how i really feel about social media... (im anxiously oversharing again but its fine)
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- Опубліковано 22 жов 2024
- hey yalllll excited for a chit chat grwm vibe today where honestly i overshare and i cant tell if its valuable or not lol like HELPPP im feeling anxious and im over thinking again but im sure we can relate - love u xo
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24 years old, graduated nursing school, now a full time content creator!
I'm Puerto Rican and black girl
filming on SONY ZV E10
girl, it’s okay to change your content niche. the real ones will stay and the ones that ain’t real, will leave. your content is YOURS. focusing on stuff that matters doesn’t make you less of a creator. just because everyone else wants drama, there are those few who don’t and will stick by you for your content, mental health talks, resets, brand trips, rumor content all of that ❤️
Maria, you are so right that the real ones watching will be there when Monet return to her Vlogging.
Facts!!
Maria you’re absolutely right nicely said we love you Monet 🙏🏽❤️
100% agree you like or you don't. there is an easy button to push...unfollow
Being a young woman especially in your early 20’s and out of college is a whole new world of its own. We step into ours careers, into “real” relationships, and into the “adult” world. It’s totally normal to start questioning yourself and those around you and it’s really part of maturing. It’s uncomfortable, sure, but you’re constantly growing more into yourself, your values and into the kind of life you want to live and that kind of change is always uncomfortable. The truth is whether it’s on social media or in real life there are always going to be people who want to tear you down and see you stumble because they can’t stand how unhappy they are and seeing you shine reminds them of what they’re missing. Don’t get caught up in their BS. It sucks, but being true to yourself through that is really all that will ever matter and it’s something you’ll never regret. Sending all the love to you and anyone who sees this.
had to screenshot this to remind myself of this, tysm! ❤❤
this is exactly how im feeling rn its good to hear it talked about more
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@semajafrazier5593 ❤️
Frontal lobe is lobing now! Love this for you sis you got this!
@@gillianofori922 LMAO FR
Exactly what I was thinking 😂 When that frontal lobe starts to come in, you see EVERYTHING differently in the best way🫶🏾
Truly this wasn’t depressing. I think it was a valid talk, I admire how self aware you are as a growing human being, not only of who are as a person but also your journey as a person who shares their life on social media. It was insightful to hear, whether r I can relate or not, this is how you feel, this is what you are going through. I never want you to feel like you should never say what you need to say when you need to say even when it feels weird or necessary. It’s necessary for you and we support regardless, so keep allowing yourself to evolve as a human being. Have your thoughts, share them whatever 💗💗💗💗💗💗💗
@@giagood1435 this is so sweet ily
This comment ateeee❤❤❤
These videos are my favorite because this is the reality of life! Feelings, negative thoughts, growth, challenges, etc. You deserve the same about of space to find yourself that every other 20 something year old has. Also, if your mind says “who the fuck cares” you can tell yourself that I do & I asked & I want to know! 😂💞💞💞💞💞
@@AdriellaGonzalez exactly 👏
As an OG, I knew the drama and the negative comments were getting to you. I felt sooo bad cuz these people TURNED on you so fast. And the over analysis of your relationship gets on my nerves so I KNOW you’re tired.
I think sharing joy is a beautiful thing. And those who fuck with you fr will love it and those who don’t deserve all the inconveniences in life. Don’t let these ppl run you away from what you enjoy. But also if this isn’t for you anymore, you gotta do what works for you.
We ❤ you sis!
Pleasee girl this is a safe space 😭 this was not depressing it’s REAL. The therapy is therapy-ingg👏Take a break, post what makes you happy, no need to chase the chaos of trying to go viral. You’ve achieved so much already and I hope you are just so proud of yourself. Keep doing you, we’re here. Real ones will not be going anywhere and will follow wherever you take us 🥹💕
I can totally noticed your vibe has switched and have becomed guarded which is so understandable with people nit picking everything you do. Do what makes you happy and ignore the drama.
This literally felt like we were on ft😭😭loved it. I was like “yeah girl same”
Psychedelics are just an exceptional mental health breakthrough. It's quite fascinating how effective they are against depression and anxiety. Saved my life.
