Stop apologising for being *beautiful* | my honest advice for women | confidence | authentic self ✨

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  • Опубліковано 21 лис 2024

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  • @anais9263
    @anais9263 5 місяців тому +70

    I often feel bad for dressing up, so I make myself look small through slouching, or not looking people in the eye so I don't "intimidate" them, so I really am thankful for what you shared in this video.

    • @alessiasutherberry
      @alessiasutherberry  5 місяців тому +5

      Thank you so much for sharing with me my lovely. I hope you feel you can shine that bright light a little more now. 🥰💖

    • @helenjones2067
      @helenjones2067 5 місяців тому +4

      Yes I feel the same, but you have the right to be you… just do you! You will be loved or hated either way!

  • @law11school11girly
    @law11school11girly 5 місяців тому +20

    Yes I hate how men profit off of making us feel insecure 😢😢😢 ladies you’re a whole unique person despite whatever you look like ❤❤❤

  • @Moonlight-vs8ku
    @Moonlight-vs8ku 5 місяців тому +19

    Seing such beautiful woman like you speaking about insecurities make me feel so safe and give me a sense of belonging, thank you so much❤❤

    • @alessiasutherberry
      @alessiasutherberry  5 місяців тому +1

      I am so so happy it made you feel safe 💗💗💗 that is music to my ears 🥰💘❤

  • @marionemily
    @marionemily 5 місяців тому +9

    You are such a beautiful, kind well-intentioned soul. You are so much more than just your body 💕

    • @alessiasutherberry
      @alessiasutherberry  5 місяців тому +2

      You've put the biggest smile on my face, thank you for your warm words. Lots of love 💘💕❤❤

  • @katelegend3917
    @katelegend3917 5 місяців тому +2

    I can see how this video can be misinterpreted but it is helpful. Thanks for sharing this and being vulnerable.

  • @annabelwigs
    @annabelwigs 5 місяців тому +2

    PREACH! 😍🥰👏Another amazing, wise and empowering video Lessie, thank you so much ♥

  • @inbaryogev1722
    @inbaryogev1722 4 місяці тому

    I just want to say that when I see your beauty and your grace, it makes me happy. like seeing a beautiful flower or wearing a great quality fabric. it's just a lovely feeling for the senses. wear it with pride

  • @barbiedoll44
    @barbiedoll44 5 місяців тому +10

    you are such an eloquent intelligent speaker, the passion pours right out of you! ⭐️ that gleam in your eyes is truly beautiful, thank you for yet another amazing video packed with wisdom

    • @alessiasutherberry
      @alessiasutherberry  5 місяців тому +2

      What a lovely comment 🥹😘💚✨ thank you so much for your warm and kind words. You've made my day 🥰 xx

  • @NogaAsherGoshen
    @NogaAsherGoshen 5 місяців тому +3

    I’m a subscriber and have been loving every message in all of your videos that I’ve watched, but this message is so important and I am very grateful for you for sharing your thoughts here. I think part of the reason why this is such a strong message is, the fact that everyone has their own experiences which influences their perception of it, and in the end it’s all about a very similar thing.. it connects us with others.

    • @alessiasutherberry
      @alessiasutherberry  5 місяців тому

      This comment has filled my heart up... thank you so much for the kind and thoughtful message. I am sending the biggest hug your way. 💗💘🥰 You are so so right - we can all connect and understand each other in some way in the end. Beautiful 💗💘🥰

  • @jasmin1773
    @jasmin1773 5 місяців тому +11

    I totally came to the same conclusion. You cant dress according to your personality. There are so many "contradictions" in people that arent really ones.

  • @Anna-bg2pd
    @Anna-bg2pd 5 місяців тому +7

    Helpful and interesting. I like how you express your emotions.

  • @Sarah-ve4vk
    @Sarah-ve4vk 5 місяців тому +1

    This was amazing ❤️

  • @SelvaniSameenaden
    @SelvaniSameenaden 5 місяців тому +2

    Happy Pride Month🎉😊❤

  • @miss88834
    @miss88834 5 місяців тому +1

    pls continue making videos becos honestly idk why i just found you right now 🥺 wish ive known you sooner coz i resonate soooo much with your content

  • @yr.8249
    @yr.8249 5 місяців тому +4

    Thank you for spreading such a powerful and important message ❤️

    • @alessiasutherberry
      @alessiasutherberry  5 місяців тому

      🥰💗💘💕 awww THANK YOU for watching and commenting my lovely xxxx

  • @kristy.tlm.
    @kristy.tlm. 5 місяців тому +1

    this video is so important for me today everytime judging myself for how I look. I really needed to hear this! thank you, Alessia!

