Embracing Your Partner's Past | Episode 39 | Give It To Me Straight Podcast

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  • Опубліковано 7 сер 2024
  • Everyone has a past and your willingness to understand your partner’s will help you strengthen your relationship and not tear it down. So why do so many people focus on what happened before instead of looking towards the future? In this episode, Jon and Alex discuss the art of talking dirty to your partner, how to handle finding your boyfriend's spicy online content, the loss of a friendship, being the single friend in the friend group, and when the person you’re dating has a secret life.
    (0:00) Intro
    (9:08) Our Listeners Give Their Advice
    (13:47) Talk Dirty To Me
    (15:34) You Can’t Live In The Past
    (16:50) You Have To Own Up To Your Farts
    (18:07) So Your Partner Makes Spicy Content On The Side
    (20:06) They’re Just Old Family Photos, Right?
    (23:04) Lost Friendship Over A Pregnancy And A Wedding
    (30:07) Keep The Guy Or The House?
    (35:10) Being The Single Friend In The Group Is Tough
    (39:14) Is It OK To Offer To Help Pay For Your Own Engagement Ring?
    (44:40) When It Seems Too Good To Be True…
    (49:57) Icks
    (52:48) Listener Review
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КОМЕНТАРІ • 79

  • @killarose4900
    @killarose4900 9 місяців тому +37

    Jon is too funny I can’t take this episode seriously the way he’s dressed 😂

  • @brayann__
    @brayann__ 9 місяців тому +78

    we should have a split screen view zoomed in to get both of your reactions in one frame 😂i also attended the live show , can say it was definitely a great experience 👍🏼

    • @giveittomestraight
      @giveittomestraight  9 місяців тому +6

      So glad you came to the show, we appreciate it!!!❤❤

  • @glaciumm
    @glaciumm 9 місяців тому +31

    i’m screaming at John’s costume 😂 Alex of course you look beautiful as ever 🫶🏽

  • @pres4954
    @pres4954 9 місяців тому +56

    An affair is not a "mistake" it's a conscious choice. Your genitals dont just fall on someone else's.🙄

    • @Gxport
      @Gxport 9 місяців тому +7

      Agree. I hate when people refer to cheating as a “mistake” verses a poor decision that they regret.

    • @auburnd7603
      @auburnd7603 8 місяців тому +2

      Exactly!!

    • @chlyri
      @chlyri 7 місяців тому +1

      it is a mistake. that doesn't mean it was an accident.

    • @Abishhhhh
      @Abishhhhh 5 місяців тому

      @@chlyriwell u made ur bed u can lay in it regardless if it’s a mistake lol sometimes you don’t get a second chance. You destroy someone’s outlook on love, you don’t deserve forgiveness

  • @Terhune22
    @Terhune22 8 місяців тому +5

    Jon’s shadow looks like Jesus wearing the crown of thorns lol

  • @YoutubEllie
    @YoutubEllie 9 місяців тому +15

    The costumes! This is too good 😂

  • @Ppinkerton999
    @Ppinkerton999 9 місяців тому +24

    Thank you for uploading so early, love listening to you guys while I’m getting ready for work!!

  • @p.p.4283
    @p.p.4283 9 місяців тому +5

    We need an update on the long distance cheater! She definitely needs to send that woman all the receipts and tell her everything! I as a married woman would also want to know

  • @d_jewillis
    @d_jewillis 9 місяців тому +12

    started listening to this episode on spotify and as soon as i realized yall had on costumes i came right over to youtube 😂😂 i love it!

  • @keelyjabloner4709
    @keelyjabloner4709 9 місяців тому +1

    I’m so enjoying these episodes. You two are great, you both seem so relatable.❤️❤️ love to both of you!! See you next week!!!

  • @KNuzX
    @KNuzX 6 місяців тому +1

    you two are amazing, during the advertisements the cuts to each other A+ hahaha

  • @pinkasmr5280
    @pinkasmr5280 7 місяців тому +1

    Yk when you look at a couple and you just know they are literally made for each other. That’s them fr 😄 like you know they’re just a match lol

  • @Gxport
    @Gxport 9 місяців тому +7

    46:36 Alex girlie! John was making a good point but you keep talking over him so you missed it. He wasn’t saying tell her now so you don’t have to tell her in 10 years. He’s saying tell her now so that it’s less disruptive than in the future at whatever time the wife will eventually find out that he is a liar and a cheater. He’s not going to change, so she will find out eventually. So it’s more compassionate to tell her sooner.

  • @ximenapereira1742
    @ximenapereira1742 9 місяців тому +7

    This is by far the best podcast. Love the energy and the outfits. Love how silly you both are being.

  • @JLJMedia
    @JLJMedia 7 місяців тому

    love your content!!!

