Just wanted to say how much I love your videos and the person you are. Wish I could have been a better person in life, but I live forward and I strive to be a better person every day and you are a wonderful example of what we need more of in the world. Love you Jamel!
This song saved me as a teenager. I had snuck a gun out of my father's bedroom fully intending to commit suicide. I was in my bedroom running through everything back and forth through my mind, hyping myself to finally end it. I had the radio on pretty loud so my mom couldn't hear what I was about to do, and like a miracle, this song came on. I decided to try and hold on. It sends chills through me to look back at all of the wonderful experiences I would have missed had this song not came on.
Oh my...so glad you chose to stay. Life is beautiful, it's everything. Thanks so much for sharing this very personal experience. My first husband committed suicide when this song came out and for us left behind it's one of the most painful experience to go through
I couldn't agree more. Music in general is an incredible gift, but it's a song like this and the impact it can have on a person's life that takes it to the next level.
I believe this song has pulled more people back from the brink of suicide than any other popular song. I am not being glib. It somehow acknowledges one's pain and shows one how to look beyond it. Certainly, Michael Stipe's personal experience played into it. Watch early videos of the band; the phrase "painfully shy" seems to have been coined just to describe him. We can't ignore his growing up in Georgia in a military family and being (self-described) "queer." I love many R.E.M. songs. While this isn't my personal favorite, it may be the most important song they ever made.
This was written because of the bands disturbance with Youth suicide. So they wrote this song basically as a message that everybody can feel this way sometimes and they are not alone.
You are the first reactor to this song that has picked up on the fact that the lyrics that are being shown on the screen are their individual thoughts. THANK YOU for catching that.
The story I always heard about this song is Michael Stipe wrote this song after his GranFather passed away. And in tribute the hat he's wearing was his Grandfather's hat. On a personal note this video was filmed in San Antonio and at the time I was a waiter on the Riverwalk. The gentleman who was on the overpass throwing down pages of the Bible was someone I knew well. He was actually a Rose salesman on the Riverwalk. He went from restaurant to restaurant trying to sell roses to people.
I like how the traffic jam represents the pain and depression that everyone is mired in and the words of the song sort of inspire everyone to say "Screw it!" and get moving again. Just keep moving forward.
Hey Jamel. I've turned to this song at times when I needed a good cry. It's a brilliant, emotional, and empathetic song. It is amazing how such a simple song can move you to such strong emotions. And I've been that shoulder to cry on for friends. It ain't easy, but you gotta be there when people need you. ☮️ out!
I wish I could have played this with my brother on his last day here with us. 5 months ago. August 16, 2023. I don’t know what happened. I don’t know how he could be gone now but he is. But brother Jamel - the first reaction I saw you do was Van Halen - Panama. Laughed my ass off with you - Took me back to the Day... 1984… Watched that one on my Mom’s deathbed with her a month before she passed in ‘21. She remembered buying the tape for me in 1984 and she laughed too. One of our last memories together. Now crying my heart out with you and this song for the loss of my brother. Lost Mom, Dad and Brother in 2.5 years. Did you know you have a healing effect on people? Sometimes you pull me out of the dark. Love and peace to you bro.
You know Jamel, this song runs through everyone at some point in their lives. And you saying "You never know what a person is going through" is so right. In 2016, my baby brother, my only brother took his life. Even though my life 'stopped', it didn't, know what I mean? And as I was running errands, not seeing where I was going, just in my head and hurting BAD and I heard my name. It startled me. It was a guy I went to school with who had heard about my brother. He asked if it was okay for him to give me hug because it looked like I desperately needed it. He was right. That gesture was EVERYTHING!
Oh, Annette. I'm so sorry....I lost my eldest brother 2 years ago. He took his own life. I had seen him a week before (I live in a different country from the rest of my family) but obviously didn't read the signs. My father took his own life too 55 years earlier. This song is one that brings a lump to the throat, but it's a beautiful thing.
I'm so sorry for your loss. My first husband committed suicide too. This song had just come out and I stopped the car and bawled my heart out. Peace and love to you 🌹
@@JF-kv1gm Thank you for this. And I'd like to send my condolences to you as well. I talked to my brother on the phone 3 days before and the conversation made me uneasy. I thought I'd cook him his favourite meal and my sweet potato brownies he loved so much and have him vent to me. Unfortunately, that was a Wednesday and by Saturday night, my Dad was on the phone and my world fell apart. I felt like I dropped the ball. It's going to be 6yrs this April 30th and it still hurts. The pain of knowing what a dark place he was in to think that was his solution. I'm not angry with him. Just wish he was able to reach out, but sadly he was in too deep. I have his ashes here and talk with him daily. Not the same, but it's all I have now.
This song from 93/94 helped me grieve when my first husband committed suicide at only 33. Even today it can make me tear up as I remember those dark times. So touching... Michael Stipes such a brilliant songwriter and the piano....
