1. Gives you peace. Energy doesn't lie 2. Has a vision for himself 3. Consistent and patient 4. Focusses on improving future together. (Vision for both) 5. Can learn from him and he answers your questions willingly 6. Voluntary information, transparent honesty without even asking 7. Absence of ego ; maximised masculinity = minimised ego
I prayed to God to send my husband and I think he has. I reconnected with an old friend, it’s been over 30 years since we last seen each other. During that time it gave us both time to grow. We talk in the phone over 2 hours to 5 hours sometimes. We discuss relationships and about our future. He really is a hardworking sweet guy and he knows how to cook and clean. He says he’ll never abuse me or disrespect me. I’m really feeling him but we are gonna take it slow. He wants to get married someday. 😊
When life happens, and I forget who I am, I tune into this channel. I did not have a strong father in my life, this is close as I can get as an adult now. I am still waiting on my husband. Pastor Blakes has given me new standards which is why I am still single. I refuse to settle. Please pray for me... I am so ready to meet that man who brings me peace, unconditional love, loyalty and provision. God bless you all.
Unconditional love can exist only between parents and their children. If you expect unconditional love from a man you will be waiting forever. Only our parents and our children accept and love us whoever,whatever or however we are. We need unconditional love like consolation from our parents,but it does not improve or develop us much as people. To become a better person we need conditional love. Sorry,dear!
@@ojala5555 if what you’re saying is spiritually and Biblically true, then everything this Bishop has taught me about having faith in God is untrue. I will definitely wait forever on God to deliver the impossible. That’s His word “…substance of things hoped for , the evidence of thing’s not seen.” Hebrew 11:1. If I can’t lean on scripture, then what do I have left? I have only man to put my faith in. We know how THAT usually goes. I’ll take my chances with God’s word. Limiting beliefs and thoughts are the antithesis of faith. My God doesn’t operate that way . 🙏🏽
If your spirit is uneasy, thats God telling you to run!! Tears coming down my eyes cause i was literally over her sulking due to a recent failed love encounter. But my spirit never felt completely at ease with him. Im taking this as a blessing
@@aselyne5631 It's not easy, but with the help of God, you can do it. I had to sever ties completely. I blocked 🚫 him on every platform. It hurt at first, but now I feel totally free, thank You Jesus. I will wait for my Lord to send me my kingdom husband.🙏🏼
I’ve severed ties completely with a man I had such chemistry with (not talking about sex) it was hard at first but my spirit was uneasy and I value my peace more than anything! Now I know I’ve made the right decision and dodged a bullet. God bless you queen! The sooner you let go the easier it gets and you’ll be free for the man God has for you!
Life is more of my peace. The Lord is MY peace. Content AND celibato in singleness for 34 years. THE LORD CAN BRING PEACE...and a mate if/when HE so Chooses.
'You should always seek the person that brings you more peace than your own solitude ' What a beautiful quote and so heartfelt, As always great teachings and such relevant wisdom that always bring peace, RC Blakes bless
After 10 years of waiting on God with a few slip ups in between, ages 26-36. Occasionally, I would comment on vids such as these, many sleepless nights thinking is there someone out there for me ?? And GOD to aligned me to him. And all of these things are true! I’m seeing this in real life. Ladies, don’t give up! Good men do exist. Please open your hearts to new options and do not limit God. “Your type” is actually the hold up. The guy God has for you (from personal experience) is not necessarily what you “want” but he is EXACTLY what you NEED. You’ll quickly realize it was what you deeply desired all along. You simply didn’t feel you deserved it. Oh and please keep in mind, God never down grades you. And you both will have the same level of conviction, respect and integrity towards each. 🥰 Thank you and God bless you Pastor RC Blakes. And thank you Father, Son and Holy Spirit.
I wish I had and grasped this teaching when I was 20 years old, I wouldn’t have endured the trauma I did getting involved and entangled with the wrong characters. I certainly wouldn’t have displeased my Heavenly Father even though My earthly daddy was absent majority of my childhood. Now at 51 knowing my identity in Christ I have healed and become well adjusted. I’m still a work in progress coz perfection will never be achieved this side of heaven but boy I’m I glad it’s not too late. Your teachings bishop have helped and I’m now ready to do relationships and marriage right. To the glory of God
Pastor Blake’s, You have been a blessing to me and my daughters. We have listened and watched you for several years now. Your teachings have given us a broad perspective on life. We’ve changed our minds regarding relationships, money, and over all health. We continue to become are stronger and wiser. You and First Lady Lisa are a God send. God bless you and your family.
