Psychedelic Dreams he's good with certain things and not with other stuff (refers to Howard gardner's model of intelligence). But obviously not stupid.
Joshua the Reasonable I didn't read the manga that far, so I can only speculate what will happen next. But I think that he will see the Australian guy as a mind set in the end of the arc.
Its funny how a lot of the things i said were self admitted in some of your videos, but now you're changing up the story... which kind of corresponds to your lying. Thanks for proving a point. :)
I binged watch almost all of your videos in less than a week, they’re so strangely addicting. At first it was like watching a train wreck but I’ve come to really appreciate how honest and open you are! pls never stop uploading
I’m a lot like that bro and I used to spend ALOT of time in isolation because I enjoy being alone. This gives room for your brain to make a million scenarios and for you to over think every little detail of what has happened. Best thing to do is to keep busy or else your own thoughts will consume you alive.
I'm glad that you aren't in denial and that you are aware that you are a jealous person. I am naturally a jealous person as well, but was very upfront about it with my husband, and we worked together to relieve me of my insecurities and jealousy. We came up with a plan that made both of us feel comfortable, it's a continuous process but it works for us and I rarely have jealousy outbursts. I think communicating emotional needs with your partner is awkward but telling your partner, "this is what I need to feel good in a relationship," is valid and needs to be done more often.
Nah there was for sure some shenanigans going on with the French girl. She gave you real reason to be suspicious of her and she is a manipulator. If you have to go through so much stress to be with a person, then you don't need to be with them.
Ugh so we're in the filler episodes now. I'm hoping they keep to the manga and have the main character and his wife break up following the incident with Tyrone at the end of the season. Hoping they don't deviate too much and don't have too many of these filler episodes. I am glad they dropped in the easter egg that he's into cuckolding, that'll be a really good arc when it gets animated!
I'm actually loving this anime original. The protagonist opening up about the root of his problems. I think this will create a smooth transition to the climax (divorce) and give this anime a chance to surpass the manga.
that's only if he can train and defeat the three big bosses. That will allow him to become a main anime character rather than a background one and change his hair color as well as the size of his eyes.
All of us get jealous and insecure sometimes.. But you should never let that take over your marriage.. She chose you, she wants to be with you.. Trust is the number one most important thing in any human relationship whether friendship or romantic.. And you deserve to feel special and to feel like your partner gives you the love and attention you deserve.. But at the same time you cant be together 24/7 there has to be some me time.. Like going out with friends or shopping etc.. It only becomes a problem when they prioritize these things to the point where the relationship becomes compromised.. My advice is to not the jealousy and insecurity take away from the happiness of being with someone you care about and just learn to let go and trust! Trust is very important I can't stress that enough.
Just thought I'd share that I actually went on a first date yesterday and when my date asked what youtube videos I was tuning in to I actually mentioned your channel... Idk if I was even in the right state of mind then but he got creeped out and turns out we didn't last past the first date HAHA (but he was a narcissistic douche anw) so thanks Daniel for helping me with that (:
simply mentioned your channel was "hiding in my room" and god forbid you should've seen the pure disturbed look on his face ahahah and he was exclaiming how it sounded creepy af LMAO I like how he was judging all kinds of stuff just by hearing the name of your channel
Excellent video. I think you have an Anxious Attachment as your attachment style. Lookup Attachment theory (psychology). It's very interesting. And I have the same style of attachment due to my fucked up early childhood.
I've had abusive boyfriends before, it's the worst because I've always been kinda of passive and the guy sometimes would boss me around and make me feel like a prisoner
Does he really have sociopathic characteristics or are people simply blowing things out of proportions?😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂I'm genuinely curious and I'd like to hear an expert's opinion!
Mirjana Pucarevic i personally feel conflicted...sometimes he seems weird in a very normal kind of way just to say REALLY WEIRD things the next moment,I can't figure him out!
Hey man, I think you are doing the right thing admitting to your jealousy. That's the first step. If you acknowledge it you are better equipped to face it and fix it. Just take it one step at a time and communicate with people you trust and can support you.
People who are untrustworthy are usually the most jealous and insecure themselves as we judge others by our own standards. You've said you are a cheat and unfaithful to past girlfriends so it's not surprising that you would feel jealous and insecure yourself.