Can you help with the reliable source I would really appreciate it. Many people talk about mushrooms and psychedelics but nobody talks about where to get them. Very hard to get a reliable source here in Australia. Really need!
Yes, dr.porassss. I have the same experience with anxiety, depression, PTSD and addiction and Mushrooms definitely made a huge huge difference to why am clean today.
I wish they were readily available in my place.
Microdosing was my next plan of care for my husband. He is 59 & has so many mental health issues plus probable CTE & a TBI that left him in a coma 8 days. It's too late now I had to get a TPO as he's 6'6 300+ pound homicidal maniac.
He's constantly talking about killing someone.
He's violent. Anyone reading this
Familiar w/ BPD know if it is common for an obsession with violence.
Is he on instagramm?
Yes he is dr.porassss
“Who fucking cares” is how I feel 24/7. Every time I’m talking to someone that question pops in my head and then I cut myself short each time. Still working on my confidence mentally. I appreciate the realness. Keep doing you and whatever makes you happy. People are always going to have their own opinions. Your true supporters love you and stand with you always! 💕
I’m 28 rn…and at 24/25 this is a very real age to start questioning and reflecting deeply on the life you’ve made for yourself/ the person you’ve been so far. I think things are meant to feel confusing and it’s gonna feel confusing again in a few years cuz we never stop growing n changing.
That being said, keep reflecting and tuning into yourself. But know you’re doing exactly what you need to do and are exactly where you need to be, don’t let internet strangers or even the little anxious voices of doubt get in your head about the direction you’re headed. You’ve made it off your own strength and mind so far, just keep doing YOU! 🩷
This is so unbelievably relatable, not the part about dealing with the fame, but just dealing with life these days. Like ugh battling self love, confidence, anxiety, figuring out the future, trying not to feel like I’m self sabotaging and trying to always make the right decision
okay i loved that you spoke on this because of just seeing things from the outside transpiring, i was just like wow, people are…interesting. i clearly cannot relate from your prospective as content creator and everyone feeling the need to comment and be negative. but the end for me was so refreshing and a good personal reminder, i have a very fast pace career and finally am making some changes to implement being able to still have the career i want but have the lifestyle i want which means not living how i currently am and moving states and being in my own space and having that highlight of my life being chilling at home alone with my cat, hosting friends and family when i want, etc. like that was such a good reminder for me tbh. but girl this world is truly your oyster and this video shows once again how authentic you are. and also the feeling like you’ve aged so much is soooo damn real, im telling you as a female when you hit 24-27 shit gets reallllll and you mature so much, it’s amazing but freaky, questioning so much, like am i doing this right lol.okay i feel like my comment long asf so i hope i made my point. either way you slay and you got this and you still have some amazing support no matter what, sit back and live this life how you wanted that you created.
love this comment so much. THANK U FOR SHARING UGH like okay we are just women trying to figure out this life thing and we really can relate on sooo so many levels. love u
This is why you’re the best influencer, the vulnerability, the honesty, I don’t think you understand how inspiring it is to see the struggles and not just the wins. You’re a beautiful soul Monet! So proud of you ❤ ily
but fr!!!
All of this is so valid. I think that’s why over the years we’ve seen so many content creators and influencers keep certain parts of their life private, and that’s okay.
At the end of the day we came here for YOU, but NEVER at the expense of your happiness.
i can’t imagine what it’s like to deal with private things publicly☹️i’ve been following you for a while and i love the positive energy that you bring to my page. but i definitely get where you’re coming from with wanting to be more reserved. put yourself first and always take the time you need.
Monet your corner of the internet loves you! I know it may be hard to tune everything else out but your true supporters are here for you. keep going at the pace that’s right for you! we’ll be here excited to see whatever you’d like to share♥️♥️
Monet- I felt the shift in you. I saw it in your face and actions. It’s okay to do this social media thing on your terms! Protect what’s most important to you including the people in your life. Set healthy boundaries love. The real followers will always be here and respect your choices. Always remember you’re so loved by many ❤️🙏
as a business owner who’s growing rapidly i fell you, imposter syndrome can be such an odd thing, but you being transparent literally makes me feel so seen! Especially the impending doom of keeping up and posting!
