A - Attitude, Attractive B - Behaviour, Body language C - Confidence, Calm, Courageous D - Dominance E - Energetic F - Focus on yourself After then you can get G - Girls
1: dont be negative 2: be confident 3: dont be ugly af 4: dont dress bad af 5: just be funny 6: have some moral 7: just approache any girl with the intension of just being friendly. hea of course you cant do any of this if you are an introvert.
@@hemenseldon9026 Yes, because how could any person ever on this planet have gotten laid EVER??? You know literally NOTHING about this person, yet you seem to magically know he never got laid in his life? You realize there's billions of people on this planet...so someone somewhere is apparently fucking. Yet if ANYONE comments on youtube "time to get back in the game" OH SHIT MUST BE LYING. I used to be a straight up player. I was about as "in the game" as one could get...I had women fighting over me. It was insane. I can also tell you i'm "out of the game" after a long relationship I have barely gotten laid in the last 5 years. So by your logic...I must be lying about the game part. But then why would I tell you about the last 5 years? I could consider getting back in the game...but wait I was never in the game because some random fucktard on youtube gets butt hurt when someone else implies they used to get laid...so I guess i'm just confused and don't even know my own past...but I bet you do even though you know literally nothing about me lmao. All comments like yours show is that you're insecure, and you're the one person in here most likely to be a fucking virgin. At least Hemen is being realistic and saying "back in the game", admitting that he has been out of it for a while. All you're saying is "i'm a whiny little bitch who gets fucking butthurt when someone else implies they have touched a female in their life".
Stop watching this.. go out and make mistakes.. everyone has to do it.. Some get lucky some don’t but it’s always luck.. some are natural and for some it takes time.. and yes looks matter.. money matters.. and most of all experience matters.. Be brave son.. be brave..
Be sincere, be polite, put some effort into being the best you can. If she’s into you she’ll make an effort too. If not coo, move on. Make smart choices, just cuz she’s cute doesn’t mean she’s gonna be a good person. Onward my friends!
2:10 Dominant, courageous,optimistic. Confidence (look certain handling uncertainty) 3:11 hesitation is very unsexy.Never Express uncertainty. 3:55 Dominance( sure about oneself in front if others) 7:35 why confidence is sexy
Just be yourself and be confident in that is what seems to be the point of the video. It's not a fake, forced confidence. It just naturally comes to you when you feel happy, productive, focused, that you're improving, and that you're capable and certain in improving more and doing more. This doesn't automatically mean you'll attract every girl you like, but that your confidence will be as high as it'll ever be and thus your attraction as well. I'm not saying this is all the answer but just what I got from the video. It seems like something pretty much anyone can achieve, so don't give up hope just yet.
Well with that attitude lol. You get one life and you wanna waste it being sad all the time? Laaaaame Enjoy life go out and be happy. Then you'll be confident. It's all a mindset. You got this. You're the prize, always remember that. But don't be a dick
This video's helpful to guys who lack any knowledge on attraction and could be used as a good starting point, but the main point is off. It's not APPEARING confident that really attracts women. It's ACTUALLY being confident that does. Being sure of yourself and having upmost belief in you and your abilities is what creates an aura around you that exudes confidence without you doing anything. Don't fake it by being "alpha" and mimicking traits you see online from "alpha" dudes because its all a facade that ultimately comes from the need to be accepted by girls. And girls smell neediness from miles away and THAT is the single most unattractive trait in a man. Neediness. Eliminate neediness and find a girl who shows interest in you and you're good to go.
You don't get it. You are supposed to fake confidence until you get to the point in life, when you will truly feel confidence on the inside by becoming good at something.
This video gives you the ACTUAL answer you are looking for when you see that one ad where you think you will find what you are looking for but it is the wrong answer or is behind a paywall. Confidence can be built from anywhere. When you were lacking that one thing that you knew you needed you didn't feel like a chad. CONFIDENCE FROM WHEREVER YOU CHOOSE IT TO BE FROM IS THE KEY!
You didn't understand what i was aiming at if you get anything to get women your pathetic if you get a dog even one small cuz you love dogs it's fine ...
Sub communication is so important. A girl will subconsciously decide whether she will sleep with you in about 3 seconds. And too many guys get caught up in what they have to say or the perfect line they must deliver to win the girl’s attention. If more guys focused on developing their sub communication skills (body language, vocal tonality, eye contact,) they would be so much more successful with girls.
How to make a UA-cam video which will gain 5.5million views in 10 simple steps: 1. Pretty girl thumbnail 2. Make video over 15 mins long 3. Babble in about some crap 4.repeat step 3 5. Repeat step 3 and 4 6. More images of cartoon girls 7. Upload 8. Wait 9. Loading 10. Success
"Men are attracted to appearance. Woman are attracted to behaviour." 1. Dominance - the guy most certain and determined relative to the other guys around. 2. Courageousness 3. Optimism Confidence comes from progress. 1. Train for strength - it gives you a concrete measure of improvement. 2. Develop your cooking skills - nutrition, competence. 3. Research, practice and develop your people skills - your improved social interactions will feed the loop. Don't be discouraged by early failures, you must identify the gaps in your abilities to address them. This also instills resilience as it is the area most people are deathly afraid of. Due to this however, it gives you immense opportunities to gain an edge regardless of the imperfections you were born with relative to other men in the group you are being compared with daily.
Women wants money from men once u have money body and looks doesn't matter I just don't want a fat girl I show girls so much care , confidence and show dominance but nothing works
I love how they make these videos and the only people who watch them are the ones that are actually introverts and doing this stuff is impossible for them... I’m one of them
Dearest EnaimuniaWhoIsTryingAndStuffWhoseMomLikesHimOrWhatever.........That's all nice......but your teacher gives out gold stars to those kids who refrain from picking their nose while at lunch.......so it might not represent too much of a victory.......or whatever.......
I watched this video for the first time in 2019 when i was an insecure little 8th grader, the intro of the video is so accurate because it really did change my life. My looks are not on the list of advantages, but since I've watched this video and others from you i have become a badass. I have become very good at attracting girls since I've watched your vids so thanks. Keep going. You are up there with the top 3 youtubers.
