FAVOR NEEDED. For those who are not aware, we started doing more story telling content. Can you check it out and let us know your thoughts: ua-cam.com/video/oJJbBMrAOqM/v-deo.html. We feel stories could be the next powerful ways for us to bring more awareness to situations that impact our mental wellness.
You're doing great on your storytelling strategy! I have inattentive ADHD, ASD as a result of my premature birth and depression, so that's why I am learning about mental health, love (self and others), friendships, relationships, and boundaries for myself. Thank you @Psych2go😊
Here's another thing though, sometimes you can't do anything about a situation. There's no treatment to reverse loss of cognitive ability or grey matter loss from side effects of treatment using antidepressants combined with antipsychotics like Seroquel for depression without psychotic features when misdiagnosed because a psychiatrist was in a rush. Happened to me and the objective reality is that without intelligence I was assured I wouldn't lose, I don't have anything special to draw people in like I could before to actually have an opportunity for a partner while doing my own things like I had as a goal since being a child, not anymore than potentially being a friend if they don't get annoyed by me being slow and lacking perception.
Never tolerate disrespect, however don’t disrespect others without provocation. One must respect others & oneself, but stand up for yourself when necessary, without fear
"Respect your efforts, respect yourself. Self-respect leads to self-discipline. When you have both firmly under your belt, that’s real power." - Clint Eastwood
This was really helpful for me at the moment. My Honours Supervisor Professor has a habit of being overly harsh and a bit too 'familiar' with me. He is older and I am a female. My intuition is saying there is something a bit 'off' with his behaviour, but nothing that some stronger boundaries won't remedy. Thank you Psych2go 🙏💖
Timestamps 1). Disrespectful or abusive behaviour 0:36 2). Manipulation and control 1:31 3). Dishonesty and betrayal 2:56 Hope this helps you out. Hope you have a nice day. Sorry this is so late. 💙💙💙💙💙💙
Henry Cloud wrote in one of his books that no is a complete sentence that doesn't have to be explained. I often have to remind myself of that when my family tries to talk me into doing something for them.
I self respect myself by going off on people who think they talk to me stupid.. I live in Texas and these are rude...now I'm not mean or pettu at the most part.. but I will take a stand
If you 'feel' disrespected by someone, ask yourself who is that person? Do they even respect themselves? "How can you feel disrespected when that person can't even respect themselves" - Unknown (from comment section Jocko Willink podcast, on the topic of alcoholics). Note that there is a difference between feeling disrespected and being disrespected (or experiencing behavior of), a feeling is neither right or wrong and it's your choice only how to deal with it. Don't waste your energy on those who want to make you feel bad. Remember: those who want to pull you down are already below you.
Hey & My Mother has been such a bully like towards me too like also in fact that I haven't got a chance to get on with her at all. Just quite literally because she has been very harsh towards me & even as well by being so judgemental/manipulative towards me due, with my "high" functioning mild autism that I was actually born with in real life too indeed. But the very saddest truth is that I don't love my mom at all as a person in my most very beautiful lovely gorgeous brown eyes just literally because she does tend to provokes me, or by criticizing, & even as well by actually trying to belittle all of my dreams in a very negative & a very unhealthy ways too sweetie. Like also in fact that I wasn't not actually allowed to make messes & even by making all of those types small mistakes too as well indeed. And so that also explains why that I haven't been able to reach out my mom on the phone just literally because she has over crossed the line with me for the final of the #14 strikes in total that she really pulled on me like in real life too sweetie. Like ever since when I was an 8 year old little girl like in fact about the whole incident that has happened to me like ever since when it was on October 31st which in the year of 2008 just quite literally just until like in the the month of September which was actually on the 22nd like in the year of 2022 too as well sweetie. Like did also it did involves by invading my very own personal space, & even as well by taking away all of my personal belongings that I had specifically brought with my very hard-working money too by placing in the trash without my permission repeatedly. My mom does not tend to do those types of wicked stuff like towards my two siblings which are her two other grown-up children's of course just like that she would always do that to me like pretty much too indeed. Like also in fact that I am such a very loving, kind, caring, gentle & a very passionate human being that does not deserve to be treated that way like even too as well that it is also not my obligated to sit there just to literally take that all of those types of toxic abuse/behaviors from my mother just