Uncovering the Reasons Why Expats are Leaving the Philippines
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8 years in the Philippines for me and this is home until the end. This is not a perfect place but you can build a nice life here, have a home in the mountains, a good partner and all the material things you want. The big positive here is freedom for me. I can get on my motor with my girl, go anywhere and no one bothers me. I'm an old man now and found peace in the Philippines. Salamat.
Thank you, brother! You will always be welcome in our home country. May you continue to be blessed with happiness, freedom, and a good life. I truly respect and admire your humility and gratitude
@@entry2959 Thank you. May God bless you and your family as well. I'm grateful and blessed to call your country home.
How old were you when you moved ?
@@thylacine1004 I was 56.
Thank you
The visitors who speak positively about the Philippines aren't selling a dream - it's simply how they experience it here. They’ve found something that resonates with them.
I'm just about to celebrate my first year of retirement in the Philippines. I think perspective is everything. I knew what I was getting into before I ever got here. Are there any things that annoy me about living in the Philippines? Yes. When I get frustrated, I remind myself of the reasons why I left the United States to begin with. I also reflect on the great things I do enjoy about living here which certainly outweigh the negatives. The cost of living, really friendly people, and the proximity to great travel opportunities. As far as dating goes, I think most men wouldn't have the opportunity to date someone much younger than themselves in the United States because it's not widely accepted. My own girlfriend is 30 years old without children. At my ripe age of early my early '60s, I wouldn't have this opportunity back in the United States. My stress level has been completely dialed back so much compared to living in the United States. There are so many cuisine options in the Philippines besides the local meals. The simple solution is to cook your own food if you don't like Filipino food. I shop at the wet market about once a week and it saves me money. I don't miss my expensive grocery bills in the United States for just a few bags of groceries.
I would say, almost none of my friends in USA would be content here. It takes a special kind of person to be content here. There are many challenges. I grew up in a snow region. Every winter was a challenge you had to prepare for. So I can easily accept the challenges of the Philippines. But no matter how bad my day is, I never have to shovel snow ! .
spot on comment 👍👍👍👍
You may have forgotten about autumn leaves. I have 2 Birch, a couple of spruce trees, and a pine tree in my yard.
Oh man, the amount of leaves I have to clean up not to mention pesky pinecones. Snow is another headache.
@@4rct1c9Ic3m4n I had forgotten about leaves !
We live in the Philippines and this is true. It really is an adjustment. Though there are many positives such as ebingo and cock fighting. Plus driving is really not needed with Grab, P2P buses or Bokyo's. We drive however it's just for relaxation. It's fun to drive in the Philippines on the expressways & barrio roads. When my friends come out they're nervous to drive. You need to be a bit adventurous but it's worth it
I guess I am the weird one. I enjoy shoveling snow from our driveway no matter how high it is. I like the workout. On the other hand, I still prefer hot, humid weather over very cold winters.
Almost 2 years now in the Philippines. This is home now and I will die here. I have no desire to live in the states again. I'll visit, but that's it.
Just stumbled on your channel. Been married to a Filipina for almost 13 years. Brought her to the states when she was 21 and I was 40. Best thing I ever did. She is from the Leyte province (near Tacloban) and I have been there many times. Patience is my biggest issue. I try to prep myself as i'm on the way, you gotta have tremendous patience there and not just there. If you marry one as I did and bring her here, it requires tremendous amounts of patience, as you have to teach them our customs, for example.... you don't just run up to the front of a line and you don't crowd people as they're paying at the cash register, you don't simply wave your hand to stop traffic to cross the street. Just simple things you have to teach them.
I subscribed and like what I see so far, keep the vids coming
I love the Philippines. Never leaving.
This kind of reminds me of strangers visiting my home and comparing it to their bigger, fancier house or maybe a friend’s more organized place! Then they start looking for things they have in their home and getting frustrated when they don’t find them in mine. And then, despite all that, they decide to stay longer. But instead of appreciating my family's hospitality, they just continue to criticize and insult us even more. Just amazing!
I hope your patience stays strong.
Foreigners they become materialistic that is how they brought up they forgot that one day everything change and life become difficult what will they do is better to learn a simple life you will not regret in the future.
The only reason the stranger is there is because of women. If they could get younger women where they live, they would not bother to visit your home.
There are countless reasons why people visit and even stay in the Philippines-it’s a beautiful country with so much to offer. If you’re only thinking about younger women, that says more about you. Speak for yourself, not everyone is as desperate
Thank you for telling the truth! Philippines is for Filipinos. We welcome foreigners, but remember that you have an open door policy. You can leave anytime you want! If you were a westerner and cannot adjust, then you leave or go back to where you came from. Plain and simple.