Or...go your own way, find what makes you happy in life, and don't worry about being something you're not to attract people who will end up just disappointing you in the end anyway.
Yes, part of this IS true (I'm a girl) but in the video you said girls find it very unattractive when a guy shows he's uncertain and let me tell you, that's WRONG. Because when you act confident and then in the relationship it turns out your actually not confident or even scared, it expresses SO MUCH trust and girls LO V E IT. That's why when a guy is laughing uncontrollably hard she will too or if he's crying, girls will do anything to make him feel better. Yeah it sucks when you someone you love is crying, but deep down it's kinda of cool because you're expressing trust. You trust we wont make fun of you, it shows youre comfortable around us. So yeah, confidence is cool. But the perfect way to play confidence if your looking for a NICE GOOD ACTUALLY DECENT GIRL, you act confident( but not arrogant) but you express your real thoughts in a relationship. HUGE TURN ON. Thanks for listening to me rant
@@benayasdebela1164 loved femaledom 😂😂😂. I agree, not all girls are the same. But this is how me and my friends personally feel. I wasnt trying to take the creator wrong,I was trying to express(that as a female) this is how I feel
Once I had a roommate that spent an hour every day getting ready and spiking every hair perfectly and tried to be manly... one time he had friends over and they opened the door, looked at him and said dude you look gay
I concur with this. Women see that another woman was willing to marry you, and that tells them that you are a secure and stable man; that's automatically attractive to women.
Zephii MSP It baffles me that I've only recently realized this. It's so obvious, like a lot of other things in life. "Be yourself and you'll be happier", that's not just a cliche. It's thrown around everywhere because it's so simple and true. Make something of yourself and you'll gain confidence and respect from others.
As you said in the video, my way of seeing the world has DRASTICALLY changed. As someone that loves analyzing people and traits, the information you shared and EVERY example you used make PERFECT sense and applies to 99.999...% human human beings. Thank you SO MUCH for this.
What a load of bull.. Reminds me when I was 21 years old 6 years ago and I would watch and read very similar stuff :D Only this is basically the same but on steroids. How about becoming actually confident? Women who are attracted to men who only "appear" confident have something messed up going on about themselves. Probably low self esteem combined with other baggage. On the other hand, high self esteem girls/women will only be attracted to guys/men who are truly confident. In any case, I learned this the hard way, and I guess many people will have to go through the same. If you are a fraud, who only appears to be confident but is brittle on the inside, you might attract gorgeous women, but after a while they find out who you really are. Women have an exceptional sense of smell for "fake confidence". Your true self will eventually shine through and you will end up on square one again :) I would suggest. Build yourself. Both mentally and physically. As a wise man once said "Don't chase the butterflies. Tend to your garden, and the butterflies will come"
I think you'd be surprised because when you fake confidence (or anything for the matter) for a little long while you will eventually become confident. It's just a way to trick your mind. Besides, you can never be really confident on everything, there's always large uncertainty in all stuff.
The need to impress women is stronger than the need to impress men that is why women in general are less confident. There is a girl I like who is more confident than me and I’m pretty sure she likes me too and I wasn’t that confident to begin with but I’m just saying anyone is attracted to confidence and depending on the person you are it makes you more confident in return. I am more confident now because of her and other factors that followed. Life is brutal.
@@muhamadhamdy6576 Depends on how dumb a girl is. If you both wanna be dumb together, go ahead. But it'll be fake. And I'm not sure about you but I don't want to be a fake confident person. Just be yourself, I've cried to plenty of girlfriends and been emotional and indecisive as hell and they became attached to me, obsessed literally. I'm not bragging about it, I'm just saying it's weird how they liked me showing my true self. Learn to be content with yourself, there's no fucking "TrIcK".
Muhamad Hamdy I am kinda alright with the uncertainty. Complacency and thinking we know everything there is to know about something is not the best way to take, I would say.
don't worry some of us aren't completely shallow lmao. toxic masculinity isn't attractive to any girl who actually uses her brain. vulnerability is a good thing
@@karinneypenny yeah....you're completely right. I always tried to be distanced and not to show any feelings to others except to my friends. And if i pass time with them, i still try to be cool and confident etc. But everytime, i am separated from my friends, a girl starts to talk to me. Idk...Just,because i stop acting... So this video doesnt fit to any girl i know. And i dont know why men should like submissive girls- neither i nor my friends think so!
The Ferrari comparison really hit home, because when I was young, I was a 4 cylinder economy car for sure. I was small, skinny, weak, shy, insecure etc. In college, I became determined to become that Ferrari and started a years long journey that saw me packing on 60 pounds of muscle and achieving a superhero physique, transformed my persona and attitude into a guy who was strong, confident, charismatic and outgoing, and eventually became that Ferrari. But despite doing that, I still failed to get interest from the women I was interested in and saw no positive affect on my career or anything else. In the end, it became a source of massive depression for me. Because when I was that 4 cylinder car, I at least understood why I got such poor results. But after becoming a Ferrari and going out for years, getting no results, it broke me, as I couldn't understand how it was possible to still fail after making such a transformation.
They just like looking at them niggas. When you go shopping you might find yourself looking around at random stuff even tho you know what you really wanted to get in the first place. Kpop fans just like looking at them boys but in reality they’d take a masculine and dominant PARTNER over a skinny lanky Korean boy💪🏼
pretty much knew this but it's a great message, improve on yourself, don't be lazy that means don't just sit at home and play video games every single night try to get the best job for you the one that you want go to school to learn get a certificate if you have to. Obtain new skills, have interests, goals, ideas.
I want to add a bit. Guys need to focus on themselves more than focusing on what they crave, women. Basically just focus on loving yourself. Because you can't love someone if you don't even love yourself. Treat yourself better, fix whatever holds you up in life. Strive for it!
Attractiveness is just based on appearances, it's what your capable of, could be how much money you have, could be a tattoo, could be the fact they were in prison. Just walk up and hold a conversation, then walk away without asking them out, or showing interest. Then you keep them wanting more, then if you run into them again, try to remain uninterested, then make them ask you out, no matter what don't immediately say yes, make them feel like they're getting closer to you, but not succeed, then the third time you meet if they ask you, say alright, I guess we can give it a try. Then there you go, you trick the girl to believe you were something special, and now that's how she sees you. But continue growing, because you won't maintain anything, if you start to lose confidence, or you don't meet up to the standards they have of you. Until next time closedminded signing out.