literally because I am also just a very highly sensitive person too sweetie. And plus I am also going to be getting myself a new job & so this way that I could move out from the toxic environment away from my very disgraceful mother too immediately. Just literally because every child at any age does not deserve to be treated that way like in fact that she could of also approached to me like in a different type of response like that involves by helping me with organizing my bedroom properly but in a very positive ways with a lot of praises & even with a lot of great encouragements like in fact that my mom should of also been more very gentle & very patient with me like did involved by also taking right over to the mall by actually getting some items for what exactly that I needed for my bedroom too as well indeed. But instead of actually by going things & even doing a lot of negative things in a very wrong way like towards me like that did involved by yelling directly 😤😠😡😞😭😢💔 💔💔💔at me right in front of my very beautiful lovely gorgeous face & even as well by taking all of my personal belongings that I have specifically brought with my very hard-working money once again by placing them in the trash without my permission repeatedly. And plus I am also the middle born child out of my two siblings which is my one older brother who is actually two years apart from me & I even do have one sister who is actually five years younger than me too also in adulthood too indeed. I am also very extremely proud of myself for staying strong 💪🏽 & a very most beautiful lovely wise upbringing, mature young girl/lady for all those types of pains that I ever had to go through like pretty much my whole entire life like for over the past 15 years now. Like also in fact that I am officially 23 years old now like also in fact that my birthday was just on Wednesday August 9th which is actually of this most beautiful lovely current year of 2023 just quite literally because that I was actually born in the year of 2000 to in real life too as well indeed. And plus I did found this video very interesting for me to watch today. Thank you so much for sharing this very Excellent comment to my very sweet loving kind friend. sending you a very big nice warm hug 🤗 from your very sweetest loving kind sister friend Chaleika. 🌸🌸🥀🌸🌸🥀🌸🌸🥀🌸🌸🥀🌸🌸🥀🌸🌸🥀🌸🌸🥀🌸🌸
More needs to be done to stop child abuse and neglect, I wouldn't even know where to begin. Often it is the people that can help the most that choose to keep it quiet!
This is why I have to terminate everything with toxic people and those who have wronged me in the past (especially some of those former high school and grade school classmates of mine who bullied me). People keep telling me that I am too sensitive, emotional and I have to ignore those who tease or wronged me. Because of this, I am just not talking to them (yet, I am judged for that again). I was also told that they have changed. I know, but still, I have to keep them away from my life. To them: Why am I acting like that now? Because I used to be that person who reacts a lot to insults. You told me to ignore them? I am just doing what you told me to do, now you're gonna judge me? So be it.
Healing is not a linear path, but overall I feel better now that I cut ties with narcissists and other toxic people. I only want to share my time and passions with kind and genuine people. :3
My trust in someone was shattered recently. I was friends with this person for 3 years. I really thought we could trust each other. He did eventually betray me. Stabbed me in the back. I just can't seem to get over it. It's so painful. I loved this person very much... I just still can't believe it. It's really made me not want to trust others. I feel I may never trust again.
GOOD MORNING MY FRIENDS AND KNOW FAMILY, THIS TOPIC IS MY MOTHER, SHE'S VERY TOXIC, WELL I HAVE TO GO BACK TO LAY DOWN SO I CAN GET UP AND GO OUT TO KEEP AWAY FROM MY TOXIC MOTHER. TEE 💯🙏💙💪
I wish someone have told me these things in my teenage.. My life would be better.. Less trauma and trust issues.. I am sure i m a much better person now... But the past wounds hold me back...low self esteem and desperate for love and affection ruined my mental health totally..
I love the new intro, and thanks for the video. Although, this video talks more about betrayal, manipulation and abusive behavior than respect. Still great!
i never experienced abuse or disrespect- i did that to myself for absolutely no reason for over 8 years back in childhood and continued, after the primary damage was done, until now. i basically managed on my own to delete every bit of selfrespect and selfhonor. it all depends (cuz of my systematic thinking and processing) on external values. if i dont see myself reaching those set values (high selfexpectations), then thats quite bad for my emotional wellbeing. i recently discovered/came to the conclusion, that my broken self wont ever accept help from not accepted sources. those sources are real psychotherapists, my parents or family, coworkers and so on. no its rather a very strange and unrealistic type of person which is improbable to ever come accross me. therefore, no help. the kind of help i assigned for myself as positive would be seen by anyone else as selfdestructive and negative. so yea...thanks for the video..i guess?