3:05 Top 10 Anime Fights! Seriously, trying to picture Daniel and the girl having this epic wrestle over a phone really gives me the giggles XD Love your honesty and self awareness as well.
when people hide the phone to the partner is not nice. Trust is one of the keys to a good relationship. Something similar happened to me with my ex Japanese boyfriend, and from that day I could not trust in him anymore, the reaction of snapping and taking the phone out of my hands spoke very badly of him. He hid he speaks to other women from me, and I think that is not a good behaviour, that shows he hid because there is something going on. I dont know what it is the problem to talk to other people, everyone does it, but the reaction of hiding to talk to another women, it is a worry. So your reaction is totally normal.
Yeah. A woman having a lot of male friends would definitely be aggravating to me too. It doesn’t necessarily mean that the girl is cheating, but obviously she is giving other guys enough attention to string them along and use them for emotional venting/entertainment.
Jealousy, insecurity, french girlfriend, australian guy, linkin park, some disgusting substance in japan street then a grill finally cooking with Daniel. welcome to the the Dany show :)))) Always funny.
If you are in a proper relationship, there needs to be a sense of trust, so if you see a mobile phone message, it is not the end of the world if you see it. You both should see each others messages. She shouldn't be backstabbing behind your back, but instead should be talking to you. Someone who has 'secret' messages and won't let you see them has something to hide. As for allowing men into a bedroom, that is ridiculous. Your girlfriends have no boundaries These women are increasing your insecurity. There needs to be regular communication and trust in a relationship. Make it acceptable for you to see each others messages. If you have trust most of these messages will be very boring! There may be the odd ones that 'slip through the net' but with communication you can deal with any 'friends' that are contacting them too frequently
Some of these things seem pretty normal tbh. I'd be jealous too if my girlfriend allowed her friend to go into her room just so he can give her "massages."
Plot twist: The Australian Guy is just one of his own different personalities, kind of like in Fight Club. What we see here which many think of as character development really is just a fragmentation of his mind.
You reap what you sow. The reason you are paranoid and worried is because you have been a cheater and liar your whole life. You see and expect in others what's already in you. Pretty simple.
Admitting your own negative traits and personalities will only help you to realize your mistakes in the past, and through fixing all those issues, a person will surely improve. You've changed for the better, Daniel. Congrats ^^
Daniel, this is why a guy and a girl can't be just friends. In my opinion, it doesn't work and it is BS because most of the time they get confused and eventually get physical, flirt, etc. Almost always the guy become the woman's friend in hope that the woman will look at him as more than a friend. I mean, that's how it's always been with me.. So I don't have male friends, nor do I want any.
I hope things get better with your relationship ! If you think you are not the problem anymore then she is. Go from there with analyzing the situation and how to fix it
a certain amount of privacy is healthy in any relationship. Learning to acknowledge this and respect this is indicative of how good your own self-esteem currently is. If at some point a partner tells you they want to move on with someone else, deal with it when it happens and stop worrying about it, because who wants someone who does not want YOU?? So why stress about something that has not happened that in the end is someone you would be better off without anyway? And besides, masturbation can be better than partner sex anyway!!! :/ Be good to yourself Daniel, treat yourself to great food and entertainment, and lucky is the partner you choose to accompany you in your loving happy life. Peace and love BE 2 YOU always. Congrats on the 50k
What I love the most about this Anime are the little episodes, which come completely random. The producer really try to make it as real as possible. Sometimes, I forget, that it is an anime! edit: I hope he'll make ramen in the next episode
I relate to this sooooo much like crazy crazy much. I have cried over a celebrity dating rumor three times bc I was crazy jealous lol. I also have an over active imagination, and it can be frustrating at times. I think I hate my severe jealousy problems the most. I try to combat it by talking it out with friends, and trying not to expose my crazy to too many people (esp the person I'd be dating). It happens, its life unfortunately for some, it's good to confess it. Also: I think about the sex thing, it is definitely something that needs to be meditated on in order for someone to get really into it. I think maybe you and your wife could try tantra or maybe just experiment with sex in a really focused way so happiness can be distributed both ways. I'm wishing you two the best
"the idea of my wife cheating on me...kind of turns me on" c u c k e d. but keep it going. best arc so far. I hope he faces the Australian guy by the end of this season.
wtf is happening? why does daniels story sound like my current life and situation? omg...im relating to him....wtf is going on? this anime is hitting too close to home.