I hope you see my comment. I saw this the first time you reacted to it. One of my favorite songs of all time. I can't express the strangeness of you reloading this. I'm being evicted which I completely understand but I really need this right now. Your blessings continue to inspire and encourage. Sending much love and light to you, yours and the universe. Thank you💜
Hey Jamal, I’ve been watching you for a while and it’s because you have a beautiful spirit and you bring so much joy and much-needed healing during such a difficult time for people. At the same time you gracefully express the truth & our reality with so much genuineness and compassion. You’re exactly what the world needs right now and you have a huge positive impact with every video you do. 👌🏼👍🏼 You are always thanking us for the support, so Thank You for doing what you do on your channel every day❣️ Keep going & God bless 🙏🏼💖
Thank you Jamel for this video. My next door neighbor needs help. She is an alcoholic, has visions of someone coming into her house at night. She has issues with reality. Her house is a big mess. When I moved next door here in SC, she drove me nuts with her antics. I help her with the lawn and things. Her son will not help her because of her antics. I have helped her here and there. She has been getting on my nerves, and I have not been too kind to her. This song and your words have jumped started my heart to start helping her again. Thank you my brother for waking me up to what God needs me to be. You da Man!!!
A song that will carry on generation after generation. I love it lyrically so so much . Many of us have felt this way at some point. Wishing EVERYONE WELL!!! Find ur happiness!!!!! Keep being YOU!!!
it's so devastating and the interesting thing to me is they're playing "happy" major chords on the guitar/keys. It's the lyrics and the pain in the voice that makes it so sad and relatable. Nothing Compares to You by Sinead O'Conner has a similar intensity.
The timing of this is perfect. At the age of 56, my employer is showing less interest in keeping me around. All that is going through my head is "What is my worth?" I have to admit...my mind has been dark at times. Thank you for this.
R.E.M. kept me sane for so many years. And they're all good dudes who shared everything equally within the band: profits, credits, & lyrics. Nobody is above each other. I really miss them. Never a bad album or song. Pure poetry.
Thank you for being one of the few today who are actually trying to effect change by recognizing the humanity in the guy next to you. This world needs more guys like you to help combat the "me vs. you" and red vs blue everything "versus" that we slog through these days. We all share so much more than we will recognize! We can have our different faiths and politics and cultural traditions....but at the end of the day we all only want a good supper on the table for our families and warm and dry beds to rest our weary bones in each night and a good day's pay for an honest day's work. Good health and a nice "Hey, how's it going?" from our friends. We really are all pretty much the same. Thank you for helping us to come together and enjoy good music and your good example.
The fact that he wrote Find the River for River Phoenix who obviously passed away & if I recall it was the song Kurt Cobain left on repeat in his home when he decided to opt out of his life. Kurt was a friend and huge fan of Stipe's. There's a lot of loss there. After Kurt died, Stipe bought his guitar which is featured in the What's The Frequency Kenneth? video.
R.E.M. was a name the band took out of the dictionary! They said it can mean whatever you want it to mean. The lead singer, Michael Stipe, said that these lyrics were written for teenagers because of their high suicide rate. He's letting them know that everybody hurts, tells them to take comfort in their friends. The last line in the song is "you're not alone." This song isn't only for teens, it's for all of us. R.E.M. has 15 studio albums, but here's the thing. Their live performances are BEST!
@maddogziggy yes that is the literal meaning but I think they chose it because it just sounded cool and not for its meaning so people could think of it what they will.
I cry like a baby every time I hear this song my brother committed suicide two days after my sister committed suicide and shortly thereafter her youngest son also committed suicide and everytime I hear this song I cry and think of them
What I love about this song is that it really touches one of the main human experiences that is totally universal. That’s why I think it resonates with so many people. 🙏🏼❤️
Exactly Jamal, what may be a "simple hello" for one person could tell the receiving person "you matter, you are valued and loved...". And yes, a simple hello or a smile can change a person. For I was changed by a simple wave, after years of being bullied and told I was worthless. So somewhere there is a person who may never know their simple act kept me alive back in 1982.
This was the first song I listened to after I lost my sister to covid in September of '21.. this song hits different when there's a loss.. beautiful song.. rest easy Sami aka "sissy" 🙏 💔 🕯
When you can't pull yourself out of the "Sometimes everything is wrong"...this sums up the past year for me perfectly...I've had many health struggles these past 10 months & I'm trying my hardest to hold on when it would be so easy to let go a lot of the time...this song is more than a song 😔💔💚💪💪
The music video was directed by Jake Scott, son of movie director Ridley Scott, famous for movies like Blade Runner (1982) and Gladiator (2000). Filmed on Interstate 10 in San Antonio, Texas, the clip is set during a traffic jam where people's thoughts are revealed through subtitles.
I fully believe this song has saved many, many, many lives. It was probably the one thing for many people that were on that edge of the cliff ( literally and proverbially) that helped them to step back and give life another chance. This is a song that shows the power of music, and in this, for the greatest of good. Be kind, and hang on.
Around the age 13 or 14 yrs old, not only kids who grew up in the projects hurt at something., but also people who have cancer, people who grew up in a poor country, people who lost a loved one, people caught in a political suppression, war children, job loss, Earthquake damage, fire damages. And more.