As one of your older followers I just want to say I am really proud of you for having the confidence to trust yourself and move accordingly. I’ve loved watching you grow and blossom. I love who you choose to surround yourself with and how much love is around you. You are a bright light and I admire the way you handle it all. There is so much love for you and I hope you feel it. ❤
Ppl will DRAGGGG youuuu but as long as you know who Monet is and know you’re staying true to yourself in every stage, let the haters talk. For ppl to take the time to judge and troll on the internet is crazyyy like they actually took the time to watch you’re every move and it’s very much giving I don’t got much going on in my life so let me make ppl miserable
The way you are so transparent from the beginning of your journey is amazing!!!
Honestly I don’t mind how you change your content or anything. I just genuinely enjoy watching you be a person and hearing you talk and inspire
as a micro influencer trying to decide if i WANT to even keep trying! this is such a relieving take. thank you so much for being authentic and vulnerable. At the end of the day you’re a human
That part!!
Girl honestly you accomplished so much in a year that most ppl take 10-20 years to see… you’re doing great and owe yourself a break whenever needed.
Mental health check ups are sooo important in this industry. Never feel like you need to share every detail but know although the internet can be mean, you have so many ppl behind you. Take necessary breaks and when you ready to bounce back, we’ll clock ittt🩷
Bringing mental health into conversations is soooo important. You reclaiming your peace and happiness is the best thing you can do, because no one can do it for you. You’ve gotten me through my life in these beautiful 3 years and for that I will always be grateful to you. You inspired me to start social media myself and today I received my very first PR, like what?? It’s so crazy to think we’re on two separate sides of social media, yet you feel like the most human and normal person out here. I love you mo, I love your soul, your heart, your mind, and how honest you can be with us. Unapologetically you. That’s your new era. 💕
I truly admire how self aware you are, specially as a young adult. You get so lost in the “what’s in” at the moment, you forget about what matters to you and what makes you happy.
I’ve been following you since 2021, and watching you grow, as I grow, has been so special. Don’t everrrrrr give in to what people have to say, the real ones know you and your heart, and we love you for it! ♥️
This video calmed me down so much. I feel so safe and at peace.
Thank you so much for being transparent! I have been going to therapy for the past few years and it’s truly transformative. But I FELT you when you said “Am I doing this right? Idk” is literally how I feeeel as a 20-something, you get it 🩷 but Once you learn how to take care of yourself and set your limits, you can be a better from your community and even more creative! I can tell a big difference when I’m anxious/not well and how it affects my work. Keep going queen ❤❤ we support and love you!!
Girrrrrl like literally these 20 somethings is a constant back and forth questioning of everything from your life choices, to your career, relationships, finances and all of the above girl. But we’re gonna figure this life thing out one day at a time and I think it starts with owning the choices we make and standing on our values and ethics. Not compromising or diluting ourselves to match the culture. You know and it’s hard asf when our natural instinct is chameleon but standing out and being your true authentic self is all you can do to not drive yourself crazy. Love you mamas. We got this 🩷🩷🫶🏽
Everyone in the early to late 20s goes through the same thing. People that want to bring you down start to become your inner voice. That’s why it’s amazing implementing and keeping your mental health in check. You going to therapy is sooooo important. You have a great support system so you got that going for you. You got this boo!
