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  • Опубліковано 12 лис 2022
  • I went live last week to talk about #relationships. Thanks to everyone who participated in this great #conversation!!
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  • @stephaniebrodie5743
    @stephaniebrodie5743 Рік тому +101

    A turnoff for me is a man who doesn’t have his own place to live. He over 50 and still living at home with his mother and sister. A momma’s boy.

    • @melissaneal8241
      @melissaneal8241 Рік тому +13

      Or living with a childhood friend complaining about the living conditions

    • @stephaniebrodie5743
      @stephaniebrodie5743 Рік тому +4

      @@melissaneal8241 Absolutely

    • @BrookeLynn-sr6vy
      @BrookeLynn-sr6vy Рік тому +4

      Yep for me over 30 living at home is crazy.

    • @jba414
      @jba414 Рік тому +11

      But y’all make mommas boys and then complain about them. Fathers be the first that want their sons gone and here comes momma with the “not my baby” mentality. Even when it’s discipline time again her comes women babying their sons. Imagine not liking what women created hahaha. Women need to tell women stop babying their sons and a lot wouldn’t grow up with that mind frame it’s no different than a spoiled child. But we get it women don’t want to be accountable/responsible for that just complain about it, like everything else. It’s literally comical that women always complaining about mommy boys when they the ones that made them! 🤷🏾‍♂️😂

    • @sheilawheeler5006
      @sheilawheeler5006 Рік тому +11

      There are some exceptions. My 32-year-old son has moved in with me for at least a year, because my husband passed in August. He sold his home to do this. I didn’t ask him. A circumstance like that would touch my heart. But this is a three-level home and he definitely has his own space.

  • @sheilawheeler5006
    @sheilawheeler5006 Рік тому +32

    You need someone that you can sit in comfortable silence with.

  • @demibutler225
    @demibutler225 Рік тому +20

    My biggest turnoff is mixed signals, lying, lack of communication.

  • @soleilwhitton6397
    @soleilwhitton6397 Рік тому +34

    I heard years ago that one of the best times to communicate with your mate is when you both make up the bed. So simple. Really doing anything together builds the bond. Say your mate is cooking. You may not help with the actual cooking but if you hang around and start a conversation, it strengthens your bond. Honestly, it's the little things that strengthen a relationship.

  • @overcomerinchristbytamikah3978
    @overcomerinchristbytamikah3978 Рік тому +24

    Wow!!! A man that can cook, make you laugh AND counsel us with some down to Earth truth thanks Rickey i appreciate you

  • @feliciamoorer9146
    @feliciamoorer9146 Рік тому +6

    Ricky Smiley, I love you. I fell in love with you looking at your comedy. However I'm at a loss of words. During the pandemic I have been able to listen and see you express your feelings. You're the definition of A REAL MAN . I'M ABSOLUTELY GRATEFUL TO BE ABLE TO HEAR, LISTEN AND SEE YOU AT ANY TIME. YOU'RE A GREAT TEACHER AND I AM GRATEFUL FOR YOU BEING YOU.

  • @yvinnewarren8731
    @yvinnewarren8731 Рік тому +14

    You are a real man something a lot of women are missing out on, true to the meaning of the word and also a man of success. Stay blessed and I will continue to pray for you like I always do, keep the knowledge coming 🙏

    • @latonyanelson2887
      @latonyanelson2887 Рік тому +1

      I think Rickey would be a great date . Potential husband .

  • @missfaye9247
    @missfaye9247 Рік тому +25

    Rickey you went from relationships conversation to comedy😂😂😂😂.

  • @MsTineyhighlyfavored
    @MsTineyhighlyfavored Рік тому +1

    @Rickey Smiley
    Keep dropping 💎 💎 💎

  • @MsTineyhighlyfavored
    @MsTineyhighlyfavored Рік тому +2

    Table manners for sure are very important.

