This lady did not say anything useful. I would not call her a dating master. She is single, admits to being an awkward flirt, and "doesnt know how to stop being in her masculine"... Ok? So why are we listening to her? This felt like two clueless friends having coffee.
Regarding the mother of boys thing: I have a son, and have had a hard time finding TV shows, movies, books, even clothing that embodies the way he is or the standards we have. So much of the media that is aimed toward boys is really rude. Shirts with things like, "Leave me alone, mom, I'm gaming..." Stuff like that. I remember being in a popular children's clothing store with my son when he was about six and him looking around and saying, "Why are the boys clothes so boring and mean?" Everything was black, red, brown, dark green. And it's kind of true. It's all dinosaurs riding skateboards with slices of pizza. My point is that I think we're kind of boxing kids into certain corners that aren't necessarily the healthiest. A lot of TV shows for boys have a lot of fart jokes in them, lots of snarky remarks, and just not super positive or upbeat messaging in general. But you look at shows more aimed toward girls and it's a lot of solving friendship problems, navigating your emotions, following your dreams... That kind of thing. Obviously this isn't true of every show but I do feel like we are kind of boxing kids in with the kind of media we show them. My son is really sweet, very loving, just wants to build with Legos and hang out with animals. He doesn't like things like prank shows or rude, bullying behavior. It's honestly hard to find media that has a strong male protagonist that's also a good role model. So we find books with strong female leads as well as strong male leads. The Mysterious Benedict Society is our favorite series. I want him to grow up with a great deal of respect for women and girls, and also the positive message that you can get ahead in life without being a rude jerk. It starts young, people. Teach your kids, boy and girl, to be nice human beings and then they will be much better friends and partners in life.
This is a fantastic comment @susanjeffries5108. I agree and am happy to see there are people with this perspective. These are the type of values I would raise my future kids with as well.
I don't think a single thing was said in this video that wasn't a regurgitation of some random think piece online. I wish podcasts would only come out when there is something new or real to add to a conversation. We all know as women how frustrating the pink tax is etc but what else...? just feels lazy and repetitive.
we were told that our value came from being a provider, protector, and leader. Women no longer need those things. Since we are no longer needed, we are lost. What do you value in men?
@@MvkHntr Partnership and support. Women can do anything (for the most part lol), but we can’t do everything!! Partners use their own skills to make each other’s lives better. It’s really that easy. Companionship. Be interesting. Be funny. Be kind. Just be there. Romance. Make us feel loved and wanted and beautiful and appreciated. And we should do the same. 😊 good luck to you!
@katiegarces thank you. I hope you're right. Do you think women are up to the task? do you think men are up to the task? if not, what should we do because it's not as simple as you think.
@@MvkHntr hmm I’m not sure what you mean by up to the task, the task is really just to try. there are certainly societal and mental health factors that are going on right now for both men and women, but I believe that anyone who wants a relationship has the ability to try their best to be a good partner, companion, and lover. Will anyone get it perfect? No, of course not, that’s where love and patience and grace come in. Sorry I don’t have a better answer for you 🤷🏻♀️😌
@@MvkHntr I think that depends on the woman. I personally enjoy the differences between men and women and don’t enjoy the competition between - it doesn’t feel natural. I like balance of harmony between the sexes and believe we complement eachother. There are notable strengths and differences between men and women and I value them: the feeling of protection and comfort of a resource provider, but beyond that someone with a kind heart, intelligence, humour and compatible interests is just as important - but I feel like the sentiment that men are valued for being providers and protectors is sort of old fashioned now and that people are made to feel like those things shouldn’t matter anymore? I need and value my husband for those very ‘old-fashioned’ qualities among others. As the ‘high-investment’ sex, I’m not going to lie and say those things don’t matter, because that would go against principles of sexual selection.
I think if you re providing and doing everything in your home, that doesnt make you the man or masculine. That just blow my mind like we are inferior or something. I just cant believe what society has taught us. Mind blowing
I wanna say how of an incredible journey it was growing with valeria and her family, it's been years I've seen the changes the ups and downs the evolution , learned so much and had so much fun with the boys 💖 luv from Tunisia
This is the first time in history where women are working and have the option to earn money. This doesn’t mean that your sons will be left out and are unwanted. It just means girls can have grown up they have the option to work as well as being a mother. It’s just funny how one girls have options men become victims and now society is now horrible to boys. Please name examples where boys are being held back. Just because women work now? Literally girls are banned from going to school in Afghanistan and women can’t even walk the streets in iran.