ily 🥹💕
we need you to post the positivity bookie it’s NOT forced it is so appreciated. With all the bs and drama your content is a big reason i still even have tik tok. Also this talk isn’t depressing … its just not all happy and that’s OKAY😭 it’s real and I’m here for it ❤️
who genuinely shares everything in RL😭 girl you’re as authentic as it gets! Most humans pull back from ANY experience where they go through scrutiny or misplaced judgement in general. The fact that you can still be vulnerable with us shows that you choose strength🤞🏽 Real ones have always wanted to see you grow 👏🏽👏🏽
Being a young entrepreneur, i understood every single word that you said.. I had my first therapy session today, and i’m going through similar things (no where near on the scale that you are) but this video helped me feel validated in my experience. im going to learn how to focus on little things that make me happy too🩷
I love this transparency. I got off social media because consuming content that’s so dramatic is honestly draining so I commend you for all you put up with. It’s crazy how much people will assume about creators they don’t know and spend their time gossiping. Also we watched you hustle literally all last year…you deserve time to figure out this whole new life and finally process. Thanks for the realness you always bring to your channel. ❤
Take a month break or 3 months. You’re allowed to do what you need for yourself! 💕
People who have been watching you for your personality are still enjoying your content now! I love watching your progresssion and how your interest have changed! Love you!
i love a good ole social media break. touching grass is so good for the soul! you don’t owe anyone an explanation for taking time for yourself. cuddles with Rumor sounds like healing to me! Sending love from philly 🫶🏾🤎🤎
how did I see this coming.. I love you Monet, only focus on what you can control
i relate so bad when you talked about feeling like no one care what you have to say. like you’re right, not in a “no one cares” but like they don’t care? idk i really got what you meant. luckily i’m surrounded by people who remind me that what i say does matter and they do care. i still have those thoughts and i’ve learned to acknowledge them but not take it to fact. i feel LESS crazy hearing you speak about it tho lol
That primer wants to turn you into the Dave Chappelle crack head meme so bad 😭😭😭
HELPPPSKSKJSJSJSJS
😂😂😂
There’s a reason you have this beautiful community and success, and it’s because of your authenticity! Everything you are talking about is what a lot of women, especially in their mid 20’s experience. it’s just no one feels like they can talk about it. Also, we’ve all grown up from a social media era development where we started off being silly and goofy and authentic to a highlight reel and constant comparison and anxiety. Figuring out how to navigate it all can be so confusing! So thank you for opening the door to this conversation and also for being so real with us. Take whatever time you need, whenever you need it! We love you for a reason and we’ll always be here whenever you feel like hanging out or catching up. Just gotta look at us like your low maintenance bffs ❤ you should be so proud of yourself for all you have done and all you are!!✨
I feel the same way about my journey, I’m 21 and I’m about to be 22 to month, I’m finishing my bachelors and I’ve always worked in school. I feel guilty when I don’t have school or something to do with my time but I procrastinate on my daily tasks. I also have been trying to make a routine for myself and show up every day as the woman I want to be. I starting to pray, affirmation. I love my family and always family oriented, focusing on them and my close relationships rather than stressing boys. I’m trying to figure out friendships. I relate to feeling many emotions at once. Slowly learning what life means to means to me and what I want to make out of it. I loved this video Monet thank you for sharing
Hey girly👋🏽, I just wanted to say that I always appreciate your honesty. I couldn’t imagine being in your shoes. As an influencer you share your life with the world and unfortunately people take advantage of the information that you shared and trusted them with and throw it back in your face. The internet is a toxic bestie. I have watched you since forever and I can’t speak for all your fans, but if you want to take a break (which I think you should) do it! No one is going to forget about Monet McMicheal because you are that girl! The internet doesn’t deserve you if they can’t handle you with care. Like you said in this video, you are your own boss. You make the rules not us. Create the content that you want to create, if people don’t like it, those people were never for you. I love you! I’m a 23 year old, black, college girly from Memphis and you are such an inspiration! You are inspiring so many women of color so the best advice I can give is don’t forget why you started and who you do it for. If you forgot, take a break to remember.
it wasn’t depressing but so real a lot of the little things you touched on i feel like a lot of people can relate to deep down
I love catching up videos 😭 I’m proud of how far you’ve come with speaking about your mental health since you’re first video about therapy !
I definitely noticed how much less you post I miss you but girl I don’t blame you 😭 keep doing you, keep inspiring!!