  • @dmoney8890
    @dmoney8890 Рік тому +9

    Natural woman with giving heart and a great smile

  • @rochelledixon7637
    @rochelledixon7637 Рік тому +8

    Your grandson is so adorable Rickey

  • @pamelacarter2718
    @pamelacarter2718 Рік тому +8

    I want someone that I can just sit quietly and talk too. Material things are not the focus. A man who is comfortable reading and discussing a book with me. I love love too Rickey. Hopefully, I will find it one day.🤗❤️

  • @cynthiamillermiller3031
    @cynthiamillermiller3031 Рік тому +1

    Love is what love does, love is an action word if there’s no action there’s no love. When u let go and let God have his way ❤❤❤real talk

  • @dawngraves7364
    @dawngraves7364 Рік тому +6

    Rickey thank you for this you are the kinda man we need and you are appreciated be blessed my friend ❤️

  • @misst7185
    @misst7185 Рік тому +11

    Rickey, when you talked about your grandmother's perfume, I fell out. You gave me a good laugh! Great topic.😂

  • @luethaderpinckney7218
    @luethaderpinckney7218 Рік тому +14

    The biggest turn off for me is texting me all the time an don't talk to have a conversation 🙄😊

  • @DebraGreen-iw7it
    @DebraGreen-iw7it Рік тому +1

    A turn off for me is a man who is controlling and disrespectful arrogant or lier or sneaky cheater A turn on for me is a man who smells good who makes me laugh layed back you stay in your lane I stay in mind responsible trust worthy respectful caring loyal communication is very important and gemistry there's more spending quality time God Bless You Always Debbie ❤️🙏

  • @inesnieves9202
    @inesnieves9202 Рік тому +21

    Love this 😂 and I’m with Ricky when it comes to temperament, that’s the number one thing that can make a relationship fail

  • @mygodisawesome6121
    @mygodisawesome6121 Рік тому +6

    Baby, I’m over here dead 💀 Rickey is so silly 😂😂😂

  • @Jai0234
    @Jai0234 Рік тому +14

    I really enjoyed this! ❤ I love when you just sit and talk. What is a turn off to me is lack of communication. I don’t like someone that prefers texting as their main form of communication. I prefer to hear my man’s voice (if I had one 🤣). A man being on his phone when we are eating. Someone that is not affectionate. Also, a man that discuss our relationship outside of our relationship, or someone that will start fussing in public. If there is a issue with each other, we should not address each other in a public setting, and last someone who curse a lot and use a lot of profanity.

  • @lilrock1822
    @lilrock1822 Рік тому +3

    Hey. I have zero problem paying for dinner, however, I know full well some women will agree to the date not because they're interested but because it's a free meal, a cure for boredom or lack of attention. That's why I prefer something else for a first date instead of wining and dining, something physical like mini golf or to see a show

  • @cassiusmatthews8678
    @cassiusmatthews8678 Рік тому +5

    A relationship is this simple to me, a man and a woman should know their role when it comes to a relationship or a marriage. Once you find that fit, settle with the one you feel the most secure and comfortable with; coming up on 36 years of marriage this month. Hot Topic!

  • @GodsFaithfulnessMatters2Me
    @GodsFaithfulnessMatters2Me Рік тому +3

    Listen, it was the, “I’ll Be Praying For You,” FOR ME!! 😂

  • @leohazel
    @leohazel Рік тому +9

    I thoroughly enjoyed this conversation, thank you!

  • @flora_723
    @flora_723 Рік тому +4

    At the end of the day, we as humans we always have to make room for improvement. For those who are fortunate to have another person to help us grow into better people, are blessed and lucky! Good night!💯👍🏾🙂

  • @patrillaford343
    @patrillaford343 10 місяців тому

    Yes, honey. Absolutely 💯 💯

  • @MerriHillard-jp9xp
    @MerriHillard-jp9xp 11 місяців тому +1

    Communication is the number 1 key factor. How are you doing Rickey? Happy Friday!

  • @GodIsLove7377
    @GodIsLove7377 Рік тому

    Wow you are SUCH a gentleman!! My man always insists on driving too if it’s my car. It is so uncomfortable for him to be in the passenger seat.

