exactly. This is main reason. I find it hilarious how people are trying to make social media the easy scapegoat. "muaah.... hadn't it been social media we wiuld be happily living together forever"😂😂😂
fr Denmo always blames the movid years, video games or social media but not the actual root cause of the problems. also it is not just that men aren't approaching or dating anymore, they do not even desire to go for modern women.
@@yungmentalproblems No, online data of BILLIONS of swipes is absolute, demonstrable reality. It upset a certain narrative used for decades and a lot of people don't like it. So they'll say "not all women are like that" and pretend that means those women aren't way more rare now.
@@inker1972it is what it is. I can’t relate with people, a lot of people are so fake and I can’t be around that. I only work and go to the gym. I don’t drink or go to clubs.
I can massively relate in 30 it seems to me that a lot of people about looking great in groups and an act rather than being genuine @@anthonycanales3060
@@anthonycanales3060 yeah I envy people that can be happy alone. Disconnecting this idea that you should have relationships and friendships is perhaps a source of comfort. Some people are simply destined to be alone
I honestly don’t get some of you - if you are lonely then why not try to meet people or women to date? Why retreat and then endlessly watch content like this? I honestly don’t understand it.. there’s a form Of learned helplessness going on here and it’s puzzling
I have to work 10x harder than my grandfather just to have the chance of attracting women who are 10x less than my grandmother. Honestly tell me Jack, how is it worth it?
I had to work hard to achieve financial freedom. Took me years of construction jobs & failure. Same thing applies to everything in life.. if you really want it, you can get it
@@DenmosocialFinding a woman shouldn't be as hard as building up a successful career. The level of effort requested is insane, those women are not worth it at all. High body count, feminist software, high maintenance. A basic woman is not worth all that effort. If I were successful, I wouldn't even consider getting a woman, I would just play the field and dump the women. Successful men don't take the risk of losing it all, because once you have success, you have a target in your back. Women want top tier, and most can't even be nice or cook and clean or even screw a lightbulb. 95% Women are not worth it anymore 😅
@@Denmosocial depends on where you live and how old you are. If you live in the West, you better get you one of the good ones by the time you are 20. The good ones get taken and married pretty young leaving all the rejects and broken toys behind.
The ultimate goal of feminism is lesbianism ! Quotes from _Ti Grâce Atkinson_ (feminist icon): "Feminism is a theory, lesbianism is the practice." "Since the beginning of the Movement, lesbianism has been a kind of password for female resistance." "The prostitute is the only honest woman left in America." _Valerie solanas_ (feminist icon) "Just as humans have a priority right to existence over dogs because they are more evolved and have a higher consciousness, women have a priority right to existence over men. The elimination of all men is therefore a good and just act, an act of great benefit to women and an act of mercy." _Andre Dworkin_ "Heterosexual intercourse is a pure and formalized expression of contempt for the body of women." "I always wanted to see a man beaten to death with a high-heeled shoe in his mouth, a kind of pig with an apple; it would be nice to put him on a serving plate but it would take good silverware." _Susan Brownmiller_ "ALL men keep ALL women in a state of fear" _Kate Millette_ "The complete destruction of traditional marriage and nuclear family is the “revolutionary or utopian” goal of feminism." "The lesbian is the feminist par excellence, because she does not like men - it’s the independent woman par excellence."
I actually prefer being single. Its way less stress. Plus I can be me and focus on my own life without dealing with some woman who is going to be a headache about everything.
I think the internet is waking a lot of men up to the hazards of marriage or even LTRs. I’m 65 ,widowed , and enjoying my freedom. ( I loved my wife but man , people have issues )Marriage was a tremendous responsibility as one has to handle and accept the fact that you simply do not have control over your life or finances , future or time anymore. In the “ good old days” we had no idea what we were getting into.🙀
same here for the first time in my life i feel peace and i wont trade it for nothing, had dreams of having kids but it is slowly fading away with todays society and its progress. been alone 2 years and i think im going to be like this for the rest of my life:)
@@ButteredPecan17That alone says it all. Bro is/was married and had it "all" but he is realizing if it truly was what he wanted. You only get one life, who you spend it with is very important.
14:19 Bullshit There's plenty of guys who have good social skills, but STILL get bad results with women. We keep putting all the burden on guys and many of us have done the work already. The problem here mostly falls on the women in that society tells women they are perfect the way they are so they refuse to change and if no man is willing to accept their bs then they are better off being by themselves. We've gone too far left in our values which makes relationships so difficult. If we were in a society that prioritized more traditionalist values, communities & support for families, and men and women going towards more binary roles then we would have more/better relationships on top of improving the birth rate. The pop the balloon series is the perfect example of this and I think at this point its just best for us to accept that this shit isnt going to work nor is it worth pursuing long term.
@Jakefromstatefarm56503 Like I said just learn to accept the reality it ain't going to work long term. Enjoy hookups, flings, and short term relationships. That's my honest answer based on experience.
@@psnisy1234 100% agree, it's like riding the hamster wheel on purpose, you know you're not getting anywhere, eventually you'll be tired, you'll want to take a break, but then you'll want to get back at it again and repeat, but you don't want to stay in the whee forever, that's relationships or marriage.
I'm going to have to disagree. There are plenty of traditional women still out there. You just have to know where to look. I see attractive traditional females at my gun club every week. And they are there alone! They have square dance night at my local bar and have of plenty of traditional lovely ladies. Learn to square dance! Saying to enjoy hookups and flings is only making it worse. Get your ass out there and find a nice girl! They still exist. STOP COMPLAINING
Both men and women need social skills. Women are socially awkward too and most women get away with being socially awkward by being antisocial, mean and uninterested. Just because you see a woman talking to her friends doesn't mean she knows how to be sociable with other people outside of her circle.
True. If there’s any area where women have an advantage over men is in the burden of performance . All a woman has to do is smile and listen to what the guy is saying and it doesn’t even really matter what she says back to him. The guy needs to be on point and say the right things and act the right way .. very few women will ever understand what this is like for the average guy
I never ask. I would say 95% of all good looking girls will have SOMEONE in their life. Assume they all do. Become her best option. Be her funnest option. Clap her cheeks the best lol. When you don’t give a damn about anything except being your best self towards others, you become a stud
"Just talk to girls bro." That's basically this video in a nutshell. Dude.. Do you think men haven't tried that? The women can order a guy she finds attractive from her phone like ordering a pizza. It's not men's fault. It's the fact that women won't settle for guys on her looks match. Hoemath explains this on his youtube channel.
Where am I supposed to talk to girls? I live in Texas, everyone here is old AF & the city planning sucks. Nothing but gas stations, fast food & grocery stores here
@@SlashinatorZbro texas has 4 really big cities that i can think off the top of my head. I used to live in Dallas, the opportunities that I missed while living there still haunt me sometimes. Yes it is hard but it isn’t complicated. Get In shape, be well groomed, drop the controller for a while and talk to people. Men and women alike it’ll help with your people skills
During this year I dated 5 girls from dating apps, and all first meetings failed, despite we always talked and had fun for hours. In retrospective its just impossible to know what a complete stranger desires or wants to hear on first try. As someone who had dozens of job interviews over my life, dating is much more difficult and emotionally draining.
That's because dating isn't for getting to know strangers but can be used to do so besides dating is supposed to enhance sexual tension leading to intimacy within a month and half max, if not in most cases it's best just to cut your losses because most women are active with men they don't require commitment from. Most importantly dates are rewarded to young ladies you've built rapport with that have shown choosing signals, high interest, respect, attraction, affection, attention and genuine desire for you? If not you've no incentives to be dating let alone be intentional with her.
At least they failed just on the first date. I've come across women where we dated for several months only for them to betray me by going back to an ex or getting with another guy else where. Or they were just using me.
@@TheAcumenn replace the jargon 'choosing signals' to 'choosy', 'with intention' to 'with no intention' and 'dating' to 'internet dating'. That will reflect what's going on
I want the society from 60 years back, where marriage and family actually meant something. When there was actually a sense of community in the population, and not millions of isolated individuals who are drowning in loneliness and dying alone because they can't have a family and children. I wasn't made for what we have now 😭
60 years ago you were racist and sexist. Women couldn't open a bank account singly in her name. It's usually white MEN, who want to go back to the "good old days". Literally no one else does. . What you want is control. You don't want to evolve. You sir, are a pu**y, and you will forever be miserable.
