That is the truth, the absolute truth!! And through a series of strange and unusual events, I was led right to his house. The man was possessed of many devils and including generational curses. My behavior was perfect while I was there. I spent hours praying, worshipping God binding devils in the name of Jesus, anointing the house with prayed over olive oil. I am an anointed daughter of the Living God and have every right and authority to do this. And was even asked by him to pray. Well, I don't think he was ready for what happened the next morning. The Lord woke me up in the night and told me that the next day would be very rough. The Devils were activated and angry. His entire character and face distorted and his face shifted and he looked like a demonic creature right in front of me. I began to pray quietly and in tongues on the other side of the kitchen. The Devil in him begin to laugh uncontrollably and spit at me and began to call me vile names and curse me. The day before, he was singing about God in the most beautiful of voices with perfect pitch. I felt like I was listening to Lucifer himself! Not one word he sang was off-key! I now know where Satan lives. He lives inside of people to use their mouth to use their heart to use their hands to use their legs and to use their feet do his bidding I have volumes full of testimonies and miracles that my God has done for me, but you cannot help a narcissist who does not want to surrender to Jesus and become born again. I want everyone to know who the narcissist of all narcissists is. It is Satan, and I know where he lives!
Never ignore the energy and spirit of a person. It's not about where you are now it's about where you are going. Never ignore words spoken in anger. Never ignore circles that are consistent. Donot ignore fruit. Never ignore spiritual witness in your heart. Don't ignore the counsel of others. Pay attention to negative outcomes. Thank you sir.
When I was dating my ex, God gave me that verse about wolves in sheep’s clothing. The fruit was mediocre. But if I’m being honest, my reaction to all the spiritual warfare and add in coping with triggers from past trauma, my fruit wasn’t looking good either. I was a mess and lost. Almost lost my way completely by compromising myself and my original standards entering into the relationship. Definitely should have listened to that spiritual witness in my heart. It was a lot of flesh at a certain point. 😢
1) Never ignore a person whose energy or spirit is in direct disagreement with your peace. 2)Do not ignore words spoken in anger. 3)Never ignore cycles that are consistent. (Cycles are a testament to character) 4)Stop ignoring fruit! (Take inventory of all the relationships in your life & ask yourself what is their fruit producing in my life? Is there anything beneficial?) 5)Never ignore or overlook the spiritual witness in your heart. (Holy Spirit is always speaking to us). 6)Never ignore, look over or sweep under the rug the counsel of those that have proven to love you. 7)Never ignore negative outcomes. (The Most High is about progress!)
Thank you so much for posting notes for us ❤ I usually take copious notes but there are times I put Bishop on while I'm moving around the house or I'm out! So Bless You Dear One!
I finally got the courage to leave an abusive 25 year marriage. My ex-husband was mean and liked to lay hands on a woman. He was on drugs, addicted to porno, and a constant cheater. He was never apologetic for the things he said or did to me. My low self esteem allowed me to stay as long as I did. You cannot change anyone!😢 His energy was toxic and he was not trustworthy...My life now without him is the best decision I made to change and go forward...I thank God for keeping me!!❤
“If their spirit doesn’t resonate with your spirit - never ignore.” 💯!!!! Never ignore!!! Those flags are there. It’s for protection and to create boundaries.
7 things u must never IGNORE There are things in life u must never look over. Learning is by experience It should make you wise Ephisians 6 :18 Pray always and watch will all persevierence 1).never ignore the energy or spirit of a person 2)Never overlook words spoken in anger *words spoken in anger are true 3)Never Ignore cycle that are consistent Cycle are character Jeremiah 13:23 4)stop ignoring fruits Mathew 7 5)Never overlook the spiritual witness in you Proverb 1:21 6)Never ignore the council of those who love you 7)Never overlook negative outcome
"When you start having people with bad energy trying to attach themselves to you all of a sudden it's not about where you are but about where you are going" Solid GOLD!!❤
he described me exactly in the first few moments of this video. empathy and kindness has not served me well UNTIL i learned to trust my intuition and follow my head more than my heart. i learned to not only express my boundaries but to enforce the
My parents never possessed effective communication. For instance: me at 16.. "Mom, how do i know who I should marry?".... Mom..."You just Know." So here i am wandering aimlessly through life because every answer i get from my parents were vague and lacking guidance. Thank God for Pastor Blakes
If you were raised in the 70s 80s, parents I feel didn't give advice or protect their kids enough. I had so much freedom and my parents were upstanding parents, but didn't really give solid life or relationship advice, precautions. We are the generation that grew up fast and had to learn through experience and through many trials. We were independent as children.
"There are a whole lot of good people, but just some aren't good for me." Pastor Blakes, you are the best! That put to words something I've been thinking about a long time like maybe this person is good, but for me personally, I need to avoid them.
I ignored my spiritual witness in my heart. I got in a relationship with an unbeliever for over a year. My ex messed my life up. Today I'm wounded by what he did to me. I can't eat sleep or think. Please please pray for my mind and spirit im struggling😥
The same happenned to be. Please believe you will get better. Psychologically im getting there being one year single. But all the stress gave me a serious auto immune disease. Its been rough but im asking God for cure or a relief. Believe and claim the Blood of Jesus over you to clean all evil spiritual influence. Be safe.
How? Did he ever claim to be a Christian? I’m talking to someone who claims to be a Christian but the spirit is saying no he is not, he has nothing to say when I speak about scripture and the Lord. He just gives me a blank stare when I bring up God, he is Coptic Orthodox
@@Actavella did you ever go with him to his church? If not i suggest you propose this. You will find out fast enough if he really is christian or not. Orthodox liturgies tend to be long. It is fail proof to find out if he loves God or not. If hes not serious about you or the Church he will be resistant to such request. When im in Church i am very attentive and respectful. So i would say these are the signs to look out for. Wish you all the best.
I still listen to my mom's counsel because she's been there and done that. My mom started as a teenage mom and she's 72 years young now to teach me. Thank you for your message Bishop Robert C Blakes Jr...you are a blessing ❤
You are right. I just ended a relationship with what I found to be a Narcissist. O ignored my feelings from the start, but he was "love bombing" which I was unaware of then. Shortly after we became involved, after I thought I'd thoroughly evaluated him for a year, after his persistence to the point I asked him what was the rush, I started feeling like my spirit literally wanted to jump out of my body. It felt like something was trying to push out! It was scary and to the point it took me a while to get to sleep trying to shake it ofg. I was scared to wake up to do anything, because I knew the feeling would return As soon as we broke up, that feeling left. Thank God!
