She should call the cops EVERYTIME those babies are locked out! Especially that 9 yo and I bet that’ll wipe that smirk off his face and the laziness out of his gf
Right. Call CPS so the children can be separated going in and out of different foster homes where it's a known fact all kinds of abuse happens so it's really a loose, loose situation for those babies SMH
@@LLStark Yea I agree with you. People don’t understand CPS is the last last last resort. Even if a neighbor can intervene and support, and they’re safe it’s better.
No good deed goes unpunished. Ya'll saying she should have called CPS but we all know what happens with the system. This lady thought she was doing the right thing caring for these kids.
Exactly!!! And the judge was very harsh on her. The Dad has girls running loose! Shes looking out for them! Anyone who is saying child protective services mean they dont know about anything
Ok but her lawsuit was ridiculous. She's not entitled to sue for childcare that was never agreed to and certainly not allowed to get paid cause she dropped her phone and broke it while watching the kids.
@@TataRoss I was with a woman that had 3 kids, 2 girls and a boy. I yelled at the oldest one night and she said she would call CPS. I said "You want to see abuse, call that number". She never did of course.
@@lukerinderknecht2982 True, but I wonder how many times this guy told her he would give her money either verbally or in a text for taking care of his kids.
@@garymcleod372He and the mother are both deadbeats. Why lock underaged kids out of the house and refuse to let them in? Those girls obviously feel safe and loved with that woman. He's a man so he probably can't understand his daughters. Since their mom is not there Thank God they have a motherly figure in this guardian angel.
@@garymcleod372 I always knew where my children were while working. How does one go to work and not know where their children are? When was the mother in the picture?
These comments are why humanity is broken. Our native community has been lost and broken…we need more woman like the plaintiff. Thank you for your humanitarian service, the universe will reward you 10000 fold!🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿 as you can see, most people are ok with children been picked up by “the system” To be abused molested and mistreated.
Everyone yells “protect the children” but looks at her like she did something crazy by assuming responsibility for clearly abandoned children, we already know CPS is a joke and most children end up in worse situations than this, so honestly as a mother of 5 I would have taken the babies in and tried my best to keep them out the system……and before yall come for me regarding what I said about CPS, I know SEVERAL people who were the system who experienced abu$e, grape, etc. I commend this woman for trying to be the village we all holler about kids need, I wish she took this to Judge Mathis instead of Milian
Yeah but don’t try to bash someone or talk about them being a deadbeat if you’re being kind and it’s about the kids. She chose to help she didn’t have to. The outcome wouldn’t have been different with judge Mathis
@@justhereyeah1112he's still a deadbeat. Somebody has to pick up his slack because he was neglecting his kids and did you hear what he did the kids??? That's deadbeat behavior
I agree with you. If shed just told dad, I need $100 a week for food then he might have helped. Give the kids a key dad. CPS is horrible, over worked & fosters are not vetted well, causing kids in system to be in more danger than this.
Judge Milian was unnecessarily cold to her (as she is with most of the black litigants, it's why I barely watch her). Although the plaintiff simply didn't have a valid legal case against this deadbeat, she was morally right.
This story is so confusing.. it sounds like the dad is never home & he allows his kids to do whatever they want so the neighbor steps in to help, it's hard not to get involved because you want to make sure kids are being taken care of. Clearly they are being neglected.
Y’all know Judge Judy would have let dad have it! She’s a firm believer you don’t let others pay for your kids, also in father’s rights. I try to be like her, I have kids but I’m auntie to a lot more. Especially teenagers, they need all the love and stability they can get.
@@keyanasteen3409 uh I do lol i watch them all. I love different things about all of them. Sometimes Judy’s bluntness and indifference is what I’m in the mood for. Judge Milian is just amazing. But that doesn’t mean I always agree with her ruling.
@@Patricia-sf2zk And technically that is not her problem, but it's hard to turn your back on children. Unless you're like the defendant and the children's mother.
She is a good person for not letting those kids be on the streets because if those girls go on the streets, they'd end up in worse hands and get in all sort of trouble. The Defendant isnso ungrateful. I pray this lady continues to be the great person she is and get the thanks she deserves. If those children get into the system, that's no good
Back in the day this would be no big deal. Nowadays you have to call the cops and let the child go into the system or you get in trouble. Because that's so much better
what a heartless statement calling the authorities is not always they answer they will put the kids in a foster home or group home which can be a nightmare for the kids.
I don’t think it is heartless placing them with authorities at the end of the day they are not her children their his. He is heartless for not taking care of his children's whereabouts. She needs to stop getting involved and report so it comes under a proper agreement to look after them full-time or close too. If anything happens the way it is to these children in her care who do you think they are coming after.
