Navigating Grief and Loss

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  • Опубліковано 21 жов 2024

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  • @christinethewlis1527
    @christinethewlis1527 2 місяці тому +3

    So sorry for your loss sending love ❤️

    • @tt_looking_glass
      @tt_looking_glass  2 місяці тому +1

      Thank you so much, Christine. Your love and support really mean a lot to me during this time. Sending love back to you. ❤️

  • @amandafoxton6463
    @amandafoxton6463 2 місяці тому +3

    Sending you so much love and prayers🙏🌸

    • @tt_looking_glass
      @tt_looking_glass  2 місяці тому +2

      Thank you, Amanda. Your love and prayers mean a lot to me, especially on this journey through grief. It’s comforting to know that there’s such a caring community out there. Sending love and warm thoughts right back to you! 🌸🙏

  • @TamiRoberson10
    @TamiRoberson10 Місяць тому +2

    I'm so sorry for your loss, Daniella. Our furbabies are such an intricate part of our daily lives and fill our days with love! Praying God brings you peace throughout your journey. Thank you for sharing your life wisdom and struggles.❤

    • @tt_looking_glass
      @tt_looking_glass  Місяць тому +2

      Thank you so much for your kind words and prayers. Losing a furbaby is one of the hardest things to go through, they truly become a part of our hearts and our daily lives. Your message brings a bit of comfort during this difficult time, and I’m grateful for the support and understanding. It’s a reminder that we’re not alone in our grief, and that there’s a community of caring people who get it. Sending love your way, too. ❤️

  • @jamesmcconnell2473
    @jamesmcconnell2473 Місяць тому +1

    Profoundly topical good read. "Let me stand alone" Rachel Corrie unbelievable tragic then again. Oh my God the power of a voice gone to soon. In Raffa of all places. Sacred ground. On UA-cam too

  • @debrairvin9776
    @debrairvin9776 2 місяці тому +3

    I’m so sorry for your loss, Daniela. I’m sending you lots of hugs. Your video is beautiful. I hope you’ll continue with the painting. I find it relaxing as long as I don’t picture the finished product in my mind. When I do that, I’m unhappy with the results. I’m a bit of a perfectionist too.
    Take care of yourself. You’re in my prayers. 🙏💗

    • @tt_looking_glass
      @tt_looking_glass  2 місяці тому +2

      Thank you so much, Debra. Your kind words mean the world to me, especially during times like these. I completely relate to what you said about perfectionism, it can be such a challenge to let go of that vision we have in our minds, right? I find it comforting to know that you experience that too. I’ll definitely keep your advice in mind when I pick up the brush again. Sending lots of hugs back to you, and thank you for keeping me in your prayers. Take care of yourself too, my friend. 💖

  • @nadiaaquino3713
    @nadiaaquino3713 2 місяці тому +2

    Daniella, your water paintings are beautiful. I’m happy that you have found some form of creative outlet to help with your grieving and that it relaxes you. Wishing you better days ahead. 💕🙏

    • @tt_looking_glass
      @tt_looking_glass  2 місяці тому +1

      Thank you so much, Nadia. I’m really glad you like my water paintings. I know I’m a beginner but it’s been such a healing outlet for me during this time. Your kind words and wishes mean a lot to me. Here’s to better days ahead. 💕🙏

  • @DebbieWallace-w8c
    @DebbieWallace-w8c 2 місяці тому +2

    Thanks for sharing sending hugs your way ❤

    • @tt_looking_glass
      @tt_looking_glass  2 місяці тому +1

      Thank you so much for watching and taking the time to comment. ❤️

  • @TheFemaleBoss93
    @TheFemaleBoss93 2 місяці тому +2

    I feel your heartache, nearly 12 years ago I lost my best friend. Her name was Squeak and she was the most adoring cat with the worst breath, despite that I loved her more than life . On the anniversary or when I think of her, I still sob. I even cried for you whilst watching this video, I didn't imagine this was how my Tuesday was going to start 😂. I'm glad you're finding hobbies that will help you stay occupied and help heal you, those watercolour pictures you painted, were so pretty! I'd love to see more in the future. Keep smiling and I'm sending gentle hugs to you❤

    • @tt_looking_glass
      @tt_looking_glass  2 місяці тому +3

      Thank you so much for sharing that with me. Losing Squeak must have been incredibly hard, especially since she was such a friend to you. It’s comforting to know that someone else understands that deep connection we have with our pets, even when they have quirks like bad breath. Kayla also had terrible breath. I can imagine how tough those anniversaries are, and it means a lot that you watched my video and connected with it.
      I'm glad you enjoyed the watercolor paintings! It’s been really therapeutic for me, and knowing that you’d like to see more really motivates me to keep going. I’m sending you the biggest, warmest hug right back. Let’s keep smiling and supporting each other through these moments. ❤️ I will
      share my paintings in the community tab.