True dont compare as to thailand or vietnam we dont care go live there philippines is not for foreigners y dont u live to japan instead or korea 😩😁
@@Missy_potato Foreigners need to adjust to the Filipino way of life in the Philippines. If they demand too much, because we know they have the buying power due to their currency and they’re not happy, they can leave at any given time. Filipinos have always welcome foreigners with open arms since Magellan’s arrival. We don’t need to adjust to them. They are fortunate enough that English is a 2nd official language and they would be helped if they ask politely. They can go to Thailand and have lady boys or Vietnam and learn the language. Philippines is for Filipinos.
As a US citizen tired of arrogant, entitled expats, I agree 100%
TRUE. In thailand, these foreigners are being spoiled. We wont do that here. Adjust, adapt... or go home
In the West, we were taught to adapt to others around us. I think that is where the attitude comes from. I know in America, if we don't accept people's complaints, we are told we are racist.
Some people build it up in their mind and then can't take the reality. It's definitely not for everyone.
I'm an expat in Ecuador and the Philipina reasons to exit resonate here. Sadly, some content creators set unrealistic expectations. Expats who return often do so out of culture shock, little things like they didn't like the mattress provided in their furnished apartment was low quality (it's Ecuador folks), experience a crime, struggle with the language, get sick from the food, or struggle with the language. Those who stay tend to stay long enough to work through their rose-colored glasses issues, learn enough of the language to make Ecuadorian friends, and before they know it, they get in sync with the culture and make a new life.
Expatriates have different perspective , whether you like it or not the Philippines is very welcoming .... up to the point that the people or inhabitant are very hospitable with ready smile while they cross in the street and ready to help . Infrastructure is there and gradually making a new projects for the future like the subway system etc. The cost of living like food is very affordable compared to the US of A, London, UK, foreigners are coming in massive amount trying to escape the expensive life ,abandoning the american dreams and high taxes in other nation.
Let me make this easy: Many come for the women; many end up leaving because of the women. $$$$$$
*There's too much foreigner abuse going on in the Philippines at every level and it's getting worse.
*So, once people spend enough time there, they get a chance to interact with other foreigners, experience the real deal and realize they shouldn't have listened to sugar coated information about the place.
I noticed that when I went into the areas that were more concentrated with expats that the locals just seemed to tolerate us because of the money and didn't really care about what we thought. This is not the case out in the provinces where we are few and far between. The people out on the bonduk haven't been jaded yet and do enjoy getting to know us and about where we come from.
People don't seem willing to call Filipinos out for their true behaviour. I find them rude, racist, ignorant, poorly educated, selfish, and inconsiderate. The idea that they are such friendly and awesome people is a myth they tell same as their great beaches!
Why expect rockstar treatment? Try getting that in your country.
@@archieureta2964
*What rockstar treatment???
*What are you talking about???
*Does the average Filipino get rockstar treatment???
NO!!!
*What's wrong with being treated like a Filipino???
*Aren't ALL men created equal???
-I want to pay the same price as a local.
-I want my security deposit back.
-Taxi drivers should charge me the same.
-we pay $600 for what a Filipino pays $250.
-Which average Filipino pays a salary or an allowance to his girlfriend???
-If and when they buy land and build a house, a Filipina CAN NOT steal it!!!
-Etc.. Etc... Etc..
*WHAT rockstar treatment??????????
*We're talking about foreigner abuse NOT rockstar treatment!!!!!!!
The "service" expected by those of you from the USA is due to the waiter staff in the USA (not the UK or Europe) trying to get you in, fed and out as quickly as possible so they get more tips to supplement their low wages.
I Europe a meal can last 2 hours or more as you are able to relax and enjoy the meals properly.. they are not rushing you as they are not relying on a fast turnaround for more tips, they know that they will only get a tip if the service if above par, the food good and they don't rush you.
Yes, your right. It's culturally different. However, I think at some of these places where there are lots of foreigners that people know are from western countries that want a different type of service it would be smart of these restaurants to train staff about differences. I've had smaller restaurants in the Philippines and they knew there were different service expectations. In the same way, as a foreigner with businesses in the Philippines I've needed to learn the work culture to know how to bring the best out in my employees.
@WatchCaliforniaExpat Americans should walk around there with the USA flag.. that way Filipinos will be able to tell they need to rush service and let the rest of us from Europe and UK
relax over our meals there.
If you Americans are wanting to visit or live in other countries, the first thing that you should learn is to respect the locals and to relax.. go at the pace of the local culture or stay at home.