My personal transition from post college into my career.. I was the most depressed. I’m now 29 and fine! It is about your personal joy. Your why doesn’t have to be all money/work. Life is the people. Focus on that and your mind/heart relationship. We will be here ! ❤
9:07 the heart on ur head 😭😭 Monet. Stop. Being. So. Hard. On. Yourself. You are great and amazing. I’m glad you’re realizing that you’re EVOLVING n growing. Not doing “less”. You put out so much love and everyone in this world is just doing the best they can tbh. I’m glad you can share this with us. We luv u
girl same i still struggle with being hyper sensitive to the things people say to me irl but i’m learning to let it roll off my shoulder cos who cares fr.
reclaiming the things you care about the most and keeping the things/people that are most important to you private is valid. 💗💗💗
Sis you are the bright light we need in the dark scary tunnel of the internet. Please keeps your happy positive self. Its so rare! 💕🥰
Queennn, don’t even apologize for how you’re feeling or that you’re sharing it, this video didn’t get depressing at all. It was so real, so genuine, and you’re a great soul. A lot of us really loveeee you. Keep being you and your best self girl you’re doing an amazing job
Social media comments have become so nasty and you are responding with grace. You’re human and we appreciate this candid moment ❤
i swear i’m so glad she talked about this because i definitely noticed & haven’t seen anyone else bring it up. people are meaner than ever on these apps now i swear it didn’t used to be this bad even just a few years ago. it’s sad
100% understand you it’s okay TikTok is messy but don’t let it stop you from being you !
Thank you for being so real with us!! We will be here no matter how you change as a creator and your authentic energy will always be so unique!!
12:43 felt that HEAVYYY. It really feels like ppl just feed off drama and it affects views and it’s crazy that in order to grow as a creator, you need to be messy and that’s not meee so I’ll stick to my little 400-500 views
lmao same, like i just wanna make my little makeup tiktoks and vlogs. nothing serious!
Wow, how did you put everything I was thinking into the clearest words! This video was not depressing but REAL and that’s why I adore you as a creator, you shed light on what really matters and not just for clicks. I feel like social media and sharing isn’t fun anymore bc of all of the saturated negative energy circulating around it. Thanks for recognizing it and using your platform to bring awareness to it too, lots of young women should look up to you and know they don’t have to fit into the “drama filled, he said she said, they did this they did that” status quo. There’s more to life than that! Love love love you Monet!
monet (get ready this is a long one)i’m younger than u i just graduated highschool and i’ve been watching u for a while i’m usually a silent watcher but it’s sad how the internet turns on people knowing their literal human beings like everyone else what i love more than you’re travel vlogs are just seeing u for you and your everyday life whether u or other people think it’s boring it’s refreshing seeing someone not hiding the bad and being true with who they are. i love ur youtube videos because i feel like you used to share more and it would be like our safe space but the people invading ur privacy and making fun of you is so sad and annoying and it’s totally understandle for your starting to shelter more about you but know the real ones will always be with you i love you and don’t forget to take it easy because even if ur not feeling as motivated anymore i love a regular weekly vlog or chit chat it makes it like we’re in ft! being in the public eye can’t be easy and just know your doing amazing and don’t listen to the haters 💗💗
Girlfriend I feel this with you! Being reserved and overthinking everything you say is so heavy like you feel like you’ve been shoved into a hole and it’s so scary to come out because you just want peace but people want you to address everything that’s been fabricated in the drama world! I genuinely pray you just tune it out and let it be water off your back! It’s hard because I genuinely know how you feel to the core! Especially the part where you’re like views = terrified feelings! 100% can relate to that and I feel like that’s what’s been holding me back from throwing myself into social media! I’ve experienced some drama on social media on such a small scale but GORL it feels so loud! I promise you it’s 0.99% of people who are not in your corner! Wait what’s that saying? 1 out of 10 people will dislike you so add that into the equation when it comes to not caring what people think or say of you! I don’t know if you’ll read this but I just want you to know that this video LANDED and we all feel you and see you! Wish I could give you a hug and just help you see in tunnel vision when it comes to your relationship with us! Like we are your girls! We ride or die for you! The ones that create drama ain’t it and they are just loud for no reason! I hope you’re ok! We love you and everything you do and will always back you!! Because that’s what real besties do!!! Thru sickness and health baby! Love you ❤
I’m not even a content creator and I feel like I deal with this! You are heard, you are understood and whether you post or not, your followers who genuinely love, support and appreciate YOU will continue to do so! You’re so amazing, and thank you for opening up and allowing us to experience the amazing woman you are🩷
I think this is the perfect convo. Idk why drama has been the main focus on that side of TikTok. all the "think pieces" and sharing opinions is annoying. I think that you should keep having these conversations and protect your peace fr. You are growing into a different phase of your life and your contant should change as well.