You do realize black people had to drink out of separate water fountains back then? You live in this reality, you don’t know how life actually was back in the 60s brother
Until we stop treating women like they are the most special, amazing people that can never do anything wrong and giving them money merely for existing, this will continue to get worse and worse.
Yeah I see many man investing time or being there for woman and they cant believe how their heart was broken by woman. I feel like sociopathic after my first breakup and the lies she said and how she wouldnt sacrrifice something and me being the idiot sacrificing something, there is no love for most woman.
@ I'm starting to wonder whether most women are even capable of romantic love. They are in lvoe with the way THEY feel, but are they ever really in love with YOU?
I just don’t bother anymore. I have hit every major milestone in life except dating and I don’t have any hope for it at this point. Social media has got 6’s acting like 10’s and there’s too many damaged people out there
You need to make a ton of money, be well traveled, well experienced with life, have a body of a gym rat with a strict diet, a devils charisma and a comedians sense of humor and all the knowledge to fix any problem, and have a deep understanding of psychology to please a women who has a few kids from non commital dudes, done drugs before with a previous party life, impulsive, mentally unstable, always looking for a better man, looks down on people, think she deserves worship and punishment at the same time, blame you for everything
People blame dating apps but what they dont tell you is real reason why men dont approach women in real life is because the results were almost identical, its just hell of alot more awkward. Society is rotten and broken to the core, i would low key be terrified to find a soulmate and wonder how the fk am i going to keep a relationship going or start a family in this clownshow. In other words women are not only hard to get, they are also hard to want. Thats not a good recipe for future.
If you try to rizz up a woman when you have subpar or average looks woman look at you like you’re a creep but if you have no Game but your looks are above average they think you’re cute
@@ronburgundy3172 women judge their own worth and status based on what calibre of men pursue them, thats why they are extra harsh on average or bellow average men because they dont want anyone to think they are flirting eith them for fear of being thought of as being "in their league" even if realistically speaking they are. Grass isnt much greener in the other side either as handsome low status men are often used only as a confidence boosters/status improvers. As a handsome man, you can flirt with women all day and having nothing to show for it, the moment you ask them out you get shot down. But in public they damn near fuck you with their eyes. Becsuse you are only there to prove them they are "in your league" the only thing that works is ignoring them so blatantly they actually low key start to see you as something better than them, amd women are always attracted to the men who are better than them/ not in their league. Therefore Hitting the gym and staying on your grind works the best. Approach women to get better rizz but dont expect any outcome, just treat it as practice/waste of time it really is.
Even with no fear at all What will happens if you try to buy a Mercedes with money for a Honda 😅 Most men can’t afford the modern women - maybe in the west if they look like aqua man - not here in the east
I thought some girl that worked at a store was pretty cute & nice so I asked her out and she said no. Her co-worker was looking at me funny, but I didn't care. So I said alright no worries, have a good one. A couple of weeks later I saw her walking outside of work, she came to me and tried to "re-introduce" herself but I politely turned her down this time. It's the attitude that turned me off.
Yes, the ‘golden age’ of pickup (2000s) was amazing. I made really good friends, had some amazing girlfriends, and most of all learned about who I am underneath. I never learned magic tricks or lines - just how to understand the way people interact socially and how to become a better version of myself. People who throw shade at that culture never took the time to truly understand it. You had some weirdos too, but a lot of us were just regular, shy, good guys, and this was our rite of passage. Guys like David D and Zan were my heroes. Great times.
@@Denmosocial it was awesome, man! We were a small group of guys, all became good friends, would go out 1-2x/week together to meet girls and just spend time together as friends and learning how to become better people. It was a whole movement. We were mostly good guys and had a great time! Sooo many memories. Dating sucks now.
40 yrs old, own my own business, own my own home, am relatively decent looking and relatively fit and active. I find that older women are wonderful. They are friendly/sociable and I am legitimately friends with several older married women. Speaking with women is not an issue. I've found that most women my age never leave the house and the few that I do encounter walk around looking miserable and angry at the world. I find myself being scowled at for smiling at a lady while holding the door for them at a coffee shop haha It's bonkers. I'd love to meet a good match, but I'm not interested in being treated like trash or pursuing someone who is going to bring me down.
Try hagmaxxing, its not the definitive solution but it works. If young women want to be treated as godly beings just look for a woman who is old ebough to realize she is just one more of the fishes in the ocean. Im average looking and i have a crappy job but old ladies 46-47+ dont care that much about it, they realize their prime is gone and just want somebody who gives them some attention and validation. Im 34 y.o though, it might be different for you and you probably dont want to date a 60 y.o woman but give it a try with the 50+ woman, you'll be surpised.
@@THEOvERSiZEDMeATBALL In general women of all ages look angry and pissed at life, gives me want to have nothing to do with them and pity the guy who is with her.
As a millennial, I think we forgot about the whole "ghosting" Era where you talk to girl for 2-3 weeks thinking there's some connection then suddenly they stopped talking to you ,replying to your messages and shut you out. You can't talk to her nor her friends about what happened or what you did wrong , you're supposed to be in the state of confusion about your actions or if you misunderstood signals only to find out she used you as entertainment and will gaslight you for getting your hopes up. Truly we were at the height of toxicity.
I’m 42 years old, I’m from the old school & would never use online dating, social media or whatever to hook up. Getting rejected in person is nothing to me, getting rejected online is very embarrassing because they can easily show their family & friends the messages you sent when you were trying to hook up & got rejected.
too real. I gave up on dating after my last breakup. I'm 26, I just don't see myself having a long-term relationship with any of these manipulative/fake women. Social media ruined everything. Have a good looking girl in your town? too bad she has an Instagram with 25K+ followers and random guys 100 miles away willing to fly them there and back without a second thought.
@@presidentjoebiden46thpresi93 why would I settle for less when I know I can get better. I'm a male fashion model in Toronto I don't want some ugly chick that's just the truth .
@@primetimejones6442 Never claimed I did, maybe you should do a better job at reading before you speak. I simply stated I gave up on the dating scene after my last breakup about a year ago, and that it is obviously much harder now with social media, girls are getting more and more used to being flown out to places and taken on expensive trips. It's all about followers, clout & money.
Too real the bad guys get the girls without spending a cent and the girls who just had a pump and dump by Chad expect a nice guy to pay for all her damn stuff for the chance of getting laid it’s a traaaap
Very bad idea for rural people like me. Might need to call for help when your car overheats & breaks down. And there's nowhere to socialize with friends
this video was really helpful. i’ve also been reading the book celestial soulmate by lentlish. it has tips on talking to girls, flirting, and even a cold approach guide. together, this video and the book are amazing.
All women go from guy to guy to guy their entire lives that means they leave all the guys and go to a different guy that means there's no such thing as dating this entire neighborhood I live in is divorced twice over
@Canadian_Eh_I it's just our turn it's not like she's not trying to replace us with the bigger and better deal every second of every day or some guy at her job
The amount of stories I've heard from people approaching people casually in the UK and getting called a weirdo or a creep is what puts a lot of people off.
Maybe it’s just time for people to start rethinking life, what works and what doesn’t. Dating, marriage and relationships are just too exclusive for many people and it requires a skill set that isn’t achievable for many people. Some people have difficulty attracting even friends let alone mates. The meaning of life is to be alive. Just enjoy the one life you’re ever going to have. Society tells you you MUST experience romance to have a fulfilling life but the reality is that most won’t. Everyone is different.
Shared interest and mutual friends is GOAT. Cold approach sometimes. I don’t think men should shy away from using a little bit of everything. What I think works the best is the mindset of being open to connection, like good vibes and have no fear.
You realize there was a dude that died at 82 years old who was a monk I can't remember where he was but he had never seen a woman! So technically as far as he was concerned women didn't even exist!
Its not about looks. Its not about money. You just need the right social skills and have the right cues, women love intimacy, they are dreading for it. They're lonely just as much as men.
Cell phones ruined modern dating. You can't meet anyone when everyone around you are staring at their phones. Also, it's tough when you are childfree and it's difficult to meet a partner who you are attracted to and also want to be childfree.
