Stick To Your Parenting Principles

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  • @JesusChristandSonSoldier
    @JesusChristandSonSoldier 2 роки тому +39

    Indeed !!!The truth! Those parents that laughed at those toddlers being disrespectful grew up, this is the product of poor parenting. Lazy & bad attitudes! Back in the day, it was a straight-up fade, people with no self-control with guns. Jesus help us!
    Ty Rickey preeeeach!! 🙏🏽💕

  • @berlindarogers1033
    @berlindarogers1033 2 роки тому +28

    My sentiments exactly 💯 to what Rickey Smiley. I have three adults kids and they still say yes ma'am and no ma'am.

    • @marquellcooper9916
      @marquellcooper9916 2 роки тому +1

      Amen I am that parent that will break you ass down like a friction

    • @Polo22546
      @Polo22546 2 роки тому +2

      Great job!

  • @michaeladickens6362
    @michaeladickens6362 2 роки тому +30

    Thank you Ricky for telling the truth
    It didn't kill us for doing the right things.

  • @cjaber2704
    @cjaber2704 2 роки тому +32

    Preach Rickey. I fully agree. This generation is so ungrateful, and entitled. Lord, and don’t remind me how disrespectful most of them are. I just shake my head, and continue to pray for them. This world if messed up these days. Sometimes I feel these kids are cursed and possessed with Evil. Be safe everyone

    • @keithreed5829
      @keithreed5829 2 роки тому +6

      I AGREE ANIMALS GOT MORE HONOR THAN PEOPLE THESE DAYS THEY WILL KILL U JUST BECAUSE THEY BORED & FULLA DRUGS TODAYS YOUNG PEOPLE HAVE REPLACED LOVE ❤ WITH HATE.🙄😬

    • @genejaytre
      @genejaytre 2 роки тому +1

      But let’s be honest all generations have disrespectful kids and during that time everyone will say is this generation they have no respect. I am 39 years old and I am a Millennial and I have to catch myself from saying there’s something wrong with this generation. It’s not the generation is that adults forget how it used to be for them when they were younger in the things that went on and we get to relax in our parenting at times. Being a millennial we get blamed for a lot of things but I also remember in the 80s and 90s degeneration before me was shooting up everything as well and selling drugs throughout all of our neighborhoods and Robin and killing just as they do now. There’s nothing new under the sun

  • @charlenehunt-miles7542
    @charlenehunt-miles7542 2 роки тому +17

    I'm 52 Rickey and I totally agree, I had Parents, Grandparents, Aunts, Uncles that corrected us period. I grew up with structure and I would not change that, I raised my 33 year old daughter the same way. This younger generation dont have any structure at all and they are so disrespectful. The young woman show everything they have and wonder why men don't respect them because they don't respect themselves and the men want to be thugs and don't respect themselves either and want woman to take care of them, I have never seen anything like this new generation. Scared to go out because all they want to do is shoot out here. We need old school parenting back.

  • @bethanywilhelm4451
    @bethanywilhelm4451 2 роки тому +9

    Agree 100% with you!! 👏🏻 Also this..when my family told me to do something, I did it. No questions asked or I’d be in big trouble. I even had to shovel cow manure for the garden, I pushed a wheelbarrow all over a cow field and slung poo over in it. I also chipped bricks, and once in the Army I had to cut the grass with a nail cutter.

  • @isabelmanzanera8602
    @isabelmanzanera8602 2 роки тому +14

    Old school is the only way . The new generation doesn't care and its getting worse. Thank u for saying that.

    • @xlady7772
      @xlady7772 2 роки тому +1

      Totally agree it worked for us we ok

    • @isabelmanzanera8602
      @isabelmanzanera8602 2 роки тому

      @@xlady7772 yes indeed it did work for us the only way

  • @kimskorner
    @kimskorner 2 роки тому +15

    Rickey, you are absolutely right! That is where I messed up with my second born son. Now, he thinks he is entitled to things he has not worked for nor earned. I just pray that God delivers him and show him the truth! Not only my child but all our children! I wish I knew you personally way back when my kids were younger because I would have asked you for your help/guidance. Being a single mom of boys definitely ain’t easy!

