My Wife Constantly Thinks I Cheat When I Don’t

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  • Опубліковано 30 бер 2023
  • My Wife Constantly Thinks I Cheat When I Don’t
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КОМЕНТАРІ • 601

  • @JK20239
    @JK20239 Рік тому +432

    She's projecting. She's cheating so thats why she says you cheated to put all the spotlight on you. Narc logic 101

  • @Gingerrrrsnapps
    @Gingerrrrsnapps Рік тому +160

    She’s insecure and he doesn’t make her feel loved and wanted. It’s an insecure attachment from childhood trauma.

  • @ronaldnichols9945
    @ronaldnichols9945 Рік тому +112

    He married her knowing how she is. Then, she is pregnant. Wow. He willingly walked into this.

  • @Ryan-wx1bi
    @Ryan-wx1bi Рік тому +252

    I dated a girl who constantly brought up the idea that I am cheating or would eventually cheat. Turns out it was all of her friends telling her it would happen because of their past/present relationships. They would constantly chirp that all guys were like that.

  • @TheSnoozeFox
    @TheSnoozeFox Рік тому +80

    Yeah shes 100% cheating herself, how this guy didn't figure that out is crazy.

  • @bernadettehuff2984
    @bernadettehuff2984 Рік тому +87

    It would be interesting to hear her side of why she thinks he is cheating. But the bigger question is why would SHE marry him, if she thought he was a cheater.

  • @amberriley7633
    @amberriley7633 Рік тому +44

    Why bring a baby into this toxicity 😢

  • @FantazomiXroma
    @FantazomiXroma Рік тому +149

    She may be cheating, she may not be. Sometimes they'll push away and push away because they're afraid deep inside that the person they love will leave. So when the person they're accusing of cheating stays, it's like a relief mechanism to which they get addicted. Either way, he cant do anything about it except tolerate it or leave.

  • @Price8903
    @Price8903 Рік тому +62

    Who has the energy to just keep accusing someone. There has to be something bigger going on or maybe this is what she has normalized. It’s still weird.

  • @mv7374
    @mv7374 Рік тому +52

    Waited 13 years to try to address and doesn’t wanna go to counseling 😩

  • @thecramptons
    @thecramptons Рік тому +65

    Anyone who forgets their phone is not always on their phone

  • @greenAbbot
    @greenAbbot Рік тому +104

    Possibility 1: she’s cheating.

  • @lala_arneezy
    @lala_arneezy Рік тому +141

    If SHE is on social media.. she needs to get off.

  • @warrensloan3467
    @warrensloan3467 Рік тому +138

    It will never cease to amaze me what people will ignore on their way to a pregnancy that handcuffs you together for life.

  • @squidward6187

    I am female. This one sounds like a nightmare! Why would you want this vampire in your life?

  • @gessrinky9129
    @gessrinky9129 Рік тому +152

    First and foremost, this is a form of control and abuse. Second, I grew up in a house where both of my parents cheated on each other. I grew up thinking “this is just what husbands do” in my teens and 20’s I ALWAYS thought this of boyfriends. It took a lot of soul searching and self reflection to change this mind set.

  • @lesliemontagne6797
    @lesliemontagne6797 Рік тому +87

    Dr. John was right to question her family background. We cannot discount the fact that she may have a huge fear of abandonment. Even to a point of near paranoia. Anxiety, insecurity, fear???

  • @jeremyshuey3715

    Something similar happened to me. We did go to a marriage counselor. Counselor spoke 1:1 with her first and then me. When I walked back into the room to talk to the counselor, they told me that its all her, and I am not the problem. Probably not the best thing for the counselor to tell me but it is what it is. I was always accused of cheating when in fact, I found out later that she was the one who did the cheating. Its also a big reason I am single to this day since then. I can't trust anyone anymore.

  • @CarolynnMarkey
    @CarolynnMarkey Рік тому +73

    I was in a previous relationship that involved cheating so when I got married I stressed about it... turns out my husband is very different than the previous person I dated. It takes a lot of healing to deal with insecurities. hugs

  • @om617yota8
    @om617yota8 Рік тому +143

    Oh, and she's pregnant. Dude you better get a paternity test.