Im no expert but Im going to assume that abuse isn't the only way to one's own lack of self respect. Disabilities for example, I've done plenty of beating myself up over mental illness issues. Im sure there are more reasons.
Everyone needs to be able to have a true friend. Been struggling about the same time as you. It doesn't get better but it gets easier as you learn to make the most of your own day and your own experiences. And keep onto hope and faith and strike at any opportunities.
#Psych2go can you do a video about signs that someone is trying to overstep your boundaries? Keep up the amazing work, all the staff and animators at Psych2go!
Things we don't tolerate, you ask ? Well... imposed pace. When being lucky enough to do something on my own, I don't tolerate being forced to use someone else's speed. I mean, if it involves stakes that for some reasons demand a specific time and speed, basically if there are good reasons to rush, well I'll do it, I will adapt for the time being. But without such stakes, if you want me to do something for you, just explain the task (clearly, please), give me the delivery time you want, and get out of my way. If I can't do it, I'll tell you right away. And it may even be a matter of negociation, but in the end, I am sole responsible for managing my time and I intend to stay that way. I don't go around imposing my own pace on people, this is disrespectful. So I expect this to be reciprocated.
I wish I had more self respect. Tonight I've been told to "f*ckin shut up" when I was talking about our relationship issue with my boyfriend who has adhd. He then backtracked and said he was saying it to himself even though I was the only one talking. He's told me to "Go to h*ll" before then back tracked and said he wasn't saying it to me...."It's a phrase" I've never heard it being used as a random "phrase" before. 😔 feeling so upset tonight.
I feel like my family and friendship group is eroding. I can’t connect with them anymore. I feel they don’t have my best interests in mind. I have been focusing more on myself and looking inward and trying to better myself. I’m not sure where to turn to other than inward and I get so confused. The end of the video makes me sad as it suggests finding people to connect with that value you, but I am missing this element in my life. I don’t want to wallow in my own pity. I help others. I journal. I do art. Yet, I feel unfulfilled.
I totally get it for I also yet lack the human element ,But I think it may be because they are toxic, I thought for 20years that my family was amazing until I started to see that this was merely the trauma bond and the con conditioning. You are doing great NOW I think It's not about humans but about you healing start with you. Yes it may be hard to do it alone while surround with toxic people But we have to be our support and heal until we can choose the right support.
I watch this as I'm picked on in school because I dress differently, idk what to do when school starts again, I maybe will be able to change school after a while but it's unclear, what should I do?
Hey, I really like your videos!❤ I find them very interesting and helpful! Can you please do one on help with sexual abuse and with nobody believes you and somebody else is getting abused by the same person and you don’t know how to say no or get help? It would mean a lot to me if this video was made. Thank you for making these videos!Keep up the good work!❤
This is hard to say but I have a friend that I like but my other friend does to and I get sad or mad because I feel like he’s going to get the person I like and I just get anxiety then I get really sad because I think she likes me and him but if she does like him should I give up trying to get her or should I not stop? By the way I’m tired so if I messed up grammar that’s why
I'm unwilling to deal with some ableist stuff after a point (I have Autism and Epilepsy, but most people I only inform on the Epilepsy. I get if people make a mistake and joke about Autism around me since they normally don't know, but I draw the line, at certain things Epilepsy related, like not taking some Accommodations in account when they make logical sense). Literally why I quit Walmart and got petty revenge via Malicious Compliance. Worst Personal Manager Ever.
Self diagnosed here. Would you agree that being on the spectrum has lessened your self respect? Most times I feel that I am too akward to be around people and Im constantly judging myself. Edit: hellmart sounds like a nightmare of a job.
@@KatiTheButcher I was diagnosed at 2 & 1/2 for the Autism. If anything, I think it may have lessened my respect towards most of humanity instead. This is probably because I don't know what it's like without being diagnosed. Sure, I might be overly perfectionistic on some things for myself, but that's something motivating in some ways. If anything, not having people understand what Autism is, (to the point that some people have tried to ask "that classic vaccine question" (which I would to slap some sense into someone over), is more likely to ask if the person asking is an idiot. And some jobs at Walmart are worse than others, Digital Shopping is a decent department with benefits, where my cross-referencing ability is actually super-useful (as I said - the issue was Personal for that). The Apparel department is the worst one in the store for me there.