You should change to adapt to the country you go to not expect that country to change to suit yourself.
@@KeithFLOOK-wd3uwI have European friends here and everyone complains about the same things here. But good for you that you don't let these things bother you. I'm working on myself to not stress about stupid things like this. By the way, thanks for your dose of sarcasm. I can never quite get enough of it in my day.
@@WatchCaliforniaExpat dffrent story at russian village samal island .no malls no high rise buildings russian live simple
@@richardunica3542 Yes, I've heard that. Seems like a nice place to live.
If you like hot and humid, Philippines is for you.
yup an that applies to every other country in SEA .. South America .. Africa .. Florida lol
But Philippines is so beautiful country and people are kind
@NoToYellowpigs
yes the people are the Philippines #1 asset .. very nice
Do you live in The Philippines? If not, have you visited The Philippines?
Cheap is available, but you get what you pay for... everywhere.
If you’re not comfortable the way things are here in the Philippines just LEAVE. The doors are wide open and no one is forcing you to STAY.
True
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John the way you explained problems is not in extreme ways it becomes "challenges" not the typical americans that put in explicit complaining with harsh words. It is with deep understanding on the context i like it man.
very well said
The Philippines will make anyone very very happy only if you are well off (not super-rich) because, for much LESS, and much EASIER, you get any service, any food, any help, and any kind of accommodation. Imagine: never needing to clean anything, drive or cook - you can afford someone to do that for you. In the USA, even the super-rich can't afford a live-in care-taker.
Also, in the Philippines, you will feel more free: very few restriction on what you can't do, as long as it's respectful and not criminal.
Lastly, remember: one day you will be old and need A LOT OF HELP. It would be better in the Philippines.
In any case, my recommendation is to keep a small place in your country of origin as plan-B, also for health benefits.
wise words, very thoughtful and i also agree on everything this guy said
When I left the US, I was living in a car that didn't run , that i was still making payments on.
It won't happen to me again. In the Philippines, I don't have a car, and I can't get credit.
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Budget here here are highly subjective , and the other reasons you mentioned (and many more) are definitely all true.
For me , it's death by a thousand cuts. Negatives can happen here on almost a daily basis. But , With cost of living that has dramatically risen in the west.....ask yourself.....Can I now afford to move back ?
USA cant afford me. Left in 2008. Worked around globe. Settled in Vietnam. Built a 3 story beachfront house 200 meters from ocean in 2023.
Now buying a house in sapa, mountain region. Great life.
My take is that the Ph. nowadays is for folks who are not very direct and can hide their real feelings w/o too much effort. That's my impression of what makes you blend in, since being direct isn't a great thing here.
This together with the higher competition for young filipinas, which is driven by fb/social media/online dating sites makes "the big prize" for many westerners way harder to find.
And if you combine those two and still find dates or gfs, my impression is that it was way more attractive being an older western guy before. Now, it's single moms that still may want you, women not seldom with toxic behaviour, if you are indirect and passive aggresive you may be able to take the "hot and cold", the lies, the ungratefulness, etc, etc, if you're direct though chances are it's gonna turn bad and eventually end.
About infrastructure, food, etc, me personally, I have gotten somewhat used to it Sure, you want some western comfort, you can have that though in the cities, by renting a condo or upscale house. As for jobs here, I don't care about that, since I work remotely in my home country.
No, aside from my first two points, I'd say a third one, which is scams and it's a bit related. Since ppl seem to rely on others being indirect and conflict shy, it's not seldom used to scam you. If you rent some aptmt or house, it's never the landlords fault, and if he or she should take some responsibility, say after months of complaining, it's like they saved the world. And as for other scams, it's clearly in the "relationship-market" nowadays, I guess it's some of us guys' fault. If you connect with women online, often they'll discard you if you say you're in the Ph., cos they're not looking for a real relationship even if they say they do, they try to attract what's now known as "simps" for "LDRs", which basically means they can have a bunch of westerners they claim to have relationships with, and then regularly scam them into sending money. Another theme which can be combined with the first is they'll strip, etc, online for money.
Next you have local girls that may connect with you, it may still be scams though, they don't really want a relationship with you, chances are they already have others, but they can "impersonate" being your gf if they can get money from you.
You can counter that of course by going for older/less attractive women, who likely are more serious and looking for a real relationship. But again, the main point going here for lots of guys I think is to be able to have a relationship with a younger, somewhat attractive girl, not doing worse than at home, so I think the Ph. simply has become oversaturated with guys, not least online so the "romance"-thing is kinda ruined, unless you're willing to settle or be scammed. That's why many are leaving if you ask me.
