Thank you for interviewing our family. You are truly gifted and an Earth Angel. You have found your purpose in life. I am so glad you did. This video is amazing. I loved the way you let us be us during the filming. Much Love To You Always.🥰❤
You can tell he likes the stimming partner because he looks towards him stays near him and even laughs. What a sweet guy that Darius. I’m so glad he has loving parents.
I dont think its okay to treat it as a boon my ma's friend had a very autistic child who had to get sent to a facility because he wouldn't stop beating her when he got mad
YES!! THIS!!! I am focusing on my health this year because my Autisitc son is EXTREMELY active and as his mom, I know he will always have speed over me [as he likes to elope...not as much] so I need to be fit [not for IG but for him]. I loved his hmming; my son loves music, humming and singing etc.
I can relate, i am 44 and my son is 5, non verbal and the sweetest personality. He will likely need a lot of support his whole life and it terrifies me to think about who will take care of him when I and his mother are gone.
His mother is just an angel. I just love her spirit. If they happen to see this comment, God bless y'all and keep you healthy! May the Lord give you what you need for everyday, and may Darius keep smiling. :)
She seems so genuinely happy and loving when playing with Darius. She understands him, regardless of his nonverbal traits. She and her husband-- these kinds of people are the salt of the earth. 💕
@@anja7994 I just wanted to say I'm going through something very difficult, and when I see you praise God for never making a mistake, it makes me realize that everything I'm going through is for a reason. Thank you!!!
I saw a documentary on a severely autistic man like Darius one time. It says that God says “where others see a flaw, I see eternal innocence.” That’s what I see with Darius. He seems so happy. Lots of laughs and smiles and physical affection. He’s also so lucky to have the right kind of parents who are patient and have a great attitude ❤️
Omg! I have tried to figure out what this documentary is for so long! I couldn’t remember what was said, but just recalled it was beautiful. If you know or remember the name of it please please let me know.
Hi I am autistic and so is my wife. We sometimes co-stim with each other just like Chris and Darius are doing (for us it looks like making ‘nnnn’ or ‘meep’ noises together, rocking together, or making repetitive hand movements) and it’s one of the most soothing thing when the other one joins in. I love it when someone joins in one of my stims as long as it is done genuinely and respectfully and not mockingly. Chris did that just right.
@@dolan6906 Pretty sure it's a girl though, judging by the name "Charlotte" on their profile. So that would mean she's a lesbian. Which that still is adorable
@@dolan6906 Yeah ik that dude typically is neutral . Though I still find "bro" or "dude" sounds weird when talking about a woman. It's just im so used to hearing it be referred with guys lol.
It sounds like Darius is meditating. I'm Autistic and I don't think I stim so maybe I'm wrong but I feel like Darius is on a different plane, so to speak, when he's doing that stim. Does stimming feel meditative? Do you realize what you're doing when you stim? Is it self-soothing?
I cannot help but recognize how musical Darius is. From the pitch perfect hum and rhythm he has when he is stimming and the rhythm and technique he uses to play the harmonica.. this guy is musically talented ! I love Darius and he brings me so much joy
OH MY GOD IT'S DARIUS!!!!!! I cannot begin to express how many times he has made me smile 😄 what an epic guy for real, darius in the place to be!!! Omg chris you stimming with him was so cool!!! I love stimming together with my best friend
Love to you and yours and Darius, too. Sensory processing issues are extremely common among all humans, not just those with disabilities. We all need certain kinds of stimulation to help us regulate ourselves in the world and establish appropriate social behavior. Whatever that is? I loved when his mom said Darius likes to grab and get more. I love you, Darius, and your family. I, too, want to grab and get more. I love you and your family and the heart you share.
I love Darius' mom so much! It's really refreshing to see a parent who has such a positive outlook on autism. Don't get me wrong, my parents are awesome, but I wish they could be more like her.
Yeah the mom seemed like she was trying to make it seem like it is all okay but I know deep down she’s stressed but I know she loves her son and is doing a good job with coping
I can’t get over Darius’s dad saying he started taking better care of himself so he can stay alive as long as possible to take care of Darius. That’s a true parent right there, so much love and selflessness. Darius was given the right parents for him 🤍
darius is so similar to my younger brother (who's 16 atm) its almost eerie, his mannerisms, his laugh, the way he speaks, the way he contorts his fingers, even his obsession with rice lol, it really felt like i was watching another version of my brother, and seeing chris connect with him by joining in on the stimming was so heartwarming, it inspires me to be a better brother, having an autistic sibling can be difficult but one thing i've always appreciated about my brother is that he hasn't been corrupted by the world and seeing him just enjoy the wonders of life can be so therapeutic, and darius strikes me the same way, he's just being his own unique self and bringing light to the world in his own way, wishing him and his beautiful family all the best
I’m ASD and disabled as well and I’m tainted by the World and not innocent, Hun. Darius, bless His heart is LFA which is why he is so innocent, untainted and loving.
Me too! I'm so grateful for this video! My daughter is 6 and non-speaking, so this video gives me a little glimpse into ways that my daughter may act when she's older. 😃 His smiles and energy remind me of hers! His mom and his dad are amazing and lovely people.
Yes, it is nice to watch them enjoying each other. I also liked when the mom asked the dad to go check on Darius in the bathroom, such natural good communication. I don't know why it impressed me so much. I guess I have just seen so much bad communication or lack of communication that it is surprising now to see anyone do it right.
I am an autistic adult. I am here to tell the world that autistic people are not broken or have missing pieces. We understand so much more than most people think we do. We are here to usher in a more empathetic and understanding planet. We are highly intelligent and intuitive people and we have so much to teach others 🌈💜
My 18 year old daughter was diagnosed with Autism this past summer,she also has a learning disability,she is very bright and will be attending college in the fall as she wants to be a history teacher,she can tell you everything about History and is also a science nerd,she holds a job and lives life to the best of her ability😊
His dads comment about trying to "stick around" really hits home for me.being a mom of a 32 yr old with cerebral palsy and a spinal chord injury as well....I want to be there for her as long as I can because the future terrifies me.
Love to you and your daughter. My only advice to you is to plan now. Talk to adult service providers and find out what skills she will need to have for the most decent programs, and get on it. This is not your fault or doing. It's not your daughter's fault or doing. You can't die or be unwell until you take care of her future. Plan now. Her transitions must be seamless. They will be horrific enough without her mom and best friend. Kove you.
hits me home too, i have a 14 y/o cousin thats autistic, so me, my brothers, and my other cousins are starting to talk about his future since we all know our parents wont stay on this earth forever
Please, ANYONE with a child with Autism, make sure you have a Will done ASAP with at least a primary and secondary person who you trust will provide care for your child in case something happens which includes detailed instructions on money usage, medical care and your wishes. PLEASE also make sure they ALL have a copy or video of the Will. More than one person so it can not be disputed. You are not invincible and will not live forever. Make arrangements! There are too many who end up in mental homes, foster homes, homeless or with the wrong family member.
That father really is a smart cookie! That concern for longevity and the destiny of his son after his passing is a huge responsibility and very incredibly important to plan for. You go dad.
