+SANA Yanovich Honestly like this comes at a price plus if he cares so little about others or finds it difficult to, he shouldn't be surprised when others (over time) care little about him. Even family and close friends have limits to anyone's behaviour.
I can always relate to your reasoning - find it very logical. Also the stuff you said the other day about respecting foreign cultures - you do not just respect them because they are there. Anyway, lots of people just assume the "common" way is the only way. Really appreciate your content. You are outstanding!
I find your honesty refreshing. I don't like when youtubers are disingenuos saying how much they love their little lollipops or whatever they call their "fans".
Yeah I like I I like that he's upfront and personal like he's telling the truth like that's who he is like he doesn't care like I least he's not lying and I know what I'm getting myself into but this is UA-cam so you better be prepared for the criticism and if he doesn't have friends you know maybe there's something wrong with him he should just be blunt and say he's a psychopath and it's proud of it or whatever
I am the same way. I find people talk about a lot of irrelevant and pointless things so I just prefer to say nothing unless it’s about a topic I actually enjoy . My empathy levels are extremely low unless they are people I genuinely care about or know
VV VV People feel empathy for different things. It's sometimes hard for me to feel empathy towards my friends, I don't feel genuinely bad but I try to comfort them. However I feel really bad if someone, let's say, punches their cat. It's an automatic reaction to feel empathy. You can't really control it :/
I've seen tons of your videos and watch all the time and never comment mainly because I don't care to give my opinion. But this is the most genuine relatable video ever...I don't care to work with people their social and personal lives is their problem I'm there to work not be their "buddy" I don't hate them, I just don't care for their social life. Thank you for your honesty Daniel, it's comforting to know some one else understands. BTW eggs looked great.
Black Yes... Look I care for people. But I'm not interested in people's personal life's why does who only care to see me just so they share that with me idk them and barely have anything to do with them. Yes were human...just not interested in everything you're interested .
Shamic Entertainment I believe a certain amount of narcissism was necessary to protect us but maybe we can get to a place of neutrality which is healthier in my opinion
Narcissism it's an invention of what Society does not accept now but remember we didn't have psychology back then and men used to kill each other and have no empathy whatsoever do horrible things more than now but now we have evolved and we're better now well most of us but there's some remnant random events of the past that are still alive today and what we don't consider acceptable is still Among Us human rights were created because terrible things were happening to you people the people stand to protect ourselves humans do terrible things to each other in medieval times people that such terrible things and I must say not terrible things don't happen now they're just more low profile are more mental but not saying that medieval men don't exist now they do they live inside prison or the modern evil man is the intelligent man that's no empathy no remorse
I very much agree with you, especially preferring to stand in silence than talk and getting told you're rude or unfriendly to coworkers. Now that I work at home, it's been so much better now that I don't have people popping their heads into my cubicle. Being blunt also rubs people the wrong way. Can't help it if tend not to sugarcoat things. I'm told to stop being negative when I'm merely providing information. I'm sure I've got issues with empathy, but I'm definitely not heartless. I can cry just like anyone else. But no, a stranger's dilemmas will usually get a blank stare out of me. My ex is still angry that I am not torn up about his brother dying of an overdose. It wasn't that he was boring so much as I generally didn't like the guy.
scarredk0 But how am I meant to care about what others are doing if i don't know them well? I would care if something bad happened to them, but apart from that it has no effect on my life. Maybe I'm a narcissist, but in this instance I feel Daniel is saying sonething many people feel, but don't talk about.
Vanessa Roque that's not even what introversion is. Stop sectioning yourself off as a unique introvert as if it makes you in some way quirky in a way that makes up for your lack of personality.
I just made your omelette recipe with a few adjustments. I added mozzarella and cheddar cheese and instead of using your seasoning I used creole seasoning to add to it. It blends together all well. It is a true delight.
I have people have bland superficial conversations with me then expect me to have an emotional connection with them. Nope. I feel nothing. I guess they con others that way.
Over three hundred COnfirmed kills hah I have a friend...er ex friend, who is a narcissist/sociopath....best decision to get rid of that person from my life...it's emotionally draining
Over three hundred COnfirmed kills stop calling him sociopath when he actually just speaking about what we all normally think but we don't want to admit it by saying it
This video is so true. What I find works best is not giving them stuff to work off. For example if they say “how are you” I just say “good” I don’t say “good. And you?” Because I really don’t care. They usually get the point and walk off.
Aspergers symptoms are not this. Aspergers is not understanding *when* you should be feeling empathy, not that they intrinsically find it hard to feel empathy when they know they should be feeling it. Daniel knows exactly when he should be feeling empathy but just doesn't feel it, which demonstrates some level of sociopathy. He does moderately well to fight his sociopathic tendencies however, while he has not treated his wife the best, I can see that he has treated her a lot better than some of the previous people in his life. Most sociopaths wouldn't bother to even try and be nice ever.
djunior874 tbh no because all you will do is disagree. Just look it up instead. Many people with autism have different experiences with empathy, It's not all black and white, the spectrum is so big.