Like every guy I know I just gave up on women entirely.. I'm not a billionaire athlete, so I'm invisible. I don't want to be treated like an option, I'm done being a disposable utility. Like ALL MY FRIENDS ill never even try to date again.
Don't listen to this guy. Since the caveman era, just like today, women go for the best man possible who could take care of her and her babies. If there were 10 available caveman, just like 10 available guys at the bar, she'll choose the best one. Knowing that, guys like me with flaws won't even try to ask a woman out. I'm 50 and 5'8". Women go for guys who are taller. I know.
They do go for the best one but who wants too be that guy with her kids married leave that for someone else you just want her for fun nothing serious a average guy can still do that ..she will probably upgrade quick but u can still have fun
"men are too scared of rejection to approach." this is mostly true, however, every time i hear people say this, i think they scapegoat young men instead of acknowledging that women have spent the past seven years saying that they hate when hit on them. This obviously isn't always true, but the way consent works now is that you must always take women's word at face value. People didn't stop approaching out of fear, but out of misplaced compassion. As for loneliness in general, carl jung says that loneliness isn't just a factor of having no one else around, but more so comes about when people feel like they aren't really allowed to talk about what they feel is important to them. Society does not let young men talk about anything candidly. Voicing thoughts about dating, sex, finances, mental health or culture really does not go over well in circles with women for the most part. I think your videos are well intentioned, but don't scapegoat young men just to try to sell your course. Both genders need to heal and meet each other halfway
@T8terN8tor oh no, that would mean you talked to a pretty lady and got nothing out of it but an enjoyable conversation. that would be so terrible, oh no
@T8terN8torSame happen to me one girl keep on glancing at me for more than 3 months each and every time when I am at gym and one day I wanted to genuinely show her one exercise with good technique so when i was about to approach her she basically saw me coming towards her she acted like she didn’t knew i was beside her trying to say hello, she keep on looking way back on right side i was worried her neck should have fallen apart soon but after 6 to 8 seconds of standing beside her she finally looked towards me, she saw me coming as i mentioned but acted she didn’t knew so then i quickly shown her exercise without even asking her name i went back to my workout.
@@the_exegete Actually, I encountered a few girls that are like that. Of course not all have the same motive behind it, but some do just like the attention from guys.
As a 29 year old man, I just want peace. I have no energy at all for relationships or whatever. I'm not a gamer, weirdo, etc, I just work and go to the gym, I just want to live quietly
It's not about being rich. Majority of women don't care about riches. What they DO care about is financial stability. They want a man that can provide. Simple as that. If you have an apartment, a job and a car, you're set.
Denmo, this has been a year for change and improvement and you were part of what made me change, im just a random guy on the comment section for you but i really appreciate what you do, thanks.
You're right every video out there is trying to convince us to fear and hate eachother and empathy is dying. You cannot have healthy love without empathy
And hate to tell you denmo but when you're over 30 short and going bald no amount of social skills or rizz will help you. You either got it or you dont sad truth .
@giblet6371 if I was ripped and wealthy I would be swimming in pussy. Since you're commenting on my comment I assume you're not having any luck. So maybe no drowning in pussy ripped, wealthy Adam.
Man I wished I had gotten it I have witnessed it myself sometimes physical attractiveness it’s not a factor I seen uglier men get on with girls while I just watch from afar so yeah some guys just got it
Just shave your hair, not sure how short you're talking but I know a guy that's around 5'5'' & has had quite a few women man, he's a bit of a slimey f but point being he got quite a few women lol
@@giblet6371 Wealth will only get you so far and do you want a woman to only want you for your money? Plus a lot of women are making more than the average man.
@@CaioMarcelino-g3x Eu vi uma reportagem aqui no UA-cam, ele está sendo acusado de assédio por um caso de 5 anos atrás, a menina consentiu e aí no meio ato nao consentiu mais 🤦🏻♂️ That's what she said.
The reason I don't talk to random women is because most of them hate that shit. Some don't mind, but the overwhelming majority of women I have met say they do not like it when strange men approach them. This is because most men suck at approaching. They say weird and creepy shit to them and scare all of the women. Women literally are not going out in public anymore, specifically because men won't leave them alone. I can't even count the number of times I've been in an innocent conversation with a woman, and she just keeps repeating the words "my husband" in every other sentence. And I'm like, lady, I get it you're married. Do you want me to help you load this shit in your car, or can I please go back inside to finish my job?
How are guys supposed to start relationships with women without cold approaching? You can’t always hit on a girl at your job you can risk getting fired. Most guys can’t join some random club, they’re busy working and maybe taking some college courses. Honestly college classes is the only legitimate way I can think of
I've never used dating apps. Meeting someone organically and in-person is (and always has been) the best way of achieving results in love and dating in my opinion. That said, approaching the opposite sex is hard and takes a lot of courage. It's even more challenging if you're like me and are on the autism spectrum. Because people like us have to work extra hard in understanding people's feelings and emotions. As well as knowing what are interest and flirtation signals that are given to us. Instead of just the platonic signals that we get more often than not. While dating and love remains a challenge, I'd rather do it the hard way and just accept that the results are more likely to take longer to achieve than using dating apps and social media. But at the end of it all, the results are also more likely to be better than using the above technology. Pros and cons to everything in life. And this subject is no exception! 😅
Damnit Denmo! You got me. I've only been watching you for a month though. You've helped my confidence enough to ask a girl out for the first time in years. I was rejected but it didn't sting as bad as I thought it would. I also just deleted all dating apps this week. I've lost 20lbs in just a few months, started dressing better and found a new group of friends that aren't low lifes sitting around watching UA-cam, playing video games and smoking weed all day.
The entire financial investment fall solely on men when it comes to the initial stages of dating. Women are now succeeding financially, but still expect men to do all the impressing while they sit back expect 1950s chivalry. Dating for men is like going to the carnival and playing these rigged games that look easy but actually unwinnable. After a while, you realize you’ve thrown away a lot of money and you have nothing to show for it.
I've been rejected over 300 times in person , didn't get a single date. If you are attractive dating can be fun. If you're ugly , you never even get a chance to try.
By far the best video on modern dating I have ever seen. I agree with your analysis. Men watching too many red pill videos get jaded, no different than women getting jaded. Great work!
"You don't respect yourself and you don't like yourself". That hits hard. Low self-esteem, lacking confidence for most of my life and having had toxically critical relatives leaves deep and painful scars. The first thought whenever seeing a woman I'd like get to know better is "She'd never be interested in me". That's a pretty hard springboard to bounce off of into introducing oneself. Life just feels like a monotonous, meaningless drudge to eventual I health and death, alone apart from maybe some occasional visits from friends if I'm lucky. The pattern of behaviour and thought is set hard after 52 years.
@@andrewevans7992 I've been too both and Vietnam is awesome and has some beautiful spots..for the single man and just for anyone in general Thailand is at least 5 times a better place
Speaking as a foreign person people in north and South America are just as bad as American girls don’t let them fool you all they want is a sugar daddy with a green card 😂
Even if you do approach AND get numbers it usually goes know here. This is drastically different than how it was a decade or more ago. If you got a number it wasn't hard to get a woman out on a date. Now its near impossible no matter what you do. If you are my age (40) you know the difference is night and day.
I found my wife through Tinder, but I live in Portugal, it is not a social media driven country, and we look down on the influencers, we see it as cringe, some girls are still gold (mine is). You have to go for those who are not that active on social media.
@SlashinatorZ Change country when you retire, Portugal is a paradise for retired people, but hell to the locals. Too much immigration causing problems, cost of living too high. Besides that, It must be one of the best countries to live.
@creamy9626 that's decades from now. I wanna know how to live large as a young adult. Texas is also miserable for locals. Heavy traffic in sparsely populated areas. Lack of shopping variety. Lack of jobs, lack of girls, horrible weather
I’m 24 and never dated because I still live with parents. My goal is to get more certifications so that I can get a solid job in marketing, communications, or maybe something related to web3 or AI. With my job as a part-time retail stocker, most of my money is saved. I have no money to socialize and go on dates with women. Plus, TBH I’m too boring for women my age. My interests are content creation, going to the gym, NASCAR, and learning about making more money. Most of these are masculine, solo hobbies. I’m also not into the partying and drinking that a majority of the women my age are into. I don’t want these low quality women. And no, I don’t want to be the beta provider guy that settles for fat girls, single moms, and promiscuous older women. I’m good. Seems like dating is a catch 22 for me, but I can’t just mope around and do nothing.
