I saw a guy get rejected. THIS is what he did wrong

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  • @bigz5262
    @bigz5262 15 днів тому +116

    Getting rejected is better than not trying

    • @Denmosocial
      @Denmosocial  15 днів тому +19

      facts

    • @chielis6446
      @chielis6446 14 днів тому +6

      No dummy. Don't simp and don't give them unearned attention. Make yourself an undeniable option and let them come to you...

    • @bigz5262
      @bigz5262 14 днів тому +27

      @@chielis6446 be honest with yourself, how’s that working out for you? Do you actually expect anyone to believe you have women chasing you? Saying hi to woman you find attractive is not simping

    • @FupaTroopa69
      @FupaTroopa69 14 днів тому

      the dwelling thoughts of “what if” feels worse than getting rejected. I actually feel empowered after getting a no. just means im closer to the next yes.

    • @chielis6446
      @chielis6446 14 днів тому

      ​@@bigz5262Saying hi to women is different then "trying". When you get some choosing signals you can carefully initiate some contact. But let them work for you too.
      How that's working out? Just fine, honestly.

  • @J_Pizzle4shizzle
    @J_Pizzle4shizzle 15 днів тому +43

    He didn’t miss out on anything, doesn’t matter how cute she is, if shes mean/unpolite, shes not even worth being around anyway

    • @soapfoam
      @soapfoam 15 днів тому +5

      If Denmo rolled up to her I'm sure she would have responded differently and no one would think she's rude from her response. Thinking women who don't respond positively are unworthy means you cast aside people who just weren't interested at the time. Protect your ego but be realistic about what your role in things is so you can grow from it.

    • @Denmosocial
      @Denmosocial  14 днів тому +9

      @@soapfoam possibly yes but also I've been rejected many times too, every man deals with it

  • @ricolearns
    @ricolearns 14 днів тому +34

    u know what worse than a girl rejecting you? jobs rejecting you😭😭😭

    • @Denmosocial
      @Denmosocial  14 днів тому +7

      agreed brother both can be difficult

    • @danirodriguez4707
      @danirodriguez4707 6 днів тому

      Oh boy do I have experience in those rejections 😂 But at least it's easier to try 🙂

  • @xDarkpenance
    @xDarkpenance 14 днів тому +16

    This is why your such a legend hyping that dude up

  • @SunsetLights
    @SunsetLights 14 днів тому +4

    I know what this is Iike and Denmo is on point with everything in this video. I once struck up a casual convo with a cute girl next to me at a Starbucks awhile back and we ended up have a mini date on the spot and checked out vinyl records after we finished hw. Very spontaneous. Just be confident and friendly gentleman!

  • @robertgirardin1307
    @robertgirardin1307 14 днів тому +14

    I actually like going out alone. I feel that it forces me to interact with others. If I'm out with friends, I just focus my attention on them.

    • @anthonylivingston7990
      @anthonylivingston7990 14 днів тому +3

      not me. I dont have anyone to go out with, Ive tried going out alone and I just stood in the corner by myself all night lol. So I just chill at home

    • @robertgirardin1307
      @robertgirardin1307 14 днів тому +1

      @anthonylivingston7990 Start by finding a place where you can sit at the bar on a Fri / Sat night where it's not too loud to have a conversation. Then you can start with the bartender and move on to people sitting near you and people who come up for drinks, girls or guys, even if it's just "Hi, how's it going." It took me a few outings before I started moving into real conversations. Now, a couple of months later, I'm having hour long conversations, then leading the girls next door to the nightclub to dance. Just have to view it like any other skill that needs practice.

    • @richardj9016
      @richardj9016 14 днів тому +1

      ​@robertgirardin1307 What a legend! I fully agree, it can be intimidating, but you always ends up with a story by the end

  • @dr.strange6458
    @dr.strange6458 13 днів тому +3

    Most women can't have a conversation sometimes too.

  • @HamidaSultana-kd9py
    @HamidaSultana-kd9py 7 днів тому +1

    Last week, I approched a girl Almost same thing happened with me and got the response " I have a BoyFriend" ... And I turned the whole thing into a Joke by responding (in a funny way) "Ahhh... Lady You Broke My Heart... It is Shattered... You should have waited for me ...." and she burst into Laughter.
    We are kinda friends now.
    I see this as a success as I could control the communication and situation and avoided the embarresment that comes with rejections or when you face the girl again.
    Learning Taken : If situation is not favouring you... turn that into a Joke or Prank or something funny. So that when it fails, you can say... I was just Kidding, I did not mean that 😊.
    WAITING for her to fight with her boyfriend 😂😂😂 before approching her again ( As an experiment to see if I can take it further and if this works ).

  • @GregMunro
    @GregMunro 10 днів тому +205

    Cool video, My relationship of 5 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really love her so much I can’t stop thinking about her, I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of her, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss her and just can’t stop thinking about her.