What I've gathered, many filipinas aren't all that interested in having live-in bfs, or husbands, anymore. They have some kids with someone and the relationship falls apart and then they live close to their own family, raising the kids by themselves. Some women like that, they don't have to "share" their kids and their upbringing with an "outside guy", instead it's "all in the family", which makes it easier and you don't have to adapt to some other family and their values/rules. To come in in such a setting as a foreigner, living with some local woman who has several kids and live close to her family, I'd think is bound to fail unless you're somekinda social genius.
I appreciate you taking the time to share your thoughts, and its obvious you've spent a lot of time here and been very observant with how things are. Do you live in the Ph still? For me, I'm still optimistic with the possibility of finding a great partner here. But I agree its harder than ever. On another note, if living overseas and not the Philippines, where better? For me, places like Thailand has girls that are either more conservative in the rural areas or who are far more direct about expecting a financial transactional relationship. Or Vietnam seems communication and meeting someone would be more challenging.
@@WatchCaliforniaExpat Yeah, I've already been to Thailand and the grass ain't greener there in my opinion. I haven't been to other countries in SE Asia though, so I'll probably take a break from the Ph. and travel to some of the neighbors for a while.
On the positive side for the Ph. i'd say is the ease to exist in society. If you don't bother ppl, they'll mostly appreciate your presence.
Now as for romance, maybe you could tell I was recently burned. The problem if you're direct like me is it may turn toxic. Eventually, if I find someone, I figure she has to be quite emotionally stable if it's gonna work with me. Not that easy to find though, it seems, if you still want young and somewhat attractive.
Well, I guess it's nothing new under the sun 😅 Thanks for the vid. btw, it was good.
@@nows1567 Appreciate you sharing more. It's tough out there! I can really relate to everything you've said. Thanks for taking the time to comment.
Thanks for sharing that. Was really looking for a province girl that hopefully hasn't been "poisoned" with predator ideas and would like a solid secure relationship. Hmm
It is best to snowbird here if you can afford to. I am not giving up my condo in Gainesville FL, or my 20 acre hunting camp with 3 bedroom log cabin an hour to the west of my condo. I like the hu ting and fishing in FL too much to give all the up. I am 39, single and retired and find a new gf every time I come here. When all the negative things about the Philippines ( noise, pollution, out of stock, spotty internet, monthly power blackouts) gets too much, I go back home where I hunt, fish, and smoke legal pot. When I need a new gf, I come back to my condo in Mandani Bay, Cebu City. Wash, rinse, repeat.. best of both worlds.
Nice video. First time that I came across your channel. I agree with you on your observations. I lived in the Philippines for 2 yrs in the late 80s. It took about a year to get adjusted. 2nd yr went well and I felt that I kind of belonged there. When I had to return to the US...I missed it. Felt lonely here. Nice video.
Noisy neighbours with barking dogs,dont care about anyone else Me,me,me.
True, but not really in the city.
Where is that, in the states? Hearing dogs bark bother you? Me, Me, Me? Dogs bark everywhere I’ve ever been. I get it, I can’t stand when people in the States eat with their mouth open and smack on their food. Does a Cats Meow bother you? Fingernails on a blackboard. Oh, yea, poring beverages over the radio gets on my nerves. Dogs barking? Never bothers me. The Psychology of me, me, me……,, You know more about that.
maturity indeed hits u when u realized u cant be everyone's cup of tea, we appreciate tho ur honesty may u finally be contented to your next journey never again come back here goodbye all expat.
Excellent video!
Am on my 16th year here...I agree on everything you mention completely, Refreshing to see a truly honest and real video. Keep up the good work.
Thank you for sharing. You've been here a long time! Where have you lived over here and where is your favorite place if you don't mind me asking?
@WatchCaliforniaExpat I live in North Luzon in a major city for a good education for my teenage daughter. I travel a lot by motorcycle, recently down to Leyte and back via Cebu, Bacolod, IloIlo, Boracay, Batangas to home.
Very tough for a favourite place..I do enjoy up north around Pagudpud, I like Palawan east coast for the secluded beaches. Really for me there is too many places I enjoy, Baguio, Bolinao, Bicol region, Leyte, Negro's, Mindanao. I guess it's why I ride a bike here.
Some people aren't happy anywhere. For me as long as i have decent food, the internet, and a place to work out, im good 😂
Yes, I'm with you.
This is one of the most truthful and transparent videos on YT. Thanks for your content. You are keeping it real.
I appreciate that!