Fellas, put your phone down, get in the gym, learn a remote skill, preferably in IT, practice cold approach with outcome independence and eventually get a passport.
3:00 I'll watch the whole video but I think guys in this space either willfully ignore or are oblivious to this fact: it's not simply that men don't approach, it's simply that to run into a 6/10, let alone a 9/10, is a very very rare occurrence. Probably, you and guys like you live in NYC or Chicago or around any other major metropolis that you see lots of women but in truth there just aren't many women to go around.
I almost never talk lately- i used to be a very extroverted person, but after covid, it has become incredibely hard to hold coversations with people. Everyone is much more distant.
I gave up a decade ago and got my confidence, respect and self worth back. Interestingly I've since come out as aromantic which has been life changing and liberating! 💜
The world, dating, and even online dating, was perfectly fine until the late 2000s. It was when the smartphones, social media, and dating apps came in… and oh, that little ‘social justice gender wars’ thing… and we are in an awful place these days in love and life.
I don’t think this was mentioned. But you have better results with girls when you don’t care about girls. You can only win a negotiation if you’re willing to walk away.
I respectfully asked out a coworker who was showing interest, bantering back and forth, texting back and forth for months and she called hr on for sexual harassment. Women these days are absolutely crazy
I used to do game, do the pickup stuff you teach and some of the other dating coaches teach. And whenever I would, women would scowl at me, think I’m weird and creepy, give all the “ick” vibes you can think of, give the eyes rolls and biggest sighs. I was being super polite, not too aggressive, wouldn’t persist if I saw it wasn’t going anywhere, I was in great shape (I gained some weight now but I’m getting back into shape again), decent at carrying the conversation, but the women just made it clear they hated being approached. So I stopped and never went back to it. I just got tired of being treated that way and who does honestly. So now why do you think most guys aren’t bothering to try either? It’s because when men do, women treat them like crap for it, and men don’t like that so they so they stop. It’s the women that are the problem not the guys. Yes men definitely have their own problems, but when women are making themselves so toxic to talk to and so unapproachable by literally ANY guy they don’t know, to the point where large swaths of the male population are just flat out giving up, you know women have some serious issues they gotta fix about themselves.
Nobody cares man, also I’m too selfish to care about what happens to my bloodline 😂. A kid never chooses life, life inherently is given without the organisms will.
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Divorce and losing half your money is no joke. Having the police show up when a woman lies on you is no joke.
LOUDER!
L O U D E R
Should of not the government involved. Next time do a hand fasting or something.
Had a woman hit me i got angry she called the cops, the cops arrested me.... be careful guys
exactly.
This is main reason.
I find it hilarious how people are trying to make social media the easy scapegoat.
"muaah.... hadn't it been social media we wiuld be happily living together forever"😂😂😂
@@NoOne-kx7zs he actually said that in the video?
Q: why aren't men approaching women anymore?
A: they never get a return on their investment
they are full delusional
fr Denmo always blames the movid years, video games or social media but not the actual root cause of the problems. also it is not just that men aren't approaching or dating anymore, they do not even desire to go for modern women.
This is so accurate
Cannot forget unbelievably high standards that some men just can't attain (yes you can grow muscles but you can't grow taller or have facial symmetry)
looking at talking to people as an investment is dumb
Social media ruined dating and relationships as a whole
And man made inflation
absolutely
When she has social media she just goes straight for Brad or Chad or maybe even Tyrone
Cannot be more spot on to the truth.
Then let's ban it
I’m not paying full price for a product that dozens of other guys got for a bourbon and Coke.
@@godsbruhbruh what are these hypotheticals 💀
Which coke are we talking?
😂❤
@@yungmentalproblems No, online data of BILLIONS of swipes is absolute, demonstrable reality. It upset a certain narrative used for decades and a lot of people don't like it. So they'll say "not all women are like that" and pretend that means those women aren't way more rare now.
You don't have to. I never do
Turning 32 tomorrow, I haven’t had a friend or a girl in over 5 years. It’s eerie how you just get numb to the loneliness.
@@inker1972it is what it is. I can’t relate with people, a lot of people are so fake and I can’t be around that. I only work and go to the gym. I don’t drink or go to clubs.
I can massively relate in 30 it seems to me that a lot of people about looking great in groups and an act rather than being genuine @@anthonycanales3060
@@anthonycanales3060 yeah I envy people that can be happy alone. Disconnecting this idea that you should have relationships and friendships is perhaps a source of comfort. Some people are simply destined to be alone
Im 32 and I have never had a gf nor touch a girl. I dont know what it feels like to kiss a girl. 😢
I honestly don’t get some of you - if you are lonely then why not try to meet people or women to date? Why retreat and then endlessly watch content like this? I honestly don’t understand it.. there’s a form
Of learned helplessness going on here and it’s puzzling
I have to work 10x harder than my grandfather just to have the chance of attracting women who are 10x less than my grandmother.
Honestly tell me Jack, how is it worth it?
I had to work hard to achieve financial freedom. Took me years of construction jobs & failure. Same thing applies to everything in life.. if you really want it, you can get it
Its a scam, it's better paying for a scort
@@DenmosocialFinding a woman shouldn't be as hard as building up a successful career.
The level of effort requested is insane, those women are not worth it at all. High body count, feminist software, high maintenance.
A basic woman is not worth all that effort.
If I were successful, I wouldn't even consider getting a woman, I would just play the field and dump the women. Successful men don't take the risk of losing it all, because once you have success, you have a target in your back.
Women want top tier, and most can't even be nice or cook and clean or even screw a lightbulb.
95% Women are not worth it anymore 😅
@@Denmosocial depends on where you live and how old you are. If you live in the West, you better get you one of the good ones by the time you are 20. The good ones get taken and married pretty young leaving all the rejects and broken toys behind.
@@DenmosocialBINGO!!! I hope he’s listening well!!!
Covid + social media millionaires + tinder + TikTok = perfect swarm of hell
Yeah. This has been the case before covid though.
@@stankbox It was definitely a growing trend through the 2010s but COVID really accelerated what we are seeing here.
@@oglocbaby520 yeah it did. I just know that it was well under way but the time 2020 came though.
The ultimate goal of feminism is lesbianism !
Quotes from _Ti Grâce Atkinson_ (feminist icon):
"Feminism is a theory, lesbianism is the practice."
"Since the beginning of the Movement, lesbianism has been a kind of password for female resistance."
"The prostitute is the only honest woman left in America."
_Valerie solanas_ (feminist icon)
"Just as humans have a priority right to existence over dogs because they are more evolved and have a higher consciousness, women have a priority right to existence over men. The elimination of all men is therefore a good and just act, an act of great benefit to women and an act of mercy."
_Andre Dworkin_
"Heterosexual intercourse is a pure and formalized expression of contempt for the body of women."
"I always wanted to see a man beaten to death with a high-heeled shoe in his mouth, a kind of pig with an apple; it would be nice to put him on a serving plate but it would take good silverware."
_Susan Brownmiller_
"ALL men keep ALL women in a state of fear"
_Kate Millette_
"The complete destruction of traditional marriage and nuclear family is the “revolutionary or utopian” goal of feminism."
"The lesbian is the feminist par excellence, because she does not like men - it’s the independent woman par excellence."
And the " me too movement "
I actually prefer being single. Its way less stress. Plus I can be me and focus on my own life without dealing with some woman who is going to be a headache about everything.
I think the internet is waking a lot of men up to the hazards of marriage or even LTRs. I’m 65 ,widowed , and enjoying my freedom. ( I loved my wife but man , people have issues )Marriage was a tremendous responsibility as one has to handle and accept the fact that you simply do not have control over your life or finances , future or time anymore. In the “ good old days” we had no idea what we were getting into.🙀
@@Horatio1886build You loved your wife but you are talking about your marriage with a sense of regret, what gives?
same here for the first time in my life i feel peace and i wont trade it for nothing, had dreams of having kids but it is slowly fading away with todays society and its progress. been alone 2 years and i think im going to be like this for the rest of my life:)
@@ButteredPecan17That alone says it all. Bro is/was married and had it "all" but he is realizing if it truly was what he wanted. You only get one life, who you spend it with is very important.
