4 THINGS YOU MUST HAVE FOR YOURSELF AS A WOMAN by RC Blakes

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  • @susanakaan810
    @susanakaan810 5 місяців тому +265

    "A woman's relationship with God is the foundation of her strength and identity "❤

  • @chalissa5285
    @chalissa5285 5 місяців тому +284

    1. A relationship with God
    2. Create a Vision
    *Who you are, and why you are
    3.self love
    4.self determination

  • @adrianjohnson3435
    @adrianjohnson3435 5 місяців тому +83

    When a woman knows who she belongs to which is God almighty! She’s An unstoppable force. 🥰

  • @Nikita_848
    @Nikita_848 5 місяців тому +136

    A woman's relationship with God reflects in her behaviour.

    • @Lxxtz_GarZ
      @Lxxtz_GarZ 5 місяців тому +5

      This right here

    • @donnajeffreys8252
      @donnajeffreys8252 5 місяців тому +8

      Yes indeed, sitting up in church every week does not make you a Christian. The character of God does

  • @itssilvermadallion
    @itssilvermadallion 3 місяці тому +17

    I saw this video maybe a few weeks ago was very afraid to click on it. Because I’m in a space where I have nothing but God. I thought I didn’t deserve to watch things like this… or even worthy. I gave up everything God asked me to let go of. My job, my car, my home. Everything…. But what I do have is God and becoming to know who Silver is. Not what she wears, not what she drive, not what I live in as long as the roof I’m under is clean (aka my sis house lol) but when I read the comments and saw #1 GOD! I started blushing! Because I feel like I have something far worth more than diamonds and rubies and silverrr I have God and me! This walk is worth it! I can look back and say wow I’ve come such a long way! And that vision I have is all God based ❤ learning to love myself and have more determination! And everyday I’m learning who Silver is! Wow thank you Jesus 🙏🏽😭 God bless you ladies!!!! anyone woman who wear the fear of the Lord makes you! fabulous

    • @maanvibathija433
      @maanvibathija433 15 днів тому

      I am on same route..... All alone!! Jus mee & God...
      Loads of Rejection, betrayal... Narc bestie...whom I decided to leave by no choice (or rather I loose my sanity) ... Tho overlooked always!!, I hv hope in JESUS &. His love.... He will make a way , where thre z no way....

  • @SharonHoward-zq5uv
    @SharonHoward-zq5uv 5 місяців тому +43

    A strong woman knows her worth

  • @lakendraadams1077
    @lakendraadams1077 5 місяців тому +49

    I’m learning everyday to chose me over anyone or anything 😊. I’m 46 years old took me years to choose me

  • @dommieable
    @dommieable 5 місяців тому +109

    "GOD created strong women; men create weak women'"

    • @heather7119
      @heather7119 5 місяців тому +6

      Yes I felt that statement ❤

    • @zitabett5044
      @zitabett5044 5 місяців тому +1

      ...for real! Thank You.

    • @schlindaflynn8854
      @schlindaflynn8854 5 місяців тому

      HALLELUJAH

    • @leahcortez8685
      @leahcortez8685 5 місяців тому

      I’ve been playing this in the mornings to help stay on track. Thank you for creating this so that we have access to it always.

  • @faith7934
    @faith7934 5 місяців тому +34

    I love when you pray for us during the video!

  • @jacquelinechama1529
    @jacquelinechama1529 5 місяців тому +37

    1..A working relationship with Your Creator Godm
    2.knowing your real purpose on earth,
    3.Self love, embrace your strength
    4.Self determination
    The idea of weak women is a strange concept to God
    I can do all things through Christ

  • @barbaralandsaw7949
    @barbaralandsaw7949 5 місяців тому +41

    Ive not been good to myself many times thinking a man was going to understand me and be good to me.

    • @realestatecoach8626
      @realestatecoach8626 5 місяців тому +9

      We need to understand and be good to ourselves only and the rest will follow accordingly!