I don’t look around to see what the next guy is doing, I do my own thing. When I was in The Philippines, I loved it.
Great video. I'm filipino and am surprised at how people just don't know - social media really makes you see what you want to see. The way around this is to also search for the opposite of what you're looking for. That said, most Americans emigrate to either Mexico, Canada or India at a million a pop. The PI is a distant 5th at around 300k Americans living there. There's a reason why it's 5th.
There’s 1 million Americans living in the PH…
@@WShan1966 Those are pre-pandemic numbers. Wikipedia has it between 300k & 600k. tbh, where I'm at, I'm feeling like it's 300k, and most folks have headed to Bali or Thailand, ymmv.
Sorry, my man, but I don’t agree with you on the restaurant experience. It’s not that they are trying to be overly courteous by ignoring you. It is because the fact that they are lazy and they’re not getting paid enough salary to care. But your spot on on many things I totally agree with you on other points.
How does one go about vetting the healthcare system options especially choosing the right hospital?
If I see something I want to eat, I send the link to my wife that sends it to our cook. Shrimp tacos, chicken joy nuggets, quesadillas, omelets, mashed potatoes, hamburgers, etc. but I like some Philippines dishes too.
Great video John. This is the non rose colored glasses view! 😊😊 The honest opinion!
Thank you Jamie! Appreciate it
My buget for living in Australia is less than 1800us, i dont get the philippines being more expensive than that?
Filipinos on average live around their income line which averages $10/day.
A Western expat cannot make such a dramatic change and still be happy. He has grown accustomed to air con and a variety of food and comfortable shoes etc etc. In other words, he has grown soft. Technically, he too can survive on $300/month but that is not usually realistic in terms of psychology.
I try to avoid Westerners who spend a lot of money or who measure their self-worth in terms of their financial worth or ability to spend money. I want my male friends to think and act like men, not women. Gossiping, boasting about wasting money, living in fantasy...these are female endeavors.
Sadly, many Western men in the Philippines have terrible values: they are proud of what is shameful, and ashamed of things they should be proud of.
I tried to help these people but now see my efforts were mostly a waste of time. What Trump said about Mexico not sending its best probably also applies to those America is sending to the Philippines.
@@whitesamurai OOUCchhhh
If you don’t mind saying farewell to all your favorite Aussie foods and comforts it’s not more expensive. And it’s highly dependent on location just like anywhere else.
@@whitesamurai I was looking at retiring in the Philippines last year. My wife is a filipina. What i saw last year made me aware. I like my comfort. I do not want to live in field conditions. I was planning living there 3 months at a time then back to the states. I decided I will stay in the states.
I only see more and more people come to Ph so many vloges over last 2 years ! So yeah if 100 come and 10 leave Expats are not leaving they comming ! Look how many Russians Samal Isaland have 3 years ago they were not at all there
My wife deals with the bank and shopping etc. She doesn't want me to get deported for blowing my top! 🤣
The ignorance and lack of understanding of appropriate business practices in the Philippines why I would never live their after my last visit.
Saying there is health insurance in PH is misleading. The cost increases with age. By age 70 it can be $1000/mo USD and that's only if you're healthy. And that cost keeps increasing. Qualifying can be impossible for people with existing health issues. That qualifying requirement is a yearly thing.
To me there isn't any health insurance because it's very unlikely to be useful long term.
Thorough video. Vietnam, Malaysia, Indonesia are better fits for me. Filipinos are awesome also
When its as expensive to live in a third world country as a western one, why would you?
I lived in California for 62 years before retiring 2 years past. Lived in Mexico 1-year and the past year in Bohol, Phillipines. I live here with a substantially improved "quality of life" at 1/3 the price of the US. The US is definitely lacking in comparison considering its classification as a "1st World Country".
Are you a Democrat??
Everything in life is not about money. Is everything perfect or easy here? NO. I live here by choice. My life here is so much better in so many ways. That's why.
@@davehenson3588wtf? Mark off Dave as the ahole to stay away from. Check! 🤦🏼♂️
@@Carnivoretraveler we don't force our country to be liked by others, so don't compare. each country has its own beauty and culture.
I love that way of waiters, the last thing I want is a waiter in my face all the time when eating out, I think that is mostly American with their tipping culture. In this, I think the Philippines is closer to Europe.
Great video John!!!! 2 thumbs up my friend!!!!
Thank you my friend!!