But being able to have sex would still be very nice.
14:19 Bullshit
There's plenty of guys who have good social skills, but STILL get bad results with women. We keep putting all the burden on guys and many of us have done the work already. The problem here mostly falls on the women in that society tells women they are perfect the way they are so they refuse to change and if no man is willing to accept their bs then they are better off being by themselves. We've gone too far left in our values which makes relationships so difficult. If we were in a society that prioritized more traditionalist values, communities & support for families, and men and women going towards more binary roles then we would have more/better relationships on top of improving the birth rate. The pop the balloon series is the perfect example of this and I think at this point its just best for us to accept that this shit isnt going to work nor is it worth pursuing long term.
This guy has a combo of simp and slimy pick up artist energy
so whats the silver lining then? or whats the solution? just get financially free ASAP ?
@Jakefromstatefarm56503 Like I said just learn to accept the reality it ain't going to work long term. Enjoy hookups, flings, and short term relationships. That's my honest answer based on experience.
@@psnisy1234 100% agree, it's like riding the hamster wheel on purpose, you know you're not getting anywhere, eventually you'll be tired, you'll want to take a break, but then you'll want to get back at it again and repeat, but you don't want to stay in the whee forever, that's relationships or marriage.
I'm going to have to disagree. There are plenty of traditional women still out there. You just have to know where to look. I see attractive traditional females at my gun club every week. And they are there alone! They have square dance night at my local bar and have of plenty of traditional lovely ladies. Learn to square dance!
Saying to enjoy hookups and flings is only making it worse.
Get your ass out there and find a nice girl! They still exist.
STOP COMPLAINING
Both men and women need social skills. Women are socially awkward too and most women get away with being socially awkward by being antisocial, mean and uninterested. Just because you see a woman talking to her friends doesn't mean she knows how to be sociable with other people outside of her circle.
True. If there’s any area where women have an advantage over men is in the burden of performance . All a woman has to do is smile and listen to what the guy is saying and it doesn’t even really matter what she says back to him. The guy needs to be on point and say the right things and act the right way .. very few women will ever understand what this is like for the average guy
Oh most women have terrible game - they don’t need it as guys are fine with putting in all the work
@@brianmeen2158 yes, women have terrible game, that's why they can't keep a man.
Facts many women have no social skills but they get away with it if they’re hot
That's a very good point
Not to mention but it's impossible to tell if a girl is single or not
I never ask. I would say 95% of all good looking girls will have SOMEONE in their life. Assume they all do. Become her best option. Be her funnest option. Clap her cheeks the best lol. When you don’t give a damn about anything except being your best self towards others, you become a stud
A woman is never single
@Texasno420 then dating is impossible
Ask her what she did the weekend, if she has a bf she likely sees him during the weekend
so what bro say hi anyway lol
"Just talk to girls bro." That's basically this video in a nutshell. Dude.. Do you think men haven't tried that? The women can order a guy she finds attractive from her phone like ordering a pizza. It's not men's fault. It's the fact that women won't settle for guys on her looks match. Hoemath explains this on his youtube channel.
Yeah the moment this dude started using TikTok babytalk like “schmovid” instead of talking like an adult, I disregarded the entire video.
You’re weak asf. 😂😂
It’s your fault for being a low level man and no woman wanting u.
Level up and compete with us weak boy.
@@Darkonyx4 you think its like a video game where you can just level up to the max? like every guy just do that.. lol
Where am I supposed to talk to girls? I live in Texas, everyone here is old AF & the city planning sucks.
Nothing but gas stations, fast food & grocery stores here
@@SlashinatorZbro texas has 4 really big cities that i can think off the top of my head. I used to live in Dallas, the opportunities that I missed while living there still haunt me sometimes. Yes it is hard but it isn’t complicated. Get In shape, be well groomed, drop the controller for a while and talk to people. Men and women alike it’ll help with your people skills
The juice isnt worth the squeeze anymore
priorities I guess
the juice is poisonous now
@@Denmosociali still don’t see how you’re not understanding.. western women are done for.. it will take 2-3 generations to weed out the degenerates
The men are the people who squeeze the juice & the women are just the one who drink it all and leave you barren
- Why Men & Women Aren't Dating In 2025?
- Because it's still 2024.
lmao
😂😂
ha ha
Not anymore
During this year I dated 5 girls from dating apps, and all first meetings failed, despite we always talked and had fun for hours. In retrospective its just impossible to know what a complete stranger desires or wants to hear on first try. As someone who had dozens of job interviews over my life, dating is much more difficult and emotionally draining.
That's because dating isn't for getting to know strangers but can be used to do so besides dating is supposed to enhance sexual tension leading to intimacy within a month and half max, if not in most cases it's best just to cut your losses because most women are active with men they don't require commitment from.
Most importantly dates are rewarded to young ladies you've built rapport with that have shown choosing signals, high interest, respect, attraction, affection, attention and genuine desire for you? If not you've no incentives to be dating let alone be intentional with her.
At least they failed just on the first date. I've come across women where we dated for several months only for them to betray me by going back to an ex or getting with another guy else where. Or they were just using me.
@@TheAcumenn replace the jargon 'choosing signals' to 'choosy', 'with intention' to 'with no intention' and 'dating' to 'internet dating'. That will reflect what's going on
meet people irl brother. this is the way
@@Denmosocial100% I’m at the point where it’s irl or nun
I want the society from 60 years back, where marriage and family actually meant something. When there was actually a sense of community in the population, and not millions of isolated individuals who are drowning in loneliness and dying alone because they can't have a family and children. I wasn't made for what we have now 😭
Be quiet with that nonsense trolll
@@SilverWave64 considering how society was back in 64, this comment dont make you sound good at all
60 years back in which country/part of the world?
60 years ago you were racist and sexist.
Women couldn't open a bank account singly in her name. It's usually white MEN, who want to go back to the "good old days".
Literally no one else does.
.
What you want is control. You don't want to evolve.
You sir, are a pu**y, and you will forever be miserable.
You do realize black people had to drink out of separate water fountains back then? You live in this reality, you don’t know how life actually was back in the 60s brother
Until we stop treating women like they are the most special, amazing people that can never do anything wrong and giving them money merely for existing, this will continue to get worse and worse.
In reality women are some of the nastiest people around
They arent worth it anymore. Women today use men like toilet paper and so we've stopped jumping through pointless hoops.
change the laws
Facts
Yeah I see many man investing time or being there for woman and they cant believe how their heart was broken by woman.
I feel like sociopathic after my first breakup and the lies she said and how she wouldnt sacrrifice something and me being the idiot sacrificing something, there is no love for most woman.
@ I'm starting to wonder whether most women are even capable of romantic love. They are in lvoe with the way THEY feel, but are they ever really in love with YOU?
@ I ll answer that question right now. NO
Dating in real life nowadays feels like a job interview. 😂 Dating apps also suck.
What job do you have? Why do t you make more money? Why don’t you have lambo? Why Don’t travel with me all year? Why don’t. You buy me channel bag?
I just don’t bother anymore. I have hit every major milestone in life except dating and I don’t have any hope for it at this point. Social media has got 6’s acting like 10’s and there’s too many damaged people out there
You forgot another one aside from social media is the makeup.
Have you tried not paying any mind to the 6s and just go for the 10s you don’t want the 6s any way?!
well theres no denying that men today need to work 5x as hard for a woman thats 10x worse than in the past
You need to make a ton of money, be well traveled, well experienced with life, have a body of a gym rat with a strict diet, a devils charisma and a comedians sense of humor and all the knowledge to fix any problem, and have a deep understanding of psychology to please a women who has a few kids from non commital dudes, done drugs before with a previous party life, impulsive, mentally unstable, always looking for a better man, looks down on people, think she deserves worship and punishment at the same time, blame you for everything
Don’t waste money on something that you cannot keep for yourself.
People blame dating apps but what they dont tell you is real reason why men dont approach women in real life is because the results were almost identical, its just hell of alot more awkward. Society is rotten and broken to the core, i would low key be terrified to find a soulmate and wonder how the fk am i going to keep a relationship going or start a family in this clownshow.
