I love how you pointed out that our response to our spouse is to accept them the way that they are like the Holy Spirit does, but allow the Holy Spirit to do the work. Marriage is challenging indeed, but love covers a multitude of faults. ❤
Thank you for your feedback. Yes too many of us feel we can help, yet unasked for advice isn’t generally ok- even with a spouse when communication isn’t healthy.
My wife has filed for divorce and I’m devastated. Her heart is so hardened. Satan hardens hearts and those who have them cannot see it. Only God can soften a hardened heart. I’m praying for a miracle. Any prayers would be greatly appreciated. Thank you for your wonderful message and I pray blessings for your ministry. God bless.
@ Thank you for your prayers Ruth. She really needs them as things are REALLY desperate right now. I will pray for you this minute that your husband’s heart is softened. God bless.
So I came across this as a single person, and I’m so convicted and encouraged because I’m struggling with hardness of heart in some of my close relationships and with God. I was crying out for some practical help and thank God He led me here. Love the tips and Scriptures. I am grateful for this video!
Pls help me pray for my husband who has become so proud, selfish, angressive with a hardened heart...i believe only God can change him to being humble, peaceful, selfless and softhearted...its taking a toil on my marriage and mental health..every one says i should live like he doesn't exist and care less about him. But i love him and want our marriage to work, for us and for the kids and to the glory of God..
Consider a counselor to help you through this. If it’s damaging your mental well-being, consider getting a counselor to help you work through your options.
Thank you, all for your comments. Praying for these requests. We went through some difficult times in our family a few years back and felt the Lord taught us how to pray through that situation. We would encourage you all to seek the Lord for his pathway of healing for your marriages, how to pray and for his wisdom for you and your specific situation. He is a personal God, and is there for us to give wisdom when we ask.
This describes my ex spouse to a t unfortunately mine ended in divorce after 27 years and 2 children. Devastating. I was discarded like a piece of trash. Indescribable.
I’m in a similar situation with almost 27 years of marriage and three kids. I think our marriage has been pretty amazing, not perfect but truly blessed for sure. Is indescribable, on imaginable that I could be fighting for my marriage. My wife walked out with the three kids over six months ago and had me served like a criminal when I’ve been a very good dad and husband. I continue to pray. I continue to stand, even when I can’t think I can stand any longer, and keep on believing and claiming every scripture that God will save my marriage. I hope all is going well for you now. I’ve listened to many people that have gotten divorced, and then God restored their marriage. I’m not sure where you’re at right now, but I hope God is leading you. And you are accepting his will for your life.
Please pray for my husband's salvation and full deliverance. For full restoration and reconciliation in my marriage. For my husband to return home to me and my children. My marriage is under demonic influences 😢😢😢
Please pray for me and my husband he is in rehab coming off of meth and fentanyl, he has devastated me i lost my home, he has fooled around and my heart was so hard! But i see how i was judgmental, angry, bitter, and i was not a good wife either! So we both need a personal revival and i believe God can fix our marriage! Mahalo!
We’re glad you found this helpful! Regardless of the choices of our spouse, it’s good for us to not allow another’s choices to harden our own heart. Praying for you during this difficult time.
My husband has moved out and has OW and hardened his heart as well. Please pray for his heart to soften and to come home changed through Christ and leave the OW
I definitely believe we ah e yo soften our hearts. I also believe in trying to be as selfless as possible. I have a counselor who told me I needed to be more selfish and i immediately felt that was not correct. I gotta be better and respectful and selfless and trust in God to help me through it.
We agree with you, yet also agree with your counselor. There’s a certain amount of self-care needed when it gets especially tough in marriage. Also there’s the balance of loving and being selfless without losing yourself. Maybe that’s what was meant. It’s definitely multifaceted and not a one-answer-fits-all situation. Hopefully our videos give helpful insight, and you can land on what’s good for your situation.
Thank you that is exactly what has happened in my marriage he has moved out .and has another woman in his life.Thank you for your words. Please pray that God will soften his heart to love me again
Please pray for a miracle in my marriage. 19 yrs gone. But I'm hoping God will soften her heart and open her eyes. She doesn't believe in God. I pray daily for her salvation. 🙏
This is on my rewind playlist. Thank you for this. This is what I have been feeling. Sometimes it is quite hard to forgive. Although, I have forgiven yesterday. It is hurtful when someone neglects you and the other party just shuts down. Thanks for the point of view. Pls. pray for me and my husband John. For his heart to soften. I pray he comes back to the light.