@@VivoLaRihvolution It's more than just being introverted. There's definitely something off about him BUT he's gained an audience so whatever works for him lol.
Selfish, probably not narcissistic. A narcissist wouldn't have the same candor about their selfish behavior, especially if their girlfriend or family would be able to key in on their behavior through their self-posted videos.
That's why I watch you. You are super honest. I don't like or support most of your pasts choices and I don't think we have the same values but what today's youth lacks is honesty. Being honest is one of your best traits Daniel and I think it's normal to become so emotional numb if everyone around you especially on UA-cam /social media are all faking their happiness or lying to your face. I too lack sympathy or understanding but at least I'm honest and try my best without playing this facade that people expect me to play into
Damn, this is one of the uniquest youtube channels i’ve ever seen. Brutally honest, showing things happening in your life when they should be kept quiet and stuff. Love your honesty.
One of the most honest youtubers I've ever seen on this website! That's how a lot of introverts really think and feel and are being judged for it by the "extroverted world"..
If everyone were truly honest and there were no social repercussions, probably more than 1/2 of the entire planet (or everyone) would confess that they feel exactly the same. Other than immediate family or longtime friends, I really don't have any interest in other people. I should? Why should I? No one has ever given me an answer that was convincing. I cause no harm and I ask little from anyone...I blame no one, I don't defend that which needs no defense (how and/or why I am). I just AM. And in just BEING ... I'm free.
Daniel you're a really interesting person, don't let other people bring you down. You're not weird, you're special. It's disheartening how many people change themselves for others to like them and then here you are being yourself no matter what. You're truly an inspiration!
He didn't even care about you that he didn't like your comment that's how hilarious that is that's like a smack to your face hahaha that's what you get for empathizing towards him hahaha and you say he's special special right yeah truly inspiring I just saw sombody to get hit by the bus and I don't care cuz they're boring
Currently going through this. Started a new job and I have nothing in common with anyone and I don’t care to talk to them or go the extra mile but multiple people are already complaining that I’m quiet. I just don’t care and I’m here to make money. It’s really draining working here already for social reasons and personal reasons and it’s only been 2 weeks.
I relate to this so much like my friends will tell me stories about how some lady miles away from me killed her 3 children or something it's so freaking tiring pretending that I feel sorry for them why should I care when I don't even know these people??
I can relate to that so much. Many people dont know that there are introverts and extroverts. Intros lose energy while interacting with people. Extros get energy while interacting with people. Thats the important difference. Im not a big talker myself. I care about interesting and deep stuff and not smalltalk because smalltalk steals important energy. Most people dont understand that fact and judge you. They think youre just shy but thats not the case. So annoying.
I do hate how people feel they need to act fake or unauthentic for work. I personally actually genuinely care about strangers but I get what you mean and it’s all reasonable and makes sense.
Most things that people say are superficial. I always feel really weird when people in America and Canada ask "how are you?" every time you interact with them. My followed thought is always something like "do you expect to hear a complaint?" People just act caring in order to be perceived as caring.
I’m also very quiet, shy and really don’t give a shit about people as small talks is awkward for me. So I stay quiet, and get judged.people find probably find me arrogant. I do wish I had the balls or didn’t have anxiety to talk to pretty girls tho.
I am exactly the same. You are just being honest with yourself. It doesn’t mean you can’t be happy. You just have to find that one person in life that understands you which it looks like you have :)
I think any friendship start with boring and pointless conversations. All friends were strangers at one point, and to make friends, you gotta break the ice.
I can partially relate to this because in my life I've experienced a lot of the situations that you mentioned. I used to think that I didn't have any friends because I didn't have any genuine interest for others. That was a lie that I kept telling myself to justify the fact that I was lonely; it was easier to remain silent in most situations that required social skills, that I didn't have and thought I did, instead of exposing myself and talk to others; I was fine but I wasn't feeling great so I decided to change. People can give you a lot, they can teach you more than you can think of but to get that you need to know them a bit, you need to become someone that they can trust, part of their life, only then some exchange of informations, experiences and so on can happen. The key to that is small talk, being able to do so shows that you're interested or, in your case, that you're at least trying to engage in some sort of discussion, even if you don't really care about the person. I get you, no one really cares that much initially but making that small effort is not lying, is communicating to the other person that you're present, you're manifesting yourself and you do so because that's how nature works. Getting to know people made me informed about their interest and made me interested in topics that I never ever considered. You seem a person that has something to say, then why not doing it with real people (potential friends) in your life? Small talks are just the surface of human interactions, no one cares or focus about that, small talks are not the conversation, they are the starter, it's what's under it that's important but in order to get there you need to break the ice. In the end it's a reciprocal exchange though, what have you to offer? Assuming that others have different interests than you and for that reason you don't have any interest in them is wrong, you need to know them and then decide. Is this the most intelligent thing to do? Do you think that your isolation will, in the long run, result in the best life you can have? What are the real reasons that bring you to hide in your room?