In other words women are not only hard to get, they are also hard to want. Thats not a good recipe for future.
If you try to rizz up a woman when you have subpar or average looks woman look at you like you’re a creep but if you have no
Game but your looks are above average they think you’re cute
@@ronburgundy3172 women judge their own worth and status based on what calibre of men pursue them, thats why they are extra harsh on average or bellow average men because they dont want anyone to think they are flirting eith them for fear of being thought of as being "in their league" even if realistically speaking they are. Grass isnt much greener in the other side either as handsome low status men are often used only as a confidence boosters/status improvers. As a handsome man, you can flirt with women all day and having nothing to show for it, the moment you ask them out you get shot down. But in public they damn near fuck you with their eyes. Becsuse you are only there to prove them they are "in your league" the only thing that works is ignoring them so blatantly they actually low key start to see you as something better than them, amd women are always attracted to the men who are better than them/ not in their league.
Therefore Hitting the gym and staying on your grind works the best. Approach women to get better rizz but dont expect any outcome, just treat it as practice/waste of time it really is.
*Dating in 2025 is complicated by social media expectations and fear of rejection; focusing on real-life connections could change the game.*
In our dreams ain’t gonna happen
Even IRL it’s rough. Lots of damaged people out there
Even with no fear at all
What will happens if you try to buy a Mercedes with money for a Honda 😅
Most men can’t afford the modern women - maybe in the west if they look like aqua man - not here in the east
That’s not it. We are just tired of rejection.
I thought some girl that worked at a store was pretty cute & nice so I asked her out and she said no. Her co-worker was looking at me funny, but I didn't care. So I said alright no worries, have a good one. A couple of weeks later I saw her walking outside of work, she came to me and tried to "re-introduce" herself but I politely turned her down this time. It's the attitude that turned me off.
Yes, the ‘golden age’ of pickup (2000s) was amazing. I made really good friends, had some amazing girlfriends, and most of all learned about who I am underneath. I never learned magic tricks or lines - just how to understand the way people interact socially and how to become a better version of myself. People who throw shade at that culture never took the time to truly understand it. You had some weirdos too, but a lot of us were just regular, shy, good guys, and this was our rite of passage. Guys like David D and Zan were my heroes. Great times.
interesting perspective- thank you for sharing that
I'm almost 60 and terribly late to this game, but I went and met Zan in Miami couple years ago. My life has changed by almost 180° since then🕺
@@DavidG2P he’s the man! I’ve spent some time with him and the other old school guys long time ago.
@@Denmosocial it was awesome, man! We were a small group of guys, all became good friends, would go out 1-2x/week together to meet girls and just spend time together as friends and learning how to become better people. It was a whole movement. We were mostly good guys and had a great time! Sooo many memories. Dating sucks now.
A serious PUA.The ME TO/We To movement caused FODA.Fear of dating again ☠️
40 yrs old, own my own business, own my own home, am relatively decent looking and relatively fit and active.
I find that older women are wonderful. They are friendly/sociable and I am legitimately friends with several older married women. Speaking with women is not an issue.
I've found that most women my age never leave the house and the few that I do encounter walk around looking miserable and angry at the world. I find myself being scowled at for smiling at a lady while holding the door for them at a coffee shop haha
It's bonkers.
I'd love to meet a good match, but I'm not interested in being treated like trash or pursuing someone who is going to bring me down.
Goated comment
Live your life on your own terms sir.
Older women are probably much better in bed and more eager to get to know you, if you could overlook those wrinkles😂😂😂
Try hagmaxxing, its not the definitive solution but it works.
If young women want to be treated as godly beings just look for a woman who is old ebough to realize she is just one more of the fishes in the ocean.
Im average looking and i have a crappy job but old ladies 46-47+ dont care that much about it, they realize their prime is gone and just want somebody who gives them some attention and validation. Im 34 y.o though, it might be different for you and you probably dont want to date a 60 y.o woman but give it a try with the 50+ woman, you'll be surpised.
Older women have an older software. Less feminists.
Women your age are harcore feminists and manhaters.
Total waste of time.
@@THEOvERSiZEDMeATBALL In general women of all ages look angry and pissed at life, gives me want to have nothing to do with them and pity the guy who is with her.
As a millennial, I think we forgot about the whole "ghosting" Era where you talk to girl for 2-3 weeks thinking there's some connection then suddenly they stopped talking to you ,replying to your messages and shut you out. You can't talk to her nor her friends about what happened or what you did wrong , you're supposed to be in the state of confusion about your actions or if you misunderstood signals only to find out she used you as entertainment and will gaslight you for getting your hopes up. Truly we were at the height of toxicity.
Last girl I had hopes with I got ghosted it’s a sad feeling
Just had something like this happen to me
I’m 42 years old, I’m from the old school & would never use online dating, social media or whatever to hook up. Getting rejected in person is nothing to me, getting rejected online is very embarrassing because they can easily show their family & friends the messages you sent when you were trying to hook up & got rejected.
too real. I gave up on dating after my last breakup. I'm 26, I just don't see myself having a long-term relationship with any of these manipulative/fake women. Social media ruined everything. Have a good looking girl in your town? too bad she has an Instagram with 25K+ followers and random guys 100 miles away willing to fly them there and back without a second thought.
Why do you want to date gl girls why not some average or below average girl that have a good heart.
@@presidentjoebiden46thpresi93 why would I settle for less when I know I can get better. I'm a male fashion model in Toronto I don't want some ugly chick that's just the truth .
You’re 26 bro, you don’t have a clue about dating women before social media
@@primetimejones6442 Never claimed I did, maybe you should do a better job at reading before you speak. I simply stated I gave up on the dating scene after my last breakup about a year ago, and that it is obviously much harder now with social media, girls are getting more and more used to being flown out to places and taken on expensive trips. It's all about followers, clout & money.
Why buy the cow when chad got the milk for free 200 times before meeting her
Brutal, but I laughed just the same. Get your passports bros.
I love breast milk so much one of my ex has Galactorrhea
Too real the bad guys get the girls without spending a cent and the girls who just had a pump and dump by Chad expect a nice guy to pay for all her damn stuff for the chance of getting laid it’s a traaaap
Aquire the skills Chad had to get the Milk for free. From any cow.
Imagine life without a phone.
Sounds boring
insane
Very bad idea for rural people like me. Might need to call for help when your car overheats & breaks down.
And there's nowhere to socialize with friends
@@Weezyfan0306sounds great.: tf
Woman settle for a man who’s actually worth a man not a guy who pretends to live a richer life han he does or a jobless bum
I no longer have an opinion on dating. I just don't.
😢
this video was really helpful. i’ve also been reading the book celestial soulmate by lentlish.
it has tips on talking to girls, flirting, and even a cold approach guide.
together, this video and the book are amazing.
All women go from guy to guy to guy their entire lives that means they leave all the guys and go to a different guy that means there's no such thing as dating this entire neighborhood I live in is divorced twice over
Yeah it’s impossible nowadays, just stay single and stay away from lust. Literally impossible to have a real relationship, do not bother.
"She's not yours it's just your turn"
Exactly. You dont take as good of care of things you're just borrowing....
@Canadian_Eh_I it's just our turn it's not like she's not trying to replace us with the bigger and better deal every second of every day or some guy at her job
@@tonydiesel3444 Yup women dont love YOU they love what YOU give THEM
The amount of stories I've heard from people approaching people casually in the UK and getting called a weirdo or a creep is what puts a lot of people off.
Maybe it’s just time for people to start rethinking life, what works and what doesn’t. Dating, marriage and relationships are just too exclusive for many people and it requires a skill set that isn’t achievable for many people.
Some people have difficulty attracting even friends let alone mates. The meaning of life is to be alive. Just enjoy the one life you’re ever going to have. Society tells you you MUST experience romance to have a fulfilling life but the reality is that most won’t.
Everyone is different.
You dropped this 👑
@@Moriningland How are you supposed to “enjoy life to the fullest” when you can’t even fulfill the most basic biological needs?
True:(
UA-cam didn't came out in 2010, it was 2005.
Shared interest and mutual friends is GOAT. Cold approach sometimes. I don’t think men should shy away from using a little bit of everything. What I think works the best is the mindset of being open to connection, like good vibes and have no fear.