    • @TrentReeves-c2k
      @TrentReeves-c2k 10 днів тому

      its difficult to let go of someone you love, i was in a similar situation, my relationship of 12 years ended, but i couldnt just let her go i did all i could to get her back, i had to seek the help of a spiritual counselor who helped me bring her back

    • @GregMunro
      @GregMunro 10 днів тому

      Amazing, how did you get a spiritual counselor, and how do i reach her?

    • @TrentReeves-c2k
      @TrentReeves-c2k 10 днів тому

      Shelly renee white , and she is a great spiritual counselor who can bring back your ex.

    • @GregMunro
      @GregMunro 10 днів тому

      Thank you for this valuable information, i just looked her up now online. impressive

  • @SL2797
    @SL2797 15 днів тому +4

    What he did wrong was not reading her mind to check if she found him attractive or not beforehand 😆
    The more attractive she sees you as, the more she will overlook any social awkwardness from you.

    • @soapfoam
      @soapfoam 15 днів тому

      LOL yeah but Denmo said the guy should've known he was out of her league already so why waste your mind reading powers for that? xD

  • @nemanjaveljkovic9216
    @nemanjaveljkovic9216 13 днів тому

    I met this girl at the gym, and she was the one who came to me first and we started talking, i took her Instagram and we started texting. The next day i sent her a message, asking her out, and she just ghousted me, the next day she said hi to me like nothing has happend. I don't know what is going on, i am seeing her almost every day at the gym (she works out with her friend) and we are now just saying hi to each other and that is it. I am so confused.

  • @bobcobb158
    @bobcobb158 15 днів тому +1

    The issue is lack of exposure/experience. Hopefully the guy keeps going, because it's really hard to improve at the whole cold approach thing if you only do it once every month or two.

    • @Cee_Eff
      @Cee_Eff 15 днів тому +2

      @bobcobb158 Even worse, if you're shut down the instant, you try to open your mouth

  • @Raghav-cf9
    @Raghav-cf9 15 днів тому

    there was a time when i kept wondering why some people seemed to naturally draw others in while i was just…there. no matter what i tried, i couldn’t figure out how they did it. then someone mentioned the book Magnetic Aura by Takeshi Mizuki, and i decided to check it out. the way it explains how your aura affects everything around you? it blew me away. it’s like having a secret code to unlock your magnetic energy. this book is a game-changer.

  • @fomorekontent83
    @fomorekontent83 15 днів тому +2

    Glad to be back❤🎉Happy New Year Jack

  • @cinemalights2625
    @cinemalights2625 14 днів тому

    This completely simplified approaching for me. Thank you for posting this video!

  • @maskedmarvel
    @maskedmarvel 12 днів тому

    Hey Denmo. I had know idea everything that had been going on with your situation recently. Just want to wish you the best, God bless brother.

  • @biggiesmalls9134
    @biggiesmalls9134 14 днів тому

    I've realised that you have to play in the lower leagues before you get to the super bowl

  • @cartig9051
    @cartig9051 14 днів тому +1

    I feel like if his energy was better, and she was attracted, saying she was cute wouldn’t of mattered

  • @Cee_Eff
    @Cee_Eff 15 днів тому +12

    Great video. Unfortunately modern North American society has created 2 issues:
    1. Women think it's fun to rudely and loudly reject a guy who made the effort to approach them.
    2. The man who was rejected is automatically judged by both men and women for being rejected-as if he had some sort of "Ick".

    • @TechnoExplorer-q6e
      @TechnoExplorer-q6e 15 днів тому

      You guys have Trump. Start protesting day and night until welfare ends and brothels are legal everywhere. Women will start being nicer once they have competition from professionals and once they can no longer marry the government.

    • @Babyyxxmarie
      @Babyyxxmarie 14 днів тому +2

      You’re seeing a ton of viral videos which makes it seem like a lot of women are like that but the average woman isn’t I promise a lot of us are really nice 😭 and if she is like that then so what? You dodged a bullet, be happy. Her karma is who she is as a person, don’t take it personal, she probably has issues going on in life too. Who cares if people judge you? They’re going to be dead in 80 years will it matter then? You won’t even be remembered. Do it! Shame on them for judging someone trying to better themselves, just shows their character. Good luck :))!

    • @Cee_Eff
      @Cee_Eff 14 днів тому +1

      @@Babyyxxmarie This has happened to my friends and I many times in IRL. The rude rejection is no big deal.
      It's being judged as "...you that guy...who got rejected" and having more automatic rejections dumped on you before you even open your mouth that "stings". Our friends wives explained this to us.

