The biggest core shift for me has been understanding that accountability is not accepting the abuse but a gift that sets us free. Allows us to take our power back. That was my biggest sticking point. Unnecessary pain for years. Epic unpacking.
I remember in the beginning of the relationship watching her go off on a host because he didn't know everything on the menu and I thought "I will cleanup her messes and fix things for her"!
Wow. I see why the algorithms put this on my feed. I recently experienced this with a friend I knew a few years. They discard and pop back up with a realization that their wrong just to discard again. Before I saw this video I was already at the point of not accepting their return, this just comfirmed it and made sense of our entire relationship. Their past trauma.
He was attached to me as a mother and provider, surprised him kicked him out. Traumatized me started affecting my health. Yes praise admire serve cook clean pay for everything 🤣🤣they are so special lol🤣I never knew they love to control how you feel, I thought they were just crazy🤣
Amen 🙌🙏 thank you Lord for another person's perspective on my suffering in real life 🙏. Thank you for your videos added to my list of help me understand the evil intentions for selfish motives is very spirit draining coming from a person who pertains to love you for you. But is for their own self desires and needs and wants which is ungodly in its own right demonic possession of evil spirits in a person who sold their soul to gain rewards here on earth. Praise God for his words of truth 🙏
Your delivery and straight description of facts is empowering. I have watched a zillion channels but just found yours. THANK YOU FOR SHARING YOUR WISDOM!!! ❤
I never reacted to anything at all. This seemed to upset him. I just left the person and refused to be controlled. I refused to sleep with him and refused to go on trips with him. I never met him. I also feel nothing that he is gone. He is in therapy for NPD. He believes we will be together eventually.
This or bpd fits the criteria for my recent ex except one thing. They did aim to please me in the bedroom for sure. But other then that being weird and questionable at times she did aim for that on her own behalf
Even if they try to please, is it intimate and real mutual act and passion or is she trying to be your best = hottest ever and get you attached and admire her?
@kirsikka3752 kinda both i believe but always over expressing love for me especially after. Then whenever get mad, discard etc after saying im her person bla bla all the time, told me this last time that i dont love her, i love how she makes me feel. She loves within the oceans of wisdom fully and supernaturally etc etc.. but she akways made it a point a pushed me to actually be more engaged intimatly with her all these years esoecially at the beggining. If i didnt agree to anything she talked about or her perspectives or wanted to do something her way and only believe she knows all truths it would becone where she got attitude pop off, and eventually blocking suddenly, ignoring and then depending breaking up
@kirsikka3752 she told me my love is demonic after this break up. That i only know love in the physical form. And i only loved how she made me feel. Told me our love has been dead for years. But week before expressed her appreciation and love for me.. told me she is the only true person that came into my life and never lied or betrayed me. But just expressed love then days later says its been dead for years so yea. All this stemed from me needing to get my car after a festival for kids from my moms house by the festival. Shecwasnt feeling good but we were going back so i told her to wait on my car. In her mind wanted to go back then. I told her it didnt make sense and she started yelling at me.. i yelled back. Then went ahead got my car followed her to her place and she put my bag outside so ivwent back to my moms. She came back to the night show but didnt talk to me rejected hand holding. Sideways hug bye. Msg she made it to her van then the next day nothing. I reached out ignored. Next day I tried again same thing. Day after my sons bday my mom reached out she didnt ignore then she msg me very hatefully and for 2 days it was blaming me for her not feeling good and everything was my fault, called me every belittling name possible then days later i went over to talk and right away broke off our engagement with me again. Next few days she said it had nothing to do with my car even though several times said thats why the day started bad cause i didnt park at the event. The. Her excuse turned to godly stuff and other things said thats just kinda out there sounding but not a normal reason for all a suden dont love someone your with
You man it is not your feelings, especially bad, that are important to the narc, but the control they have on them. If you were joyful, it would be the same ?
The biggest core shift for me has been understanding that accountability is not accepting the abuse but a gift that sets us free. Allows us to take our power back. That was my biggest sticking point. Unnecessary pain for years. Epic unpacking.
I remember in the beginning of the relationship watching her go off on a host because he didn't know everything on the menu and I thought "I will cleanup her messes and fix things for her"!
What a miserable life!
You have such a great voice and manner of speaking and the information is top notch!
This is 100% accurate!