I totally agree that there are some bloggers who blow sunshine up your skirt and really don't show the true reality of the philippines. We are guests in the country and can be asked to leave at any time. Many people don't do their recon missions and utilize the one month visa free option to visit several places during their stay, and they don't come at different times of the year . Stay away from the tourist areas and visit cultural areas and various other affordable options. Go to baguio City and go to the beach areas. It depends on your budget and what your needs are. Make a list of wants and needs and focus on your needs first. For. Many it's good health care and shopping opportunities like malls and for others its more budget minded. Do your research, and you will find a place suitable for you.
Well said and I agree all of this is true.
Thank you very much
If some people who want to retire to the Philippines have less savings to come here
How can they live in their own country be it the USA or Europe
#1 the $1US goes far here not like in the USA
2. Depends WHERE you live.
3. Fuck traffic. Im done with EDSA. It has gone from bad to worse. BUT so is the 60fwy and 605fwy in CA. People are more disciplined in the US at intersections....filipinos are not. Its a free for all.
Wherever you can find which is the best for you why shpuld you not leave. If you are not satisfied of what pHilippines can offer, you can go somewhere.
I love the Philippines….
because you guys finally realize how stupid bgc really is.
You so mean 😅
Look who’s talking! Who cares of what you said, you are nobody just like me.
I hope to move to Vietnam with my Filipina GF. Best of both worlds.
Yes, I really get your thinking on that
Now that is an interesting idea. Filipina for the trad wife, thailand for the food and exploration! Thumbs up. I need to do indepth on vietnam, cambodia, indonesia etc.
Filipinas and White Foreigners produce Beautiful MIXED RACE KIDS!!
The most unbearable poor customer services are in the banks waiting for 3 hours for simple transaction 😪🤨 (I'm with BPI)
Dude, what are you doing in a bank?! there's mobile and online banking. I never had to leave the house to line up duh..
@kristinhannah001 lol that only works if you only have few hundreds in your account 😁
@@rheneberg nope. you can easily enroll all your accounts regardless of the amount. see ? your complaining about things you hardly knew about. inuuna kasi reklamo! puro kayo reklamo. ignorante naman..
Even filipinos leave philippines😂
Most Filipinos leave the Philippines for greener pastures, but the moment they get financially established, especially when they are about to retire, they consider or even start preparing to go back home. There are various reasons for wanting to go back to the Philippines, but there are also various reasons for wanting to stay wherever they have immigrated; what is good for someone may not be good for others because no two persons or couples have exact life situations.
The people in the US have noticed this...lol
CLEARLY you know nothing. People leave because there are NO job opportunities here. The Filipinos are close to their families FYI. Majority will not leave if they have the choice.
GET EDUCATED, BRUH do you wouldnt sound st/upid. 😊
My poor attitude lets me not worry about health care. I've wished I was dead since 1975 when I started taking disability from the VA.
Majority of these farangs and expats are going and flying back and forth to Thailand and Philippines vice versa as they can't make up their mind. Both countries have the same concepts as quality of life, nightlife and everything, that's the reason.
They're not the good definition of what "expats" used to mean. They're just old rejects nowadays not those executives assigned to foreign destinations.
I don't think they are the same at all. For me Thailand is far better nightlife and overall better in quality of life. But for me the Philippines feels more at home with the people and communication.
@@WatchCaliforniaExpat they're not "expats" nowadays. They're old dirty old men looking for cheap thrills that's all. But when they find they can't afford the good stuffs, they whine and complain like little babies period.
The successful Americans don't leave for these shores. You and I know it. Everyone knows it.
The term , expats, has lost it's luster Bec of these guys. Expats used to refer to foreign execs with good positions given Large compensations for getting these assignments, they're given housing allowances in the 10k usd range a month + other "hardship" benefits on top of their salaries and bonuses.
Guys here nowadays are nothing like expats
Thailand greatly far exceeds the Philippines in every area you mentioned .. it's not even close
@@paulthurson for dirty old men that is
southern Brazil states like SC. safe and secure, and you're allowed to own land..!
This is spot on.
they don't rush you in a restaurant but they sure trying to rush you into the restaurant...
Drivers and loud exhausts.
Loud exhaust really very disturbing & nobody seems working about it.
I found just one what I call decent restaurant in Mactan, where the foreigner owner and his wife would make sure that the food is served piping hot.
I ate there on average twice a week and could have ate there far more frequently except for the fact that nearly every item is fried, fried or..... fried.
They make the burgers on a hot plate/griddle and the beef is very lean and tasty. But then one of the staff pours a load of that cheap crappy cooking oil on top of the burger near the end of the cooking time WTF!
My cholesterol reading was good before going to live there, but its now on the high side within 2 years.
I left mainly because of the medical side but food quality (or lack of) was a close second.