  • @MargoYarbray-lh8zw
    @MargoYarbray-lh8zw Рік тому

    Turn on is everything that describes a real man with a peaceful calm sensitive loving caring non combative spirit ❤

  • @gregoryalverest7232
    @gregoryalverest7232 Рік тому +6

    Listening to you bro I've discover many things about myself and relationship

  • @paulaellis7498
    @paulaellis7498 Рік тому +19

    Omg how interesting was this!!! I enjoyed every word!!! Very good factual, mature talk. Loved hearing this come from a man, and a man of character like Rickey!!! Thank you for this straight to the truth conversation. Love & blessings🤍🕊💜

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  • @cassondrad2280
    @cassondrad2280 Рік тому +4

    Good communicator really, really helps. A thoughtful person. I like my guy to be a bit smarter than myself, I love to learn new things and bounce my thinking ideas off that person to see what they come up with something I may haven't thought of. We don't always have to be on the same page or in agreement with one another. I like to see what that person comes up with utilizing their own God given skills. I dislike a person who is always in agreement with me. I want to see what they bring to the table. I could be dead wrong and if that person is always in agreement with you, they really can't think for themselves and that gets boring to me.

  • @crystalking3827
    @crystalking3827 Рік тому +6

    This is good talk for people who will have this portion in their lives.

  • @traceyjenkins1896
    @traceyjenkins1896 Рік тому +1

    Turn on is a loving, caring and respectful man. Now, a turn off is a controlling and disrespectful man. Both line; Be up front and never start off with a lie. My ideal type of a man is Mr. Ricky Smiley type and that's 100%!

  • @gennicesingletary4055
    @gennicesingletary4055 Рік тому +3

    Baby boy growing up so fast so handsome ❤️

  • @judyh8574
    @judyh8574 Рік тому +4

    Loyalty and respect is a turn on...Liar is a turnoff

    • @rhondacummings
      @rhondacummings Рік тому

      Amen! You have to really be careful both men and women

  • @lornabrazzletonbey6685
    @lornabrazzletonbey6685 Рік тому +3

    I agree with u Rick 💯% on everything u just said…Gratitude for alwayz uplifting humanity…💋💜💋

  • @maryfranceswilliams782
    @maryfranceswilliams782 Рік тому +3

    No mess and no drama! Yes Lord!!!!

  • @mzladyj18
    @mzladyj18 Рік тому +2

    His example was not gaslighting, it was deflection. His explanation of gaslighting after the example was accurate.

  • @chelleb.1436
    @chelleb.1436 Рік тому +3

    Thanks for the humor 😂

  • @shenett7407
    @shenett7407 Рік тому +2

    Walk-by air!🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @cherylbrown1131
    @cherylbrown1131 Рік тому +3

    Rickey!! You got me over here on the flo!! 😂😂😂😂😂❤

  • @Data_Lady3
    @Data_Lady3 6 місяців тому

    Men like you, raised by grandparents 👌🏾

  • @mztymtaylormadequeen7127
    @mztymtaylormadequeen7127 Рік тому

    Loln I'm screaming 😆 🤣 😂 black stockinged white shoes

  • @user-qy1jt8rv1s
    @user-qy1jt8rv1s Рік тому +4

    Remember who you are beloved.You don’t have to fight for love.When it right there in face.Okay ❤

  • @wandawil9716
    @wandawil9716 Рік тому +2

    Ricky this was so funny I just came across this video I can’t stop laughing you are a riot I love you.

  • @royce1041
    @royce1041 Рік тому +2

    This is why fatherhood is important

  • @pamelabess8393
    @pamelabess8393 Рік тому +3

    Great Conversation on relationships much understanding and essential perspective. Truly hopeful in all aspects of all of our happiness and peace of mind 🙏🏾

  • @earline9960
    @earline9960 Рік тому

    Turnoff-no job, smoking, drinking, jealous spirit, liar
    Turn on-man of God, true to his word, confidence, intelligence, great conversation, a job, caring, considerate

  • @maryfranceswilliams782
    @maryfranceswilliams782 Рік тому +2

    I like this 'Live!'