Right now I’m ignoring a guy I dated twice, with multiple calls as well. Thursday he gave me an ultimatum I was to come to his lake house either Saturday or Sunday-I could choose. We were going to swim, ride the boat and then I was to ride him. I said NO, I won’t, that’s way too fast for me, I move slooooow! He begins to chastise me, did I want to become a biddy and die alone? He/this was an opportunity of a lifetime and if I didn’t show up he was “moving on.” I say ok I have to go and hung up. Thinking that’s it, I’ll never hear from this guy again. Wrong, he texts me the next AM…how am and what time did I want to go out. I ignore him. He texts two more times, then calls and leaves me a message, “he’s worried about me, let him know if I’m alright.” I continue to ignore him. More happened but I have ignored him. He then sends me a text asking if I’m ghosting him? What, I’m flabbergasted he just gave me an ultimatum and I refused and he’s confused why I won’t speak to him. Really, does he really think that or does he want to find out where he went wrong in his attempt to get me in bed as fast as possible? This man really thought I was going to hop on his ultimatum and show up and do something I didn’t want to do. He chastised me for having morals. What Blake has assured me of is stand my ground. These types are evil devils. It’s never about “how I feel,” it’s about “how they feel.” Do they have my best interest in mind? If not run. I ran. Thanks to all.
"When a persons spirit gives you peace that is gods endorsement" i think thats a beautiful quote. Sent it to my mum and the person im currently dating. If you get that thats all you need to know. Peace is everything! It will give you security, love, trust, understanding!
God has given me so much peace that anyone who tries to come in my life and disturbs my peace has to go! I thank God for protection!!! Thanks for the confirmation!
It's going to save you a lot of wasted time and energy if you just wait for the right one. Never settle for a relationship because you don't want to be alone or because you don't believe that you can find better. What is meant for you, will find its way to you. 💙UA-camr That Helps People Overcome Toxic Relationships
Amen & Amen!! I wish when I was younger I knew these 7 signs. But glory be to God, he sent me a man that demonstrated ALL 7 signs (I didn't know it).I thought it was because he was 9 years older than me. But God!!! He's gone on to Glory now (7/20/2018). We spent 32 years of marriage together, retired 30 years from the military, & 3 awesome adult children. This will help me when a companion pursues me and I approve him...wink wink. Blessings to you & your lovely wife.
Come on Pastor!..You teaching today!!... I needed to hear this 20 years ago, but thank GOD that it's never too late to actually get it right!! This is the season of doing it the right way!!
Yes. So worth it! Be curious, becoming an adventurer exploring the suffering in the name of realizing that it is actually not part of you ❤️ Coming up on one month in the community you have created. I move through my life so much more freely. Celebrating curiosity; not being a wanker 😊 haha had to bring that quote back around, Saja.
i'm saving this not only to review for myself, but to let my son listen as it not only identifies a high value woman, but the characteristics of a high value man! Thanks RC!!
Many people definitely undervalue the essence of peace. It's essential for a healthy marriage/relationship. Materialism has hurt our culture for too long.
I love how real you are in today's modern world. You understand women and men who are involved with each other outside of the marital means and don't pass judgment. You make us understand what to look for beyond the superficial. Thank you, pastor Blakes. You are a father figure from THEE father figure on high. Thank you! Xo
Lord! I wish I had this message a few years back before being caught up in an unhealthy entanglement - but Lord, I thank you for the Bishop whose tutelage has produced great growth in me! (As I straighten my crown)
This was profound in so many ways. I work with clients weekly who think they have to play games to keep a man but a man who’s interested in you will pursue you to the fullest degree. A woman who knows her worth will be selective in who she dates.
This is great. I’m in a relationship where I feel no peace. I kind of summed it up to it being another woman but I’ve found no proof and he says no. So it could just be that we aren’t meant to be. We don’t have conversations that I enjoy. They mostly end in arguments unless I totally agree with him - which I rarely do. We don’t go anywhere together or do anything besides lay around the house and raise our child. Anything we do together is usually my idea and I end up not enjoying myself and wish I would’ve went by myself or with my kid. He has no plan for me or our family. He is clearly okay with letting everything fall on me. In previous relationships, it seems that he has just been a warm body and a source of attention for women and now he feels like that’s all women need/want. He offers nothing else. He contributes financially (minimally) yet wants all the praise. I just wish I would’ve been smarter and not chose this man to create life with so now that I see he has nothing of substance to really offer, I cut leave with no ties.
We live and learn so don't beat yourself up. The longer you stay the harder it becomes to leave. Focus on yourself and your child and get outta there then reestablish your boundaries for your child. Stay positive always God bless you.
I can relate now post 53 yrs to a narcissist…when they show no interest in the family it becomes a one sided relationship. Bishop is saying the man should have a vision!! Take care of yourself and child. Life is too short. 🙏🏻🙏🏻❤️
Produces peace in my spirit and a sense of security/ protection. When his personal goals and purpose are intriguing to me. 2 visionary people come together to reach the world. A wise woman slowssssss things down. A safe man is patient and consistent. The focus is on a improved future. When I can learn things from him. A good man volunteers information ( Lord Jesus). There’s a absence of ego ( Lord Jesus again). Respect him, return positively, bring peace and appreciate his value. Amen 🙏🏾.