He maybe getting money for the children and not taking care of them. He could of help buy food he knew where the kids were but it gave him freedom not having them.
@@SparkleInYourEyes2024 We don't know that... it's just our opinion. I wish I could say I trusted people but unfortunately I wouldn't trust anyone with my kids for any long length of time. We didn't spend the night at strangers homes cause everybody homes aren't the same.
@@b.dailey3180 Accord to the Dad his daughters are staying at her house. He obviously doesn't care because he's not stopping them for going over there.
@6:25 he told so many lies in that one sentence. She had his youngest daughter for a day. They were supposed to spend the weekend. They weren't supposed to be at her house. They were supposed to be playing with a cousin. It was the stepdaughter. WTF. HOW TF WHERE THEY THERE EVEN FOR A DAY AND HE NOT KNOW. The lady on the street was right on point. Negligence on the father part. Thank god the plaintiff isn't a pedophile as far as what was stated she seems like a good person for the most part.
He’s smiling at the end like he won. Yet he’s a terrible father. That’s not winning. His girls could have been preyed on if they didn’t have this woman to help them. If she stops, what’s going to happen to them?
She wanted to be a Good Samaritan and now that all she has gotten is crapped on she wants to be made whole but there was no obligation on the defendants part except to the kids. So this is nasty the father is nasty and deff owes her. She should have been charging for being a nanny
Plain and simple. There was no agreement or contract set in place for the care of his kids or the neighborhood children, for that matter. The judge's decision was right and fair.
The plaintiff does deserve some money. Seems like a very nice lady. Help, but don't take on someone's responsibility. C.P.S. has a bad relationship but you must document abandonment issues.
He's a champ at work, but his daughters are suffering at home. He has a big smile on his face. He should be ashamed and should have paid for her phone just as a thank you for keeping his girls safe
The fact that he keeps claiming that's not his real daughter leads me to believe that this woman is telling the truth about him.Locking that little girl out disgusting !! If my kid tells me someone is holding them hostage.I'm calling the cops and i'm coming home and there's going to be a problem ! I don't believe a word.He says I feel so bad for those kids. 14:44 They are both to blame here and if she'd chose to take care of these children she cannot demand money. If he's lucky kids out she needs to call the cops every time that's not okay
She really wanted the phone replaced. She should have just let it go. CPS is not going to remove his children because of what is described. There’s no place for her to go anyway. No foster home or group home is going to be safer. Right now, her dad is not the best but she has a neighbor who looks after her. Really, dad should have let ACS put her in kinship foster care with the neighbor and then she would have financial assistance to care for her.
She should have gotten some money. The law is so messed up idk how people have faith in it Edit: Dead beat dad, he should be embarrassed and yet he’s smiling smh
What reason is there to call if the parent has engaged the support of another trusted adult? This guy is saying all that because he doesn’t have her money. He knows where his daughters were.
This dude is no father to his kids, and denying one of them is a low blow. The kids were left in this kind woman's care and all he worried about losing his food stamps. Sad that even his latest baby mama is tired of his begging.
I Get The Law Will Not Compensate Her For Taking Care of His Children Because She Volunteered on Her Own But I Still Respect Her For Caring and Not Callling CPS Because That's Not Exactly a Safe Place For Most Children. 🤷🏾
She’s a great woman for caring for the kids he’s neglecting. But she also can’t be surprised that he’s not helping. He’s not even caring for his own so what could she expect from him! I commend her for stepping in. She should have taken the proper steps to foster them, then she would have gotten help from the state.
Mama abandoned them and dad is absent as well. I GUARANTEE these are the same kids who are absolute nightmares at school with their teachers. They have zero respect or home training because they literally have no adult at home raising them. It’s really sad.
He is a horrible father. Those children do not have a parent. They just out there in the world alone. Where are their mothers? He is living his life as if he has no responsibility. He abandoned those children.
I feel for the lady. I do feel like she was willing to help him with the kids because she thought there was possibility of a romantic relationship with the dad. And he kind of exploited the feelings she had for him for free child care. He is taking advantage of her. But she is letting him.
hate when people make that distinction. it feels harmful for the kids, distinctions like "half sibling". if he has 1 biological child with that mother, any other kids she has is also part of the deal (particularly if they are still minors, if they are grown children that's different). If he doesn't want that many kids he shouldn't have had the 1 😂 DNA similarity does not make a family, it's often what starts it, but it's a choice after.