  • @daurethachappell9447
    @daurethachappell9447 2 роки тому +9

    🙏🏾🙏🏾😢so sorry for that man and condolences 💐 to his family.
    I am and agree with sticking with parental control if not they will run you and someone else’s love one amen 🙏🏾.

  • @lindywheeler4192
    @lindywheeler4192 2 роки тому +13

    Your right a lot of us give out the wrong message these days to our children. A lot of us have forgotten how to parent. It's sad to say a lot of these young kids today lack respect. They're soft! They would rather pull a gun then to use their fist.

  • @lasupreme2891
    @lasupreme2891 2 роки тому +10

    I’m in my 50’s & you expressed this so well, THANK YOU RICKEY SMILEY!💞💚

  • @KeCon6960
    @KeCon6960 2 роки тому +5

    This found me right on time. Thank You Rickey for allowing God to use you to relay this message. I received it, fo sho!!

  • @marlenekimbrough608
    @marlenekimbrough608 2 роки тому +8

    Amen ,u are so right Ricky. it is a low down dirty shame about these kids

  • @allisonbriscoe5124
    @allisonbriscoe5124 2 роки тому +7

    Amen Amen Amen Amen Amen Amen Amen Amen discipline ,structure ,boundaries we knew what was expected and accepted respectively

  • @anitaweaver1380
    @anitaweaver1380 2 роки тому +3

    Absolutely 💯 percent I agree with you Rickey . Old school parenting needs to come back. If I would have disrespected anyone I would have gotten my rear end busted and picked my teeth up off the floor.

  • @sabrinalockett4882
    @sabrinalockett4882 2 роки тому +1

    They are a new breed, and that’s what I call them…#NewBreeds. I remember my mom crying cause I whipped my son, I looked at her and said “ the way you BEAT me?, he’ll be alright. He’s not going to grow up and beat me”. He’s 6’8”, 31, and loves and respects his momma, me. With all the hell he took me through, I’m thankful he lived to come back and apologize to me. WA state gives kids legal rights but the parent are responsible for the child’s actions? WTF? I❤️U Rickey

  • @sherrywarren616
    @sherrywarren616 2 роки тому +10

    I'm so happy I could see this segment live.
    Thank you Rickey! ♥️
    My generation was the same... you did as you were told .. or out came the wooden spoon! My Sister got lots! 🤪
    I don't remember me getting any. 🤔🤪
    That was frightening about that poor man getting shot in the head! 😱Good home training is what's needed for sure. Good for your wonderful Fathering skills Rickey.
    👌🏻👏🏻👍🏻🤗❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @latonyanelson2887
    @latonyanelson2887 10 місяців тому +1

    RICKEY you are speaking the absolute truth ! I wish I would have known you when my son was younger because there is a lot of things I didn't know and now I'm praying every day for God to help my son to make better decisions. You have some very respectful children.

  • @rubywood9493
    @rubywood9493 2 роки тому +3

    I agree 100%. This will be the most medicated group of young people. Some parents don't want you to correct their children until they are in trouble. I work in the school system see this everyday.

  • @humblemej1482
    @humblemej1482 Рік тому +3

    I had to come back to this to get some courage to stick to cutting my 17 year old off Financially wise…. She literally called me Toxic cause I want let her do things she want & make her do her chores when I want them done calling me strict it hurted me so much 😢… I do everything for my daughter …..please please stick to ur parenting

  • @chamiltonmgb
    @chamiltonmgb 2 роки тому +5

    I will Rickey you keep sticking to and preaching your principles I am listening at 51 and still learning (from you).

  • @supercutiee
    @supercutiee 2 роки тому +2

    Rickey!!!! This is sooooooo on point!! 💯

  • @kassandragresham3940
    @kassandragresham3940 2 роки тому +3

    SPEAK RICKEY!!!!!