Certain people always make it as if there should be a diagnostic for every personality trait... my family seem to all the time. Sometimes you just don’t give a shit about what other people do, and that’s fine
I have no idea why i like this guys videos, we dont have a lot in common at all but i find his honesty and somewhat bleak individualist approach quite refreshing. You have gained a subscriber.
To some degree I can understand where you are coming from. Like you, I also don't give a crap about people I don't know (around me). I couldn't care less what anyone thinks of me. Where we differ is I also kind of hate people, but at the same time I am insatiably curious about them and want to know their deepest darkest secrets and weaknesses.
Daniel I really enjoy the fact that you are doing this, your uniquely you brutally honest I’m going to watch you and wait for the character development.
A lot of people just make small talk to look good socially or get something out of the person they are talking to. I don’t think that most people make small talk out of empathy. Making small talk with strangers/acquaintances is usually boring and aggravating to me. If I see someone I know but really do not want to talk to, I will literally run away in public before they see me.
same it's so hard to have a good career if you're not outgoing or chatty because people always expect you to be this way even though you might get more work done than people who are just blabbering the whole day with their collegues
Same, but i find it easier to care about people who doesnt knows that i exist (my favorite artists) than to care with relatives and people i see everyday
I feel that most of us truly feel this way. But people tend to put up a fake facade especially on social media acting like they care. I feel the exact same way as you do. I only care for a select few people and the rest I don’t want to have interactions with nor care about. You are woke Daniel.
You remind me of a guy I know, in fact watching you makes me understand them better, also the same thing I would say to them and you now is that you should love and accept yourself
Just found your channel and I like it a lot. Love your honesty. You tell the truth about how you feel. This is so rare nowadays. Stay like you are! Some say your are emotionless and that you don't care for anybody. It don't think so!
We hide behind our screens feeding off of his journey & unconsciously sabotaging his spiritual evolution, draining his life force like parasites, vampires incapable of looking within self reflection
*_The chronic lack of empathy is a clinical symptom of a psychopathic narcissist... Most people, find others with these specific personality traits, repellent, distant, remote, non-caring and dispassionate... What's interesting here is, listening to Danial actually talk about it, which is his way of coping with rejection, but Danial is correct in pointing out, that his lack of empathy does not make him a bad person... In fact, any problem his audience has with Danial's brutal honesty, belongs to them... Besides, who is the one here, smart enough to generate money from Google, while simply speaking his mind._*
I hate talking to people I am not interested in. Sometimes dont even want to talk to people who are my friends. Sometimes i just want to be there without having to talk so that they dont think im weird and awkward
I learn about people on social media first, observing them anonymously, before i meet them and talk with them in rl. Sometimes i never met any of those people, but continue to watch what's happening in their life anyway. Basically i'm a stalker but these people don't know about that, so i don't do any harm to them. I hate when people i'm interested in make their profiles private, that's so selfish and rude
totally understand the job thing--I try more with customers than my coworkers.. lately I been pretending to give more small talk to my coworkers as well--but they know already that I like to get my work done--so our conversations is short. With costumers I don't mind as long it's related to the product..it's usually draining or felt like waste of time if they start talking about their own lives. I will fake smile and pretend to be interested since I don't like giving off negative energy..sometimes it happens and it makes me feel more drained. ANYWAY I also agree with your pov on the UA-cam thing.. I don't mind if others do those sort of things but it's so good to see an honest perspective.
Ming-Yun Lam Not really. I feel almost exactly the same. Why would anyone care about someone they don't know, if they have nothing in common? That sounds normal. When I say "care" I mean I don't care about there day to day life. If something tragic happens to them I'd feel sad
Shamic Entertainment >if something tragic happens to them I feel sad There’s the thing, he very explicitly stated that if something bad happened to “Pete down the road” (him getting hit by a bus actually) he wouldn’t care at all. That classifies as something tragic which he states wouldn’t make him feel a thing.
@shyvixx100 I think that's how their culture works and that's how they were raised to be no empathy I think it's weird cuz we're our social beings that's why he doesn't like talking to people cuz he knows that nobody would like him because he's fucking heartless that's a fact like he's not nice
Some part of life humans have let you down, you feel safe and protected in your zone. I have been attracting too many shit people in my life since past few years, nowadays I can’t stand people and I don’t have patience oto even smile at strangers or even have a nonsense conversation with any idiot. But nothing is permanent, even this miserable life, that motivates me to live.