This is a difficult position to be in. Praying for you both. Please check out the playlist on repairing broken relationships:ua-cam.com/play/PLiplyTaUAAI_3bTa3J5aEkaReIk8gWUkp.html You might also find this video helpful: ua-cam.com/video/Z_MyPaO_gG0/v-deo.html
Please pray for my husband Adam and i. Been separated for a year and a half and now im thinking there is another woman involved with him. Love him so much please pray that he comes back to me and our daughter. In Jesus name Amen
My spouse's heart is hardened. He started an affair with an older widowed woman. He moved in with her. Abandoned his wife and children. Enjoyed your message though. Praying for my salvation and for my husband. It will take a miracle and God to save my marriage. .
Please pray for complete restoration of my marriage and protection from spiritual warfare. That my husband would only have a sexual desire for me and that all perversion and desires for his mistress would be crucified.
This video does not address abuse. There is a difference between forgiving - so you can move on - and trusting again to rebuild. Praying for him from a safe place is a good idea.
I’m desperate for help! I need a miracle! My marriage is in crisis. My husband wants a divorce but I don’t. I want to continue fighting for our marriage of almost 24 years. I want our family to stay together but I feel his heart has hardened. He’s drinking a lot and doesn’t speak to me unless absolutely necessary. He comes home late on purpose and barely spends time with our kids. Our family is in crisis 😭 I’ve sought out help from our church. I feel like we need an intervention but people just say they’re praying for us and that if he doesn’t want help there isn’t much else they can do for him. I don’t feel this is right. I think my husband is in desperate need for godly men to reach out before it’s too late.
That’s a difficult place to be in where you want to help but he may not be receptive. We’d lean toward agreeing with your church family that he needs to want help himself.
Please pray for my husband Jeremy. He has bipolar disorder and is in a very dark place. He has become bitter and angry. He has been saying he wants to give up on life. He is a believer but he has quit going to church and reading the Bible. He says he can no longer hear Gods voice and is lost. He's making financial mistakes that are concerning me. We have a young son who needs his daddy to be okay again. Please pray for him. Thank you for your prayers ♡
I pray unto God im a broken 💔 man. My wife is in an affair and wants a divorce, She is a Christian but over the years has fallen away from Jesus. My Heart yearns for my wife to come back to God and be Cleansed by the holy blood of Jesus Christ. May he cast the Devil away from here that she is not bound in Adultery and in Fornication, In Jesus Christ blood I cast out all bitterness we've both had. In JESUS Christ name. On bended knee i pray and and have absolute faith in Jesus our Marriage will be fully restored. In Jesus name i pray Amen ✝️🙏🏻✝️🙌🏻 I pray for every single person on her. God bless Amen. 😔✝️🙏🏻🙌🏻
Praying for reconciliation. Please check out our website at blessedmarriage.net under the “Restoring Broken Relationships” tab for ideas on working with a distant relationship.
Label me cynical and jaded. I had a little chuckle over the statement "be happy with where we are and what we have right now" as I look around the house I provide for my family but treated like a garbage bin by my lovely wife with boxes of stuff filling up entire rooms and so much junk on the floor of the bedroom I can't even walk to my side of the bed. Basically 27 years of that [insert bad word here].
What if you couldn’t sacrifice because you were depressed due to losing a parent and unknown health issues. Health issues have been fixed but he hastily filed for divorce after telling me that he thinks I’m miserable. I went back to the church and found me again. I have unconditional love for him. He won’t even talk to me. How do I help the situation?
You can only do what you can. This video offers ideas that help. Maybe there are things in it that would work for you. The best thing we can do is seek the Lord for guidance.
Can you please pray for my ex fiancé. She left me. And I still love her. I want her to come back so we can get married under God's holy temple. Please pray for Cheryl Ebright and I ( Anthony Espinoza). Please help with prayers.
Yes that wat is happening to me after my husband discarded me for 4 years. Yes my heart is also hard towaards the Lord now, i dont know how to soften my heart
We encourage you to find a good church to connect and get support and spend time in God’s word and in prayer just developing relationship with Him. He’s the Healer and Comforter.
It’s so difficult when someone we love has a hard heart, and we’re so sorry for those facing this. There are multiple options. They’re offended for a reason, and we can work to soften the heart and resolve it; we could live as roommates; or we could walk away. This video is for those who choose to attempt to repair a broken relationship.