"Automatic For The People" is a very somber and subdued album, with only a couple of upbeat hits (Man On The Moon and The Sidewinder Sleeps Tonight). REM wanted a more reflective and serious album to follow up the huge success of "Out of Time."
You and I have the exact same personality, but I've been down that darkness 3 times...its scary as hell and if it wasn't for friends and family who knows where I'd be. And of course you'll never know how much watching your videos helped 🤗
You truly are a great dude Jamel, one of the only people I visit regularly online that I can confidently say this to, I love you man, you give us hope for this crazy world
Yes, this song is so true. Period. It breaks down 300 lb tough guys. This song is just so true, and everyone can relate to this song no matter your race, religion, or sexual orientation.
Seeing you treat this topic by respect.. - It's a difficult topic and you have a 100% of my respect for taking it seriously. Thank you, much love from Sweden
Im suffering from severe depression and anxiety so much so I have attempted suicide on numerous occasions especially over the last 18months and what you say is right a simple hello can make a difference,I'm alone 24/7 no friends or family but I know there are people who are far worse of than me so I try to stay positive but it ain't easy
hang in there. you're not alone. there are many of us out there. try getting out and getting some sunshine when you can. get a pet if you can. you'd be surprised how much they can help.
Stay strong Michael. You're not alone as you think. Look within and listen to your heart. Believe in yourself and reach out to those that can help guide you, whether it be religion or counseling. I'm rooting for you, pal.
Michael…. Many care!! Stay true to urself and stay positive. Reach out should you need it!! I don’t know how old you are, but I lost my 37 yr old son. I miss him every second!!! Many many would miss you too!!! HOLD ON !!! I’m proud of you for trying to stay positive!
The love of God surrounds us like the air we breathe around us As close as a heartbeat and as near as a prayer and whenever you need him he will always be there 💛 💓
The lead singer Michael Stipe sing the song and dedicated it as a way to bring awareness for suicide prevention because someone very close to him committed suicide
The song was written for teen suicide prevention. It is a beautiful song. It was the theme song for that for that HBO show TAXI CAB in New York City some years ago.
I really love you Jamel you are such a lovely person I was drown to you from the first time I clicked on your podcast I could see the light in your soul it shines so bright from Ireland 💚💚💚💚💚💚💚💚🇨🇮🙏🙏
This is the second time viewing your reaction, the first time the message in the beautiful song struck a chord and gave me a powerful wake up. This second time your message gave a just as powerful wake up call. Keep putting that message out there because at the end of the day and in these times of untold pointless death and destruction everybody hurts and everybody matters. Thank you for all you do.
I'm sure he's had people walk up to him thanking him for releasing this song because it saved their life. That's gotta be one heck of a good feeling knowing that one of your songs have saved people's lives.
Another neat version Is from Puddles the Clown…it’s an awesome song..those who’ve been depressed/anxious/down….why we should keep it happy when go to store, gas station, wherever…people need encouragement…God is good for artists and smiles….
I would love to see you react to the band “Live” and their song, “Lightning crashes”. Another good one is the band “Rusted Root”, check out their song “Send me on my way”. 👍🏼👌🏼👍🏼👌🏼 God bless & thank you!
Jamel, so glad that you chose this to react to. I think it's a song that everyone relates to at some point in their lives. Other tracks by REM that I love..."Cuyahoga", "King of Birds", "Nightswimming", "At my most beautiful" Thank you for continuing to spread the positive stuff. It's so needed, particularly with this pandemic dragging on. And you're right, sometimes a simple "hello" or offering to lend a hand, a smile (not so easy with facemasks), even just acknowledging the existence of a person can really be a big deal for someone who is struggling. Bless you, Jamel. Hugs from Italy.🇮🇹🤗🎶💗
I am a fan of REM, but this is one of the saddest songs i've ever heard. Anyway, the fact it is sad doesn't mean I do not appreciate ir. It's on the list of songs to cry.
i have a great friend who was feeling suicidal not too long ago and i sent him this song and he credits hearing it for the first time for lifting him out of that mindset. This vid of yours literally brought me to tears. I needed to hear this song again myself. These last two years have really been taxing on everyone's soul. hugs back, my dude.
Merci, mon Ami Jamal. You truely are a Good Man. You fully understand the deep meaning of this awesome song. This song saved my life twice: When 16 years ago, I tought of taking my own life out of despair from being overworked by two heartless, ambitious bosses. Last year, when in June, the love of my life for the last 50 years, my wife drowned (accident ? We'll never know.) in our swimming pool. Luckily, the young police officer investigating the case, saw what what I was going trough and called on social services to help me out. That song was playing continously in my head. I told my young psy about it. He knew it and said it's perfectly normal to feel that despair. Anyway, keep on keeping great music alive, mon frère. 👍
Jamal you are a good man and I love watching your videos 💕 and you are right you have to be kind to people because you have no idea what they're going through 😭 this song is a wakeup call and reality it is 😢
So, hear this, right...and then, go hit their older stuff, like "Radio Free Europe" or "Can't Get There From Here" or "Don't Go Back To Rockville" or "Pop Song 89" or "Orange Crush"...and then, once you hear that, and you've seen the shift from that era into the Out Of Time "Losing My Religion" era and the Automatic For The People "Everybody Hurts" era REM...go listen to "What's the Frequency, Kenneth?" and "Star 69" and especially "Crush With Eyeliner" or "King of Comedy" off of Monster, the album that immediately followed this era, and signaled yet another hard shift for the band. REM is one of the all time greats. They stayed hungry to find more to say until the day came where they had nothing left to say, and bowed out.