Bishop, when I say your teachings are always on point and so relevant to my life right now... thank you! I've been "binging" your videos since coming across your channel last week. I'm happy to know that my Queen Consciousness is in tact but I'm always improving. When you hit #1 and #2 on this list, I couldn't stop shouting. 😊 It's as if God took all the words from my heart and placed them in your mouth. How blessed we are to have you on this journey!❤
Thank you so much Pastor Blake. The energy never lie and my mistake was I gave him a benefit of a doubt as I do not want to judge someone because of their past. My mistake was I didn’t take enough time to get to know him long enough before I get emotionally involved. I ignored the red flags and even a Christian man doesn’t mean he’s a good man for me. It hurts but I would rather pay now than later. One thing I know is when he left I felt a relief and at peace 🙏🏽😊. It confirms that God is telling me he ain’t the ONE.
Love take heart and pave the way for this comment. Please look at your phrase “dumb as a box of rocks” that statement is spirituality paralyzing and does not belong with all the great information you’re sharing and I appreciate. Thank you
You teaching good Bishop! I love this. I know what it looks like living with a Narcissist. I’m currently in a separation after almost 23 years. I got the victory. 🙌🏾
This gentleman I’m entering a courtship with is an ex Marine of 25yrs and has been an officer of the law. I’m a little skeptical about his character since he’s militant. But so far so good as him making good on this list. I still have to prove him regarding his ego. 👑
This is powerful! #2 brought so much wisdom, clarity, healing for me. #3 slow down and not being quick to Give Away my virtue...powerful! I have used this list to evaluate past relationships and assess current relationship, wow!!!
God that you for this man, thank you for the leadership given to him to lead with integrity, holy spirit, wisdom and knowledge. I have truly grown mentally and spiritually since listening to him. Thank you for this platform. Jesus is awesome!
Thank you so much Bishop RC Blakes Jr. for all you do to change the life of all for the better. You are valued. I look forward to listening to you. Many blessings to you, Lisa & your family. 🙏🏼
Amen.. I bought Kingology for my son in law. Thus, he may educate himself and my two grandsons. It's much need with this generation 🤍🤍🤍 Blessings to all the Blakes'
The song in the beginning is beautiful and this message is right on time. Thank you for sharing these gems with us. I've been following for a few months and taking notes while actively practicing your advice. I'll just say this seems like confirmation but I'm still going to practice wisdom and let time tell. Thank you for the additional content on how to respond in kind to someone who hits all 7.
I could listen to understand and gain knowledge and wisdom ALL DAY! Reminds me of my father; who would say these things to me, but it wasn’t always as clear! I’ve got to listen with my daughter! 🙏🏽♥️💎
Thank you for this. Something that ladies need to hear from mothers and fathers. But sadly some parents fail to teach their children properly and instead traumatize them. This is a blessing and you are helping a lot of ladies!!
Spiritual father when you said make him wait until you see some narcissistic episode to see who he really is. So true but I could have fall out..keep teaching us!!!
I just wanted to say, you soothe my soul. Every single time I'm patient and sit down with your words I'm inspired and absolutely left deeply grateful. Pure gold content! I can feel the energy with a man, though am not adept at verbalizing it, so your words are a key to my soul and expression. Thank you for all you do!!! PS Your style is fantastic! Much love from the Midwest US 💖
Great video!💯Peace is the golden and clearer sign of all, even if the prospect is a christian and is showing most of the other good qualities from a distance; but if you don’t feel Peace just depart like the Pastor said, or at least slow down and take it very easy and before you know it the Holy Spirit will start highlighting certain words and statements that reveals the true face of an impostor. Be very careful when he is trying too hard to make you believe that he is the one, or that God has told him that you are supposed to marry him when the reality is that you are also a believer, a prayer warrior and you are Not receiving the same confirmation in your spirit from God.🕊
Everything I wish I had learned from my father. Living my days now in a pile of trash due to my inability to know what I should have known. You’re a blessing in my storm.
You just don’t understand how your videos have helped me so much in this season of life. You’ve been apart of my healing journey when it comes to my absent father wounds! Can’t thank you enough, just started dating again (never been in an adult relationship) and I feel so freakin empowered and sure of myself. I finally trust myself to date/let someone in. Things just feel so right. ❤️ so thanks again!
Thank you SOO MUCH for your tireless work In helping us heal. You have put verbiage and definition to MOST of my life's experiences that I did know what I had been experiencing, or how to articulate it. Thank God for you. Well done Sir :).