They can't handle feeling responsible for how their words and actions affect you. They don't want to revisit conflicts which is why they can't change. They also can't handle it if you are sick or in pain. It's like you are simply imposing on their comfort level or purposefully killing their vibe. Don't be sick around them because you definitely will not be tended to
If you're getting uncomfortable energy from someone but another person says, oh they treat me good and I didn't notice anything. Do not listen to that person. You are not talking about how they are with them you know how their energy is with YOU. Usually it's best not to befriend someone who is friends with a person who you get uncomfortable or bad energy from even if you like that person. Just be cordial and keep it moving. You can't trust them .
Hey what if it's family that I know are using me and lying to me what do I do . And it's a big lie that I found out the truth of but when I brought up with others involved they all convinced me I was crazy for 5 years for even thinking that and that maybe I should go in a psych ward ... but I got told the truth my another person. How do I know what to do :(
@@cheese6258 family can be some of the most toxic people and biggest liars. No matter WHO it is trying to make you feel bad about yourself 😭 you need to separate yourself from such folks so that you can heal and have a peaceful soul 💙 anybody that truly loves you won't be trying to make you feel bad about yourself or telling lies on you or to you. Bad energy is bad energy. Pray 🙏🏾 for them and keep your distance.
The way the phrase was taught to me was: the person that learns from their mistakes is smart, the person that learns from other’s mistakes is wise the person that learns from neither is a fool.
Ooh so good! If I am grieved, Holy Spirit is grieved! 💥 Recently met a man but holy spirit said “Beware - Be Aware” - that warning feeling was there. We met at church and the next morning I prayed to cut it off. Never heard from him again . 😅
This message was so timely for me. I have given folks the benefit of the doubt and swept things under the rug many times because I didn’t want to accept the truth about them. If people are liars, manipulators and abusers, being good to them will not change them. Their true nature and spirit will always prevail and show itself. It’s ok to let them go and let the ship keep smoothly sailing. Bless God!
Yep - I have let go some friends that aren’t producing good fruit. And I have been peaceful since then. That’s when I knew it was Holy Spirit lead me into the direct direction ❤.
7:17 Paul being grieved. “Grieved”. “You’ll discover, there’ll be people who’ll sing your praises, do all of the right things, but there’ll be something about them that will grieve you. This is not for you to judge or demean them, that’s for you to pay attention, establish boundaries. There is something about this person that just doesn’t agree with you.” Bishop RC Blakes.
25:29 #5 “you must never ignore, you must never overlook the Spiritual Witness in your heart. The Holy Spirit is always talking to us. You wanna act like you don’t hear the Holy Spirit. The Holy Spirit is always talking to you, but because in your flesh you wanna roll with this, but the Spiritual Witness in your own heat is already telling you no. Your flesh wants this, but I’m saying now, you got to learn to stop ignoring the Spiritual Witness in your heart because you’re not promised to always have access to spiritual leaders. There’re some things that God is gonna talk to you directly about.” Bishop RC Blakes. How true! “There’re some things that God is gonna talk to you directly about.” Thank you Bishop RC Blakes. May God bless you more❤️🤲🏽🙏🏾🤗
I'm so glad he decided to listen to the holy Spirit and bring to us this message, thank you so much for making yourself available Pastor, God bless you and your family. ❤️🙏
Never ignore cycles that are consistent. 😢 Cycles are testiment to character. Cam you make a video of what a high value man looks like innerly please specially for woman who grew up without a father , or a positiveale role model please thankyou so much .
8:00 Acts Ch 16, verse 16-18 “The same followed Paul and us, and cried.” “You know many times, when a person’s spirit doesn’t agree with you, they’ll pursue you. You’ll feel bad about establishing your boundaries. After all this person has been pursuing you and you don’t want to come across as more important than them….” Bishop RC Blakes
I’m so glad I found your channel, I watch at least one of your videos a day because there is a WEALTH of knowledge that you share in each video regardless of the topic. Listening to you is really helping me re-examine some key areas in my life, thank you!
You will be alright, please take the all the time you need, get counseling if needed, it is ok to vent, talk about things with people who loves you & support you, and it is ok to ask for help. Protect yourself, Believe in yourself, Love yourself...Things will be ok❤.
Bishop RC, the VERY FIRST STATEMENT, the horns are literally sticking out of the head, God has allowed me to see it, DISCERN IT & I talk myself out of what I KNOW GOD HAS TOLD ME! ,I ignore it! Spot on!
I’m in a situation that I have tried to ignore my Inter Spirit but every time this person come around I feel uneasy and irritated just because this person is in my presence, but soon as this person leaves I feel relieved.
This is such a revelation to me!!!! I can see this cycle in many people I know and care for. I keep asking God why are these people in my life acting like this. God has kept me isolated for a reason because the moment I get close here comes the enemy ready to attack. Thanks for your knowledge.
Yes Lord!! “When your spirit is grieved- that’s a warning sign!” Friends and family had to go- I could not keep those toxic connections any longer!! Yes yes!!! Overlooked it way too long.
I always have tried to see what is good in any and every one. Im 57 and it seems like I must be foolish to insist that deep down there is good in everyone... Refusing to believe in inherent evil
You know what?! I am so overjoyed and amazed when Gid divinely places a word in your 👂🏽 ear. Like, I was just telling the Lord how someone close to me has been acting. I said I don’t know what to say to this guy. I just don’t know, anymore. I don’t know if he’s for me, if he’s a God send, I just don’t know. He’s everything on paper 📝 ( my checklist). But it’s a part of me that just wants to say “bye”. Lord beholds, I click on my UA-cam and this 😮captures me. I don’t if this is going to solve anything but I believe this is speaking to my 💗heart.