  • @d.m.cleveland381
    @d.m.cleveland381 2 роки тому +1

    I appreciate you speaking truth to the youth of this age. Thank you.

  • @genellbradley4505
    @genellbradley4505 2 роки тому +2

    Rickey, I commend you on your topic!!! I enjoy listening to you, because you speak positive, and speaking the truth on our culture of people…… I thank you so much, and keep doing what you are called to do by GOD!!! I’m old school, and I agree to all of your topics!!! I watch you, and listen all the time on the radio, and videos….. I live in the Dallas area, and enjoy you and hope to see you around in the Dallas area one day!!!😀…….. God continue to bless YOU!!! ENJOY YOUR BLESSINGS!!! Ms. Genell/McKinney, TX

  • @RealBNews
    @RealBNews 2 роки тому +4

    This is a community problem, not just generational. This has gone on for DECADES!!! Everytime, a new generation comes the old one says the current one is the worst. I remember being in the mall, concerts and running from shootings during the 90s REGULARLY!! The foolishness was just never on camera.

  • @mamarha2011
    @mamarha2011 2 роки тому +3

    Nothing wrong with giving children options. Gotta teach em about respect, accountability, responsibility and consequences too. I grew up old school and disagree with not explaining. There's nothing wrong with asking a question (not everything, but).... All that "respect grown ups", "listen to your elders", "cuz I said so" is the reason a lot of secrets and molestation happens. My principle: Question everything and everyone respectfully. No one is above inquisition. Idgaf who it is.

    • @beanboy617
      @beanboy617 2 роки тому

      I1000 percent agree with you. I am 35 years old on the autism spectrum and i ask question to find logic not to cause problems. I think Ricky Smiley is a funny comedian but people like him are too old school for their own good.

  • @deneiseb6194
    @deneiseb6194 2 роки тому +1

    Point blank period…. 💯 Rickey

  • @latoyiabeard2945
    @latoyiabeard2945 2 роки тому +2

    👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾We knew how to act. Boundaries are missing. How you don't know what is going on in your house. I didn't know is not an answer. I had to tell my Bigma where I got a piece of gum. Who gave you that where did that come from take it back. Not in my house.👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾✊🏾parenting was tough.

  • @pammajette2942
    @pammajette2942 2 роки тому +3

    I Pray That The Holy Father's Put A Covenant On All Those Who Are In Need Of One 🙏😪 Awesome Commentary Ricky 👍🔥✌️

  • @debranelson1985
    @debranelson1985 Рік тому +1

    You are absolutely on point with this one , thank you needed to be said🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽

  • @allisonbriscoe5124
    @allisonbriscoe5124 2 роки тому +3

    Its call home training period!!!!!!

  • @adowri82
    @adowri82 2 роки тому +4

    Thank you for this, Rickey!

  • @ladilondon1213
    @ladilondon1213 2 роки тому +1

    The Bible said it would be this was… Condolences to the family. Similar happened to ppl close to me…

  • @lisajohnson1571
    @lisajohnson1571 2 роки тому +4

    Amen🙏

  • @dacallah1
    @dacallah1 2 роки тому

    You’re right Rickey! We are living in the Last Days of this wicked world (2 Timothy 3:1-5). Specifically. 2nd Timothy 3:2 - disobedient to parents. But God gave us the authority to train and discipline our children.

  • @pebbles1829
    @pebbles1829 2 роки тому +1

    No lies told 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾❤️❤️

  • @forsuchatimeasthis2400
    @forsuchatimeasthis2400 2 роки тому +11

    We need YESHUA. I'm saying that to myself, too! I can make jokes about your cakes all day long, Rickey...but in all sincerity, the basics we need to get back to are in the WORD of GOD.

    • @micheleellis177
      @micheleellis177 2 роки тому +4

      Thank you for your words.if people do not go to Yahuah they won't have a change. I pray for everyone in the world repents their sins to Yahuah and Yahusha.