I had a relationship that was similar, she would "have" me over to hers all the time... even when her parents where home and that was all we did. I tried to suggest we do fun things but she would always fall through and when out at parties and stuff she would ignore me completely. I broke up with her and after a week she was dating another person haha
All of your reasons are very much valid for suspicion.I see no reason why anyone woldnt be concerned if their gf was mesagging some random guy or even receving a message from a guy thats not her boss or familily member.That may sound edgy but its not, for a not too established trust between 2 people that trust first has to be exposed with full honesty for it to become a norm and leave any doubts aside.I recommend first leaving your phones unlocked at all times and look at each others phones daily.This shouldnt be a problem if u have nothing to hide,shame maybe but nothing that might break ur trust.This can work easily if u just answer any questions the other has about it to clear the mind.But if ur partner is messaging someone unknown from the oposite sex that already is a sign of disrespect since any friendship can build to a romance due to familiarity and trust which ur partner should already know very well.
Do you like my Mic?
The french girlfriend:
ua-cam.com/video/jHt6JHYdcCk/v-deo.html
Yes
New mic ?
hiding in my room perfect for asmr 😂
lol😂
Your youtube therapy progress.
I fucking love how honest you are.....and specific
this guy is a complete sociopath weirdo there is entire blogs about his weird past
Josh Mugen I knowww right. Aren't we blessed with such good content
Yeah, not a lot of people are this honest and specific here on youtube, love how this is literally his video diary
Psychedelic Dreams there is a good chance...
Psychedelic Dreams he's good with certain things and not with other stuff (refers to Howard gardner's model of intelligence). But obviously not stupid.
* C H A R A C T E R D E V E L O P M E N T*
Joshua the Reasonable I didn't read the manga that far, so I can only speculate what will happen next. But I think that he will see the Australian guy as a mind set in the end of the arc.
hope he encounter another villain tho
Lmao
Juls so I wonder if this is better than the manga
king of self awareness
It's funny how everything you said is wrong.
Its funny how a lot of the things i said were self admitted in some of your videos, but now you're changing up the story... which kind of corresponds to your lying. Thanks for proving a point. :)
Exactly what have i "lied" about?
tell them daniel! its good you know your the bad traits so that you can overcome them. love your videos bro
I like how you're questioning because you can't keep up with the same story.
In my opinion all the reasons to be jealous in this video were valid, dont be so harsh on yourself man
THE HELL THEY ARE VALID
I binged watch almost all of your videos in less than a week, they’re so strangely addicting. At first it was like watching a train wreck but I’ve come to really appreciate how honest and open you are! pls never stop uploading
I’m a lot like that bro and I used to spend ALOT of time in isolation because I enjoy being alone. This gives room for your brain to make a million scenarios and for you to over think every little detail of what has happened. Best thing to do is to keep busy or else your own thoughts will consume you alive.
Kenny Bagnis
True :(
I'm glad that you aren't in denial and that you are aware that you are a jealous person. I am naturally a jealous person as well, but was very upfront about it with my husband, and we worked together to relieve me of my insecurities and jealousy. We came up with a plan that made both of us feel comfortable, it's a continuous process but it works for us and I rarely have jealousy outbursts. I think communicating emotional needs with your partner is awkward but telling your partner, "this is what I need to feel good in a relationship," is valid and needs to be done more often.
someone should make a HIMR wikia. Put everything in chronological order. that would be perfect
Nah there was for sure some shenanigans going on with the French girl. She gave you real reason to be suspicious of her and she is a manipulator. If you have to go through so much stress to be with a person, then you don't need to be with them.
Mel Bfree this is just a show
ugh but damn why is it so hard to leave those types...because of the manipulation?
Ugh so we're in the filler episodes now. I'm hoping they keep to the manga and have the main character and his wife break up following the incident with Tyrone at the end of the season.
Hoping they don't deviate too much and don't have too many of these filler episodes. I am glad they dropped in the easter egg that he's into cuckolding, that'll be a really good arc when it gets animated!
I don't know why they keep animating fillers instead of animating the actual episode
I'm actually loving this anime original. The protagonist opening up about the root of his problems. I think this will create a smooth transition to the climax (divorce) and give this anime a chance to surpass the manga.
dying XD
What if he Dyes his hair, Workouts, and keeps the girl at the end of the anime
that's only if he can train and defeat the three big bosses. That will allow him to become a main anime character rather than a background one and change his hair color as well as the size of his eyes.