It hits hard the first few times you listen to it. My brother’s best friend killed himself right after college. It absolutely devastated my brother. He does not know why or if her could have helped. He will never know. We never know what someone is going through. Be kind to one another.
The end scene imo is to show, if things get so bad you cant handle it anymore, walk. Choose another path. No one controls your happiness. "There is no chance, no fate, no destiny, that can circumvent, hinder, or control, the firm resolve, of a determined soul" Rise up! Take the Power Back!
REM - stands for rapid eye movement....unique sleep in mammals and birds, that allows the sleeper to dream vividly, and to be at their creative best when they awake....cheers...
This is a brilliant song that's been there when needed for countless people, myself included. It's an uncomfortable subject, but everyone can relate to it in one way or another. Great reaction, my friend. 👍👍
Jamel, I know you held back but, I cried for you. This song and Fix You by Coldplay always get me. As I'm listening, I thought of my dad and the first time in my life that I saw him breakdown and cry. I was like 44 at the time. 2 grown ass men crying. He was going through his second cancer battle and something happened during surgery that he lost all mobility 2 days after surgery. Such a sad trying time. The man is 74 and still going. Fully recoverd and full head of hair 😄🙌
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R.E.M. Rapid Eye Movement, only happens in deep deep sleep, know as REM Sleep.
Rush. The Pass! From the album, Presto. Just a thought.
Also. Get some magic power, with "Magic Power", by Triumph. It'll be okay
Just wanted to say how much I love your videos and the person you are. Wish I could have been a better person in life, but I live forward and I strive to be a better person every day and you are a wonderful example of what we need more of in the world. Love you Jamel!
R.E.M. = Rapid Eye Movement. Singer Michael Stipe chose the name from random out of the dictionary.
This song saved me as a teenager. I had snuck a gun out of my father's bedroom fully intending to commit suicide. I was in my bedroom running through everything back and forth through my mind, hyping myself to finally end it. I had the radio on pretty loud so my mom couldn't hear what I was about to do, and like a miracle, this song came on. I decided to try and hold on. It sends chills through me to look back at all of the wonderful experiences I would have missed had this song not came on.
Wow that's amazing. I am glad you did hold on. ❤️
You are loved, so glad you heard this. Carry that power forward and help someone you encounter, I'm sure you will.
Glad you're still with us... ✌🏼 to you
Oh my...so glad you chose to stay. Life is beautiful, it's everything. Thanks so much for sharing this very personal experience. My first husband committed suicide when this song came out and for us left behind it's one of the most painful experience to go through
That's a Divine moment. I'm so glad you stayed and thank you for sharing your story. Sometimes our story is someone else's survival kit
I've always considered this to be one of the most socially responsible songs ever.
Absolutely! And it’s hauntingly beautiful. ❤️
That makes sense! It's about empathy
Can you edit so we can see the video with lyrics?
I couldn't agree more. Music in general is an incredible gift, but it's a song like this and the impact it can have on a person's life that takes it to the next level.
No. Just human.
I believe this song has pulled more people back from the brink of suicide than any other popular song.
I am not being glib. It somehow acknowledges one's pain and shows one how to look beyond it. Certainly, Michael Stipe's personal experience played into it. Watch early videos of the band; the phrase "painfully shy" seems to have been coined just to describe him. We can't ignore his growing up in Georgia in a military family and being (self-described) "queer."
I love many R.E.M. songs. While this isn't my personal favorite, it may be the most important song they ever made.
This and “Hold On” by Wilson Phillips!
Love everything you said and agree.
@@drieuxkoeppel8152 Also Don't Give Up by Peter Gabriel and Kate Bush.
This was written because of the bands disturbance with Youth suicide. So they wrote this song basically as a message that everybody can feel this way sometimes and they are not alone.
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"Sometimes Everything Is Wrong". We've all been there. Couple of simple chords and a haunting voice and the 90s
Haunting is a good word to describe this song….
I'm there now in this crazy world with the terrible administration.
My favorite line
I’ve always found Stipe’s voice as tender and loving. A raw and beauty voice that is truly unconventional. Cheers
I think it’s the most powerful lyric in contemporary music. Often overlooked. But wow what a powerful statement.
You are the first reactor to this song that has picked up on the fact that the lyrics that are being shown on the screen are their individual thoughts. THANK YOU for catching that.
The story I always heard about this song is Michael Stipe wrote this song after his GranFather passed away. And in tribute the hat he's wearing was his Grandfather's hat. On a personal note this video was filmed in San Antonio and at the time I was a waiter on the Riverwalk. The gentleman who was on the overpass throwing down pages of the Bible was someone I knew well. He was actually a Rose salesman on the Riverwalk. He went from restaurant to restaurant trying to sell roses to people.