I dont mind chit chat and small talk if its a genuine conversation. Like I hate when someone asks me about my day just so i could hurry up and finish so they can blab to me about what they want without really caring for what i said. Or when people strike up conversation but dont really pay attention to what im saying. Its more like their own self satsifaction that they were being kind enough to show interest/meet some sort of social cuota.
Danielsan i love the ending......my little watermelons. Lmao.....you should end every video with a varied type of that for comic effect. Like i love you my little possums, watermelons, tulips....would be very funny. 🤣
here's a real observation/advice from a guy whose watched many of your videos. 1. It appears that every minuscule thing that happens in your life is immediately made into video. 2. You need more of a social life so you become happier. By social i mean with or without a group. If your by yourself just spend more time outside the house. 3. Work for something you want in life i.e. get a job or go back to school and set a plan for success. 4. Try to be positive and count things your thankful for.
Dude. I’m the same. I totally get it. I’m only able to care about people when I know more about their life. Like one time at work, some oldish guy died and everyone was sad and I was like meh. But then they started talking about him, like the type of person he was and how he’ll be missed and I got really teary eyed. I usually cry at sad movies so maybe that’s why. It was like being in a scene from a sad movie.
This is something I HATE to admit, but it’s true. I don’t hate people, I actually have friends that I love and stuff. But I can’t find an interest in strangers interests either
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Love your brutal honesty
SANA Yanovich It's brutal for superficial persons
Don't tell me your are a bitch like daniel😑
+SANA Yanovich Honestly like this comes at a price plus if he cares so little about others or finds it difficult to, he shouldn't be surprised when others (over time) care little about him. Even family and close friends have limits to anyone's behaviour.
Same
I can always relate to your reasoning - find it very logical. Also the stuff you said the other day about respecting foreign cultures - you do not just respect them because they are there. Anyway, lots of people just assume the "common" way is the only way. Really appreciate your content. You are outstanding!
i didnt expect to relate so much
Fuck you
I find your honesty refreshing. I don't like when youtubers are disingenuos saying how much they love their little lollipops or whatever they call their "fans".
Yeah I like I I like that he's upfront and personal like he's telling the truth like that's who he is like he doesn't care like I least he's not lying and I know what I'm getting myself into but this is UA-cam so you better be prepared for the criticism and if he doesn't have friends you know maybe there's something wrong with him he should just be blunt and say he's a psychopath and it's proud of it or whatever
It's a lot easier to care about people if you've actually met them or at least video chat.
I am the same way. I find people talk about a lot of irrelevant and pointless things so I just prefer to say nothing unless it’s about a topic I actually enjoy . My empathy levels are extremely low unless they are people I genuinely care about or know
But...to be honest: Is empathy even existing in general?
I got bullied for almost a decade...I definitely lost any belief in empathy
SnazzyBoxx what you like to talk about is probably irrelevant to them. You need a group of people who give a fuck
You are either a narcissist or a sociopath. Both have little to no empathy for others and only care about themselves or what others can do for them.
VV VV People feel empathy for different things.
It's sometimes hard for me to feel empathy towards my friends, I don't feel genuinely bad but I try to comfort them.
However I feel really bad if someone, let's say, punches their cat. It's an automatic reaction to feel empathy. You can't really control it :/
Isn't that like bpd shit
I've seen tons of your videos and watch all the time and never comment mainly because I don't care to give my opinion. But this is the most genuine relatable video ever...I don't care to work with people their social and personal lives is their problem I'm there to work not be their "buddy" I don't hate them, I just don't care for their social life. Thank you for your honesty Daniel, it's comforting to know some one else understands. BTW eggs looked great.
For once, I can relate to something he has posted. I'm not much of a people person as well, and it is extremely so for strangers.
kibblz same . especially older people love to talk about life all the time. I really don't even know what to tell them or care tbh
Black Yes... Look I care for people. But I'm not interested in people's personal life's why does who only care to see me just so they share that with me idk them and barely have anything to do with them. Yes were human...just not interested in everything you're interested .
I appreciate how honest Daniel is!!!! Finally someone who doesn’t baby their audience
Me too, Daniel, me too. All the time.
You're schizoid then . Only cure is getting new friends and spending some time with'em .
Psycho 5
Narcissism is a world wide epidemic being healed
Nadirah Amir
I kind of wonder weather I'm a narc. I do feel empathy sometimes, but probably not as much as other people.
Shamic Entertainment I believe a certain amount of narcissism was necessary to protect us but maybe we can get to a place of neutrality which is healthier in my opinion
Narcissism it's an invention of what Society does not accept now but remember we didn't have psychology back then and men used to kill each other and have no empathy whatsoever do horrible things more than now but now we have evolved and we're better now well most of us but there's some remnant random events of the past that are still alive today and what we don't consider acceptable is still Among Us human rights were created because terrible things were happening to you people the people stand to protect ourselves humans do terrible things to each other in medieval times people that such terrible things and I must say not terrible things don't happen now they're just more low profile are more mental but not saying that medieval men don't exist now they do they live inside prison or the modern evil man is the intelligent man that's no empathy no remorse
I love your honesty
Can i request ‘what I eat in a day’ video?