  • @notcomplicated000
    @notcomplicated000 8 місяців тому

    Also, I recently came across your channel and it's so fun and refreshing! I was hoping for a live show! But apparently I missed it hah 😅 plzzz do more 🙏🏼💕

  • @zubrette
    @zubrette 8 місяців тому

    Hi!! I just found your podcast and I really love it! I find that you are made for each other. Congratulations from Spain!

  • @Fika_time
    @Fika_time 8 місяців тому +3

    The boyfriend and the house situation. I think he has no leg to stand on considering they aren’t even engaged. It’s not his place to tell her to sell it. Plus, they are passed. He’s competing with the idea of a guy…just lack of respect. He sounds like he needs to get himself together and grow a pair.

  • @haleygarner4667
    @haleygarner4667 9 місяців тому +3

    I too look forward to Tuesday mornings! Love the costumes! Wish I could’ve been there to see you both live! How fun would that be!

  • @ShimmySnail
    @ShimmySnail 9 місяців тому +3

    I knew a pr0n director who was married to one of his actresses. They were best friends and partners until his untimely death. If one of the partners has an OnlyFans, that's the world we live in. The bad part was that he did it in secret and didn't get her buy-in and he didn't share the money. Hiding money from your partner is as much of a betrayal as hiding infidelity.

  • @moniquesepulveda1437
    @moniquesepulveda1437 9 місяців тому +1

    Setting the scene here! lol
    I turned on the tv today and opened UA-cam. My little boy that’s 4 says “Oh look mom the podcast that says Gracious gracious host” lol I thought it was So cute and hilarious! 🤭

  • @LucieBeatrix
    @LucieBeatrix 8 місяців тому

    I love you guys!

  • @user-rd5nn7rm3b
    @user-rd5nn7rm3b 9 місяців тому +2

    Jon calls his grandmother Mime! I do too! I’ve never heard anyone else call their grandmother that, so cool lol 😊

  • @Ashleykriza
    @Ashleykriza 9 місяців тому +1

    Okay I listened to the podcast and now seeing what you guys actually wore is way more hilarious 😂😂😂 that fit actually suits you @jon 😂! Hope you didn’t break anything 😂😂😂

  • @sashacardenas377
    @sashacardenas377 4 дні тому

    Him mouthing “Rih-zoh-doe” LOLL

  • @user-rd5nn7rm3b
    @user-rd5nn7rm3b 9 місяців тому +1

    Jon calls his grandmother Mime! I do too! I’ve never heard anyone else call their grandmother that, so cool lol

  • @erikagaus4046
    @erikagaus4046 9 місяців тому +1

    “I’m just glad you’re happy” hahaha

  • @92vita
    @92vita 8 місяців тому

    Jon in this outfit 😁😁😁 best thing ever 🙃

  • @catherinesalas2962
    @catherinesalas2962 9 місяців тому

    Say YOLO again with that wig on!!! 😂😂

  • @camilla3219
    @camilla3219 9 місяців тому

    the one of the maid of honour is the response to the one of some episodes ago 😂

  • @villlahuevos
    @villlahuevos 9 місяців тому +1

    LOL I farted in front of my trainer and i just started laughing and said sorry and he didn’t even care, it’s fine it happens and i’m sure they’ve had people fart in front of them before

  • @jessicaeckelberg2163
    @jessicaeckelberg2163 9 місяців тому

    Died because of the costumes and died because of the airplane fart story. 10/10 🤣🤣💀💀

  • @amandasyl
    @amandasyl 8 місяців тому

    How come the intro/outro is so nostalgic to me?? Everytime I hear It I feel like I am in summer 2014, getting ready for my freshmen year of college and I am not sure why😂 anyone else have this or is that just me 😂😂

  • @nikospodcast
    @nikospodcast 9 місяців тому +2

    Aquamans daddy made an appearance...wonder if he had Taco Bell and is wearing crocs. The way Jon giggles his trident and Alex says stop lol. Surprise Jon didn't do a hair flip and look into the camera with a one liner. Lol

  • @sashacardenas377
    @sashacardenas377 4 дні тому

    Best podcast best skits fav youtubers since BfvsGf (Jesse and Jeana)

  • @MX1.1.
    @MX1.1. 9 місяців тому +3

    17:00 My response to passing out in front of others is ABSOLUTELY don’t do it. - I was at a meeting at work and the person that was presenting farted at least 6 times and just said “excuse my popping”. It was fucking disgusting.

  • @notcomplicated000
    @notcomplicated000 8 місяців тому

    Girl I have Invisalign too and it's a struggle talking lol. You do really great tho, I couldn't even tell. Did you just get them or have you had them for a while?

  • @SyreLikeAFire
    @SyreLikeAFire 9 місяців тому

    i’m sure watching the ad/sponsor breaks at 2x speed will make anyone’s day ;)

  • @lifewithshara
    @lifewithshara 9 місяців тому +4

    I would also want to know if my man was cheating on me. Does no one think about STD's when there is a cheater? I understand thinking about the baby just being a few months old, but I'm also thinking about the women this guy is sleeping around with. No one will really know if he is being safe or not.

