You have a valuable life experience. Dedicate yourself to helping others who have been trafficked. Our suffering is not meaningless if we use it for good.
If u hear or get anything out of this please hear this: it was not your fault!! I do not care if you walked down the street naked..no one has a right to assault or touch you. Plus you were a child...you had no life experience at that age so there's no way to know this would happen. Stays strong sweets!
Hey gurl haaaay! I just wanted to send you all the love n all the light. I could feel ur hurt thru the screen n I could totally relate to having daddie issues n filling that void. I'm a 35+ yo single Mama n still learning how to trust my intuition n live in authenticity. Im in recovery and my counselor would always say "if you change the way you look at things, the things u look at change" You are a Goddess among Queens n thank you sooo muchie for sharing your story. May all the little things make you smile and may you and yours be infinitely blessed 💝🖖🏽🫶🏽👏🏽🙌🏽❤️🩹
This channel shows so much of what America is really all about. Destroyed families, kids abandoned to themselves, drugs etc. It's a true pandemic very few talk about.
Don’t forget the exploiting workers. Did ya know 30+% of America’s service industry workers are homeless and/or living in their cars while being fully employed and working? We’re also 1 of the only 3 countries in the world without Mandated Payed Maternity Leave….. 1. Suriname 🇸🇷 2. Papua New Guinea 🇵🇬 and 3. the United States of America 🇺🇸
My mom and I met Ghislaine Maxwell at a mall where she was looking for “young models” to be trained as “socialites and actors.” The deal was that I would fly to New York and stay in a mansion while I was “training.” Top that off, the cost of this “once in a lifetime opportunity” was $2,500. It was a plan that was all set up and I was supposed to meet her at the airport that weekend and my mom would pay for it and I would fly off. I was 14. It was 1997. About 10 minutes before we were to leave for the airport, my mom got “a bad feeling about this whole thing” and refused to let me go. At 14 I was pissed at my mom and how unreasonable she was being. Looking back, if she hadn’t gotten that bad feeling, I’d have wondered why she was too blind to see how absurd the whole offer was.
all of the adults in her life failed her severely. my heart breaks for her she deserved absolutely none of that no matter what anyone says. I pray she can find healing and peace.
I completely agree. For when she said "I don't know why I ran away, I felt so guilty for doing (x, y, & z). When in reality, she was a kid. A CHILD. Her mother did not provide that unconditional love a parent should give so she felt the yearn to seek the validation somewhere else. Us as little girls, as women, we are not wanting to be r-ped or sexualized. That was the only way she felt wanted, even though her gut told her this wasn't right. Now that she's a full adult, she realized she was groomed and taken advantaged of. As her how she feels it's her fault, no. For instance, If I had appeared to be weak, am I asking to be murdered? Because of the way I look (as an easy target for a killer, enticing for a power thrill), should any of the blame be on me? Sure, I can then act tougher, look like I have a place to be, but I should not take the blame of being slaughtered. Same as a r-pe crime, they're both crimes with a perpetrator. For existing in whatever shape or form, that does not give a man the entitlement to kill, or r-pe.
Sound like she was just tryn to be fast and is making excuses for it. Why was she dressing like a slut at 13 and running away for no reason and sleeping with 40 year old men before 15?
@@kevinyountrevzupak8686 I sincerely hope you don't have children...never have children. A child is a child and are not capable of making appropriate choices. I imagine your heart is in there somewhere, but it sure isn't evident right now.
"Appreciate you listening." I just burst into tears when she said that. What a brave and beautiful woman. Well done, Lisa. Your clients are lucky to have you in their corner ❤️ thank you for sharing your story
It’s heartbreaking to see that she blames herself for the wrongdoings of the adults around her. Not a single thing that happened to her was her fault. I wish her infinite healing and prosperity.
@@Oliver-Closeoff no because she was a child and the responsibility of safety was ALWAYS on the adult, she lacked critical thinking skills, and all sorts of skills that an adult would have in these situations
@MAIKA Thank you! Thank you! It is very depressing knowing there are so many men that are so uncaring and dangerous. It is refreshing to know there are some men with a good heart!😀
She ran away to find love. It’s so sad that people don’t realize how important being kind and loving towards your kids is so they feel protected and safe.
Her mother was evil. But the girl is smart. Just by saying 'my mum told me I could come' to the police - she broke free. It's just sad she feels guilty for 'ruining' her moms life. Something that her mother brought to herself anyway. She think of her mother not being able to forgive her, but what about herself... it breaks my heart.
We have choices from the day we were born there are voices telling us right from wrong. We can't blame others for everything. So she's not accepting responsibility for anything? I had a mother who worked and slept,and a father who abandoned the family when I was ten. Molested at 7 by a neighbor. I learned to not allow myself to be alone with men real fast, and not put myself in such situations. She wasn't part of an Epstein trafficking. Those guys were small time TRAFFICKERS and not as evil as the well organized child eating, child pedophilia. She is too needy, and demanding of attention, which got her where she is.
@@sweetycamy Her mom was paying Bill's and crafting. Yeah, she was real evil. Do you think this girl isnt responsible for any of her behaviors? How many times do you put yourself in a situation before you learn to stay home alone.
@@robinluich6626 Frankly it sounds like you're a bit in denial of what happened to you, and desperate to pretend that kids have control over how adults treat them. This woman was fucking ENSLAVED as a minor. Give her a fucking break-- and maybe give yourself a break.
What a story! I see myself in parts of your story. You are VALUABLE. You are not your past actions. There are a lot of groups of people to talk to with simular situations. You are smart and beautiful inside and out. Sending blessings and healing energy your way.
yup. Her father left her. Mother didn't care, so she ran away to fill the void. The problem is that feminism is pushing for it - destroying healthy families, encouraging mothers to become single. With a strong father figure the chances of this happening would've been much lower.
All of these years later and she still blames herself. When I hear her talk about "why" this happened and her mother's voice comes through her. "If I hadn't dressed provocatively they wouldn't have thought about me in that way." I say this with every ounce of respect and zero blame or judgment... they would have seen you anyway. You have absolutely NO fault in any of this. Put yourself in your daughter's shoes. Would you blame your 11, 12, 13 year old self and say that they should know better? I hope you find your self-forgiveness and realize you were only a child.
She should blame herself.. she admits in the first 20 mintues she walked voluntarily into each room she was kept in. Sounds like you don't pay attention to much. It's 100% her fault. It wasn't even human traffcking it was a typical drug - deal - pimp - whore deal. Move along with your emotions.. best to keep them for someone you actually know.
@SPINNING MY WHEELS She was a CHILD! I suppose you blame all pedo victims for being alone with their violators? If they never wore that swimsuit to the pool the creep would never noticed them? There is a reason we call sexual assault survivors "victims" and lock up the disgusting p.o.s. criminals that violate them. I hope there is never a child unfortunate enough to rely on someone like you to keep them safe. You should take your own advice and keep your criticism for someone you actually know.
I once heard it said, the first task after childhood is to forgive yourself for what you may have done. (I would add forgive yourself for what someone tricked you into). Best wishes for you dear....Lord knows there are plenty of Avenues for you to help other young gals escape & recover from the horrors you have been thru.....I applaud you for speaking out on this disease of exploitation. You are a lovely young Woman who deserves nothing but, goodness and peace. Tee
Kat, your story is why i keep my young daughters so close to home. I am praying for you and wherever you are now, i hope you are finding all joy and peace and love ❤️ you deserve it. May joy and peace overflow in your life ❤❤❤
Mark, Please make more of these sex traffic videos. The entire country needs to hear this. So many broken homes from sick married men who do this. I used to live in Toledo and I heard of telegraph road had a lot of prostitution. I was too young to understand it, but this is truly a sick thing that went on. And it still is happening till this day. Please don’t stop making this category of interviews. We need to see the true hero’s that survive this sick shit.
how about sick women, sick mothers? My own mother is an absolute psychopath, and from my perspective it's more often than not the women who create broken homes by emotionally abusing and manipulating their husbands and partners and children beyond their breaking point.
@@1w598 It's not the chicken before the egg argument, I was molested by females growing up in Chicago as a child. It is just as prolific as men molesting females it is just not frowned upon as much but it is just as emotionally damaging as any of it.
As a teen that didn't have a lot of supervision, it terrifies me how easily this could have been me. I've been in a lot of the situations she's describing and somehow escaped unscathed. I was such an idiot and thank God every day for somehow always giving me a way out. So many are not so fortunate. My heart aches for this girl. I could have been her.
@@JC111WPB yeah i lived in the worst neighborhoods on long island and queens. i really did...but luckily i think my autism saved me. i was so bookish, and it made me so terrified of people- ALL people- that i never looked at or talked to anyone dangerous. having a (tolerable) dad around helped save me as well.
@@JC111WPB it's almost like her mom expected her to KNOW what was out there down the block rather than TELLING HER and PROTECTING her. so bizarre!!! a lot of women want to kill their kids since they dont want to be mothers.
so basically, stand to the side doing nothing? This is going to take action, not wishful thinking. I hope this country is ready to do something once it manages to rid itself from the running corruption
@@fritzhaselnuss7852OP said nothing wrong at all. Stop finding reasons to be upset. You jumped to all sorts of conclusions because you were triggered by the word “prayer.”
her mom was living in a surviving mode - paying rent, buying food, medicine and health, school and many more. in this city/country, all people like Kat and her family need protection and they will not get it, never. in the capitalist world, you need to pay for everything everywhere, you always will be surviving.
I have never in my life wanted to give someone a hug so badly. This woman deserves the WORLD. To have been so utterly failed by so many people, and to be so strong to tell her truth. What an incredible person.
And call upon me in the day of trouble: I will deliver thee, and thou shalt glorify me. Psalm 50:15 ✝🌅 He keepeth back his soul from the pit, and his life from perishing by the sword. He is chastened also with pain upon his bed, and the multitude of his bones with strong pain: So that his life abhorreth bread, and his soul dainty meat. Job 33:18-20 ✝🌅
Kat, I too am from Downriver. I think I was one of your teachers at the alternative high school, and I seem to remember parts of your story. I taught creative writing and English classes. I think I knew your grandma. But even if I'm thinking of another Kat, I can say wow, you are such a strong, beautiful, and open person sharing your story to help so many people...and you have your own clothing line, congratulations! But most of all you seem to be a really good mom who is breaking the cycle...God bless you for that! I am praying for your healing...keep educating yourself because the resources are out there, even on youtube, and find a support group of other trauma survivors cuz we can't do it alone. You are an amazing woman and there is an important plan for your life, which no doubt involves you sharing your truth. You tell a compelling story with honesty and a kind of heartbreaking innocence despite your wisdom. You need to write; it will heal you. If this is the Kat I knew I am so proud of you! Hang in there and keep going. You are doing great. Be proud of who you are.
Well, this was unnecessarily rude. First off, this is a comment section, not an essay. Second, consider how people probably talk in Downriver. Lastly, creative writing at an alternative school probably allows for authors to write how they speak.
To those who responded to my long comment...I most certainly never meant to be rude in any way, but perhaps I should've thought more carefully before commenting. I only wanted to tell her how much I respect her for the strong, smart person she is and to try to be supportive; hopefully that is how she took it. As for my "creative" spelling, I wasn't on the job while writing a comment on youtube, just being another regular person who was impacted by the video. Thanks.
Hi Kat.. just dropping in to say a year later that you are lovable, you are interesting, you are valuable, you are valued, you are worthy, and you are without a doubt deserving of love, belonging, and healthy relationships. You are remarkable. From one woman to another, I thank you for sharing your story, and I wish you so much peace and healing.
Kat your story is yet another reason why I'm trying to raise my son to be a good man with a good moral compass. My Dad was also sex trafficked as a young boy. He found his healing through therapy and helping others. He was an amazing Dad, just like you sound like an amazing mom. I could see you helping so many young women and girls. You deserve all the unconditional love you were seeming to long for. Thank you for being willing to open up to us.
Self love should be learned. I had a biblical connection from a young age. It has helped me deal with the crap I went thru....knowing God is always on my side made up for much of the damage done to me.
@@kennethwilliams8240 Those that "know" know there are many survivors in the Male community. Not all were trafficked,but, 1 in 7 boys. 1 in 4 girls. These are rather steady figures for decades of child abuse in US. UK has even more depravity....
I’m a trafficking survivor, too, and I grew up around the same area. I was trafficked in Pontiac, MI, when I was 21. So proud of her for sharing her story ❤ Shedding light on things like this (because it doesn’t always happen the way movies or TV portray it) is hard but so important. Sending her so much love.
The fact I’m from a city close to you girls blows my mind that these things happened to you guys and I was just living life. It really opens your eyes up! I’m sorry that you guys slipped through the cracks, and I hope for the best for you❤
I'm just over the line in Ohio and I stated this before people dont understand that this area has one of the highest numbers for sex trafficking. Like we literally have had several instances of people keeping very young girls in basements around here and something needs to be done. It's ludicrous. LE spend more time locking people up for using drugs. Yes drugs are a problem but sex trafficking is a bigger problem in my eyes.
As a woman it makes me very happy that you took the time to watch this video. You give me hope there are still real men in this world that would do anything for their daughters 💗
Thank you for sharing your story. This is so important to hear. I have never experienced anything like this in my life, and it makes me appreciate how sheltered I have always been. Some people think they have it hard, but when you hear stories like this - you’re eternally grateful for the life you have. You’re a brave woman, thank you.
It’s so sickening to know that multiple married men probably with families & had daughters were doing this to 13 yr old girls..Kat u are definitely the epitome of strength. I’m so sorry u had to go thru so much starting at a young age. Your life story is helping other young girls & women to be open, brave & honest. You deserve to have peace & happiness. Much love ❤️ 🌹
There is so many married men going this. Also that are the brother-in-laws do this to you. You grow up n really don't know who you can talk to n it is a nightmare to live in. Going n getting the right help does do a lot of good. I know how she feels n how this mess you up.