Its a shame that Philippines didn't bother to build their infrastructure from the 1970's onwards, it could well be a star amongst SE Asian countries by now.
I admit it has a lot of good things but the bad things are starting to outweigh the good in my opinion
Because the government are so corrupt
To own land , marry a pinay, get 13a visa after 12 months apply for permanent residency, once that is approved, you can own land.
i’ve never come across anything that says that anyone other than a Filipino citizen can own land. I’m curious where you got information contrary to this.
Joint ownership of the house, yes, but the land only by inheritance from the filipina spouse, which is rare because of the big age gaps.
Foreigner will never own the land it will always go to the Filipino family
@@timtarr9364ex-pats need to get the “own property- land “ thing outta their craw😆😆ain’t gonna happen,plus when you’re on the last leg of your life, what difference would it make if you “owned” a house in a third world country? I married my Filipina when she was 23 and I was 63 ,8 years ago, she treats me like a king, I bought a small house for around 50,000 USD , she will always have a roof over her head, after I croak 😆😆 what’s the big deal about owning a piece of paper (deed) that says the house is in your name? if you’re obsessed with owning property, stay in your country, ain’t gonna happen in the PI 😆😆
Technology has made it much easier to tolerate… banking apps, grab, foodpanda, lazada, etc. Anyone complaining now has no idea how difficult it was even a decade ago. Truly the dark ages.
They are complaining because rh Philippines is always far behind from other places.
@@lightner6924Not really. Many small towns in the Philippines are much safer, more comfortable and more convenient for everything one could want than many supposedly more advanced countries.
@@MichaelSmith-hr3be Small towns don't count. I couk find a small place in Brazil an Mexico that is safe lol.
@@lightner6924is Mexico safe? Not being sarcasticc, just curious.
Expats can come ang go as they please. Thank you anyway for visiting our beautiful county. Bye, bye.
Man it just normal to be in culture shock when you come first in a foreigner. I, myself, will be culture shock if i go at your place for the first time. No place in this planet is the same and no place in this planet cater to all your qualms. KEYWORD IS: ADJUST
If you can't adjust when you go to foreign places, THEN BETTER NOT TRAVEL BUT STAY IN YOUR OWN PLACE UNTIL YOU DIE.😂😂😂😂 SIMPLE. DON'T STRESS YOURSELF.
I can live in a poor Philippines area if I have to. I can't live in a poor Mexican or African area in the US. WHY ? Why do I say that ?
this was a great video.
thank you very much
The Philippines shouldn’t be your first rodeo, it’s not for rookies in my opinion.
Fair thoughts. What do you think is a better first country to be in at first, especially in Asia? Maybe Thailand or Vietnam?
Maybe starting first in BGC, a western bubble, then gradually moving to more typically Filipino areas of Manila, would be the best way to do it as a solo traveler with no experience in the region. It's hard to beat the English advantage of the Philippines.
@@MichaelSmith-hr3be The English piece does make a huge difference
@@MichaelSmith-hr3be Isn't BGC one of the most expensive areas? I have social security at 2200/month-will that cut it?
Man..the ENGLISH LANGUAGE ADVANTAGE MAKES THE PHILIPPINES AS---- THE BEST OPTION THERE IS IN ASIA!!🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉
All you mentioned are true
Thank you!
Thailand is a better bet. Infrastructure, food, weed & affordable rent. Holla....
YOU ARE NOT A TREE..... you can always move. If it does not work out, there are many other places that could work.. We lived in Latin America for 5 years and had had enough, so we left and picked another country. Be flexible.
What we noticed most in the countries we lived in, is people come with false financial expectations. If you are poor in the USA and EU....guess what? You are also poor in the country you moved to. Plan on spending $2,000 to $3,000 or more a month for a comfortable life. You can do it for less if you like slumming it.
Thoughts: Expect things to be different. Do not buy..... rent or lease only. Applies to real estate and the girls. Buying ties you down and you cannot easily get out when natural disaster strikes or civil unrest. If you are a 300lb love God in your mind.... you will in reality have no more success in the country you move to than at home unless you have plenty of cash.
Lastly, be nice to the locals and they will be nice to you.
High electricity cost, water supply & cost, limited yet high manpower cost. How else would they invest?
Infrastructure
Expensive
Mobility(traffic)
Fair observation
Its is expensive here following your way of your life from where you cane from.
Yes its true
Some good points, and i would add, dogs, insect and the heat in general (and maybe rooster). But Philippines is not new york, if you need 2000 usd in philippines, then you are just bad at money management. I can live a good life on less than 1000 usd in most places in the west, and then im including traveling etc. Not sure what people waste their money on, because rent, food, traveling is not that expensive.