    • @thebravebird
      @thebravebird 5 місяців тому +3

      So many of us can relate, and your Creator understands. His love and plans for you are unfathomable and perfect, and He will never let you down. I pray that you abide in His love deeply every day you are blessed to see. in Jesus' name!!! 💝❣

    • @zitabett5044
      @zitabett5044 5 місяців тому +1

      Yes, tell the truth and shame the devil. Thanks.

  • @thebravebird
    @thebravebird 5 місяців тому +10

    The way God is using you as a Mordecai for many of us is no joke! And you don’t play about the Lord either! 🎉❤🎉❤ Your message has turned my life around, you just don’t know. Thank you.

  • @RHbeautystudio
    @RHbeautystudio 5 місяців тому +9

    I said to myself earlier I wish God could come down and speak to me. I come to your video just because of the title but he really spoke to me through you. I definitely felt this message

  • @J_jewel91
    @J_jewel91 5 місяців тому +33

    I Needed To Hear This ❤️ Me Loving Myself Made Me Realize How Much Others Don’t Love Themselves. Also People Can Tell When You Love Yourself (Some Will Acknowledge It) & Some Will Only Want To Attach Themselves (Marry/Be In A Relationship) With You Just To Take & Cant Give The Love Back In Return. Thank You Pastor For Your Wisdom!

    • @LightBeingsBE
      @LightBeingsBE 5 місяців тому +1

      The Bible says be focused on loving others. Bible doesn’t boast “self love” that’s deception.
      Philippians 2:3-11 in the Bible says that people should consider others better than themselves. The verse says, "Do nothing out of selfish ambition or vain conceit, but in humility consider others better than yourselves". It also says, "Each of you should look not only to your own interests, but also to the interests of others"
      You don’t HAVE to love yourself to love others…. Loving OTHERS pleases God. You can choose to love yourself but you are COMMAND to love others ❤

    • @J_jewel91
      @J_jewel91 5 місяців тому

      @@LightBeingsBE You Took What I Said & Came Up With This? I Definitely Love Others I’m 1 Of The Most Selfless People You Will Ever Meet, But Let’s Not Act Like People Wont Take Your Love For Them & Use It Against You. I Got Out Of A Bad Relationship 3+ Years Ago & Spent Those Years Learning To Love Me So I Wont Put The “Love” I Have For Another Person Over Myself Again. Can You Truly Love Somebody Else If You Don’t Love Yourself 1st? I Have Men Literally Begging Me To Love Them Because The Love Just Radiates From Me People Can Feel & See That.

    • @LightBeingsBE
      @LightBeingsBE 5 місяців тому

      Once you understand how deep God loves you…. It makes you love yourself self as he does ❤

    • @J_jewel91
      @J_jewel91 5 місяців тому

      @@LightBeingsBEI Agree…That’s When It Started For Me ❤️

  • @GuidedbyHeartSong
    @GuidedbyHeartSong 5 місяців тому +14

    All of this is 100% correct. All lessons learned the hard way. Do yourself a favor and realize these truths while you are young. 🙏🏽💙💙💙💙💜🌎🕊️

  • @glorianelson976
    @glorianelson976 5 місяців тому +13

    RC once again wisdom bullets shot between my eyes. Christ, Vision, Self love and Determination. Not, not especially for young women! RC I am rocking it out at 78 years. I' ve just started to write a book. Young women are constantly seeking me out for a relationship. One of them just called me, "a cool, eccentric woman!". Imagination...another challenge to embrace. Thank You.

  • @Asiamariestar
    @Asiamariestar 5 місяців тому +5

    I want to say this is so very true.. Even in relationships I felt empty like something was missing. I’ve been on the path to discovering myself for the last past 7 years. I am now 31 and am still figuring out, but I feel at peace. I feel like I’ve finally figured out how to love myself wholeheartedly. I am so content with the journey that I am on.

  • @Lasbeth977
    @Lasbeth977 5 місяців тому +23

    Here to learn again, ❤.