The content you share is good but, it is definitely not a one size fits all. If you have begged and pleaded with your spouse for years to get help and they refuse and they continue to be controlling, abusive and destructive I feel the marriage vows have been broken. There is a great difference between a difficult marriage and a destructive marriage. Sometimes the best thing you can do is leave and get to a safe place. Jesus does not want anyone to be abused.
Yes agreed, it doesn’t fit all situations! Check out the video about boundaries with ideas when someone is crossing lines and consider a counselor to help develop a safety plan for specific and more complex situations.
I love how you pointed out that our response to our spouse is to accept them the way that they are like the Holy Spirit does, but allow the Holy Spirit to do the work. Marriage is challenging indeed, but love covers a multitude of faults. ❤
Thank you for your feedback. Yes too many of us feel we can help, yet unasked for advice isn’t generally ok- even with a spouse when communication isn’t healthy.
Amen
Praying for you all. Jesus made a way for us to walk in His peace even during difficult circumstances.
My wife has filed for divorce and I’m devastated. Her heart is so hardened. Satan hardens hearts and those who have them cannot see it. Only God can soften a hardened heart. I’m praying for a miracle. Any prayers would be greatly appreciated. Thank you for your wonderful message and I pray blessings for your ministry. God bless.
Yes only God can soften a heart. We pray God’s wisdom for you and her as you’re in this difficult journey.
Praying for you and the hardened heart of your wife. I’m in the same situation. My husband wants a divorce; his heart has hardened 😭
@ Thank you for your prayers Ruth. She really needs them as things are REALLY desperate right now. I will pray for you this minute that your husband’s heart is softened. God bless.
Please take a moment to pray for me and my wife Ale. Her heart to be softened
Praying for her. Sorry, we thought we had already posted it.
So I came across this as a single person, and I’m so convicted and encouraged because I’m struggling with hardness of heart in some of my close relationships and with God. I was crying out for some practical help and thank God He led me here. Love the tips and Scriptures. I am grateful for this video!
We’re glad it was helpful!
Such a blessed word of God! Thanks for sharing a wonderful message. Glory to Jesus!😊
Thank you
Pls help me pray for my husband who has become so proud, selfish, angressive with a hardened heart...i believe only God can change him to being humble, peaceful, selfless and softhearted...its taking a toil on my marriage and mental health..every one says i should live like he doesn't exist and care less about him. But i love him and want our marriage to work, for us and for the kids and to the glory of God..
Consider a counselor to help you through this. If it’s damaging your mental well-being, consider getting a counselor to help you work through your options.
Thank you, all for your comments. Praying for these requests. We went through some difficult times in our family a few years back and felt the Lord taught us how to pray through that situation. We would encourage you all to seek the Lord for his pathway of healing for your marriages, how to pray and for his wisdom for you and your specific situation. He is a personal God, and is there for us to give wisdom when we ask.
This describes my ex spouse to a t unfortunately mine ended in divorce after 27 years and 2 children. Devastating. I was discarded like a piece of trash. Indescribable.
I am so sorry to hear that. We pray healing for your heart from the hurt.
Really good. Thank you for posting this.
I’m in a similar situation with almost 27 years of marriage and three kids. I think our marriage has been pretty amazing, not perfect but truly blessed for sure. Is indescribable, on imaginable that I could be fighting for my marriage. My wife walked out with the three kids over six months ago and had me served like a criminal when I’ve been a very good dad and husband. I continue to pray. I continue to stand, even when I can’t think I can stand any longer, and keep on believing and claiming every scripture that God will save my marriage. I hope all is going well for you now. I’ve listened to many people that have gotten divorced, and then God restored their marriage. I’m not sure where you’re at right now, but I hope God is leading you. And you are accepting his will for your life.
Please pray for my husband's salvation and full deliverance. For full restoration and reconciliation in my marriage. For my husband to return home to me and my children. My marriage is under demonic influences 😢😢😢
Praying for your husband and God’s wisdom for you during this time.
Please pray for me and my husband he is in rehab coming off of meth and fentanyl, he has devastated me i lost my home, he has fooled around and my heart was so hard! But i see how i was judgmental, angry, bitter, and i was not a good wife either! So we both need a personal revival and i believe God can fix our marriage! Mahalo!