Honestly focus on your own shit and don't ever chase girls! Sooner or later one of the smarter girls will realize what you are up to and come to you. And those are the ones you want anyway. True confidence is not something you can fake. Its something you earn for yourself through adversity and having the courage to back yourself. But once you get the love of a beautiful confident girl it doubles up. Just remember most of us are lost in this life at one point or another. Do not be so hard on each other. It all stems from fear anyway and all it does is break everything down. Build each other up and watch the change.
As a woman, confidence is what we look for - this doesn’t mean your are made of steal, doesn’t mean we want you to be full of yourself and not have any insecurities. It means talk to us! Be bold! We want to be silly and laugh at your jokes
If you want a hook up it works 8/10 times. You have to be good at rubber necking to see who is checking you out. I don't know if that works for your soulmate who you plan to marry. At parties or markets than yes play it cool and act like you don't need them. Your comment should have over 1k likes. It's a form of confidence at the end of the day.
Don't give up on life and the universe I know of a great man who helped you me fix my broken hear beat relationship and everything was restored to pormal in days without delay..
@@virginiareaper1178 lol. Tbh fantasies are always better than real life (in reality, IRL never lives up to the self-imposed standard from said fantasy)
@@thatcarguydom266 That's why you don't take your false imposed fantasies into the real world. If you make up a false standard in your head. Then of course you are going to be let down IRL. Its ok to escape reality every now and again. But don't stay there...
@@virginiareaper1178 more often than not, or at least the way its typically explained by people, it seems to be more of a subconscious thing. We're always comparing things. New phone to our old phone, color we've never seen before to other, more familiar ones, and in this case, new experiences with previous experiences. It's one of those things that once it happens, there really isn't much of a way to keep it from happening. And it's sad, because once people get into, let's go with "non-pg" material, nothing ever seems to live up to their standards.
This video is right.. attraction isn't a choice and you can trigger it if you know about female psychology. Take the time to study this guys (look up "Attraction Lessons") and you'll find an awesome course that explains all this. After going through that you'll be amazed at how easy this dating stuff can be.
I think being an introvert is a super power because introverts tends to have more of a gentleman personality and thats what make girls attracted to introverts
Yep. The anxiety builds a wall between me and the girl and if I force to break it, it becomes worse. The quick solution is called MDMA but you can't use it often. The permanent solution is called EMDR therapy but it takes time (and money). I strongly recommend EMDR. Much better than CBT and SSRI drugs. Personal opinion.
Surprisingly, this video made total sense; especially the end about progress towards the things you're lacking which brings confidence. And confidence allows success in all aspects of life.
Unknown ,, so an ugly shitbag who is confident as fuck will get girls ? you must be fucked in brain if you think thats true lol girls gives no fucks to your confidence.
well if the girls you are mentioning are selfish cunts then yes they go for looks, but even the ugliest will get girls with confidence and self progress
My method that allways workes: Sitting alone at the bar with a drink, playing with a car key which has a huge Ferrari logo on it and make sure, that every body can see my fake Rolex. I don't have to say a word...
A - Attitude, Attractive
B - Behaviour, Body language
C - Confidence, Calm, Courageous
D - Dominance
E - Energetic
F - Focus on yourself
After then you can get
G - Girls
Man i don't know why but I really wish you lose your life in game on the sims
Gotta go A through F first in order to reach G. I really like this..
Then you can enter the
H - hole
That's very accurate
So much fuggin work to keep women happy tho
1. be attractive
2. Don't be unattractive
I learned so much
@@KingZionWK so true.
Doesn’t work mate, it’s ALL about confidence
Can you go over step one again
So true lol
Anyone else just stopped listening and started reading comments.
Edit: *ThaTs AloT oF LiKes*
Me first
Sorry after you!!!
Stop reading my mind wizard.
lol, this is great material: buy a big necklace, get a really large car and take 'no' for 'yes'
Yasssz
A good motto to live by is “get comfortable with being uncomfortable”. It’s a gamechanger 💯
true, im doing it and its working so far :)
could neva live by ah goofy ahh motto, you cant get comfort by being uncomfortable. Thats like saying drink poison to help get ova ah cold 💀
@@BossDaMoneyMakerbro that’s not what he meant
1: dont be negative
2: be confident
3: dont be ugly af
4: dont dress bad af
5: just be funny
6: have some moral
7: just approache any girl with the intension of just being friendly.
hea of course you cant do any of this if you are an introvert.
Remember being good loking is important because it envites girls to know more about YOU
Spot on!
Thomas shelby is an introvert mate
Number 3 cant be reverted.
Ugly af
Bad af
Funny af
Confident af
**pulls out limited edition hot wheels**
i pull out magnet fidget spinner
I pull down my pants
@@cloroxbleach7377 my nigga
Jesse Ybarra yes dad?
Instant wet
1. Try to stay in shape
2. Focus on your self
3. Don’t be afraid of having a conversation
4. Don’t stare like a creep
Being in shape is the best you get pussy all the time
@@nickfrey6281 ...like Anakin Skywalker!
I do and have all these besides 3 LMAO
3 one is hard for me
1° Be Confident
2° Be dominant
3° “Focus on personal growth” to achieve more skills and confidence
Nicely said
As long as those skills get you muscles, money, power or fame you’ll be in!
If you want to attract girl, you have to have some skill, like me, I am not handsome, but I can drive my Ferrari only with one hand.
👌😉
(bottle opening sound) Nice
lol
And what do u do with other hand??☺
Leon Hong rly negga
I think UA-cam is trying to get me back in the game
"...back" who are you trying to kid here?