    • @lakendraadams1077
      @lakendraadams1077 5 місяців тому

      You will learn from this man of God. He has helped me overcome soul ties and all my brokenness he’s been a real grandfather figure for me

  • @nkeirukaanyadufu3607
    @nkeirukaanyadufu3607 5 місяців тому +6

    1. Strong relationship with God, which is the strength of her foundation
    2. Vision: who you are and why you are ....why God put you on planet earth
    3. Self love: Self esteem not based on people's opinions or invalidation.
    4. Determination/ Resilience; will fuel your growth, ambition and vision .
    This is so so timely for me Sir 🙏🏻....so needed this at this time. Thank you and God bless you Sir 🙏🏻

  • @nicolast.catherine7947
    @nicolast.catherine7947 5 місяців тому +34

    Absolutely no positive relationship without God, not family, friend, work nor intimate. Not even with yourself

  • @mrschavie2700
    @mrschavie2700 5 місяців тому +10

    Yesss get back and putting God first amen

  • @HeCallMeButterPecan
    @HeCallMeButterPecan 5 місяців тому +14

    I love these middle of day” pop ins!! As always, it was definitely needed. Thank you Bishop!!

  • @Beauty4ashes80
    @Beauty4ashes80 5 місяців тому +10

    I definitely agree on coming back to our relationship with God. It’s impossible to clearly hear the warnings of the Holy Spirit when his presence is missing in our life. If we’re connected to the wrong man internally you can feel the grieving of the Holy Spirit sending warning after warning. When we disconnect from God we value a connection to the wrong man just have any man vs the man God has for us. You miss the signals and the warnings as they are heard at a low frequency vs the loud frequency. When we are connected to God we hear his voice with clarity.

  • @therealmisstreese849
    @therealmisstreese849 5 місяців тому +3

    Love yourself like you deserve to be loved. My self esteem is based on my self love Yesssss

  • @berenicegalvan4251
    @berenicegalvan4251 5 місяців тому +12

    Here to remind myself of who I am 🙏 amen amen 💖🙏

  • @jennyg495
    @jennyg495 5 місяців тому +6

    Purpose + Fulfillment+ Joy ❤

  • @ChinweNwigwe
    @ChinweNwigwe 5 місяців тому +6

    This is me. After a devastating failed marriage, I can say I intentionally worked on myself, and all of these points describe who I am becoming🙏

  • @Beauty4ashes80
    @Beauty4ashes80 5 місяців тому +11

    This was great! I’m always excited when the Holy Spirit touches your heart to speak with us outside of Monday! This message just reinforced my most recent chat with God, thank you! 🙏🏾

  • @ms.savvyms.baddie4801
    @ms.savvyms.baddie4801 5 місяців тому +5

    BISHOP THIS IS SO POWERFUL!!!!!

  • @ebonysudduth907
    @ebonysudduth907 5 місяців тому +3

    I swear I love the work Bishop RC and 1st lady Lisa does for the empowerment of women and education of men to rise up and take the throne!

  • @suzismith9681
    @suzismith9681 5 місяців тому +3

    I'm 70 now, been walking God's path a long time. What has sustained me all this time is Phil 4:13 and He will never leave me or forsake me. I say He has brought me thus far , there is no reason for this to not continue. He is a wonderful God, I love Him dearly and will continue to. Blessings Pastor Blake on you and your household xx

  • @mildredherring2541
    @mildredherring2541 5 місяців тому +9

    God is the strength of my life. God has really been dealing with me about my life's purposes lately. Peace, Content, Happiness.

  • @freedoml1129
    @freedoml1129 5 місяців тому +3

    "Having Joy, The Joy of the Lord is my strength!!" Nehemiah 8:10

  • @bettiehembry5191
    @bettiehembry5191 3 місяці тому +1

    🙏🏾✝️It's so good to see you pastor, I've learned so much from you, thank you sir and God continues to bless you.

  • @mynamemeanssweet
    @mynamemeanssweet 5 місяців тому +6

    Wow this was on time ❤️

  • @bestillandknow46101
    @bestillandknow46101 5 місяців тому +4

    Shalom! Afternoon Blessings Bishop, Saints and QueenSisters in Christ
    🙌
    👑T👑

  • @rabeccamwale4279
    @rabeccamwale4279 5 місяців тому +2

    Powerful 🙏 thank you so much for this.