Thank you
Candice K. Agree, I'd love to see a what I eat in a day too!
San haha why i feel this is so true haha
TheSwoleBroscientist he is just being DANIEL
TheSwoleBroscientist I like him
I very much agree with you, especially preferring to stand in silence than talk and getting told you're rude or unfriendly to coworkers. Now that I work at home, it's been so much better now that I don't have people popping their heads into my cubicle. Being blunt also rubs people the wrong way. Can't help it if tend not to sugarcoat things. I'm told to stop being negative when I'm merely providing information.
I'm sure I've got issues with empathy, but I'm definitely not heartless. I can cry just like anyone else. But no, a stranger's dilemmas will usually get a blank stare out of me. My ex is still angry that I am not torn up about his brother dying of an overdose. It wasn't that he was boring so much as I generally didn't like the guy.
ego-driven narcissistic defence mechanisms. you can no longer feel empathy/strong connection to others because of childhood neglect, pain and shame
scarredk0
But how am I meant to care about what others are doing if i don't know them well? I would care if something bad happened to them, but apart from that it has no effect on my life. Maybe I'm a narcissist, but in this instance I feel Daniel is saying sonething many people feel, but don't talk about.
scarredk0 you're just jealous of Daniel
What about u ?
this.
scarredk0 tbh I no longer care about people. I dont wamt to feel this way but I cant help it. I had a good childhood...At least I think I did
Introverted. I hate small talk but generally people are interesting if you ask the right questions
Exactly he just doesn't ask the right questions so he will never find anything interesting to what anyone will say
shyvixx100 thanks haha You don't have a picture of yourself so I don't know what to say haha
I have never related more to a video before. It's okay Daniel, I don't my love being one sided 😭❤️
I'm an introvert but that's okay, extroverts find us weird. But we find it more weirder when people can't be okay with themselves
introvert? this guy is more of a pervert in my honest opinion
Vanessa Roque that's not even what introversion is. Stop sectioning yourself off as a unique introvert as if it makes you in some way quirky in a way that makes up for your lack of personality.
I'm the same like you Daniel, I only care about myself ....
Love this Daniel! Gimme heart bro 😊❤
Aspergers 9000
Do you even know what asperger is?
Stop associating everything with the aspergers Sometimes people are just antisocial
Or schizoid, depersonalization, etc
I'm a simple man i see Daniel, I click
#nohomo though
I just made your omelette recipe with a few adjustments. I added mozzarella and cheddar cheese and instead of using your seasoning I used creole seasoning to add to it. It blends together all well. It is a true delight.
We love your honesty. Keep it up. I'm glad I'm not the only one who feels this way.
He is not a narcissist.
He is an introvert with less empathy.
A narcissist doesn't admit they are this way. Narcs aren't genuine.
I have people have bland superficial conversations with me then expect me to have an emotional connection with them. Nope. I feel nothing. I guess they con others that way.
People think I'm stuckup because I'm the same way. But they don't ask about my personal life either so.....
You're stuck up but why what happened to you
OMG I’m glad you are on UA-cam. I totally can relate.
No one really cares but you have to make friends somehow
Sometimes it's better not to even bother making friends. What good comes of it? Just time wasting and drams.
You dont care, 99% of people are good people who do care, you're just that 1% who doesn't care
“Love you my little watermelons take care bye bye” never thought I’d hear those words come out of your mouth in *any* context 😂
Same, when I speak to someone for like a week, they get boring and I ignore them.
>sociopath calling other people narcissistic
Epic vid daniel, good job once again
Over three hundred COnfirmed kills hah I have a friend...er ex friend, who is a narcissist/sociopath....best decision to get rid of that person from my life...it's emotionally draining
Over three hundred COnfirmed kills stop calling him sociopath when he actually just speaking about what we all normally think but we don't want to admit it by saying it
He's a real textbook example of a sociopath & admitted it even himself, so no need to sympathize with him about that.
sneakysnickersnoopy Don't try to pretend like his reasoning doesn't make sense.
Do people actually feel like UA-camrs love and care about them, though ? That's kinda surreal.
Yaeka lol i know right
Yaeka the entire beauty community sells make up via influencers who keep telling their sheep subs they love them and care about them
yep some do.
Yeah, it's a psychological effect usually used to sell useless shit.
@@NA-vt6mz They care about the money from ads and sponsorship that they get from the audience.
Can relate sooo much.
Same
Same
Same
This video is so true. What I find works best is not giving them stuff to work off. For example if they say “how are you” I just say “good” I don’t say “good. And you?” Because I really don’t care. They usually get the point and walk off.