I'm 27 and I have never been trafficked but I was hit on, asked out on dates, messaged on social media between the ages of 13-16 by more men my age now then I have ever been as a consenting adult. This brings major awareness. Sending hugs to this beautiful woman.
me too, even when I was 6, and 8 years old, I have clear memories of old men trying to follow me around, always starring, etc.I was hit on more than ever before between 14-16 as well. Im 30 now, and when I see kids that age I'm sickly disgusted that a man, or pedophile should I say, would find that attractive.
This is truly the most down-to-earth, genuine woman you’ve had on here. She feels like an older sister for me. A mom. I’m so grateful for her sharing her story 🤍💕
For her to have been through all the things she went through growing up in Detroit and to be around to talk about how she changed her life is amazing. Detroit is a rough place. I know she's seen a lot.
I'm a survivor of human trafficking and I know all to well what she goes through on a daily basis... Your a strong women honey and don't you ever let anyone tell you different... And don't let anyone put blame on you or ask you why you never ran... Because they will never understand
I am a fellow human trafficking survivor and the constant struggle of just trying to be you after all of it . The guilt, the shame the burden the scars sometimes I look in the mirror and get so sad . But then I remember these people chose to abuse and pimp me out when I just wanted to go home. I just wanted to talk to my mom .instead I'm being forced to do that for days can't even get a glass of water . I look back now and I'm proud of myself I still struggle with the shame . But now i respect myself and my emotions and i let them flow 💯 I wish I could sir down and talk to her 😔
Wow! This was intense. Your mom and dad both let you down. I'm going to hug my kids a little extra tomorrow. Thanks for sharing Kat!
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Kat, you were severely under protected as a child. Your parents are guilty of gross negligence. And by not engaging with you after school that instilled a sense that you lacked in value in their eyes. Now, that you’re rebuilding your life, you also need to build your confidence, self-esteem and I think you’re doing great! Every small victory is to be celebrated! Every task completed builds self esteem! For different reasons I was also under protected and not taught to value myself. I’m 58 now and after 10 years of therapy I’m a confident person. I know I do good work and my relationships are solid and supportive. I’m so sorry all this unbelievably horrid stuff happened to you! Big hugs and strength! ♥️♥️♥️
My heart feels for her. I want to give her a hug and tell her how strong and beautiful she is. She survived and pray she gets a wonderful life surrounded by loving people and a family of her own. ❤
It’s astonishing and SICKENING to hear about How Many people are out there - that are CHILD PREDATORS - and people/families - THE LAW - that turn a blind eye! This has me in tears, it breaks my Heart but I’m so glad to hear that Kat is doing HER BEST and WORKING HARD- keeping her children safe, and making a better life for her family.
I’m dead inside, I’m not a good person, but my heart shatters with young girls stories like this. Men like this deserve the final moment of their life immediately. No trial, nothing. Go away
“teenage girls are either overlooked or over sexualized” WOW. that gave me chills. You have a lot to say, and thank you for saying it! i'm wishing you peace, self-forgiveness, and nothing but prosperity for your family. It was never your fault, say it again and again until it sticks ❤️
Jesus that is one of two stories on here that has actually blown my mind. What an incredible woman to have gone through all of this and to still be able to get up in the morning and smile.
What an incredible women to go through all of this "sexualization" and she sexualizes herself on Only Fans haha this is what is wrong with western society. So sad.
You deserve healing. I hope that you find the perfect therapist if you’re ever interested in doing trauma healing. You hold absolutely ZERO responsibility for what happened to you, even down to the running away part. Every one of your choices makes perfect sense. You made choices to survive and you should be proud of how strong you were - not just now as a woman, but also as teenage and child Kat. You are also a wonderful mom and your children are blessed by you.
She tells the story as if she’s proud of it. She wanted the black treatment and she got it. Happens to millions of white woman it’s hilarious! Don’t feel sorry for her for one minute she chose to be pumped. White woman are pretty much groomed for this. She is giggling about being sprayed by piss. If a white man did that to a black girl it would be national news.
Stop excusing this slut behavior. She IS responsibile for her choices and even if she was a victim, she has ONLYFANS now which means nothing changed. Still the same but showing her azz on the internet. Thats it. Stop treating them like they are innocents, they know exactly what they are doing. She deserves all of it.
Just to add some clarity to my comment. The reason why Kat had zero responsibility for what happened to her is that she was a CHILD. She was not a woman. Her brain was not developed enough to be able to make fully informed decisions about having sex with adult men. She was completely victimized by those men. Also the choices that she made were out of survival. When you are traumatized your pre-frontal cortex in your brain goes off-line and you make survival choices, not logical choices. The running away was her brain seeking safety from her home that was full of neglect. As for her choices now as an adult, I find it remarkable that she has chosen to redeem her ability to make choices about how she uses her body. She uses creativity and has control, something she had no choice when she was a young girl.
You think it's just the part where she was held for a few months and sex trafficked... but then she mentions the mover guy and his friend, and being held hostage in the car, but then also the slumber parties, and then her aunt's ex husband, and then the guy in the hotel room. It keeps going on and on. It was not one incident, all throughout her life she was taken advantage of and abused.
Also once it happens a couple times it's like you have a target on your back forever. Predators can smell the fear and they know once they try something you'll just freeze up and let them do what they want.
dont forget the part where she called the 30 year old man cute and inititiated that relationship at 16,then 5 mins later says ''i was like probably,i think 13'' she shouldnt be trying to jaz up a interview like this. I can tell Mark was on the fence about weithe she should be there or not. there are girls out there tht have been through this shit that were FORCED to .. they didnt run away from home to a guys house they think is cute and accept gifts.
That was a great interview. Mark gave her the space to just be herself, and tell her story her way. She was failed in so many ways by so many people, but still has courage to speak of all of this and try to make sense of it all. She sounds like an incredible mother, and I only wish good things for her and her children. Stay strong, Kat, you deserve a good long fulfilling life. ♥
There is a former police officer in England trying to get help for a sexually abused baby under 2 years old from all 'authorities' who claim they are there to protect. He is stonewalled everywhere - put this search in youtube Prt 4 - Concern for Child - Call to NSPCC 15/04/24 - International G'nmt Fraud & Child Trafficking
@@VG-qu3vbkat is not stupid. . she is just very messed up. Can't really get good men when she s kinda wired as she is. She has serious 'daddy ' issues. She seems to never have had a decent guy in her life at all; just abusers and addicts and pimps and god knows what. How is she supposed to relate to any kind of a 'good' of man.
I was lying on the sofa listening to some relaxing music to try and calm my mind. And, my head started racing and I thought, I need to watch/listen to something inspirational and knew I had to watch an episode of SWU. I hope what I’m about to say is encouraging in some way. I’m 75. I am an ASCA-Adult Survivor of Child Abuse. I did about everything imaginable to heal myself. Life is a never ending process. One of my biggest downfalls was that of being in "fix me” mode all the time and I was always in a hurry to get there. I hope you can be patient with yourself and love yourself along the way. I am in no way implying that this is a simple task. Your strength, bravery and emotionality tells me you’re off to a wonderful start in the healing process. ❤️ ❤️ ❤️☮️☮️☮️
your comment helps me. I am feeling lousy today. I was sexually abused too and I hate my body for it, Im even scared of grass or normal objects that are a part of this world as though they will abuse me,
I was also abused as kid from age 4-6 . Mostly physically and some minor sexual abuse . It was a babysitter I had loving parents but was coerced into not telling them . That feeling of showing up afraid every day was horrible. It’s something that has changed me and I know my abuse was not as nearly horrid as some kids …. Protect the kids always
This woman is so incredibly self aware. She’s also intelligent, beautiful and so many other great qualities. It’s a damn shame that so many adults failed her as a child as it could have changed her trajectory in big ways. Being as smart and savvy and introspective as she is she could have soared in whatever interested her. Lastly, please please don’t blame yourself for anything that happened to you as a child. It’s not your fault, it’s not because you dressed provocatively- it’s because you didn’t have proper adults in your life to make sure you didn’t dress that way. It’s a parents job to see around corners and stay keyed in to your child’s activities. Your parents should have pulled you in at this point and changed your path. It’s our job as parents. And good god its not even your fault for running away. Your parents should have grabbed you and figured out what was driving you to run and gotten you the help you needed. This isn’t on you. You don’t have the tools as a 15 year old to navigate why you do what you do. It fucking pisses me off that people have kids only to ruin them by giving up. As a mom of three I would have never have allowed them to run and live anywhere but my home. The first time would be their last. I loved my kids through it and they are now thriving adults all living healthy, stable lives. It would have been my fault if they were anything but. I was born and raised in Long Beach, albeit, an upper class suburb, but no matter where you are in Long Beach you’re only blocks away from from trouble.
When I first saw her face before I saw the tattoos (not that I'm against tattoos) on her legs and hands I thought she looks like maybe a schoolteacher. Horrifying the way bad adults actually shape (in a bad way) the life of someone starting at a young age into adulthood, pretty much putting that person on a trajectory of pain and suffering most likely for life.
This opened my eyes for my daughters "i wanted someone to want to know me and boys wanted to know me" i will for sure, step my game up with letting my girls know i want to know them and spend all the time i can with them in a healthy way, thank you, your story is an insperation to lots of girls out there! I hope youre doing well and getting the help you need x
I’m not a parent, but I had crappy ones and the best (unsolicited) advice I could give a parent would be to make sure you’re their protector. Do that while they’re little and when they’re older they’ll still come to you for protection and guidance, they won’t turn to the rest of the world for it.
Kat, thanks my internet sister. At the end of your interview when you said whenever your child has a meltdown or tantrum you , "just bring them in", it touched me so deep! You are so brave and so very innocent of any crimes that were perpetrated upon you, please learn this fact and understand it. Sending love, Kelly
"I just wanted someone to WANT to be around me".... girl, that hit home for me so bad. I have never thought about it like that but as a 32 yr old woman, I think you just summed up exactly what I have been looking for my entire life. Thank you for this interview. I could relate to you a lot and I think your video and words will be very impactful to others who watch this. Thank you :)
This is so true for me…I remember at 13, sitting at a lake we were visiting with the wife of my father’s co-worker…she asked me questions about how I thought and felt about school and friends and just basically took a genuine interest in me. She suggested I paint the inside of the narrow silver cuff I had on with clear nail polish so my arm wouldn’t turn green. No one at home ever gave me this kind of time or consideration. I felt so special and I wondered if there were other people like her and felt I had been given an amazing gift. That was nearly 50 years ago.
This interview is fantastic. I can't imagine the strength it took to complete this video. Although the description of her childhood and how things happened is heartbreaking and eye-opening, the most shocking part is that she keeps blaming herself for everything that happened. She was a child. None of this was her fault. She should have been kept safe. If she, by chance, reads the comments, thank you so much for sharing your story, and NONE of what happened to you was your fault or because of anything you did or did not do.
I've never been blessed with children bc of sexual abuse that started at age 3, I wish I could take this woman as my daughter & show her how strong she is. I'm so sorry every adult in her life failed her ,may God keep her
It makes me so sad to hear herself blame herself and they call it sex work, but it is not. It is child trafficking. Those pigs r*ped u and let others do so. It was not your fault, and I wish u had someone in your life to help u heal. Reach out to a trauma therapist. u should have an open space where u speak. They're different than average bs ones. Ive heard all good things about them. It breaks my heart to hear how your mom went looking after her family snapped at her, and the aunt to blame u that her daughter got pregnant. Are u freaking kidding me?
She carries all this guilt, its terrible. This untrue guilt. As if all of it is her fault and even worrying about her moms reputation or feeling guilty for “putting her mom through” all of what SHE went through. She wasn’t paid attention nor boosted mentally to encourage confidence or self love. I wish I could help women like this every day. You’re amazing, Kat. The fact that you’re still pushing forward is admirable.
It is empowering to take responsibility for your own actions. It’s the best thing you can do to avoid further disasters. I’m glad she acknowledges her mistakes and doesn’t just feel entirely like a victim.
Why would you be like that? People tend to speak from an emotional maturity level. Have some compassion! If you don’t believe her, just move on and go about your day. If this is true, it’s devastating and our society is F$$&&& up!
This happens more than you know, to call someone a lier about something horrific needs a kick up the arse and a wake call!! How your life must be so great that you haven't had something bad happen to you !! Have some compassion for god's sake!!
This is heartbreaking. How can people be such monsters. Kat, your a very brave woman and your story will help a lot of other girls. I wish you the best in your journey of healing.
Ppl can becz we are human beings, not animals bound and steered by instinct. We were created with the thinking capacity, conscience, a spirit and an individual I, and the only being givn the capacity of free will. These are great but not easy to handle, and we have to confront our shadow side accept and integrate it to become true and better. Also seeking God and Christ is the path to healing and towards doing good in harmony and sound thinking, feeling and acting. Most ppl don't do he journey don't listen or understand, and often don't get adult examples and lessons. And one has to want it, because we have the free will to do unhappy bad or what is right and good.Harmed ppl harm others.
@@Medietos yeah what are you on about every single day we find out animals around us are more and more similar to us. Also everyday we are finding out they are way smarter than we ever previously thought. Animals are very close to us, very similar, we are the same
Yes. She so deserves to receive the love she gives. Do unto others and treat others how you want to be treated can be hard in today's culture...or any rather.
Your comment is one of the most beautiful I have ever read on the Internet. I think, if nothing else. your comment is an outpouring of unconditional love for her. Feel our love and support for you and fury at what those men did to you, Kat. You have an army behind you.
Kat thank you for sharing your story. You deserve unconditional love. I am sorry you had to go through this horrendous part of your life. I hope you are able to get counseling to help you work through all the damage that was caused by not having adults in your life that kept you safe and secure. You are strong woman for speaking your truth and I hope you are able to have a happy life.
It is so sad that she blames herself (the reaction from her mother when she told her about this didn't help, when she was blaming her little girl.) It doesn't matter how she was dressing, what happened to her was not her fault. I just feel so bad for her and I just wanna hug her. She looks like such a kind soul. It is also really understandable that she was always running away.