we hear you trust me! The real community who is in touch with you support everything you do! From brand trips to weeks at home. We’re here for you 💕💕 take care of your mental before anything & breaks as needed.
I'm 30 and still experience this sometimes. What I've been learning is that you can change THE WAY you do things, as long as you keep your integrity about WHO YOU ARE and you show up doing what you ACTUALLY love. It's easy to get caught up when there are so many options given to us and sometimes we get into the wrong ones and then God shows us where to recalibrate. I love you because you ARE honest! You inspire me in many ways and it feels nice to see YOU wanting to go back to your roots and your WHY!
Keep it up!
As someone who had such a spark and and big personality and love for creation, when my frontal lobe developed I feel like it just vanished. It’s so hard not to be realistic and have that girl just shut up feeling whenever I’m doing anything. Growing up just made me lose a bit of my spark
omggggg i hear u i feel u
Everything you are feeling is completely normal, thank you for sharing and being real and honest. We can all relate actually.
This literally broke my heart because I completely understand where you’re coming from. Do you Monet💖
Girl this has always been your safe space. We have all watched your vlog that you just spent days in your comfort zone doing make up or cooking just talking to us like we on face time literally & we loved every minute of it. We love YOU Monet, your vibe, your energy, your family. We love what you love so what ever you next steps may be the real ones ain’t going no where. ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️ you can make the vlogs longer again 😅
health ade’s berry lemonade is their BEST flavor, i swear by it!
girl i been looking for a good flavor THANK UUUU
@@monetmcmichaelpink lady apple flavor is soooo good too
release the guilt sis ur constantly evolving & its genuinely been a pleasure seeing ur journey ❤️ continue to stand in ur power, the real ones appreciate u !
As a consumer I’ve even stopped going to comment sections as often because they’re so unproductive and dramatic. I feel like if I was a creator, I would just turn them off if you do still feel like posting while you take a break.
Girl your feeling are so VALID! I feel very similarly to youuu it can be so hard to be unfilteredly yourself when people are so quick to judge and hold you to that person forever. The 20s are the trenches we have no clueee wtf is happening it’s hard cause the world is so bleak at the moment!!! But we need people like you who are positive and putting out that good energy, we need to believe that things will get better for them to get better 🫶🏼❤️✨supporting you always keep spreading the sunshine
Dear Jesus, I pray that Monet has a sense of peace that surpasses all understanding that comes from you, Lord. I asked that you remind her that she is fearfully and wonderfully made Lord. I pray that Monet is healed from all anxiety and sadness that she experiences. I asked that you give her an overflow of love and self-worth that she doesn’t hear what the opposition says about her because she knows she gets her worth from you Lord I pray that no negative comment orblog or post about her can bring her down because she knows that she is a child of God and that means more than anything of this world. I pray this in Jesus name amen.
So a year ago around this time I remember you made a video of how you were feeling and what you were going through.
I love that you share all the highs and lows of the industry. I appreciate it so much.
Thank you for your vulnerability and sharing your perspective. This means a lot to us all.
I think there are always gonna be people making noise and as long as you keep your circle and support structure and relationships as strong as it is. Protect those aspects - yes we love seeing your friends, family and relationship. But protect your peace when you need to babe.
We love the authentic YOU . Keep being YOU,❤❤❤❤
i feel like maybe you can take a break from titkok and just post on youtube. youtube to me is more intimate. i noticed you didnt post this on your ig so the people who are watching rn are rlly down for you.