@@KatiTheButcher Sure, I may judge myself too, but when people have literally labeled people like yourself with a Puzzle Piece for almost your entire life (note: I'm 31 here) - it can be hard to respect many Neurotypicals unintentionally labelling you as "missing something that makes you like them". Seriously, "Saw" (the original movie), actually got it right on what idea that puzzle piece has to it. They may have used it for the dead victims of a serial killer to represent the "lack of will to survive", but for those of Autism, I'd say that's the NTs representing our sometimes lacking social skills. And doing that while we're alive like that is pretty degrading.
I think I am an introvert, but I love being around people and I get extremely bored fast during quiet/alone time. Is anyone else like this or could that just be my ADHD?
@@Psych2go I was so fast to click on the video- and yes I currently talk to a professional. I would like to add that you are a great UA-camr and keep doing great!
FAVOR NEEDED. For those who are not aware, we started doing more story telling content. Can you check it out and let us know your thoughts: ua-cam.com/video/oJJbBMrAOqM/v-deo.html. We feel stories could be the next powerful ways for us to bring more awareness to situations that impact our mental wellness.
Hi
Hi
I was the first so reply!
You're doing great on your storytelling strategy! I have inattentive ADHD, ASD as a result of my premature birth and depression, so that's why I am learning about mental health, love (self and others), friendships, relationships, and boundaries for myself. Thank you @Psych2go😊
Story telling, I can see working on this channel, BUT PLEASE DONT TELL FAKE STORYS Xd
1: Disrespectful or abusive behavior 0:36
2: Manipulation and control 1:32
3: Dishonesty and betrayal 2:58
Thank you
@@Thehjhhhhhggttyg No problem
So helpful! Thank you for the time stamps!
@@Psych2go thank you for your videos
@@Psych2go Can you put the time stamps in the description, please?
“Discontent, blaming, complaining, self-pity cannot serve as a foundation for a good future, no matter how much effort you make.” -Eckhart Tolle
Thank you for sharing the quote with us.
THANK YOU
exactly opposite to a certain political ideology. nice
Here's another thing though, sometimes you can't do anything about a situation. There's no treatment to reverse loss of cognitive ability or grey matter loss from side effects of treatment using antidepressants combined with antipsychotics like Seroquel for depression without psychotic features when misdiagnosed because a psychiatrist was in a rush.
Happened to me and the objective reality is that without intelligence I was assured I wouldn't lose, I don't have anything special to draw people in like I could before to actually have an opportunity for a partner while doing my own things like I had as a goal since being a child, not anymore than potentially being a friend if they don't get annoyed by me being slow and lacking perception.
@@Dm3qXY which political ideology are you referring to?
_I make no space for bullies…_
_I spare no time for narcissists…_
_I disregard the word of liars…_
“We’re respecting, even if someone is picking on you no matter if you’re hated or popular or picked on.”
Self evidently an abuser has NO respect whatsoever for their victims
Never tolerate disrespect, however don’t disrespect others without provocation. One must respect others & oneself, but stand up for yourself when necessary, without fear
YES! Absolutely!
If you fear, pennywise will come.
@@DryEtherhaha oh my gosh. 😂
💯
"Respect your efforts, respect yourself. Self-respect leads to self-discipline. When you have both firmly under your belt, that’s real power."
- Clint Eastwood
"One of the most important aspects of self-respect is setting boundaries".
This is probably the one of the smartest things ever.
This was really helpful for me at the moment. My Honours Supervisor Professor has a habit of being overly harsh and a bit too 'familiar' with me. He is older and I am a female. My intuition is saying there is something a bit 'off' with his behaviour, but nothing that some stronger boundaries won't remedy. Thank you Psych2go 🙏💖
3 videos today, and 2 videos last Monday. Psych2go just made a huge comeback and I respect that 👏👏.
We're coming back strong 💪😤💪 Thanks for noticing!
@@Psych2go no problem. It is always good to see UA-camrs come back strong.