  • @Goddessaisha1
    @Goddessaisha1 5 місяців тому +2

    Thank you pastor, God bless you and your family. Much appreciated. ❤

  • @TheBurningBusch
    @TheBurningBusch 5 місяців тому +1

    I enjoyed this message Bishop! I thank God I’m on His path! God bless you and Lady Lisa!! LoveU both ❤️🙏🏽

  • @ashleeharding3289
    @ashleeharding3289 5 місяців тому +2

    Love yourself! It's so important to love yourself and love who you are in God. This includes all of your strengths and weaknesses. A woman who knows who she is and has a strong foundation in God is a force to be wrecked with. The world will adjust.
    🙏

  • @valrio8224
    @valrio8224 5 місяців тому +2

    Thank you for that message!

  • @septemberg4840
    @septemberg4840 5 місяців тому +2

    Thank you for taking the time to share this information. Very valuable. :)

  • @user-cq9hb1pg3u
    @user-cq9hb1pg3u 5 місяців тому +1

    Everytime I hear your words I start crying tears. Thank you for for words. Love you all ❤

  • @tangiemo
    @tangiemo 5 місяців тому +1

    Blessings Pastor R C Blakes 🙏🏾💕. Seek God first🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

  • @raegray8768
    @raegray8768 5 місяців тому

    Good Father thank you so much for commissioning this song! I love it!

  • @Anna-z9z9g
    @Anna-z9z9g 5 місяців тому +2

    I agree, God must be first in a woman life, Mrs Anna Belle!

  • @patriciamitchell1924
    @patriciamitchell1924 5 місяців тому +4

    Good morning Pastor Blakes, I missed this sermon so I'm tuning in this morning..also could u say a prayer for my mom,she turned 89 yesterday and she gets around like she's not a day over 40..🙏 praised God..Have a wonderful weekend and stay safe Gid bless you always

  • @nadia4556
    @nadia4556 3 місяці тому

    RC Blakes has taught me so much. I’ve been doing inner work on myself for 4+ years now and working hard to acquire things I know I deserve ❤

  • @lakendraadams1077
    @lakendraadams1077 5 місяців тому +3

    Bishop I needed this today. God is center of my life. I can’t do anything without him. He’s my friend my guide my brother my husband he’s literally everything. 😊I love Jesus

  • @mildredherring2541
    @mildredherring2541 5 місяців тому +3

    I'm learning to self love to sustain in this time of my life. I'm coming back strong. Thank you Lord Jesus Christ.Amen😊

  • @oudiapalmer6186
    @oudiapalmer6186 5 місяців тому +2

    So true sir love your self first good to hear this God ❤ is real 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽

  • @alonzoteamerjr
    @alonzoteamerjr 5 місяців тому +2

    As a man I’m here to learn thanks pastor much love ❤️

  • @myhueofyoga
    @myhueofyoga 5 місяців тому +1

    Enjoying the message Pastor R.C.❤

  • @christyportia7707
    @christyportia7707 2 місяці тому

    Self love is setting boundaries, embracing my uniqueness, nurture a positive self image and experience inner peace.
    Self love helps me to overcome all insecurities

  • @msofficialxo7953
    @msofficialxo7953 5 місяців тому +1

    Thank you for this message today 🌺

  • @dbluifox770
    @dbluifox770 5 місяців тому +1

    Amen! Amen! Amen! Bishop Blakes🙏🏾👍🏾👏🏾

  • @antiquiity.L
    @antiquiity.L 5 місяців тому

    Thanks!

  • @AntoniettePlowden
    @AntoniettePlowden 5 місяців тому

    Glory to God.. pastor you're preaching to me.. this message is right on time ❤

  • @bridgettetraveler658
    @bridgettetraveler658 5 місяців тому +8

    The Love of GOD is more than the love or hate from the whole world. Only GOD can give true contentment! Without contentment u might worry yourself to an early death. Without The Wisdom of GOD u will be led astray!!!