Jack,LOL
Haha now I know why they didn't asked me back. :'(
Lol u being for real
Lol
Jack Kelly same
Guys, lacking empathy has nothing to do with introversion. Daniel's probably just an aspie.
Aspergers symptoms are not this. Aspergers is not understanding *when* you should be feeling empathy, not that they intrinsically find it hard to feel empathy when they know they should be feeling it. Daniel knows exactly when he should be feeling empathy but just doesn't feel it, which demonstrates some level of sociopathy. He does moderately well to fight his sociopathic tendencies however, while he has not treated his wife the best, I can see that he has treated her a lot better than some of the previous people in his life. Most sociopaths wouldn't bother to even try and be nice ever.
djunior874 you both are false
Care to elaborate?
djunior874 tbh no because all you will do is disagree. Just look it up instead. Many people with autism have different experiences with empathy, It's not all black and white, the spectrum is so big.
The Proud Barbarian yes actually people do just type in on UA-cam Asperger's and your opinion will be invalid :)
I feel like Diogenes with his lamp would have had success here...
And this is why i adore you!!
Basic, simple. To the point! No BS!! 💜💜💜💜💜
Common trait in narcissists, no suprises
Nando N he ia not a narcissist. A narc can and will fake interest, he is just an introvert.
Nando N 😉 a common trait of a narc is one who is quick to judge and criticize others without having right understanding of that person or situations😉
Daniel is a narc for sure. Just look at his YT videos. All the evidence you need.
@@VivoLaRihvolution It's more than just being introverted. There's definitely something off about him BUT he's gained an audience so whatever works for him lol.
Selfish, probably not narcissistic. A narcissist wouldn't have the same candor about their selfish behavior, especially if their girlfriend or family would be able to key in on their behavior through their self-posted videos.
That's why I watch you. You are super honest.
I don't like or support most of your pasts choices and I don't think we have the same values but what today's youth lacks is honesty.
Being honest is one of your best traits Daniel and I think it's normal to become so emotional numb if everyone around you especially on UA-cam /social media are all faking their happiness or lying to your face.
I too lack sympathy or understanding but at least I'm honest and try my best without playing this facade that people expect me to play into
Damn, this is one of the uniquest youtube channels i’ve ever seen. Brutally honest, showing things happening in your life when they should be kept quiet and stuff. Love your honesty.
One of the most honest youtubers I've ever seen on this website! That's how a lot of introverts really think and feel and are being judged for it by the "extroverted world"..
As long as you aren't actively nasty to people then I don't have a problem with this. It's impossible to care about 7.5 billion people.
If everyone were truly honest and there were no social repercussions, probably more
than 1/2 of the entire planet (or everyone) would confess that they feel exactly the same.
Other than immediate family or longtime friends, I really don't have
any interest in other people. I should? Why should I? No one has ever given me an answer that
was convincing. I cause no harm and I ask little from anyone...I blame no one, I don't defend
that which needs no defense (how and/or why I am). I just AM. And in just BEING ... I'm free.
ugh and then when people talk about their problems but i don’t want to listen because i have enough of my own problems to figure out
Daniel you're a really interesting person, don't let other people bring you down. You're not weird, you're special. It's disheartening how many people change themselves for others to like them and then here you are being yourself no matter what. You're truly an inspiration!
He didn't even care about you that he didn't like your comment that's how hilarious that is that's like a smack to your face hahaha that's what you get for empathizing towards him hahaha and you say he's special special right yeah truly inspiring I just saw sombody to get hit by the bus and I don't care cuz they're boring
Totaly agree with your view %100
Patrik Ekstrom how !!
The MGTOW Loner with what he said ..
The Gaming Johnson really?? Why!!???
The MGTOW Loner you can rewatch the video ... the relationship with people .. what about your opinion ? :)
The MGTOW Loner why did you use such bad words !
You're just an extremely introverted person. I totally understand, Daniel. I love to watch your videos. Thanks for brightening my day! Cheers!
Currently going through this. Started a new job and I have nothing in common with anyone and I don’t care to talk to them or go the extra mile but multiple people are already complaining that I’m quiet. I just don’t care and I’m here to make money. It’s really draining working here already for social reasons and personal reasons and it’s only been 2 weeks.
I relate to this so much like my friends will tell me stories about how some lady miles away from me killed her 3 children or something it's so freaking tiring pretending that I feel sorry for them why should I care when I don't even know these people??
Love this guys honesty!
people arent "boring" because they have different interests, they just have different interests
I can relate to that so much. Many people dont know that there are introverts and extroverts. Intros lose energy while interacting with people. Extros get energy while interacting with people. Thats the important difference. Im not a big talker myself. I care about interesting and deep stuff and not smalltalk because smalltalk steals important energy. Most people dont understand that fact and judge you. They think youre just shy but thats not the case. So annoying.