Solid advice my friend. Keep it up.
That’s the problem people go from connecting and vibing with each other to hating each other and never talking
There is no formula. Good vibes are temporary until things go sideways, then people disappear
What if our friends live far away?
You realize there was a dude that died at 82 years old who was a monk I can't remember where he was but he had never seen a woman! So technically as far as he was concerned women didn't even exist!
Nope it’s about looks. Get rejected all the time it’s all about looks
the black pill is undefeated.
Wrong a man can be super attractive and still get nothing nowadays it's all about money unfortunately 🚩🚩🚩🚩
Its not about looks. Its not about money. You just need the right social skills and have the right cues, women love intimacy, they are dreading for it. They're lonely just as much as men.
Wrong, it’s about the money, trust me.
Cell phones ruined modern dating. You can't meet anyone when everyone around you are staring at their phones. Also, it's tough when you are childfree and it's difficult to meet a partner who you are attracted to and also want to be childfree.
Like every guy I know I just gave up on women entirely..
I'm not a billionaire athlete, so I'm invisible. I don't want to be treated like an option, I'm done being a disposable utility.
Like ALL MY FRIENDS ill never even try to date again.
Don't listen to this guy. Since the caveman era, just like today, women go for the best man possible who could take care of her and her babies. If there were 10 available caveman, just like 10 available guys at the bar, she'll choose the best one. Knowing that, guys like me with flaws won't even try to ask a woman out. I'm 50 and 5'8". Women go for guys who are taller. I know.
They do go for the best one but who wants too be that guy with her kids married leave that for someone else you just want her for fun nothing serious a average guy can still do that ..she will probably upgrade quick but u can still have fun
@danb5944 Wish me (us all) luck to even get the opportunity to have fun with a woman like that. I'll accept that.
miserable old guy clicking on videos like this to leave negative comments. seriously man 😂
Denmo is willfully ignorant. Serving false hope to the desperate.
your short guy gene came from a thousand generations of short men who got laid, what you're saying just clearly is not true
Changed? More like nonexistent I don’t see myself getting married
Could be the technological age fault. Too much crutches
I don’t know much man but cold approach will never work, putting a total stranger in a position of power to disrespect you is wild
"men are too scared of rejection to approach." this is mostly true, however, every time i hear people say this, i think they scapegoat young men instead of acknowledging that women have spent the past seven years saying that they hate when hit on them. This obviously isn't always true, but the way consent works now is that you must always take women's word at face value. People didn't stop approaching out of fear, but out of misplaced compassion.
As for loneliness in general, carl jung says that loneliness isn't just a factor of having no one else around, but more so comes about when people feel like they aren't really allowed to talk about what they feel is important to them. Society does not let young men talk about anything candidly. Voicing thoughts about dating, sex, finances, mental health or culture really does not go over well in circles with women for the most part.
I think your videos are well intentioned, but don't scapegoat young men just to try to sell your course. Both genders need to heal and meet each other halfway
U dropped this 👑
Never approach her if she's not giving you choosing signals
Even then, she could just do that and all she wanted was your attention for an ego boost.
@T8terN8tor not if they're showing true signs like blushing staring etc..
@T8terN8tor oh no, that would mean you talked to a pretty lady and got nothing out of it but an enjoyable conversation. that would be so terrible, oh no
@T8terN8torSame happen to me one girl keep on glancing at me for more than 3 months each and every time when I am at gym and one day I wanted to genuinely show her one exercise with good technique so when i was about to approach her she basically saw me coming towards her she acted like she didn’t knew i was beside her trying to say hello, she keep on looking way back on right side i was worried her neck should have fallen apart soon but after 6 to 8 seconds of standing beside her she finally looked towards me, she saw me coming as i mentioned but acted she didn’t knew so then i quickly shown her exercise without even asking her name i went back to my workout.
@@the_exegete Actually, I encountered a few girls that are like that. Of course not all have the same motive behind it, but some do just like the attention from guys.
I gave up. The constant rejection, going on foodie dates I simply quit.
As a 29 year old man, I just want peace. I have no energy at all for relationships or whatever. I'm not a gamer, weirdo, etc, I just work and go to the gym, I just want to live quietly
Keep going, women will just ruin your life down the line.
People say gamer like it's a slur lol
You ain't Rich
You ain't Dating
It's not about being rich. Majority of women don't care about riches. What they DO care about is financial stability. They want a man that can provide. Simple as that. If you have an apartment, a job and a car, you're set.
Turning 40 this year in April. Never had a girlfriend or even been on a date.
Denmo, this has been a year for change and improvement and you were part of what made me change, im just a random guy on the comment section for you but i really appreciate what you do, thanks.
Appreciate it, keep on going!
You're right every video out there is trying to convince us to fear and hate eachother and empathy is dying. You cannot have healthy love without empathy
And hate to tell you denmo but when you're over 30 short and going bald no amount of social skills or rizz will help you. You either got it or you dont sad truth .
What if you're ripped and wealthy
@giblet6371 if I was ripped and wealthy I would be swimming in pussy. Since you're commenting on my comment I assume you're not having any luck. So maybe no drowning in pussy ripped, wealthy Adam.
Man I wished I had gotten it I have witnessed it myself sometimes physical attractiveness it’s not a factor I seen uglier men get on with girls while I just watch from afar so yeah some guys just got it
Just shave your hair, not sure how short you're talking but I know a guy that's around 5'5'' & has had quite a few women man, he's a bit of a slimey f but point being he got quite a few women lol
@@giblet6371 Wealth will only get you so far and do you want a woman to only want you for your money? Plus a lot of women are making more than the average man.
Dating hasn't changed, dating is pretty much over at this point.
I 43 gave up looking for a woman.
I reached my fill of rejections and a few broken hearts.
The bad boys can have them. They deserve each other.
Denmo, we are worried about you bruh. Cheers from Brazil, you rock.
Sou do Brasil também, o que aconteceu com ele?
I'm doing fine lads. Appreciate it tho will share more in future
@@Denmosocial Thank you man, good luck with everything
@@CaioMarcelino-g3x Eu vi uma reportagem aqui no UA-cam, ele está sendo acusado de assédio por um caso de 5 anos atrás, a menina consentiu e aí no meio ato nao consentiu mais 🤦🏻♂️ That's what she said.
@@CaioMarcelino-g3x Foi acusado de assédio man, coisa de 5 anos atrás, a menina consentiu mas depois se arrependeu,coisa assim
The reason I don't talk to random women is because most of them hate that shit. Some don't mind, but the overwhelming majority of women I have met say they do not like it when strange men approach them. This is because most men suck at approaching. They say weird and creepy shit to them and scare all of the women. Women literally are not going out in public anymore, specifically because men won't leave them alone. I can't even count the number of times I've been in an innocent conversation with a woman, and she just keeps repeating the words "my husband" in every other sentence. And I'm like, lady, I get it you're married. Do you want me to help you load this shit in your car, or can I please go back inside to finish my job?
How are guys supposed to start relationships with women without cold approaching? You can’t always hit on a girl at your job you can risk getting fired. Most guys can’t join some random club, they’re busy working and maybe taking some college courses. Honestly college classes is the only legitimate way I can think of
Daaammmn
I've never used dating apps. Meeting someone organically and in-person is (and always has been) the best way of achieving results in love and dating in my opinion. That said, approaching the opposite sex is hard and takes a lot of courage. It's even more challenging if you're like me and are on the autism spectrum. Because people like us have to work extra hard in understanding people's feelings and emotions. As well as knowing what are interest and flirtation signals that are given to us. Instead of just the platonic signals that we get more often than not.
While dating and love remains a challenge, I'd rather do it the hard way and just accept that the results are more likely to take longer to achieve than using dating apps and social media. But at the end of it all, the results are also more likely to be better than using the above technology. Pros and cons to everything in life. And this subject is no exception! 😅
Damnit Denmo! You got me. I've only been watching you for a month though.
You've helped my confidence enough to ask a girl out for the first time in years. I was rejected but it didn't sting as bad as I thought it would.
I also just deleted all dating apps this week.
I've lost 20lbs in just a few months, started dressing better and found a new group of friends that aren't low lifes sitting around watching UA-cam, playing video games and smoking weed all day.
