again. I'm tired of people complaining about living in bad neighborhoods, but put themselves in those situations, you want a nice neighborhood with healthy supermarkets and no crime ,than go to college , get a career or get 3 jobs and dont have kids till your stable.
august moon Amen tell it like is
I love how she's grateful about the food stamps. Most people complain about how it's not enough.💗wish her the best
Джейсон Хичкок bless you sir for speaking the truth
For a lot of people, it isn't enough.
Only people that get snap will understand another person getting snap. Its hard for a person to Survive. People that received that help don't complain about but it very Difficult to survive with that help.
volz519 yeah I bet! You leeches always want more
Meluca AKA Melissa it’s quite easy to survive actually. As long as you don’t have 4 children from 3 different baby daddy’s
This woman kicks ass!!! She is trying so hard for hers family and for herself… i really respect and admire a woman this strong. Good job mama 💙
In my country, people like her are out in the streets begging everyday. Many countries can't afford welfare programs. Please be grateful for the food stamps!
True. Same in Brazil, americans are spoiled and they will always complain, they dont know what real poverty looks like
@@hugodaniel8975 so what? should everyone suffer? one problem does not diminish the other, you and the original comment need to be considerate.
@@hugodaniel8975 be quite you don't speak for every American
@@floralbeautyful no economic system can save people from their lame choices like having multiple children.
@@Marly123 so many poor people in the streets and they prefered to film this overweight lady hard life
My crazy aunt was right. You need a hidden stash of money
Maybe shes not crazy, what else did she tell you ?
Its Thanos vote republican
@@MrMista-zk6rz
Uhhh, is that good or bad ?
Its Thanos currently good
@@MrMista-zk6rz Your aunt rules
So humble, and all about her kids ... respect women like this
Blue Lion how long did it take for you to type all those hashtags?
Avery umm people can live off of fresh fruit and vegetables and meat XD that’s the only type of food we had until the last century you dumbass XD
Avery but the rest of your argument is pretty valid, also I’m sorry about the dumbass part.
suck on my tookus However she says nothing about child support . Why should we pay this woman who kept company with dead beat fathers
suck on my tookus if she was all about her kids she would have chosen a man that would have stuck around.
I was in the same situation with only 1 kid. And I spent the money to take a cab to the closest Aldi……. Where there’s a will there’s a way… having a husband is pretty necessary.. and I’m glad God blessed me with one…
Some of the comments on here are absolutely ridiculous and completely hateful towards that wonderful mom. I am a single mom to three children I was married to my husband before he decided to up and leave I get no help and I rely on no one but myself. And I now have to rely on food stamps to feed myself and my children. And I have to be very frugal to make sure the bills stay within my income. I am doing what I can being a single mom it's not my fault my kid's Dad decided to up and leave
It just broke my heart when she said it's her own fault. She deserves better from our society, especially being a former teacher's aide. Teachers and farmworkers are the most underappreciated people in this country, in my opinion.
No, she deserves better from the powers that be who ship our jobs to foreign countries and hire illegals and she deserves better from the children's father or fathers seeing as how they helped her bring those children here. We the taxpayers don't owe her or her children anything. We do enough: we pay for WIC, housing, food stamps, child care, education, free/reduced lunches, after school programs, etc....what more do you think the taxpayers should be responsible for? You must be out your damn mind.
+Bloombaby99 Preach!!!!
+Isabelle Gonzales Thank you, LOL. I call it as I see it.
+Bloombaby99 Wow, you really jumped to a conclusion and ran with it. Don't put words in my mouth, please and thank you.
"I buy more healthier stuff"
*Looks at yogurt with m&ms and sprinkles
They probably look at front only. Food companies put stuff like full servings of this, this much fiber bla bla bla. Cereal commercials make parents believe their kids are starting off with a healthy breakfast. When they are eating nothing but sugar. Americans don't really look at the nutrition label and ingredients where the real info is.
Omg 😂😂👏🏽
@@lindavel43 I read labels. I saw the m and m's included with the yogurt too. There are some good cereals out there. If the included fruit instead of junk food to go with the yogurt it would be better.