I love watching your videos because they are all so relatable and honest. Keep going.
I do hate how people feel they need to act fake or unauthentic for work. I personally actually genuinely care about strangers but I get what you mean and it’s all reasonable and makes sense.
Completely agree with you. Thanks for the video!
Most things that people say are superficial. I always feel really weird when people in America and Canada ask "how are you?" every time you interact with them. My followed thought is always something like "do you expect to hear a complaint?" People just act caring in order to be perceived as caring.
I’m also very quiet, shy and really don’t give a shit about people as small talks is awkward for me. So I stay quiet, and get judged.people find probably find me arrogant. I do wish I had the balls or didn’t have anxiety to talk to pretty girls tho.
I am exactly the same.
You are just being honest with yourself.
It doesn’t mean you can’t be happy. You just have to find that one person in life that understands you which it looks like you have :)
"i would always talk her face off." I love it. im 54 and male and completely agree 1000%. I. DONT. CARE.
Damn Daniel
Thanks for being so authentic.
"a cute nickname" Fam you literally call your fans Faniels
I think any friendship start with boring and pointless conversations. All friends were strangers at one point, and to make friends, you gotta break the ice.
As a introvert I can relate 💯. I have no interest people. I don't find people boring. Outside of work I want to be left alone.
I can partially relate to this because in my life I've experienced a lot of the situations that you mentioned. I used to think that I didn't have any friends because I didn't have any genuine interest for others. That was a lie that I kept telling myself to justify the fact that I was lonely; it was easier to remain silent in most situations that required social skills, that I didn't have and thought I did, instead of exposing myself and talk to others; I was fine but I wasn't feeling great so I decided to change. People can give you a lot, they can teach you more than you can think of but to get that you need to know them a bit, you need to become someone that they can trust, part of their life, only then some exchange of informations, experiences and so on can happen. The key to that is small talk, being able to do so shows that you're interested or, in your case, that you're at least trying to engage in some sort of discussion, even if you don't really care about the person. I get you, no one really cares that much initially but making that small effort is not lying, is communicating to the other person that you're present, you're manifesting yourself and you do so because that's how nature works. Getting to know people made me informed about their interest and made me interested in topics that I never ever considered. You seem a person that has something to say, then why not doing it with real people (potential friends) in your life? Small talks are just the surface of human interactions, no one cares or focus about that, small talks are not the conversation, they are the starter, it's what's under it that's important but in order to get there you need to break the ice. In the end it's a reciprocal exchange though, what have you to offer? Assuming that others have different interests than you and for that reason you don't have any interest in them is wrong, you need to know them and then decide. Is this the most intelligent thing to do? Do you think that your isolation will, in the long run, result in the best life you can have? What are the real reasons that bring you to hide in your room?
Certain people always make it as if there should be a diagnostic for every personality trait... my family seem to all the time. Sometimes you just don’t give a shit about what other people do, and that’s fine
What's wrong with him?
I have no idea why i like this guys videos, we dont have a lot in common at all but i find his honesty and somewhat bleak individualist approach quite refreshing. You have gained a subscriber.
To some degree I can understand where you are coming from. Like you, I also don't give a crap about people I don't know (around me). I couldn't care less what anyone thinks of me. Where we differ is I also kind of hate people, but at the same time I am insatiably curious about them and want to know their deepest darkest secrets and weaknesses.
From the major personality flaws to the cooking, if this is trolling, it's genius.
Do you care your wife or even yourself
From now on, I will introduce my self with this video.
Daniel I really enjoy the fact that you are doing this, your uniquely you brutally honest I’m going to watch you and wait for the character development.
ME.
This is why working in retail is a freakin nightmare.
A lot of people just make small talk to look good socially or get something out of the person they are talking to. I don’t think that most people make small talk out of empathy.
Making small talk with strangers/acquaintances is usually boring and aggravating to me.
If I see someone I know but really do not want to talk to, I will literally run away in public before they see me.
You are so right Daniel. I completely agree with you about all.
same it's so hard to have a good career if you're not outgoing or chatty because people always expect you to be this way even though you might get more work done than people who are just blabbering the whole day with their collegues
Same, but i find it easier to care about people who doesnt knows that i exist (my favorite artists) than to care with relatives and people i see everyday
I feel that most of us truly feel this way. But people tend to put up a fake facade especially on social media acting like they care. I feel the exact same way as you do. I only care for a select few people and the rest I don’t want to have interactions with nor care about. You are woke Daniel.
You remind me of a guy I know, in fact watching you makes me understand them better, also the same thing I would say to them and you now is that you should love and accept yourself
Quite honest and reasonable. I also hate it when people pretend they have feelings for people they don't even know.
Just found your channel and I like it a lot. Love your honesty. You tell the truth about how you feel. This is so rare nowadays.
Stay like you are! Some say your are emotionless and that you don't care for anybody. It don't think so!