🇺🇸❤️🙏🏽reality check J M plaintiff defendant / judge u done stepped into “hood” community child care. The father stepdad works late shift his words”imma work champ at my job” Bro ya gotta champ parent with your children, scary case of locked out children(he and his girlfriend)cause he could have given keys so the girlfriend couldn’t lock them out -9 year old coming in at 9pm pm on a school night and weekend from the “cousin” house. It’s dark outside and no child should go unescorted home. Plaintiff u sued for money and property, WRONG! You should have removed yourself out the equation so child services can remove the children, then a parenting plan, parenting classes, counseling could be implemented. If the community can’t protect those children with a positive care plan from the father/step dad cooperating with the neighbor, then the government must step in. 🇺🇸❤️🙏🏽
@michelleharper2940 the guy who does the intros is Curt Chaplin. He did Doug's exit interviews for a while when he was out too. If you listen you can tell it's his voice.
@@kissablestar OMG you’re right!! 😂😂 I thought Curt kinda came out of nowhere when Doug was gone, but he did a good job‘cause he was kind of a 🍆 lol! It all makes sense now- thanks!
It sounds like dad is too busy doing everything else. The girlfriend wouldn't even come to the door to get his kids that LIVE IN THE HOUSE. Dad and his gf sound like negligent people. I think the neighbor was genuinely trying to help, BUT dad isn't responsible for the things she wants.
She need to mind her business and worry about her house before somebody hit her with kidnapping. Ion care what a child tells you you contact that parent and you don’t ever let children spend the night at your home without doing everything you possibly can yo locate a parent or guarding. Ion know who the plaintiff think she is but she need tell those kids stay away from her house. And if she was so darn concerned she should’ve informed the police or CPS and let professionals deal with it. Old nosey tail self. She think she looked good harboring someone else’s children. Kids lie and stretch the truth to get what they want. She need her own kids.
That woman was working with the abandoned parent. Came to court and lied.😮 The woman is crazy. If he would have entertained her she would not have sued.
all these people wanting his kids to go into the system (because that WILL happen to 9 and 14 y.o that isn't even his) don't understand how messed up and over burdened the system is. Yes she's doing a lot but better her than foster care with strangers who don't know their background or community
She took on the responsibility to care for and feed children that she didn't have. The nerve of the Dad to KNOW his children were with her and assume no financial responsibility for their care. The judge should have brought him to task about kicking out underage kids and she should have praised this woman. I don't think the judge listened enough. Oftentimes, these judges throw questions out and don't take the time to listen to detail before throwing out another question after obviously having their own preconceived notion about the situation. She should have listened more. Seemed rushed.
Did she ever verify the kids were Kicked out or did they just tell her that and she went with it . Sounds like the kids were able to manipulate the situation
He’s definitely a doofus and disconnected is raising his children. Complete negligence. Homegirl was definitely doing it for the sake of the kids but I can’t but think she wanted to play house with him. They’re both crash dummies and God help those kids.
Who lets a 9 year go anywhere by themselves and lock them out.WOW? Poor babies...just letting his kids rome all over the neighborhood. So sad. Deadbeat & Neglect at its finest.
It sounds like he works overnight, which leaves hìs two children and a bonus daughter home with his girlfriend. The girlfriend doesn't want the responsibility of his children. He seems like a person thats mentally capable of caring for the children past the financial part.
Something is wrong with that dude, CPS better keep an eye on those kids. That woman needs to call each time because the math ain’t mathing on this situation.
Yall come correct me if I'm wrong, but how was he abandoning his children and a deadbeat if they were left with an 18 year old while he was at work?? He was taking care of a child that wasn't even his WITHOUT the mom being in the picture! Sounds like the mom is the deadbeat lol! We dont know if the children were really locked out of the house? We only know that SHE said that they were. Child protective services didn't find anything wrong. She's probably just one of those ppl that lets anybody's kids stay at their house because they want to. I know ppl like that! Am i missing something?
Those poor children. Thankfully she is not too weird and didnt hurt the kids. He is just neglectful and pathetic.
She should call the cops EVERYTIME those babies are locked out! Especially that 9 yo and I bet that’ll wipe that smirk off his face and the laziness out of his gf
They'll love that smirk in prison!!!
Exactly!!
Yes. I do believe he is locking the 14 yr old out. She’s not his biological daughter. :(
Right. Call CPS so the children can be separated going in and out of different foster homes where it's a known fact all kinds of abuse happens so it's really a loose, loose situation for those babies SMH
@@LLStark Yea I agree with you. People don’t understand CPS is the last last last resort. Even if a neighbor can intervene and support, and they’re safe it’s better.
