I am so very grateful for this podcast and all of your vulnerability and teaching and speaking truth in love . Blessings to you all ! God is so good and faithful!
An obstacle, is not necessarily a closed door... GOD is with you, you're not alone. Joshua 1:9 Never give up hope. Never give up on love. Romans 8:26-28 Mustard seeds. 🕊
Where I live in AZ I'm able to get free counseling once per week because I have a limited income. Maybe you can look into it too? It's not christian counseling, but it helps a bunch. But... MAN these videos have helped me so much! I share them with so many friends! God bless!
I'm so thankful for the ministry that comes from Lisa, Joe and Jim. I just started the video and when I heard of Lisa's vision to include therapy for those who want therapy but can't afford it, it was an aha! moment. I am one of those people. I had been asking God for therapy for months, but just don't have the money for it right now. I am in tears because I realize just in this moment that He provided it for me through the therapy and theology videos. 😢 This is yet another reminder of God's faithfulfulness and His love towards me. So thankful! I wish I could perceive His love quicker!
God, Holy Spirit, Jesus....thankyou x infinity for bringing these 3 precious people and podcast on my path at exactly your timing.....thankyou for what the 3 of you are doing.....PS: i'm from South Africa....we don't have this here yet....but I pray God has shown me my calling eventually...52 yrs old and learning such great lessons and transformation, which I need to pay forward.
I absolutely LOVE these segments. Keep the "Therapy & Theology" series going!!! It has been so helpful and insightful in my life. Blessings to you all! God is using all three of you in a wonderful way to reach thousands of people.
Thank you all for you faithfulness, such a blessing to receive your wisdom, teaching and personal testimonies. I’m learning much and most importantly laughing again. 😀 thank you!
Wow. God is Good! God is Good all the time!. Today's Encouragement for Today (1/30/2024) - talked about 'Shame Doesn't Get the Final Say'. And this morning, I got on UA-cam and this Podcast video was on my home page! God is speaking to me loud and clear - ministering and revealing in me what is not of Him. These podcasts are just a God send and always on time with whatever I am dealing with. Thank you P31 team.
I've watched 3 episodes so very awesome ..praise God thank-you Jesus..I think theology should always be a part of therapy 🙏 I just never could feel like I could 😢to my pastor..I'm older so there for I remember when theology and psychiatry. Were so opposed to one another...this is just such a great podcast..God bless you and yours and God bless everyone listening..Praise God
Thankful for this woman and this ministry who has helped me in learning to be confident and hopeful in Gods promises and commands for what is a healthy relationship and what is not. There is a lot of confusion for Christian women I believe and so I’m thankful this is based on biblical wisdom and lays out exactly how and why.
Its not just for people who can't afford but more importantly for me, at least is linking therapy with God. Because of my abusive childhood & dysfunctional marriage, I was angry with God for not doing anything & the church for keeping me from therapy due to bad doctrine & my trauma filter. With help from my therapist & your program, I'm now seeing God through attachment theory & I'm seeing scripture differently so seeing Him in a true light & I'm coming back to Him. I still have an issue with the church still but I know most people are just clueless about mental health.
Oh my goodness, when Joel talks about how assumptions may be the sign of a lack of compassion. Conviction! Wow. I’ve been told that I assume too much and he just outed the enemy in that habit that I have. Now I can recognize and move into compassion. Wow. So good. Thank you all so much for this stuff!
Thank you Lysa Terkeurst for coming up with the idea of Therapy and Theology because I can't afford counseling. I listen to these series and am also grateful for the podcasts that you have done with Leslie Vernick too!
When Jim spoke I began crying. Lysa thank you for providing free Christian counseling for your audience. God bless you all 3. Thank you for Therapy and Theology ❤️
My shame script was also you are unwanted. Took 35 years and Theophostic prayer healing to get to the root of this shame. Thankful for growth and talks like this❤
As a person who can't afford therapy, I deeply appreciate the love and effort that you all pour into this show. It has changed my life. Thank you thank you thank you.