    • @childofthekingofkings
      @childofthekingofkings 2 роки тому +1

      My sentiments exactly sisters. That's the ONLY way; the truth, the life and the way!!!

  • @itsmeagain6407
    @itsmeagain6407 2 роки тому +9

    The law is on the children's side it's illegal to discipline them now and the kids know it so they just run around and do what they want...but if they catch your child doing something they don't have any business doing...wellllll we know how that ends

    • @ladilondon1213
      @ladilondon1213 2 роки тому +2

      I prayed they called on me…. When they all would have gotten taken away, they would have begged to get back home.

    • @itsmeagain6407
      @itsmeagain6407 2 роки тому +2

      @@ladilondon1213 the way this system is set up there wouldn't have been a home for them to come back to cuz mom or dad would be serving some big time...these new kids are different very selfish

  • @BygSexyToy1
    @BygSexyToy1 2 роки тому +5

    Right Rickey... I jack my 3 and 6 yr olds up now! Everyone compliment my girls on their behavior and manners. I don't play! I tear butts up too when necessary... I took my girls to the poor home of a family 9 (3 adults, 6 kids) in a two room house in Jamaica.The youngest was a year younger than my youngest. So they can see how blessed they are and they donated shoes, clothes, books, crayons, etc. out of their stuff to the kids!

  • @ireneshine883
    @ireneshine883 2 роки тому +1

    Mr. Rickey Smiley Equity start at home when the kids are small

  • @jeroldmalone6698
    @jeroldmalone6698 2 роки тому

    AND LET THE CHURCH SAY AMEN! Brotha Smiley, I really appreciate these words. I used to get my hand slapped when I worked at a school because I would demand all students to be respectful to me and the staff. What's really bad is where we have adults that accept this from this generation. I'm 45 and my grandmother has been dead for over 20 years, but if I even thought about doing half the stuff these kids do today, she would jump out the grave and light my butt up.

  • @JackieS812
    @JackieS812 Місяць тому

    Neither do I Ricky! These kids are so different today!

  • @LBGaPeach
    @LBGaPeach 2 роки тому

    Amen. This is the truth. Parenting has gone to the wayside which is resulting in young males and females with no respect.

  • @tarneshialee4037
    @tarneshialee4037 2 роки тому +4

    I have nieces and nephews in their 20's and they're the most respectful kids. It all starts at home, and I thank God every day for the way I was raised. My nieces and nephews are being raised the same way, which is why they respect their elders and their pants are always up on their butts. Rickey, everything you said was on point!

  • @birdie4223
    @birdie4223 2 роки тому

    Everything you saying Fact’s and you better not miss that Church Bus on Sunday 💯

    • @birdie4223
      @birdie4223 2 роки тому

      Please keep this Segment going

  • @jasonwaller621
    @jasonwaller621 2 роки тому

    I 100% agree Ricky. If you offend them then let them be offended.

  • @wandarubio6508
    @wandarubio6508 2 роки тому

    PREACH Rickey💡💡💡💡💡🙏🏿🕊💙🕊

  • @frostyk1371
    @frostyk1371 2 роки тому

    Rickey seriously, you're a special dude. You gave him your belt 😭...

  • @jackiewood171
    @jackiewood171 2 роки тому

    Rickey Smiley you show right I live in Buffalo NY so you know what just happened I a mother of four sons I raised by myself I wish one would tell or question me or disrespect me I thank God there good men now an they thank me two married two Decons in the church and I still will correct them if they wrong

  • @brendarobinson76
    @brendarobinson76 2 роки тому +4

    My daughter and son are grown and they don't question me about anything .And my daughter have 2 boys and they know better . But yeah these teenagers are very disrespectful and always killing each other and trying to take from other people .

  • @theresawilliams8870
    @theresawilliams8870 2 роки тому

    Amen and Thank you!!!!

  • @ttindustry6941
    @ttindustry6941 Рік тому +1

    💜💛 yes Rickey facts

  • @yvonnedavis4257
    @yvonnedavis4257 2 роки тому

    Thanks Rickey Smiley, 30 years ago discipline methods changed for the worst.