The mother HAD to blame Kat. Otherwise she would have been forced to accept blame on herself for not being there for her daughter. And Lord knows she wouldn’t do that.
@@febutterfly8021 - Exactly! My stepdaughter started "dating" a 16 year old boy when she was 12. They started having sex as soon as she turned 13. Her mother let him come around, knowing they were doing stuff like that. She also gave her daughter her first joint, her first alcohol and cigarettes to smoke, all at 12 years old. My stepdaughter was living with her father and me at the time. We didn't know anything about the other stuff because when she was with us she was a straight A student and we never really had much trouble with her, just normal teenaged stuff from time to time. She's 20 years old now. About 2 years ago she asked her mother why she let her date that boy and do stuff with him and why'd she let her smoke, etc. Her mom told her that she knew she was interested in it and would have done it anyway. Her mother actually said "You would have done it anyway and then what would I have done?" and got upset when her daughter said, "Stopped me, like a normal parent!" The real reason her mother let her do all that stuff and did it with her, was her mom has always wanted to be the favorite parent and "the cool mom". Her mother had lost custody of her several months before letting her daughter drink, smoke, etc because of various abuses and still to this day, refuses to admit that she's done anything wrong, in any of those circumstances. Trying to be the favorite parent has actually had the opposite effect because they have a very strained relationship now and don't really speak.
The audacity of her mother .. She should’ve been begging her daughter for forgiveness for never guiding her, loving her, & for not being present .. This would’ve been avoided if she would’ve been at home more often . 😮
I’m a man who doesn’t do these things. I’d like to think the majority of men don’t. But it seems like a lot..lot..of men do? And how do they live with themselves? She’s a beautiful person to have withstood this and still not lost her light inside.
Wow, I have only met men who mainly want to have sex and abandon the female when they are done with us. So I stopped dating because I couldn't handle the modern day prostitution version of dating. No. It is about 90% of men that are like this. Still hoping to find just 10% to show me the good side
@@sambistabeauty I have been thinking about this. And it occurred to me that what stops me is I feel empathy. I couldn’t hurt someone else for my own benefit. You could be right. I think 9/10 men might have it inside them to be absolute trash. I hope you find a good one! I know theyre out there. And soon, there will be two more good men, as I’m raising two boys right now.
Hey Kat, I’m cailey and I am too a survivor of sex trafficking, just wanted to comment here and say i resonate with this so much, and say how strong and resilient you are✨❤️❤️❤️ you deserve so much love and peace❤️✨ praying for you
Kat you are so beautiful inside and out, thank you for your openness and vulnerability. You deserve so much love. I hope you find someone that can hold your heart in a way that makes you feel so safe and loved. Thank you for sharing your story with us.
"I had a boom box, I had a TV, like we had cute dogs. I don't know why"... sweetheart those aren't things that make a safe, healthy, loving, childhood. You needed and deserved so much more! Everyone in this life needs love, to feel safe and wanted and needed and important and valued... you needed that just like all of us. THAT'S why you ran away. I pray you find that someday because youre absolutely amazing and inspiring. I wish you all the best!
She had 3 sets of parents, and lots of teachers, who tried. What more can a kid deserve??? She said she needed to run away, and this is what she got. REPEATEDLY after adults rescued her.
it's in their nature, you can warn them repeatedly about the big bad wolf but the more you do the more they desire to venture into the forest@@timsimmons9995
@@timsimmons9995Yeah that 13 year old girl really deserved to be pimped out for months cause she voluntarily ran away, do you hear yourself talk? You’re a disgusting bastard Tim, you clearly didn’t listen to her story whatsoever. Non of her parental figures kept her away from these situations with older men they literally promoted it. I pray you don’t have children, especially after reading that stupid fucking comment you made.
Thank you, Kat, for your story. Sexual trauma does so much harm to a child development. It doesn't matter whether you dressed provocatively you never deserved what they did to you. I hope one day you recognize how important and strong you are. You are your children's strength and support always. Trusting your gut is the instinct that is always worth listening to.
@@JohnSmith-jz4pk you clearly didnt watch this video you should watch ya fat american mouth she was held captive he knew where she lived and all he could have just showed up anywhere anytime after she left and just killed her
All I can say is wow………Im lost for words. My goal in life, as a 49 year old dad to a 9 year old daughter, is to love my baby girl deeply, ingrain good morals and values and always be there for her no matter what. Hopefully I can get her raised right in this crazy world and make sure nothing like this ever happens to her before I die.
Yesterday, I heard someone reference a line that Dr Drew would say regularly to people who called into his 90’s radio show, Love Line, and were in a situation similar to yours, seeking some advice. It was something about, if you’re having concerns of how to protect one of your kids, family members, friends, loved ones from risky behavior, alcohol & drug abuse, being mislead by their friends, succumbing to peer pressure, teenage pregnancy, etc, then your heart is in the right place. They are normal thoughts, and that person is lucky to have you in their life. Keep doing what you’re doing with your 9yr old daughter, ingraining the good morals & values that build character in a young person, in hopes of them making good decisions as they get older, especially when you’re not around. Hopefully, they’ll do the same with the people in their lives. Sadly, like this brave young woman, she didn’t have anyone in her life looking out for her, and the type of world she grew up in has left her trying to pick up the broken pieces of her soul to try to live a somewhat normal life. Her story is heartbreaking, and like others have commented, more attention needs to be given to this type of story. Some call Mark’s work exploitative, and shame him for profiting from their horrible stories. They don’t get what he’s doing. This interview is a perfect example of why he does his work. He gives a platform for people to share their stories, and raise awareness to help others come forward. We can’t fix the problems, if we don’t know what they are. I wish you well.
Yes you can love and protect your daughter and hopefully she won’t encounter any of these disgusting men. It seems so commonplace, these guys are married, ordinary looking, even doctors, business men, princes?I sometimes I think is this a secret side to all men that they just keep well hidden ? It’s beyond comprehension
Just be careful not to smother her. That can cause a worse outcome. Happened to me. I was never allowed to experience anything so when access came to things I went ape shit
@@jb-uw2vt I did, too. It caused estrangement from my father, and I became very rebellious. I ran right towards self-destruction. Fathers need emotional intelligence to be able to establish trust with their daughters, instead of creating an atmosphere of harsh antagonism and punishment that just drives them away and right into the next abusive relationship.
I think even having those goals on your radar puts you 90% ahead of the people mark interviews. Imagine how the world would be different if parents were present and loved their children in a healthy way ❤️
Bless her. She still whispers when she says she had sex. My heart is broken for her. Nothing you wore prompted your abuse. This is not your fault. NONE OF IT
i would never ever blame a child for their rapist doing that, and i would never solely blame an adult for their rapist taking advantage of them. however, an adult woman should be smart enough to not wear certain clothes in the hood. it’s not because they’re “asking” for it, it’s simply because this is a cruel world and everyone knows it. you just gotta be smarter than that. i’m not saying it’s the woman’s fault ever, this isn’t victim blaming at all. i’m just saying that in a lot of causes, preventative measures should’ve been taken from the women’s side. i feel like telling women they can wear whatever wherever isn’t healthy because the reality is, you have sick twisted men who take advantage of those same women based off their clothing and if they’re in a bad area where nobody will help.
@@tbrogannow123 being a teenager doesn’t make you helpless or stupid, it doesn’t change the point i was making. teenagers have the ability to take preventative measures, if they couldn’t reason similar to an adult in certain scenarios we wouldn’t allow teenagers to get their driving license.
Her story is so similar to mine. Outwardly racist dad, divorced parents, mom was always too busy for us and was never home, used from a young age for sex by men. I ended up running away by joining the military and it really helped me find myself and pay for school. I ended up finding love with a man that is unlike every man I encountered. He’s loving, patient, trustworthy, compassionate, and has been there for me through some of the hardest growing pains. I’m a lucky human who had a rough start. Don’t give up on yourself. Never back down. Your past doesn’t define you, you own it and make it what you will.
I hope she knows how incredible she is for being as together as she is given what she has been through. She's very intelligent, introspective, and sincere. Biggest wish I have for her is that she gives herself grace - she's a beautiful human being who has had to endure not receiving a lot of fundamental needs we all have as humans, not to mention all the horrific things others have done to her. Hard to rewire the impact of those experiences though. Prayers and healing energy her way.
The most captivating interview I've seen so far on this channel. She has such an authentic personality. I really enjoyed listening to her and felt a great deal of empathy for her traumas.
tears were definitely triggered. I relate to the feeling she described of thinking, "who isn't like this? Who doesn't look at girls like this?" SO sorry you had to go through that. You're amazing & I hope you know that. Sending all my love.
@@eoinmcg88 first of all that’s not true, second of all she was a child. She’s had years to go over the mistakes she made and I’m sure given the chance she would do things differently now.
@@chloe4301 Hmmm i dont think so, she seems to keep going back around African pedophiles, after being raped and pimped by multiple black men - she married a black pedophile
She is one of the most intelligent, insightful people you've interviewed. She seems like someone you'd meet in college - someone you'd never expect to get caught up in this. My heart goes out to her.
Terrifying ... all these men looking completely normal, or at least to a child. The mover, the visitors, the doctor. Obliterates any trust in anything and anyone. She shares these horrors nonchalantly :( I haven't experienced sexual assault but I can't imagine a trespass more extreme and reducing. For that to be your baseline from such a young age... so so wrong.
It's not just from a child's perspective. I have seen first hand the same completely normal looking men, doctors, engineer's, tech, executives, police, ect who lead these double lives and they're usually married with children. This was as an adult. These guys are everywhere and the least suspecting. It's so widespread I wish this type of trafficking was talked about more. Maybe it's suppressed bc it is so wide spread and it is your average looking successful man perpetrating and its in their best interest to keep it hush.
Epsteins Island. Funny how quiet the “media” is on this. That VIP client list that grease politicians and include politicians also. It’s vile that no one on the list has been arrested.
Her feelings resonated with me 😢 abused, molested repeatedly, dating older men.... just wanting to be loved for you. This has to end. Human trafficking is widespread amongst men in power positions. Ill tell you one thing!! She is going to raise her daughters well knowing what to look out for. I DO NOT PLAY ABOUT MINE! 💯💯💯💯 You are beautiful, worthy and strong my sister ❤️
Absolutely agree! I've been mol3sted at 13 by a man I considered an uncle, I've been r@ped many times, in DV relationships where I was knocked out & my teeth kicked out of my face 4 not having s3x wit & serving his friends beer nude! I then got in a 8yr relationship with another abusive man who was more emotionally & financially abusive but got physical at times I was told often that I have 2 much baggage for anyone to really love me or stay with me & I have 4 kids 2 are adults I had at 16 & 18 then 2 are 7& 8 so it's hard 2 even begin finding a relationship nevermind a genuine one! I now have my own YT channel (not this one but a Voice 4 the voiceless S.W.O.S) I'm working on it for survivors of mol3station, S/A trauma & addiction recovery healing a place for survivors to share their stories & I've had a few on there men & women but I also help catch p3dophiles who prey on our kids online & so I just wanna break the cycle raise awareness 2 this rarely spoken on yet never ending issue! I'm praying for all survivors that you get the healing you deserve & find the voices we have had taken from us when they took our innocence- we gotta fight back & take a stand 2 protect our children!
Your blaming M for the guys YOU CHOSE to be with. Accountability mam, learn some for yourself. The majority of M aren't treating W like this, it's the M YOU are attracted to and chase that treat you like that.
@@user-ek5nl1jc4b well those MEN need to take accountability for being manipulative, low life, pieces of sh*t. Maybe then we wouldnt have anything to worry about, now would we?
This reminds me sooo much of my own experience. Some words I have always been terrified to utter out loud. Just being ashamed. I broke down when the stranger helped her get away. One male stranger made the difference for me as well. I hope she's doing great things in life now❤️❤️
I haven't gotten the help I need. But I have been put in situations with girls a little younger than me, seeing them possibly going down the same path. I've been able to speak with one or two of them and just share my experience and the reality of what could happen. The house it happened in is still standing in my city. Sometimes I go ride by it. It makes me cry but I feel like it's the only way to feel any type of emotion to it anymore and not be completely numb. Thank you guys for the encouraging words though❤️❤️Happy Holidays!!
Kat speaks for so many of us in our experiences as women. This is the hard reality of growing up female and wanting to be loved. You are lucky if you find it, but along the way, a lot of men will take advantage of your vulnerability and trust. Thank you, Kat, for having the strength to speak the truth. Please know that you are not to blame for other's lack of integrity or respect in their behavior towards you. Prayers for your continued healing.
She sounds like a really good mom, the way she protects her kids, hugs them when they’re in tantrum mode, and shows love instead of shame. After the traumatic experiences she's had, its admirable as hell that she’s giving her kids the warmth she grew up without,
She seems like such a sweet person that happened to be placed in a bad situation early. She was so vivid and detailed on the side of the country we don’t see. I hope life pours into her.
@@zakkyummms I think most people don't because they live there life's on a scheduled routine. They wake up watch the news drink there coffee go to work than come home make dinner than go to sleep only to do it all over again. They don't have time to open there eyes and question anything.its a sad brain washed world.
As a woman who was once a young girl. Everything this woman says is absolutely true. I was abused by 4 different men before the age of 12. And constantly tried to be picked up by grown men in middle school. I too have a hard time trusting mens intentions.
@@misharamage5529 I know. I'm a man... However, if I see a pretty woman, my actions aren't determined by my intentions... the only difference between acting and inaction is the necessary opportunity and motivation to act on the default/latent intentions... which were determined when evolutionary biology slammed the fuck lever to full steam ahead so hard it broke off. Fortunately, most men are of two minds. You should thank your heavens for the one up top, because the other one has no brakes.
Kat is a survivor and a warrior! Her story is like so many other young girls’. I’m so impressed by her sharing her story. I'm sure she is an incredible Mom. She broke the generational pattern and nearly died going through it. Parents and all humans owe it to our children by putting them first. They need love and guidance. They need to be protected and kept safe from predators! If people arent going to take care of their own, no one else will. Thank you Kat for your honesty! You’re story will in fact save many lives.