Well that's available on food stand you snob
Don’t be rude that’s all the money she has and she need so save as muck money as she can
I know things have changed a lot in the last 5 years, but the process is the same. Meal planning. Pick 14 meals your family likes and rotate them every 2 weeks. This way you can plan ahead and always have the ingredients you need. Anything else like snacks are able to be changed according to what fruits and treats are in season or on sale.The key is you have to stop buying convenience foods and cook from scratch. If you are home and not working anyway why can't you do that? Your family may bulk at first, but eventually will come to love it and will be full longer. And healthier. I'm sure school age children of families who get food stamps get free breakfasts and lunches at school so the majority of their food stamps will be spent on dinner, snacks and weekend meals. It is so much easier now to find ways to make your budget work like this by watching youtube videos of people who really have done this. This woman has some great ideas and can help people with a small food budget. She has regular meal plans and recipes and also some for if your budget is running out. If you receive $700 a month for 5 people there is no reason for your children to be hungry. And you do not need to feed them a bunch of starchy, processed, convenience foods. Even people without food stamps can learn a lot to make their food budget work for their family. ua-cam.com/video/7TrTsRoyH_A/v-deo.html
She needs child care support, college support and a coach and she’s gonna do great things
Who gets to pay for that genius? You pay and we will watch you go bankrupt. Her entire life is NOW paid for by those of us who work: Medicaid, Section 8, food stamps, WIC. You drank ALL that Kool-Ade, life coach?
Are you paying?
sounds like most people in these comments just hate poor people?
🤷🏽♂️
I don’t think they hate poor people. I think a lot are upset she went on to have another child after this, now having five with no way of supporting them. And she is not even trying to eat healthy, check out her choices. So there is a lot going on here.
She made stupid choices and is still making stupid choices. My depo shot is $4 every three months.... Kids cost thousands every month. It's coming out of everyone else's paycheck too. Plus, where are the fathers? The government shouldn't be your baby's daddy.
georgelares She’s not lazy..Don’t judge..You don’t know what she or others in her position have and are still going through
No- it’s sad and frustrating to watch people repeat the same pattens of behavior when they know it hasn’t been beneficial to them the first time around. If I’m broke with one kid- I’ll think twice about having a second, 3rd or 4th. She says “it’s my fault- through the choices I made”. She’s saying the same thing. Life lessons.
Lol clearly
I grew up in a household that couldn't afford junk food. Even regular healthy food was hard. It took my mom months of convincing to get me a bag of chips.
Later I learned she used to borrow money and stuff. I have mad respect for my mom.
It's hard dear but were better with out the junk food😉
Dalila Idkmanwhatmysurnameis aight sis you’re mad pretty tbh
You guys could have baked your own chips lol had way more then the bag with two potatoes cut up.
My mom rashioned out chips if we did in a rare instance buy them. 1 bag would last a few days.
you mean crisps not chips.
They’re happy and grateful and don’t have to worry about food tonight for their families. ❤️
My wife works at a supermarket as a second job and sees individuals with food stamps buying cookies cake soda and chips. Food stamps cover fruit and veggies and meat and eggs. The weight issue is not the food stamps it's a lifestyle and choices. Aldi is super cheap place to get veggies or shop the sales
People are allowed to eat what they want. And honestly it's moreso the lax food rules we have in america. Everything is pumped with preservatives and absolute bullshit. If you compare the same food from america vs other countries its astounding what companies are allowed to get away with.
@@LoreEclectic preservatives on fruit and veggies are still better than cookies soda and chips, which are more expensive in the long run. Your comment makes no sense why are you bringing up other countries? But since you bring it up
Americans are obese because of the food choices they make, they prefer eating out and huge portions than a nutritious meal at home.
@@queenminaj901 Actually, studies show that there has been an increase in desire to eat healthy and yet less healthy eating. That just shows that there is a discrepancy in which healthy food is inaccessible. It's not that we're making bad choices, it's that we *have* bad choices. Especially when you're in a situation in which you are in poverty buying food that has a longer shelf life is imperative for your survival. But our food is often shipped across the whole country leaving fruits and veggies with only a few days of shelf life left. There have been multiple times where I went to buy berries from the store only to find that basically all of them have mold. Plus there are places that are food deserts where it would take an hour to get to a small corner store with a small selection and an hour back. Plus there is so much misinformation that we're fed about food with dad diets shoved down ppls throats. We don't even have home ec in school anymore so people are even less prepared
Could they maybe have some classes to TEACH women to cook. That was my issue, i was raised on the same crap she buys...its worthless. I didn't know how to actually cook. My older neighbor (bless her soul) helped me learn to cook with ingredients rather than processed EVERYTHING. It does take more time but you can cook in bulk and put some in the freezer for another meal later. I ended up NOT needing food stamps once i REALLY learned how to cook. Its cheaper...healthier and a better way to feed your family.
