Fantastic video My five-year relationship ended a month ago. The decision to part ways with the love of my life is something that truly consumes me. Though it's all in vain, I've tried everything to get him back, and I can't fathom my life with anyone else. Even though I've made every effort to quit thinking about him, I can't help but miss him and can't stop thinking about him. Why I am stating this here is beyond me.
It's hard to say goodbye to someone you love; I experienced this when my 12-year relationship ended. However, I couldn't just let him go; instead, I tried everything to win him back. Eventually, I turned to a spiritual counsellor for assistance, and he was able to help me win him back.
Thank you for this valuable information, i just looked him up now online. impressive Wow I just looked Father Obah Eze on the net he’s very legit thanks once again ❤
Find a list of soothing phrases and have your wife pick three and memorize those. When she's anxious give her a hug and softly say those phrases in her ear. Example: we're going to get through this together. I'm not going anywhere. Your needs are important to me.
I think Yoda would say: " *Leave or don't leave, there is no dealing with it* " .. apologizes for sounding like a Sith Lord right now but your dangerously entering the arena of asking for manipulation advice. But I suppose if you wanted to play on the darkside, you could strategically make sure that you are always placed in the Rescuer role and make sure there is always a 3rd party that is the Persecutor.. because we all know they are always going to be the Victim. Project that life out.. a wasted life on a beautiful planet - but always trapped in the drama.
So my girlfriend and I are both 45. I'm pretty sure she is an avoidant, her life before me has always been in survival mode. I am the anxious one. I am conscious of it and have been trying to balance my reactions when she does the avoidant thing. Sometimes I'm successful sometimes I'm not it is helpful that we have a history, and on one level I know without a shadow of a doubt that no matter what is going on and how she's acting that she loves me fiercely. Also because of the survival mode on her hand in the trauma on mine she carries a decent amount of the masculine energy and behavior and I am the more nurturing I have worked and struggled through not being the nice guy. But it is really difficult to undo those Behavior patterns.
Could you please do a review of the book ‘Sex at Dawn’ or at least the concepts inside of it. Would be fascinating to hear your view as an open, intelligent person. Most of the takes on it seem to be very shallow
Do not make yourself responsible for solving your partner's anxiety problems. Don't do it explicitly or implicitly. You can end up very injured if you do.
Fantastic video My five-year relationship ended a month ago. The decision to part ways with the love of my life is something that truly consumes me. Though it's all in vain, I've tried everything to get him back, and I can't fathom my life with anyone else. Even though I've made every effort to quit thinking about him, I can't help but miss him and can't stop thinking about him. Why I am stating this here is beyond me.
It's hard to say goodbye to someone you love; I experienced this when my 12-year relationship ended. However, I couldn't just let him go; instead, I tried everything to win him back. Eventually, I turned to a spiritual counsellor for assistance, and he was able to help me win him back.
Interesting! How did you locate a spiritual counsellor, and how can I get in touch with him most effectively?
His name is Father Obah Eze, and he is a great spiritual counselor who can bring back your ex.
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Thank you for this valuable information, i just looked him up now online. impressive
Wow I just looked Father Obah Eze on the net he’s very legit thanks once again ❤
Your videos are super insightful and helpful! Thank you for the content! Excited to watch this one :)
Find a list of soothing phrases and have your wife pick three and memorize those. When she's anxious give her a hug and softly say those phrases in her ear. Example: we're going to get through this together. I'm not going anywhere. Your needs are important to me.
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An amazing video, very helpful, especially with the examples of you and your wife, not just some general ones 🙌🏻
Would love some vids on dealing with anxious-avoidant women
I'm dealing with one now, man,it's crazy
I think Yoda would say: " *Leave or don't leave, there is no dealing with it* " .. apologizes for sounding like a Sith Lord right now but your dangerously entering the arena of asking for manipulation advice.
But I suppose if you wanted to play on the darkside, you could strategically make sure that you are always placed in the Rescuer role and make sure there is always a 3rd party that is the Persecutor.. because we all know they are always going to be the Victim. Project that life out.. a wasted life on a beautiful planet - but always trapped in the drama.
So my girlfriend and I are both 45. I'm pretty sure she is an avoidant, her life before me has always been in survival mode. I am the anxious one. I am conscious of it and have been trying to balance my reactions when she does the avoidant thing. Sometimes I'm successful sometimes I'm not it is helpful that we have a history, and on one level I know without a shadow of a doubt that no matter what is going on and how she's acting that she loves me fiercely. Also because of the survival mode on her hand in the trauma on mine she carries a decent amount of the masculine energy and behavior and I am the more nurturing I have worked and struggled through not being the nice guy. But it is really difficult to undo those Behavior patterns.
Could you please do a review of the book ‘Sex at Dawn’ or at least the concepts inside of it. Would be fascinating to hear your view as an open, intelligent person. Most of the takes on it seem to be very shallow
Do not make yourself responsible for solving your partner's anxiety problems. Don't do it explicitly or implicitly. You can end up very injured if you do.
Wish my ex was aware of what you are saying, instead of going with blame game.