It was my first time listening to you. Good word!! ❤ separate yourself from bad energy, love them from a distance, and stay prayerful for their deliverance 🙏🏾
Never ignore the spirit of a person that don’t agree that God telling you something this person don’t have your best interest. God ❤us so much he give us a GPS in our spirit if we pay attention. Don’t go by what other people say or think of the person they can be deceive or lack of understanding of the person spirit. I also pay attention to people that don’t understand or respect my boundaries. Some people are very manipulative and deceptive. I can forgive you but that doesn’t mean the restoration of the relationship.
You are preaching tonight! I wish I had heard this in my younger years. So thankful you are putting this out there for women today. I’m still taking so much from this. Thank you for empowering us with your wisdom! ❤️🙏
Pastor! This message spoke to me this morning! There is an out of order spirit in my dad... and my spirit truly is grieved because I'm torn between honoring thy father and cutting him out of my life completely!
1. Someone's spirit/energy 2. What they say when they are angry, not in a moment of passion! 3. Never ignore consistent cycles (if the person is an OC liar manipulating and deceiving uou that's what he is) you cannot change someone who's cycle is continuously evil 4. Never ignore fruit! If apples are hanging on the tree it's an apple tree, if lemons, it's a lemon tree! Stop with charisma and charm! Pay attention to the evil fruit! Most charmers are terrible deep down! (Take a inventory on all your relationships-is there any thing of great substance in it, any growth, anything great added) 5. Never ignore holy spirit talking to your heart! It always does, aka intuition 6. Never overlooked the counsel of those that have proven to love uou! Most will listen to the entire world, but the ones that love, empathize and actually want the best for you! 7. You must Never ignore, you must Never ignore, you must Never ignore the negative outcome of something! ⭐️⭐️ if no glimmer of hope and everything about that thing is sinking you in the ocean, WAKE UP and pay ATTENTION!
"THANK YOU", PASTOR RC, FOR SPEAKING THE TRUTH, AND FOR LETTING US TO REMEMBER, TO "NEVER IGNORE THE SIGNS OR THE SAME FOLLOWING PATTERNS", THAT WE SEE WITHIN OUR RELATIONSHIPS" ... BLESSINGS ALWAYS, MS. DEBORAH J. STEELE - 10/08/23
I REALLY ENJOYED THIS VIDEO! IT MADE ME LOOK AT THINGS I DO DIFFERENT. THE LAST THREE RELATIONSHIPS HAVE ENDED THE SAME WAY...WITH LIARS AND ABUSERS ... PEOPLE THAT GOD HAS SHOWN ME FROM JUMP ....THAT I IGNORED...AND THINGS ENDED WITH ME GETTING HURT. I HAD A TOUGH LESSON TO LEARN FROM THOSE TOXIC RELATIONSHIPS. GOD IS REMOVING THOSE TOXIC PEOPLE OUT OF MY LIFE. I HAVE TO KEEP THEM OUT! IN LIFE WE BRING TROUBLE...HURT AND PAIN ON OURSELVES FOR OUR DISOBEDIENCE TO GOD. IT PAYS TO LISTEN...HEAR AND ABIDE BY THE SPIRIT OF GOD! THANK YOU BISHOP BLAKES FOR THIS MESSAGE! GOD BLESS YOU!
I remember someone came in my life and when I saw them I screamed “no!!!!” Just out of no where. Now I see what it was. The Holy Spirit was jumping straight out of me trying to save me but I ignored it. It was so weird.
Thank you so much for this word. God blessed me with a strong gift of discernment. Growing up I didnt have a lot of friends because I always seem to automatically know who was and who wasn't for me. But as I came into adulthood I was labelled as being judgemental, picky, unfriendly, antisocial and everything under the sun but a child of God. I learnt to question my intuition (who I now believe is the Holy Spirit) and it has lead to a lot of heartbreak and disappointment. But despite it I'd still talk myself out of trusting that still small voice. It's taken a major betrayal to wake me up. In the months of sadness and asking God why He said to me 'because you did not trust me.' I'm now rebuilding my trust in God because from the onset He has always been with me.
This is spot on. I try to avoid negative spirits at all cost! 💯 only surround yourself with positive good spirited people. You can usually tell the heart of a person by their energy and through the eyes! 💯
I just wanted it to work so bad! But the cycles continue. Powerful word. I was praying it would change or made excuses for how he acted. I ignored the concern of those who really care about me. I was isolated and I had began to believe all of the negative things he said about me. Once I started to get away from him; I started interacting with people that uplifted me and by God's grace I woke up out of that nightmare. Thank you Bishop Blake's for all your wisdom. Words could never express how thankful to God I am for you. You are definitely doing God's work. I know we should try the spirit by the spirit; however unless you've dealt with a narcissist, you can never understand how crafty and masterful game players they are. They will have you doubting yourself; slowly through love bombing. All the while they're molding you into who they want you to be to them; which is their slave, puppet, and whipping post. Their words are like butter, coupled with the love bombing; RUN!
Bishop Blakes, now that I have surpassed the ripe old age of 65(+) it is so sad to think of all the years that I wasted trying to make square pegs fit into round openings. Some people will never be comfortable with my values, and vice versa! But the churches just keep talking about “Love your enemies!” The Churches seem to forget that Jesus ( although HE was the embodiment of Universal LOVE) had to leave His relatives and his childhood neighborhood, because that environment was TOXIC and DESTRUCTIVE to His Spirit!!
Every single time anything like this happens it has been where I was raised, consequently from the wicked one. Conversely, whenever I have left my hometown I have experienced nothing but blessings, up to 7 X. Mal3:10. I had that same epiphany after sleeping of a seed that burst through the soil and germinated. Thus by the grace of God, He is still blessing me, my Lord and my redeemer! Praise the Lord Jesus Christ in Heaven.😊😅😂❤🎉
Pastor, thank you for this message. I wish it would have come to me 6 months ago. I would have saved myself so much grief, anger, and disappointment in myself. All 7 reminded me of a recent past relationship that I should have walked away from years ago. I continued to ignore the holy spirit on so many occasions.