  • @tlafleur99
    @tlafleur99 2 місяці тому +5

    I so feel your pain...only a few days after you posted your video about losing your beautiful little dog, I too, was faced with the agonizing decision without choice to put my precious cat Mya, my only companion and best friend, to sleep after discovering she had a life threatening condition with little to no treatment options. She was only 4 1/2 years old. I miss her terribly, and her absence is profound and many times suffocating. She was another loss in a series of losses that began with my husband passing from cancer in 2019, without even just a break in between to catch my breath. Heartache is all I've known lately, so I hear you loud and clear. All we can do is cherish the memories and keep soldiering on. God is near to the brokenhearted.

    • @tt_looking_glass
      @tt_looking_glass  2 місяці тому +3

      I'm so deeply sorry for the loss of your precious Mya and everything else you've had to endure. It’s clear how much love you’ve had to give, and to have that love taken away again and again must feel unbearable. Losing your only companion and best friend, especially after everything you’ve already been through, is a heartbreak that words can barely touch. I can feel the depth of your pain in every word you wrote.
      It sounds like you’ve been carrying so much weight on your shoulders, with no break to catch your breath, and yet, here you are, still showing up, still pushing through. That kind of strength is rare, and it’s inspiring, even though I know it comes at such a high cost. You're right about cherishing those memories, they become like lifelines in these overwhelming times. I hope you can hold onto those sweet moments with Mya, and feel the comfort that they brought you, even if just a little.
      And thank you for the reminder that we are not alone, that there is still something greater holding us in our brokenness. I’m sending you a big, virtual hug, and please know that I’m here if you ever need to talk. We’re in this together.

    • @tlafleur99
      @tlafleur99 2 місяці тому +1

      Thank you so much for the kind soothing words. Thank you also for all that you're doing with your channel! Keep fighting the good fight! You have something very special and unique here, with so many that care and support you!

    • @tt_looking_glass
      @tt_looking_glass  2 місяці тому +1

      Your encouragement gives me strength! I’m so grateful for your support and for being part of this special community. It’s people like you who make this journey worthwhile. I’ll definitely keep fighting the good fight, and it’s a comfort to know I have you all alongside me. Thank you so much!

  • @lumberlikwidator8863
    @lumberlikwidator8863 2 місяці тому +2

    That was a lovely video that you’ve shared and it struck a number of high and low points in my own life experience. My wife and I have shared our home and our lives with about thirty cats over the years, and every one was a beautiful and unique creature of God. Some people find their faith in God in the vastness of the Universe and the immense, distant heavenly bodies, the galaxies that are billions of light years away, and as ancient as Time itself. I do appreciate the grandeur and immensity of the Universe, but often I find my faith in the goodness, grace and love of God in the little living things that are all around us in Nature. Just seeing how flowers are cloaked in beauty and glory, even for a short season, can remind me of the beauty and mystery of Life. Seeing my cat, how fittingly beautiful he is, how much he loves me, and yet how lightning quick his reflexes are, how amazingly deadly a little predator he has been designed to be, fills me with awe at the wisdom and complexity behind the world around us. We currently have four of our furry little favorites, and having them near is worth every last bit of money, time and other resources we commit to them. I feel how badly you miss your little Kayla, and how the lady who commented about the loss of her cat Mya is grieving right now. What I can’t imagine is how much she was hurt by the loss of her husband. Jesus said blessed are they who mourn for they shall be comforted. I know in my heart that someday we will be resurrected and receive incorruptible new bodies that will never tire or give us any kind of pain.
    Some years ago I lost my older brother. He was only thirty-three years old, healthy and full of strength and athletic ability. He went out fishing one day and never came home. He was a good and kind man, and since our father was legally blind my brother did a lot of the things that most fathers would normally do. He taught us how to swim and play sports, he drove us to our ball games and our bowling leagues, and set a great example for us younger boys. It was a horrible shock to our family to realize that we were never going to see him again in this life. Not a day goes by that I don’t think of him and miss him. He was a talented oil painter and musician, and he built some very sweet folk instruments with his own hands. Many years ago I took a stab at watercolor painting, and I’ve only kept and framed one of my pictures. About six months ago I was missing my watercolor painting hobby and I’ve taken it up again. I started with a set of watercolor pencils. You can color on dry paper with them, and touch them with a damp or wet brush and manipulate or blend the colors. I’ve found it a fun, pressure-free way to get back into the hobby. I also build electric guitars in my basement workshop. I’ve been doing this on and off for about forty years, and I used to make all my wooden parts from scratch. The last five years or so I’ve been working with kits where the hardest woodwork is already done. This is because my hands are arthritic and I can’t make things from scratch anymore. I like to personalize the kits and that’s another way to keep busy and express myself creatively.
    I’ve rambled on way too long here, but I want to thank you again for the lovely video on the beauty of life and dealing with loss and grief. This video was definitely not a downer. It was realistic and uplifting, and I’m sure that everyone who’s seen it has taken a lot of the things you’ve said to heart. Thanks again, and I’m sending lots of gratitude and love for your continued support for your family of chronically ill viewers. And I think your brushwork is amazing. Play around with your colors and don’t worry about being perfect. You mentioned that watercolor is all about surprises, and that is why it’s so popular. God bless, and I wish you many happy, pain-free years to come!