I like how the traffic jam represents the pain and depression that everyone is mired in and the words of the song sort of inspire everyone to say "Screw it!" and get moving again. Just keep moving forward.
"They just got out and walked!"
Eric...yes, it's like every car holds its own story inside.
" A simple "hello" can change a persons day" . . . comes back to being good humans.
Hey Jamel. I've turned to this song at times when I needed a good cry. It's a brilliant, emotional, and empathetic song. It is amazing how such a simple song can move you to such strong emotions. And I've been that shoulder to cry on for friends. It ain't easy, but you gotta be there when people need you. ☮️ out!
Gotta be a good human, as someone once said.
This song saved my life a few times, literally
Same here
I wish I could have played this with my brother on his last day here with us. 5 months ago. August 16, 2023. I don’t know what happened. I don’t know how he could be gone now but he is. But brother Jamel - the first reaction I saw you do was Van Halen - Panama. Laughed my ass off with you - Took me back to the Day... 1984… Watched that one on my Mom’s deathbed with her a month before she passed in ‘21. She remembered buying the tape for me in 1984 and she laughed too. One of our last memories together. Now crying my heart out with you and this song for the loss of my brother. Lost Mom, Dad and Brother in 2.5 years. Did you know you have a healing effect on people? Sometimes you pull me out of the dark. Love and peace to you bro.
You know Jamel, this song runs through everyone at some point in their lives. And you saying "You never know what a person is going through" is so right. In 2016, my baby brother, my only brother took his life. Even though my life 'stopped', it didn't, know what I mean? And as I was running errands, not seeing where I was going, just in my head and hurting BAD and I heard my name. It startled me. It was a guy I went to school with who had heard about my brother. He asked if it was okay for him to give me hug because it looked like I desperately needed it. He was right. That gesture was EVERYTHING!
Oh, Annette. I'm so sorry....I lost my eldest brother 2 years ago. He took his own life. I had seen him a week before (I live in a different country from the rest of my family) but obviously didn't read the signs. My father took his own life too 55 years earlier.
This song is one that brings a lump to the throat, but it's a beautiful thing.
I'm so sorry for your loss. My first husband committed suicide too. This song had just come out and I stopped the car and bawled my heart out. Peace and love to you 🌹
@@JF-kv1gm Thank you for this. And I'd like to send my condolences to you as well. I talked to my brother on the phone 3 days before and the conversation made me uneasy. I thought I'd cook him his favourite meal and my sweet potato brownies he loved so much and have him vent to me. Unfortunately, that was a Wednesday and by Saturday night, my Dad was on the phone and my world fell apart. I felt like I dropped the ball. It's going to be 6yrs this April 30th and it still hurts. The pain of knowing what a dark place he was in to think that was his solution. I'm not angry with him. Just wish he was able to reach out, but sadly he was in too deep. I have his ashes here and talk with him daily. Not the same, but it's all I have now.
@@eviekelpie1 Thank you. I'm sending you my deepest condolences as well.
@@annettelauretta thanks hun x
This song from 93/94 helped me grieve when my first husband committed suicide at only 33. Even today it can make me tear up as I remember those dark times. So touching... Michael Stipes such a brilliant songwriter and the piano....
I hope you see my comment. I saw this the first time you reacted to it. One of my favorite songs of all time.
I can't express the strangeness of you reloading this. I'm being evicted which I completely understand but I really need this right now.
Your blessings continue to inspire and encourage. Sending much love and light to you, yours and the universe.
Thank you💜
🙏🏾Appreciate You and Stay Strong
@@jamelakajamal thank you❤️
lots of love and light. good luck! 🤗
@@samanthanickson6478 thank you! 💜
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Hey Jamal, I’ve been watching you for a while and it’s because you have a beautiful spirit and you bring so much joy and much-needed healing during such a difficult time for people. At the same time you gracefully express the truth & our reality with so much genuineness and compassion. You’re exactly what the world needs right now and you have a huge positive impact with every video you do. 👌🏼👍🏼 You are always thanking us for the support, so Thank You for doing what you do on your channel every day❣️ Keep going & God bless 🙏🏼💖
Agree with this comment 💯
Absolutely 100% much love
Thank you Jamel for this video. My next door neighbor needs help. She is an alcoholic, has visions of someone coming into her house at night. She has issues with reality. Her house is a big mess. When I moved next door here in SC, she drove me nuts with her antics. I help her with the lawn and things. Her son will not help her because of her antics. I have helped her here and there. She has been getting on my nerves, and I have not been too kind to her. This song and your words have jumped started my heart to start helping her again. Thank you my brother for waking me up to what God needs me to be. You da Man!!!
A song that will carry on generation after generation. I love it lyrically so so much . Many of us have felt this way at some point. Wishing EVERYONE WELL!!! Find ur happiness!!!!! Keep being YOU!!!
this is one of the most important songs to come out of the 90s in my opinion
The vocals, lyrics and pace of the song combine to speak to the hurting soul. Beautiful.
it's so devastating and the interesting thing to me is they're playing "happy" major chords on the guitar/keys. It's the lyrics and the pain in the voice that makes it so sad and relatable. Nothing Compares to You by Sinead O'Conner has a similar intensity.