I'm sure many other ppl needed this message.. but I truly believe God had you deliver it to me personally.. I ALWAYS want to see the good in ppl. Even when it's not there.. my discernment tells me watch out this isn't good and I turn the volume down on that warning and turn up the volume on my rational of the situation.. 99.9% of the time my discernment was on point. I'm learning..!! Thank you Bishop for sharing game with us (women) or.. atleast... I need it.. it's treacherous out here. I fear that I might not believe a good man is really.. a good man when he presents himself in my life.. I keep you and first lady in my prayers.. thank you
Bishop Blakes I can listen to you all day. Your teachings are transforming my views as a young woman. When are you opening a branch in South Africa? 🇿🇦🇿🇦
10 min 25 seconds in, I am floored. 🙌🏾 It's harder when it's your own parents, but boundaries are necessary when I am disaligned wirh God when I keep that toxic relationship...Thank you bishop🙏🏾
I like that you said that you cannot ignore cycles. I came to understand that I had a habit of getting in my own way. As a result, I failed when great opportunity comes my way. It hurts. I lost several good jobs because I was in my own way. I decided to not get another job until I figure out what the problem. Why was I failing? It was me. I could not blame anyone else except myself. I was in my own way. You are so right when you said, the Holy Spirit is always talking to us. I prayed about my situation. Guess what? The next day you came up on my UA-cam feed. "There is Wisdom in Silence." There is a time to be quiet. Especially when there are people who are trying to get under my skin. These people are sent to you to test your integrity to yourself and to the Creator.(I am not working right now). I am using this time to work on learning to be Silence. Some say that I am very opinionated. I disagree. . I feel that people shouldn't ask question, that they really don't want the answer to. However, I am learning that there is wisdom in Silence. Yes, it hard to be Silent when you are use to talking, especially when you are provoke. Now, I pay attention to my emotions and I listen to people and I also pay attention to people energy. This I am practicing today. I plan to look for another job next year. I am also working on becoming my own boss. I am more of a compassionate person. I hate evil people. Can't stand them. Evil when I face these people who seek to provoke. This is a time to listen, stay calm, speak in peace. Never allow myself to be provoke.(I have to recognizes this Spirit when it arrive). I now pay attention to myself and the energy of others. I know that I am a child of God. I know that I need him to be with me always. Today, I Never leave my house without him. I am paying more attention to myself and my inner spirit. Yes, I have to regroup, because it does matter.
This is such a great word!! Thank you Pastor!! I pray for every woman struggling putting the one that mistreated them before themselves. I knew all a long even when God said no. I just wanted and still want it to be him. Im fighting to choose myself and my peace.
Bang! Bang! Bang! Your words make a loud sound in all of me. "Never ignore a spirit that comes to rob you of your future." Absolutely profound! RC you are anointed in your calling to us..... to listen and become all that the The Father has for us.....wise as a serpent and as harmless as a dove. You are a Wonderful gift. Thank you.
This is so true 🙏Lord thank you for this video ☝🏽Only God 🙌🏼Today I was arrested by the Holy Spirit ❤God saved my soul many times he doesn’t ever get tired of saving you God wants you to Come back. I hate falling I hate straying away from God, but every time I do❤I come back 10x stronger. Ecclesiastes 1:2-4 “Vanity of vanities, says the preacher, vanity of vanities! All is vanity. What does a man gain by all the toil at which he toils under the sun ? A generation goes, and a generation comes, but the earth remains forever.
Yes, I have been there. I was connected with a 'fine' man for 12 months. As much as he says he was I christ. He needed deliverance from a bondage. He was broken and not free in Christ. He did not want to attend a church and felt uneasy when we were around holy spirit filled people. Lord have mercy on him. He was prideful and did not know the Lord. He was baptised but not saved.
"Some people will never like you because your spirit irritates their demons" ~ Denzel Washington ~
Amen
That is the truth, the absolute truth!! And through a series of strange and unusual events, I was led right to his house. The man was possessed of many devils and including generational curses. My behavior was perfect while I was there. I spent hours praying, worshipping God binding devils in the name of Jesus, anointing the house with prayed over olive oil. I am an anointed daughter of the Living God and have every right and authority to do this. And was even asked by him to pray. Well, I don't think he was ready for what happened the next morning. The Lord woke me up in the night and told me that the next day would be very rough. The Devils were activated and angry. His entire character and face distorted and his face shifted and he looked like a demonic creature right in front of me. I began to pray quietly and in tongues on the other side of the kitchen. The Devil in him begin to laugh uncontrollably and spit at me and began to call me vile names and curse me. The day before, he was singing about God in the most beautiful of voices with perfect pitch. I felt like I was listening to Lucifer himself! Not one word he sang was off-key! I now know where Satan lives. He lives inside of people to use their mouth to use their heart to use their hands to use their legs and to use their feet do his bidding I have volumes full of testimonies and miracles that my God has done for me, but you cannot help a narcissist who does not want to surrender to Jesus and become born again. I want everyone to know who the narcissist of all narcissists is. It is Satan, and I know where he lives!
Amen 🙏
Very very true
Yes!!!
What you sweep under the rug will eventually trip you!
DAMN THAT'S TRUE BECAUSE IT WILL IN THE END
Never ignore the energy and spirit of a person.
It's not about where you are now it's about where you are going.
Never ignore words spoken in anger.
Never ignore circles that are consistent.
Donot ignore fruit.
Never ignore spiritual witness in your heart.
Don't ignore the counsel of others.
Pay attention to negative outcomes.
Thank you sir.
When I was dating my ex, God gave me that verse about wolves in sheep’s clothing. The fruit was mediocre. But if I’m being honest, my reaction to all the spiritual warfare and add in coping with triggers from past trauma, my fruit wasn’t looking good either. I was a mess and lost. Almost lost my way completely by compromising myself and my original standards entering into the relationship. Definitely should have listened to that spiritual witness in my heart. It was a lot of flesh at a certain point. 😢
“Better to rock the boat than wait for the boat the sink “ that’s hits me hard wow !
Beautiful...amen
1) Never ignore a person whose energy or spirit is in direct disagreement with your peace.
2)Do not ignore words spoken in anger.
3)Never ignore cycles that are consistent. (Cycles are a testament to character)
4)Stop ignoring fruit! (Take inventory of all the relationships in your life & ask yourself what is their fruit producing in my life? Is there anything beneficial?)
5)Never ignore or overlook the spiritual witness in your heart. (Holy Spirit is always speaking to us).