  • @Auraseven415
    @Auraseven415 2 роки тому +3

    We know our children's makeup because they have our DNA. Disciplining sometimes may not be easy when you have to issue out raw - life -lessons. Sometimes others may not even agree with you. One child might need little to no discipline. While another child is continuous. That's why 2 parents are needed! When one is tired you got back up. Children may not understand; parents have to work jobs they hate to keep a roof over their heads and food on the table. Because old school parents couldn't walk away from a job until they had another. "And" when my Dad told me "No" that was the end of the conversation. There was no "Why? Although some people brag about how perfect their children are? Surprise..surprise, they just didn't get caught? Being a parent is the hardest job you will ever have. When it goes right it is a beautiful thing. Unfortunately, there is no Manuel or Guide that comes with children....

  • @sherri3069
    @sherri3069 2 роки тому

    Nothing but the TRUTH!

  • @altarikeverett1885
    @altarikeverett1885 2 роки тому

    Amen sir.

  • @sheilaadams445
    @sheilaadams445 2 місяці тому

    I agree Rickey!

  • @brondiebookermckinney806
    @brondiebookermckinney806 2 роки тому

    THANK YOUUUUUU RICKY!

  • @sherrellseda5049
    @sherrellseda5049 2 роки тому +1

    So TRUE 💯💯💯💯💯

  • @tracysidibe4178
    @tracysidibe4178 Рік тому

    Well spoken for all humans

  • @buffalogal37
    @buffalogal37 2 роки тому

    Man you are telling the truth, they have choices and call you by your first name, smh! I am sooo tired of the sagging mess..

  • @tamarapalmer4894
    @tamarapalmer4894 2 роки тому +1

    Amen

  • @nataliewoods-stephens6096
    @nataliewoods-stephens6096 2 роки тому +1

    It starts at home. Not only that, the structure in which the home is built. God has given us a blueprint of how a family and home are to operate and function. A lot of it grew more out of the 90s and up generations, which were full of rebellion and entitlement. No one owes you nothing but to love and teach you, and one way to do that is through discipline because other people (once a village) is not going to do it. Then the police are itching to shoot to kill and want kids to scream abuse, but most kids nowadays have deaf ears and refuse to listen to wisdom

  • @sharonanne1671
    @sharonanne1671 2 роки тому

    So true & sad times which we are living.

  • @1morganpark
    @1morganpark 2 роки тому +1

    AMEN!!!💗🙏🏽

  • @spoolafool
    @spoolafool 2 роки тому

    I gotta say I’m 34 and I’m glad with the ol school raising I had

  • @michaelhedgemond603
    @michaelhedgemond603 2 роки тому

    Tell Em Rickey 😎

  • @robbiedee8890
    @robbiedee8890 2 роки тому

    AMEN!

  • @purplepassion605
    @purplepassion605 2 роки тому

    Rickey is right I learned from my apostle, a child's 1st ministry is at home.... This new generation just plainly was not raised right.....

  • @Nowthatsinspirational
    @Nowthatsinspirational 2 роки тому

    Not us rotten a** 30 somethings. That hit me, hard! 😂😂

  • @demetresblakley1352
    @demetresblakley1352 2 роки тому +1

    Can't go to school in Charlotte, it's always a kid bring a gun to School every other day😤

  • @sonyariggs2470
    @sonyariggs2470 2 роки тому

    I saw the video... I forget exactly what UA-cam blogger was it TV or what exactly. I was totally disturbed me and touch home for anyone that has a heart! I believe that the daughter had spoke and gave an update if I'm not mistaken I think it's about to retire and have been with his company so long.…maybe you look into it more Ricky

  • @tonybluestar4954
    @tonybluestar4954 2 роки тому +1

    Don't hate the generation , hate who raised them! The Bible says " the sin of the parent, falls upon their children"

  • @movingforward-fc4lg
    @movingforward-fc4lg 2 роки тому

    Let the church say amen 🙏

  • @Nupesohard
    @Nupesohard 2 роки тому

    Tuskegee Jack!