@@halfalligator6518 Good points. Nothing Compares To You is fabulous! Jamel has a good reaction to that one, too.
The timing of this is perfect. At the age of 56, my employer is showing less interest in keeping me around. All that is going through my head is "What is my worth?" I have to admit...my mind has been dark at times. Thank you for this.
R.E.M. kept me sane for so many years. And they're all good dudes who shared everything equally within the band: profits, credits, & lyrics. Nobody is above each other. I really miss them. Never a bad album or song. Pure poetry.
Thank you for being one of the few today who are actually trying to effect change by recognizing the humanity in the guy next to you.
This world needs more guys like you to help combat the "me vs. you" and red vs blue everything "versus" that we slog through these days.
We all share so much more than we will recognize! We can have our different faiths and politics and cultural traditions....but at the end of the day we all
only want a good supper on the table for our families and warm and dry beds to rest our weary bones in each night and a good day's pay for an honest day's
work. Good health and a nice "Hey, how's it going?" from our friends. We really are all pretty much the same. Thank you for helping us to come together and
enjoy good music and your good example.
This song gets me every single time!!! I always cry, it touches my soul.
Yes! Exactly!
You have to listen to Nightswimming and Find The River. Masterpieces.
The fact that he wrote Find the River for River Phoenix who obviously passed away & if I recall it was the song Kurt Cobain left on repeat in his home when he decided to opt out of his life. Kurt was a friend and huge fan of Stipe's. There's a lot of loss there. After Kurt died, Stipe bought his guitar which is featured in the What's The Frequency Kenneth? video.
If R. E. M. never made another song, this would be awesome. I believe this song has saved people's lives. why? Because it saved mine
R.E.M. was a name the band took out of the dictionary! They said it can mean whatever you want it to mean. The lead singer, Michael Stipe, said that these lyrics were written for teenagers because of their high suicide rate. He's letting them know that everybody hurts, tells them to take comfort in their friends. The last line in the song is "you're not alone." This song isn't only for teens, it's for all of us. R.E.M. has 15 studio albums, but here's the thing. Their live performances are BEST!
i always thought it meant "rapid eye movement" ....during dreams
@maddogziggy yes that is the literal meaning but I think they chose it because it just sounded cool and not for its meaning so people could think of it what they will.
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I cry like a baby every time I hear this song my brother committed suicide two days after my sister committed suicide and shortly thereafter her youngest son also committed suicide and everytime I hear this song I cry and think of them
@@Q2-iswatching omg im. So sorry for your loss prayers sent for healing
What I love about this song is that it really touches one of the main human experiences that is totally universal. That’s why I think it resonates with so many people. 🙏🏼❤️
Exactly Jamal, what may be a "simple hello" for one person could tell the receiving person "you matter, you are valued and loved...". And yes, a simple hello or a smile can change a person. For I was changed by a simple wave, after years of being bullied and told I was worthless. So somewhere there is a person who may never know their simple act kept me alive back in 1982.
This was the first song I listened to after I lost my sister to covid in September of '21.. this song hits different when there's a loss.. beautiful song.. rest easy Sami aka "sissy" 🙏 💔 🕯
When you can't pull yourself out of the "Sometimes everything is wrong"...this sums up the past year for me perfectly...I've had many health struggles these past 10 months & I'm trying my hardest to hold on when it would be so easy to let go a lot of the time...this song is more than a song 😔💔💚💪💪
The music video was directed by Jake Scott, son of movie director Ridley Scott, famous for movies like Blade Runner (1982) and Gladiator (2000). Filmed on Interstate 10 in San Antonio, Texas, the clip is set during a traffic jam where people's thoughts are revealed through subtitles.
That's great news
Ty
I fully believe this song has saved many, many, many lives. It was probably the one thing for many people that were on that edge of the cliff ( literally and proverbially) that helped them to step back and give life another chance. This is a song that shows the power of music, and in this, for the greatest of good.
Be kind, and hang on.
Ty
GOLDEN!!Priceless reaction.UA-cam... bring it on in#Be a good human virtual group hugs!
Around the age 13 or 14 yrs old, not only kids who grew up in the projects hurt at something., but also people who have cancer, people who grew up in a poor country, people who lost a loved one, people caught in a political suppression, war children, job loss, Earthquake damage, fire damages. And more.
"Everybody Hurts" is one of the centerpieces of the album "Automatic For The People," which followed up REM's biggest selling album "Out of Time."
"Automatic For The People" is a very somber and subdued album, with only a couple of upbeat hits (Man On The Moon and The Sidewinder Sleeps Tonight).
REM wanted a more reflective and serious album to follow up the huge success of "Out of Time."
This was the theme song of every teen drama of the 90s. Great song.
This song has gotten me through so many losses that I didn't want to survive through ..but did. Beautiful. Thank you REM.