Settled in Vienna. It rocks
Great to hear your feedback. Hope to visit there one day
To much boom boom
$500 A month? That's more than enough for a single person for a family of 3-4 it would be a challenge.
Let's be honest is difficult in a foreign land if you just ordinary it's only if you have enough money to build a buissness then you are secured .There are no countries you can live a good life without enough money. Decent Filipino girls are looking also a decent man . They are conservative and family are also decent. They don't take advantage of the foreign people and undecent girls are not good and the family will take advantage of you. When looking a wife in the Philippine only look for a decent one.
It's good advice, thank you
What r u talking about. So much land had been naughty by the Chinese already.😢 How can they get around the law
Yeah, I can imagine but for everyday foreigners like me definitely can't own land.
Man you are in Cebu or davao try go to Manila explore but it's not affordable either 😅😅😅😅
ARE YOU LIVING IN THE PHILIPPINES OR JUST TALKING ABOUT THE PHILIPPINES???
Generally speaking, majortiy of what you are sharing is more of you not understanding the local culture and adjusting here. None of the things you mentioned is not bad per se. Example, on bad customer service. That’s not bad customer service. That’s just how it is done.
you know this is his 7th year here now right!!!?
I’m in this video at 0:06 seconds 😂
At least, someone from another country is admitting it's expensive here.
what do you mean?!
Its a known fact its expensive here. Youre just not updated.
@@kristinhannah001 someone from another country**
@@lastleafofmylife in this day and age, really?? You dont have to be on THE COUNTRY to know things about the country.
@@kristinhannah001 Majority of these foreign people assume that things are cheap in my country as we are considered a third world country.
@@lastleafofmylife You missed the point. Assuming you know everything makes one ignorant. with today's technology, it is a sin to remain uninformed .
Lack of infrastructure makes foreigners leave? Did they really think Philippines will progress over a decade? You have to set your standards right. Because the reason they came here was not to be in the same situation as they were. Advice to those who’s deciding to retire here, don’t. It’s not like citizens get something out of the retirees who live here. They don’t add value to the Filipinos but they will just make a video to complain. It’s not worth it. Stay where you are. But if you are willing to leave all that convenience behind to start again, come to South east Asia. We have good culture here, so different that it will blow your mind 😊 also, you can apply for a permanent residency… hard to get but can be done. Good luck to where you guys end up!
some people come and expect everything to be like home .
I was just planned one holiday and was mind blowing to see the rent are even more expensive then in the west 😂😂....and food also ....
Cuz is an overrated and overpriced DUMP!!!
For some for sure, I personally love it here. Though the struggle is real with lots of things.
@@WatchCaliforniaExpat So it's a love kinda hate relationship. 😂
Skidrow in LA is the same. Beverley Hills is awesome.
for me I hate it here. after 9 yrs off and on, I have had it. I am tired of the loud Karaoke, constant barking dogs, crowing roosters, neighbors revving up there engines. The constant smoke from burning garbage even when they have garbage collection. It is a disrespectful and rude culture, tired of the skin tax filipinos time irritates the F out of me. Filipinos don't to tell you they are not showing up. The lazy cops and Barangay capts that won't enforce the laws. The dangerous and reckless stupid drivers. it is the most ignorant culture I ever saw. Freaking hypocrites. Go to mass on sunday and cheat you on monday. They love Gays and ladyboys. The red tape is a nightmare. It is a corrupt society. They say they are all about family, but when they become successful they are jealous or expect hand outs. They suck their families dry that work as OFWs which is nothing but cheap slave labor. The filipino employers pay cheap wages an average 400 pesos a day. That is what I can think of right now. ADIOS PI
Angkas solved all of my traffic problems.
True
Well said, at your own expense 😂😂
Hahaha I forgot I said that till you mentioned it 😁
quality of life here is not very good. i wouldnt move here if you're from europe/australia or north america. retirees, please go to vietnam or thailand. but if you're an investor, you're welcome!
A lot of channel's do make the Philippines out to be paradise but adults have to take responsibility for themselves learn not to bleave everything they hear.
True about healthcare , infrastracture, traffic, terrible roads . Not customer service but lots of process here are tedious.
THEN LEAVE
Great! Leave please
If you want a Western lifestyle then it's not so cheap. I bet most Westerners don't want to live like the locals.
Good, they're leaving. Whining is very irritating
Ikr🤣
Agree
Lol fair enough
If you are not happy living in the Phillipines, you can always leave, no one told you to go there.