I had a son who was greatly disabled ...it wasn't autism. But any parent who has a child who will always need assistance in life, worries about who will take care of them if & when they're not here. Just a fact.
Not to mention that it's a heavily compassionate thing to do. I find caring for oneself is a huge effort, and to do such a thing for someone else requires great compassion. :)
@@leslieh761 i knew a few personally who took things day by day. In a bad scanario I don’t know what would happen plus they didn’t save any money. Also, It’s surprising how few sbsk videos even mention post parental care plans.
As a musician and teacher I am so interested in the way Darius stims with his voice and the harmonica. He is in fact making the same and similar sounds with both. I have a theory about what he's doing musically - the distance between the two tones he uses is about a half step, mimicking the sound of a leading tone to tonic resolution. Basically, it's the very pleasing sound of a musical phrase strongly ending. If that's the case I'm sure he also is hearing it as a I-V-I (tonic-dominant-tonic) resolution on the harmonica because it plays the other notes that fill out the chords. He has good ears! I would love to give him voice lessons - I think he would enjoy it and it would be good for him too. Music is truly a universal way of communicating. Chris, you teach me new things about communicating with all of my students in every video. It helps me to be a better teacher and I'm sure it helps others too. Thank you for what you do.
Omg! You're right about the harmonica and humming being complimentary a completing a chord. That's soo intriguing. He's definitely got a great musicality. As soon as he hears Chris humming his note he just picks it up immediately... And that slow vibrato he does. The first thing I thought when I heard him hum a just a few times was that he can sing... That he definitely was blessed with a voice. I nanny a 6yo who is soooo similar to Darius and sometimes hums as a form of stimming. Hers is such a groan and not nearly as melodic compared to his. Hers really comes on most often when she is irritated. I wonder, as someone with a child dev/psychology/education background and also musical w/ an incredibly gifted musician for a husband... I'd be willing to bet that if there was a way to really figure it out, that his humming is a happy, positive, excited stim because of his natural ability.. Like when he hums he can hear how he connects to someone or into the world like a puzzle peice and it makes sense to him. Even if he doesn't "understand" persay... Sounds that are pleasing make people happy. When she is upset she grinds her teeth in the absolute harshest, squeakiest way ever. Is that grating sound a reflection of the anxiety. Sorry this became a response that is more just me thinking out loud than anything else. Mainly, I am intrigued by what you pointed out but it triggered some thoughts on autism and stimming
@@creamfiend84I feel he is stimulating his vagus nerve to calm his nervous system. I intuitively started doing the mmmmm part of OM when I had a migraine(I get cluster migraines) I then came across information re stimulating the vagus nerve for pain relief. I do this all the time when I get a migraine now or experience pain (it works during fevers as well) There is much information about heavy metals linked to autism, heavy metals cause inflammation and stimulating the vagus nerve reduces inflammation. I have found detoxing with zeolite to be very helpful and has reduced my systemic inflammation, chemical and light sensitivity. My cousins 3 yo who could only speak one word sentences, with his own rolling sounds language wrapped around single words. Within 2 weeks of using TRS (which is based on zeolite) he was speaking full sentences. She got onto TRS through a friend that had a similar experience with her child. So many people have had massive improvements using TRS or zeolite to detox from heavy metals.
As the mother of a non-verbal, young adult autistic son, this warmed my heart. Also, rice is a daily meal in our house! 😂😂 I also stim with my son daily, and he gives me the BIGGEST hugs afterward. We call it our meditation time. ❤️❤️
One of my twin daughters has autism, Emily is 25 years old and has severe autism like Darious and displays very similar behaviours. I totally agree with his parents,they are a blessing and they literally make you stop and smell the flowers,I also share the same concerns wishing I could live forever to look after Emily. God bless this family and I am very happy meeting them.
Weirdly a relief to know I'm not alone, my twin brother also has the same type of autism as Darius. :) You dont hear a lot about twins in this situation, sending you guys my love!
@@1stunna91 that’s the gift that children with Autism have, they don’t know any different. They try to make the best of everything, as much as they can. They do need a lot of help but it shows the world that we should have more compassion
Irisa is the best. She spends 100% of her time advocating for not only Darius, but other children and adults just like him. He is so blessed to have parents like his. ❤️
Darius has such a giggly, contagious laugh. He radiates joy and you can tell how much his parents love him. Thanks Darius for making me smile this morning!
I love his mom, she seems like the sweetest, most patient, bubbly woman! & she's absolutely right when she said It's important that he learns to communicate properly with others! She's so awesome for teaching him 😊
I love that Chris tries to match Darius's stimming tone to try and connect with him. Brilliantly kind and thoughtful. It seems like connecting with him through sound was really effective! ❤
Reminds me of Kodi Lee from the tv show AGT so he may do well singing or even playing an instrument ( like his harmonica if he took lessons). When they do something musically, they seem to be the happy.
Sometimes the whole family stimms right along with my son, he looks at us laughs and smiles because I guess he thinks we're speaking his language and it makes him happy that for that moment we're communicating and even more connected♡
I love this interview. I think this is a great example of how autism doesn’t necessarily upset the person on the spectrum, it’s the world around us not understanding or making a place for us. Darius seems healthy and happy. Other people may have a problem with it, but Darius is enjoying himself. I’m glad he has a family that loves him and doesn’t try to force him to be someone he isn’t.
In tears. I was the younger sister to a autistic man. He had his own "bebe" song. He passed of a seizure in 2013. My whole life changed forever. I was totally prepared to take care of him and everyone knew it. God bless Darius and his family.
I'm sorry for your loss. This comment hit me differently. At times, it can feel like a burden. But the truth is we couldn't be without the ones we love, and caring for someone with autism somehow becomes our calling and our blessing. We feel glued to the process, and we want the best for the ones we love.
I love what his father said “I don’t view him as different, I just recognize his limitations.” I watch Darius and his mom on IG. I had a cousin that was autistic, that i was raised with. He was like my sibling. In our family house, my grandfathers motto was the same as Darius’ father. I miss my cousin every day💯. Darius reminds me so much of him. I’m so thankful that his parents decided to share him with rest of the world❤️
It made me laugh so hard when his dad said the only thing that bothers him is that he eats too fast when they go out😂 my pops was the exact same way! Love seeing a strong black family like this ✊ wish yal many blessings
I love that Darius’s mom says “ I don’t know” when asked what she think he is thinking while humming. Lots of parents of non verbal kids ( and adults for that matter) tells what their children thinks or feels, which I think are very patronising because unless someone in any way has communicated what they feel or think about anything other people actually don’t know.
I'm sure they don't mean to be patronizing. It's normal, as a parent, to attempt to understand what your child is thinking. But it's also fine to admit you don't know.
This mother seems like the incarnation of goodness and joy and the perfect perfect mother to an autistic person ! Wow I can’t say how awesome I find her
Stimming, as defined by Wikipedia is: "Self-stimulatory behavior, also known as "stimming" and self-stimulation, is the repetition of physical movements, sounds, words, moving objects, or other repetitive behaviors. Such behaviors (also scientifically known as 'stereotypies') are found to some degree in all people, especially those with developmental disabilities, and are also frequent in people on the autism spectrum." I would love to hear some thoughts on stimming from people who do it often! Edit: I wanted to add that in my opinion stimming with Darius is a way for me to communicate, "I care about you enough to learn about something that is important to you." It's as if someone that I am friends with wanted to learn about volleyball or Bob Dylan, two things I enjoy. Although it may look a bit different, the emotions behind it are the same.