NO NUH UH, I judge women who marry for money. The modern assumption is you marry someone because you love them, so unless in some way communicated, these women are tricking their men. I have no problem if it is a clear transaction that both sides agree to, not a 1 sided lie.
I wish podcasts would totally stop and Valeria would finally go back to her original content. They were so authentic and fun. This feels so forced, just to extend the watch time hours...
Why did it become a trend to have skin that looks like it is 40° Celsius outside and you are back after a long run 😂 I mean... this peeling is HARD ...is there any skin left 😂?
You're not as special as you think you are. At the end of this journey you'll realize you've never really produced or offered sht to this life. You're just self centered.
@@a.grigorivna2210 too many things to address. It's filled with misguided and silly takes . Parroting other, out to lunch podcasts. I feel bad for anyone taking this stuff seriously.
This lady did not say anything useful. I would not call her a dating master. She is single, admits to being an awkward flirt, and "doesnt know how to stop being in her masculine"... Ok? So why are we listening to her? This felt like two clueless friends having coffee.
Regarding the mother of boys thing: I have a son, and have had a hard time finding TV shows, movies, books, even clothing that embodies the way he is or the standards we have. So much of the media that is aimed toward boys is really rude. Shirts with things like, "Leave me alone, mom, I'm gaming..." Stuff like that. I remember being in a popular children's clothing store with my son when he was about six and him looking around and saying, "Why are the boys clothes so boring and mean?" Everything was black, red, brown, dark green. And it's kind of true. It's all dinosaurs riding skateboards with slices of pizza. My point is that I think we're kind of boxing kids into certain corners that aren't necessarily the healthiest. A lot of TV shows for boys have a lot of fart jokes in them, lots of snarky remarks, and just not super positive or upbeat messaging in general. But you look at shows more aimed toward girls and it's a lot of solving friendship problems, navigating your emotions, following your dreams... That kind of thing. Obviously this isn't true of every show but I do feel like we are kind of boxing kids in with the kind of media we show them. My son is really sweet, very loving, just wants to build with Legos and hang out with animals. He doesn't like things like prank shows or rude, bullying behavior. It's honestly hard to find media that has a strong male protagonist that's also a good role model. So we find books with strong female leads as well as strong male leads. The Mysterious Benedict Society is our favorite series. I want him to grow up with a great deal of respect for women and girls, and also the positive message that you can get ahead in life without being a rude jerk. It starts young, people. Teach your kids, boy and girl, to be nice human beings and then they will be much better friends and partners in life.
This is a fantastic comment @susanjeffries5108. I agree and am happy to see there are people with this perspective. These are the type of values I would raise my future kids with as well.
Women have modernized, cut modesty, cut purity and everything he cares about
You're effeminizing your son and turning him into a male that won't like males and will have a very rough time existing in masculine spaces.
I don't think a single thing was said in this video that wasn't a regurgitation of some random think piece online. I wish podcasts would only come out when there is something new or real to add to a conversation. We all know as women how frustrating the pink tax is etc but what else...? just feels lazy and repetitive.
There is no real “pink tax” - this is mostly nonsense. Also have you been to say a club in Vegas where men pay 70% more for example.
I feel like men sometimes don’t know where they stand in life or where their value is anymore.
we were told that our value came from being a provider, protector, and leader. Women no longer need those things. Since we are no longer needed, we are lost. What do you value in men?
@@MvkHntr
Partnership and support. Women can do anything (for the most part lol), but we can’t do everything!! Partners use their own skills to make each other’s lives better. It’s really that easy.
Companionship. Be interesting. Be funny. Be kind. Just be there.
Romance. Make us feel loved and wanted and beautiful and appreciated. And we should do the same.
😊 good luck to you!
@katiegarces thank you. I hope you're right. Do you think women are up to the task? do you think men are up to the task? if not, what should we do because it's not as simple as you think.