  • @anicharlouis394
    @anicharlouis394 3 місяці тому

    Thank you Bishop Blakes, I created my vision board a few months ago and I see things manifesting because I placed God at the center of it all! Praise God. Thank you for those words of wisdom. We need more leaders like you in our community.

  • @user-mr3le4hs4e
    @user-mr3le4hs4e 5 місяців тому

    I almost started crying listening to this. Thank you for your content, may God bless you.

  • @AdrienneQuinnPrime
    @AdrienneQuinnPrime 5 місяців тому

    Always a blessing. Thank you.

  • @VanillaBeanFrappuchino
    @VanillaBeanFrappuchino 5 місяців тому +7

    I wish I could but as a single mother, I do not have the time to take off to join you for Queenology.
    Just started my job due to a female lying on me and almost causing my children homelessness. God gave me this job one month ago.
    I would love too but I pay every bill by myself. Raising two kids without any help and Virginia doesn’t prosecute for not paying child support for my first child and my son’s father signed over his rights. Completely abandoned his child.
    I love these videos.

    • @janettedavis4872
      @janettedavis4872 5 місяців тому +1

      I gave God full custody for my children, and so should you.

    • @janettedavis4872
      @janettedavis4872 5 місяців тому

      I gave God full custody for my children ...
      Give it a try

    • @janettedavis4872
      @janettedavis4872 5 місяців тому +1

      I gave God full custody for my children ...
      Give it a try

  • @msnicolevickers
    @msnicolevickers 3 місяці тому

    Thank you so much for this. Your words are right on time. This is beautiful!

  • @laurenroberts1404
    @laurenroberts1404 5 місяців тому +3

    This message was for me! 👌🏽Thank you’ 🫶🏽

  • @MeLL0s
    @MeLL0s 5 місяців тому

    I truly appreciate this, need to continue dealing with truth and my spirituality!

  • @michelledouglas-thierry3143
    @michelledouglas-thierry3143 5 місяців тому +2

    Hallelujah!! Preacher Blake

  • @eurspenc
    @eurspenc 5 місяців тому

    I love this teaching!!! Great information while on the plane

  • @annawallace3264
    @annawallace3264 5 місяців тому +1

    Pastor thank you for directing us Women to God. We need to put God first and keep him first. I was married to a Narcissist for 54 years, he passed away a couple days ago. Since I put God first above my Narc Husband (who thought everything and everybody should put him first), God has given me so many blessings. I didn’t realize what my Husband was doing. I am so blessed to have peace and quiet, enjoy God’s Earth watch the birds and creatures, heavens and stars and my kids with paws it is so wonderful. Money cannot buy everything. Pray and Let God direct your path Ladies.

  • @Dajthebookworm
    @Dajthebookworm 3 місяці тому

    I’m 25 and listening to your video is helping me come back to myself and god . I’ve been loosing my self in men and it’s making me physically sick. Last night I couldn’t even breath . Cant think straight or nothing! These video are bringing me back to work on myself and do deep therapy . Thank you🤍🤍🤍

  • @RaquelSophia613
    @RaquelSophia613 5 місяців тому +1

    Thank you! I can do all things through Christ. I am determined. 🙌🏽

  • @mias3542
    @mias3542 5 місяців тому

    Replayyy and thank you pastor Blake’s

  • @GoldFeather123
    @GoldFeather123 5 місяців тому

    Thank you Pastor for the Wisdom and Truth ❤❤

  • @KKP20111
    @KKP20111 5 місяців тому +1

    WHAT A GREAT AND SUPER IMPORTANT MESSAGE! 💯💯💯❤️

  • @kimjesus4829
    @kimjesus4829 5 місяців тому +1

    Holiness is still the Right Way

  • @crystalcollins5389
    @crystalcollins5389 5 місяців тому

    Awesome message !