I don't have autism but I do have ADHD and have taken up stimming as a way to manage my day to day anxiety and stress. It's helped immensely. As a child I masked my symptoms too much to allow myself to stim, but making autistic friends and learning more about the autism spectrum has helped me in big ways to manage my own disability.
I don’t stim much but when I do it feels like a build up of energy and I feel kinda breathless until I like make a noise or shake it out - it’s really strange lol
Never quite considered it a stim but I am a habitual nail picker ... and sometimes a finger-twiddler where I'd think of a phrase and tap it out from thumb to pinky until it ended on the pinky ...' yeah that's pretty specific and odd, LOL, and something similar with my shoulders I quickly got out of the habbit because it was too noticeable. Not autistic, not ADHD (that I know of), but it's funny what little body movements and things people might do
When you're stimming with him you're speaking his language. So often we're trying to make them change to fit our world, and I can only imagine how incredibly difficult and exhausting that might be, so I think it's beautiful when we join them in their world and speak their language for a change...💕
Me too. I have two kids with non-verbal autism. It terrifies me. Too many bad people in this world.. gives me a panic attack. Just take care of yourself. Walk a lot out in nature, eat lots of plant based food, drink only water and tea, limit stress, no smoking/drinking. You want to make sure you live as long as possible for your little boy. God Bless the both of you and I pray he is capable of becoming independent one day. Look into prebiotics, probiotics, juiced cilantro, wheatgrass, mushroom powder, charcoal, etc. Find ways to detox. It's hard when they are picky (like mine). Good luck.
If it makes you feel better my mom worried about how my life/future would be because I was non verbal when I was little. I’m 24 years old working full time and talk nonstop 😅
I genuinely love Darius so much, i'm so glad his mom never gave up on him year after year, understanding his stimming and even trying to encourage him to stim more so he can get his anxiety out of his system. This is a really good example of good parenthood: the parent lets the kid be himself, do stuff to calm down for example and encourage him to make a hobby out of it, like the time he was doing a studio record of his stimming. I love Darius and her mom so much for this!!
2:02 “what are you thinking about”. The way he got close to her and touched her … it sure looked to me like he was saying “I am thinking about how much I love you.”
His mom is so loving, supportive, and amazing at communicating with him. You can tell how absolutely loved he is by the way that he smiles and interacts with people.
I was non-verbal as a child. When I stimm, I listen to the rhythms of my body and 'tune' them to be like nature. If it is a tapping, I tap to my heartbeat or the waves of an ocean. If It is rocking, I rock like a tree branch. Supermarkets and pointy things hurt my head and ears and eyes, so I tap with two fingers on my wrist, to send a calmness from there, up my arm. I often think that autism must be a little similar to what neurotypicals feel on acid. Some people pretend to be autistic for attention, but I can always spot people who have the rhythm of our language. I can talk to non-verbal autistic people still, even though I was told I was too good at socialising to be autistic when I sought diagnosis (I came from a cult, so my non-verbal history was chalked up to abuse and stimming to trauma behaviour)
As an autistic person who does acid, its not similar at all lol. You feel a little tingly all over, thoughts are mostly coherent but forming sentences is hard (which I guess is the only parallel but it doesn't feel the same), and you see different colours overlayed on everything, as well as the outlines of objects and things like text and images moving. Sometimes people's imagination runs away with them which is when you get intense trips where they invent worlds and scenarios, but I've never had that, maybe bc of my autism as I don't have much imagination at all In fact I've done quite a few drugs and all of them tend to make my traits easier to deal with. Sometimes the traits are actually slightly lessened, but like 95% of the time it's a lot more like it's easier for me to cope with stuff than the thing not being difficult to begin with Anyway so yeah it doesn't exacerbate my traits and I've never heard of someone tripping and finding things too loud or being unable to be social (in fact, if I'm with a few specific friends, acid tends to make me ramble on about like anything and everything, makes me super chatty but all my speech is slurred haha. And it's not like I'm thinking about the words at that point they just kinda happen). It's when I'm with anyone else that I end up just talking to them in my head cos the thoughts are there but the words just can't come out properly, if I try in that scenario I just end up making incoherent sounds
Fr. Lotta people just associate autism with the kids and forget that autistic kids grow up to be autistic adults who might not be able to live like a normal adult and might need extra help. That’s not always the case though.
You have an incredible way of connecting with these amazing people who some people may avoid or ostracise. You on the other hand show all the beautiful people in life, inside and out. You connect with them on a deep level and know them as people and not a disability. I seriously think you have a gift to see people for who are they are not what they look like or what impacts their life’s. It’s truly incredible. You and these people are amazing ❤️
My family has been following this beautiful journey for years. A few of these strong families have lost their angels, and we always send out love. I'm a caregiver to people with extra support requirements, and I love that Chris and his dedicated team are spreading understanding and helpful information.
Darius' stimming is actually very unique. .As a music graduate , I observe it is like Tuvan overtone humming , his harmonic is in the key of D and the second harmonic goes within the range of c, whilst staying within one key or intervals with one key signature, that's impressive
@@blicced7017 No, this person is simply describing the physics of the sounds that Darius makes. There's nothing to "reach" for, this is how the science of sound waves works.
The respect that father had for his son was incredible, you can tell he was getting a bit annoyed at his head being grabbed but he showed restraint because he loves his son and understands him. Great parents. I wish them the absolute best on their life journey. Also Darius’ giggle is so contagious!
Just got here, really excited for the video :) I’m also autistic and will likely be living with my parents well into adulthood- really cool to see such a good example of this! Kind of proves to me that it’s possible for me to have a happy fulfilling life, even if I won’t be able to be very independent :)
My beautiful grandson is non verbal autistic, he will be 4 in May and he is the absolute love of my life! I couldn't imagine my baby any other way! He is a true blessing to our family and we all are just so in love with him!!
I know this will get lost in the sea of comments - These videos really make my day, and it's hard for me to focus on a video. I subscribed to SBSK a while ago because Chris is so friendly and I love all the friendly people he talks to. It makes me smile so much when he brings joy to the interviewees and talks to them.
My son is 18 and he’s on the autism spectrum but I feel fortunate because he’s able to hold a job and someday he’ll be able to live on his own. He’ll have his challenges but we’re trying our best to prepare him. Darius is a real cutie. 🥰 I hope the family has a good support system. Other parents who are going through the same things would be nice.
I’m on the spectrum my mother kicked me out at 19. She also called the cops on me and lied saying I hit her so I sat in jail for months including on my 20th birthday
My 19 yr old daughter is what is considered high functioning autistic. She has a job, with limits, very social, etc. But because she's been in bad company (school "friends"), she reflected some real bad behaviors. Never want to go through that again!!! Now she's back home with us, safe. Was on her own for a bit. She didn't do well, was taken advantage of, etc. She does need a hand held as she grows more into adulthood. The hard part is when she won't take the advice...her level on the spectrum is hard for us. She's got both worlds going on. Nevertheless, she's loved. My nephew, on the other hand, is autistic and almost exactly like Darious in the video. He's a lot of fun to interact with. We know his limits and what he does (even the nude stuff), it's easier to understand, IMO.