6)Never ignore, look over or sweep under the rug the counsel of those that have proven to love you.
7)Never ignore negative outcomes. (The Most High is about progress!)
Thank you ❤
Thank you so much for posting notes for us ❤ I usually take copious notes but there are times I put Bishop on while I'm moving around the house or I'm out! So Bless You Dear One!
Thank you for the notes. So appreciative.❤
Thank You
Thank you very much! I screenshot it.
I finally got the courage to leave an abusive 25 year marriage. My ex-husband was mean and liked to lay hands on a woman. He was on drugs, addicted to porno, and a constant cheater. He was never apologetic for the things he said or did to me. My low self esteem allowed me to stay as long as I did. You cannot change anyone!😢 His energy was toxic and he was not trustworthy...My life now without him is the best decision I made to change and go forward...I thank God for keeping me!!❤
You’re a courageous woman. God bless you ❤
@@islip376 Thank you so much.
Praise God you got out!😊 I'm praying for you sis! ❤🙏🏾
You are a courageous woman.
Amen.
When big bro said,
"Cycles are a testament to a person's character!"
TRUTH 💯💯💯
This has helped me!!!
“If their spirit doesn’t resonate with your spirit - never ignore.” 💯!!!!
Never ignore!!! Those flags are there. It’s for protection and to create boundaries.
TRUE
7 things u must never IGNORE
There are things in life u must never look over.
Learning is by experience
It should make you wise
Ephisians 6 :18
Pray always and watch will all persevierence
1).never ignore the energy or spirit of a person
2)Never overlook words spoken in anger
*words spoken in anger are true
3)Never Ignore cycle that are consistent Cycle are character
Jeremiah 13:23
4)stop ignoring fruits
Mathew 7
5)Never overlook the spiritual witness in you
Proverb 1:21
6)Never ignore the council of those who love you
7)Never overlook negative outcome
Awesome teaching Bishop.
Thank you 🙏🏾
"When you start having people with bad energy trying to attach themselves to you all of a sudden it's not about where you are but about where you are going" Solid GOLD!!❤
The only one I trust is God. He is the only one who truly loves ME ! 😇
I am 60 years old and still learning with an opened mind. Thank you for the encouragement and wisdom.
It’s not about who you are right now ..it’s about who you’re destined to be ….I SHOUTED RIGHT THERE….. JESUS
he described me exactly in the first few moments of this video. empathy and kindness has not served me well UNTIL i learned to trust my intuition and follow my head more than my heart. i learned to not only express my boundaries but to enforce the
❤
That’s me too 100% and it’s a toxic trait in itself allowing others to maltreat us. Love & joy to you.
Same. Holy Spirit told me I was naive. Then He started teaching me. I'm VERY grateful.
Same here…
Me too
Don't ignore what a person says when they are intoxicated either! A drunken tongue Speaks a sober mind!
Thank you so much for your Wisdom. I am a 54 year old woman still learning. Thank you 🙏🏾
Milk
My parents never possessed effective communication. For instance: me at 16.. "Mom, how do i know who I should marry?".... Mom..."You just Know." So here i am wandering aimlessly through life because every answer i get from my parents were vague and lacking guidance. Thank God for Pastor Blakes
I can relate
If you were raised in the 70s 80s, parents I feel didn't give advice or protect their kids enough. I had so much freedom and my parents were upstanding parents, but didn't really give solid life or relationship advice, precautions. We are the generation that grew up fast and had to learn through experience and through many trials. We were independent as children.
"There are a whole lot of good people, but just some aren't good for me." Pastor Blakes, you are the best! That put to words something I've been thinking about a long time like maybe this person is good, but for me personally, I need to avoid them.
I ignored my spiritual witness in my heart. I got in a relationship with an unbeliever for over a year. My ex messed my life up. Today I'm wounded by what he did to me. I can't eat sleep or think. Please please pray for my mind and spirit im struggling😥
The same happenned to be. Please believe you will get better. Psychologically im getting there being one year single. But all the stress gave me a serious auto immune disease. Its been rough but im asking God for cure or a relief. Believe and claim the Blood of Jesus over you to clean all evil spiritual influence. Be safe.
I’m going through something similar. Hopefully we’ll both get what God has for us.
Try guided meditation and being in the moment
How? Did he ever claim to be a Christian? I’m talking to someone who claims to be a Christian but the spirit is saying no he is not, he has nothing to say when I speak about scripture and the Lord. He just gives me a blank stare when I bring up God, he is Coptic Orthodox
@@Actavella did you ever go with him to his church? If not i suggest you propose this. You will find out fast enough if he really is christian or not. Orthodox liturgies tend to be long. It is fail proof to find out if he loves God or not. If hes not serious about you or the Church he will be resistant to such request. When im in Church i am very attentive and respectful. So i would say these are the signs to look out for. Wish you all the best.
I still listen to my mom's counsel because she's been there and done that. My mom started as a teenage mom and she's 72 years young now to teach me. Thank you for your message Bishop Robert C Blakes Jr...you are a blessing ❤
You've nailed it, Pastor RC Blakes. Keep on blessing us. You're God-given. Thank You.
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That is a blessing to have. My Mom always gave me the most terrible dating advice.
That’s truly a blessing you still have your mother to give you her wisdom. May Fod continue to bless her❤
Never look over the counsel of those who have proven to love you🙌🏼⭐️🙏🏽
When your whole family don't like the person energy...Don't go or there will be pain!
Thank you Sir👍🏽
You are right. I just ended a relationship with what I found to be a Narcissist. O ignored my feelings from the start, but he was "love bombing" which I was unaware of then. Shortly after we became involved, after I thought I'd thoroughly evaluated him for a year, after his persistence to the point I asked him what was the rush, I started feeling like my spirit literally wanted to jump out of my body. It felt like something was trying to push out! It was scary and to the point it took me a while to get to sleep trying to shake it ofg. I was scared to wake up to do anything, because I knew the feeling would return
As soon as we broke up, that feeling left. Thank God!
Wow, it definitely is an unseen spiritual battle when we are around those types of people.
Glad you got out of that.