  • @veronicaharrison5823
    @veronicaharrison5823 Рік тому

    My,my,my....... Thanks, great message 🙏🙏😇😇🧚

  • @joycecooks6075
    @joycecooks6075 Рік тому

    Communication is the best thing when you are in a real relationship with someone! And the both of you are on the same page! What I don't like about it if you are in a true relationship he don't be never tell you that he love you!! That's a turn off!! When you get home tell him that you love him!! All the time!!

  • @marilynkendrick1646
    @marilynkendrick1646 Рік тому +1

    I like his style

  • @anthonybrooks1836
    @anthonybrooks1836 Рік тому +2

    I love you and I'm proud of you big bro

  • @belindawashington4919
    @belindawashington4919 Рік тому +1

    A turn on 4 me is a natural Man because I'm a natural Woman Plain n Simple!!! Belinda Houston God got U

  • @michellewright8208
    @michellewright8208 Рік тому +2

    Turn on, God fearing and knows how to make a woman feel safe even when they are apart, the anticipation that builds during that time HAVE MERCY!

  • @kjmequehurst6337
    @kjmequehurst6337 Рік тому +1

    “Spaghetti with lite bread”… Rickey you foolish…😂🤣😂

  • @drbrimarriedanerdyengineer2312

    I enjoyed this grown folk discussion.

    • @barbaragales3802
      @barbaragales3802 Рік тому +2

      "Yes, it is nice , coming from a man that has had true life experience's, that articulates in a respectful manner! Thanks for sharing! 👍🏾👍🏾✌🏾✌🏾 ✌🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

  • @joiperkins7243
    @joiperkins7243 Рік тому +1

    Why did I click on this thinking Rickey would be serious....Rickey just Gaslit us....🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣. Sprinkles of good advice...Thank you Sir

  • @sherrywarren616
    @sherrywarren616 Рік тому +4

    ❤❤ I loved watching this again.
    I was overjoyed to see this live on FB ❤
    My turn off is bad breath and musty. 😫
    My turn on is a man who is a gentleman, kind and loving 🥰
    Treats me like a lady.
    I love a man who brings me flowers 💐
    I love cards and chocolate 🍫 ❤
    It doesn't take much to make me happy.
    Just peace and loving kindness. ❤
    ** I'll have to figure out what my walk by air is like... I don't know... 🤷🏼‍♀️ no one ever complained.
    😂😂😂😂😂

  • @Angie-ci1lp
    @Angie-ci1lp Рік тому +3

    WOW!! Real talk

  • @MsTineyhighlyfavored
    @MsTineyhighlyfavored Рік тому +1

    @Rickey Smiley
    I'm going to tell.we don't have to go anywhere to eat.
    I Want some of your yout Beans and Cornbread, and Mac & Cheese.

  • @justbelieve3388
    @justbelieve3388 Рік тому +3

    Awww Rickey u are the whole package✅

  • @lisalarry6305
    @lisalarry6305 Рік тому +2

    A big turn on for me is a man that is intellectually sound!

  • @lauranash1794
    @lauranash1794 Рік тому +1

    Yes, please do. I have enjoyed it. Thank you for the conversation.

  • @reneemillender7005
    @reneemillender7005 Рік тому

    That's right Rick hey my friend

  • @apriljohnson1769
    @apriljohnson1769 Рік тому +2

    This was really nice and Real

  • @letitiaharris4661
    @letitiaharris4661 Рік тому +1

    Not the knock knees you killin me man!

  • @kenyathefrugal475
    @kenyathefrugal475 Рік тому +2

    LOL!!!! Entertaining, informative, and hilarious.

  • @nb1422
    @nb1422 Рік тому

    "That walk-by air" 🚶‍♀🌬...not bow-legged where "you can't run when someone shoot". I'm rolling @rickeysmiley 🤣🤣🤣!!!