This is so good; Thank you! I keep coming back here because it's so full of truth, and helpful in our walk with the Savoir. God bless you all for your help, and ministry in Christ.
Thanks you all. As a Psychologist and Life Coach, getting people to understand that awareness, responsibility and accountability are all the great fruits of life.
These are sooo good! Wish I found them sooner. Listened to way too many non biblically based things until I got here. Please do more! This is so needed! ❤️
Loved the parts where y’all were vulnerable and shared your own shame scripts. So encouraging. And omg, I’m the same way with the NIV version. I’ve gone thru stages where contexts I’m in either prefer NASB, ESV, etc (and I really love the passion translation, just waiting for it to be finished), but NIV has a special place in my heart. All the others are hard for me to get into, but I know and am comfortable most with NIV
@@OfficialProverbs31Ministries I not only liked it, it brought healing in area's of my life. The part about the emotional abuse and how a man can play with your mind. I'm recovering from abuse. This podcast is God sent.
This podcast is huge. Thank you all for being vulnerable and even showing us what a shame script looks like. I think our shame scripts cause us to be a self fullfilling prophecy. My husband said he was always invisable growing up. But he is incredibly closed off. So then he never shares anything at all. He is so quiet and never contributes to the conversation which makes him invisble even at home with my kids and in our marriage. My kids always talk to me and not to my husband because he seems closed off which makes him feel invisable.
If we would just look at everyone passing us by as image bearers, but a broken humanity (separated from God because of sin), then we as followers of Christ would be led, propelled, to share the good news with them to see them reconciled to their right place with God. Knowing who God created them to be. Image barers. Sons and daughters of the most high. Loved. Embraced.
Y’all probably don’t take requests but I was curious if y’all might consider discussing any issues related to combat veterans? Post traumatic stress/moral injury? Of course these concepts apply to non veterans as well. 🙏🏻 My dad, two brothers, and my husband (WIA) are all combat veterans with about 14 deployments between them. They all suffer deeply. Their combat experiences and experiences with friends KIA and those who have committed suicide have only increased my passion to serve veterans. I am currently a counseling graduate student at Liberty. There just is not enough readily available information/resources (although it is increasing) for them - especially counselors with a firm foundation in Christ who are equipped to help them with their unique experiences. You guys have both theology and therapy behind you which is already 2/3 of the way there, I had to ask! :)
I wanted to say thank you so much for these videos. I have learned so much! They have helped me tremendously. And as your therapist said I hav enot been able to find a good Christian therapist in my area and it can be expensive. These teachings are a HUGE blessing in my life. Thank you so much!
its interesting the analogy to dust (which makes us feel insignificant, small and even dirty) vs God's breath (which gives us meaning, purpose and a future). I sometimes still struggle with self-condemnation, and carrying the weight of shame, and it's still a journey reminding myself that God created me in His image, and came to redeem and restore me.
This is perfect!! Shame script vs conviction..wow that's enlightening!! Also, physically speaking over those horrible thoughts is a constant battlefield. Thank you for these sessions 🦋
❤Lysa and your team is an answer prayer 🙏 am so glad that you didn’t let your hurts rob you from Gods breath on you and to share it with us! 😮am so amazed of your messages. This is a top of the list of example of how God is good and wants to heal us all. Your books are amazing as well I can see Gods hand on your visions. You have brought a new set of eyes and steps to see myself and get healed. Thank You to both Joel and Jim what a blessing and gift to enter into 2023 am a different women. Thank you JESUS.
Thank you! Great insight, wisdom, guidance and encouragement! Also, I heard you use the word "old" a couple times in describing yourself. I read Joyce Meyers book, "Aging Without Getting Old" that has helped change my mindset in that regard. Thank you for all you are and do!
I just have realized that I am living in trauma from my childhood and I am 44yrs old and still am not only stuck living with my parents that created this trauma but I am having a very horrible problem with drugs. My father who has narcissism qualities and he stopped talking to me and has ignored me for years unless I do something wrong. And my mother has always said that he loves me. Omgosh no he doesn't. But I just have learned about narcissism and complex ptsd and also how I have borderline personality disorder. Just learned about it like a month or 2 go bc of a trauma bond relationship that I am in with my last relationship. I can't even get it out what I want to say. However I'm so depressed that I can't get out of it. Please pray for me.