Pastor Blakes, thank you for all of your teachings 😞😞😩😩🙏🏼🙏🏼♥️♥️ My father just passed away a few months ago, & I’m extremely vulnerable right now. Because of his passing , & abuse that I have endured from past partners, im very fragile & I cry very easily. I’m broken 😞 I’m so many pieces. I feel so used and abused. I’m dating someone now and he shows of the good signs that you speak of, but I’m still not sure from being hurt in the past. Thank you for all of your teachings 😞😞🥺🥺🥺💜❤️❤️❤️❤️
“A man has to have a vision to make room for you.” This is such vital information. You are helping many, Pastor. So many. Bless You & Your Beautiful Wife, Lisa. ❤
Listening to you again my dearest Pastor, it’s heart worming and an eye opening. I wish I had this lesson of wisdom of yours long time ago.. as it’s never to late. Thank you tons for what you do and for helping everyone to keep this in mind and that the holly spirit and the almighty GOD will guide us all through our life in an healthy relationship . Amen 🙏😇
RC Blakes speaks wisdom. I am repeatedly amazed at how he speaks straight to my life and my experiences. I feel empowered to face the future as I navigate being single after 30 years of marriage to a narcissist. WHen I’m struggling with something dealing with new possible relationships, I know I can always find him speaking to that exact situation. I am grateful for these talks. He speaks the Truth! Thank you so much.
1. Gives you peace. Energy doesn't lie
2. Has a vision for himself
3. Consistent and patient
4. Focusses on improving future together. (Vision for both)
5. Can learn from him and he answers your questions willingly
6. Voluntary information, transparent honesty without even asking
7. Absence of ego ; maximised masculinity = minimised ego
Thank you 🥰
Thank you.
Thank you
@D Frazier Scroll no more. Pastor can change your life. He’s the ONE!
non of the above mentioned.🤔😏
I prayed to God to send my husband and I think he has. I reconnected with an old friend, it’s been over 30 years since we last seen each other. During that time it gave us both time to grow. We talk in the phone over 2 hours to 5 hours sometimes. We discuss relationships and about our future. He really is a hardworking sweet guy and he knows how to cook and clean. He says he’ll never abuse me or disrespect me. I’m really feeling him but we are gonna take it slow. He wants to get married someday. 😊
"Peace is the clearest sign of God's endorsement on anything." - Pastor RC Blakes
Well he gave me peace but I had to end it cause of how it started!!!!!
@@niseylee7796 how did it begin
I mean started
@@yt-deee2x350 a hook up that someone else felt was gone be for me and was totally wrong!!!!!
Amen ❤
When life happens, and I forget who I am, I tune into this channel. I did not have a strong father in my life, this is close as I can get as an adult now. I am still waiting on my husband. Pastor Blakes has given me new standards which is why I am still single. I refuse to settle. Please pray for me... I am so ready to meet that man who brings me peace, unconditional love, loyalty and provision. God bless you all.
I feel these words.
You are in my prayers
Unconditional love can exist only between parents and their children. If you expect unconditional love from a man you will be waiting forever. Only our parents and our children accept and love us whoever,whatever or however we are. We need unconditional love like consolation from our parents,but it does not improve or develop us much as people. To become a better person we need conditional love. Sorry,dear!
@@Heisadoni thank you so much. Love the positive support from everyone. ❤️
@@ojala5555 if what you’re saying is spiritually and Biblically true, then everything this Bishop has taught me about having faith in God is untrue. I will definitely wait forever on God to deliver the impossible. That’s His word “…substance of things hoped for , the evidence of thing’s not seen.” Hebrew 11:1. If I can’t lean on scripture, then what do I have left? I have only man to put my faith in. We know how THAT usually goes. I’ll take my chances with God’s word. Limiting beliefs and thoughts are the antithesis of faith. My God doesn’t operate that way . 🙏🏽
The spiritual father of many daughters around the globe. I am one of them! 🙌🏾♥️ Thank you for helping men too. Much needed teaching
This is priceless. Thank you 🙏🏽 😊♥️
Thank you from your polish daughter 🇵🇱
Thank you from your Irish daughter!! 🙏🏻
Thank you from your French daughter
Thank you from your Tobagonian daughter.🇹🇹
If your spirit is uneasy, thats God telling you to run!! Tears coming down my eyes cause i was literally over her sulking due to a recent failed love encounter. But my spirit never felt completely at ease with him. Im taking this as a blessing
Omg 😱me too 😭😭😭
Am in that situation, Lord please help me let go completely
@@aselyne5631 It's not easy, but with the help of God, you can do it. I had to sever ties completely. I blocked 🚫 him on every platform. It hurt at first, but now I feel totally free, thank You Jesus. I will wait for my Lord to send me my kingdom husband.🙏🏼
The same thing happened to me! I thought I was the only one that that statement brought tears to. It helps you to let go. Good luck on your journey!