Timestamps
1). Disrespectful or abusive behaviour 0:36
2). Manipulation and control 1:31
3). Dishonesty and betrayal 2:56
Hope this helps you out. Hope you have a nice day. Sorry this is so late. 💙💙💙💙💙💙
Henry Cloud wrote in one of his books that no is a complete sentence that doesn't have to be explained. I often have to remind myself of that when my family tries to talk me into doing something for them.
"Respect yourself, don't regret yourself."
*-ME.*
I self respect myself by going off on people who think they talk to me stupid.. I live in Texas and these are rude...now I'm not mean or pettu at the most part.. but I will take a stand
If you 'feel' disrespected by someone, ask yourself who is that person? Do they even respect themselves?
"How can you feel disrespected when that person can't even respect themselves" - Unknown (from comment section Jocko Willink podcast, on the topic of alcoholics).
Note that there is a difference between feeling disrespected and being disrespected (or experiencing behavior of), a feeling is neither right or wrong and it's your choice only how to deal with it. Don't waste your energy on those who want to make you feel bad. Remember: those who want to pull you down are already below you.
Hey & My Mother has been such a bully like towards me too like also in fact that I haven't got a chance to get on with her at all. Just quite literally because she has been very harsh towards me & even as well by being so judgemental/manipulative towards me due, with my "high" functioning mild autism that I was actually born with in real life too indeed. But the very saddest truth is that I don't love my mom at all as a person in my most very beautiful lovely gorgeous brown eyes just literally because she does tend to provokes me, or by criticizing, & even as well by actually trying to belittle all of my dreams in a very negative & a very unhealthy ways too sweetie. Like also in fact that I wasn't not actually allowed to make messes & even by making all of those types small mistakes too as well indeed. And so that also explains why that I haven't been able to reach out my mom on the phone just literally because she has over crossed the line with me for the final of the #14 strikes in total that she really pulled on me like in real life too sweetie. Like ever since when I was an 8 year old little girl like in fact about the whole incident that has happened to me like ever since when it was on October 31st which in the year of 2008 just quite literally just until like in the the month of September which was actually on the 22nd like in the year of 2022 too as well sweetie. Like did also it did involves by invading my very own personal space, & even as well by taking away all of my personal belongings that I had specifically brought with my very hard-working money too by placing in the trash without my permission repeatedly. My mom does not tend to do those types of wicked stuff like towards my two siblings which are her two other grown-up children's of course just like that she would always do that to me like pretty much too indeed. Like also in fact that I am such a very loving, kind, caring, gentle & a very passionate human being that does not deserve to be treated that way like even too as well that it is also not my obligated to sit there just to literally take that all of those types of toxic abuse/behaviors from my mother just literally because I am also just a very highly sensitive person too sweetie. And plus I am also going to be getting myself a new job & so this way that I could move out from the toxic environment away from my very disgraceful mother too immediately. Just literally because every child at any age does not deserve to be treated that way like in fact that she could of also approached to me like in a different type of response like that involves by helping me with organizing my bedroom properly but in a very positive ways with a lot of praises & even with a lot of great encouragements like in fact that my mom should of also been more very gentle & very patient with me like did involved by also taking right over to the mall by actually getting some items for what exactly that I needed for my bedroom too as well indeed. But instead of actually by going things & even doing a lot of negative things in a very wrong way like towards me like that did involved by yelling directly 😤😠😡😞😭😢💔 💔💔💔at me right in front of my very beautiful lovely gorgeous face & even as well by taking all of my personal belongings that I have specifically brought with my very hard-working money once again by placing them in the trash without my permission repeatedly. And plus I am also the middle born child out of my two siblings which is my one older brother who is actually two years apart from me & I even do have one sister who is actually five years younger than me too also in adulthood too indeed. I am also very extremely proud of myself for staying strong 💪🏽 & a very most beautiful lovely wise upbringing, mature young girl/lady for all those types of pains that I ever had to go through like pretty much my whole entire life like for over the past 15 years now. Like also in fact that I am officially 23 years old now like also in fact that my birthday was just on Wednesday August 9th which is actually of this most beautiful lovely current year of 2023 just quite literally because that I was actually born in the year of 2000 to in real life too as well indeed. And plus I did found this video very interesting for me to watch today. Thank you so much for sharing this very Excellent comment to my very sweet loving kind friend. sending you a very big nice warm hug 🤗 from your very sweetest loving kind sister friend Chaleika. 🌸🌸🥀🌸🌸🥀🌸🌸🥀🌸🌸🥀🌸🌸🥀🌸🌸🥀🌸🌸🥀🌸🌸
tysm for this i needed this today ppl have been pushing me around for so long so ill stand up to myself today
More needs to be done to stop child abuse and neglect, I wouldn't even know where to begin. Often it is the people that can help the most that choose to keep it quiet!