People need to be held accountable for their actions. My Ex is back at Church bragging about his girlfriend who is a married Woman and no one speaks truth to him. He started the affair while we were still married. He lied and cheated during our 42 year marriage. It hurts that he gets away with it.
I have what is sometimes ANGER when I’m being falsely accused. I have a response that is even shocking for myself. I’m getting better at controlling it but I have triggers I still must look at:)
Thank you so much for these resources. Sadly quality therapy is only for the wealthy and that is the truth. So most of us who really really need it will never be able to speak with a good therapist. These videos will be all the help we can get (which is still limited because wounding happens in relationship so deep healing and wholeness really only comes in relationship as well).
I came from a broken home. My Mother was divorced twice. So I want everything to go perfect. Can’t handle when things go wrong. Then pow got gaslighted and pushed away by my Ex while he lied and cheated with a married Woman on our street. Left and felt like a nobody. Healing now ❤🙏✝️
The idea that so many people have about, "Well, you're a Christian, so you should be nice," is really flawed. We are to represent God to the world. Do people really think God was "nice" all the time. If He didn't agree with something, He spoke up and was blunt about it. He didn't sugarcoat or fear hurting someone's feelings. He spoke truth...THE TRUTH, in the hopes of saving a soul.
Lisa my shame script is just like yours, and the imposter syndrome too! Mine is everyone else is better than me. So we ALL have shame and low self esteem sometime mine gets very loud I'm not a much of a woman as others not girly enough don't have a gang of friends cause I don't fit in due to trauma I don't trust easily too old and useless in comparison to young perk women. I have C-PTSD I've survived horrible mind shattering attacked things I've seen repeatedly my mother was a covert Narc then I Marie done who horribly abuse day for years psychically and emotionally he his borderline sociopath
To become accountable...do you not need the shame to sear our conscience so that we take responsibility to recognize what we are doing wrong and take steps to allow the holy spirit to lead us towards God?
I'm a covert narcissist, and its hard to see the goodness of God sometimes. I deal with shame, but I'm not quite sure exactly why. How do you reconcile "You are good enough," with the fact that we are sinners that are not good enough? I thought the point of the cross was to say, "You aren't good enough. But God is good enough for you." I'm not asking to start a fight. I'm genuinely curious, because I have a really hard time with shame. I'm affraid of becoming arrogant
I too am afraid of pride. I’ve never heard anyone admit they are narcissistic. That’s a little confusing for me as I’m told narcissist don’t know they are narcissistic. Anyway, I was shamed and abused my entire childhood and then also in marriage and in church. Every time I start feeling good about myself I sabotage it with all the shame thoughts and mostly I say to myself “ who do u think you are, don’t be so prideful, sit down and shut up”
I want to know what Joel was going to say about Jobs response to the friends. I felt like he never got to finish what he was saying and I was really into it :/
Wow, I really needed to hear this. I’ve realized about myself that if I view someone a certain way I will speak to them a certain way and it’s not always kind. This has made me realize what I need to change within myself to treat people as Christ would based on the value He has already given them despite how I feel about them. We are not just dust and broken off bone. We are image bearers. 🤍🤍🤍
I am so very grateful for this podcast and all of your vulnerability and teaching and speaking truth in love . Blessings to you all ! God is so good and faithful!
I could cry I'm so grateful for this podcast. I get SO much from y'all. Thank you, thank you! Shame scripts are a huge obstacle for me. Isolation yes.
Not wanting to do a job I am not cut out for. Know what I mean.??
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An obstacle, is not necessarily a closed door... GOD is with you, you're not alone. Joshua 1:9 Never give up hope. Never give up on love. Romans 8:26-28 Mustard seeds. 🕊
Thank you also from someone who can't afford it!❤
We're glad these videos have been helpful to you, Tarena!