Killerpumpkin439 you go pal
Killerpumpkin439 boy you have no game
Not with this fucking video 😂
@@hemenseldon9026 Yes, because how could any person ever on this planet have gotten laid EVER??? You know literally NOTHING about this person, yet you seem to magically know he never got laid in his life? You realize there's billions of people on this planet...so someone somewhere is apparently fucking. Yet if ANYONE comments on youtube "time to get back in the game" OH SHIT MUST BE LYING. I used to be a straight up player. I was about as "in the game" as one could get...I had women fighting over me. It was insane. I can also tell you i'm "out of the game" after a long relationship I have barely gotten laid in the last 5 years. So by your logic...I must be lying about the game part. But then why would I tell you about the last 5 years? I could consider getting back in the game...but wait I was never in the game because some random fucktard on youtube gets butt hurt when someone else implies they used to get laid...so I guess i'm just confused and don't even know my own past...but I bet you do even though you know literally nothing about me lmao. All comments like yours show is that you're insecure, and you're the one person in here most likely to be a fucking virgin. At least Hemen is being realistic and saying "back in the game", admitting that he has been out of it for a while. All you're saying is "i'm a whiny little bitch who gets fucking butthurt when someone else implies they have touched a female in their life".
Stop watching this.. go out and make mistakes.. everyone has to do it..
Some get lucky some don’t but it’s always luck.. some are natural and for some it takes time..
and yes looks matter.. money matters..
and most of all experience matters..
Be brave son.. be brave..
I'm blaming you for the mistake I'm going to make
Hey atleast you're doing something
I applaud you for your insightful advice 👏
Badguru i tried all i get were regrets
JK
William Davidoffich ✋🏿citta ananda.
Say a similar thing to a girl.. she will pay more attention than me..🔥😎🔥😎🔥
the "progressing' to achieve what you lack part is very true. Gaining what yo didn't have will subconsciously give you confidence
does this still work in 2019, Or is it patched?
😂😂😂😂😂
Wtf haha thanks for the laugh 😂
Also you need a massive wanker, they nerfed makes and buffed female idiocy
Act like you know!
😅🤣
I misread the title as "how to ATTACK girls" and got really confused
LOL XD
lmao and you clicked??
Lol
Lol
@@jiminycricket9616 why u mad?
Title: How to Attract Females
Thumbnail: How to Attract Males
Hah.. Gay
Tru that
True
@@Emo840 wtf hahaha
😂
Be sincere, be polite, put some effort into being the best you can. If she’s into you she’ll make an effort too. If not coo, move on. Make smart choices, just cuz she’s cute doesn’t mean she’s gonna be a good person. Onward my friends!
Thx
Facts
gotta earn my politeness
Hey fellow introverts!!!
'ssup???
Hii introvert
im not a introvert nigga
WAZZAAAAAAAAAAP
Satyam Kumar what's good dude
stop calling yourself that Boi
Just be you. Focus on you. Do your own thing. Confidence and success radiate from you and they are attracted to that.
clearly my confidence doesnt do shii
chill daddy
vpvictor you also have a fortnite picture so that doesn’t helps..
Lol
Watchers?
Aw thanks man!
Yeeey 54 likes I didnt even like it myself
2:10 Dominant, courageous,optimistic.
Confidence (look certain handling uncertainty)
3:11
hesitation is very unsexy.Never Express uncertainty.
3:55 Dominance( sure about oneself in front if others)
7:35 why confidence is sexy
attracting girls without talking? Bill Cosby is a master of this technique
def 😂
That fuck up LOL 😆
Ooow that is savage bro😂
And I'm pretty sure a Whiteman taught him since rape is a "god givin right" to them
def lmao
Pulls out beyblade collection.
best comment, everybody go home, game over
RoyVonSoySauce lmao underrated.
hahahaha
Nice one
i got that og phatom orion, with the BD, if ya know wat i mean
Basically, don't be unattractive and have confidence.
Lmfao
Woman ❤ nice chothes, nice smelling man etc etc
@1st Michal you do know you just roasted yourself as well, right?
@@kristijanfistrek9055 No,he doesn't.He's that stupid. 😂😂😂
i do have confidence n still dont attract tha women i like. Also we cant magically be attractive
So basically, look like a Greek god, be as confident as a shounen anime antagonist, got it.
Not even close.
@@splitman1129 r/Wooosh
@@operator0101 what the hell is that? R/ instead of # now? You kids are crazy and make up so much dumb stuff.
ok...well dying alone it is
Just be yourself and be confident in that is what seems to be the point of the video. It's not a fake, forced confidence. It just naturally comes to you when you feel happy, productive, focused, that you're improving, and that you're capable and certain in improving more and doing more. This doesn't automatically mean you'll attract every girl you like, but that your confidence will be as high as it'll ever be and thus your attraction as well. I'm not saying this is all the answer but just what I got from the video. It seems like something pretty much anyone can achieve, so don't give up hope just yet.
Well with that attitude lol. You get one life and you wanna waste it being sad all the time? Laaaaame
Enjoy life go out and be happy. Then you'll be confident. It's all a mindset. You got this. You're the prize, always remember that. But don't be a dick
AdamsCzech We come alone in life, empty handed. We die alone in life, empty handed.
Goodluck ma dudez. Submit to your own dreams and keep yourself busy with positive shit you luv doin. Been on this 5yrs now without a gf.
sweet thinking Adam :D
The more women I attract, the more problems I end up having.... And less money 🤦🏼♂️
Start coaching other men , and earn your money
Ur that guy huh
Chad
EXAAACTLY. "The man who has no luck with Women... Doesn't know HOW LUCKY HE IS!!" (Les Luthiers, Argentinean comedy group)
And the more children
Nobody:
Every shy, introvert ever: *click fast asf*
Thas me
Me too lmao
you got me
Same
That's Me.
I'm more interested in how to repel women. It's much more beneficial financially and mentally.
Same for us... 🤷
Tell her that u have to claim bankruptcy...she'll leave skidmarks! 😂 True story.
@@vincentjenz skid marks 💀
@@dondredondre8540 Don't like where this went
Just do things that makes girls to friend zone guys. Just be predictable
This shit is too complicated I'm going to back to fortnite
@@philippecoutinho6501 same
Right
@@philippecoutinho6501 I'm weak hahahahahaha
Deadass
LMFAO
who is clicking on these videos to see the hilarious comments :D
pootis s not you
Hahahahahaha i totally was doing that. Dont even have the volume on 🤣😂🤣😂🤣
YYYYAAAAAAAAAAAAASSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSS. i mean.... me im here.
pootis s 😂
Is this glitch patched yet?