Kat seems like such a sweet person. She looks like an angel in her blue sweater. She’s already breaking the cycle of pain caused by her mother and the absence of a father’s love. I commend her on her business endeavors and wish her lots of love, acceptance, and healing 🦋
As a woman whose bio dad was absent this breaks my heart that she carried so much of her "daddy issues" well into adulthood and how badly it affected her as a child too. I can't empathize because I was raised by a loving, protective mother who taught me how to find & build my inner strength. Ladies, if our bio/step dads treat you like junk or are just absent, please don't let that diagnose your self-worth. We are not the problem. He is. I hope Kat enjoys her life and keeps being a great mom. I'm so proud of her for being polar opposite to her mom.
The feeling you were looking for was love. And sometimes, as hard as it is, we have to be the ones to love ourselves. Especially when no one else will. Sending you all the love today and forever.
The world does suck. I'm very sorry you had to live like this so damn young. 😔. I hope your future is brighter and you have found real love. Great video Mark
That’s why I have dogs, unconditional love, you will never get that anywhere else. Cry For Help By Struggle Jennings Amazing music video. People need to wake up now to many still sleeping
Children need to feel 3 things in their formative years, love, safety & belonging. She had neither but she’s providing that for her kids. She broke the cycle ✊🏻
i hope this girl is reading the comments and sees this. she should know how this video helps young women relate and feel comfort that she is not alone and she is helping others to not feel alone. it must have took a lot of courage for her to do this and i applaud her for this. thank you.
Kat.. .you are so so beautiful, inside and put. I am praying for your healing... and I am praying that you find peace and joy in your life. Thank you for sharing your story and raising awareness.
It's so sad and disheartening that she blames herself for "dressing provocatively" as a young teen. We all try to dress older when we're young, that's no excuse to take advantage of a child. She's such a strong, beautiful, and caring person and I truly hope her life is better now 😢💔
It is literally her fault . No body forced her to do anything she could’ve told someone or done something about it but didn’t say anything instead she lied to her parents and went out on her own. Know that things aren’t going her way she wants to blame everyone else I don’t feel sorry for her at her age I was already starting to work
I relate to her so much on an emotional level with her struggles with men and taking sexual attention from men as affection/genuine praise… it’s so difficult when you’ve been objectified since teen years and that’s all you know from men. Her self awareness is so amazing and I know that if she went to a therapist she could totally work through these issues and find good coping skills
What a strong, articulate survivor... must be so hard to sort out the good and bad after all she has been through. The world would be a better place if everyone listened to these stories with compassion and humility.
Edit to add - as another commenter pointed out, in cases of sexual crimes, IT IS NEVER THE CHILD’S FAULT!! They are CHILDREN! I just want to say for you and anyone else who needs to hear it - none of this was your fault. You were underage and taken advantage of by people who were over 18 and those people knew better. It breaks my heart to hear people say it was their fault for dressing a certain way or running away from home, or a thousand other things. The adults you encountered are to blame and they should have done better. Sending much love ❤
Yes but we must also all take responsibility for our action as somthing we could have done could have prevented it . Either that be educating and asking for help . Some times our egos are to blame.
initially it's not her fault. once she knows what the deal is and she continues to go back and run away that is 100 on her. even young ppl should know better. 100 years ago 12 year olds were running farms and helping deliver babies and raising livestock. we have coddled children for so many generations we have reduced them to entities that have no self responsibility and it is leading to terrible life choices like the ones she made after the first time she ran away. yes the ppl who took advantage are terrible but once you know that what is the excuse? she cannot for memories or use common sense?
@@misharamage5529 she kept going back because these guys give her stuff. she just started a onlyfans. she went in the bathtub for him to pee on her,then her mom bought her chicken fries. dont accept things from older creepy pieces of trash.i dont hear pain for about 90% of this video. she sends videos of custom content on onlyfans nd will do whatever ... nobody is making her. she says onlyfans boosted her confidence. she makes noooo sense
Mark, I have watched many of your interviews, but this is the first time I have had to shut off my computer and walk away before the interview was complete. I have two young daughters, and the fact that this beautiful young woman was subjected to such horror was beyond anything I can comprehend. The thought of a child being tormented, terrorized, abused, destroyed..... My heart broke. I know this young woman is not the first victim to fall prey to these monsters. And unfortunately, I know she will not be the last. I just hope people will watch this and simply say to themselves 'This could be my kid. What would I do if this was my kid?' We need to be more aware and we need to protect our children. Kat, you are so brave, so strong, so smart and so beautiful. You have lived a life no child deserves to live. And your speaking out may give the strength to some other little girl or boy to say something. This was NOT YOUR FAULT! And when those voices are in your head, saying horrible things to you, tell them to shut up and go to hell. Because you are light. You are amazing. You are a warrior. You are a survivor. And I am so grateful you were able to share your horrific story with the world.
Yes the big issue in this country is the Satanists and what they do to the children with their blood and then put the body parts in our fast food industry. And the good guys have been trying to stop them from putting the bodies in our grocery meats, that's why the Meat Processing plants were being blown up out west. Satanists will say they're not cannibals , because they actually aren't, but the blood drinkers are despicable. And they do tell you exactly what they're going to do. And they spite the parents by feeding their missing children right back to them if they are eating fast food . And the fact that they have found children's teeth and body parts in the fast food meats especially McDonald's and Burger king, which were created as a cover-up for the satanist, the same as planned parenthood . That's why our past president made going after the sex traffickers one of his biggest agendas but they never could speak about it because they don't want the masses to catch on that it's right under their nose. It all made sense as to why girls bodies were so different in the 90s than they were in the '80s..when I even worked at those places. The Elite/Deep State make subtle changes and sneak things in while they distract the masses from what's truly going on. It's nothing new. I can't imagine having children, let alone daughters. What they do, especially the satanists in government, like the clintons, like blindfolding and torturing the children and chasing them like foxes and skinning them so that they can drink their blood when they are in their most fearful state and full of adrenaline ... and for decades, all the children that were sex trafficked had the same stories in regards to the satanic rituals, and this was before internet even came out.. the videos and all the satanic references are right in front of our eyes, especially disney, which is what happens in the tunnels underneath, they distract you with prettiness above to avoid seeing what is beneath, you can find those videos all over Telegram, and UA-cam they're not hidden at all, they just know people don't want to see them so they won't look for them, so you can't say that those sickos are not being honest, because they actually are speaking the truth. They just count on people thinking that it sounds crazy, and that's how they've always gotten away with it
Wow, this is maybe my favorite Soft White Underbelly interview. Kat is so well-spoken and so strong yet so vulnerable in this interview. I can't imagine what she's gone through. I wish her all the best and hope she finds a great therapist or whatever she needs to help her process her traumas and continue to grow, as she clearly is! XVX, girl!
@@NoLineNoWait123AbC what?? are you purposely obtuse? she’s not saying that she liked anything the poor girl went through, just that she’s well-spoken and articulate- which makes for a good interview.
Kat, I don't know if you will ever read this, but I was super impressed by you. You love and protect your kids and want to heal from the atrocities that men put you through. You are special, and I wish I could give you a hug (if you wanted one). You are worth SO MUCH. -Just a Mom seeing another Mom
Thank you for watching & for your supportive comments. Emotional Support Co. is my 🛍️ and emotional support bae is my 👀 G
I hope you’re a lot more healed today than you were yesterday. You deserve nothing less in life than love.
You have a valuable life experience. Dedicate yourself to helping others who have been trafficked. Our suffering is not meaningless if we use it for good.
If u hear or get anything out of this please hear this: it was not your fault!! I do not care if you walked down the street naked..no one has a right to assault or touch you. Plus you were a child...you had no life experience at that age so there's no way to know this would happen. Stays strong sweets!
Girl I relate to your story so so much. Stay strong and keep your head up 💕
Hey gurl haaaay! I just wanted to send you all the love n all the light. I could feel ur hurt thru the screen n I could totally relate to having daddie issues n filling that void. I'm a 35+ yo single Mama n still learning how to trust my intuition n live in authenticity. Im in recovery and my counselor would always say "if you change the way you look at things, the things u look at change" You are a Goddess among Queens n thank you sooo muchie for sharing your story. May all the little things make you smile and may you and yours be infinitely blessed 💝🖖🏽🫶🏽👏🏽🙌🏽❤️🩹
This channel shows so much of what America is really all about. Destroyed families, kids abandoned to themselves, drugs etc. It's a true pandemic very few talk about.
Don’t forget the exploiting workers. Did ya know 30+% of America’s service industry workers are homeless and/or living in their cars while being fully employed and working? We’re also 1 of the only 3 countries in the world without Mandated Payed Maternity Leave…..
1. Suriname 🇸🇷
2. Papua New Guinea 🇵🇬
and 3. the United States of America 🇺🇸
This is NOT what America is really about.
@@trippin6118 true, but considering the economic super power that claims to be the data are devastating
If we want to fix 🇺🇸 we need to invest in kids ages 0-5. That’s the only way to fix a generation.
@@myeyeswentdeaf6213 Please give credible sources for your "facts". Also could you explain what FMLA is.
My mom and I met Ghislaine Maxwell at a mall where she was looking for “young models” to be trained as “socialites and actors.” The deal was that I would fly to New York and stay in a mansion while I was “training.” Top that off, the cost of this “once in a lifetime opportunity” was $2,500. It was a plan that was all set up and I was supposed to meet her at the airport that weekend and my mom would pay for it and I would fly off. I was 14. It was 1997.
About 10 minutes before we were to leave for the airport, my mom got “a bad feeling about this whole thing” and refused to let me go.
At 14 I was pissed at my mom and how unreasonable she was being. Looking back, if she hadn’t gotten that bad feeling, I’d have wondered why she was too blind to see how absurd the whole offer was.
jesus, you dodged one of the biggest bullets in history.
Thank God your Mom had the balls to say NO to you!!!
mother's intuition. it's a beautiful thing ❤
It's a miracle that this stuff was uncovered and there is help out here.
.... smells a little fishy, iyam
all of the adults in her life failed her severely. my heart breaks for her she deserved absolutely none of that no matter what anyone says. I pray she can find healing and peace.
I completely agree. For when she said "I don't know why I ran away, I felt so guilty for doing (x, y, & z). When in reality, she was a kid. A CHILD. Her mother did not provide that unconditional love a parent should give so she felt the yearn to seek the validation somewhere else. Us as little girls, as women, we are not wanting to be r-ped or sexualized. That was the only way she felt wanted, even though her gut told her this wasn't right. Now that she's a full adult, she realized she was groomed and taken advantaged of.
As her how she feels it's her fault, no. For instance, If I had appeared to be weak, am I asking to be murdered?
Because of the way I look (as an easy target for a killer, enticing for a power thrill), should any of the blame be on me? Sure, I can then act tougher, look like I have a place to be, but I should not take the blame of being slaughtered. Same as a r-pe crime, they're both crimes with a perpetrator. For existing in whatever shape or form, that does not give a man the entitlement to kill, or r-pe.
Amen, I am praying for her too 💝
Sound like she was just tryn to be fast and is making excuses for it. Why was she dressing like a slut at 13 and running away for no reason and sleeping with 40 year old men before 15?
Her choice. 100% hang with trash, it happens
@@kevinyountrevzupak8686 I sincerely hope you don't have children...never have children. A child is a child and are not capable of making appropriate choices. I imagine your heart is in there somewhere, but it sure isn't evident right now.
"Appreciate you listening." I just burst into tears when she said that. What a brave and beautiful woman. Well done, Lisa. Your clients are lucky to have you in their corner ❤️ thank you for sharing your story
Her Oh Ef clients?
her name is kat
Clients???
It’s heartbreaking to see that she blames herself for the wrongdoings of the adults around her. Not a single thing that happened to her was her fault. I wish her infinite healing and prosperity.
@@timsimmons9995 Were you personally rejected by Kat at some point so you are getting revenge by coming here and casting aspersions? INCEL
So she doesn't hold any responsibility or accountability for putting herself in those situations?
@@Oliver-Closeoff no because she was a child and the responsibility of safety was ALWAYS on the adult, she lacked critical thinking skills, and all sorts of skills that an adult would have in these situations
@@Oliver-Closeoff so nice of you to blame the victim. And a child at that.
@@Oliver-Closeoffa child? You’re blaming a child?
There are some sick men in this world... i strive to be the man who pulled up at the laundromat and took her home safely... what an angel
yes this!!!!Maika we love you!!!
@MAIKA Thank you! Thank you! It is very depressing knowing there are so many men that are so uncaring and dangerous. It is refreshing to know there are some men with a good heart!😀
sick women too...
You're a simp who wants to get paid and this is your "method"
@@marya3823 unlike the "hero" of women, some simp posting on yt
She ran away to find love. It’s so sad that people don’t realize how important being kind and loving towards your kids is so they feel protected and safe.
Her mother was evil. But the girl is smart. Just by saying 'my mum told me I could come' to the police - she broke free. It's just sad she feels guilty for 'ruining' her moms life. Something that her mother brought to herself anyway. She think of her mother not being able to forgive her, but what about herself... it breaks my heart.
What a devastating story. It's insane how horrible the world can be if you fall through the wrong cracks.
We have choices from the day we were born there are voices telling us right from wrong. We can't blame others for everything.
So she's not accepting responsibility for anything?
I had a mother who worked and slept,and a father who abandoned the family when I was ten.
Molested at 7 by a neighbor. I learned to not allow myself to be alone with men real fast, and not put myself in such situations.
She wasn't part of an Epstein trafficking. Those guys were small time TRAFFICKERS and not as evil as the well organized child eating, child pedophilia. She is too needy, and demanding of attention, which got her where she is.
@@sweetycamy Her mom was paying Bill's and crafting. Yeah, she was real evil.
Do you think this girl isnt responsible for any of her behaviors? How many times do you put yourself in a situation before you learn to stay home alone.