    • @tt_looking_glass
      @tt_looking_glass  2 місяці тому +2

      Thank you so much for taking the time to share such a heartfelt and beautifully written comment. Your words touched me deeply, and I’m truly honored that the video resonated with you in such a meaningful way. The love and care you and your wife have given to your many feline companions over the years is something truly special, each one a unique and precious creature of God. It’s clear how much you appreciate the beauty and wonder in the world around us, from the grandeur of the universe to the simple, profound joys of nature and the lives we share with our beloved pets.
      I’m so sorry to hear about the loss of your brother. The way you describe him, it’s clear he was an incredible person who played a huge role in your life. I can’t imagine how hard it must have been to lose him so suddenly, and the grief that comes with that kind of loss never really goes away. It’s always there, just beneath the surface. It’s inspiring to hear how you’ve found ways to keep his memory alive through your own creative pursuits, like painting and woodworking. Those are such beautiful ways to honor him and keep that connection alive.
      It’s wonderful that you’ve returned to watercolor painting after all these years, and I love that you’re experimenting with watercolor pencils, they really do offer a fun and pressure-free way to play with color. I hope you continue to find joy and peace in your art, and in all the other creative projects you’ve taken on, like building electric guitars. Your hands may be arthritic, but it’s clear your spirit and creativity are as strong as ever. It’s a powerful reminder that even when our bodies present challenges, our minds and hearts can still find ways to create and express beauty.
      Thank you again for your kind words and for sharing so much of your story with me. It’s comments like yours that remind me why I do what I do, and I’m incredibly grateful for your support. I’m sending you lots of gratitude, love, and best wishes for many happy, pain-free years to come. God bless you, and may you continue to find joy and inspiration in the beauty of life and the love that surrounds you.

  • @amandalininger-bortko1616
    @amandalininger-bortko1616 2 місяці тому +3

    Ok, done with the video. First of all, beautiful video. It brought me to tears. I'm so SO sorry about your doggo 🐶 💔. Your pain is valid. Grief isn't linear. This video came up at the perfect time because I have been struggling too. The one year anniversary of my 18 year old nephew's death is coming up at the end of the month. This video spoke to me, so thank you, friend.

    • @tt_looking_glass
      @tt_looking_glass  2 місяці тому +3

      Amanda, my heart aches for you as you approach the anniversary of your nephew's passing. I can’t imagine the depth of that pain, and I’m so sorry you’re carrying this heavy grief. Anniversaries like this can be incredibly hard, bringing all those emotions back to the surface.
      I’m glad the video reached you when it did. Sometimes it feels like the universe knows when we need a little extra support, and I’m so grateful that my words could offer some comfort during this tough time. Please know that I’m holding you in my thoughts, and I’m sending you all the strength I can. Grief is such a difficult journey, but you’re not alone in it. I’m here for you, and I’m so thankful to have connected with you. Take gentle care of yourself, friend. 💔

    • @amandalininger-bortko1616
      @amandalininger-bortko1616 2 місяці тому +2

      @@tt_looking_glass thank you! 🥰. Sending much love to you ❤️

  • @jaeldekkers1
    @jaeldekkers1 2 місяці тому +1

    I love the whole vibe of your videos!!❤

    • @tt_looking_glass
      @tt_looking_glass  2 місяці тому +3

      Thank you so much. And thank you for watching and always having so many positive things to say. I really appreciate the support. 💔

  • @amandalininger-bortko1616
    @amandalininger-bortko1616 2 місяці тому +2

    I have the video paused just to say that I'm so excited that you're painting! You inspired me to start up again. On my to do list for Thursday. I started with oils. Then I moved to acrylics. I could never get watercolor right! My art used to sell though. Thank you for the inspiration. Doing it.