No you need a unicycle to activate it
Tiler Botín I heard it’s gonna be a dlc in the next game
Jonathan Simmons really?
Tiler Botín yeah, I also heard the charisma you’re gonna have to have to initiate relationships is gonna be buffed as well
No but there might be down time due to people becoming Ferraris
I have to say,
whoever does your illustrations,
REALLY knows what an attractive young lady looks like.
This video's helpful to guys who lack any knowledge on attraction and could be used as a good starting point, but the main point is off. It's not APPEARING confident that really attracts women. It's ACTUALLY being confident that does. Being sure of yourself and having upmost belief in you and your abilities is what creates an aura around you that exudes confidence without you doing anything. Don't fake it by being "alpha" and mimicking traits you see online from "alpha" dudes because its all a facade that ultimately comes from the need to be accepted by girls. And girls smell neediness from miles away and THAT is the single most unattractive trait in a man. Neediness. Eliminate neediness and find a girl who shows interest in you and you're good to go.
This comment is better than the video
Ok Einstein how tf do I eliminate it
You don't get it. You are supposed to fake confidence until you get to the point in life, when you will truly feel confidence on the inside by becoming good at something.
He literally said progress until you eliminate your insecurities, that isn't fake confidence
I'm not a fan of the confidence paradox.
Hello fellow virgins
Edit: Damn, thanks for all the likes virgins
No u
Solo sup
Sucks right
Sup
🤨
Their are three kinds of rings, Engagement rings, Wedding rings then sufferings
Annunaki G don't forget onion rings and how annoying it is when she say she's not hungry but ends up eating half of them
Marco Porris they don’t know the struggle
U stole that from Red Forman
XD
Quote by - Stan Smith (American Dad)
This video gives you the ACTUAL answer you are looking for when you see that one ad where you think you will find what you are looking for but it is the wrong answer or is behind a paywall. Confidence can be built from anywhere. When you were lacking that one thing that you knew you needed you didn't feel like a chad. CONFIDENCE FROM WHEREVER YOU CHOOSE IT TO BE FROM IS THE KEY!
Just start dabbing randomly. Trust me it turns girls on so fast
*dabs*
Maybe girls but i want woman😂
*grabs dab rig*
Epic gamer style 😎😎😎😎😎😎😎😎
dabbing was never cool
Best way to attract a girl , get a really cute dog 👌
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And become a pathetic dude no thanks
You didn't understand what i was aiming at if you get anything to get women your pathetic if you get a dog even one small cuz you love dogs it's fine ...
ok i see your point but dog still works very well to talk with girls and i like dogs so its a win win situation with me
But then they want to hang out with the dog.
Instructions not clear. Ended up in jail with two big black men asking me for my Junie Cakes
PokeyoMan you do not understand how funny that was to me, I hope your comments gets unlimited likes cause holy shit that was so funny
u didnt give them your junies did ya D:
Hahahahshsjsksksksk
AfterPrisonShow reference hahaha
Not the junie cakes. 🤣🤣🤣
Confidence is the key
To success
to hell
Sub communication is so important. A girl will subconsciously decide whether she will sleep with you in about 3 seconds. And too many guys get caught up in what they have to say or the perfect line they must deliver to win the girl’s attention. If more guys focused on developing their sub communication skills (body language, vocal tonality, eye contact,) they would be so much more successful with girls.
Nytro Recruiter words...
shaxin8or SWBF true have more important things to worry about than these std bitches
Fuck that juvenile body language shit
Harley Mitchell juvenile body language is what men who don't know dominant body language do.
I prefer true love over one night stands.
I normally just end up embarrassing myself
I got this hot girl with a crush on me and she decides to stare at me on the day my hair is absolutely terrible
My luck is 👍👍👍👌👌
My crush told me put my boner away.
Jacob Gaming brah I do this every time I’m around certain girls I know!! I hate it soooo much but I’m just weird.
Jacob Gaming same man
Your grammar proves it all
Find money...
Girls will find you..👌
Lately, YES. Unfortunately...
DeogratiusJR vlogs
Thots not girls
When youre unnattractive*
Nobody wants to be used for their money
Fucking gold diggers ikr
You've heard this before I bet. It's true though. Focus on becoming the best version of *yourself*. When you're winning, females can tell.
How to attract girls without saying anything,, mm, how about flashing all your cash or credit cards?
Works for thots
Doamino41 Not all females are like that lol
@@savannahgonzalez1908
Lol you like mainstream hip hop
Suraj's Opinion is Better And? What’s your point?
@@savannahgonzalez1908
All about being superficial lmao
Note to self:
1)buy a skull necklace
2)Sell car
3)Buy Ferrari with manual transmision
I think I got it now
Mohammed Kortam Top Comment eu west
And look like superman✔
Go get em killer
I'm stuck restoring a Cadillac, so the Ferrari ain't gonna happen any time soon, but I do have the necklace
Exuvian Here's my $12 tip. Stay off youtube's comment section, if you can't recognize a joke.
How to make a UA-cam video which will gain 5.5million views in 10 simple steps:
1. Pretty girl thumbnail
2. Make video over 15 mins long
3. Babble in about some crap
4.repeat step 3
5. Repeat step 3 and 4
6. More images of cartoon girls
7. Upload
8. Wait
9. Loading
10. Success
Mr Lego don’t whatch it if you don’t like it
GENIOUS
Robert Nagy sorry pervert
5.8m
@Donald Trump ur the punch line
"Men are attracted to appearance. Woman are attracted to behaviour."
1. Dominance - the guy most certain and determined relative to the other guys around.
2. Courageousness
3. Optimism
Confidence comes from progress.
1. Train for strength - it gives you a concrete measure of improvement.
2. Develop your cooking skills - nutrition, competence.
3. Research, practice and develop your people skills - your improved social interactions will feed the loop. Don't be discouraged by early failures, you must identify the gaps in your abilities to address them. This also instills resilience as it is the area most people are deathly afraid of. Due to this however, it gives you immense opportunities to gain an edge regardless of the imperfections you were born with relative to other men in the group you are being compared with daily.