They can't handle feeling responsible for how their words and actions affect you. They don't want to revisit conflicts which is why they can't change. They also can't handle it if you are sick or in pain. It's like you are simply imposing on their comfort level or purposefully killing their vibe. Don't be sick around them because you definitely will not be tended to
If you're getting uncomfortable energy from someone but another person says, oh they treat me good and I didn't notice anything. Do not listen to that person. You are not talking about how they are with them you know how their energy is with YOU. Usually it's best not to befriend someone who is friends with a person who you get uncomfortable or bad energy from even if you like that person. Just be cordial and keep it moving. You can't trust them .
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Hey what if it's family that I know are using me and lying to me what do I do . And it's a big lie that I found out the truth of but when I brought up with others involved they all convinced me I was crazy for 5 years for even thinking that and that maybe I should go in a psych ward ... but I got told the truth my another person. How do I know what to do :(
@@cheese6258 family can be some of the most toxic people and biggest liars. No matter WHO it is trying to make you feel bad about yourself 😭 you need to separate yourself from such folks so that you can heal and have a peaceful soul 💙 anybody that truly loves you won't be trying to make you feel bad about yourself or telling lies on you or to you. Bad energy is bad energy. Pray 🙏🏾 for them and keep your distance.
So true
Facts!! Birds of a feather...
The way the phrase was taught to me was: the person that learns from their mistakes is smart, the person that learns from other’s mistakes is wise the person that learns from neither is a fool.
Ooh so good! If I am grieved, Holy Spirit is grieved! 💥
Recently met a man but holy spirit said “Beware - Be Aware” - that warning feeling was there. We met at church and the next morning I prayed to cut it off. Never heard from him again . 😅
The blind leading the blind...😢😮❤...
After truely listening to you RCBlakes I noticed that I had to make specific changes when it comes to certain people ☺️ non family and family members
This message was so timely for me. I have given folks the benefit of the doubt and swept things under the rug many times because I didn’t want to accept the truth about them. If people are liars, manipulators and abusers, being good to them will not change them. Their true nature and spirit will always prevail and show itself. It’s ok to let them go and let the ship keep smoothly sailing. Bless God!
Yep - I have let go some friends that aren’t producing good fruit. And I have been peaceful since then. That’s when I knew it was Holy Spirit lead me into the direct direction ❤.
Faith will always produce enough fruit, to allow you to see you're on the right track
7:17 Paul being grieved. “Grieved”. “You’ll discover, there’ll be people who’ll sing your praises, do all of the right things, but there’ll be something about them that will grieve you. This is not for you to judge or demean them, that’s for you to pay attention, establish boundaries. There is something about this person that just doesn’t agree with you.” Bishop RC Blakes.
Every time I hear about the fruit of a person… it hit me like a ton of brick because it’s true and it something we ignore… MY GOD!
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@@teresa28ist oooweeee… is right cause babyyyy lol… childddd
Facts!!! My God!
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25:29 #5 “you must never ignore, you must never overlook the Spiritual Witness in your heart. The Holy Spirit is always talking to us. You wanna act like you don’t hear the Holy Spirit. The Holy Spirit is always talking to you, but because in your flesh you wanna roll with this, but the Spiritual Witness in your own heat is already telling you no. Your flesh wants this, but I’m saying now, you got to learn to stop ignoring the Spiritual Witness in your heart because you’re not promised to always have access to spiritual leaders. There’re some things that God is gonna talk to you directly about.” Bishop RC Blakes.
How true! “There’re some things that God is gonna talk to you directly about.” Thank you Bishop RC Blakes. May God bless you more❤️🤲🏽🙏🏾🤗
Well said!
I'm so glad he decided to listen to the holy Spirit and bring to us this message, thank you so much for making yourself available Pastor, God bless you and your family. ❤️🙏
Never ignore cycles that are consistent. 😢
Cycles are testiment to character.
Cam you make a video of what a high value man looks like innerly please specially for woman who grew up without a father , or a positiveale role model please thankyou so much .
High value man/woman is really not a real thing...I hate they came up with that foolishness...it's frustrating...
8:00 Acts Ch 16, verse 16-18 “The same followed Paul and us, and cried.”
“You know many times, when a person’s spirit doesn’t agree with you, they’ll pursue you. You’ll feel bad about establishing your boundaries. After all this person has been pursuing you and you don’t want to come across as more important than them….” Bishop RC Blakes
I’m so glad I found your channel, I watch at least one of your videos a day because there is a WEALTH of knowledge that you share in each video regardless of the topic. Listening to you is really helping me re-examine some key areas in my life, thank you!
The Lord definitely sent you to deliver this message. This is my fourth time listening to this.
Never look over cycles that are consistent!
My husband and I are currently separated and it's been hard...I needed this TODAY!
It seems I need a coming to Jesus moment in my marriage.
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You will be alright, please take the all the time you need, get counseling if needed, it is ok to vent, talk about things with people who loves you & support you, and it is ok to ask for help. Protect yourself, Believe in yourself, Love yourself...Things will be ok❤.
Bishop RC, the VERY FIRST STATEMENT, the horns are literally sticking out of the head, God has allowed me to see it, DISCERN IT & I talk myself out of what I KNOW GOD HAS TOLD ME! ,I ignore it! Spot on!
I’m in a situation that I have tried to ignore my Inter Spirit but every time this person come around I feel uneasy and irritated just because this person is in my presence, but soon as this person leaves I feel relieved.
That is the spirit of discernment
This was a message for my soul, thank you Bishop Blakes 🙌🏾🙏🏾
This is such a revelation to me!!!! I can see this cycle in many people I know and care for. I keep asking God why are these people in my life acting like this. God has kept me isolated for a reason because the moment I get close here comes the enemy ready to attack. Thanks for your knowledge.
"I almost spun around in my chair."
❤This man just read my mail!!!!!! Jesus!!!!❤
Yes Lord!! “When your spirit is grieved- that’s a warning sign!” Friends and family had to go- I could not keep those toxic connections any longer!! Yes yes!!! Overlooked it way too long.
No matter what I go through 💖 GOD 🙏 is awesome 😎👍
Words spoken in anger ARE true - thank you ❤
I always have tried to see what is good in any and every one. Im 57 and it seems like I must be foolish to insist that deep down there is good in everyone... Refusing to believe in inherent evil
2 minutes in and I know already it will be another video of pure wisdom
Sir, you can speak truth for hours, I'd be here to listen. Thank you for words of wisdom.