You and I have the exact same personality, but I've been down that darkness 3 times...its scary as hell and if it wasn't for friends and family who knows where I'd be. And of course you'll never know how much watching your videos helped 🤗
You truly are a great dude Jamel, one of the only people I visit regularly online that I can confidently say this to, I love you man, you give us hope for this crazy world
Yes, this song is so true. Period. It breaks down 300 lb tough guys. This song is just so true, and everyone can relate to this song no matter your race, religion, or sexual orientation.
Seeing you treat this topic by respect.. - It's a difficult topic and you have a 100% of my respect for taking it seriously. Thank you, much love from Sweden
This song has the power to change a life. Some songs are selfish, or just entertain - this one gives
Im suffering from severe depression and anxiety so much so I have attempted suicide on numerous occasions especially over the last 18months and what you say is right a simple hello can make a difference,I'm alone 24/7 no friends or family but I know there are people who are far worse of than me so I try to stay positive but it ain't easy
hang in there. you're not alone. there are many of us out there. try getting out and getting some sunshine when you can. get a pet if you can. you'd be surprised how much they can help.
Stay strong Michael. You're not alone as you think. Look within and listen to your heart. Believe in yourself and reach out to those that can help guide you, whether it be religion or counseling. I'm rooting for you, pal.
Just keep hanging on!! You're needed in this world even if you can't see it right now ❤️
Michael…. Many care!! Stay true to urself and stay positive. Reach out should you need it!! I don’t know how old you are, but I lost my 37 yr old son. I miss him every second!!! Many many would miss you too!!! HOLD ON !!! I’m proud of you for trying to stay positive!
@@quinny6920 I'm 57 sorry to hear about your son that's so sad I just feel like another statistic everyday is a long long struggle
I love how you said a simple hello can change someone life. I agree. Kindness is everything! A kind word, a smile, a compliment, a listening ear!
The love of God surrounds us like the air we breathe around us As close as a heartbeat and as near as a prayer and whenever you need him he will always be there 💛 💓
*Beautiful Robert. Thank you.*
@@alibabaoofandangle You are truly welcome and God bless 🙌 🙏 ❤
@@robertcochran7197 *You sound like a wonderful man Robert. Peace and grace to you brother.*
I understand about the shirts.. I wear you shirts “just be a good human”, and I get compliments and positive reactions nearly every time I wear it!
The lead singer Michael Stipe sing the song and dedicated it as a way to bring awareness for suicide prevention because someone very close to him committed suicide
The song was written for teen suicide prevention. It is a beautiful song. It was the theme song for that for that HBO show TAXI CAB in New York City some years ago.
Reminds us to be Kind! Love this strong message they do so well
REM.used to listen to them a lot in the 90s and early 2000s. Love Michael Stipes voice.very soulful.
Such a beautiful reflection on the song and its message after it finished, Jamel.
I cry every time I hear this song. So many memories of dear ones lost by their own hand.
As someone who has dealt with bipolar disorder, this song has always healed me.
Prayers sent to you
I really love you Jamel you are such a lovely person I was drown to you from the first time I clicked on your podcast I could see the light in your soul it shines so bright from Ireland 💚💚💚💚💚💚💚💚🇨🇮🙏🙏
REM was huge in the 80s. It is Rapid Eye Movement I think. I may be wrong. I love this song. ✌️
This is the second time viewing your reaction, the first time the message in the beautiful song struck a chord and gave me a powerful wake up. This second time your message gave a just as powerful wake up call. Keep putting that message out there because at the end of the day and in these times of untold pointless death and destruction everybody hurts and everybody matters. Thank you for all you do.
She Talks to Angels - Black Crowes
I'm sure he's had people walk up to him thanking him for releasing this song because it saved their life. That's gotta be one heck of a good feeling knowing that one of your songs have saved people's lives.
I'm from the uk and this is one of my fav songs
Another neat version Is from Puddles the Clown…it’s an awesome song..those who’ve been depressed/anxious/down….why we should keep it happy when go to store, gas station, wherever…people need encouragement…God is good for artists and smiles….
Puddles is incredible!!
I would love to see you react to the band “Live” and their song, “Lightning crashes”. Another good one is the band “Rusted Root”, check out their song “Send me on my way”. 👍🏼👌🏼👍🏼👌🏼 God bless & thank you!
This song helped save my Brother. Crying right now, like every time I hear it.
Jamel, so glad that you chose this to react to. I think it's a song that everyone relates to at some point in their lives. Other tracks by REM that I love..."Cuyahoga", "King of Birds", "Nightswimming", "At my most beautiful"
Thank you for continuing to spread the positive stuff. It's so needed, particularly with this pandemic dragging on. And you're right, sometimes a simple "hello" or offering to lend a hand, a smile (not so easy with facemasks), even just acknowledging the existence of a person can really be a big deal for someone who is struggling. Bless you, Jamel. Hugs from Italy.🇮🇹🤗🎶💗
Disturbance at the Heron House
My son just passed. You saved my life today
I am a fan of REM, but this is one of the saddest songs i've ever heard. Anyway, the fact it is sad doesn't mean I do not appreciate ir. It's on the list of songs to cry.
i have a great friend who was feeling suicidal not too long ago and i sent him this song and he credits hearing it for the first time for lifting him out of that mindset. This vid of yours literally brought me to tears. I needed to hear this song again myself. These last two years have really been taxing on everyone's soul. hugs back, my dude.