I’ve severed ties completely with a man I had such chemistry with (not talking about sex) it was hard at first but my spirit was uneasy and I value my peace more than anything! Now I know I’ve made the right decision and dodged a bullet. God bless you queen! The sooner you let go the easier it gets and you’ll be free for the man God has for you!
I have a sense of peace when I’m by myself and alone. When I was in relationships I felt no peace in them. God brought me that peace! 😊🙏
Life is more of my peace. The Lord is MY peace. Content AND celibato in singleness for 34 years. THE LORD CAN BRING PEACE...and a mate if/when HE so Chooses.
CELIBATE...
'You should always seek the person that brings you more peace than your own solitude '
What a beautiful quote and so heartfelt,
As always great teachings and such relevant wisdom that always bring peace,
RC Blakes bless
That statement resonated with me as well... it's an easy test of our relationships
" Check your peace level. Search for someone giving you more peace than your solitude." Dang!
R.C Blake, Kenya loves 👏👏
"You should always search for the person, that gives you greater peace than your own solitude does." This one resonates. 🙏
After 10 years of waiting on God with a few slip ups in between, ages 26-36. Occasionally, I would comment on vids such as these, many sleepless nights thinking is there someone out there for me ?? And GOD to aligned me to him. And all of these things are true! I’m seeing this in real life.
Ladies, don’t give up! Good men do exist. Please open your hearts to new options and do not limit God. “Your type” is actually the hold up. The guy God has for you (from personal experience) is not necessarily what you “want” but he is EXACTLY what you NEED. You’ll quickly realize it was what you deeply desired all along. You simply didn’t feel you deserved it. Oh and please keep in mind, God never down grades you. And you both will have the same level of conviction, respect and integrity towards each. 🥰
Thank you and God bless you Pastor RC Blakes. And thank you Father, Son and Holy Spirit.
I wish I had and grasped this teaching when I was 20 years old, I wouldn’t have endured the trauma I did getting involved and entangled with the wrong characters. I certainly wouldn’t have displeased my Heavenly Father even though My earthly daddy was absent majority of my childhood. Now at 51 knowing my identity in Christ I have healed and become well adjusted. I’m still a work in progress coz perfection will never be achieved this side of heaven but boy I’m I glad it’s not too late. Your teachings bishop have helped and I’m now ready to do relationships and marriage right. To the glory of God
Pastor Blake’s,
You have been a blessing to me and my daughters. We have listened and watched you for several years now. Your teachings have given us a broad perspective on life. We’ve changed our minds regarding relationships, money, and over all health. We continue to become are stronger and wiser. You and First Lady Lisa are a God send.
God bless you and your family.
Right now I’m ignoring a guy I dated twice, with multiple calls as well. Thursday he gave me an ultimatum I was to come to his lake house either Saturday or Sunday-I could choose. We were going to swim, ride the boat and then I was to ride him. I said NO, I won’t, that’s way too fast for me, I move slooooow! He begins to chastise me, did I want to become a biddy and die alone? He/this was an opportunity of a lifetime and if I didn’t show up he was “moving on.” I say ok I have to go and hung up.
Thinking that’s it, I’ll never hear from this guy again. Wrong, he texts me the next AM…how am and what time did I want to go out. I ignore him. He texts two more times, then calls and leaves me a message, “he’s worried about me, let him know if I’m alright.” I continue to ignore him. More happened but I have ignored him. He then sends me a text asking if I’m ghosting him? What, I’m flabbergasted he just gave me an ultimatum and I refused and he’s confused why I won’t speak to him. Really, does he really think that or does he want to find out where he went wrong in his attempt to get me in bed as fast as possible?
This man really thought I was going to hop on his ultimatum and show up and do something I didn’t want to do. He chastised me for having morals.
What Blake has assured me of is stand my ground.
These types are evil devils. It’s never about “how I feel,” it’s about “how they feel.” Do they have my best interest in mind? If not run. I ran.
Thanks to all.
I am so glad to see that some women's are waking up.
Listening to Pastor Blake, and also Stephan Speaks, has solidified the fact I have found my future husband in my boyfriend.
Great message🙏🔥👑
A Wife/Queen gets into position to be pursued. A Husband/King prepares to pursue with wisdom.
"When a persons spirit gives you peace that is gods endorsement" i think thats a beautiful quote. Sent it to my mum and the person im currently dating. If you get that thats all you need to know. Peace is everything! It will give you security, love, trust, understanding!
God has given me so much peace that anyone who tries to come in my life and disturbs my peace has to go! I thank God for protection!!! Thanks for the confirmation!
Energy never lies! What a powerful point!I I'm just experiencing this in a new relationship. He wants me to call and talk to me every day!
Peace is foundational for me. It's the greatest lesson I learned from previous relationships.
It's going to save you a lot of wasted time and energy if you just wait for the right one. Never settle for a relationship because you don't want to be alone or because you don't believe that you can find better. What is meant for you, will find its way to you.