  • @palesandara6406
    @palesandara6406 5 місяців тому

    Thank you Bishop RC Blakes, we appreciate you. You are helping a young lady's life From SA 🇿🇦

  • @neenasarafina194
    @neenasarafina194 5 місяців тому +1

    ❤ thank you for living out your purpose

  • @jennifervillegas4442
    @jennifervillegas4442 5 місяців тому

    You truly are a blessing to us. I start my day by listening to your videos, so increditably thankful for you. I've started making moves. You have motivated me very much ❤❤

  • @MWisdomWisdom
    @MWisdomWisdom 5 місяців тому +3

    THANK YOU SO MUCH FOR THIS! I ❤❤❤❤THIS.

  • @rachelmaier1057
    @rachelmaier1057 4 місяці тому

    Thank you for sharing your video. God bless you. 🇺🇸

  • @sarahmakutu6214
    @sarahmakutu6214 5 місяців тому

    Thank you so much Pastor Blakes....i needed this word. 😢🙏🙏🙏

  • @Katarzyna-h2z
    @Katarzyna-h2z 5 місяців тому

    What a beautiful and hopefull message, thank you so much 🎉❤🎉❤🎉❤🎉❤🎉❤🎉

  • @lori6156
    @lori6156 5 місяців тому

    I find your messages so comforting and soothing. Thank God for you Pastor RC. ❤

  • @LightBeingsBE
    @LightBeingsBE 5 місяців тому +2

    Thank you!! 🙏🏽 ❤

  • @bripea7721
    @bripea7721 5 місяців тому

    No words to express the gratitude

  • @kandacewinfield7529
    @kandacewinfield7529 5 місяців тому

    This is a Rhema word for me and Lord I thank you for answering my prayers for direction.

  • @gloriacooley3436
    @gloriacooley3436 3 місяці тому

    Experiencing a little heartbreak right now. What i know is that God always brings me out on the other side!

  • @teresabrown174
    @teresabrown174 5 місяців тому

    I receive this powerful word In Faith and Love Bishop and I Thank you❤️🙏🏾

  • @0811-t9n
    @0811-t9n 5 місяців тому

    This was powerful for me! Thank you for all the wisdom, like a father figure, that I never had.

  • @reneesampson6566
    @reneesampson6566 8 днів тому

    Need these videos daily among other things to keep me going. If hours of listening to them is what it takes, so be it.

  • @nkeirukaanyadufu3607
    @nkeirukaanyadufu3607 5 місяців тому +3

    God created strong women and man created weak women ...thank you Sir 🙏🏻

  • @butterflyflowers673
    @butterflyflowers673 4 місяці тому

    I’m going to Zambia next year. I look forward to going to Ghana too.

  • @dianajackson7247
    @dianajackson7247 5 місяців тому

    Thank you again for a blessed teaching.

  • @sandraedwards3578
    @sandraedwards3578 5 місяців тому

    God created strong women amen 🙏🏾 thank you pastor

  • @EileenMoore-v3y
    @EileenMoore-v3y 5 місяців тому

    Thank you Bishop Blakes!

  • @CarolStewart-q7n
    @CarolStewart-q7n 5 місяців тому

    Pastor, Thank you for this wonderful message. Please consider sharing details on how to understand and identify God’s purpose for our lives.

  • @sophiastaples7024
    @sophiastaples7024 3 місяці тому +2

    NOBODY CAN LOVE YOU LIKE HOLY SPIRIT

  • @dianacarreras3461
    @dianacarreras3461 4 дні тому

    Praisa God Mr. Blakes you are a Godly father figure for 821k what a blessing you are to us! Thank you Lord Amen 🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉

  • @bestillandknow46101
    @bestillandknow46101 5 місяців тому +1

    Afternoon Blessings Bishop!!

    • @bestillandknow46101
      @bestillandknow46101 5 місяців тому +1

      Amen Bishop! 🙌

    • @bestillandknow46101
      @bestillandknow46101 5 місяців тому +1

      Thank you Bishop for that powerful message! I received it in Jesus' name! I love you and First Lady Lisa Minster Blakes! 💙🙏💙