Women wants money from men once u have money body and looks doesn't matter
I just don't want a fat girl
I show girls so much care , confidence and show dominance but nothing works
@@Alex-yr8iy how fucking old are you
@@scrappin9623 old enough
@@Alex-yr8iy ok
@@scrappin9623 it's been a month since I made that comment tbh i was in a real bad mood that day but truth is I have never met the right one yet
I love how they make these videos and the only people who watch them are the ones that are actually introverts and doing this stuff is impossible for them... I’m one of them
Mintyzx righttttttt
Mintyzx lol this is so true
Should we make a club for introverts Mintyzx
so true boyo
I'm just watching this video because I'm bored lol
My teacher gave me a gold star for trying
Benalmunia 10 hahahaahah
I love your American physcho profile
Thanks lol
Dearest EnaimuniaWhoIsTryingAndStuffWhoseMomLikesHimOrWhatever.........That's all nice......but your teacher gives out gold stars to those kids who refrain from picking their nose while at lunch.......so it might not represent too much of a victory.......or whatever.......
Women are not submissive but passive aggressive.Just marry one.
Yea you are right!LOL!!
I watched this video for the first time in 2019 when i was an insecure little 8th grader, the intro of the video is so accurate because it really did change my life. My looks are not on the list of advantages, but since I've watched this video and others from you i have become a badass. I have become very good at attracting girls since I've watched your vids so thanks.
Keep going. You are up there with the top 3 youtubers.
@Bill MWith all due respect, we are different so I don't think that your luck is a good measure to my experiences.
Or...go your own way, find what makes you happy in life, and don't worry about being something you're not to attract people who will end up just disappointing you in the end anyway.
This is correct my friend
psychocuda with that type of attitude you have zero confidence
CarPassion and by faking shit you are confident?
I see the mgtow movement has penetrated this comment section
Sounds like some gay stuff to me.
*Fortnite players have entered the chat*
AKA. Virgins
I Play Fortnite and i'm attractive
CheddarCheez 738 😂😂😂
@@HeartMype are you sure? Forntnite is for kids so you must be a kid
@@Salio_Mendes I got a girl and she plays Fortnite with me when I decide lmao
Yes, part of this IS true (I'm a girl) but in the video you said girls find it very unattractive when a guy shows he's uncertain and let me tell you, that's WRONG. Because when you act confident and then in the relationship it turns out your actually not confident or even scared, it expresses SO MUCH trust and girls LO V E IT. That's why when a guy is laughing uncontrollably hard she will too or if he's crying, girls will do anything to make him feel better. Yeah it sucks when you someone you love is crying, but deep down it's kinda of cool because you're expressing trust. You trust we wont make fun of you, it shows youre comfortable around us. So yeah, confidence is cool. But the perfect way to play confidence if your looking for a NICE GOOD ACTUALLY DECENT GIRL, you act confident( but not arrogant) but you express your real thoughts in a relationship. HUGE TURN ON. Thanks for listening to me rant
I'm so glad you said that :) Thank you
@@TheMiig1513 I'm so glad someone actually read this. I meant every word
Thanks :)
Thats great advice. But dont take the creator wrong, this is advice for any girl, so your nice decent girl tip might not work on all of femaledom
@@benayasdebela1164 loved femaledom 😂😂😂. I agree, not all girls are the same. But this is how me and my friends personally feel. I wasnt trying to take the creator wrong,I was trying to express(that as a female) this is how I feel
Once I had a roommate that spent an hour every day getting ready and spiking every hair perfectly and tried to be manly... one time he had friends over and they opened the door, looked at him and said dude you look gay
@Dmarcus Pineda My guess is that he lost his self-esteem but I'd like to know what happened as well.
I'll just stick to being alone.
XenoTronus PrimeZilla#21068 weak as fuck.
Same here 😂
Same, yo.
@@mjr4402 I'm sorry? I don't speak bully.
You may not resist dat booty
I think this got patched already
Yeah it was the 2.0.18 version that it was patched already
Can i get 1000 Subs with no videos? 🤣
It got nerfed harder than overwatch tanked
don't forget women fart and poop aswell
good day
Pipo Le Kangourou well you brought me back to reality 😂😂😂
lmao
@@mishi144 It's "Who would HAVE thought"
@@gabbu297 thanks 😊
Lol no they don’t
As a Car Guy I found this extremely helpful
Evolutionary hack: Money.
I don't have it. Game over.
surefire way to attract woman. Get married. It never fails.
I concur with this. Women see that another woman was willing to marry you, and that tells them that you are a secure and stable man; that's automatically attractive to women.
Surefire way to become a billionaire. Get rich. It never fails.
Lmfao
This attracts the wrong type of women. The worst type.
Or get a fat wallet.
This channel needs to hop the hell out of my recommended feed.
And the few times I have watched feels like the same video!!
UA-cam realized your hands were getting dry
absolutley right on this video!!!!!
I started working out 4 months ago my confidence is through the roof.
What i love mostly about your videos is how you make life look like an rpg game .
Keep up the good work.
samy ichiro RPG means: role play game. So don't write: rpg game. You're welcome
what a nerd observation
samy ichiro that's really cool how he does this
samy ichiro Beta male nerd
That's something a submissive guy would say XD
Focus on yourself, your progress, and goals. This is how you become more attractive to females.
Zephii MSP It baffles me that I've only recently realized this. It's so obvious, like a lot of other things in life. "Be yourself and you'll be happier", that's not just a cliche. It's thrown around everywhere because it's so simple and true. Make something of yourself and you'll gain confidence and respect from others.
Even if you do not become more attractive in the process, I feel you should do this regardless. Women cannot fulfill you.
0:02 I stopped watching and went to the comment section
Lmao
@Chinwendu Nathaniel Lmao
No wasted time needed on this video
Same same
samehahhaa
@@lilemo3337 lmao
Me too lol
Oh so those guys who gave different answers really gave us one answer and that’s confidence. The money and abs they gained gave them confidence.