He only said it turns him on so his girlfriend can be more encouraged to tell him everything. 4d chess move Daniel i see you 😎😎😎😎😎😎😎
It's okay Daniel. Come back to the petrol station and i'll take all your insecurities away.
Nepal_Guy this made me laugh. This is deep lore here
oh my you're really persistant lol
Only < 3k Subscriber will get this joke tho
Bloke Masterson That Daniel is going to have a new, very special friend
Sulemaan Hussain He's saying he'll fuck him
Wow who would've known that a guy who goes after other girls when he was in a relationship, could get jealous.
That transition though xD
Just be cool and you'll be fine Daniel. Damn Daniel you nearly up to 50 k man :)
XD
All of us get jealous and insecure sometimes.. But you should never let that take over your marriage.. She chose you, she wants to be with you.. Trust is the number one most important thing in any human relationship whether friendship or romantic.. And you deserve to feel special and to feel like your partner gives you the love and attention you deserve.. But at the same time you cant be together 24/7 there has to be some me time.. Like going out with friends or shopping etc.. It only becomes a problem when they prioritize these things to the point where the relationship becomes compromised.. My advice is to not the jealousy and insecurity take away from the happiness of being with someone you care about and just learn to let go and trust! Trust is very important I can't stress that enough.
Lies
Love, set it free, if it comes back, it's yours
i really like how honest you are about everything
Mate. Why is this channel so addictive?😂👌
Its so common thing so don’t feel bad about it, its a normal issue dude, support from Spain!!
I love how you still try to reach 10 min
Just thought I'd share that I actually went on a first date yesterday and when my date asked what youtube videos I was tuning in to I actually mentioned your channel... Idk if I was even in the right state of mind then but he got creeped out and turns out we didn't last past the first date HAHA (but he was a narcissistic douche anw) so thanks Daniel for helping me with that (:
He got creeped out because you watch my channel? 😂
O wow come on Daniel's channel couldn't be that bad for a guy to leave you because it creeped him out😂😂😂
simply mentioned your channel was "hiding in my room" and god forbid you should've seen the pure disturbed look on his face ahahah and he was exclaiming how it sounded creepy af LMAO I like how he was judging all kinds of stuff just by hearing the name of your channel
6:40 - 7:00 Now i know why people are calling you a cuck😂
Gus what the fuck
I couldn't believe my ears 🙉
Excellent video. I think you have an Anxious Attachment as your attachment style. Lookup Attachment theory (psychology). It's very interesting. And I have the same style of attachment due to my fucked up early childhood.
I've had abusive boyfriends before, it's the worst because I've always been kinda of passive and the guy sometimes would boss me around and make me feel like a prisoner
Im not even subbed and I get EVERY SINGLE notification 😂
Everyone’s jealous and insecure about something.
I like your jacket
*hugs*
"some say RIGHT BRACKET is still opening & closing to this day"
*the effect of a quick wedding*
Jealousy, erections, and the grill stove!
He's kinda running out of stories to tell...
Lena Bambina well he's married now so he can't do all the crazy shit he used to
dominique007 Yeah but his "career" is gonna suffer now 😂
@@prinzessinvonphantasmagori7443 this didn't age well bc 2 years later... Daniel is still making money off UA-cam.
You lowkey look like Ezra miller
Sloth Icecream omg I was thinking about that too👌 💭
Stop it.
He looks like mikio in my boss my hero😆
HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA 😂😂😂💀💀
Daniel isn’t really ugly but don’t do Ezra like that! 😩
Daniel does not like kissing boys does he???
I’m glad your so open about your insecurities it’s not an easy thing to do as well as being open to other people’s opinions of you and your Channel
I'm gaining a lot of respect for Daniel with every video he makes. The honesty intrigues me so much every time lol
me too daniel.
Does he really have sociopathic characteristics or are people simply blowing things out of proportions?😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂I'm genuinely curious and I'd like to hear an expert's opinion!
dahlia sherman I really don't think he is a sociopath he is just akward all the way around
Mirjana Pucarevic i personally feel conflicted...sometimes he seems weird in a very normal kind of way just to say REALLY WEIRD things the next moment,I can't figure him out!
Verty oh stop being dramatic,the guy is married!😂
Verty so you were not trying to defend him?