💙UA-camr That Helps People Overcome Toxic Relationships
I totally agree 💯
AMEN💯🙏
Amen & Amen!! I wish when I was younger I knew these 7 signs. But glory be to God, he sent me a man that demonstrated ALL 7 signs (I didn't know it).I thought it was because he was 9 years older than me. But God!!! He's gone on to Glory now (7/20/2018). We spent 32 years of marriage together, retired 30 years from the military, & 3 awesome adult children.
This will help me when a companion pursues me and I approve him...wink wink. Blessings to you & your lovely wife.
12:06 My goodness! I’m heavy on this right now! If it does not bring me peace, I will not deal or engage with it.
Thank you RC. It would’ve been great if I knew this information 54 years ago. I hope younger women are listening to you and following your knowledge.
Come on Pastor!..You teaching today!!... I needed to hear this 20 years ago, but thank GOD that it's never too late to actually get it right!! This is the season of doing it the right way!!
You express exactly now I feel ...never too late. Pastor was teaching so many of us today
I love the music at the beginning. Music prepares the heart to receive and heals the soul❤Great teaching and info Bishop 🙏🏾🙏🏾
yes!!!
Yes. So worth it! Be curious, becoming an adventurer exploring the suffering in the name of realizing that it is actually not part of you ❤️ Coming up on one month in the community you have created. I move through my life so much more freely. Celebrating curiosity; not being a wanker 😊 haha had to bring that quote back around, Saja.
Thank you, Pastor Blake. This type of man has entered into my life. I thank God for him.😊
i'm saving this not only to review for myself, but to let my son listen as it not only identifies a high value woman, but the characteristics of a high value man! Thanks RC!!
This song 🎵 is absolutely BEAUTIFUL and uplifting!!! 🙏🏽🙌🏽
What song is it?
@@shontaeherring6967 It’s the Intro!
@@trinaa.2070 do you know the title and artist?
@@deliciapowell2123 no..
@@deliciapowell2123 they mention it all throughout the live chat. Dave Hollister
Many people definitely undervalue the essence of peace. It's essential for a healthy marriage/relationship. Materialism has hurt our culture for too long.
"Never open up your life to people who don't deserve a conversation. don't devalue yourself"
I love how real you are in today's modern world. You understand women and men who are involved with each other outside of the marital means and don't pass judgment. You make us understand what to look for beyond the superficial. Thank you, pastor Blakes. You are a father figure from THEE father figure on high. Thank you! Xo
I’m so happy you’re teaching teens!!! I wish I had known how important peace and security are in a relationship in my 20s 😅
Lord! I wish I had this message a few years back before being caught up in an unhealthy entanglement - but Lord, I thank you for the Bishop whose tutelage has produced great growth in me! (As I straighten my crown)
BISHOP BLAKES THANK YOU FOR HELPING US QUEENS TO STRAIGHTEN OUR CROWNS👸🏾👸🏾💜💜💜🙌🏿👐🏿MAY GOD CONTINUE TO BLESS YOU AND YOUR FAMILY🤗💯💯💣💣💣
@@janellamurphy5665 Amen as well these videos are so helpful !!!!
Me and you both..lolol
This was profound in so many ways. I work with clients weekly who think they have to play games to keep a man but a man who’s interested in you will pursue you to the fullest degree. A woman who knows her worth will be selective in who she dates.
This is great. I’m in a relationship where I feel no peace. I kind of summed it up to it being another woman but I’ve found no proof and he says no. So it could just be that we aren’t meant to be.
We don’t have conversations that I enjoy. They mostly end in arguments unless I totally agree with him - which I rarely do. We don’t go anywhere together or do anything besides lay around the house and raise our child. Anything we do together is usually my idea and I end up not enjoying myself and wish I would’ve went by myself or with my kid.
He has no plan for me or our family. He is clearly okay with letting everything fall on me.
In previous relationships, it seems that he has just been a warm body and a source of attention for women and now he feels like that’s all women need/want. He offers nothing else. He contributes financially (minimally) yet wants all the praise.
I just wish I would’ve been smarter and not chose this man to create life with so now that I see he has nothing of substance to really offer, I cut leave with no ties.
We live and learn so don't beat yourself up. The longer you stay the harder it becomes to leave. Focus on yourself and your child and get outta there then reestablish your boundaries for your child. Stay positive always God bless you.
This description is typically what I've been through
@@marthaaseno8426 How are you doing? How are you handling it? It’s not fun at all.
I can relate now post 53 yrs to a narcissist…when they show no interest in the family it becomes a one sided relationship. Bishop is saying the man should have a vision!! Take care of yourself and child. Life is too short. 🙏🏻🙏🏻❤️
Produces peace in my spirit and a sense of security/ protection. When his personal goals and purpose are intriguing to me. 2 visionary people come together to reach the world. A wise woman slowssssss things down. A safe man is patient and consistent. The focus is on a improved future. When I can learn things from him. A good man volunteers information ( Lord Jesus). There’s a absence of ego ( Lord Jesus again). Respect him, return positively, bring peace and appreciate his value. Amen 🙏🏾.