I though I was brutally honest until I met u!!
Same, the only people I care about are my family members. These days ya can't trust anyone ^^
Is the world better off without people
We hide behind our screens feeding off of his journey & unconsciously sabotaging his spiritual evolution, draining his life force like parasites, vampires incapable of looking within self reflection
*_The chronic lack of empathy is a clinical symptom of a psychopathic narcissist... Most people, find others with these specific personality traits, repellent, distant, remote, non-caring and dispassionate... What's interesting here is, listening to Danial actually talk about it, which is his way of coping with rejection, but Danial is correct in pointing out, that his lack of empathy does not make him a bad person... In fact, any problem his audience has with Danial's brutal honesty, belongs to them... Besides, who is the one here, smart enough to generate money from Google, while simply speaking his mind._*
I hate talking to people I am not interested in. Sometimes dont even want to talk to people who are my friends. Sometimes i just want to be there without having to talk so that they dont think im weird and awkward
Why this is so relatable!
I also find it difficult to care about other people's life
I learn about people on social media first, observing them anonymously, before i meet them and talk with them in rl. Sometimes i never met any of those people, but continue to watch what's happening in their life anyway. Basically i'm a stalker but these people don't know about that, so i don't do any harm to them. I hate when people i'm interested in make their profiles private, that's so selfish and rude
Most of people act like they care about others because they are afraid of rejection from them.
You simply expressed honest emotion.
totally understand the job thing--I try more with customers than my coworkers.. lately I been pretending to give more small talk to my coworkers as well--but they know already that I like to get my work done--so our conversations is short. With costumers I don't mind as long it's related to the product..it's usually draining or felt like waste of time if they start talking about their own lives. I will fake smile and pretend to be interested since I don't like giving off negative energy..sometimes it happens and it makes me feel more drained. ANYWAY I also agree with your pov on the UA-cam thing.. I don't mind if others do those sort of things but it's so good to see an honest perspective.
Psychopath confirmed
Ming-Yun Lam
Not really. I feel almost exactly the same. Why would anyone care about someone they don't know, if they have nothing in common? That sounds normal.
When I say "care" I mean I don't care about there day to day life. If something tragic happens to them I'd feel sad
+shyvixx100
lol, well I'm australian and I relate to this video
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>if something tragic happens to them I feel sad
There’s the thing, he very explicitly stated that if something bad happened to “Pete down the road” (him getting hit by a bus actually) he wouldn’t care at all. That classifies as something tragic which he states wouldn’t make him feel a thing.
@shyvixx100 I think that's how their culture works and that's how they were raised to be no empathy I think it's weird cuz we're our social beings that's why he doesn't like talking to people cuz he knows that nobody would like him because he's fucking heartless that's a fact like he's not nice
Some part of life humans have let you down, you feel safe and protected in your zone. I have been attracting too many shit people in my life since past few years, nowadays I can’t stand people and I don’t have patience oto even smile at strangers or even have a nonsense conversation with any idiot. But nothing is permanent, even this miserable life, that motivates me to live.
Love your video brutally honest and straight to the point.
I dont mind chit chat and small talk if its a genuine conversation. Like I hate when someone asks me about my day just so i could hurry up and finish so they can blab to me about what they want without really caring for what i said. Or when people strike up conversation but dont really pay attention to what im saying. Its more like their own self satsifaction that they were being kind enough to show interest/meet some sort of social cuota.
Hey my young turdstain just because people have different interests than you, does not mean that they are boring.
A fascinating study. His stories about his father and his reconsideration about his marriage, humanizes Daniel, despite his rhetoric in this video.
Danielsan i love the ending......my little watermelons. Lmao.....you should end every video with a varied type of that for comic effect. Like i love you my little possums, watermelons, tulips....would be very funny. 🤣
What class did you main in WoW?
I was a Holy/Ret Paladin Human.
I did like a bit of Priest on the side though.
feral druid
Tales From Thailand mine was a human mage and a orc warrior
here's a real observation/advice from a guy whose watched many of your videos. 1. It appears that every minuscule thing that happens in your life is immediately made into video. 2. You need more of a social life so you become happier. By social i mean with or without a group. If your by yourself just spend more time outside the house. 3. Work for something you want in life i.e. get a job or go back to school and set a plan for success. 4. Try to be positive and count things your thankful for.
Dude. I’m the same. I totally get it. I’m only able to care about people when I know more about their life. Like one time at work, some oldish guy died and everyone was sad and I was like meh. But then they started talking about him, like the type of person he was and how he’ll be missed and I got really teary eyed. I usually cry at sad movies so maybe that’s why. It was like being in a scene from a sad movie.
This is something I HATE to admit, but it’s true. I don’t hate people, I actually have friends that I love and stuff. But I can’t find an interest in strangers interests either
another iconic video from daniel 👏