Thank you for interviewing our family. You are truly gifted and an Earth Angel. You have found your purpose in life. I am so glad you did. This video is amazing. I loved the way you let us be us during the filming. Much Love To You Always.🥰❤
You have a beautiful family and you are clearly wonderful parents. I can feel the love just from this video ❤
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I had so much fun with your family!
You have a beautiful family! Everyone put a huge smile on my face! ❤
Thank you for sharing your beautiful family with us. Nothing makes me happier than to see children well loved (even grown children!)
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LOVE YOU DARIUS!!
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#1 stim fr along with the subharmonic bass stim
Man you don’t understand, you stimming with Darius is the equivalent to sharing a joint with snoop dog. You just stimmed with a legend
LMAO!!!! SOOOOOO TRUE!!!!
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You can tell he likes the stimming partner because he looks towards him stays near him and even laughs. What a sweet guy that Darius. I’m so glad he has loving parents.
He laughs just like mom lol you can tell these parents instilled so much love into their son. Beautiful to see.
Thank you❤
@@Irisa_Dariusyoure a wonderful parent
@@Irisa_Darius and people would think you're his girlfriend? dude they blind!
Never underestimate autistic people. They understand so much and are truly unique people.
Truly. It is a fascinating disorder
I dont think its okay to treat it as a boon my ma's friend had a very autistic child who had to get sent to a facility because he wouldn't stop beating her when he got mad
@@djrelentle2027 Even the low functioning ones still understand some things. They're still people.
@@djrelentle2027 Even so, that doesn't mean you should treat them like they're not people.
@@djrelentle2027 Be quiet please.
As a father, I admire Darius' father when says he wants to take care of himself so he can take care of Darius as long as possible. That is real love.
It was DEEP🙏💕.. GOD IS GREAT...
YES!! THIS!!! I am focusing on my health this year because my Autisitc son is EXTREMELY active and as his mom, I know he will always have speed over me [as he likes to elope...not as much] so I need to be fit [not for IG but for him]. I loved his hmming; my son loves music, humming and singing etc.
We don't want to leave them behind. Who will love them like we do. His father is a wonderful example.
Yeah he seemed kind of annoyed by Darius at some points
I can relate, i am 44 and my son is 5, non verbal and the sweetest personality. He will likely need a lot of support his whole life and it terrifies me to think about who will take care of him when I and his mother are gone.
His mother is just an angel. I just love her spirit. If they happen to see this comment, God bless y'all and keep you healthy! May the Lord give you what you need for everyday, and may Darius keep smiling. :)
She seems so genuinely happy and loving when playing with Darius. She understands him, regardless of his nonverbal traits. She and her husband-- these kinds of people are the salt of the earth. 💕
She was my professor for algebra. She was genuinely such an amazing professor.
This woman is amazing!! ❤ Thank you God for never doing mistake. Thank you Mamy for being you.
She's absolutely beautiful
@@anja7994 I just wanted to say I'm going through something very difficult, and when I see you praise God for never making a mistake, it makes me realize that everything I'm going through is for a reason. Thank you!!!
I saw a documentary on a severely autistic man like Darius one time. It says that God says “where others see a flaw, I see eternal innocence.” That’s what I see with Darius. He seems so happy. Lots of laughs and smiles and physical affection. He’s also so lucky to have the right kind of parents who are patient and have a great attitude ❤️
Omg! I have tried to figure out what this documentary is for so long! I couldn’t remember what was said, but just recalled it was beautiful. If you know or remember the name of it please please let me know.
I believe it was called the teachings of John :)
@@chaneykane3828 thank you kindly for responding! ;)
Yes indeed 🙏🏾
Hi I am autistic and so is my wife. We sometimes co-stim with each other just like Chris and Darius are doing (for us it looks like making ‘nnnn’ or ‘meep’ noises together, rocking together, or making repetitive hand movements) and it’s one of the most soothing thing when the other one joins in. I love it when someone joins in one of my stims as long as it is done genuinely and respectfully and not mockingly. Chris did that just right.
That’s pretty freakin awesome dude. Rock on. ☮️💟
@@dolan6906 Pretty sure it's a girl though, judging by the name "Charlotte" on their profile. So that would mean she's a lesbian. Which that still is adorable
@@marley606 I use dude as gender neutral, so honestly it swings either way. 👍👍
@@dolan6906 Yeah ik that dude typically is neutral . Though I still find "bro" or "dude" sounds weird when talking about a woman. It's just im so used to hearing it be referred with guys lol.
It sounds like Darius is meditating. I'm Autistic and I don't think I stim so maybe I'm wrong but I feel like Darius is on a different plane, so to speak, when he's doing that stim. Does stimming feel meditative? Do you realize what you're doing when you stim? Is it self-soothing?
I cannot help but recognize how musical Darius is. From the pitch perfect hum and rhythm he has when he is stimming and the rhythm and technique he uses to play the harmonica.. this guy is musically talented ! I love Darius and he brings me so much joy
True!
Same he makes me so happy 😊
And the way he kinda starts squinting his eye whenever it’s out of tune.
SO TRUE! i was thinking exactly the same
I thought the same - his stimming is just making music.
Darius' mom is literally so beautiful inside and out
His mother’s eyes lit up talking about him.
She's beautiful❤❤❤
Thats a parents love. There is nothing more beautiful
No matter how the kid is their parents always love them
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She has a heart warming energy. Very beautiful
OH MY GOD IT'S DARIUS!!!!!! I cannot begin to express how many times he has made me smile 😄 what an epic guy for real, darius in the place to be!!! Omg chris you stimming with him was so cool!!! I love stimming together with my best friend
Love to you and yours and Darius, too. Sensory processing issues are extremely common among all humans, not just those with disabilities. We all need certain kinds of stimulation to help us regulate ourselves in the world and establish appropriate social behavior. Whatever that is? I loved when his mom said Darius likes to grab and get more. I love you, Darius, and your family. I, too, want to grab and get more. I love you and your family and the heart you share.
hehe me too sometimes when my friend rock back and forth or moves to stomach i do it too !
whos back to see darius the goat
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His giggle is infectious. What a happy boy😊
I think the word you’re searching is contagious 😅
I know. I love it.
I love Darius' mom so much! It's really refreshing to see a parent who has such a positive outlook on autism. Don't get me wrong, my parents are awesome, but I wish they could be more like her.
Darius’ parents seem like wonderful people. I bet family get togethers are really fun.
Same! I say we all move into their home and have a mega lovefest.
She’s the goat!
@@globalwarmhugs7741 Yeaahh! Let's do it! 👍🏻
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bro darius is my king i seen him on insta didnt know he was on here
ikrr😭😭
the intergalatic spacecraft brought you here
bro ikkkk this my goat
Same
I love Darius's dad. He's not over the top or crazily positive about everything. He's realistic. That's something you don't see often, he's awesome.