As you said in the video, my way of seeing the world has DRASTICALLY changed. As someone that loves analyzing people and traits, the information you shared and EVERY example you used make PERFECT sense and applies to 99.999...% human human beings. Thank you SO MUCH for this.
i can only get damaged girls who have daddy issues.
Great Dragon l know that pain brother. You’re not alone!
Bryce Clark u got my last name boyy :)
Same dude same
OMM You not lying
Same, but ima sociopath (not tryna sound edgy) so im literally able to pull thots with ease.
What a load of bull.. Reminds me when I was 21 years old 6 years ago and I would watch and read very similar stuff :D Only this is basically the same but on steroids.
How about becoming actually confident? Women who are attracted to men who only "appear" confident have something messed up going on about themselves. Probably low self esteem combined with other baggage. On the other hand, high self esteem girls/women will only be attracted to guys/men who are truly confident.
In any case, I learned this the hard way, and I guess many people will have to go through the same. If you are a fraud, who only appears to be confident but is brittle on the inside, you might attract gorgeous women, but after a while they find out who you really are. Women have an exceptional sense of smell for "fake confidence". Your true self will eventually shine through and you will end up on square one again :)
I would suggest. Build yourself. Both mentally and physically. As a wise man once said "Don't chase the butterflies. Tend to your garden, and the butterflies will come"
I think you'd be surprised because when you fake confidence (or anything for the matter) for a little long while you will eventually become confident. It's just a way to trick your mind. Besides, you can never be really confident on everything, there's always large uncertainty in all stuff.
The need to impress women is stronger than the need to impress men that is why women in general are less confident. There is a girl I like who is more confident than me and I’m pretty sure she likes me too and I wasn’t that confident to begin with but I’m just saying anyone is attracted to confidence and depending on the person you are it makes you more confident in return. I am more confident now because of her and other factors that followed. Life is brutal.
@@muhamadhamdy6576 Depends on how dumb a girl is. If you both wanna be dumb together, go ahead. But it'll be fake. And I'm not sure about you but I don't want to be a fake confident person. Just be yourself, I've cried to plenty of girlfriends and been emotional and indecisive as hell and they became attached to me, obsessed literally. I'm not bragging about it, I'm just saying it's weird how they liked me showing my true self. Learn to be content with yourself, there's no fucking "TrIcK".
@@SeFu2006 Life's brutal but it teaches you deep shit. We should all be grateful for it more often, we really take it for granted. :(
Muhamad Hamdy I am kinda alright with the uncertainty. Complacency and thinking we know everything there is to know about something is not the best way to take, I would say.
Just don't, keep wimen on a distance !
The right one is all in to you.
Don't change yourself for others.
Pulls out Bionicle collection
That was very cash money of you
I feel even less confident after watching this vid
What he saying is true i have sleep with over 100 women Its a mind set
Lol it made me less confident to :( but I will ask her out
Hahahaha
don't worry some of us aren't completely shallow lmao. toxic masculinity isn't attractive to any girl who actually uses her brain. vulnerability is a good thing
@@karinneypenny yeah....you're completely right. I always tried to be distanced and not to show any feelings to others except to my friends. And if i pass time with them, i still try to be cool and confident etc. But everytime, i am separated from my friends, a girl starts to talk to me. Idk...Just,because i stop acting... So this video doesnt fit to any girl i know. And i dont know why men should like submissive girls- neither i nor my friends think so!
Let's play a drinking game for every time he says " From an Evolutionary Standpoint"
Ded
just got out of the ER...
Smsncmcks thatssd a goodf gamew
The Ferrari comparison really hit home, because when I was young, I was a 4 cylinder economy car for sure. I was small, skinny, weak, shy, insecure etc. In college, I became determined to become that Ferrari and started a years long journey that saw me packing on 60 pounds of muscle and achieving a superhero physique, transformed my persona and attitude into a guy who was strong, confident, charismatic and outgoing, and eventually became that Ferrari.
But despite doing that, I still failed to get interest from the women I was interested in and saw no positive affect on my career or anything else.
In the end, it became a source of massive depression for me. Because when I was that 4 cylinder car, I at least understood why I got such poor results. But after becoming a Ferrari and going out for years, getting no results, it broke me, as I couldn't understand how it was possible to still fail after making such a transformation.
Girls tend to be attracted to guys who are: Dominant and Masculine
Well, tell that to kpop fans
James Ecuasion I’m not dominant OR masculine and I got a girlfriend well I broke up with her and now she is an a****** sometimes
They just like looking at them niggas. When you go shopping you might find yourself looking around at random stuff even tho you know what you really wanted to get in the first place. Kpop fans just like looking at them boys but in reality they’d take a masculine and dominant PARTNER over a skinny lanky Korean boy💪🏼
😂😂
Dominant how ?
Being dominant and masculine have nothing to do with look.
My approach is looking at the floor and shuffling me feet. In my head I imagine me doing everything else.
hhaaartbeats Plan to fuck up and basically do what you want when the time comes. Gets rid of all anxiety.
hhaaartbeats yes it is
Yannis Karageorgiou I'm fucking done reading this cornball shit....
pretty much knew this but it's a great message, improve on yourself, don't be lazy that means don't just sit at home and play video games every single night try to get the best job for you the one that you want go to school to learn get a certificate if you have to. Obtain new skills, have interests, goals, ideas.
I want to add a bit.
Guys need to focus on themselves more than focusing on what they crave, women. Basically just focus on loving yourself. Because you can't love someone if you don't even love yourself. Treat yourself better, fix whatever holds you up in life. Strive for it!
+SKrate well,mostly those guys who loves themself are gay or bisexual....dont take it as offense
San Ruburn there's nothing wrong with being either of those, that's how they find their individuality. Not all people love themselves the same way.
really? how's it going with Katara then?
Attractiveness is just based on appearances, it's what your capable of, could be how much money you have, could be a tattoo, could be the fact they were in prison. Just walk up and hold a conversation, then walk away without asking them out, or showing interest. Then you keep them wanting more, then if you run into them again, try to remain uninterested, then make them ask you out, no matter what don't immediately say yes, make them feel like they're getting closer to you, but not succeed, then the third time you meet if they ask you, say alright, I guess we can give it a try. Then there you go, you trick the girl to believe you were something special, and now that's how she sees you. But continue growing, because you won't maintain anything, if you start to lose confidence, or you don't meet up to the standards they have of you. Until next time closedminded signing out.