Pastor
You said it”that ego” is a hard one for some men to tame…
Bishop, when I say your teachings are always on point and so relevant to my life right now... thank you! I've been "binging" your videos since coming across your channel last week. I'm happy to know that my Queen Consciousness is in tact but I'm always improving. When you hit #1 and #2 on this list, I couldn't stop shouting. 😊 It's as if God took all the words from my heart and placed them in your mouth.
How blessed we are to have you on this journey!❤
Thank you Lord,you prepared him for me,I can't ask for more!
You have sung this song to me after 7 yrs of waiting.
Praise and thank you Lord 🙏✝️
Thank you so much Pastor Blake. The energy never lie and my mistake was I gave him a benefit of a doubt as I do not want to judge someone because of their past. My mistake was I didn’t take enough time to get to know him long enough before I get emotionally involved. I ignored the red flags and even a Christian man doesn’t mean he’s a good man for me. It hurts but I would rather pay now than later. One thing I know is when he left I felt a relief and at peace 🙏🏽😊. It confirms that God is telling me he ain’t the ONE.
Love take heart and pave the way for this comment. Please look at your phrase “dumb as a box of rocks” that statement is spirituality paralyzing and does not belong with all the great information you’re sharing and I appreciate. Thank you
You remind me of my dad. A calming and peaceful presence. Great fatherly advice.
Literally was praying about desiring a man that allows me to rest. Thank you for sealing this message in my spirit.
Amen, the ego is a big one !!! it needs to be demolished
You teaching good Bishop! I love this. I know what it looks like living with a Narcissist. I’m currently in a separation after almost 23 years. I got the victory. 🙌🏾
The first point about being at peace when you’re around them 👏🏽👏🏽
Is that David Hollister singing the intro song? That’s so cool
This message is EVERYTHING! Thank you, Pastor Blakes.
My all time favorite chanel ✝️🙏❤️
Mines to!!!
This song makes me feel safe and strong!!!!!
Then comes the word from paster……. Absolutely miracle loving
What’s the name of this song?
This gentleman I’m entering a courtship with is an ex Marine of 25yrs and has been an officer of the law. I’m a little skeptical about his character since he’s militant. But so far so good as him making good on this list. I still have to prove him regarding his ego. 👑
I’m just now discovering this channel but I am so thankful I have because I am learning so much! Thank you
This is powerful! #2 brought so much wisdom, clarity, healing for me. #3 slow down and not being quick to Give Away my virtue...powerful! I have used this list to evaluate past relationships and assess current relationship, wow!!!
Peace In Your Spirit.
God that you for this man, thank you for the leadership given to him to lead with integrity, holy spirit, wisdom and knowledge. I have truly grown mentally and spiritually since listening to him. Thank you for this platform. Jesus is awesome!
This teaching has blessed my ENTIRE life!!! I've been following for a couple of months and have learned so much!! You are a true blessing to me!!!
Thank you so much Bishop RC Blakes Jr. for all you do to change the life of all for the better. You are valued. I look forward to listening to you. Many blessings to you, Lisa & your family. 🙏🏼
Thanking God for Bishop and First Lady Blakes! Excellent teaching Sir. 👍🏽🙏🏽
Amen.. I bought Kingology for my son in law. Thus, he may educate himself and my two grandsons. It's much need with this generation 🤍🤍🤍 Blessings to all the Blakes'
That's Right Catch God's Daughters Before Satan get ahold of them 12-17 yr olds. That's why I love Pastor Blake's.
Your heart will speak to you directly when you have met " the one". You won't need a u tube video to affirm it to you.
Your mindset is unhealthy
Speak for YOURSELF.
Thank you and Lisa for everything you teach us!!
The song in the beginning is beautiful and this message is right on time. Thank you for sharing these gems with us. I've been following for a few months and taking notes while actively practicing your advice. I'll just say this seems like confirmation but I'm still going to practice wisdom and let time tell. Thank you for the additional content on how to respond in kind to someone who hits all 7.
Thank you Pastor for another great message! Peace is priceless and too many times its value is underestimated.
I could listen to understand and gain knowledge and wisdom ALL DAY! Reminds me of my father; who would say these things to me, but it wasn’t always as clear! I’ve got to listen with my daughter! 🙏🏽♥️💎
Quite inspiring! Thank you, Sir.
Who else saw this video twice? Couldn’t just get enough of it.
Thank you for this. Something that ladies need to hear from mothers and fathers. But sadly some parents fail to teach their children properly and instead traumatize them. This is a blessing and you are helping a lot of ladies!!