Where I live in AZ I'm able to get free counseling once per week because I have a limited income. Maybe you can look into it too? It's not christian counseling, but it helps a bunch. But... MAN these videos have helped me so much! I share them with so many friends! God bless!
I'm so thankful for the ministry that comes from Lisa, Joe and Jim. I just started the video and when I heard of Lisa's vision to include therapy for those who want therapy but can't afford it, it was an aha! moment. I am one of those people. I had been asking God for therapy for months, but just don't have the money for it right now. I am in tears because I realize just in this moment that He provided it for me through the therapy and theology videos. 😢 This is yet another reminder of God's faithfulfulness and His love towards me. So thankful! I wish I could perceive His love quicker!
Can’t find biblical counseling often do this is priceless truly
Thank you!!
We're so glad this helped you!
God, Holy Spirit, Jesus....thankyou x infinity for bringing these 3 precious people and podcast on my path at exactly your timing.....thankyou for what the 3 of you are doing.....PS: i'm from South Africa....we don't have this here yet....but I pray God has shown me my calling eventually...52 yrs old and learning such great lessons and transformation, which I need to pay forward.
Thank you for the best therapy.
If it’s attacking who you are that’s a shame script. If it’s attacking what you are doing, it might be a conviction preventing further sin…. So good
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I am so grateful for therapy and theology.. i have gotten therapy multiple times but having this now has helped me so so much ! So thank you all !
I was so starved for something like this. Thank you all involved!
We're so glad this is helpful to you, Jackie!
I absolutely LOVE these segments. Keep the "Therapy & Theology" series going!!! It has been so helpful and insightful in my life. Blessings to you all! God is using all three of you in a wonderful way to reach thousands of people.
Thank you all for you faithfulness, such a blessing to receive your wisdom, teaching and personal testimonies. I’m learning much and most importantly laughing again. 😀 thank you!
Thank you for your service/committment. Because of it i have Godly counseling and help❤. Which i so desperately need and cannot afford...
Wow. God is Good! God is Good all the time!. Today's Encouragement for Today (1/30/2024) - talked about 'Shame Doesn't Get the Final Say'. And this morning, I got on UA-cam and this Podcast video was on my home page! God is speaking to me loud and clear - ministering and revealing in me what is not of Him. These podcasts are just a God send and always on time with whatever I am dealing with. Thank you P31 team.
These videos are such a saving grace from God. Thank you for giving your talents, especially in these times!
I've watched 3 episodes so very awesome ..praise God thank-you Jesus..I think theology should always be a part of therapy 🙏 I just never could feel like I could 😢to my pastor..I'm older so there for I remember when theology and psychiatry. Were so opposed to one another...this is just such a great podcast..God bless you and yours and God bless everyone listening..Praise God
Thankful for this woman and this ministry who has helped me in learning to be confident and hopeful in Gods promises and commands for what is a healthy relationship and what is not. There is a lot of confusion for Christian women I believe and so I’m thankful this is based on biblical wisdom and lays out exactly how and why.
Thanks so much for watching!
Its not just for people who can't afford but more importantly for me, at least is linking therapy with God. Because of my abusive childhood & dysfunctional marriage, I was angry with God for not doing anything & the church for keeping me from therapy due to bad doctrine & my trauma filter. With help from my therapist & your program, I'm now seeing God through attachment theory & I'm seeing scripture differently so seeing Him in a true light & I'm coming back to Him. I still have an issue with the church still but I know most people are just clueless about mental health.
We're thankful these videos have been helpful for you, Louise, and are praying for your continued healing.
@@OfficialProverbs31Ministries 💜💜💜 thank you
Thank Jesus for you.
Love love listening to these 3 talk about ou😅r merciful heavenly Father the Bible
Thank you all so much for bringing this about. ❤️ I wasn't searching for this BUT GOD knew.
Oh my goodness, when Joel talks about how assumptions may be the sign of a lack of compassion. Conviction! Wow. I’ve been told that I assume too much and he just outed the enemy in that habit that I have. Now I can recognize and move into compassion. Wow. So good. Thank you all so much for this stuff!