  • @marinaalmeida6693
    @marinaalmeida6693 5 місяців тому +3

    Thx for this video ❤
    Furthermore, what a beautiful room!

    • @alessiasutherberry
      @alessiasutherberry  5 місяців тому +1

      💛😘💚 You're welcome!
      It is a lovely room!:) xx

  • @ruebennomura9143
    @ruebennomura9143 5 місяців тому +1

    I thought it was amazing on being beautiful you are a good person

  • @crystalball7993
    @crystalball7993 5 місяців тому

    Only watched a few minutes of your video, and I wanted to quickly share my own thoughts (which have been troubling me lately). I have always been very introverted and shy and now I am in my early twenties and still find it incredibly hard to connect to people my age. The adults in my life tried to comfort me by saying "they`re just jealous" but for some reason that did never make sense to me. Now I am studying acting and I happen to be very good at it. A lot of times I feel the pressure not to make the other girls in my class feel bad because I am the designated "pretty girl" of the acting department. We are only a very few people in our semester so you always see the same people. I tried to make friends with them and pretend that we are on the same "league" but they won`t let me. They say passive aggressive comments OR talk badly about themselves so that I have to comfort them. But I feel as I always did, disconnected and strange. I hate show offs and I would hate to be perceived as one but I simply cannot make myself small for other people`s convenience, especially not when they have proven themselves to be very fake. Sometimes I think about losing this position of power, if for example a prettier girl started to study in our school. I have mixed feelings about it, because that would maybe let me breathe a little bit and take the pressure off, but I cannot give up this role, when it is the one I played for years and years. Contemplating on this now and Ill watch your video, very interested on your take 🌸🌸🌸

  • @cinnamonswirl4344
    @cinnamonswirl4344 5 місяців тому +5

    Thank you❤

  • @nicolem889
    @nicolem889 5 місяців тому +2

    Lol people try so hard to convince me that I’m ugly that I have zero shame in doing anything or the luxuries that I have.

  • @hxnnxhbrown
    @hxnnxhbrown 5 місяців тому +1

    just discovered your channel. thank you ❤

  • @miss88834
    @miss88834 5 місяців тому +1

    ugh so good 🥺🥺🥺❤️

  • @helenjones2067
    @helenjones2067 5 місяців тому +2

    Yes I feel like I should shrink myself bcos I shine too much. I have had nothing but jealousy all my life and lost jobs because of it. I have a right to be me but other women don’t like it.

  • @helenjones2067
    @helenjones2067 5 місяців тому +2

    Bye the way not all women feel ugly as they get older. I’m still beautiful and other women have told me this. Yes I have cellulite but I could eat better and exercise. I have a rebounder so using that. I have good skin… these expensive creams are a con.

  • @visionarymuse
    @visionarymuse 4 місяці тому

    I feel seen

  • @PadmawatiRathore
    @PadmawatiRathore 5 місяців тому +1

    ❤❤❤❤

  • @Datb2
    @Datb2 5 місяців тому +3

    Oh god bim Bo is the worst word ever

    • @irene4633
      @irene4633 5 місяців тому

      Bimbo means baby (masculine) in Italian

  • @ashleysalazar2012
    @ashleysalazar2012 5 місяців тому

    It truly isn't that deep. Are women really so focused on this? This whole topic is so juvenile. I think about what I look like maybe a few times a year. I'm not a teenager anymore. I can't believe people fixate on such trivial things. Don't you people have lives?

    • @LBelacquax
      @LBelacquax 5 місяців тому +3

      We're socially conditioned to think about it all the time

    • @alessiasutherberry
      @alessiasutherberry  4 місяці тому +1

      @@LBelacquax exactly 💕💕💕

  • @shaylacourteau
    @shaylacourteau 2 місяці тому

    what is your sign queen please tell me, you are so eloquent and well-spoken ✨🩷

    • @alessiasutherberry
      @alessiasutherberry  2 місяці тому +2

      Hey my love, I am a Gemini! 💗 Thank you for being so sweet ☺💖