Hey man, I think you are doing the right thing admitting to your jealousy. That's the first step. If you acknowledge it you are better equipped to face it and fix it. Just take it one step at a time and communicate with people you trust and can support you.
There is no such thing as a "normal" person. Everyone is the same, especially in the way we don't admit everything.
Going back to the past when the anime started to get more spicy
Whatever you do, don't tell a woman. You'll get bound and shackled.🤐
You have to learn the art of "not giving a shit" about anything or anyone.
im happy for you, at least we are seeing some character some character development
People who are untrustworthy are usually the most jealous and insecure themselves as we judge others by our own standards. You've said you are a cheat and unfaithful to past girlfriends so it's not surprising that you would feel jealous and insecure yourself.
3:05 Top 10 Anime Fights!
Seriously, trying to picture Daniel and the girl having this epic wrestle over a phone really gives me the giggles XD
Love your honesty and self awareness as well.
Daniel, why must you look so alluring in every video. You are such a tease. I feel like I can't help myself
I am Jealous of my life. It so bad 😔
Don't know bro ?
This guy might one of the most honest guys in YT
when people hide the phone to the partner is not nice. Trust is one of the keys to a good relationship. Something similar happened to me with my ex Japanese boyfriend, and from that day I could not trust in him anymore, the reaction of snapping and taking the phone out of my hands spoke very badly of him. He hid he speaks to other women from me, and I think that is not a good behaviour, that shows he hid because there is something going on. I dont know what it is the problem to talk to other people, everyone does it, but the reaction of hiding to talk to another women, it is a worry. So your reaction is totally normal.
I take my phone to the bathroom. But that's cause every appointment I have always seems to call when I am in there
**Australian Guy Confrontation Arc** has officially begun
Yeah. A woman having a lot of male friends would definitely be aggravating to me too.
It doesn’t necessarily mean that the girl is cheating, but obviously she is giving other guys enough attention to string them along and use them for emotional venting/entertainment.
6:33 C U C K E D
Is it just me or does he seem like a perfect movie character in a thriller/drama?🍿
Jealousy, insecurity, french girlfriend, australian guy, linkin park, some disgusting substance in japan street then a grill finally cooking with Daniel.
welcome to the the Dany show :)))) Always funny.
_GEEEEEEEEEEEEEE! REALLYYYYYY?!_ lol
What anime would you consider good to learn Japanese with? I've heard that slice of life is good but are there any suggestions you might have?
If you are in a proper relationship, there needs to be a sense of trust, so if you see a mobile phone message, it is not the end of the world if you see it. You both should see each others messages. She shouldn't be backstabbing behind your back, but instead should be talking to you. Someone who has 'secret' messages and won't let you see them has something to hide. As for allowing men into a bedroom, that is ridiculous. Your girlfriends have no boundaries These women are increasing your insecurity. There needs to be regular communication and trust in a relationship. Make it acceptable for you to see each others messages. If you have trust most of these messages will be very boring! There may be the odd ones that 'slip through the net' but with communication you can deal with any 'friends' that are contacting them too frequently
First step is recognizing it, your in a good path for changing, keep it up.
I found this channel today. Favorite UA-cam channel wtf is going on 😂😂.
Character development arc? Wow, I'm enjoying this content.
You're very authentic, and genuine. I think that's one of the main reasons why we are drawn to your videos
Some of these things seem pretty normal tbh. I'd be jealous too if my girlfriend allowed her friend to go into her room just so he can give her "massages."
you're expressing yourself- and emotions in a very positive way and I think its groovy good job
Plot twist: The Australian Guy is just one of his own different personalities, kind of like in Fight Club.
What we see here which many think of as character development really is just a fragmentation of his mind.
Ok i dont know why but this is my favorite Channel ...i found it out today this is really confusing and amusing...thank you Daniel?
You reap what you sow. The reason you are paranoid and worried is because you have been a cheater and liar your whole life. You see and expect in others what's already in you. Pretty simple.
This channel just never fails to fascinate me
hey daddy daniel
Dan Burk yeah
Dan Burk ikr
Dan Burk soo...