@@MvkHntr hmm I’m not sure what you mean by up to the task, the task is really just to try.
there are certainly societal and mental health factors that are going on right now for both men and women, but I believe that anyone who wants a relationship has the ability to try their best to be a good partner, companion, and lover. Will anyone get it perfect? No, of course not, that’s where love and patience and grace come in. Sorry I don’t have a better answer for you 🤷🏻♀️😌
@@MvkHntr I think that depends on the woman. I personally enjoy the differences between men and women and don’t enjoy the competition between - it doesn’t feel natural. I like balance of harmony between the sexes and believe we complement eachother.
There are notable strengths and differences between men and women and I value them: the feeling of protection and comfort of a resource provider, but beyond that someone with a kind heart, intelligence, humour and compatible interests is just as important - but I feel like the sentiment that men are valued for being providers and protectors is sort of old fashioned now and that people are made to feel like those things shouldn’t matter anymore?
I need and value my husband for those very ‘old-fashioned’ qualities among others. As the ‘high-investment’ sex, I’m not going to lie and say those things don’t matter, because that would go against principles of sexual selection.
I think if you re providing and doing everything in your home, that doesnt make you the man or masculine. That just blow my mind like we are inferior or something. I just cant believe what society has taught us. Mind blowing
That's interesting so I gather that you would marry a man and pay all the bills?
I wanna say how of an incredible journey it was growing with valeria and her family, it's been years I've seen the changes the ups and downs the evolution , learned so much and had so much fun with the boys 💖 luv from Tunisia
Valeria didn’t have the experience of having to split the bill for a date because that’s the energy she projects. High value woman energy.
Living vs documenting ! Love that insight
This is the first time in history where women are working and have the option to earn money. This doesn’t mean that your sons will be left out and are unwanted. It just means girls can have grown up they have the option to work as well as being a mother. It’s just funny how one girls have options men become victims and now society is now horrible to boys. Please name examples where boys are being held back. Just because women work now? Literally girls are banned from going to school in Afghanistan and women can’t even walk the streets in iran.
Still riding the Afghan victim coattails, poorly aged white ♀️
You are not from Afghanistan or Iran, coattail rider
But they don’t want to pay for dates. Make it make sense.
What is the book Valeria talks in 26:00?
Anyone knows that book that Valeria mentioned?
They are the same age, but their perspectives are so different. Like of different generations.
I dated a guy who’s love language was clearly gifts so I would bring him one Reese’s cup all the time and he loved it lol
And what number boyfriend you on now?
@@matcampbell3552 I'm engaged, sis
NO NUH UH, I judge women who marry for money. The modern assumption is you marry someone because you love them, so unless in some way communicated, these women are tricking their men. I have no problem if it is a clear transaction that both sides agree to, not a 1 sided lie.
loved this
Glad you enjoyed it! Thanks for watching ❤
"Flop" = FuckBoy / Don't Give a Fuck No More Era
THE COLLAB WERE ALL NEEDED
vocal fry killed me
Way too many ads in this podcast
I wish podcasts would totally stop and Valeria would finally go back to her original content. They were so authentic and fun. This feels so forced, just to extend the watch time hours...
Why did it become a trend to have skin that looks like it is 40° Celsius outside and you are back after a long run 😂 I mean... this peeling is HARD ...is there any skin left 😂?
Have you never seen oily skin?? 🤨
I think it’s a Korean thing. Glass skin is what they call it
@@acd1168 and it looks like sht
The only complaint I have about this podcast is that it’s too short! Part 2 please!
Vel m single because i can't sacrifice being myself
You're not as special as you think you are. At the end of this journey you'll realize you've never really produced or offered sht to this life. You're just self centered.
I dont believe he has to like you more. What are you thinking about stop using your mind so much
Few seconds into the interview, I had to stop watching. This type of voice and type of speaking gets me into the nervous mode.
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Who’s watching this?😢
This is not a good episode
Why tho? I enjoyed it.
@@a.grigorivna2210 too many things to address. It's filled with misguided and silly takes . Parroting other, out to lunch podcasts. I feel bad for anyone taking this stuff seriously.
I quite agree unfortunately... I love Valeria - but the other lady is in a victimhood mentality and too woke for my liking.
It’s awful lol complete disaster nobody has there shit together
Can you please link the concepts mentioned?
@insta handles of people you referred to