@@robinluich6626 Frankly it sounds like you're a bit in denial of what happened to you, and desperate to pretend that kids have control over how adults treat them. This woman was fucking ENSLAVED as a minor. Give her a fucking break-- and maybe give yourself a break.
What a story! I see myself in parts of your story. You are VALUABLE. You are not your past actions. There are a lot of groups of people to talk to with simular situations. You are smart and beautiful inside and out. Sending blessings and healing energy your way.
The biggest takeaway from all of these videos is that shitty parenting ruins lives, and there's a ton of shitty parenting going on.
For real. Praying does nothing. Actions do. Go figure🤷♀️
yup. Her father left her. Mother didn't care, so she ran away to fill the void. The problem is that feminism is pushing for it - destroying healthy families, encouraging mothers to become single. With a strong father figure the chances of this happening would've been much lower.
@@SuperRaikouz amen to that
It's getting worse by the day, and it's by design. It's part of how Globalists are ruining America and the freedoms we have.
Agree!!
Such massive respect to this woman for sharing her extremely difficult story. What an amazing person.
The best advice would be to stay away from black areas because there full of pedophile rapists
All of these years later and she still blames herself. When I hear her talk about "why" this happened and her mother's voice comes through her. "If I hadn't dressed provocatively they wouldn't have thought about me in that way." I say this with every ounce of respect and zero blame or judgment... they would have seen you anyway. You have absolutely NO fault in any of this. Put yourself in your daughter's shoes. Would you blame your 11, 12, 13 year old self and say that they should know better? I hope you find your self-forgiveness and realize you were only a child.
She should blame herself.. she admits in the first 20 mintues she walked voluntarily into each room she was kept in. Sounds like you don't pay attention to much. It's 100% her fault. It wasn't even human traffcking it was a typical drug - deal - pimp - whore deal. Move along with your emotions.. best to keep them for someone you actually know.
I hope she sees that now ❤️
@SPINNING MY WHEELS She was a CHILD! I suppose you blame all pedo victims for being alone with their violators? If they never wore that swimsuit to the pool the creep would never noticed them? There is a reason we call sexual assault survivors "victims" and lock up the disgusting p.o.s. criminals that violate them. I hope there is never a child unfortunate enough to rely on someone like you to keep them safe. You should take your own advice and keep your criticism for someone you actually know.
I once heard it said, the first task after childhood is to forgive yourself for what you may have done. (I would add forgive yourself for what someone tricked you into). Best wishes for you dear....Lord knows there are plenty of Avenues for you to help other young gals escape & recover from the horrors you have been thru.....I applaud you for speaking out on this disease of exploitation. You are a lovely young Woman who deserves nothing but, goodness and peace. Tee
So true. This has been going on forever. Women in the 1800’s were covered neck to ankle and STILL objectified.
Kat, your story is why i keep my young daughters so close to home. I am praying for you and wherever you are now, i hope you are finding all joy and peace and love ❤️ you deserve it. May joy and peace overflow in your life ❤❤❤
Mark,
Please make more of these sex traffic videos. The entire country needs to hear this. So many broken homes from sick married men who do this. I used to live in Toledo and I heard of telegraph road had a lot of prostitution. I was too young to understand it, but this is truly a sick thing that went on. And it still is happening till this day. Please don’t stop making this category of interviews. We need to see the true hero’s that survive this sick shit.
Amen.
how about sick women, sick mothers? My own mother is an absolute psychopath, and from my perspective it's more often than not the women who create broken homes by emotionally abusing and manipulating their husbands and partners and children beyond their breaking point.
@@duderinoification That's like the chicken before the egg argument. But yes, it does go both ways and the cycle needs to be broken, regardless.
@@1w598 It's not the chicken before the egg argument, I was molested by females growing up in Chicago as a child. It is just as prolific as men molesting females it is just not frowned upon as much but it is just as emotionally damaging as any of it.
i agree with you. these videos have opened my eyes. it is a common thing that happens. it is not 1 in a million chance. these people are everywhere.
This is a very, VERY strong woman. Praying for her healing... What a sick, scary, disgusting world.
She been killing it. I've been following her on Instagram for a year or so now. I had noooo idea this was her story though. She's so tough
Everyone in her life has let her down. The fact she has a need for friendships and feels she has to look pretty to get them is relatable though.
Disagree it's another blame everyone else.. ugh Americans are all mostly DEMONS UGH
@@shermymchurty1166what’s her ig?
No, not the whole world is sick, scary and disgusting. Just places like Detroit, Chicago, LA and the like are.
As a teen that didn't have a lot of supervision, it terrifies me how easily this could have been me. I've been in a lot of the situations she's describing and somehow escaped unscathed. I was such an idiot and thank God every day for somehow always giving me a way out. So many are not so fortunate. My heart aches for this girl. I could have been her.
She lived in a pretty rough city. I think where you live, makes a difference too. It takes a village to raise a child..
yep me too!!
@@JC111WPB yeah i lived in the worst neighborhoods on long island and queens. i really did...but luckily i think my autism saved me. i was so bookish, and it made me so terrified of people- ALL people- that i never looked at or talked to anyone dangerous. having a (tolerable) dad around helped save me as well.
@@JC111WPB it's almost like her mom expected her to KNOW what was out there down the block rather than TELLING HER and PROTECTING her. so bizarre!!! a lot of women want to kill their kids since they dont want to be mothers.
Me too. I felt lonely like her. Could have been me . Glad that angel helped her and drove her home . Feeling grateful .
This is the most introspective, honest and lucid guest I've seen on this channel so far.
She was a child who needed protection, and she was failed. I pray she can find the healing she needs. ❤️
so basically, stand to the side doing nothing? This is going to take action, not wishful thinking. I hope this country is ready to do something once it manages to rid itself from the running corruption
@@fritzhaselnuss7852OP said nothing wrong at all. Stop finding reasons to be upset. You jumped to all sorts of conclusions because you were triggered by the word “prayer.”
her mom was living in a surviving mode - paying rent, buying food, medicine and health, school and many more. in this city/country, all people like Kat and her family need protection and they will not get it, never. in the capitalist world, you need to pay for everything everywhere, you always will be surviving.
There is no healing. What’s done like this to someone cannot ever be healed.
She had protection but kept running away
I have never in my life wanted to give someone a hug so badly. This woman deserves the WORLD. To have been so utterly failed by so many people, and to be so strong to tell her truth. What an incredible person.
And call upon me in the day of trouble: I will deliver thee, and thou shalt glorify me. Psalm 50:15 ✝🌅
He keepeth back his soul from the pit, and his life from perishing by the sword. He is chastened also with pain upon his bed, and the multitude of his bones with strong pain: So that his life abhorreth bread, and his soul dainty meat. Job 33:18-20 ✝🌅
Kat, I too am from Downriver. I think I was one of your teachers at the alternative high school, and I seem to remember parts of your story. I taught creative writing and English classes. I think I knew your grandma. But even if I'm thinking of another Kat, I can say wow, you are such a strong, beautiful, and open person sharing your story to help so many people...and you have your own clothing line, congratulations! But most of all you seem to be a really good mom who is breaking the cycle...God bless you for that! I am praying for your healing...keep educating yourself because the resources are out there, even on youtube, and find a support group of other trauma survivors cuz we can't do it alone. You are an amazing woman and there is an important plan for your life, which no doubt involves you sharing your truth. You tell a compelling story with honesty and a kind of heartbreaking innocence despite your wisdom. You need to write; it will heal you. If this is the Kat I knew I am so proud of you! Hang in there and keep going. You are doing great. Be proud of who you are.
This is so amazing!!
You taught creative writing English class but you are using such words as “cuz”
Cooooool story not
Well, this was unnecessarily rude. First off, this is a comment section, not an essay. Second, consider how people probably talk in Downriver. Lastly, creative writing at an alternative school probably allows for authors to write how they speak.
@@11kmurder11 Get over yourself, loser! I was not writing to you in regards to your grammar and illiteracy. Don’t @ me.
To those who responded to my long comment...I most certainly never meant to be rude in any way, but perhaps I should've thought more carefully before commenting. I only wanted to tell her how much I respect her for the strong, smart person she is and to try to be supportive; hopefully that is how she took it. As for my "creative" spelling, I wasn't on the job while writing a comment on youtube, just being another regular person who was impacted by the video. Thanks.
Hi Kat.. just dropping in to say a year later that you are lovable, you are interesting, you are valuable, you are valued, you are worthy, and you are without a doubt deserving of love, belonging, and healthy relationships. You are remarkable. From one woman to another, I thank you for sharing your story, and I wish you so much peace and healing.
Kat your story is yet another reason why I'm trying to raise my son to be a good man with a good moral compass. My Dad was also sex trafficked as a young boy. He found his healing through therapy and helping others. He was an amazing Dad, just like you sound like an amazing mom. I could see you helping so many young women and girls.
You deserve all the unconditional love you were seeming to long for. Thank you for being willing to open up to us.
Self love should be learned. I had a biblical connection from a young age. It has helped me deal with the crap I went thru....knowing God is always on my side
made up for much of the damage done to me.
Wow!.....That's a crazy story.
You don't hear many stories of men being sex trafficked.
@@kennethwilliams8240 Those that "know" know there are many survivors in the Male community. Not all were trafficked,but, 1 in 7 boys. 1 in 4 girls. These are rather steady figures for decades of child abuse in US. UK has even more depravity....
@@kennethwilliams8240 Hello Boy Scouts, Hello Alter Boys....very common for males but people don't want to talk about it.
Good luck.
I’m a trafficking survivor, too, and I grew up around the same area. I was trafficked in Pontiac, MI, when I was 21. So proud of her for sharing her story ❤ Shedding light on things like this (because it doesn’t always happen the way movies or TV portray it) is hard but so important. Sending her so much love.
I also send you gentle hugs and spiritual healing. ❤❤❤
Had no idea Han…hope you’re doing well. It’s been too long. 💜
The fact I’m from a city close to you girls blows my mind that these things happened to you guys and I was just living life. It really opens your eyes up! I’m sorry that you guys slipped through the cracks, and I hope for the best for you❤
I'm just over the line in Ohio and I stated this before people dont understand that this area has one of the highest numbers for sex trafficking. Like we literally have had several instances of people keeping very young girls in basements around here and something needs to be done. It's ludicrous. LE spend more time locking people up for using drugs. Yes drugs are a problem but sex trafficking is a bigger problem in my eyes.
I'm the father of 2 teen girls and I'm so grateful for your story. Thank you
Keep them away from black men. Unless u know them really well.
As a woman it makes me very happy that you took the time to watch this video. You give me hope there are still real men in this world that would do anything for their daughters 💗
@@berando517 her father knew, she still won't acknowledge he wasn't wrong.
Thank you for sharing your story. This is so important to hear. I have never experienced anything like
this in my life, and it makes me appreciate how sheltered I have always been. Some people think they have it hard, but when you hear stories like this - you’re eternally grateful for the life you have. You’re a brave woman, thank you.
It’s so sickening to know that multiple married men probably with families & had daughters were doing this to 13 yr old girls..Kat u are definitely the epitome of strength. I’m so sorry u had to go thru so much starting at a young age. Your life story is helping other young girls & women to be open, brave & honest. You deserve to have peace & happiness. Much love ❤️ 🌹
There is so many married men going this. Also that are the brother-in-laws do this to you. You grow up n really don't know who you can talk to n it is a nightmare to live in. Going n getting the right help does do a lot of good. I know how she feels n how this mess you up.
😊😊😊😊
Yet you avoid mentioning the predator pimp
There's something up with men. And it's not OK. And it's not talked about enough in our society.
men are such selfish treacherous pieces of crap sometimes
I'm 27 and I have never been trafficked but I was hit on, asked out on dates, messaged on social media between the ages of 13-16 by more men my age now then I have ever been as a consenting adult. This brings major awareness. Sending hugs to this beautiful woman.
me too, even when I was 6, and 8 years old, I have clear memories of old men trying to follow me around, always starring, etc.I was hit on more than ever before between 14-16 as well. Im 30 now, and when I see kids that age I'm sickly disgusted that a man, or pedophile should I say, would find that attractive.
Same, totally agreed! Literally men are like buzzing bees around young pre teen to teen women
@@samuraikyokkan are you suggesting that it’s a little kid’s fault that pedophiles come after them? Because that’s straight up suss af.
"asked out, hit on, messaged on social media"...my god you have truly suffered
Are you an idiot or what? She didnt say that she suffered a lot, just pointing out that a lot of men are pedophiles, esencially...
I broke down and cried during this interview multiple times. Thank you for sharing your story ❤💔
This is truly the most down-to-earth, genuine woman you’ve had on here. She feels like an older sister for me. A mom. I’m so grateful for her sharing her story 🤍💕
Get interview
I agree... I wish her the best 💕
For her to have been through all the things she went through growing up in Detroit and to be around to talk about how she changed her life is amazing. Detroit is a rough place. I know she's seen a lot.
I'm a survivor of human trafficking and I know all to well what she goes through on a daily basis... Your a strong women honey and don't you ever let anyone tell you different... And don't let anyone put blame on you or ask you why you never ran... Because they will never understand
Keep your chin up! Don’t let your crown tilt queen!
Yup!! I was kidnapped when I was 18 and almost ended up in Mexico
*you’re
Im so sorry to you all 😢 may Jesus Christ heal and comfort you ❤
I am a fellow human trafficking survivor and the constant struggle of just trying to be you after all of it . The guilt, the shame the burden the scars sometimes I look in the mirror and get so sad . But then I remember these people chose to abuse and pimp me out when I just wanted to go home. I just wanted to talk to my mom .instead I'm being forced to do that for days can't even get a glass of water . I look back now and I'm proud of myself I still struggle with the shame . But now i respect myself and my emotions and i let them flow 💯 I wish I could sir down and talk to her 😔
Wow! This was intense. Your mom and dad both let you down. I'm going to hug my kids a little extra tomorrow. Thanks for sharing Kat!