Honestly focus on your own shit and don't ever chase girls! Sooner or later one of the smarter girls will realize what you are up to and come to you. And those are the ones you want anyway. True confidence is not something you can fake. Its something you earn for yourself through adversity and having the courage to back yourself. But once you get the love of a beautiful confident girl it doubles up. Just remember most of us are lost in this life at one point or another. Do not be so hard on each other. It all stems from fear anyway and all it does is break everything down. Build each other up and watch the change.
adznz11 yup speaks the truth
Exactly
There are 2 types of Girls in the world...
1. Hate my look
2. Hate that i'm trying to look good
Niklas Vilhelm ii
Niklas Vilhelm Q
so truee... :'(
Niklas Vilhelm lol
same goes for men az well
uhhh, so like pretend i'm cool even though im not... riiigghhhhtttt...
fake it until you make it, its proven that you become what you believe in
mashroobi Yeah I understand that entirely. But, my subconscious is an asshole.
mashroobi Yep and if he believes he is not cool the he is his own worst enemy.
PowerhousePR good points, good points
@@novel4992 😂😂
As a woman, confidence is what we look for - this doesn’t mean your are made of steal, doesn’t mean we want you to be full of yourself and not have any insecurities. It means talk to us! Be bold! We want to be silly and laugh at your jokes
Oh shut your mouth you probably put them in the friend zone even if they did this what you're saying.
reverse psychology she's trying to filter out the small fry.
as ah man, ik thats ah lie
Simple. Pretend they are not there
godstomper interesing advice! Ive never thought about it that way. Thanks!
XACTLY works every time
If you want a hook up it works 8/10 times. You have to be good at rubber necking to see who is checking you out. I don't know if that works for your soulmate who you plan to marry. At parties or markets than yes play it cool and act like you don't need them. Your comment should have over 1k likes. It's a form of confidence at the end of the day.
godstomper best advice, ever. They'll get curious and start stalking you.
My dad did this to my mom... I guess you know how that played out :)
step 1. wear anything you want.
step 2. shower and comb your hair. ..or not
step 3. get the butler to retrieve your bentley or maybach.
the end.
😂
Oof
Yes
Live happy ever after,,, as long as you don't run out of money...
Just me rich
What’s with the thumbnail, we’re just trynna get a girl we ain’t hittin it from the back yet
Build a Base lol i wish not rly tho
Build a Base YET
I liked how you simply said the truth and went to deeply into evolutionary logic. This is really good content and explanation
Don't give up on life and the universe I know of a great man who helped you me fix my broken hear beat relationship and everything was restored to pormal in days without delay..
You'r animation are some of the hottest girls i have ever seen😂😂😂
R u ok
Thats sad
@@virginiareaper1178 lol. Tbh fantasies are always better than real life (in reality, IRL never lives up to the self-imposed standard from said fantasy)
@@thatcarguydom266 That's why you don't take your false imposed fantasies into the real world. If you make up a false standard in your head. Then of course you are going to be let down IRL. Its ok to escape reality every now and again. But don't stay there...
@@virginiareaper1178 more often than not, or at least the way its typically explained by people, it seems to be more of a subconscious thing. We're always comparing things. New phone to our old phone, color we've never seen before to other, more familiar ones, and in this case, new experiences with previous experiences. It's one of those things that once it happens, there really isn't much of a way to keep it from happening. And it's sad, because once people get into, let's go with "non-pg" material, nothing ever seems to live up to their standards.
Change your name to Chad. Simple.
or Channing XD
Gary
lol!
there's a story there
Or zakk
This video is right.. attraction isn't a choice and you can trigger it if you know about female psychology.
Take the time to study this guys (look up "Attraction Lessons") and you'll find an awesome course that explains all this.
After going through that you'll be amazed at how easy this dating stuff can be.
I didn't find it please link or something
dont know why but i got a fuckboi feeling from your name
Isn't that diabolical manipulation?
I think being an introvert is a super power because introverts tends to have more of a gentleman personality and thats what make girls attracted to introverts
Anyone else has social anxiety around here? :’)
And depression and add? Yeah I'm pretty messed up.
Yup
Just don't trust anyone unless you know them well enough. Be confident about yourself
koracare gaming same holy shit
Yep. The anxiety builds a wall between me and the girl and if I force to break it, it becomes worse. The quick solution is called MDMA but you can't use it often. The permanent solution is called EMDR therapy but it takes time (and money). I strongly recommend EMDR. Much better than CBT and SSRI drugs. Personal opinion.
UA-cam knows me to well. He knows I never had a girlfriend so he puts this on recommended.
Eze R lol
Same
The comments are more help than this video.
i dont know wtf youre reading. cuz i dont see shit except for people just joking around
@@diegojimenez6923 its a joke, chill bruh
Most of the time we don’t recognize “where” or “when” we lack confidence. And then when we do recognize it’s hard to know what to do to be confident.
Fuck em if they cant take a joke. Just be yourself, these videos r a joke!!
Summary: Confidence, dominance, from an evolutionary standpoint. Thank me later.
Surprisingly, this video made total sense; especially the end about progress towards the things you're lacking which brings confidence. And confidence allows success in all aspects of life.
the answer is to look good
hazey No. Its being confident
Unknown ,, so an ugly shitbag who is confident as fuck will get girls ? you must be fucked in brain if you think thats true lol girls gives no fucks to your confidence.
well if the girls you are mentioning are selfish cunts then yes they go for looks, but even the ugliest will get girls with confidence and self progress
Unknown confidence dont work in this generation.
Jayquan Floyd well i dont know where you live for simple logic to be wrong, but thats just the way it is.
My method that allways workes:
Sitting alone at the bar with a drink, playing with a car key which has a huge Ferrari logo on it and make sure, that every body can see my fake Rolex. I don't have to say a word...
Try a ZZ Top keyring!
@@chasatch rip Dusty Hill