We’re glad you found this helpful! Regardless of the choices of our spouse, it’s good for us to not allow another’s choices to harden our own heart. Praying for you during this difficult time.
My husband has moved out and has OW and hardened his heart as well. Please pray for his heart to soften and to come home changed through Christ and leave the OW
In Jesus Mighty name your marriage is restore, all for his praise and glory.
We are so sorry to hear this for you. Praying for your husband.
I loved the delivery to this message. Beautifully done! Thanks guys!
Glad you enjoyed it!
This is beautiful 😊 thank you for the video. Please continue posting, you are changing lives.
I apologize this is such a late response! Thank you for your encouraging comment. We are glad it was helpful for you.
I definitely believe we ah e yo soften our hearts. I also believe in trying to be as selfless as possible. I have a counselor who told me I needed to be more selfish and i immediately felt that was not correct. I gotta be better and respectful and selfless and trust in God to help me through it.
We agree with you, yet also agree with your counselor. There’s a certain amount of self-care needed when it gets especially tough in marriage. Also there’s the balance of loving and being selfless without losing yourself. Maybe that’s what was meant. It’s definitely multifaceted and not a one-answer-fits-all situation. Hopefully our videos give helpful insight, and you can land on what’s good for your situation.
GOD soften my husbands Jason’s heart and save his soul, restore our marriage and family in JESUS mighty name Amen
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Thank you that is exactly what has happened in my marriage he has moved out .and has another woman in his life.Thank you for your words. Please pray that God will soften his heart to love me again
Praying for you.
My husband filed for divorce after 25yrs of marriage, please pray he softens his heart to me. I love him dearly & he is a good man. Amen 🙏🏼.
We pray he does soften his heart and for God to lead you as you journey through this time.
@@blessedmarriage3591 God bless you so much!!!
Please pray for my heart. The holy spirit showed me my heart was becoming hard against my now ex-wife😪
It is such a temptation when we’re hurting and feel misunderstood. May the Lord help you yield your heart to Him for healing.
Praise God for this prodigal coming home. Go home to your wife friend. She’s praying for you
Please pray for a miracle in my marriage. 19 yrs gone. But I'm hoping God will soften her heart and open her eyes. She doesn't believe in God. I pray daily for her salvation. 🙏
I am sorry. God can show you how to pray for her. Please check out our Restoring Broken Relationships category.
This is on my rewind playlist. Thank you for this. This is what I have been feeling. Sometimes it is quite hard to forgive. Although, I have forgiven yesterday. It is hurtful when someone neglects you and the other party just shuts down. Thanks for the point of view. Pls. pray for me and my husband John. For his heart to soften. I pray he comes back to the light.
This is a difficult position to be in. Praying for you both. Please check out the playlist on repairing broken relationships:ua-cam.com/play/PLiplyTaUAAI_3bTa3J5aEkaReIk8gWUkp.html You might also find this video helpful: ua-cam.com/video/Z_MyPaO_gG0/v-deo.html
@@blessedmarriage3591It is thank you but pressing on
Ray has chosen to be selfish and hates me
Standing for restoration. This would be GODs glory alone
He’s the GOD of impossible
Amen....
Please pray for my husband Adam and i. Been separated for a year and a half and now im thinking there is another woman involved with him. Love him so much please pray that he comes back to me and our daughter. In Jesus name Amen
We are so sorry and pray strength and wisdom for you.
Thank you for your wonderful suggestions
This was so good
Don’t know why you don’t have more subscribers!!!
We are so glad this info has been helpful!
Please pray for bonnie that gods love and forgiveness ❤️ would heal her heart I will always love her 🙏🙏
Praying for Bonnie. Please check out some ideas for restoring broken relationships on our website blessedmarriage.net.
My spouse's heart is hardened. He started an affair with an older widowed woman. He moved in with her. Abandoned his wife and children. Enjoyed your message though. Praying for my salvation and for my husband. It will take a miracle and God to save my marriage. .
LORD JESUS restore this marraige in JESUS mighty name
Please pray for complete restoration of my marriage and protection from spiritual warfare. That my husband would only have a sexual desire for me and that all perversion and desires for his mistress would be crucified.
Praying
How to forgive an abuse husband i forgive so many times now i feel cold and empty inside but i will continue to pray for his salvation
This video does not address abuse. There is a difference between forgiving - so you can move on - and trusting again to rebuild. Praying for him from a safe place is a good idea.