Kat, you were severely under protected as a child. Your parents are guilty of gross negligence. And by not engaging with you after school that instilled a sense that you lacked in value in their eyes. Now, that you’re rebuilding your life, you also need to build your confidence, self-esteem and I think you’re doing great! Every small victory is to be celebrated! Every task completed builds self esteem! For different reasons I was also under protected and not taught to value myself. I’m 58 now and after 10 years of therapy I’m a confident person. I know I do good work and my relationships are solid and supportive. I’m so sorry all this unbelievably horrid stuff happened to you! Big hugs and strength! ♥️♥️♥️
My heart feels for her. I want to give her a hug and tell her how strong and beautiful she is. She survived and pray she gets a wonderful life surrounded by loving people and a family of her own. ❤
I am so sorry you are one strong capable woman God is with you always you have survived for a reason God has a plan
If she were black, you would be up in arms about racism
Same, she’s so brave 💕
Choices!
@@jonspengler5891 I fully agree… So weird there’s not one comment
It’s astonishing and SICKENING to hear about How Many people are out there - that are CHILD PREDATORS - and people/families - THE LAW - that turn a blind eye! This has me in tears, it breaks my Heart but I’m so glad to hear that Kat is doing HER BEST and WORKING HARD- keeping her children safe, and making a better life for her family.
And it’s not drag queens. Imagine that.
@@justanotherrichkid1053 🧐
I’m dead inside, I’m not a good person, but my heart shatters with young girls stories like this. Men like this deserve the final moment of their life immediately. No trial, nothing. Go away
HAHAHA
@@nikaluss5946praying for you 🙏🏾
“teenage girls are either overlooked or over sexualized” WOW. that gave me chills.
You have a lot to say, and thank you for saying it! i'm wishing you peace, self-forgiveness, and nothing but prosperity for your family. It was never your fault, say it again and again until it sticks ❤️
protect her 🙏🏽 cause she dropping names !! i pray for her healing , people can b so sick
Jesus that is one of two stories on here that has actually blown my mind. What an incredible woman to have gone through all of this and to still be able to get up in the morning and smile.
What an incredible women to go through all of this "sexualization" and she sexualizes herself on Only Fans haha this is what is wrong with western society. So sad.
You deserve healing. I hope that you find the perfect therapist if you’re ever interested in doing trauma healing. You hold absolutely ZERO responsibility for what happened to you, even down to the running away part. Every one of your choices makes perfect sense. You made choices to survive and you should be proud of how strong you were - not just now as a woman, but also as teenage and child Kat. You are also a wonderful mom and your children are blessed by you.
She tells the story as if she’s proud of it. She wanted the black treatment and she got it. Happens to millions of white woman it’s hilarious! Don’t feel sorry for her for one minute she chose to be pumped. White woman are pretty much groomed for this. She is giggling about being sprayed by piss. If a white man did that to a black girl it would be national news.
Stop excusing this slut behavior. She IS responsibile for her choices and even if she was a victim, she has ONLYFANS now which means nothing changed. Still the same but showing her azz on the internet. Thats it. Stop treating them like they are innocents, they know exactly what they are doing. She deserves all of it.
Just to add some clarity to my comment. The reason why Kat had zero responsibility for what happened to her is that she was a CHILD. She was not a woman. Her brain was not developed enough to be able to make fully informed decisions about having sex with adult men. She was completely victimized by those men. Also the choices that she made were out of survival. When you are traumatized your pre-frontal cortex in your brain goes off-line and you make survival choices, not logical choices. The running away was her brain seeking safety from her home that was full of neglect. As for her choices now as an adult, I find it remarkable that she has chosen to redeem her ability to make choices about how she uses her body. She uses creativity and has control, something she had no choice when she was a young girl.
This is so kind and wholesome. I pray she is happy, healthy, and thriving.
her mom seriously failed.
You think it's just the part where she was held for a few months and sex trafficked... but then she mentions the mover guy and his friend, and being held hostage in the car, but then also the slumber parties, and then her aunt's ex husband, and then the guy in the hotel room. It keeps going on and on. It was not one incident, all throughout her life she was taken advantage of and abused.
Very sad. As a teen I spent most time at home which I didn’t like. When I hear stories like this I’m just glad I was a home person…
Also once it happens a couple times it's like you have a target on your back forever. Predators can smell the fear and they know once they try something you'll just freeze up and let them do what they want.
dont forget the part where she called the 30 year old man cute and inititiated that relationship at 16,then 5 mins later says ''i was like probably,i think 13'' she shouldnt be trying to jaz up a interview like this. I can tell Mark was on the fence about weithe she should be there or not. there are girls out there tht have been through this shit that were FORCED to .. they didnt run away from home to a guys house they think is cute and accept gifts.
@@tiedjai9774 A rather Bold and insensitive statement~ you need to look into trauma!!! Educate yourself and grow a heart ❤
there was the Lincoln guy though, god bless that dude.
That was a great interview. Mark gave her the space to just be herself, and tell her story her way.
She was failed in so many ways by so many people, but still has courage to speak of all of this and try to make sense of it all. She sounds like an incredible mother, and I only wish good things for her and her children. Stay strong, Kat, you deserve a good long fulfilling life. ♥
Death Penalty for pedophiles and child trafficking.
100%
I AGREE WITH YOU 100%
There is a former police officer in England trying to get help for a sexually abused baby under 2 years old from all 'authorities' who claim they are there to protect. He is stonewalled everywhere - put this search in youtube Prt 4 - Concern for Child - Call to NSPCC 15/04/24 - International G'nmt Fraud & Child Trafficking
lol like the guy Kat is now dating 😂😂 she’s so not bright
@@VG-qu3vbkat is not stupid. . she is just very messed up. Can't really get good men when she s kinda wired as she is. She has serious 'daddy ' issues. She seems to never have had a decent guy in her life at all; just abusers and addicts and pimps and god knows what.
How is she supposed to relate to any kind of a 'good' of man.
I was lying on the sofa listening to some relaxing music to try and calm my mind. And, my head started racing and I thought, I need to watch/listen to something inspirational and knew I had to watch an episode of SWU. I hope what I’m about to say is encouraging in some way. I’m 75. I am an ASCA-Adult Survivor of Child Abuse. I did about everything imaginable to heal myself. Life is a never ending process. One of my biggest downfalls was that of being in "fix me” mode all the time and I was always in a hurry to get there. I hope you can be patient with yourself and love yourself along the way. I am in no way implying that this is a simple task. Your strength, bravery and emotionality tells me you’re off to a wonderful start in the healing process. ❤️ ❤️ ❤️☮️☮️☮️
thank you for sharing your story!!! all the best for you and your life ❤️❤️🤗
your comment helps me. I am feeling lousy today. I was sexually abused too and I hate my body for it, Im even scared of grass or normal objects that are a part of this world as though they will abuse me,
You never get over this
SO SO SO SHOCKING --- I AM STILL IN SHOCK AND TO THINK TRUMP RAPED A 13 YEAR OLD - - - SHOCKED
I was also abused as kid from age 4-6 . Mostly physically and some minor sexual abuse . It was a babysitter I had loving parents but was coerced into not telling them . That feeling of showing up afraid every day was horrible. It’s something that has changed me and I know my abuse was not as nearly horrid as some kids …. Protect the kids always
This woman is so incredibly self aware. She’s also intelligent, beautiful and so many other great qualities. It’s a damn shame that so many adults failed her as a child as it could have changed her trajectory in big ways. Being as smart and savvy and introspective as she is she could have soared in whatever interested her.
Lastly, please please don’t blame yourself for anything that happened to you as a child. It’s not your fault, it’s not because you dressed provocatively- it’s because you didn’t have proper adults in your life to make sure you didn’t dress that way. It’s a parents job to see around corners and stay keyed in to your child’s activities. Your parents should have pulled you in at this point and changed your path. It’s our job as parents. And good god its not even your fault for running away. Your parents should have grabbed you and figured out what was driving you to run and gotten you the help you needed. This isn’t on you. You don’t have the tools as a 15 year old to navigate why you do what you do. It fucking pisses me off that people have kids only to ruin them by giving up. As a mom of three I would have never have allowed them to run and live anywhere but my home. The first time would be their last. I loved my kids through it and they are now thriving adults all living healthy, stable lives. It would have been my fault if they were anything but. I was born and raised in Long Beach, albeit, an upper class suburb, but no matter where you are in Long Beach you’re only blocks away from from trouble.
When I first saw her face before I saw the tattoos (not that I'm against tattoos) on her legs and hands I thought she looks like maybe a schoolteacher. Horrifying the way bad adults actually shape (in a bad way) the life of someone starting at a young age into adulthood, pretty much putting that person on a trajectory of pain and suffering most likely for life.
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Peace of SHIT to piss on you. I’m so angry
God bless you and your mom
It’s a evil world we live in.
She is completely oblivious and far from being intelligent, maybe that’s why you can relate.
This is so incredibly moving. I hope you are finding healing. Seems like you are on the right path. Holding my daughter tight.
This opened my eyes for my daughters "i wanted someone to want to know me and boys wanted to know me" i will for sure, step my game up with letting my girls know i want to know them and spend all the time i can with them in a healthy way, thank you, your story is an insperation to lots of girls out there! I hope youre doing well and getting the help you need x
Hug your kids man hug your kids a lot
I’m not a parent, but I had crappy ones and the best (unsolicited) advice I could give a parent would be to make sure you’re their protector. Do that while they’re little and when they’re older they’ll still come to you for protection and guidance, they won’t turn to the rest of the world for it.
I have three daughters and this story was wonderful for me to hear too. Especially when my mother and I never connected on a deeper level like her.
Kat, thanks my internet sister. At the end of your interview when you said whenever your child has a meltdown or tantrum you , "just bring them in", it touched me so deep! You are so brave and so very innocent of any crimes that were perpetrated upon you, please learn this fact and understand it. Sending love,
Kelly
I needed to hear that part too...❤❤️🩹
"I just wanted someone to WANT to be around me".... girl, that hit home for me so bad. I have never thought about it like that but as a 32 yr old woman, I think you just summed up exactly what I have been looking for my entire life. Thank you for this interview. I could relate to you a lot and I think your video and words will be very impactful to others who watch this. Thank you :)
Hit me right in the heart too… ❤️🩹
This is so true for me…I remember at 13, sitting at a lake we were visiting with the wife of my father’s co-worker…she asked me questions about how I thought and felt about school and friends and just basically took a genuine interest in me. She suggested I paint the inside of the narrow silver cuff I had on with clear nail polish so my arm wouldn’t turn green. No one at home ever gave me this kind of time or consideration. I felt so special and I wondered if there were other people like her and felt I had been given an amazing gift. That was nearly 50 years ago.
Yes, exactly what you said. I was hanging on her every word really, but those words hit home hard. 💕
Jesus wants to be around you 🙏
I related so hard.
This interview is fantastic. I can't imagine the strength it took to complete this video. Although the description of her childhood and how things happened is heartbreaking and eye-opening, the most shocking part is that she keeps blaming herself for everything that happened. She was a child. None of this was her fault. She should have been kept safe. If she, by chance, reads the comments, thank you so much for sharing your story, and NONE of what happened to you was your fault or because of anything you did or did not do.
I've never been blessed with children bc of sexual abuse that started at age 3,
I wish I could take this woman as my daughter & show her how strong she is.
I'm so sorry every adult in her life failed her ,may God keep her
It makes me so sad to hear herself blame herself and they call it sex work, but it is not. It is child trafficking. Those pigs r*ped u and let others do so. It was not your fault, and I wish u had someone in your life to help u heal. Reach out to a trauma therapist. u should have an open space where u speak. They're different than average bs ones. Ive heard all good things about them. It breaks my heart to hear how your mom went looking after her family snapped at her, and the aunt to blame u that her daughter got pregnant. Are u freaking kidding me?
Rain I am so sorry that you went through that. I’m praying that you are able to be a mother to a child in need.
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Exactly! This was NOT sex work. This is child trafficking. How can so many adults let that happen to a little child :( @@nyxs_jelly9787
@@nyxs_jelly9787 I agree that it's not right to call it sex work when it's with minors who were literally kidnapped.
She carries all this guilt, its terrible. This untrue guilt. As if all of it is her fault and even worrying about her moms reputation or feeling guilty for “putting her mom through” all of what SHE went through. She wasn’t paid attention nor boosted mentally to encourage confidence or self love. I wish I could help women like this every day. You’re amazing, Kat. The fact that you’re still pushing forward is admirable.
It is empowering to take responsibility for your own actions. It’s the best thing you can do to avoid further disasters. I’m glad she acknowledges her mistakes and doesn’t just feel entirely like a victim.
This is absolutely awful. She’s still so vulnerable. I hope she finds some peace and happiness.
she's very stupid.
also, like some of the like stories like might not be like true.
Why would you be like that? People tend to speak from an emotional maturity level. Have some compassion! If you don’t believe her, just move on and go about your day. If this is true, it’s devastating and our society is F$$&&& up!
This shit happens every day. This girl isn’t lying.
This happens more than you know, to call someone a lier about something horrific needs a kick up the arse and a wake call!! How your life must be so great that you haven't had something bad happen to you !! Have some compassion for god's sake!!
I don't cry super often watching these, but this one got me. Beautiful girl
This is heartbreaking. How can people be such monsters. Kat, your a very brave woman and your story will help a lot of other girls. I wish you the best in your journey of healing.
Ppl can becz we are human beings, not animals bound and steered by instinct. We were created with the thinking capacity, conscience, a spirit and an individual I, and the only being givn the capacity of free will. These are great but not easy to handle, and we have to confront our shadow side accept and integrate it to become true and better. Also seeking God and Christ is the path to healing and towards doing good in harmony and sound thinking, feeling and acting. Most ppl don't do he journey don't listen or understand, and often don't get adult examples and lessons. And one has to want it, because we have the free will to do unhappy bad or what is right and good.Harmed ppl harm others.