Thank you for sharing your takeaway, Candace!
I love all 3 of you!!! ❤❤❤ God bless you!!
I have felt so alone for the last couple of months, because of shame, guilt and a closed mind and mouth, so happy for this
Thank you Lysa Terkeurst for coming up with the idea of Therapy and Theology because I can't afford counseling. I listen to these series and am also grateful for the podcasts that you have done with Leslie Vernick too!
We're so glad this helped you!
When Jim spoke I began crying. Lysa thank you for providing free Christian counseling for your audience.
God bless you all 3.
Thank you for Therapy and Theology ❤️
Thanks for watching, Susie!
Can you recommend a good ministery in Oklahoma!
My shame script was also you are unwanted. Took 35 years and Theophostic prayer healing to get to the root of this shame. Thankful for growth and talks like this❤
As a person who can't afford therapy, I deeply appreciate the love and effort that you all pour into this show. It has changed my life. Thank you thank you thank you.
We're so glad this helped you!
This is so good; Thank you! I keep coming back here because it's so full of truth, and helpful in our walk with the Savoir. God bless you all for your help, and ministry in Christ.
Thanks you all. As a Psychologist and Life Coach, getting people to understand that awareness, responsibility and accountability are all the great fruits of life.
Thanks for watching!
Thank you so much for these podcasts, they are helping me so much in my current situation, God bless you all 🙏🤗
We’re glad you’re here!
Thank you. Praying for God to redeem my shame scripts I have projected on others already. And redeem a relationship I may have recently sabotaged
This is how I felt a year ago, God is healing me day by day.
Amazing channel and words is wisdom needed in our broken world
Love all 3 of them and what they bring to the table!
So Beautiful! I Appreciate you through the word and your relationship❤❤
These are sooo good! Wish I found them sooner. Listened to way too many non biblically based things until I got here. Please do more! This is so needed! ❤️
Loved the parts where y’all were vulnerable and shared your own shame scripts. So encouraging. And omg, I’m the same way with the NIV version. I’ve gone thru stages where contexts I’m in either prefer NASB, ESV, etc (and I really love the passion translation, just waiting for it to be finished), but NIV has a special place in my heart. All the others are hard for me to get into, but I know and am comfortable most with NIV
This podcast is from the mouth of God speaking into our lives. Thank you so much, it's helped me tremendously.
We're so glad you liked it! Thanks for watching!
@@OfficialProverbs31Ministries I not only liked it, it brought healing in area's of my life. The part about the emotional abuse and how a man can play with your mind. I'm recovering from abuse. This podcast is God sent.
This podcast is huge. Thank you all for being vulnerable and even showing us what a shame script looks like. I think our shame scripts cause us to be a self fullfilling prophecy. My husband said he was always invisable growing up. But he is incredibly closed off. So then he never shares anything at all. He is so quiet and never contributes to the conversation which makes him invisble even at home with my kids and in our marriage. My kids always talk to me and not to my husband because he seems closed off which makes him feel invisable.
Sooo BEAUTIFUL!!
THANK YOU ALL FOR THIS!!
Always get so much out of this. You all are much appreciated. Thank you!!
Thank you for watching, Belinda!
Please continue to pray for my husband, Johnny‘s salvation! And against his sexual immorality. From Roswell, New Mexico. Thank you!
Praying!
I pray that this is picked up by a major network🙏🏽...Once again some really great nuggets to take away 🙌🏽
This is a great team. I am so grateful for your transparency and expertise. I know that there are so many of us who are being helped by this series.
So true, tx for the vision to minister to those who cant afford nor know there's good Christian counseling!
If we would just look at everyone passing us by as image bearers, but a broken humanity (separated from God because of sin), then we as followers of Christ would be led, propelled, to share the good news with them to see them reconciled to their right place with God. Knowing who God created them to be. Image barers. Sons and daughters of the most high. Loved. Embraced.