Wow. I see why the algorithms put this on my feed. I recently experienced this with a friend I knew a few years. They discard and pop back up with a realization that their wrong just to discard again. Before I saw this video I was already at the point of not accepting their return, this just comfirmed it and made sense of our entire relationship. Their past trauma.
I was not discarded. I left the person because I gave and got nothing in return but excuses. I just gave up.
Always straight talking, no fluff explanations. Thank you 🙏
Best narcissist video. No fluff no bullshit. Identify your narc here.
He was attached to me as a mother and provider, surprised him kicked him out. Traumatized me started affecting my health. Yes praise admire serve cook clean pay for everything 🤣🤣they are so special lol🤣I never knew they love to control how you feel, I thought they were just crazy🤣
Yes it’s so funny he always uses these terms.. scapegoat..irrational..
Amen 🙌🙏 thank you Lord for another person's perspective on my suffering in real life 🙏. Thank you for your videos added to my list of help me understand the evil intentions for selfish motives is very spirit draining coming from a person who pertains to love you for you. But is for their own self desires and needs and wants which is ungodly in its own right demonic possession of evil spirits in a person who sold their soul to gain rewards here on earth. Praise God for his words of truth 🙏
Yes. I saw this in real life. My best friend was love bombing my wife and doing exactly what you are describing, good analysis
Your delivery and straight description of facts is empowering. I have watched a zillion channels but just found yours. THANK YOU FOR SHARING YOUR WISDOM!!! ❤
This requires an amazing skill ! Where does this skill come from ? Unbelievable isn'it ?
Omg. Thank you so much for this video. Really helped me understand sooo much better ❤
Is it normal for them to tell you, your delusional when your showing or telling them truths
Big sister blessings love 💕 Dr sister blessings
No shared fantasy. They just hate my confidence.
Thanks for the insights
Your presentation is Art work
That’s the theory of san vaknim the shared fantasy
I never reacted to anything at all. This seemed to upset him. I just left the person and refused to be controlled. I refused to sleep with him and refused to go on trips with him. I never met him. I also feel nothing that he is gone. He is in therapy for NPD. He believes we will be together eventually.
This or bpd fits the criteria for my recent ex except one thing. They did aim to please me in the bedroom for sure. But other then that being weird and questionable at times she did aim for that on her own behalf
Even if they try to please, is it intimate and real mutual act and passion or is she trying to be your best = hottest ever and get you attached and admire her?
@kirsikka3752 kinda both i believe but always over expressing love for me especially after. Then whenever get mad, discard etc after saying im her person bla bla all the time, told me this last time that i dont love her, i love how she makes me feel. She loves within the oceans of wisdom fully and supernaturally etc etc.. but she akways made it a point a pushed me to actually be more engaged intimatly with her all these years esoecially at the beggining. If i didnt agree to anything she talked about or her perspectives or wanted to do something her way and only believe she knows all truths it would becone where she got attitude pop off, and eventually blocking suddenly, ignoring and then depending breaking up
@kirsikka3752 she did make it apparent to want to know if pleases me, tell me she wanted to in all ways. Her body is mine whenever yada yada
@kirsikka3752 she told me my love is demonic after this break up. That i only know love in the physical form. And i only loved how she made me feel. Told me our love has been dead for years. But week before expressed her appreciation and love for me.. told me she is the only true person that came into my life and never lied or betrayed me. But just expressed love then days later says its been dead for years so yea. All this stemed from me needing to get my car after a festival for kids from my moms house by the festival. Shecwasnt feeling good but we were going back so i told her to wait on my car. In her mind wanted to go back then. I told her it didnt make sense and she started yelling at me.. i yelled back. Then went ahead got my car followed her to her place and she put my bag outside so ivwent back to my moms. She came back to the night show but didnt talk to me rejected hand holding. Sideways hug bye. Msg she made it to her van then the next day nothing. I reached out ignored. Next day I tried again same thing. Day after my sons bday my mom reached out she didnt ignore then she msg me very hatefully and for 2 days it was blaming me for her not feeling good and everything was my fault, called me every belittling name possible then days later i went over to talk and right away broke off our engagement with me again. Next few days she said it had nothing to do with my car even though several times said thats why the day started bad cause i didnt park at the event. The. Her excuse turned to godly stuff and other things said thats just kinda out there sounding but not a normal reason for all a suden dont love someone your with
@deezgex this one woman asked me: "am I your favorite wh0re" 🫡
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You man it is not your feelings, especially bad, that are important to the narc, but the control they have on them. If you were joyful, it would be the same ?