  • @tenniabrown9865
    @tenniabrown9865 Рік тому +3

    Enjoyed Real Talk

  • @shirleyhayes6522
    @shirleyhayes6522 Рік тому +4

    Ricky you so silly 😂

  • @stacysmusic1
    @stacysmusic1 Рік тому +1

    The Walk By Air!!!! I love it!!

  • @peggyg.ministries5944
    @peggyg.ministries5944 9 місяців тому

    😂😂😂😂😂 walk by air nose air and grandmomomas perfume 😂😂 chil you is killing me

  • @jhana639
    @jhana639 Рік тому +3

    Loud and clear 👌

  • @danitasheree
    @danitasheree Рік тому

    This was SO doggone funny!!!!! 😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂

  • @tariacrossland2077
    @tariacrossland2077 Рік тому

    Thanks Rickey

  • @IndigoSass
    @IndigoSass Рік тому +1

    Thanks for the jokes, Mr Smiley love to laugh . A man with sense of humor and funny 🤣🤣🤣

  • @missrare41
    @missrare41 Рік тому +1

    Thoroughly enjoyed. God bless everybody relationship journey!☝️🙏😎🙂

  • @clemmatine3909
    @clemmatine3909 Рік тому +1

    I enjoy that please do another talk on relationships thank you rickey.

  • @meniabrown9304
    @meniabrown9304 Рік тому

    🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 walk by air,I’m rolling.🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @merrihillard841
    @merrihillard841 Рік тому +1

    Very nice conversation Rickey 💯👍 Good night sweetie 😘🙏

  • @katrinacondliffe8110
    @katrinacondliffe8110 Рік тому

    Yessss Ricky Smiley. Thank you 😊 💓. Old School. Love This x

  • @Msshayson1
    @Msshayson1 Рік тому

    The way he go from making sense to foolishness catches me off guard bol I be like mannnn what 🤣❤️ Rick a trip

  • @teliciasmith3552
    @teliciasmith3552 Рік тому

    Yes sir...."walk by air"...😂🤣😅😆 gotta have it

  • @Iamdoinme
    @Iamdoinme Рік тому +1

    That lady story was tooo funny the bishop who tried to hook you up. Was toooo funny! 😂😂😂😂

  • @3x3mm
    @3x3mm Рік тому

    RS-i live for your wisdom & insight.

  • @gennicesingletary4055
    @gennicesingletary4055 Рік тому +2

    Hey Ricky I am loving this conversation you summed it up relationship respect communication and that heart ❤️ stay blessed 🙏 love ya ❤️

  • @ericablige9449
    @ericablige9449 Рік тому

    "Walk bye air" 🤣😂🤣😂Rickey! Wth? Only Youuu

  • @stepforJesus
    @stepforJesus Рік тому +1

    I love it. Please do these lives.

  • @appletinisimpson3275
    @appletinisimpson3275 Рік тому +2

    That is so true Rickey that is why I am still single men SMH

  • @tracysidibe4178
    @tracysidibe4178 Рік тому +1

    Wow funny yet truthful I love this it taught me alot

  • @charlesdaniels-kg7bj
    @charlesdaniels-kg7bj Рік тому

    Amen

  • @jackieballard8047
    @jackieballard8047 Рік тому +6

    I don't like a person who can't agree to disagree.

  • @tenikaleigh7152
    @tenikaleigh7152 Рік тому +1

    You made my day Rickey, now I can get up and do my chores

  • @lynnjones185
    @lynnjones185 Рік тому +1

    Rickey u are so crazy😍.I Just love You!!

  • @letitiaharris4661
    @letitiaharris4661 Рік тому +2

    I love this 😀 ❤ always stay real hope to meet you one day 💛

  • @cassondrad2280
    @cassondrad2280 Рік тому

    Thanks for the knowledge. I like the man's perspective of things. It helps to get some insight. Thank you

  • @mztymtaylormadequeen7127
    @mztymtaylormadequeen7127 Рік тому

    Yea it's fun in the kitchen together to teach each other... I hate you lost her....but God make no mistakes 🙏🏾