I’m desperate for help! I need a miracle! My marriage is in crisis. My husband wants a divorce but I don’t. I want to continue fighting for our marriage of almost 24 years. I want our family to stay together but I feel his heart has hardened. He’s drinking a lot and doesn’t speak to me unless absolutely necessary. He comes home late on purpose and barely spends time with our kids. Our family is in crisis 😭 I’ve sought out help from our church. I feel like we need an intervention but people just say they’re praying for us and that if he doesn’t want help there isn’t much else they can do for him. I don’t feel this is right. I think my husband is in desperate need for godly men to reach out before it’s too late.
That’s a difficult place to be in where you want to help but he may not be receptive. We’d lean toward agreeing with your church family that he needs to want help himself.
Please pray for my husband Jeremy. He has bipolar disorder and is in a very dark place. He has become bitter and angry. He has been saying he wants to give up on life. He is a believer but he has quit going to church and reading the Bible. He says he can no longer hear Gods voice and is lost. He's making financial mistakes that are concerning me. We have a young son who needs his daddy to be okay again. Please pray for him. Thank you for your prayers ♡
Hopefully you can help him find someone he feels he could talk to. Praying for him.
I pray unto God im a broken 💔 man. My wife is in an affair and wants a divorce, She is a Christian but over the years has fallen away from Jesus. My Heart yearns for my wife to come back to God and be Cleansed by the holy blood of Jesus Christ. May he cast the Devil away from here that she is not bound in Adultery and in Fornication, In Jesus Christ blood I cast out all bitterness we've both had. In JESUS Christ name. On bended knee i pray and and have absolute faith in Jesus our Marriage will be fully restored. In Jesus name i pray Amen ✝️🙏🏻✝️🙌🏻 I pray for every single person on her. God bless Amen. 😔✝️🙏🏻🙌🏻
We are so sorry. Infidelity is so difficult. Praying for you.
Please take a moment and pray for Jeff and Shay to be reconciled in marriage. Thank you.
Praying for reconciliation. Please check out our website at blessedmarriage.net under the “Restoring Broken Relationships” tab for ideas on working with a distant relationship.
Label me cynical and jaded. I had a little chuckle over the statement "be happy with where we are and what we have right now" as I look around the house I provide for my family but treated like a garbage bin by my lovely wife with boxes of stuff filling up entire rooms and so much junk on the floor of the bedroom I can't even walk to my side of the bed. Basically 27 years of that [insert bad word here].
This is Ray
What if you couldn’t sacrifice because you were depressed due to losing a parent and unknown health issues. Health issues have been fixed but he hastily filed for divorce after telling me that he thinks I’m miserable. I went back to the church and found me again. I have unconditional love for him. He won’t even talk to me. How do I help the situation?
You can only do what you can. This video offers ideas that help. Maybe there are things in it that would work for you. The best thing we can do is seek the Lord for guidance.
Can you please pray for my ex fiancé. She left me. And I still love her. I want her to come back so we can get married under God's holy temple. Please pray for Cheryl Ebright and I ( Anthony Espinoza). Please help with prayers.
This is a difficult time for you. We pray the Lord leads you and her in what is best for each of you.
Yes that wat is happening to me after my husband discarded me for 4 years. Yes my heart is also hard towaards the Lord now, i dont know how to soften my heart
We encourage you to find a good church to connect and get support and spend time in God’s word and in prayer just developing relationship with Him. He’s the Healer and Comforter.
@@blessedmarriage3591 yes thank you so much
Once again, the aggrieved spouse is called upon to make the change. Unrealistic in most situations.
It’s so difficult when someone we love has a hard heart, and we’re so sorry for those facing this. There are multiple options. They’re offended for a reason, and we can work to soften the heart and resolve it; we could live as roommates; or we could walk away. This video is for those who choose to attempt to repair a broken relationship.
The content you share is good but, it is definitely not a one size fits all.
If you have begged and pleaded with your spouse for years to get help and they refuse and they continue to be controlling, abusive and destructive I feel the marriage vows have been broken.
There is a great difference between a difficult marriage and a destructive marriage.
Sometimes the best thing you can do is leave and get to a safe place.
Jesus does not want anyone to be abused.
Yes agreed, it doesn’t fit all situations! Check out the video about boundaries with ideas when someone is crossing lines and consider a counselor to help develop a safety plan for specific and more complex situations.