Yeah the mom seemed like she was trying to make it seem like it is all okay but I know deep down she’s stressed but I know she loves her son and is doing a good job with coping
@parkerwoodall9125 Rice tomorrow
@@cindyl760well of course she’s stressed. She’s doing what she has to do to get by. It isn’t easy.
@@cindyl760what u want her to be depressed
She's realistic too, just the way she is. She just seems high energy.
I can’t get over Darius’s dad saying he started taking better care of himself so he can stay alive as long as possible to take care of Darius. That’s a true parent right there, so much love and selflessness. Darius was given the right parents for him 🤍
Dang it must be so hard for them to think about when they are gone
GOD always knows what HE is doing, even if we don't understand it!!
@@neuronomadsgroupcruisingnow what does that have to do with anything
my dad become a vegan and quit drinking to care for brother up until he passed. a parents love 🤍
AMEN❤
darius is so similar to my younger brother (who's 16 atm) its almost eerie, his mannerisms, his laugh, the way he speaks, the way he contorts his fingers, even his obsession with rice lol, it really felt like i was watching another version of my brother, and seeing chris connect with him by joining in on the stimming was so heartwarming, it inspires me to be a better brother, having an autistic sibling can be difficult but one thing i've always appreciated about my brother is that he hasn't been corrupted by the world and seeing him just enjoy the wonders of life can be so therapeutic, and darius strikes me the same way, he's just being his own unique self and bringing light to the world in his own way, wishing him and his beautiful family all the best
That’s so true that autistic and disabled able people are still quite innocent and untainted by the world that definitely is so beautiful
@@asiamwithraenetteleepodcastim autistic and decidedly not innocent..
@@lurji good for you
I’m ASD and disabled as well and I’m tainted by the World and not innocent, Hun. Darius, bless His heart is LFA which is why he is so innocent, untainted and loving.
Same
Darius gives me so much joy. The relationship between him and his mom is great
His laughter makes me feel warm and can't stop smiling. 🥰 I hope you had a great day!
Moms are the best thing in the world. I feel so sorry for everyone who doesnt have a loving mom close by
Me too!
I'm so grateful for this video!
My daughter is 6 and non-speaking, so this video gives me a little glimpse into ways that my daughter may act when she's older. 😃 His smiles and energy remind me of hers!
His mom and his dad are amazing and lovely people.
Absolutely agree!
I have a 16 yr old non-verbal autistic son 💚
I have so much respect for Darius's father. He's one of the special heroes quietly living his life in the background.
Amen they both ❤️❤️
Absolutely. I love how he accepts Darius as he is.
Amen, agreed, they’re both amazing
Its like he is meditating. Hes focusing on his voice and claming him self down. Thats beautiful.
His relationship with his mom is so precious and wholesome
Men always ignored. It is sad people never talks about the father..how sad.
Why does gender bias have to be in the replies...
He has two loving parents. I'm so happy Darius loves the people who care for him
Yes, it is nice to watch them enjoying each other. I also liked when the mom asked the dad to go check on Darius in the bathroom, such natural good communication. I don't know why it impressed me so much. I guess I have just seen so much bad communication or lack of communication that it is surprising now to see anyone do it right.
“I don’t see him as different , I just understand his limitations”. That hit me differently. Good job, mum and dad❤️❤️
His humming is melodic. It’s like his life song ❤
Dude this is such a beautiful comment it made me cry.
It actually makes my tears tingle
This hit deep. It is like his life song. They should record it and jam to it. I know I was...
Yes, I agree!❤
I am an autistic adult. I am here to tell the world that autistic people are not broken or have missing pieces. We understand so much more than most people think we do. We are here to usher in a more empathetic and understanding planet. We are highly intelligent and intuitive people and we have so much to teach others 🌈💜
My 18 year old daughter was diagnosed with Autism this past summer,she also has a learning disability,she is very bright and will be attending college in the fall as she wants to be a history teacher,she can tell you everything about History and is also a science nerd,she holds a job and lives life to the best of her ability😊
This. My fiance as well ❤️❤️ keep being awesome.
I believe 100%what you just said.
Much love special someone ❤
Exactly, most autistic people excel in geek careers like tech and creative sector
Wonderful amazing parents ! Love and support you have for your son. Is a plus. I wish y’all the bed. Blessing !
His mom needs to work in the Healthcare field. She is very compassionate
She’s actually a professor witch definitely makes sense
she’s got enough on her plate
I know it's a compliment but she's busy already
His dads comment about trying to "stick around" really hits home for me.being a mom of a 32 yr old with cerebral palsy and a spinal chord injury as well....I want to be there for her as long as I can because the future terrifies me.
Me too, Angie. I am sending you big hugs xo
Love to you and your daughter. My only advice to you is to plan now. Talk to adult service providers and find out what skills she will need to have for the most decent programs, and get on it. This is not your fault or doing. It's not your daughter's fault or doing. You can't die or be unwell until you take care of her future. Plan now. Her transitions must be seamless. They will be horrific enough without her mom and best friend. Kove you.
hits me home too, i have a 14 y/o cousin thats autistic, so me, my brothers, and my other cousins are starting to talk about his future since we all know our parents wont stay on this earth forever
Hugs 💕
wish you the best angie
Darius laugh can bring me out of the darkest depression. It’s so freaking CUTE. I would love to stim with Darius
I'd love to hang out with him too! I love when he laughs. Made me laugh too.
Bro was laughing at his face 😭
Please, ANYONE with a child with Autism, make sure you have a Will done ASAP with at least a primary and secondary person who you trust will provide care for your child in case something happens which includes detailed instructions on money usage, medical care and your wishes. PLEASE also make sure they ALL have a copy or video of the Will. More than one person so it can not be disputed. You are not invincible and will not live forever. Make arrangements! There are too many who end up in mental homes, foster homes, homeless or with the wrong family member.
My reality .. I pray to God everyday abt this
This woman's inner beauty shines. Mothers take notes
ikr her good energy radiates from her
Agreed. She makes me happy.
Darius's mother is incredible! She is a fantastic mother.
Men always ignored. It is sad people never talks about the father..how sad.
@@AlexanderHamiIton What about the father??
That father really is a smart cookie! That concern for longevity and the destiny of his son after his passing is a huge responsibility and very incredibly important to plan for. You go dad.
I had a son who was greatly disabled ...it wasn't autism. But any parent who has a child who will always need assistance in life, worries about who will take care of them if & when they're not here. Just a fact.
I agree 👍🏻
Not to mention that it's a heavily compassionate thing to do. I find caring for oneself is a huge effort, and to do such a thing for someone else requires great compassion. :)
@@leslieh761 i knew a few personally who took things day by day. In a bad scanario I don’t know what would happen plus they didn’t save any money.
Also, It’s surprising how few sbsk videos even mention post parental care plans.
I can't believe nobody is talking about how contagious his giggles are, everytime he giggled I would too 😭
Yes!! He's SUPER delightful and mischievous! I laughed every time he did!
My Lord my son works with people like him ❤❤❤❤
You can tell Darius and his mother have a very special bond.