First I wanna say that this was really needed for me as a longtime fan! Like, the internet can be very reaching for me too. Because you see this person you follow being spoken about in such a negative light, it messes with me sometimes because I want to know if you’re okay; no one wants to be torn apart like that. And you being silent kinda makes me find my own ground, basically be grounded in the fact that I follow you on every social for a reason, I love your energy for a reason, think pieces shouldn’t mess that up. So, once again thank you for this Monet! You’re doing so great! In as much as you want to remain in that vibrant 21yrs old bubble, you’re gonna keep growing and expanding! So keep setting these boundaries even if they are subliminal. And the true supporters and lovers of your energy will stay here! Love you girl! And be good!
You are such a magic light in this world, Monet. Thank you so dearly for sharing yourself with us and these feelings with us! We've got you. Take all the breaks, pauses, etc. that your soul needs. You are so gracious and open-hearted and it showsss!! Love you. xx
I’m honestly so glad you made this video because it helps me remember that I’m not the only one that has these feelings. Thank you so much for being real & open. You are truly my inspiration for life. Love you Monet!! ❤️
I love how real you are ❤️ it’s so easy for everyone to assume influencers just have this perfect fun life but they don’t and I think you opening up and just being real about it is so healthy. Set your boundaries who cares what others think it’s your life and your happiness and you need to have your peace with everything to be okay! Your true supporters won’t care what type of content it is or how much you put out, we just want you happy! That’s what sets you apart 💕 I love you!!! 🫶🏼🫶🏼🫶🏼
this is so real and something i think about on the receiver end of content. how people deal with this as regular assss humans. i think youtube is the best platform for you. i always feel your genuineness through here the most
YOU DO KNOW!! It’s a beautiful thing when you truly know what you want in life. Protect your peace 💛
girl this was not depressing and i can relate heavyyy!! it's so beautiful to see your growth and evolution as a woman, as an entrepreneur and as a human being! thank you for sharing your honest thoughts, reflections and experiences even though it's hard and your anxiety to want to protect yourself from the danger of the internet is sooo valid. it's really inspiring to see your journey with prioritizing your mental health, working with your therapist and just living life the way that feels most aligned with your values and deepest contentment
Girl this was so real and I swear in the best way possible so helpful. Cause I feel like watching people on socials they seem so put together and no worries. And at least for me I’m like terrified to take a chance on what I truly want to do and just hearing that like I’m not the only one and like you a successful woman has these feeling too makes me less nervous and seen so GIRL keep doing you love always.
This is so refreshing! I'm in my late twenties and all I want is to have a healthy life, especially a life that supports my mental health. I sometimes feel like everyone is trying to do everything at once and it is so exhausting. Thank you for being so real and for sharing your thoughts, it felt really good to me ❤
wow u really just into perspective for im sure all of ur day 1’s the journey youve gone through. me specifically been watching u since i moved to college alone w no support and you have inspired and helped me so much like no other. the confidence and inspiration u feed to people is next level
I loveeeed this omg. I feel so validated with how you feel as well and every single thing you said is so understandable and I hear you, I see you! I feel so happy to found an influencer who is SO real.
You made a comment at the beginning about comparing ourselves to previous versions of ourselves and let me just say, FELT. I restarted school for my BSN and have been dragging in classes, I have a slower working pace, I dont study as often, etc. But I constantly remind myself of where I am now vs then while giving myself grace and gratitude for maintaining school + adulthood. Love you shared your thoughts. Peace & Blessings to you Monet
Honestly, I feel like I’ve grown so much watching you literally since nursing school days is crazy. So why would anyone expect you to stay the same or “keep up” with who you were last year. The person you are today isn’t by accident and in my opinion it’s exactly who the world needs rn.