  • @brewynn5845
    @brewynn5845 2 роки тому

    That's Right

  • @janetmatthews7973
    @janetmatthews7973 2 роки тому

    Yes! 🩸😇🙏🏾❤️

  • @dseneca3
    @dseneca3 Рік тому

    This new generation is hard headed. They don’t want you to tell them nothing. And like you said they won’t fight. They just ready to pull a gun on you real quick.

  • @ladilondon1213
    @ladilondon1213 2 роки тому

    That’s how you do it… Respectfully

  • @JJ-se7ve
    @JJ-se7ve 2 роки тому

    Hi Rickey hope all is well with you. Tell Grayson hi. Glad you do speak on this . I m still here in Chicago it really sad . 2 young men just shoot 9 people 2 dies. It sad. F

  • @dreanniadrip1
    @dreanniadrip1 2 роки тому

    This is what is wrong with kids today !!!! I left my fiancé of 15 years because of his disrespectful kids & grandkids, I wasn't raised neither were My kids. It's was too much me to deal with !!!!

  • @dedrachambers8722
    @dedrachambers8722 2 роки тому

    Braces Correct The Smile...I like that Rickey Smiley

  • @terrencemayson4551
    @terrencemayson4551 2 роки тому

    It was in Atlanta on Cleveland ave

  • @lorenebradford3983
    @lorenebradford3983 2 роки тому

    👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

  • @meetupspeakup4161
    @meetupspeakup4161 2 роки тому +1

    It might start at home. But it ends. Once the child becomes a part of social society

  • @tesaperry2575
    @tesaperry2575 2 роки тому

    Yes it is really sad an the things they have now we did not have all this stuff going on it dad!!

  • @nikkymoore3685
    @nikkymoore3685 2 роки тому

    💯

  • @allison8381
    @allison8381 2 роки тому

    OMG I watched that same video a few months ago so sad it's as though this is normal to them what world are we living in today 😔

  • @peggyb4033
    @peggyb4033 2 роки тому

    We have been WARNED!!! If you believe. Why are you SURPRISED with the change of HUMANITY/SOCIETY?? We must learn to navigate. And be kind in some form...Be safe out there. FOLKS!!🙏🏽

  • @alit4591
    @alit4591 2 роки тому +1

    THEY do not want you to disapline YOUR CHILDREN so that the children become disruptive and out of control and the cops have an excuse to murder black children. Parents stop raising their children every since because your own child will put you in jail! I am raising my nieces and I'm traditional with it, structure and consistency is key,

  • @mauriceperkins324
    @mauriceperkins324 2 роки тому

    When are coming to Pittsburgh area

  • @sharonwhitfield2515
    @sharonwhitfield2515 2 роки тому

  • @sheilaknight6629
    @sheilaknight6629 2 роки тому

    I too don't understand what is happening to this generation...it is disgusting and disgraceful how disrespectful young ones are to older folk. Where I am from, you were shameful and hid if an older folk heard you cuss.

  • @deejake9805
    @deejake9805 2 роки тому

    Sad and true, use your platform bro!

  • @blessedandhighlyfavored6264
    @blessedandhighlyfavored6264 2 роки тому +1

    💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯

  • @xlady7772
    @xlady7772 2 роки тому

    See old school will take a l fight like a man no fight anymore just sad how soft they are sick or strong stick to your principles end of story there has to be rules respect and structure to survive and sustain life

  • @cynthiasmallsjohnson3394
    @cynthiasmallsjohnson3394 2 роки тому +1

    It's the parents they are not raising these kids right

  • @michaelhedgemond603
    @michaelhedgemond603 2 роки тому

    😎

  • @bamagrl26
    @bamagrl26 2 роки тому

    Our Society has really become so sickening, you can't discipline these kids without somebody telling you how to parent. They think they have rights to your house, and you become a prisoner in your own home. These young people will murder you in your own home.