I absolutely agree. They should have mandatory home economic classes in high school. I was never taught how to cook healthy or run a home or stuff like that, was taught a bit of budgeting in math class, but i think there are many people who grow up in families like that as well who would benefit from learning it in school.
Mama Bear teach me mama bear make some videos or suggest some please i cook chilli
spaghetti. Pork chops but i want to learn to cook in bulk too
I know duhhhhhh and nobody was asking you tho so what's with the attitude
Michelle Ach they did have home economics but most schools have had to cut out the class due to a lack of funding
amara nicole that’s too bad, hopefully the government will see the need for classes like that to be taught.
Pregnant once is an accident. Pregnant more than that is a CONSCIOUS CHOICE. This tale does not go into how this woman has four children. Maybe she is divorced. Maybe there is a slacking "baby daddy" somewhere. I don't know. But it is clear that NO planning for the future took place here. My mother had four of us, but she had a marketable trade to offer (Nurses Aide before finally getting her RN). I remember both food stamps, and the day she got OFF of food stamps. It's hard, but it can be done.
Maybe there is a "slacking baby daddy"... But that doesn't mean it was her "conscious choice" to be put in that situation. Obviously she doesn't want to be living off of food stamps.. And if she does eventually find a job it would be hard for her to work because she has four children that need to get to school and a very young child who can't be left alone...
Yet many places in America like to advocate against abortion. This is the result people! For example, she could have not wanted the child but also might have been living in a state where it is outlawed, Birth control is not 100% and abstinence is cruel to human nature. Let's not judge women for having abortions or making the decision of having the child. Both are not black and white decisions and the woman usually picks what is best and available to her. Let's just respect their choices help them raise the future for your (I'm in the UK) country and provide women with better reproductive health care.
to.quick to judge. she could have been married we don't know.
And I'm the story it said she lost her job As a teachers aide. You act like she was just sitting there and having kids and not working
She had a job...
I hope they one day see this video as they have gotten older and start or magnify such a deep love and respect for their mom… at those ages they don’t know their mom is a luxury, making it happen everyday for them. Man if your mom is still here & went to war and h*ll and back just to protect you plz hug her and love on her. ❤⭐️ they’re real superhero’s & superstars.
Frozen fruit and veggies last longer. Prayers. You are so strong. Holding it all together.
You really can feed a family on a $760 / month FS budget. But you have to plan carefully. I have 5 adults in my family and I spend less than that for a whole month. We eat very well. You have to make everything from scratch. And you can't waste a single penny on snacks or chips, or prepared foods or soda. You drink lots of water, which is better for you anyway. You eat oatmeal for breakfast. And you eat tons of eggs, beans and rice. Fruit is always the cheapest that is in season. The truth is that people today DO NOT know what it means to make everything from scratch. They think that means hamburger helper or Marie C. Frozen entrees. You have to do mainly once-a-month shopping except for milk and bread. And you don't deviate from the plan, unless you get something free or next to free.
So true. I could even make bread from scratch. And we had treats, all baked from scratch. But your right, they do not know how. And it’s sad
Wow! That's amazing! I spend about $500 a month for my family of 4
Pixe - The difference is, you aren't lazy and most of these welfare moms that pump out kid after kid ARE lazy. They eat pop and chips all day and the only exercise they get is in the act of 'making the baby'.
Michael R. Your an ass
@@michaelr.4878 Interesting outlook. Is it possible that this young lady was never taught how to cook from scratch or stretch her groceries? This woman loads ALL 4 of her children up on the public bus to go buy food. A lazy mother would leave the children at home unattended. I agree that she needs to find different ways to make the food last. But to just talk so negatively about her is really shameful. You are the problem with society. You'd rather kick someone when they are down rather than help them by pointing them in the right direction to go. God bless you.