Thank you! Thank you! My possible "The One" has checked off on all of your points. Still praying🙏🏾
Booommmm! Realll and funny. Omggggg the Man MUST PROVE HIMSELF and Consistent! Nooo compromise on it. Respect your anointing Bishop.
Thank you Pastor Blakes for presenting this subject matter🙌🏾
Thank you LORD for all you do through Bishop Blakes. Thank you for engraving your word upon his heart. Amen
Spiritual father when you said make him wait until you see some narcissistic episode to see who he really is. So true but I could have fall out..keep teaching us!!!
Papa Blakes never disappoints this is all super rich wisdom. Bless you and Queen Lisa 💙🙌🏾
I just wanted to say, you soothe my soul. Every single time I'm patient and sit down with your words I'm inspired and absolutely left deeply grateful. Pure gold content! I can feel the energy with a man, though am not adept at verbalizing it, so your words are a key to my soul and expression. Thank you for all you do!!!
PS Your style is fantastic!
Much love from the Midwest US 💖
Great video!💯Peace is the golden and clearer sign of all, even if the prospect is a christian and is showing most of the other good qualities from a distance; but if you don’t feel Peace just depart like the Pastor said, or at least slow down and take it very easy and before you know it the Holy Spirit will start highlighting certain words and statements that reveals the true face of an impostor. Be very careful when he is trying too hard to make you believe that he is the one, or that God has told him that you are supposed to marry him when the reality is that you are also a believer, a prayer warrior and you are Not receiving the same confirmation in your spirit from God.🕊
Everything I wish I had learned from my father. Living my days now in a pile of trash due to my inability to know what I should have known.
You’re a blessing in my storm.
This topic was on point ! When will us women wake up and stay woke😳
You just don’t understand how your videos have helped me so much in this season of life. You’ve been apart of my healing journey when it comes to my absent father wounds! Can’t thank you enough, just started dating again (never been in an adult relationship) and I feel so freakin empowered and sure of myself. I finally trust myself to date/let someone in. Things just feel so right. ❤️ so thanks again!
God's BLESSINGS Pastor Blakes 🙏🏽🙌🏾!!
Preach on I thank you for your words of wisdom. GOD has given you such a gift 🎁.
I SO ENJOY LISTENING TO YOU. AS A OLDER WOMAN, I CAN STILL LEARN.
This one is the best yet. You keep refining your gift RC. Love from Trinidad and Tobago 🌎🇹🇹
What a knowledgeable man of God you are.
May God continue to bless you always!
Thank you SOO MUCH for your tireless work In helping us heal. You have put verbiage and definition to MOST of my life's experiences that I did know what I had been experiencing, or how to articulate it. Thank God for you. Well done Sir :).
Pastor Blakes, thank you for all of your teachings 😞😞😩😩🙏🏼🙏🏼♥️♥️ My father just passed away a few months ago, & I’m extremely vulnerable right now. Because of his passing , & abuse that I have endured from past partners, im very fragile & I cry very easily. I’m broken 😞 I’m so many pieces. I feel so used and abused. I’m dating someone now and he shows of the good signs that you speak of, but I’m still not sure from being hurt in the past. Thank you for all of your teachings 😞😞🥺🥺🥺💜❤️❤️❤️❤️
This was such an anointed word bishop .. God bless you for the words of wisdom!
The intro song is very Powerful. Especially when the words said she's so strong even in struggle. SIMPLY BEAUTIFUL!
Taking me to my purpose with truth integrity, fearing not and trusting in the Most High! You and your family continue to do your purpose.
Im here because of Tony Gaskins. He mentioned this gentleman’s name. Im so happy to be here. What a great message
Lol, my first husband had basement capacity. Wow, truth
Absolutely loved the sermon!!!
I legit said "@ Weeks" with Rev and laughed at myself... We live, listen and we learn. Now we know better 😄
“A man has to have a vision to make room for you.” This is such vital information. You are helping many, Pastor. So many. Bless You & Your Beautiful Wife, Lisa. ❤
Oo God bless you Mr RC Blakes you are heaven sent.
Listening to you again my dearest Pastor, it’s heart worming and an eye opening. I wish I had this lesson of wisdom of yours long time ago.. as it’s never to late. Thank you tons for what you do and for helping everyone to keep this in mind and that the holly spirit and the almighty GOD will guide us all through our life in an healthy relationship . Amen 🙏😇
RC Blakes speaks wisdom. I am repeatedly amazed at how he speaks straight to my life and my experiences. I feel empowered to face the future as I navigate being single after 30 years of marriage to a narcissist. WHen I’m struggling with something dealing with new possible relationships, I know I can always find him speaking to that exact situation. I am grateful for these talks. He speaks the Truth! Thank you so much.
Thank You for letting God speak through you and using your ministry to help others.🙏🏾 ❤
This was awesome confirmation!
Thank you for the education Bishop RC Blakes