Y’all probably don’t take requests but I was curious if y’all might consider discussing any issues related to combat veterans? Post traumatic stress/moral injury? Of course these concepts apply to non veterans as well. 🙏🏻
My dad, two brothers, and my husband (WIA) are all combat veterans with about 14 deployments between them. They all suffer deeply. Their combat experiences and experiences with friends KIA and those who have committed suicide have only increased my passion to serve veterans.
I am currently a counseling graduate student at Liberty. There just is not enough readily available information/resources (although it is increasing) for them - especially counselors with a firm foundation in Christ who are equipped to help them with their unique experiences. You guys have both theology and therapy behind you which is already 2/3 of the way there, I had to ask! :)
I love this! This is my heart…..❤❤❤
So important - how do I hold accountable without inducing shame.
I'm trying this now with my parents. And I really don't believe I'm getting anywhere.
I wanted to say thank you so much for these videos. I have learned so much! They have helped me tremendously. And as your therapist said I hav enot been able to find a good Christian therapist in my area and it can be expensive. These teachings are a HUGE blessing in my life. Thank you so much!
its interesting the analogy to dust (which makes us feel insignificant, small and even dirty) vs God's breath (which gives us meaning, purpose and a future). I sometimes still struggle with self-condemnation, and carrying the weight of shame, and it's still a journey reminding myself that God created me in His image, and came to redeem and restore me.
This is perfect!! Shame script vs conviction..wow that's enlightening!! Also, physically speaking over those horrible thoughts is a constant battlefield. Thank you for these sessions 🦋
Thank you for watching, Veronica!
@Thomas Stewart absolutely
This is literally making my stomach churn hearing my shame "from inside my head" spoken out loud on this program.
Love Therapy & Theology!
We do, too!
Thank you so much!
❤Lysa and your team is an answer prayer 🙏 am so glad that you didn’t let your hurts rob you from Gods breath on you and to share it with us! 😮am so amazed of your messages. This is a top of the list of example of how God is good and wants to heal us all. Your books are amazing as well I can see Gods hand on your visions. You have brought a new set of eyes and steps to see myself and get healed. Thank You to both Joel and Jim what a blessing and gift to enter into 2023 am a different women. Thank you JESUS.
Thanks for watching, Teresa!
Thank you! Great insight, wisdom, guidance and encouragement! Also, I heard you use the word "old" a couple times in describing yourself. I read Joyce Meyers book, "Aging Without Getting Old" that has helped change my mindset in that regard. Thank you for all you are and do!
I love all of your podcasts and your wisdom. I so appreciate all that you do to help
Thanks for watching, Debbie!
I just have realized that I am living in trauma from my childhood and I am 44yrs old and still am not only stuck living with my parents that created this trauma but I am having a very horrible problem with drugs. My father who has narcissism qualities and he stopped talking to me and has ignored me for years unless I do something wrong. And my mother has always said that he loves me. Omgosh no he doesn't. But I just have learned about narcissism and complex ptsd and also how I have borderline personality disorder. Just learned about it like a month or 2 go bc of a trauma bond relationship that I am in with my last relationship. I can't even get it out what I want to say. However I'm so depressed that I can't get out of it. Please pray for me.
Thank you so much!
Thank you so much for this ministry! God bless you all as you are blessing so many others. ☺️🙏🏻
People need to be held accountable for their actions. My Ex is back at Church bragging about his girlfriend who is a married Woman and no one speaks truth to him. He started the affair while we were still married. He lied and cheated during our 42 year marriage. It hurts that he gets away with it.
I Thank all of you 💜 I appreciate your talks
Thanks for watching, Theresa!
These sessions are so helpful and a blessed rest for my soul. God bless all and your ministries
Thank you for tuning in, Karen!
I really enjoyed and appreciated this message! Thank you Lysa, Joel, & Jim!
Thank you for watching, Colleen.
Excellent! Thank you so timely for me right now 🙏🏻
We agree! Thanks for watching, Angelica.
So good!
These are so so so amazing! Thank you
Thanks for watching, Andrea!
Thank you so much for those series❤really helpfull on so many levels
Thank you so much for these videos!