As a resident of CT who also receives food stamps, I sympathize with her. I work full time and I still can't afford to buy groceries. I don't have kids to support but I have bills that have to come first. It's awful to say that I have to put a human necessity last in order to pay rent, car, cell phone, insurance etc. I don't have help other than SNAP. It angers me when I see people saying that we should get a government mandated "box of food" per month, it upsets me when cashiers see my EBT card and give me the look that us food stamp receivers know oh so well. The "you're using tax payer money" argument is invalid because I too pay taxes lol. I pay them every single week. Living in this state is rough and it's expensive. The fact that full time money can't sustain people is ludicrous. People judge without knowing the circumstance. Keep pushing girl, you'll make it. ♡
A car and a phone aren’t necessities
I work full time and live extremely frugally but have never taken a single government benefit. Think about what those cashiers feel in anger when you come in and pay for something with THEIR tax money. Heres an idea, work harder? Get a new job?
Kylea Michele ok.... that’s you though and a low percentage , do you know how many people there are that won’t get a job and just have kids to get food stamps then half the time sell them?
As a resident of the same state. When I worked retail. I cashed people out on EBT who bought candy and energy drinks. Those aren't needed. I also cashed people out who bought a soda on EBT then SOMEHOW took cash out on the EBT card like a debit card and bought cigarettes. I don't think that EVERYONE who gets help is like that but I feel like there should be some way to prevent that.
Gavin Lee A phone is a necessity if that’s the only means of communication between yourself and your job, as well if you have an emergency. Healthcare insurance is a necessity if you have medical problems in order to treat your medical problems and you’re required by law to have your own healthcare policy or your employer has to offer it to you and car insurance is a necessity if you need a car in order to drive to work as most states require you to carry at least liability insurance on a vehicle in order to operate it. Do you live in your Mom’s basement? Because you obviously have no real concept of what things cost and what’s required by law. Quit belittling her for only using SNAP at least she does have a job and works and doesn’t sit on her ass.
Thank God Amazon accepts EBT cards. It made healthy foods inexpensive to order and ship to your house. Perfect for quarantine months of 2020.
Those kids are lovely, keep strong ma'am you'll be better.
I like watching things like this so it motivates me to push harder in my schooling so after college I will get a good paying job and I won’t have to rely on anyone ever
I am not in the States, but I earned a degree and then discovered there were no jobs available in my area. So it isn't always a guarantee.
@@alisonclark1424 totally agree, there are people that have college degree and unemployed and there are also people that I know that don't have a college degree but have their own company and more money that someone with a college degree. It's great to have a college degree but it's not 100% secure that you are going to always be successful just by having a degree.
or you know, don't have kids until your'e financially responsible.
@@almanino4911 it's not always on being financially ready its a lot on being mentally ready too having money in the USA isn't always enough you get taxed on everything and anything.
Same
Michael Jackson said it best "If you can't feed a baby, don't have a baby"
Maybe she was raped ? Maybe she had a boyfriend or husband and maybe he passed away ? or isn't in the picture anymore.
+TheBookWorm1718 he also Fucked them.Guilt money
+TheBookWorm1718 here's a theory, if I bust my ass 5-6 days a week for my $20 Starbucks, then so be it. sorry I am working so hard.
In the beginning they said she had a stable job. A teacher's assistant. To be a teachers assistant you have to have some sort of certificate or college degree. Sounds like she had it going for her until the rug got pulled out from under her.
+Jasmine Singleton Then why didn't she mentioned any of that? So from this angle, it looks like she was irresponsible and the tqxpayers are footing the bill.
'i look for fruits and vegetables that look like they might last longer"
My mom told me you don't want the bananas that are gonna be yellow and big you want the smaller ones that are green
What I see in common in all these stories is the lack of a father doing his share in being responsible for their kids financially.We have one of those in our family who has never financially supported his daughter and thinks he is a great dad because he takes her to the park a few times a year.
my best advice for this mother is to stop buying them yogurts and just buy fresh fruit (make smoothies and fruit ice cream and serve) them yougurts and lil bagged and frozen boxed stuff adds uppp! i know! im working with a $60 weekly grocery budget for 2 adults and 2 toddlers no SNAP no WIC No kind of assistance. we work with what we have. buy bulk beans lentils potatoes greens oats rice nuts veggies veggies veggies. avoid canned, bagged, drozen goods.
EXACTLY. She will lose the weight too.
A B damn crull
How the hell she gonna make a smoothie? Blenders are out of the budget I bet. At the age her kids are at, it'll be hard to transition them from sugary, yummy boxed meals to beans and lentils.
I'm not saying that the diet is correct, I'm just saying that life is already hard for her -- no need to make things harder.