    • @nothingtoseehere9851
      @nothingtoseehere9851 9 місяців тому

      ^^^^ THIS - EXACTLY! and safe is not a guarantee. Plenty of people lie about being clean when theyre not, plenty of people are in denial and lie to themselves about what they have. There is always risk even when being safe.

  • @nlux711
    @nlux711 9 місяців тому +1

    we talked about rings before we got married.. my now husband paid for the engagement ring and I paid for the bands.. felt like a fair compromise.

  • @Ligierthegreensun
    @Ligierthegreensun 9 місяців тому

    I love Halloween as a dude and hate other holidays. Halloween was awesome as a kid, and it sucks how much it's diminished, but it's a lot of fun decorating your house to be creepy, seeing all the kids in their costumes, scaring the older ones, giving out full size candy bars and watching their faces light up. It's the best holiday. Thanksgiving and Christmas suck, tbh. Gotta spend a ton of money on people and travel around.

  • @emmakatemiddleton
    @emmakatemiddleton 9 місяців тому

    I think the word Alex was looking for was “hellbent” ? ☺️

  • @hollypinque5349
    @hollypinque5349 9 місяців тому

    Moissanite Engagement Ring for the win!!! You can get a big, beautiful, sparkly gem and you can't even tell the difference unless your a professional. Set it in a fancy, high quality band & setting - you can build your dream ring for a FRACCCTIONNNN of the cost, and only you will ever know. :)

  • @Chrisoaxaca1
    @Chrisoaxaca1 8 місяців тому

    Gah he is so f’n fiiiiine. ❤

  • @Poodlesnpussies
    @Poodlesnpussies 9 місяців тому +1

    I love Halloween. Sorry Jon

  • @stevend2748
    @stevend2748 9 місяців тому +1

    23:04 the pregnant lady was offered to be relieved of the duties as bride's maid. She should've taken the out.

  • @Kaylinsummer
    @Kaylinsummer 9 місяців тому

    39:44 Julien Solomita also got an engagement ring & I thought that was so cool. Maybe offer an engagement ring to him too if you feel like you need to pitch in. I think it may bruise his ego a little because of gender norms

  • @JulieCee97
    @JulieCee97 9 місяців тому

    Mine never wants to dress up lol 😂

  • @shraddhanair5501
    @shraddhanair5501 9 місяців тому +1

    Alex is sooooooo pretty & cute 🥹😍

  • @delilahranae3891
    @delilahranae3891 8 місяців тому

    Hold that real estate!!! Do NOT sell!!!! He just wants to be on a deed for security.

  • @fbip3z
    @fbip3z 8 місяців тому

    Thank you Jon for being a proud Halloween hater! Worst "holiday"

  • @Price8903
    @Price8903 8 місяців тому

    I wouldn’t sell the house either. The bf is a scum and insecure. Making her pay 70% and she still has to sell the house to make you happy

  • @simonesenft9503
    @simonesenft9503 9 місяців тому +1

    Am I the only one who’s offended by the number of “likes” on each video? 😂 like, over 7k views and only 300 people liked it?!

  • @christyschmidt-mc5hk
    @christyschmidt-mc5hk 9 місяців тому

    Jon seems so bored in this episode lol😂

  • @SL-xk5pd
    @SL-xk5pd 9 місяців тому +1

    21:07 👏 Alex spitting facts. Jon being empathetic I get it but listening to the email I was just thinking how delulu this person was to expect the grandparents to get rid of pics of their grand kids from their own home and at the same time creating some crazy backstory in her head that they somehow want the parents to reunite 🤦🏻‍♀️ People really always believe they are the main characters. So anyway thanks Alex for bringing rational thought and solutions to the conversation.

  • @user-yn4mk6qr5s
    @user-yn4mk6qr5s 9 місяців тому +1

    Alex should work on not interrupting John so much

  • @anadrgoman
    @anadrgoman 8 місяців тому

    Im a 100% sure this guy is cancer moon or aquarius.

  • @czurbandanaz
    @czurbandanaz 8 місяців тому

    Why u hate everything u always point the negative ...I love u guys but the negative comment about small stuff make u look like a people u not.

  • @Chan-wash
    @Chan-wash 8 місяців тому

    Hey John , what’s your credit card number ?? I need it to post extra reviews online for you guys. 😅

  • @user-rd5nn7rm3b
    @user-rd5nn7rm3b 9 місяців тому

    Jon calls his grandmother Mime! I do too! I’ve never heard anyone else call their grandmother that, so cool lol 😊

  • @user-rd5nn7rm3b
    @user-rd5nn7rm3b 9 місяців тому

    Jon calls his grandmother Mime! I do too! I’ve never heard anyone else call their grandmother that, so cool lol