As a musician and teacher I am so interested in the way Darius stims with his voice and the harmonica. He is in fact making the same and similar sounds with both. I have a theory about what he's doing musically - the distance between the two tones he uses is about a half step, mimicking the sound of a leading tone to tonic resolution. Basically, it's the very pleasing sound of a musical phrase strongly ending. If that's the case I'm sure he also is hearing it as a I-V-I (tonic-dominant-tonic) resolution on the harmonica because it plays the other notes that fill out the chords. He has good ears! I would love to give him voice lessons - I think he would enjoy it and it would be good for him too. Music is truly a universal way of communicating.
Chris, you teach me new things about communicating with all of my students in every video. It helps me to be a better teacher and I'm sure it helps others too. Thank you for what you do.
Omg! You're right about the harmonica and humming being complimentary a completing a chord. That's soo intriguing.
He's definitely got a great musicality. As soon as he hears Chris humming his note he just picks it up immediately... And that slow vibrato he does. The first thing I thought when I heard him hum a just a few times was that he can sing... That he definitely was blessed with a voice.
I nanny a 6yo who is soooo similar to Darius and sometimes hums as a form of stimming. Hers is such a groan and not nearly as melodic compared to his. Hers really comes on most often when she is irritated. I wonder, as someone with a child dev/psychology/education background and also musical w/ an incredibly gifted musician for a husband... I'd be willing to bet that if there was a way to really figure it out, that his humming is a happy, positive, excited stim because of his natural ability.. Like when he hums he can hear how he connects to someone or into the world like a puzzle peice and it makes sense to him. Even if he doesn't "understand" persay... Sounds that are pleasing make people happy. When she is upset she grinds her teeth in the absolute harshest, squeakiest way ever. Is that grating sound a reflection of the anxiety.
Sorry this became a response that is more just me thinking out loud than anything else.
Mainly, I am intrigued by what you pointed out but it triggered some thoughts on autism and stimming
You just took me back to theory my friend. I thought I had forgotten all of that. ❤ thank u!
When he hums it’s likened to the OM chant.
@@creamfiend84I feel he is stimulating his vagus nerve to calm his nervous system.
I intuitively started doing the mmmmm part of OM when I had a migraine(I get cluster migraines) I then came across information re stimulating the vagus nerve for pain relief. I do this all the time when I get a migraine now or experience pain (it works during fevers as well)
There is much information about heavy metals linked to autism, heavy metals cause inflammation and stimulating the vagus nerve reduces inflammation. I have found detoxing with zeolite to be very helpful and has reduced my systemic inflammation, chemical and light sensitivity. My cousins 3 yo who could only speak one word sentences, with his own rolling sounds language wrapped around single words. Within 2 weeks of using TRS (which is based on zeolite) he was speaking full sentences. She got onto TRS through a friend that had a similar experience with her child.
So many people have had massive improvements using TRS or zeolite to detox from heavy metals.
Bruh.... cmon.
man you can tell Darius’s father is such a wise man. he is obviously a genius. really glad to hear from him.
As the mother of a non-verbal, young adult autistic son, this warmed my heart. Also, rice is a daily meal in our house! 😂😂 I also stim with my son daily, and he gives me the BIGGEST hugs afterward. We call it our meditation time. ❤️❤️
This is so cute I love it 🥰
This is literally my sister 😂😂😂RICE RICE RICE😂😂😂
cute! god bless
My heart is melting reading this thats beautiful
That’s truly a connection that people with non autistic kids wish they had u can be a proud of urself as a parent
His mum is such a vibe.
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Men always ignored. It is sad people never talks about the father..how sad.
Ignore the other reply, they're spamming this everytime the mom is mentioned...
One of my twin daughters has autism, Emily is 25 years old and has severe autism like Darious and displays very similar behaviours. I totally agree with his parents,they are a blessing and they literally make you stop and smell the flowers,I also share the same concerns wishing I could live forever to look after Emily. God bless this family and I am very happy meeting them.
Weirdly a relief to know I'm not alone, my twin brother also has the same type of autism as Darius. :) You dont hear a lot about twins in this situation, sending you guys my love!
@@mouseboy420I’d question why I’m here everyday if I had a twin who was blessed with good health and a normal life and I wasn’t.
@@1stunna91 Thank you for the depressing thought
@@mouseboy420the person needs to be educated in the matter.
@@1stunna91 that’s the gift that children with Autism have, they don’t know any different. They try to make the best of everything, as much as they can. They do need a lot of help but it shows the world that we should have more compassion
What an angel on earth mom is.
Irisa is the best. She spends 100% of her time advocating for not only Darius, but other children and adults just like him. He is so blessed to have parents like his. ❤️
Baby too
Darius has such a giggly, contagious laugh. He radiates joy and you can tell how much his parents love him. Thanks Darius for making me smile this morning!
He brightens my day every day on tik tok. My daughter got me a cameo of him and his mom telling me happy bday. Best bday present ever!
I love his mom, she seems like the sweetest, most patient, bubbly woman! & she's absolutely right when she said It's important that he learns to communicate properly with others! She's so awesome for teaching him 😊
I love that Chris tries to match Darius's stimming tone to try and connect with him. Brilliantly kind and thoughtful. It seems like connecting with him through sound was really effective! ❤
I cant tell you how much I love this ❤💕
It’s not something I see often, but it’s really sweet and seems to help the connection
Darius has such a strong voice that I wonder if he would be a really good singer.
He seems to have quite good pitch! When he stims he continuously matches the same pitch over and over
Reminds me of Kodi Lee from the tv show AGT so he may do well singing or even playing an instrument ( like his harmonica if he took lessons). When they do something musically, they seem to be the happy.
I was wondering the same thing. I bet he has a great voice.
someone made a beat out of his stims and it went viral on tiktok… it slaps tbh ❤
I noticed that, and he plays the harmonica pretty well. He might even have perfect pitch.
Sometimes the whole family stimms right along with my son, he looks at us laughs and smiles because I guess he thinks we're speaking his language and it makes him happy that for that moment we're communicating and even more connected♡
I love this interview. I think this is a great example of how autism doesn’t necessarily upset the person on the spectrum, it’s the world around us not understanding or making a place for us. Darius seems healthy and happy. Other people may have a problem with it, but Darius is enjoying himself. I’m glad he has a family that loves him and doesn’t try to force him to be someone he isn’t.
YES YES YES ❤❤❤❤ You’re so right 😊
that could be applied to literally anyone but for sure.
@@not-the-bodyno, it can't. The world is set up for you, a neurotypical. You'll never understand us. That's ok but it's very true.
THISSS
Darius is amazing! Thanks for sharing ❤
In tears. I was the younger sister to a autistic man. He had his own "bebe" song. He passed of a seizure in 2013. My whole life changed forever. I was totally prepared to take care of him and everyone knew it. God bless Darius and his family.
I'm so sorry for your loss, may God bless him ❤ and God bless you too💕
Thank you beautiful. I know that he is in heaven with our parents talking up a storm. God bless
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I'm sorry for your loss. This comment hit me differently. At times, it can feel like a burden. But the truth is we couldn't be without the ones we love, and caring for someone with autism somehow becomes our calling and our blessing. We feel glued to the process, and we want the best for the ones we love.