    • @Babyyxxmarie
      @Babyyxxmarie 14 днів тому +2

      @ failure is built off of success. You gotta start somewhere. Trump has had many businesses fail but look at him now, nobody even remembers all of his failures and he’s a multibillionaire now and even became president and people laughed at him until he actually became president. If he had your same victim mentality mindset he would have never made it. Although it’s a lot easier for women to cold approach I still get rejected and it sucks but I move on, they weren’t for me. The world is still spinning, it didn’t end. Dying alone and not creating a family is far scarier to me then getting rejected a few times so I gotta take matters into my own hands if I want that to happen.

    • @Babyyxxmarie
      @Babyyxxmarie 14 днів тому

      @ I’m very sorry women treated you that way F em tho 🤷🏽‍♀️ their loss cuz ur such a catch ;) don’t let them get in your way you dodged a bullet if they can’t be polite I admire all men that cold approach and try to better themselves or their life’s it’s not easy especially since women are alot pickier than men.

  • @invasivegrube9983
    @invasivegrube9983 15 днів тому +2

    Yo I'm almost 17 and I am quite the guy everybody with a sense of humor likes. I like talking to random people but my problem at the moment resign's in speaking to girls that hit on me, can you do a video for it please? Btw love your comment.

  • @shans1986
    @shans1986 4 дні тому

    Wimen who try to let the guy diwn nicely frequently are met with physical hostility and they rhonk the niceness means maybe not No.

  • @MichalB_p
    @MichalB_p 15 днів тому

    Oh man, if I had watched this video a couple months ago... So much truth in this video, thanks

    • @Denmosocial
      @Denmosocial  14 днів тому

      all good brother now you know

  • @virusj
    @virusj 15 днів тому +7

    well at least he tried, A for effort

  • @JSGaming-ip3ft
    @JSGaming-ip3ft 15 днів тому +68

    i used to think being magnetic was just about looks or confidence, but i couldn’t have been more wrong. i read this book called Magnetic Aura by Takeshi Mizuki, and it totally changed my perspective. it breaks down the energy and mindset behind true attraction in a way that just makes sense. once i started applying what it taught, i noticed people reacting to me differently almost instantly. it’s seriously worth a read.

  • @daviti4611
    @daviti4611 15 днів тому +11

    F for the boy boiz

  • @Zombeekillaa
    @Zombeekillaa 13 днів тому

    You the man Denmo, keep up the vids… for the bois! 💪
    Would it be ok to of told the girl politely to reject guys nicely next time? Would make the world just the lil bit nicer of a place

  • @dominikherdzik1839
    @dominikherdzik1839 14 днів тому

    I have a question
    What if I want to aproach a younger girl
    She is 9/10
    And I'm 7,5/10 but i feel much more experienced at social stuff
    If she is less experienced does it make me able to aproach her without warm up?
    I really want to try bcs we would fit to ourselves (she needs my type and I need her type which is confirmed)

  • @theprogressivemichigander6588
    @theprogressivemichigander6588 14 днів тому

    Women actually have better memories for landmark cues and where things are. The evolutionary psychology theory for why is that they did more of the gathering and needed to know exactly where berries and things they had already seen were. Men were traveling further so we are better on average with directions and distances, but worse with landmarks.

  • @Infarlock
    @Infarlock 13 днів тому

    13:05 click this for inspiration :D

  • @alanOHALAN
    @alanOHALAN 15 днів тому +5

    Women that are mean or harsh, is because they are also more nervous, and scared inside.

  • @jordanjohnson9866
    @jordanjohnson9866 11 днів тому

    Nah. Not basically asking. /

  • @vaibhav4456jfhfjvnkgv
    @vaibhav4456jfhfjvnkgv 15 днів тому

    one night i was scrolling through my phone, feeling like i’d never figure out why some people just seem so magnetic. then i came across this book, Magnetic Aura by Takeshi Mizuki, and something about it caught my attention. reading it was like turning on a light in a dark room. it’s not about pretending to be someone you’re not; it’s about unlocking the energy you already have. trust me, this book is worth every page

  • @stevenwilson4083
    @stevenwilson4083 13 днів тому +1

    I wish denmo hit on the same girl to see if he could score...I'm legit curious, does game matter? or was that girl just closed off to every guy?

  • @ABHIMAAN5
    @ABHIMAAN5 15 днів тому

    one night i was scrolling through my phone, feeling like i’d never figure out why some people just seem so magnetic. then i came across this book, Magnetic Aura by Takeshi Mizuki, and something about it caught my attention. reading it was like turning on a light in a dark room. it’s not about pretending to be someone you’re not; it’s about unlocking the energy you already have. trust me, this book is worth every page

  • @vikaskumarofficial73
    @vikaskumarofficial73 15 днів тому +1

    i used to think being magnetic was just about looks or confidence, but i couldn’t have been more wrong. i read this book called Magnetic Aura by Takeshi Mizuki, and it totally changed my perspective. it breaks down the energy and mindset behind true attraction in a way that just makes sense. once i started applying what it taught, i noticed people reacting to me differently almost instantly. it’s seriously worth a read.