Jessica Ly Your comment is why I pushed fruit for my daughter before anything else. It's an uphill battle living with others who will give her junk and then that's all she'll want. I'm constantly trying to give her fruits, veggie juice, water, PB&J, oatmeal, potato hash, mushroom tacos, pasta with hidden veggies and more. When I knew my temp job was about to end, I invested in a blender, juicer, spice grinder, spiralizer and hand mixer. It has helped me make healthy cheap meals. I have also introduce more vegan meals because its cheaper, more nutritious and helps with weighy loss. She just needs help being reeducated on food. What to buy and how to cook it.
Madam Emilia-Lopez fruits are expensive and won't last while yogurts will
"Food is too expensive!"
*looks at 20 candy yogurt cups in the fridge*
Gee, I wonder why the money goes so fast.
Candice Adams Exactly.
Sometimes you got to get a treat to keep your kids happy and not feel left out. It's for her kids happiness. You wouldn't know unless you're a parent who's been in a situation like this.
@@ssc3001 I didn't get candy every day as a kid and I was still happy. If she was trying to be as frugal as she let on she could buy a tub of yogurt and a bag of m&ms instead of that prepackaged junk.
Candice Adams I know but maybe she didn't get that idea, and probably isn't feeding them that stuff everyday...idk I'm just trying to look for the best in her
What is wrong with wanting to have candies and some junk food even if you're on budget to make yourself and kids happy and have some treat? People are being so fucking mean to her in the comments instead of understanding her situation. I really wish they had disabled the comments on this video.
God love this woman. I hope she found the work and help she needed
I've been a pro at working 2 jobs at 17 also while in highschool, your mindset and tongue is so powerful so I'll never say to myself I'll struggle.
Not everybody can do that, even if they say good things.
I was on food stamps for 6 months , I didn’t have a job , until I got a job I repirted my income and lasted on food stamps for 6 months and saved enough to move in with my sister and brother , Im glad they have these assistance because I was grateful they helped me out, im thankful now I can afford my own food and place
Where are these “baby daddies”. It’s a shame.
Maybe it’s not baby daddies it doesn’t have to be a “baby daddies” case 🙄
Plus you don’t even know her stop assuming shit
@@Cyclist777 no
@@brii2743 What are you talking about. If she had multiple children by different men, and was never married, then it is a “baby daddies” situation.
Not judging, but you have to call it what it is.
@Annette B not something to be proud of.... My family lives on em’ 65%
She needs to haul the kids father's into court cause it sounds to me like like their not doing their part
She is a clever mum who understads nutrition .Her kids look healthy.
As much as I hate to say this... having kids especially 4 is a choice.
Well she has five now
You sound stupid as fuck what about women who were raped was that a chose did thay chose to get raped and get pregnant like shut your dumb ass up
@@soliderforthepeople1229 she wasn't raped five times. It's logic. 9 times outta ten she had unprotected sex.
I kinda agree with this. Honestly people are just stupid and don't think about the future. She was a teaching assistant she was not making a whole lot of money espicially not enough to really take care of 4 children. I doubt she purposely had that all those kids but now she stuck in her situation and needs to do better for her kids.
@@shereeseF99 she's Reckless and probably has multiple baby daddies
Mercedes need a car so see can drive out that neighborhood. Those corner stores rape you on prices.
she probs cant afford gas
i wish these sperm donaters would step up...
She's doing a great job raising her kids. Maybe she can find like a Save-a-lot of an Aldi store to help her save money on food. May God provide her and her family with more than enough continually. May everyone have more than enough continually. Blessings. And God alone be all thanks for this. Hallelujah!!!
She said being a single mother of four kids with a smile, she knows she's strong. She's a beautiful mother... I just hope she is doing well now and that her baby's smiling face has continued to get her through.
This makes you realize how lucky you really are
Her luck seems really great - nice big 🏡, $726 for food , her having kids she can't afford and she doing better than those who are honest, responsible.
you are out of your damn mind, hard work isn't luck. if anybody is lucky it's her lazy poor begging ass for being able to take advantage of government programs to live free and not work. I work hard to have my own house and possessions and on top of that i have to pay taxes so people like her can live without working and cry about it.
@@smorcsavage9234Exactly , People like us work hard to make a living tehn our tax money goes to this disgusting useless trash that are to lazy to work and depend on the government to feed the kids .