You deserve to be treated better than you are currently being treated (badly!) You are awesome and deserve it! ❤
Trust is hard to find once its been blown up , eventually its leaves nothing but dust . Always there loss not mine I feel .. ❤❤
This is why I have to terminate everything with toxic people and those who have wronged me in the past (especially some of those former high school and grade school classmates of mine who bullied me). People keep telling me that I am too sensitive, emotional and I have to ignore those who tease or wronged me. Because of this, I am just not talking to them (yet, I am judged for that again). I was also told that they have changed. I know, but still, I have to keep them away from my life.
To them: Why am I acting like that now? Because I used to be that person who reacts a lot to insults. You told me to ignore them? I am just doing what you told me to do, now you're gonna judge me? So be it.
2:08 Nice reference, really fitting given the context.
I have a anxiety attack every month and
a lot at school this helps me a lot ty ❤
Thank you for the kind words. Anxiety attacks can be really tough.. have you had a chance to speak with a counselor at school?
I love how these videos are always great for deaf people, too
Healing is not a linear path, but overall I feel better now that I cut ties with narcissists and other toxic people. I only want to share my time and passions with kind and genuine people. :3
if someone wants to rip you away from your friends and family, then that person doesn't accept what's important to you.
My trust in someone was shattered recently. I was friends with this person for 3 years. I really thought we could trust each other. He did eventually betray me. Stabbed me in the back. I just can't seem to get over it. It's so painful. I loved this person very much... I just still can't believe it. It's really made me not want to trust others. I feel I may never trust again.
Dishonesty and manipulation are things I refuse to tolerate.
Tommy and Wilbur reference was so real for manipulation
Thank you for this❤️
A lot of the people I'm related to are stuck in a cycle of abuse and lack of self-respect.
I hate when I'm lied to or when I tell someone to stop or don't do that and they do the opposite.
What do you do in that situation? Do you leave them? I don't what to do with my friends they hit me and there never kind
@@ballsthatsmell idk
Thank you psych2go for all these things and be positive
God bless everyone and have a good day. .
Thank you❤ God bless you to
@@RainaWilkins ❤️ thanks
2:07 Makima from Chainsaw Man!
(Also a very appropriate example in the topic of manipulation)
I love that I discovered this channel ❤️
Me to. I would be going through depression alone without help otherwise.
Experienced all 3
GOOD MORNING MY FRIENDS AND KNOW FAMILY, THIS TOPIC IS MY MOTHER, SHE'S VERY TOXIC, WELL I HAVE TO GO BACK TO LAY DOWN SO I CAN GET UP AND GO OUT TO KEEP AWAY FROM MY TOXIC MOTHER. TEE 💯🙏💙💪
Thank you so much for the video! ❤
I love all the references with this animator!!
I wish someone have told me these things in my teenage.. My life would be better.. Less trauma and trust issues.. I am sure i m a much better person now... But the past wounds hold me back...low self esteem and desperate for love and affection ruined my mental health totally..
I love the new intro, and thanks for the video. Although, this video talks more about betrayal, manipulation and abusive behavior than respect. Still great!
I was cyber harassed today for no reason but this video made me feel better a little..
Sorry to hear that... Cyberbullying is not okay under any circumstance. Are you doing okay?
@@Psych2go yeah I’m ok now, thx
y'all are my fav UA-cam channel🫶🫶
Awww thank you for the kind words! What kind of content do you mainly watch from our channel?
Playing Pokémon Crystal/ using self deprecating humor for the 90th time: wait wait, click video. CLICK VIDEO.
Thank Psych2Go so much 😘😊. You make my life brighter
Love opening picture❤
I never accept disrespect from others. No Serial Killer.
Amazing tips!