You know what?! I am so overjoyed and amazed when Gid divinely places a word in your 👂🏽 ear. Like, I was just telling the Lord how someone close to me has been acting. I said I don’t know what to say to this guy. I just don’t know, anymore. I don’t know if he’s for me, if he’s a God send, I just don’t know. He’s everything on paper 📝 ( my checklist). But it’s a part of me that just wants to say “bye”. Lord beholds, I click on my UA-cam and this 😮captures me. I don’t if this is going to solve anything but I believe this is speaking to my 💗heart.
Mann, I needed this spiritual Butt whooping! 😂 I bless the divinity in you, Pastor 🙏🏽 From my spirit, Thank you
You are hitting the nail right on the head with every word you say. God bless you for sharing your wisdom 🙏
It was my first time listening to you. Good word!! ❤ separate yourself from bad energy, love them from a distance, and stay prayerful for their deliverance 🙏🏾
When it is your family it is more difficult to keep the boundary.
This message speaks to me and my current situation. Thank you Bishop RC Blakes 🙏🏾
Never ignore the spirit of a person that don’t agree that God telling you something this person don’t have your best interest. God ❤us so much he give us a GPS in our spirit if we pay attention. Don’t go by what other people say or think of the person they can be deceive or lack of understanding of the person spirit.
I also pay attention to people that don’t understand or respect my boundaries. Some people are very manipulative and deceptive. I can forgive you but that doesn’t mean the restoration of the relationship.
You are preaching tonight! I wish I had heard this in my younger years. So thankful you are putting this out there for women today. I’m still taking so much from this. Thank you for empowering us with your wisdom! ❤️🙏
I released someone I loved, to God. I told them, allow God to fix them, but I gotta keep moving. My Destiny and seed depends on it.
Pastor! This message spoke to me this morning! There is an out of order spirit in my dad... and my spirit truly is grieved because I'm torn between honoring thy father and cutting him out of my life completely!
The PRICE a person pays 🖐🏼 for not listening to God is VERY EXPENSIVE!
1. Someone's spirit/energy
2. What they say when they are angry, not in a moment of passion!
3. Never ignore consistent cycles (if the person is an OC liar manipulating and deceiving uou that's what he is) you cannot change someone who's cycle is continuously evil
4. Never ignore fruit! If apples are hanging on the tree it's an apple tree, if lemons, it's a lemon tree! Stop with charisma and charm! Pay attention to the evil fruit! Most charmers are terrible deep down! (Take a inventory on all your relationships-is there any thing of great substance in it, any growth, anything great added)
5. Never ignore holy spirit talking to your heart! It always does, aka intuition
6. Never overlooked the counsel of those that have proven to love uou! Most will listen to the entire world, but the ones that love, empathize and actually want the best for you!
7. You must Never ignore, you must Never ignore, you must Never ignore the negative outcome of something! ⭐️⭐️ if no glimmer of hope and everything about that thing is sinking you in the ocean, WAKE UP and pay ATTENTION!
"THANK YOU", PASTOR RC, FOR SPEAKING THE TRUTH, AND FOR LETTING US TO REMEMBER, TO "NEVER IGNORE THE SIGNS OR THE SAME FOLLOWING PATTERNS", THAT WE SEE WITHIN OUR RELATIONSHIPS" ... BLESSINGS ALWAYS, MS. DEBORAH J. STEELE - 10/08/23
I REALLY ENJOYED THIS VIDEO! IT MADE ME LOOK AT THINGS I DO DIFFERENT. THE LAST THREE RELATIONSHIPS HAVE ENDED THE SAME WAY...WITH LIARS AND ABUSERS ... PEOPLE THAT GOD HAS SHOWN ME FROM JUMP ....THAT I IGNORED...AND THINGS ENDED WITH ME GETTING HURT. I HAD A TOUGH LESSON TO LEARN FROM THOSE TOXIC RELATIONSHIPS. GOD IS REMOVING THOSE TOXIC PEOPLE OUT OF MY LIFE. I HAVE TO KEEP THEM OUT! IN LIFE WE BRING TROUBLE...HURT AND PAIN ON OURSELVES FOR OUR DISOBEDIENCE TO GOD. IT PAYS TO LISTEN...HEAR AND ABIDE BY THE SPIRIT OF GOD! THANK YOU BISHOP BLAKES FOR THIS MESSAGE! GOD BLESS YOU!
I remember someone came in my life and when I saw them I screamed “no!!!!” Just out of no where. Now I see what it was. The Holy Spirit was jumping straight out of me trying to save me but I ignored it. It was so weird.
Thank you so much for this word. God blessed me with a strong gift of discernment. Growing up I didnt have a lot of friends because I always seem to automatically know who was and who wasn't for me. But as I came into adulthood I was labelled as being judgemental, picky, unfriendly, antisocial and everything under the sun but a child of God. I learnt to question my intuition (who I now believe is the Holy Spirit) and it has lead to a lot of heartbreak and disappointment. But despite it I'd still talk myself out of trusting that still small voice. It's taken a major betrayal to wake me up. In the months of sadness and asking God why He said to me 'because you did not trust me.'
I'm now rebuilding my trust in God because from the onset He has always been with me.
This is spot on. I try to avoid negative spirits at all cost! 💯 only surround yourself with positive good spirited people. You can usually tell the heart of a person by their energy and through the eyes! 💯
I just wanted it to work so bad! But the cycles continue. Powerful word. I was praying it would change or made excuses for how he acted. I ignored the concern of those who really care about me. I was isolated and I had began to believe all of the negative things he said about me. Once I started to get away from him; I started interacting with people that uplifted me and by God's grace I woke up out of that nightmare. Thank you Bishop Blake's for all your wisdom. Words could never express how thankful to God I am for you. You are definitely doing God's work. I know we should try the spirit by the spirit; however unless you've dealt with a narcissist, you can never understand how crafty and masterful game players they are. They will have you doubting yourself; slowly through love bombing. All the while they're molding you into who they want you to be to them; which is their slave, puppet, and whipping post. Their words are like butter, coupled with the love bombing; RUN!