Hell yeah 🎉
The entire financial investment fall solely on men when it comes to the initial stages of dating. Women are now succeeding financially, but still expect men to do all the impressing while they sit back expect 1950s chivalry.
Dating for men is like going to the carnival and playing these rigged games that look easy but actually unwinnable. After a while, you realize you’ve thrown away a lot of money and you have nothing to show for it.
I never ever see single woman anywhere. They are all married from what i see.
Nah pass.
Keep the snakeoil.
I've been rejected over 300 times in person , didn't get a single date. If you are attractive dating can be fun. If you're ugly , you never even get a chance to try.
By far the best video on modern dating I have ever seen. I agree with your analysis. Men watching too many red pill videos get jaded, no different than women getting jaded. Great work!
glad it helped brother
Wait, it's not 2025 yet, I thought next year will be better for dating and marriages. What happened? My neighbors tell me next year will be better.
I doubt it. But could be.
It starts with women approaching men
"You don't respect yourself and you don't like yourself". That hits hard. Low self-esteem, lacking confidence for most of my life and having had toxically critical relatives leaves deep and painful scars. The first thought whenever seeing a woman I'd like get to know better is "She'd never be interested in me". That's a pretty hard springboard to bounce off of into introducing oneself. Life just feels like a monotonous, meaningless drudge to eventual I health and death, alone apart from maybe some occasional visits from friends if I'm lucky. The pattern of behaviour and thought is set hard after 52 years.
Its over time to go overseas
Go too Thailand is the best advice you can give anyone
@@danb5944its nog for longterm lmaooo
@@danb5944or Vietnam.. I hear that place is better
@@andrewevans7992 I've been too both and Vietnam is awesome and has some beautiful spots..for the single man and just for anyone in general Thailand is at least 5 times a better place
Speaking as a foreign person people in north and South America are just as bad as American girls don’t let them fool you all they want is a sugar daddy with a green card 😂
I'm pretty much done with all this stuff thanks to all these mind games and nothing mature when it comes to dating
Why do you think that way? And give evidence for your second statement.
Some girl was flirting with me, I asked her out and she said no. It makes no sense.
@@HiTechMonkeyshe was probably being “nice” most of us assume she’s flirting but in reality they don’t like most of us and want attention
The U.S. fertility rate has reached an all-time low, dropping below 1.7 I blame feminism and shifting societal values.
The fertility rate is actually an increase compared to 2023.
@@presidentjoebiden46thpresi93hahaha yeah sure
Simple answer is technology
Even if you do approach AND get numbers it usually goes know here. This is drastically different than how it was a decade or more ago. If you got a number it wasn't hard to get a woman out on a date. Now its near impossible no matter what you do. If you are my age (40) you know the difference is night and day.
I found my wife through Tinder, but I live in Portugal, it is not a social media driven country, and we look down on the influencers, we see it as cringe, some girls are still gold (mine is). You have to go for those who are not that active on social media.
Man I'm jealous. I live in Texas & it really sucks here. Really car-oriented city planning & there's little to do outside the internet.
@SlashinatorZ Change country when you retire, Portugal is a paradise for retired people, but hell to the locals. Too much immigration causing problems, cost of living too high. Besides that, It must be one of the best countries to live.
@creamy9626 that's decades from now. I wanna know how to live large as a young adult.
Texas is also miserable for locals. Heavy traffic in sparsely populated areas. Lack of shopping variety. Lack of jobs, lack of girls, horrible weather
@@SlashinatorZ how old are you?
@@creamy9626 31. but I'm much younger by all other measurements.
I’m 24 and never dated because I still live with parents. My goal is to get more certifications so that I can get a solid job in marketing, communications, or maybe something related to web3 or AI. With my job as a part-time retail stocker, most of my money is saved. I have no money to socialize and go on dates with women.
Plus, TBH I’m too boring for women my age. My interests are content creation, going to the gym, NASCAR, and learning about making more money. Most of these are masculine, solo hobbies. I’m also not into the partying and drinking that a majority of the women my age are into. I don’t want these low quality women. And no, I don’t want to be the beta provider guy that settles for fat girls, single moms, and promiscuous older women. I’m good.
Seems like dating is a catch 22 for me, but I can’t just mope around and do nothing.
what does living with your parents have to do with it
I’ve lived with my parents and have dated several women and brought them back home. It all depends on the girl you get though
@@BxingOT.M brought the girl back home to your parents?
Drop the alpha beta bs and you'll get a lot farther. Go to more events around your interests. You never know who you'll meet there.
@@hilady1 angry ogres for sure! That's why I gave up on women
Gentlemen, remember: No marriage. No cohabitation. No children.
Fellas, put your phone down, get in the gym, learn a remote skill, preferably in IT, practice cold approach with outcome independence and eventually get a passport.
Respectfully get a passport early because the next false flag marathon is incoming -veteran
@ Yeah, actually your right
IT is not the move over saturated beyond
3:00 I'll watch the whole video but I think guys in this space either willfully ignore or are oblivious to this fact: it's not simply that men don't approach, it's simply that to run into a 6/10, let alone a 9/10, is a very very rare occurrence. Probably, you and guys like you live in NYC or Chicago or around any other major metropolis that you see lots of women but in truth there just aren't many women to go around.
Tell Em 🎉
Gen Z men aren't dating because the dads are getting divorced at this point.
It’s not pickup guys… proceeds to talk about pickup
He’s a sleazy salesman you can do all that he’s saying without joining a cult
See you later bros, it ain't worth it anymore. Video games and my dog give me much more peace.
So nice of this guy to come back from the future to tell us this vital information
😂😂😂
All my girlfriends are on instagram. they don't talk back. They don't spend money. And they look great all the time!
That’s sad man
I almost never talk lately- i used to be a very extroverted person, but after covid, it has become incredibely hard to hold coversations with people. Everyone is much more distant.
The school of anxiety is the school of greatness.
I gave up a decade ago and got my confidence, respect and self worth back. Interestingly I've since come out as aromantic which has been life changing and liberating! 💜
So why would you turn down sex with pretty girls even if it was offered?
I left my house just so I could comment this.
haha my man
I've only asked like 5 girls out in my life. Never been in long term relationship.
Nah I’m cooked😔
Time to turn over your well done
What you cookin bro
Real
The world, dating, and even online dating, was perfectly fine until the late 2000s. It was when the smartphones, social media, and dating apps came in… and oh, that little ‘social justice gender wars’ thing… and we are in an awful place these days in love and life.
Not overseas
I don’t think this was mentioned. But you have better results with girls when you don’t care about girls. You can only win a negotiation if you’re willing to walk away.
Feels like every woman is already talking to someone. Someone whos ''better'' than me, and dont want to even give me a shot.
Women have to understand that this is real gender equality..
Now you have to approach men too in order to have a relationship.
Not being relationship material is a blessing financially and mentally. Yes!
More resources to build wealth or if you don’t care for longevity then spend it all on nice stuff
I do put myself out there, but I dont get any success that I want.
I respectfully asked out a coworker who was showing interest, bantering back and forth, texting back and forth for months and she called hr on for sexual harassment. Women these days are absolutely crazy
Uh oh, let's hear what the guru has to say.
Fake gurus getting rich by selling courses or up close couching to gullible bastards 😂
I used to do game, do the pickup stuff you teach and some of the other dating coaches teach. And whenever I would, women would scowl at me, think I’m weird and creepy, give all the “ick” vibes you can think of, give the eyes rolls and biggest sighs. I was being super polite, not too aggressive, wouldn’t persist if I saw it wasn’t going anywhere, I was in great shape (I gained some weight now but I’m getting back into shape again), decent at carrying the conversation, but the women just made it clear they hated being approached. So I stopped and never went back to it. I just got tired of being treated that way and who does honestly. So now why do you think most guys aren’t bothering to try either? It’s because when men do, women treat them like crap for it, and men don’t like that so they so they stop. It’s the women that are the problem not the guys. Yes men definitely have their own problems, but when women are making themselves so toxic to talk to and so unapproachable by literally ANY guy they don’t know, to the point where large swaths of the male population are just flat out giving up, you know women have some serious issues they gotta fix about themselves.
Nobody cares man, also I’m too selfish to care about what happens to my bloodline 😂. A kid never chooses life, life inherently is given without the organisms will.