Is it a good thing that I would go to the very end to defend my self or is that just my fight or flight system
i never experienced abuse or disrespect-
i did that to myself for absolutely no reason for over 8 years back in childhood and continued, after the primary damage was done, until now.
i basically managed on my own to delete every bit of selfrespect and selfhonor.
it all depends (cuz of my systematic thinking and processing) on external values.
if i dont see myself reaching those set values (high selfexpectations), then thats quite bad for my emotional wellbeing.
i recently discovered/came to the conclusion, that my broken self wont ever accept help from not accepted sources. those sources are real psychotherapists, my parents or family, coworkers and so on.
no its rather a very strange and unrealistic type of person which is improbable to ever come accross me. therefore, no help.
the kind of help i assigned for myself as positive would be seen by anyone else as selfdestructive and negative.
so yea...thanks for the video..i guess?
Im no expert but Im going to assume that abuse isn't the only way to one's own lack of self respect. Disabilities for example, I've done plenty of beating myself up over mental illness issues. Im sure there are more reasons.
Everyone needs to be able to have a true friend. Been struggling about the same time as you. It doesn't get better but it gets easier as you learn to make the most of your own day and your own experiences. And keep onto hope and faith and strike at any opportunities.
I don’t always catch disrespect. I try. I’m not perfect and I hate phytogo.
This explains my resentment.
woooow first person in 1 second this was a amzing video thanks ☺
#Psych2go can you do a video about signs that someone is trying to overstep your boundaries?
Keep up the amazing work, all the staff and animators at Psych2go!
Naphia W, no other animators needed, I mean ahem, super serious heavy topic yes, I am listening
PSI HAS EARNED THE POWER OF SELF-RESPECT!
(Scott Pilgrim Movie Reference.)
Yay 🎉
Things we don't tolerate, you ask ? Well... imposed pace.
When being lucky enough to do something on my own, I don't tolerate being forced to use someone else's speed. I mean, if it involves stakes that for some reasons demand a specific time and speed, basically if there are good reasons to rush, well I'll do it, I will adapt for the time being.
But without such stakes, if you want me to do something for you, just explain the task (clearly, please), give me the delivery time you want, and get out of my way. If I can't do it, I'll tell you right away. And it may even be a matter of negociation, but in the end, I am sole responsible for managing my time and I intend to stay that way. I don't go around imposing my own pace on people, this is disrespectful. So I expect this to be reciprocated.
I wish I had more self respect. Tonight I've been told to "f*ckin shut up" when I was talking about our relationship issue with my boyfriend who has adhd. He then backtracked and said he was saying it to himself even though I was the only one talking. He's told me to "Go to h*ll" before then back tracked and said he wasn't saying it to me...."It's a phrase"
I've never heard it being used as a random "phrase" before. 😔 feeling so upset tonight.
If you can breakup with him leave him. You are too pretty to tolerate his bullshit , it's about Your life.
I love psych 2 go
I feel like my family and friendship group is eroding. I can’t connect with them anymore. I feel they don’t have my best interests in mind. I have been focusing more on myself and looking inward and trying to better myself. I’m not sure where to turn to other than inward and I get so confused. The end of the video makes me sad as it suggests finding people to connect with that value you, but I am missing this element in my life. I don’t want to wallow in my own pity. I help others. I journal. I do art. Yet, I feel unfulfilled.
I totally get it for I also yet lack the human element ,But I think it may be because they are toxic, I thought for 20years that my family was amazing until I started to see that this was merely the trauma bond and the con conditioning.
You are doing great NOW I think It's not about humans but about you healing start with you. Yes it may be hard to do it alone while surround with toxic people But we have to be our support and heal until we can choose the right support.
Great video.
I agree! When someone disrespects me. That will know about in spades 😮
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Yes, indeed! 🤔🤔
I agree 💯
Ngl I’m a bit of a pushover but still I respect myself adequately
I love your voice Psych2go...😊
The difference between healthy betrayal and toxic betrayal??
I can relate to this. ☹️💔☠️💀
Honestly, it would be interesting for people on both sides of things and say they relate to it.
Do you use the three points mentioned in the video in your day to day life?
I watch this as I'm picked on in school because I dress differently, idk what to do when school starts again, I maybe will be able to change school after a while but it's unclear, what should I do?
Ignore them and show no emotion to there insults and they might get bored and move on.
@@RainaWilkins I'll try
Tell them their opinion bores you and so does their clothing style
Hey, I really like your videos!❤
I find them very interesting and helpful!