This is one of the most beautful songs ever written . It's for suicide prevention . It's saved me on many a dark day .
Merci, mon Ami Jamal.
You truely are a Good Man. You fully understand the deep meaning of this awesome song.
This song saved my life twice:
When 16 years ago, I tought of taking my own life out of despair from being overworked by two heartless, ambitious bosses.
Last year, when in June, the love of my life for the last 50 years, my wife drowned (accident ? We'll never know.) in our swimming pool.
Luckily, the young police officer investigating the case, saw what what I was going trough and called on social services to help me out. That song was playing continously in my head. I told my young psy about it. He knew it and said it's perfectly normal to feel that despair.
Anyway, keep on keeping great music alive, mon frère. 👍
Nice pickup on the captions. I have only seen one other reaction that saw that. It makes the song that much deeper.
"Just be kind." Damn right.
REM means Remember Everyone Matters... Or that's what it should stand for
Jamal you are a good man and I love watching your videos 💕 and you are right you have to be kind to people because you have no idea what they're going through 😭 this song is a wakeup call and reality it is 😢
So, hear this, right...and then, go hit their older stuff, like "Radio Free Europe" or "Can't Get There From Here" or "Don't Go Back To Rockville" or "Pop Song 89" or "Orange Crush"...and then, once you hear that, and you've seen the shift from that era into the Out Of Time "Losing My Religion" era and the Automatic For The People "Everybody Hurts" era REM...go listen to "What's the Frequency, Kenneth?" and "Star 69" and especially "Crush With Eyeliner" or "King of Comedy" off of Monster, the album that immediately followed this era, and signaled yet another hard shift for the band. REM is one of the all time greats. They stayed hungry to find more to say until the day came where they had nothing left to say, and bowed out.
It hits hard the first few times you listen to it. My brother’s best friend killed himself right after college. It absolutely devastated my brother. He does not know why or if her could have helped. He will never know. We never know what someone is going through. Be kind to one another.
Preach it, Brother! You are a good Human & that’s why I keep coming back to see your reactions. You are the Best Reactor on the web!👌❤️😋
You're a lovely human being Jamal, pity there's not more people like that around.Keep up the good work!
Oh, REM is a rabbit hole on the level of Rush and many other bands you have gone through. LOving this.
Jamel, you are so on to it every word you said was so precise and true. If more people thought like you it would help so many. Excellent reaction
Thanks for playing this, and thanks for your commentary afterward. Keep spreading joy.
The end scene imo is to show, if things get so bad you cant handle it anymore, walk. Choose another path. No one controls your happiness.
"There is no chance, no fate, no destiny, that can circumvent, hinder, or control, the firm resolve, of a determined soul"
Rise up! Take the Power Back!
Just constantly my favorite content on UA-cam. Thanks Jamel, you transcend the genre of reaction videos with simple sincerity and openness.
In my opinion this is the best R.E.M song❤❤Hey Jamel 😊
REM - stands for rapid eye movement....unique sleep in mammals and birds, that allows the sleeper to dream vividly, and to be at their creative best when they awake....cheers...
An amazing band. R.E.M. shared with on other as my favorite band. Amazing song like this. And I love your reaction at the end and you 100% bro
Coolest ending to a video ever !!! They just got out and walked man . Love this video and the song hits you everywhere .
I remember the day this video was filmed in San Antonio. REM has always been in my top 5.
Jamel you are an awesome guy and thank you for sharing videos and your reactions. Lots of peace and love 🙏🤗❤️🎶🎶🎶🎶
Rapid Eye Movement R.E.M. during a dream.while sleeping.
This is a brilliant song that's been there when needed for countless people, myself included. It's an uncomfortable subject, but everyone can relate to it in one way or another. Great reaction, my friend. 👍👍
Your reaction to this is... exactly why I love you, man. You get it. Peace to you, brother.
This song gives me chills everytime I hear it.
Thank you for sharing this beautiful song and sharing your feelings with us. Sending you big hug.
It would be a great privilege to shake your hand, Jamel. You're a bright light in this dark world.
Soundgarden "Tighter & Tighter" (my soul jam) Local H "Bound to the Floor" (everyone knows it, but noone knows what they look like)
The end is the best. Alone in the car then realize help and empathy and compassion are all around us
Jamel, I know you held back but, I cried for you. This song and Fix You by Coldplay always get me.
As I'm listening, I thought of my dad and the first time in my life that I saw him breakdown and cry. I was like 44 at the time. 2 grown ass men crying. He was going through his second cancer battle and something happened during surgery that he lost all mobility 2 days after surgery. Such a sad trying time.
The man is 74 and still going. Fully recoverd and full head of hair 😄🙌
Brilliant song. The EMO band sings a melancholic ballad advising against suicide. Classic.
You are a beautiful soul. Thank you for lifting me today. Much ❤ love.
This song always make me tear up.
REM wrote this song for suicide awareness. Beautiful song and message. A lesser known but great song by REM is called “Fretless”.