My 3 year old is getting a further diagnosis in October. This really touches my heart. Their bond is so beautiful
My baby has just turned 4 and we are in the process of getting his diagnosis. I feel so blessed even though it’s really difficult at times xx
@@kelseyfraser9654 absolutely. You said it perfectly !
I love what his father said “I don’t view him as different, I just recognize his limitations.” I watch Darius and his mom on IG. I had a cousin that was autistic, that i was raised with. He was like my sibling. In our family house, my grandfathers motto was the same as Darius’ father. I miss my cousin every day💯. Darius reminds me so much of him. I’m so thankful that his parents decided to share him with rest of the world❤️
They also have a UA-cam channel their name is on the pinned comment. I know I just subscribed to them.
Darius seemed so appreciative of Chris trying to connect with him through stimming. That smile was priceless
It made me laugh so hard when his dad said the only thing that bothers him is that he eats too fast when they go out😂 my pops was the exact same way! Love seeing a strong black family like this ✊ wish yal many blessings
I love that Darius’s mom says “ I don’t know” when asked what she think he is thinking while humming. Lots of parents of non verbal kids ( and adults for that matter) tells what their children thinks or feels, which I think are very patronising because unless someone in any way has communicated what they feel or think about anything other people actually don’t know.
I'm sure they don't mean to be patronizing. It's normal, as a parent, to attempt to understand what your child is thinking. But it's also fine to admit you don't know.
This!!!
yea i have autism and that was always what my mom would do great to see a mother who can handle that better
Whenever I see parents do that, my teeth grit and grind in rage. I get so mad.
This mother seems like the incarnation of goodness and joy and the perfect perfect mother to an autistic person ! Wow I can’t say how awesome I find her
He looked so surprised and excited to have someone try and match his pitches 😭
My 3yr old gets ELATED when I’m able to match a stim he favors/is doing at a regulated time. ❤
Stimming, as defined by Wikipedia is: "Self-stimulatory behavior, also known as "stimming" and self-stimulation, is the repetition of physical movements, sounds, words, moving objects, or other repetitive behaviors. Such behaviors (also scientifically known as 'stereotypies') are found to some degree in all people, especially those with developmental disabilities, and are also frequent in people on the autism spectrum." I would love to hear some thoughts on stimming from people who do it often! Edit: I wanted to add that in my opinion stimming with Darius is a way for me to communicate, "I care about you enough to learn about something that is important to you." It's as if someone that I am friends with wanted to learn about volleyball or Bob Dylan, two things I enjoy. Although it may look a bit different, the emotions behind it are the same.
I don't have autism but I do have ADHD and have taken up stimming as a way to manage my day to day anxiety and stress. It's helped immensely. As a child I masked my symptoms too much to allow myself to stim, but making autistic friends and learning more about the autism spectrum has helped me in big ways to manage my own disability.
I hadnt heard about stimming before and looked it up at wiki. As a chronic nailbiter it was interesting to read about
I don’t stim much but when I do it feels like a build up of energy and I feel kinda breathless until I like make a noise or shake it out - it’s really strange lol
I never knew what it was before but have found it helpful in relieving asthma attacks.
Never quite considered it a stim but I am a habitual nail picker ... and sometimes a finger-twiddler where I'd think of a phrase and tap it out from thumb to pinky until it ended on the pinky ...' yeah that's pretty specific and odd, LOL, and something similar with my shoulders I quickly got out of the habbit because it was too noticeable. Not autistic, not ADHD (that I know of), but it's funny what little body movements and things people might do
It’s beautiful when a special needs is born into a family of special people. You will forever be blessed.
When you're stimming with him you're speaking his language.
So often we're trying to make them change to fit our world, and I can only imagine how incredibly difficult and exhausting that might be, so I think it's beautiful when we join them in their world and speak their language for a change...💕
As the mother of a 9-year-old autistic boy, the thought of what will happen when I leave this world haunts my days and nights.
Me too. I have two kids with non-verbal autism. It terrifies me. Too many bad people in this world.. gives me a panic attack. Just take care of yourself. Walk a lot out in nature, eat lots of plant based food, drink only water and tea, limit stress, no smoking/drinking. You want to make sure you live as long as possible for your little boy. God Bless the both of you and I pray he is capable of becoming independent one day. Look into prebiotics, probiotics, juiced cilantro, wheatgrass, mushroom powder, charcoal, etc. Find ways to detox. It's hard when they are picky (like mine). Good luck.
Lots of strength to you ladies. Everything will be fine
everything is working out how it should ❤️
If it makes you feel better my mom worried about how my life/future would be because I was non verbal when I was little. I’m 24 years old working full time and talk nonstop 😅
Me too, my son is 10 and non verbal and he owns my heart. I'm terrified what will happen to him when my husband and me pass away.
I genuinely love Darius so much, i'm so glad his mom never gave up on him year after year, understanding his stimming and even trying to encourage him to stim more so he can get his anxiety out of his system. This is a really good example of good parenthood: the parent lets the kid be himself, do stuff to calm down for example and encourage him to make a hobby out of it, like the time he was doing a studio record of his stimming. I love Darius and her mom so much for this!!
I pray his parents are around for a very long time ❤
Me toooo
I'm in this situation too with two children w special needs
2:02 “what are you thinking about”.
The way he got close to her and touched her … it sure looked to me like he was saying “I am thinking about how much I love you.”
Mom and dad are pure inspiration ✨️
His mom is so loving, supportive, and amazing at communicating with him. You can tell how absolutely loved he is by the way that he smiles and interacts with people.
Darius has such a beautiful rich voice! I loved listening to the humming.
Yes his voice is very full as well, easy to listen to
Yes, I agree!
I was non-verbal as a child. When I stimm, I listen to the rhythms of my body and 'tune' them to be like nature. If it is a tapping, I tap to my heartbeat or the waves of an ocean. If It is rocking, I rock like a tree branch. Supermarkets and pointy things hurt my head and ears and eyes, so I tap with two fingers on my wrist, to send a calmness from there, up my arm. I often think that autism must be a little similar to what neurotypicals feel on acid. Some people pretend to be autistic for attention, but I can always spot people who have the rhythm of our language. I can talk to non-verbal autistic people still, even though I was told I was too good at socialising to be autistic when I sought diagnosis (I came from a cult, so my non-verbal history was chalked up to abuse and stimming to trauma behaviour)
As an autistic person who does acid, its not similar at all lol. You feel a little tingly all over, thoughts are mostly coherent but forming sentences is hard (which I guess is the only parallel but it doesn't feel the same), and you see different colours overlayed on everything, as well as the outlines of objects and things like text and images moving. Sometimes people's imagination runs away with them which is when you get intense trips where they invent worlds and scenarios, but I've never had that, maybe bc of my autism as I don't have much imagination at all
In fact I've done quite a few drugs and all of them tend to make my traits easier to deal with. Sometimes the traits are actually slightly lessened, but like 95% of the time it's a lot more like it's easier for me to cope with stuff than the thing not being difficult to begin with
Anyway so yeah it doesn't exacerbate my traits and I've never heard of someone tripping and finding things too loud or being unable to be social (in fact, if I'm with a few specific friends, acid tends to make me ramble on about like anything and everything, makes me super chatty but all my speech is slurred haha. And it's not like I'm thinking about the words at that point they just kinda happen). It's when I'm with anyone else that I end up just talking to them in my head cos the thoughts are there but the words just can't come out properly, if I try in that scenario I just end up making incoherent sounds
I can't help but to shed tears, I have an autistic 4 year old, and he's non verbal. It is so hard, and people really don't understand. 💔😭
Hang in there sister things will get better. ❤From one ASD momma to another.