@@Medietos amen
@@Medietos animals kill for fun too we are animals we arent unique
@@Medietos yeah what are you on about every single day we find out animals around us are more and more similar to us. Also everyday we are finding out they are way smarter than we ever previously thought. Animals are very close to us, very similar, we are the same
@@cursedfox4942 amen to you brother what is this delusional lady going on about
It sounds like Kat needs and wants unconditional love. I hope the world is kind enough to you so you can find it. Everyone deserves to feel loved
All human beings need and want unconditional love
And she was expecting to find that in the Detroit hood and drag her family into that mess. She needs to learn that love IS conditional.
Yes. She so deserves to receive the love she gives. Do unto others and treat others how you want to be treated can be hard in today's culture...or any rather.
@@sgrfpprmnt My thoughts exactly. A victim yes.. of her own choices.
Your comment is one of the most beautiful I have ever read on the Internet. I think, if nothing else. your comment is an outpouring of unconditional love for her. Feel our love and support for you and fury at what those men did to you, Kat. You have an army behind you.
We need more stories like this. It’s a huge deal that goes unnoticed!
A lot of the sex work she did was consensual. “Human trafficking” is a stretch.
@@JohnSmith-jz4pk She was a minor she can't consent are you kidding me?
@@JohnSmith-jz4pk are you insane? literally every story she told after her ex was rape. fu** off
W consents to s3x, it's all the M's fault. Riiiiiigggghhhhhhht.
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Kat thank you for sharing your story. You deserve unconditional love. I am sorry you had to go through this horrendous part of your life. I hope you are able to get counseling to help you work through all the damage that was caused by not having adults in your life that kept you safe and secure. You are strong woman for speaking your truth and I hope you are able to have a happy life.
It is so sad that she blames herself (the reaction from her mother when she told her about this didn't help, when she was blaming her little girl.) It doesn't matter how she was dressing, what happened to her was not her fault.
I just feel so bad for her and I just wanna hug her. She looks like such a kind soul.
It is also really understandable that she was always running away.
So true 💔
I agree totally
The mother HAD to blame Kat. Otherwise she would have been forced to accept blame on herself for not being there for her daughter. And Lord knows she wouldn’t do that.
@@febutterfly8021 - Exactly! My stepdaughter started "dating" a 16 year old boy when she was 12. They started having sex as soon as she turned 13. Her mother let him come around, knowing they were doing stuff like that. She also gave her daughter her first joint, her first alcohol and cigarettes to smoke, all at 12 years old. My stepdaughter was living with her father and me at the time. We didn't know anything about the other stuff because when she was with us she was a straight A student and we never really had much trouble with her, just normal teenaged stuff from time to time. She's 20 years old now. About 2 years ago she asked her mother why she let her date that boy and do stuff with him and why'd she let her smoke, etc. Her mom told her that she knew she was interested in it and would have done it anyway. Her mother actually said "You would have done it anyway and then what would I have done?" and got upset when her daughter said, "Stopped me, like a normal parent!"
The real reason her mother let her do all that stuff and did it with her, was her mom has always wanted to be the favorite parent and "the cool mom". Her mother had lost custody of her several months before letting her daughter drink, smoke, etc because of various abuses and still to this day, refuses to admit that she's done anything wrong, in any of those circumstances. Trying to be the favorite parent has actually had the opposite effect because they have a very strained relationship now and don't really speak.
The audacity of her mother .. She should’ve been begging her daughter for forgiveness for never guiding her, loving her, & for not being present .. This would’ve been avoided if she would’ve been at home more often . 😮
I’m a man who doesn’t do these things. I’d like to think the majority of men don’t. But it seems like a lot..lot..of men do? And how do they live with themselves? She’s a beautiful person to have withstood this and still not lost her light inside.
Wow, I have only met men who mainly want to have sex and abandon the female when they are done with us. So I stopped dating because I couldn't handle the modern day prostitution version of dating. No. It is about 90% of men that are like this. Still hoping to find just 10% to show me the good side
@@sambistabeauty I have been thinking about this. And it occurred to me that what stops me is I feel empathy. I couldn’t hurt someone else for my own benefit. You could be right. I think 9/10 men might have it inside them to be absolute trash. I hope you find a good one! I know theyre out there. And soon, there will be two more good men, as I’m raising two boys right now.
Spend less time defending men and more time demanding accountability. LOTS of men do this. LOTS of men know men who do this and do NOTHING.
@@ashleymcquade5848 exactly oml
What are you even talking about
Hey Kat, I’m cailey and I am too a survivor of sex trafficking, just wanted to comment here and say i resonate with this so much, and say how strong and resilient you are✨❤️❤️❤️ you deserve so much love and peace❤️✨ praying for you
I'm so sorry you ensured that, Cailey! It was never your fault. It was never your fault! Ever. You always deserved better, and still do.
Kat you are so beautiful inside and out, thank you for your openness and vulnerability. You deserve so much love. I hope you find someone that can hold your heart in a way that makes you feel so safe and loved. Thank you for sharing your story with us.
I don't think I've ever wanted to give someone a hug this much. I really hope she finds true happiness one day.
"I had a boom box, I had a TV, like we had cute dogs. I don't know why"... sweetheart those aren't things that make a safe, healthy, loving, childhood. You needed and deserved so much more! Everyone in this life needs love, to feel safe and wanted and needed and important and valued... you needed that just like all of us. THAT'S why you ran away. I pray you find that someday because youre absolutely amazing and inspiring. I wish you all the best!
She had 3 sets of parents, and lots of teachers, who tried. What more can a kid deserve??? She said she needed to run away, and this is what she got. REPEATEDLY after adults rescued her.
it's in their nature, you can warn them repeatedly about the big bad wolf but the more you do the more they desire to venture into the forest@@timsimmons9995
@@timsimmons9995Yeah that 13 year old girl really deserved to be pimped out for months cause she voluntarily ran away, do you hear yourself talk? You’re a disgusting bastard Tim, you clearly didn’t listen to her story whatsoever. Non of her parental figures kept her away from these situations with older men they literally promoted it. I pray you don’t have children, especially after reading that stupid fucking comment you made.
@@timsimmons9995 adults did not really rescue her. They failed her time and again. No one bothered to try and dig a little deeper.
@@timsimmons9995uh no. Lmao
Thank you, Kat, for your story. Sexual trauma does so much harm to a child development. It doesn't matter whether you dressed provocatively you never deserved what they did to you. I hope one day you recognize how important and strong you are. You are your children's strength and support always. Trusting your gut is the instinct that is always worth listening to.
Yea these poor empowered independent women are over sexualized then they go on Only Fans hahaha
“Human trafficking” ? She choose to do this.
@@JohnSmith-jz4pk you clearly didnt watch this video you should watch ya fat american mouth she was held captive he knew where she lived and all he could have just showed up anywhere anytime after she left and just killed her
@@JohnSmith-jz4pkyou can’t consent as a minor- it’s human trafficking
I wish I could tell her how much I appreciate her sharing her story. Such a beautiful person
All I can say is wow………Im lost for words. My goal in life, as a 49 year old dad to a 9 year old daughter, is to love my baby girl deeply, ingrain good morals and values and always be there for her no matter what. Hopefully I can get her raised right in this crazy world and make sure nothing like this ever happens to her before I die.
Yesterday, I heard someone reference a line that Dr Drew would say regularly to people who called into his 90’s radio show, Love Line, and were in a situation similar to yours, seeking some advice. It was something about, if you’re having concerns of how to protect one of your kids, family members, friends, loved ones from risky behavior, alcohol & drug abuse, being mislead by their friends, succumbing to peer pressure, teenage pregnancy, etc, then your heart is in the right place. They are normal thoughts, and that person is lucky to have you in their life. Keep doing what you’re doing with your 9yr old daughter, ingraining the good morals & values that build character in a young person, in hopes of them making good decisions as they get older, especially when you’re not around. Hopefully, they’ll do the same with the people in their lives. Sadly, like this brave young woman, she didn’t have anyone in her life looking out for her, and the type of world she grew up in has left her trying to pick up the broken pieces of her soul to try to live a somewhat normal life. Her story is heartbreaking, and like others have commented, more attention needs to be given to this type of story. Some call Mark’s work exploitative, and shame him for profiting from their horrible stories. They don’t get what he’s doing. This interview is a perfect example of why he does his work. He gives a platform for people to share their stories, and raise awareness to help others come forward. We can’t fix the problems, if we don’t know what they are. I wish you well.
Yes you can love and protect your daughter and hopefully she won’t encounter any of these disgusting men. It seems so commonplace, these guys are married, ordinary looking, even doctors, business men, princes?I sometimes I think is this a secret side to all men that they just keep well hidden ? It’s beyond comprehension
Just be careful not to smother her. That can cause a worse outcome. Happened to me. I was never allowed to experience anything so when access came to things I went ape shit
@@jb-uw2vt I did, too. It caused estrangement from my father, and I became very rebellious. I ran right towards self-destruction. Fathers need emotional intelligence to be able to establish trust with their daughters, instead of creating an atmosphere of harsh antagonism and punishment that just drives them away and right into the next abusive relationship.
I think even having those goals on your radar puts you 90% ahead of the people mark interviews. Imagine how the world would be different if parents were present and loved their children in a healthy way ❤️
Bless her. She still whispers when she says she had sex. My heart is broken for her. Nothing you wore prompted your abuse. This is not your fault. NONE OF IT
she..was raped...by an adult man..this sounds a form of torture, no less, to me
i would never ever blame a child for their rapist doing that, and i would never solely blame an adult for their rapist taking advantage of them. however, an adult woman should be smart enough to not wear certain clothes in the hood. it’s not because they’re “asking” for it, it’s simply because this is a cruel world and everyone knows it. you just gotta be smarter than that. i’m not saying it’s the woman’s fault ever, this isn’t victim blaming at all. i’m just saying that in a lot of causes, preventative measures should’ve been taken from the women’s side. i feel like telling women they can wear whatever wherever isn’t healthy because the reality is, you have sick twisted men who take advantage of those same women based off their clothing and if they’re in a bad area where nobody will help.
@@biz6361she was a child when she “wore provocative” clothing
@@tbrogannow123 being a teenager doesn’t make you helpless or stupid, it doesn’t change the point i was making. teenagers have the ability to take preventative measures, if they couldn’t reason similar to an adult in certain scenarios we wouldn’t allow teenagers to get their driving license.
@@biz6361 bro. Look how she was raised. She didn’t know better
Her story is so similar to mine. Outwardly racist dad, divorced parents, mom was always too busy for us and was never home, used from a young age for sex by men. I ended up running away by joining the military and it really helped me find myself and pay for school. I ended up finding love with a man that is unlike every man I encountered. He’s loving, patient, trustworthy, compassionate, and has been there for me through some of the hardest growing pains. I’m a lucky human who had a rough start. Don’t give up on yourself. Never back down. Your past doesn’t define you, you own it and make it what you will.
Sounds like her dad was right
@@jackmack276 LMAO true
@@jackmack276 Definitely not. Did you miss the part about the people who were her “clients”?
@@jackmack276 Because you’re racist you Cuck
@@jackmack276 😂
Praying for your continued healing and recovery. Nothing but heart and compassion.
I hope she knows how incredible she is for being as together as she is given what she has been through. She's very intelligent, introspective, and sincere. Biggest wish I have for her is that she gives herself grace - she's a beautiful human being who has had to endure not receiving a lot of fundamental needs we all have as humans, not to mention all the horrific things others have done to her. Hard to rewire the impact of those experiences though. Prayers and healing energy her way.
The most captivating interview I've seen so far on this channel. She has such an authentic personality. I really enjoyed listening to her and felt a great deal of empathy for her traumas.
An authentic hoe.. she literally caused all he rows issues by acting like a slut. Sorry but not sorry. It's just sad.
tears were definitely triggered. I relate to the feeling she described of thinking, "who isn't like this? Who doesn't look at girls like this?" SO sorry you had to go through that. You're amazing & I hope you know that. Sending all my love.
Gg
that part broke me
Seriously. This just made me feel like men really are truly disgusting. 😢
God bless this woman. She is the same age as me and I’m astounded at all she’s been through. Praying for her!
This girl comes across so genuine, sensible and down to earth. It’s amazing she’s come out the way she has after what she went through. Good for her ❤
I think she seems like a idiot - The best advice would be to stay away from black areas because there full of pedophile rapists
@@eoinmcg88 first of all that’s not true, second of all she was a child. She’s had years to go over the mistakes she made and I’m sure given the chance she would do things differently now.
@@chloe4301 Hmmm i dont think so, she seems to keep going back around African pedophiles, after being raped and pimped by multiple black men - she married a black pedophile
She is one of the most intelligent, insightful people you've interviewed. She seems like someone you'd meet in college - someone you'd never expect to get caught up in this. My heart goes out to her.
This video is heartbreaking but needs to be brought to light. Thank you for bravely telling your story
Heartbreaking 💔
i think her Only Fans needs to be brought to light.
@@jasonolinger7585 it actually doesn’t. She shut it down. Too many jerks.
I hope her trafficker is rotting in prison
I love how protective she seems with her children. Smart in that respect. Seems like a good mom.
Terrifying ... all these men looking completely normal, or at least to a child. The mover, the visitors, the doctor. Obliterates any trust in anything and anyone. She shares these horrors nonchalantly :( I haven't experienced sexual assault but I can't imagine a trespass more extreme and reducing. For that to be your baseline from such a young age... so so wrong.
This is what happens when someone puts me first her mom was thinking it is all about me
I don't think she's being nonchalant. She's just telling the truth and there is no nice way to explain that abuse.
You watch too many movies if you think predators and or scumbags dress like scrumbags smh. Do the research, businessmen are the biggest shit eaters.
It's not just from a child's perspective. I have seen first hand the same completely normal looking men, doctors, engineer's, tech, executives, police, ect who lead these double lives and they're usually married with children. This was as an adult. These guys are everywhere and the least suspecting. It's so widespread I wish this type of trafficking was talked about more.