Can you please do one on help with sexual abuse and with nobody believes you and somebody else is getting abused by the same person and you don’t know how to say no or get help? It would mean a lot to me if this video was made.
Thank you for making these videos!Keep up the good work!❤
This is hard to say but I have a friend that I like but my other friend does to and I get sad or mad because I feel like he’s going to get the person I like and I just get anxiety then I get really sad because I think she likes me and him but if she does like him should I give up trying to get her or should I not stop? By the way I’m tired so if I messed up grammar that’s why
HI
Interesting🤔
I'm unwilling to deal with some ableist stuff after a point (I have Autism and Epilepsy, but most people I only inform on the Epilepsy. I get if people make a mistake and joke about Autism around me since they normally don't know, but I draw the line, at certain things Epilepsy related, like not taking some Accommodations in account when they make logical sense).
Literally why I quit Walmart and got petty revenge via Malicious Compliance. Worst Personal Manager Ever.
Self diagnosed here. Would you agree that being on the spectrum has lessened your self respect? Most times I feel that I am too akward to be around people and Im constantly judging myself.
Edit: hellmart sounds like a nightmare of a job.
What is Epilepsy?
@@KatiTheButcher I was diagnosed at 2 & 1/2 for the Autism. If anything, I think it may have lessened my respect towards most of humanity instead. This is probably because I don't know what it's like without being diagnosed.
Sure, I might be overly perfectionistic on some things for myself, but that's something motivating in some ways. If anything, not having people understand what Autism is, (to the point that some people have tried to ask "that classic vaccine question" (which I would to slap some sense into someone over), is more likely to ask if the person asking is an idiot.
And some jobs at Walmart are worse than others, Digital Shopping is a decent department with benefits, where my cross-referencing ability is actually super-useful (as I said - the issue was Personal for that). The Apparel department is the worst one in the store for me there.
@@RainaWilkins Epilepsy is a neurological condition that causes seizures - two Tonic Clonics in less than 5 years is enough to diagnose.
@@KatiTheButcher Sure, I may judge myself too, but when people have literally labeled people like yourself with a Puzzle Piece for almost your entire life (note: I'm 31 here) - it can be hard to respect many Neurotypicals unintentionally labelling you as "missing something that makes you like them".
Seriously, "Saw" (the original movie), actually got it right on what idea that puzzle piece has to it. They may have used it for the dead victims of a serial killer to represent the "lack of will to survive", but for those of Autism, I'd say that's the NTs representing our sometimes lacking social skills. And doing that while we're alive like that is pretty degrading.
Hiii❤
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I think I am an introvert, but I love being around people and I get extremely bored fast during quiet/alone time. Is anyone else like this or could that just be my ADHD?
I think it maybe you are not yet open to yourself.
But loving to be around good people is normal for both personalities.
help i read the title as "3 Ways To INSTANTLY Harm Yourself More" instead of "Respect Yourself More"
Noooooo💀💀💀
that random makima tho
Discourteous and deception i cannot stand.
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Hey are u okay?
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Am I really the only one who noticed Makima in the manipulation part?
2 seconds ago. I don’t think my mental health is to good
How come? Have you had a chance to speak with a mental health professional?
@@Psych2go I was so fast to click on the video- and yes I currently talk to a professional. I would like to add that you are a great UA-camr and keep doing great!
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Ai đó có thể cho tôi biết đây là giọng Anh-Anh hay Anh-Mỹ không, please 🥹
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No apple maybe next time 🍏 🍎 😞
*Immediately clicks on*
Is anyone else reminded of Nagatoro from this?
What happens when the person that betrays you is a family member?
Need more info. Makes it more difficult if you are living in the same house. Being a minor and type of betrayal makes a difference.
Fight
If you cant talk to them about it or they will mot liston and the relationship gets worse mabey you should leave.
what happens? bad things happen, just like when a non-family member betrays you; family status doesn't affect the quality of betrayal
But how do you tell someone they are being disrespectful and not appear to be a snowflake or thin skin?
why shode i respect myself if i can't even win a fight anymore
ok but #1 is kinda unavoidable in medical school
In too early for the person with the time stamps 😭
😂😂They should be up now!
I love Milk (don't give me attention)
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Early!
25 s ago💅
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