I need this because our area is in the bible belt but guess what? Not many true Christian counselors in our area. We have a tremendous need!
I have what is sometimes ANGER when I’m being falsely accused. I have a response that is even shocking for myself. I’m getting better at controlling it but I have triggers I still must look at:)
Thank you so much for these resources. Sadly quality therapy is only for the wealthy and that is the truth. So most of us who really really need it will never be able to speak with a good therapist. These videos will be all the help we can get (which is still limited because wounding happens in relationship so deep healing and wholeness really only comes in relationship as well).
Never heard the Bible and emotional stability explained with this wisdom.This podcast is in answer to prayer.
So glad this teaching was impactful!
I came from a broken home. My Mother was divorced twice. So I want everything to go perfect. Can’t handle when things go wrong. Then pow got gaslighted and pushed away by my Ex while he lied and cheated with a married Woman on our street. Left and felt like a nobody. Healing now ❤🙏✝️
Very helpful content, thank you.
Joel.. Love the ESV 😂✝️
So many AMEN...I love this Ministry & this section, are ya'll gonna make more?
Shame has a foundation of fear that perpetuates it.
Thanks for watching, Nancy!
Enjoy your podcast
Thanks for watching!
The idea that so many people have about, "Well, you're a Christian, so you should be nice," is really flawed. We are to represent God to the world. Do people really think God was "nice" all the time. If He didn't agree with something, He spoke up and was blunt about it. He didn't sugarcoat or fear hurting someone's feelings. He spoke truth...THE TRUTH, in the hopes of saving a soul.
When I say it (my shame) outloud it gives it life. I just don't want it to have.
I don't feel good or good enough because of things I did as a young person. I'm struggling with forgiving what Hod has already forgiven
WOW.....ME TOO😢
Lisa my shame script is just like yours, and the imposter syndrome too! Mine is everyone else is better than me. So we ALL have shame and low self esteem sometime mine gets very loud I'm not a much of a woman as others not girly enough don't have a gang of friends cause I don't fit in due to trauma I don't trust easily too old and useless in comparison to young perk women. I have C-PTSD I've survived horrible mind shattering attacked things I've seen repeatedly my mother was a covert Narc then I Marie done who horribly abuse day for years psychically and emotionally he his borderline sociopath
Light in the darkness
Lisa, im sinking , I’m barely existing
Sounds like the enemy is the ultimate narcissist 🤔🤔🤔🤔
To become accountable...do you not need the shame to sear our conscience so that we take responsibility to recognize what we are doing wrong and take steps to allow the holy spirit to lead us towards God?
I'm a covert narcissist, and its hard to see the goodness of God sometimes. I deal with shame, but I'm not quite sure exactly why.
How do you reconcile "You are good enough," with the fact that we are sinners that are not good enough? I thought the point of the cross was to say, "You aren't good enough. But God is good enough for you."
I'm not asking to start a fight. I'm genuinely curious, because I have a really hard time with shame. I'm affraid of becoming arrogant
I too am afraid of pride. I’ve never heard anyone admit they are narcissistic. That’s a little confusing for me as I’m told narcissist don’t know they are narcissistic. Anyway, I was shamed and abused my entire childhood and then also in marriage and in church. Every time I start feeling good about myself I sabotage it with all the shame thoughts and mostly I say to myself “ who do u think you are, don’t be so prideful, sit down and shut up”
I am enough!
I had fear of relationships because of a wrong belief that woman will treat me badly
I want to know what Joel was going to say about Jobs response to the friends. I felt like he never got to finish what he was saying and I was really into it :/
Yes Satan comes to deceive, divide and destroy and my Ex let Satan do an excellent job on that.
"counterfeit echo called shame" wow
Wow, I really needed to hear this. I’ve realized about myself that if I view someone a certain way I will speak to them a certain way and it’s not always kind. This has made me realize what I need to change within myself to treat people as Christ would based on the value He has already given them despite how I feel about them. We are not just dust and broken off bone. We are image bearers. 🤍🤍🤍