Maybe it's suppressed bc it is so wide spread and it is your average looking successful man perpetrating and its in their best interest to keep it hush.
Epsteins Island. Funny how quiet the “media” is on this. That VIP client list that grease politicians and include politicians also. It’s vile that no one on the list has been arrested.
Her feelings resonated with me 😢 abused, molested repeatedly, dating older men.... just wanting to be loved for you. This has to end. Human trafficking is widespread amongst men in power positions. Ill tell you one thing!! She is going to raise her daughters well knowing what to look out for. I DO NOT PLAY ABOUT MINE! 💯💯💯💯 You are beautiful, worthy and strong my sister ❤️
Absolutely agree! I've been mol3sted at 13 by a man I considered an uncle, I've been r@ped many times, in DV relationships where I was knocked out & my teeth kicked out of my face 4 not having s3x wit & serving his friends beer nude! I then got in a 8yr relationship with another abusive man who was more emotionally & financially abusive but got physical at times I was told often that I have 2 much baggage for anyone to really love me or stay with me & I have 4 kids 2 are adults I had at 16 & 18 then 2 are 7& 8 so it's hard 2 even begin finding a relationship nevermind a genuine one! I now have my own YT channel (not this one but a Voice 4 the voiceless S.W.O.S) I'm working on it for survivors of mol3station, S/A trauma & addiction recovery healing a place for survivors to share their stories & I've had a few on there men & women but I also help catch p3dophiles who prey on our kids online & so I just wanna break the cycle raise awareness 2 this rarely spoken on yet never ending issue! I'm praying for all survivors that you get the healing you deserve & find the voices we have had taken from us when they took our innocence- we gotta fight back & take a stand 2 protect our children!
Your blaming M for the guys YOU CHOSE to be with. Accountability mam, learn some for yourself. The majority of M aren't treating W like this, it's the M YOU are attracted to and chase that treat you like that.
The daughters will end up doing the opposite of whatever she tells them, just like she did the exact opposite of what her dad told her
A lot of men are flippin nasty dirty effers
@@user-ek5nl1jc4b well those MEN need to take accountability for being manipulative, low life, pieces of sh*t. Maybe then we wouldnt have anything to worry about, now would we?
This reminds me sooo much of my own experience. Some words I have always been terrified to utter out loud. Just being ashamed. I broke down when the stranger helped her get away. One male stranger made the difference for me as well. I hope she's doing great things in life now❤️❤️
I’m so you went through that. I hope you are doing better now and have the help you need to process everything
i hope u doing well babe girl
I haven't gotten the help I need. But I have been put in situations with girls a little younger than me, seeing them possibly going down the same path. I've been able to speak with one or two of them and just share my experience and the reality of what could happen. The house it happened in is still standing in my city. Sometimes I go ride by it. It makes me cry but I feel like it's the only way to feel any type of emotion to it anymore and not be completely numb. Thank you guys for the encouraging words though❤️❤️Happy Holidays!!
Kat speaks for so many of us in our experiences as women. This is the hard reality of growing up female and wanting to be loved. You are lucky if you find it, but along the way, a lot of men will take advantage of your vulnerability and trust. Thank you, Kat, for having the strength to speak the truth. Please know that you are not to blame for other's lack of integrity or respect in their behavior towards you. Prayers for your continued healing.
She sounds like a really good mom, the way she protects her kids, hugs them when they’re in tantrum mode, and shows love instead of shame. After the traumatic experiences she's had, its admirable as hell that she’s giving her kids the warmth she grew up without,
She seems like such a sweet person that happened to be placed in a bad situation early. She was so vivid and detailed on the side of the country we don’t see. I hope life pours into her.
Same. Cried for her
Side of the country YOU don't see. Plenty others do.
@@zakkyummms I think most people don't because they live there life's on a scheduled routine. They wake up watch the news drink there coffee go to work than come home make dinner than go to sleep only to do it all over again. They don't have time to open there eyes and question anything.its a sad brain washed world.
Beautifully said Lontay ❤️
Her story made me sick & sad. I want to hug her. I am SO sad she went through that. No one should go through that.
28:40 I bet the cops were in on it. That's the worst part about it. People who are made to deal with it don't
As a woman who was once a young girl. Everything this woman says is absolutely true. I was abused by 4 different men before the age of 12. And constantly tried to be picked up by grown men in middle school. I too have a hard time trusting mens intentions.
What is confusing about their intentions?
You should absolutely trust them.
You are absolutely correct.
@@misharamage5529 I know. I'm a man...
However, if I see a pretty woman, my actions aren't determined by my intentions... the only difference between acting and inaction is the necessary opportunity and motivation to act on the default/latent intentions... which were determined when evolutionary biology slammed the fuck lever to full steam ahead so hard it broke off.
Fortunately, most men are of two minds. You should thank your heavens for the one up top, because the other one has no brakes.
@@AutitsicDysexlia Dont think she was speaking to you haha Funny reading your basement philosophy though
@@ravnor874 ofc the notallmen crowd are swarming the comments. Fragile boys
Kat is a survivor and a warrior! Her story is like so many other young girls’. I’m so impressed by her sharing her story. I'm sure she is an incredible Mom. She broke the generational pattern and nearly died going through it. Parents and all humans owe it to our children by putting them first. They need love and guidance. They need to be protected and kept safe from predators! If people arent going to take care of their own, no one else will. Thank you Kat for your honesty! You’re story will in fact save many lives.
Kat seems like such a sweet person. She looks like an angel in her blue sweater. She’s already breaking the cycle of pain caused by her mother and the absence of a father’s love. I commend her on her business endeavors and wish her lots of love, acceptance, and healing 🦋
As a woman whose bio dad was absent this breaks my heart that she carried so much of her "daddy issues" well into adulthood and how badly it affected her as a child too. I can't empathize because I was raised by a loving, protective mother who taught me how to find & build my inner strength. Ladies, if our bio/step dads treat you like junk or are just absent, please don't let that diagnose your self-worth. We are not the problem. He is. I hope Kat enjoys her life and keeps being a great mom. I'm so proud of her for being polar opposite to her mom.
she's an incredible story teller, totally captivated by her words. I really respect her honesty. incredibly strong person.
The feeling you were looking for was love. And sometimes, as hard as it is, we have to be the ones to love ourselves. Especially when no one else will. Sending you all the love today and forever.
Amen! I hope she has a much better life now. This is so sad.
The world does suck. I'm very sorry you had to live like this so damn young. 😔. I hope your future is brighter and you have found real love.
Great video Mark
That’s why I have dogs, unconditional love, you will never get that anywhere else. Cry For Help By Struggle Jennings Amazing music video. People need to wake up now to many still sleeping
Children need to feel 3 things in their formative years, love, safety & belonging. She had neither but she’s providing that for her kids. She broke the cycle ✊🏻
@@DMR1010 Yes!
i hope this girl is reading the comments and sees this. she should know how this video helps young women relate and feel comfort that she is not alone and she is helping others to not feel alone. it must have took a lot of courage for her to do this and i applaud her for this. thank you.
The best advice would be to stay away from black areas because there full of pedophile rapists
Kat..
.you are so so beautiful, inside and put. I am praying for your healing... and I am praying that you find peace and joy in your life. Thank you for sharing your story and raising awareness.
It's so sad and disheartening that she blames herself for "dressing provocatively" as a young teen. We all try to dress older when we're young, that's no excuse to take advantage of a child. She's such a strong, beautiful, and caring person and I truly hope her life is better now 😢💔
YES YES YES. I hope Kat saw this comment
It is literally her fault . No body forced her to do anything she could’ve told someone or done something about it but didn’t say anything instead she lied to her parents and went out on her own. Know that things aren’t going her way she wants to blame everyone else I don’t feel sorry for her at her age I was already starting to work
@@carolenegabrail320 thank you. I hope so as well because she deserves better
@@jaimechavez5249 well aren't you special. Yup, blame a kid who so clearly didn't have a good home life. Disgusting
@@jaimechavez5249 you’re a low-watt gurgler and you deserve nothing good in your life. And you clearly have no idea how the world works.
I relate to her so much on an emotional level with her struggles with men and taking sexual attention from men as affection/genuine praise… it’s so difficult when you’ve been objectified since teen years and that’s all you know from men. Her self awareness is so amazing and I know that if she went to a therapist she could totally work through these issues and find good coping skills
Therapy is not magic!!! It will never erase the emotions that come with her experience… sure didn’t help me
@@autumnwaters574 Allow it to
@Autumn Waters so you had a shitty experience in therapy. Most people have had wonderful results so shush
This was one of the best interviews. She really went deep. I think this story will resonate with a lot of young girls who feel lost like she did.
What a strong, articulate survivor... must be so hard to sort out the good and bad after all she has been through. The world would be a better place if everyone listened to these stories with compassion and humility.
Edit to add - as another commenter pointed out, in cases of sexual crimes, IT IS NEVER THE CHILD’S FAULT!! They are CHILDREN!
I just want to say for you and anyone else who needs to hear it - none of this was your fault. You were underage and taken advantage of by people who were over 18 and those people knew better. It breaks my heart to hear people say it was their fault for dressing a certain way or running away from home, or a thousand other things. The adults you encountered are to blame and they should have done better. Sending much love ❤
Yes, men are disgusting.
Exactly! If you have been through anything like this as a child; YOU WERE A CHILD! It’s never the child’s fault. Please stop blaming yourself!
Yes but we must also all take responsibility for our action as somthing we could have done could have prevented it . Either that be educating and asking for help .
Some times our egos are to blame.
initially it's not her fault. once she knows what the deal is and she continues to go back and run away that is 100 on her. even young ppl should know better. 100 years ago 12 year olds were running farms and helping deliver babies and raising livestock. we have coddled children for so many generations we have reduced them to entities that have no self responsibility and it is leading to terrible life choices like the ones she made after the first time she ran away. yes the ppl who took advantage are terrible but once you know that what is the excuse? she cannot for memories or use common sense?
@@misharamage5529 she kept going back because these guys give her stuff. she just started a onlyfans. she went in the bathtub for him to pee on her,then her mom bought her chicken fries. dont accept things from older creepy pieces of trash.i dont hear pain for about 90% of this video. she sends videos of custom content on onlyfans nd will do whatever ... nobody is making her. she says onlyfans boosted her confidence. she makes noooo sense
Mark, I have watched many of your interviews, but this is the first time I have had to shut off my computer and walk away before the interview was complete. I have two young daughters, and the fact that this beautiful young woman was subjected to such horror was beyond anything I can comprehend. The thought of a child being tormented, terrorized, abused, destroyed..... My heart broke. I know this young woman is not the first victim to fall prey to these monsters. And unfortunately, I know she will not be the last. I just hope people will watch this and simply say to themselves 'This could be my kid. What would I do if this was my kid?' We need to be more aware and we need to protect our children. Kat, you are so brave, so strong, so smart and so beautiful. You have lived a life no child deserves to live. And your speaking out may give the strength to some other little girl or boy to say something. This was NOT YOUR FAULT! And when those voices are in your head, saying horrible things to you, tell them to shut up and go to hell. Because you are light. You are amazing. You are a warrior. You are a survivor. And I am so grateful you were able to share your horrific story with the world.
Everything about this ❤🙏
This is everything someone struggling needs to hear. Thank you for being a good momma to your girls and being so kind. ❤❤
This 🤍 she would make an excellent advocate for sex trafficking because she’s been through it her self.
Yes the big issue in this country is the Satanists and what they do to the children with their blood and then put the body parts in our fast food industry. And the good guys have been trying to stop them from putting the bodies in our grocery meats, that's why the Meat Processing plants were being blown up out west. Satanists will say they're not cannibals , because they actually aren't, but the blood drinkers are despicable. And they do tell you exactly what they're going to do. And they spite the parents by feeding their missing children right back to them if they are eating fast food .
And the fact that they have found children's teeth and body parts in the fast food meats especially McDonald's and Burger king, which were created as a cover-up for the satanist, the same as planned parenthood . That's why our past president made going after the sex traffickers one of his biggest agendas but they never could speak about it because they don't want the masses to catch on that it's right under their nose. It all made sense as to why girls bodies were so different in the 90s than they were in the '80s..when I even worked at those places. The Elite/Deep State make subtle changes and sneak things in while they distract the masses from what's truly going on. It's nothing new. I can't imagine having children, let alone daughters. What they do, especially the satanists in government, like the clintons, like blindfolding and torturing the children and chasing them like foxes and skinning them so that they can drink their blood when they are in their most fearful state and full of adrenaline ... and for decades, all the children that were sex trafficked had the same stories in regards to the satanic rituals, and this was before internet even came out.. the videos and all the satanic references are right in front of our eyes, especially disney, which is what happens in the tunnels underneath, they distract you with prettiness above to avoid seeing what is beneath, you can find those videos all over Telegram, and UA-cam they're not hidden at all, they just know people don't want to see them so they won't look for them, so you can't say that those sickos are not being honest, because they actually are speaking the truth. They just count on people thinking that it sounds crazy, and that's how they've always gotten away with it
Wow, this is maybe my favorite Soft White Underbelly interview. Kat is so well-spoken and so strong yet so vulnerable in this interview. I can't imagine what she's gone through. I wish her all the best and hope she finds a great therapist or whatever she needs to help her process her traumas and continue to grow, as she clearly is! XVX, girl!
Felt the same way
How in thee fug can you use a word like FAVORITE to express your “like” for the entertainment you received?
@@NoLineNoWait123AbCentertainment isn’t the right word. informative is more like it. spreading awareness.
@@rosepedal5466 , don’t tell me what I think. If you want to describe ur past time with another word, do that.
@@NoLineNoWait123AbC what?? are you purposely obtuse? she’s not saying that she liked anything the poor girl went through, just that she’s well-spoken and articulate- which makes for a good interview.
Kat, I don't know if you will ever read this, but I was super impressed by you. You love and protect your kids and want to heal from the atrocities that men put you through. You are special, and I wish I could give you a hug (if you wanted one). You are worth SO MUCH.
-Just a Mom seeing another Mom