Im so sorry you feel this way lovie. I actually tell people youre my favorite influencer because of these moments where you're real and unfiltered. i care so much about how you really feel because it teaches me what to expect as i grow on social media and building my business. people are so critical about everything nowadays because theyre BORED. i beg that you keep creating but PLEASE REST. like completely walk away for a minute to admire what youve created and enjoy all the little things in your life. love you girl :/
Omg Monet!!! I’m literally in tears this video was honestly one of my favorites of yours!! Your authenticity and vulnerability is why you are my favorite influencer and person to watch….seriously! Please do not take down this video because like you said all these feelings can coexist and you don’t always have to be “happy” but your happiness is SOO welcomed! I love how you said “claiming your peace” that’s SO beautiful!! The internet is just full of unhappy people but there unhappiness is a representation of their own unhappiness in there life not you!!
I love you, your content and this little space you’ve created on social media of calming peace and abundance!! I wish you nothing but more authentic joy🤎
these sit down grwm's are my favoriteee. thank you for your vulnerability and strength. the real ones will love you in every era and i have loved you and your content since 2022 and love it now.i think being honest and making videos like this may help you not burn out because it is exhausting to try to be positive all the time. sending so much love your way
I feel the same way tbh. Especially the 🤷🏾♀️. Especially on what is valuable to you. Especially the anxiety and how to spend free time. It’s so interesting how people can be in different places in life and come to similar conclusions and feelings.
i relate to u so heavily on this!! thankful to see an influencer being THIS raw and humble on the internet. i ❤️ the normal and simple things too. love you girl wish you the best 🫶🏼🫶🏼🫶🏼
You took every thought out of my brain💞 we love all versions of you because you’re truly a reflection of so many of us and how we feel. You make us feel validated. Gooo Montayyyy🥳
I’m here because of your authentic positivity. Thank you for showing up as you, even when it’s hard. The people who are meant to find you, will. Thank you for being you, it’s more inspiring than you know girl 🫶🏽
You Can See How Much Stronger You Are Within Yourself Just By How You’re Carrying Yourself In This Video. No Tears! Means You’re Standing On Business.
You are living in your authenticity! It’s been an honor to witness your growth and grow alongside with you - going through your twenties is no joke! I resonated with EVERYTHING in this video. Your core fan base (myself included) will always ride with you and for you, girl. Be yourself! Live in your truth! Enjoy your beautiful, fulfilling life. Watching you blossom has been so amazing and there is so much more in store for you ❤❤❤
Love this ❤ I never comment, but you are very wise. I'm 33 and still learning how to focus on the small but GREAT blessings in life. Its so easy to question if we're doing enough and keeping up. When you said you are rich in life, for all the right reasons 👏👏 the little things that make being alive everyday fun and happy are so important. I wish more people showed the regular everyday life as well as the big moments because that is what I think makes us all feel more connected. That is my favorite content personally, even though everything you put out is an absolute slay. Dogs, home life, spending time with loved ones, healthy routines, and real struggles. I found your page from a closet cleanout video waaay back because I needed a cleaning buddy for motivation and have watched every video since. Growth and evolution as a human is a blessing. Wishing you and your loved ones nothing but positive energy and love ❤️
I felt sooooo much of what you were saying so you are definitely not alone! People often forget just because you’re a content creator or influencer doesn’t make you any less human than the rest of us and I hope you find that space to remind yourself that your feelings are valid and you are able to be as human as you possibly can!!!
ive been here since nursing school and i have seen your light dim. coming from someone who has depression, anxiety, etc i can tell so vividly when someone is not ok. if changing your content is going to make you feel better and strive; DO IT! i am so reserved and HATE people in my business so im right there with you. if youre happy in your relationship, stay in it. if you wanna change your content, change it. the only person that will truly effect is YOU! baby youre the main character of your story, do whats best for YOU
Beauty! 💗 You can do everything “perfectly” and sometimes people will still have something to say because they’re projecting their own insecurities onto you or they have an opinion of how you should act, be, or what decisions you should make but none of that matters because they don’t know you fr and it’s your life. Trust yourself, always 🤍 Share what feels good to you, and know that just because someone has an opinion, that doesn’t make it true. At the end of the day only you know your intentions and the details of your personal life. You have nothing to prove to anyone. Also, big high five for therapy! Love that for you 🥰 You got this Queen 💖✨🌸
You’re literally amazing! Please continue to do everything that makes you happy and make you feel like YOU 🩷