    • @tt_looking_glass
      @tt_looking_glass  2 місяці тому +3

      Amanda, I’m so happy to hear that you’re diving back into painting! I’m really glad I could be a part of that inspiration for you. It’s wonderful that you’ve explored oils and acrylics, each medium has its own magic, right?
      I hope you find joy and peace in getting back to it. Can’t wait to hear how it goes for you. Keep me posted!
      I’ve never really tried any other medium, unless you count finger painting in kindergarten, haha! But what I love about watercolor is that it just does its own thing, and there’s something so freeing about that. It’s been a big exercise for me in letting go of control and just enjoying the process.
      And wow, you’re an artist? That’s amazing! I hope diving back into painting brings you so much joy and that you can sell your art again. I bet your work is beautiful. Keep embracing that creative flow. Happy painting! 🎨

    • @amandalininger-bortko1616
      @amandalininger-bortko1616 2 місяці тому +1

      @@tt_looking_glass thanks for the encouraging words! Now I actually want to try watercolor again 😄

    • @tt_looking_glass
      @tt_looking_glass  2 місяці тому +2

      Wonderful! Let me know how it goes.

  • @GeraldineFaust
    @GeraldineFaust 2 місяці тому +2

    Daniela I am so sad for your loss and the grief and pain you are going through now. I know that deep heart-wrenching grief you are speaking of. It feels like your heart has been ripped out. Please know you are in my prayers and little Kayla knew the love you had for her!! You gave her a beautiful, loving and special life! Our fur babies love us unconditionally and always are loyal and love us no matter what. Take Care Daniela! My heart is with you!! ♥💔💝 Geri

    • @tt_looking_glass
      @tt_looking_glass  2 місяці тому +2

      Geri, your words are so kind and full of empathy. Thank you for holding space for my grief and for reminding me of the love that Kayla and I shared. It’s comforting to think that she knew how much she was loved, even though it makes the missing her feel all the more intense. You’re so right about our fur babies, they love us in such a pure and unconditional way that losing them feels like losing a part of our own hearts.
      I really appreciate your prayers and thoughts. Knowing that someone else understands this kind of deep, heart-wrenching grief helps me feel a little less alone in it. Thank you for being there with such a compassionate heart. Sending you love and warmth right back.

    • @GeraldineFaust
      @GeraldineFaust 2 місяці тому +2

      @@tt_looking_glass How are you feeling with your physical pain? I know stress and heartache can make it worse. There is nothing more difficult than loss and grief. I am so glad you are finding ways to help yourself get through this heartache. 💔💝❤ Geri

    • @tt_looking_glass
      @tt_looking_glass  2 місяці тому +2

      Geri, physically it’s been tough, and it definitely flares everything. It has also triggered another autoimmune disorder that really shook me. I’m not ready to talk about it yet, and honestly, I don’t know if I ever will because it has such a sensitive nature. But thank you so much for asking. You really understand, and that means the world to me. ❤️

    • @GeraldineFaust
      @GeraldineFaust 2 місяці тому +2

      @@tt_looking_glass Daniela you have gone through so so much. I am so so sorry. Please hang in there! You are such a beautiful lady both inside and out!🤗🤗💝💝💔💖 Geri

    • @tt_looking_glass
      @tt_looking_glass  2 місяці тому +1

      Thank you so much. ❤️

  • @janedarby7521
    @janedarby7521 2 місяці тому +2

    I was in bed for 2 months. The rain does not help, yesterday I really could not walk. My lovely dog leaving was what put me in bed for two months.

    • @tt_looking_glass
      @tt_looking_glass  2 місяці тому +1

      I'm so sorry you've been going through this. Losing a pet is such a deep pain, and on top of that, dealing with physical challenges is overwhelming. I know how hard it is when grief hits you so hard that it affects everything, even your ability to move. Some days it feels like the weight of everything is too much to carry, especially when your body is already fighting its own battles. Please know that it's okay to take things one step at a time, even if those steps are small right now. Sending you strength and hoping that as the clouds start to clear, you'll find some comfort. I'm here with you, and I hope you find a little light in your day today.