💯Amen.......🙏😊🙌💯
Never Ignore the Counsel of those that have proven they Love you. ...
Bishop Blakes, now that I have surpassed the ripe old age of 65(+) it is so sad to think of all the years that I wasted trying to make square pegs fit into round openings. Some people will never be comfortable with my values, and vice versa! But the churches just keep talking about “Love your enemies!” The Churches seem to forget that Jesus ( although HE was the embodiment of Universal LOVE) had to leave His relatives and his childhood neighborhood, because that environment was TOXIC and DESTRUCTIVE to His Spirit!!
I agree with you. I do. Not turn the other cheek for people to strike me on that one either. 🙄
@monicabarnes8566 period 💯 God is in my soul but Me who I am baby no...uh uh not happening!
My husband told me when he was angry that he was a dog.And eventually bit me.
I agree with you
Every single time anything like this happens it has been where I was raised, consequently from the wicked one. Conversely, whenever I have left my hometown I have experienced nothing but blessings, up to 7 X. Mal3:10. I had that same epiphany after sleeping of a seed that burst through the soil and germinated. Thus by the grace of God, He is still blessing me, my Lord and my redeemer! Praise the Lord Jesus Christ in Heaven.😊😅😂❤🎉
Anger mix with alcohol and get some real good truth
You are the only Christian that I listen to, respect and admire. The only one. I am not Christian at all. But you are different.
Pastor, thank you for this message. I wish it would have come to me 6 months ago. I would have saved myself so much grief, anger, and disappointment in myself. All 7 reminded me of a recent past relationship that I should have walked away from years ago. I continued to ignore the holy spirit on so many occasions.
🔥 🙏 amen 🙏 🙌 👏
I'm sure many other ppl needed this message.. but I truly believe God had you deliver it to me personally.. I ALWAYS want to see the good in ppl. Even when it's not there.. my discernment tells me watch out this isn't good and I turn the volume down on that warning and turn up the volume on my rational of the situation.. 99.9% of the time my discernment was on point. I'm learning..!! Thank you Bishop for sharing game with us (women) or.. atleast... I need it.. it's treacherous out here. I fear that I might not believe a good man is really.. a good man when he presents himself in my life.. I keep you and first lady in my prayers.. thank you
U not the only one 🤗
Hallelujah
Amen awesome word
This warning message is so important. Wish I heard it 20 years ago. Listen ladies, and save yourself a river of tears.
Bishop Blakes I can listen to you all day. Your teachings are transforming my views as a young woman. When are you opening a branch in South Africa? 🇿🇦🇿🇦
1st point: Never ignore bad energy!
15:30 Anger is the real truth serum. What they say then is the truth.
10 min 25 seconds in, I am floored. 🙌🏾 It's harder when it's your own parents, but boundaries are necessary when I am disaligned wirh God when I keep that toxic relationship...Thank you bishop🙏🏾
Y’all got married on my birthday 🥳 happy anniversary 🎉
I like that you said that you cannot ignore cycles. I came to understand that I had a habit of getting in my own way. As a result, I failed when great opportunity comes my way. It hurts. I lost several good jobs because I was in my own way. I decided to not get another job until I figure out what the problem. Why was I failing? It was me. I could not blame anyone else except myself. I was in my own way. You are so right when you said, the Holy Spirit is always talking to us. I prayed about my situation. Guess what? The next day you came up on my UA-cam feed. "There is Wisdom in Silence." There is a time to be quiet. Especially when there are people who are trying to get under my skin. These people are sent to you to test your integrity to yourself and to the Creator.(I am not working right now). I am using this time to work on learning to be Silence. Some say that I am very opinionated. I disagree. . I feel that people shouldn't ask question, that they really don't want the answer to. However, I am learning that there is wisdom in Silence. Yes, it hard to be Silent when you are use to talking, especially when you are provoke. Now, I pay attention to my emotions and I listen to people and I also pay attention to people energy. This I am practicing today. I plan to look for another job next year. I am also working on becoming my own boss. I am more of a compassionate person. I hate evil people. Can't stand them. Evil when I face these people who seek to provoke. This is a time to listen, stay calm, speak in peace. Never allow myself to be provoke.(I have to recognizes this Spirit when it arrive). I now pay attention to myself and the energy of others. I know that I am a child of God. I know that I need him to be with me always. Today, I Never leave my house without him. I am paying more attention to myself and my inner spirit. Yes, I have to regroup, because it does matter.
Great information !
Thank you Pastor R C Blakes, Jr.
This is such a great word!! Thank you Pastor!! I pray for every woman struggling putting the one that mistreated them before themselves. I knew all a long even when God said no. I just wanted and still want it to be him. Im fighting to choose myself and my peace.
Bishop what an on time message. God bless you for speaking truth. God said the truth will set you free! Amen 🙏🏼 ❤
Keep on preaching bishop!!! Amen!
“If I’m constantly lying to you, I’m just a liar!”😆
I'm protected by God's and grace and mercy and my family ❤️ 😊
Cycles are a testament to a person's character, this helped me!!!
Preach
Bang! Bang! Bang! Your words make a loud sound in all of me. "Never ignore a spirit that comes to rob you of your future." Absolutely profound! RC you are anointed in your calling to us..... to listen and become all that the The Father has for us.....wise as a serpent and as harmless as a dove. You are a Wonderful gift. Thank you.
This is so true 🙏Lord thank you for this video ☝🏽Only God 🙌🏼Today I was arrested by the Holy Spirit ❤God saved my soul many times he doesn’t ever get tired of saving you God wants you to Come back. I hate falling I hate straying away from God, but every time I do❤I come back 10x stronger. Ecclesiastes 1:2-4 “Vanity of vanities, says the preacher, vanity of vanities! All is vanity. What does a man gain by all the toil at which he toils under the sun ? A generation goes, and a generation comes, but the earth remains forever.
Thank u ALWAYZ
Ur teachings have changed me… stay blessed ❤
Yes, I have been there. I was connected with a 'fine' man for 12 months. As much as he says he was I christ. He needed deliverance from a bondage. He was broken and not free in Christ. He did not want to attend a church and felt uneasy when we were around holy spirit filled people. Lord have mercy on him. He was prideful and did not know the Lord. He was baptised but not saved.