🙏🏾🙏🏾❤ my little one began aba therapy this week and I understand you want the best for them and to set them up for success. Hang in there
@@kimberlystephens3798 thank you 💜 I appreciate it.
@@kcourtney6826 thank you and yes I do very much 💜
i’m autistic and my mom would never talk about me like that. being a mother is hard, not having an autistic kid
Thank you for showing the adults on the spectrum that will need ongoing care. It doesn't fit the narrative that's out there ❤️
Too much korean lawyers on tv... makes People forget the level hard asd
Fr. Lotta people just associate autism with the kids and forget that autistic kids grow up to be autistic adults who might not be able to live like a normal adult and might need extra help. That’s not always the case though.
Autistic adults get erased way way too often unless we are fictional supergeniuses or billionaires.
Darius' parents are truly amazing. They don't seem bothered by his behavior. they just love him. The mom is adorable. I love her giggle!
Darius' parents are awesome. Both such calming and infectious personalities
You have an incredible way of connecting with these amazing people who some people may avoid or ostracise. You on the other hand show all the beautiful people in life, inside and out. You connect with them on a deep level and know them as people and not a disability. I seriously think you have a gift to see people for who are they are not what they look like or what impacts their life’s. It’s truly incredible. You and these people are amazing ❤️
My family has been following this beautiful journey for years. A few of these strong families have lost their angels, and we always send out love. I'm a caregiver to people with extra support requirements, and I love that Chris and his dedicated team are spreading understanding and helpful information.
Sounds like “om” from Buddhism the saved and spiritual sound. Like he’s meditating. I love love love it ❤❤
Darius' stimming is actually very unique.
.As a music graduate , I observe it is like Tuvan overtone humming , his harmonic is in the key of D and the second harmonic goes within the range of c,
whilst staying within one key or intervals with one key signature, that's impressive
Amazing. I was thinking what a symphony he must have in his head!
Yeah he’s a genius.
@@blicced7017 No, this person is simply describing the physics of the sounds that Darius makes. There's nothing to "reach" for, this is how the science of sound waves works.
@@tentativebababoey1796 It does not mean that you're neurodivergent that you are a genius .
@@Odd-Vegan-Singing-TFOL Darius is a genius. It is an objective truth
The respect that father had for his son was incredible, you can tell he was getting a bit annoyed at his head being grabbed but he showed restraint because he loves his son and understands him. Great parents. I wish them the absolute best on their life journey. Also Darius’ giggle is so contagious!
thats the mom
@@BabyDollNaiiyes!
When he does that he almost sounds like a Tibetan Buddhist humming..... He seems very happy and she did a wonderful job raising him❤
The way she looks at him, with so much love. Is heartwarming
Not enough people know about stimming it is grate to see how open the mom is about it.
Stimming is beautiful ❤❤
His parents have the BEST attitude. God knew who to give Darius to. He is very blessed to be in this family.
Sounds like he has music in his soul and trying to get it out ❤ A mom's love is so unconditional.
Parents of the year award! This such a precious sight to see.
What truly incredible dad, making sure he's at his best so he can be around as long as possible to look after his son.
Just got here, really excited for the video :) I’m also autistic and will likely be living with my parents well into adulthood- really cool to see such a good example of this! Kind of proves to me that it’s possible for me to have a happy fulfilling life, even if I won’t be able to be very independent :)
Same and I’m 20 going to be 21 next year
I’m not intellectually impaired however
Darius' vocal stimming reminds me of a meditation mantra :)
That's exactly what I was thinking
7:49 THIS WAS SHARP! I’d love to hear more of his harmonica stims, he’s got some nice range with it ❤
wow man, the way Darius looked so calm when you were stimming with him warmed my heart, he knows you’re his friend and he loves that ur understanding
what an amount of energy brightening up the whole room, the both of them! can she be my mom too? she seems so sweet
My beautiful grandson is non verbal autistic, he will be 4 in May and he is the absolute love of my life! I couldn't imagine my baby any other way! He is a true blessing to our family and we all are just so in love with him!!
His mom and dad are. So loving ! Many blessings to the DEDICATED PARENTS
Thank God for them
@@chaundawalker6741 right 😭
Great point; getting healthier to stick around for his son. This was quite an interview. These parents are great!
KING DARIUS!
Okay, but why is his voice tone so nice?? I could listens to his songs all day!! What a loving family, and he seems like a super fun dude
Yes! He’s very musically inclined and seemed to have an ability to match pitch. And him on the harmonica sounded so good!
Darius has the best laugh I have ever heard. His mom is wonderful.. and caring dad. Darius is loved.
I love what the dad said about now taking care of himself so he can stick around to take care of his son that needs it. That’s love
Love how happy Darius is, definitely shows his mom has done an amazing job.She seems like such a beautiful soul.
I know this will get lost in the sea of comments - These videos really make my day, and it's hard for me to focus on a video. I subscribed to SBSK a while ago because Chris is so friendly and I love all the friendly people he talks to. It makes me smile so much when he brings joy to the interviewees and talks to them.
I see you and I relate very much, thanks for your comment ❤
This mom ❤❤❤❤ you can tell that Darius had truly never known her to be angry or impatient. The joy that comes from both of them is so beautiful ❤
Mama you are a pure Queen 💐
I think "queen" is waaaay overused nowadays. But in this one case, I absolutely agree!
@@leslieh761 😊 I agree If anyone deserves the title, it would be this mom.
My son is 18 and he’s on the autism spectrum but I feel fortunate because he’s able to hold a job and someday he’ll be able to live on his own. He’ll have his challenges but we’re trying our best to prepare him.
Darius is a real cutie. 🥰 I hope the family has a good support system. Other parents who are going through the same things would be nice.
I’m on the spectrum my mother kicked me out at 19. She also called the cops on me and lied saying I hit her so I sat in jail for months including on my 20th birthday
@@kell-yh4ec oh damn dude I'm sorry wth is wrong with her.
@@lucid523 she hates me
@@kell-yh4ec Is everything alright now? I hope things are better. God loves you. Circumstances and people don’t always reflect that, unfortunately.
My 19 yr old daughter is what is considered high functioning autistic. She has a job, with limits, very social, etc. But because she's been in bad company (school "friends"), she reflected some real bad behaviors. Never want to go through that again!!! Now she's back home with us, safe. Was on her own for a bit. She didn't do well, was taken advantage of, etc. She does need a hand held as she grows more into adulthood. The hard part is when she won't take the advice...her level on the spectrum is hard for us. She's got both worlds going on. Nevertheless, she's loved.
My nephew, on the other hand, is autistic and almost exactly like Darious in the video. He's a lot of fun to interact with. We know his limits and what he does (even the nude stuff), it's easier to understand, IMO.