Dan Burk emh
Dan Burk I want to die
You would make for some good love quotes for edgy 14 year old girls on tumblr
His favorite band *is* My Chemical Romance ... reminds me of My Immortal ''(^ ,#, ^)
Wow, i relate to this on so many different level...
yh he's a narcissist
Admitting your own negative traits and personalities will only help you to realize your mistakes in the past, and through fixing all those issues, a person will surely improve. You've changed for the better, Daniel. Congrats ^^
Thank you very much for telling us private details about your life. I appreciate it. It's really interesting. I will continue to watch your videos.
like 90% of this was reused stories but it's still worth it for the last part
AINT YOU MAKE A PROMISE NOT TO TALK BOUT HER?!?! Uh, oh...
Daniel, this is why a guy and a girl can't be just friends. In my opinion, it doesn't work and it is BS because most of the time they get confused and eventually get physical, flirt, etc. Almost always the guy become the woman's friend in hope that the woman will look at him as more than a friend. I mean, that's how it's always been with me.. So I don't have male friends, nor do I want any.
I hope things get better with your relationship ! If you think you are not the problem anymore then she is. Go from there with analyzing the situation and how to fix it
I keep coming back to this channel for some reason.. I can identify with the things you say and I hate it lol
a certain amount of privacy is healthy in any relationship. Learning to acknowledge this and respect this is indicative of how good your own self-esteem currently is. If at some point a partner tells you they want to move on with someone else, deal with it when it happens and stop worrying about it, because who wants someone who does not want YOU?? So why stress about something that has not happened that in the end is someone you would be better off without anyway? And besides, masturbation can be better than partner sex anyway!!! :/
Be good to yourself Daniel, treat yourself to great food and entertainment, and lucky is the partner you choose to accompany you in your loving happy life. Peace and love BE 2 YOU always. Congrats on the 50k
What I love the most about this Anime are the little episodes, which come completely random. The producer really try to make it as real as possible. Sometimes, I forget, that it is an anime!
edit: I hope he'll make ramen in the next episode
I love how honest you are Daniel
adjust the temperature lower to avoid smoke
I feel like you're very stressed out rn , I hope you feel better and take time to recover from all the stress. You can do it.
I think those are normal things to be concerned about.
I relate to this sooooo much like crazy crazy much. I have cried over a celebrity dating rumor three times bc I was crazy jealous lol. I also have an over active imagination, and it can be frustrating at times. I think I hate my severe jealousy problems the most. I try to combat it by talking it out with friends, and trying not to expose my crazy to too many people (esp the person I'd be dating). It happens, its life unfortunately for some, it's good to confess it.
Also: I think about the sex thing, it is definitely something that needs to be meditated on in order for someone to get really into it. I think maybe you and your wife could try tantra or maybe just experiment with sex in a really focused way so happiness can be distributed both ways. I'm wishing you two the best
Those gas cookers are convenient, but it more efficient to use a gas bottle cooker. One of those 9kg gas canisters connected to a cooker.
Yeah, jealousy makes you do and say some crazy shit.
"the idea of my wife cheating on me...kind of turns me on" c u c k e d. but keep it going. best arc so far. I hope he faces the Australian guy by the end of this season.
You're "i dont have friends" or whatever is fucking gold bro
wtf is happening? why does daniels story sound like my current life and situation? omg...im relating to him....wtf is going on? this anime is hitting too close to home.
didnt you make a video about this before?
This is why I love this channel
*pretends to be shocked*
It's because you are afraid that your partners will act like you and be a serial cheater
i feel him at 6:40 its a sign of low self esteem and liking to get dominated
I had a relationship that was similar, she would "have" me over to hers all the time... even when her parents where home and that was all we did. I tried to suggest we do fun things but she would always fall through and when out at parties and stuff she would ignore me completely. I broke up with her and after a week she was dating another person haha
All of your reasons are very much valid for suspicion.I see no reason why anyone woldnt be concerned if their gf was mesagging some random guy or even receving a message from a guy thats not her boss or familily member.That may sound edgy but its not, for a not too established trust between 2 people that trust first has to be exposed with full honesty for it to become a norm and leave any doubts aside.I recommend first leaving your phones unlocked at all times and look at each others phones daily.This shouldnt be a problem if u have nothing to hide,shame maybe but nothing that might break ur trust.This can work easily if u just answer any questions the other has about it to clear the mind.But if ur partner is messaging someone unknown from the oposite sex that already is a sign of disrespect since any friendship can build to a romance due to familiarity and trust which ur partner should already know very well.
'I'm a jealous and insecure person'
'Water is wet'
:V