No good deed goes unpunished. Ya'll saying she should have called CPS but we all know what happens with the system. This lady thought she was doing the right thing caring for these kids.
Thank you finally someone acknowledges CPS is not the answer 🙏
Exactly!!! And the judge was very harsh on her. The Dad has girls running loose! Shes looking out for them! Anyone who is saying child protective services mean they dont know about anything
Ok but her lawsuit was ridiculous. She's not entitled to sue for childcare that was never agreed to and certainly not allowed to get paid cause she dropped her phone and broke it while watching the kids.
@@TataRoss I was with a woman that had 3 kids, 2 girls and a boy. I yelled at the oldest one night and she said she would call CPS. I said "You want to see abuse, call that number". She never did of course.
@@lukerinderknecht2982 True, but I wonder how many times this guy told her he would give her money either verbally or in a text for taking care of his kids.
she just apart of that village...helping a dead beat raise his kids.She the one keeping them babies safe..
How is he the deadbeat and not the mothers who's not there . He's at work to provide
@@garymcleod372He and the mother are both deadbeats. Why lock underaged kids out of the house and refuse to let them in? Those girls obviously feel safe and loved with that woman. He's a man so he probably can't understand his daughters. Since their mom is not there Thank God they have a motherly figure in this guardian angel.
God bless her heart
@@garymcleod372going to work doesn't mean you don't take care of your children. Single parents do both.
@@garymcleod372 I always knew where my children were while working. How does one go to work and not know where their children are? When was the mother in the picture?
I’m sorry but no… no one kidnaps children like this. If someone won’t give you your kids, you call the police. He’s a liar
He's not taking care of his kids...and he knows that...smh
" You cannot save everybody. " People are so ungrateful.
So true
These comments are why humanity is broken. Our native community has been lost and broken…we need more woman like the plaintiff. Thank you for your humanitarian service, the universe will reward you 10000 fold!🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿 as you can see, most people are ok with children been picked up by “the system” To be abused molested and mistreated.
Agreed
The universe? 😂
She's weird and so are you! If she was a man, she'd be in jail. LEAVE PEOPLE'S KIDS ALONE
I agree she did do a good thing. But turn around and sue them later.
A good deed is when u do something without expecting anything in return
A humanitarian does not seek money in return for doing it.
Everyone yells “protect the children” but looks at her like she did something crazy by assuming responsibility for clearly abandoned children, we already know CPS is a joke and most children end up in worse situations than this, so honestly as a mother of 5 I would have taken the babies in and tried my best to keep them out the system……and before yall come for me regarding what I said about CPS, I know SEVERAL people who were the system who experienced abu$e, grape, etc.
I commend this woman for trying to be the village we all holler about kids need, I wish she took this to Judge Mathis instead of Milian
Yeah but don’t try to bash someone or talk about them being a deadbeat if you’re being kind and it’s about the kids. She chose to help she didn’t have to. The outcome wouldn’t have been different with judge Mathis
@@justhereyeah1112he's still a deadbeat. Somebody has to pick up his slack because he was neglecting his kids and did you hear what he did the kids??? That's deadbeat behavior
I agree with you. If shed just told dad, I need $100 a week for food then he might have helped. Give the kids a key dad. CPS is horrible, over worked & fosters are not vetted well, causing kids in system to be in more danger than this.
Judge Milian was unnecessarily cold to her (as she is with most of the black litigants, it's why I barely watch her). Although the plaintiff simply didn't have a valid legal case against this deadbeat, she was morally right.
@@allieb770Did you watch the video fully? She said she asked him to help buy food. He did not even buy anything at all. He did not care.
On behalf of the 14 yr old I want to thank the Plaintiff
This story is so confusing.. it sounds like the dad is never home & he allows his kids to do whatever they want so the neighbor steps in to help, it's hard not to get involved because you want to make sure kids are being taken care of. Clearly they are being neglected.
She's the one who's volunteering to take care of his kids. Call children services. He is most definitely neglecting the kids.
Every neighborhood has a mom who loves to take care of children, bless them, lift them up.
He sounds like a deadbeat dad BUT this woman is TOO INVOLVED... Call child protective services and let them handle it.
Because if she can say I have all these CHILDREN WONT SOMEONE HELP ME!?!? and boom rent/food/etc.
Anything to get some cash.
If child care does nothing, call the police.
She may see herself in those kids. Who
Knows
@@chromeshellkingwho would she get cash from? She’s not their guardian so how would help be automatic?
@@chromeshellkingIt doesn't work like that. She can't get anything for those kids because she's not the legal guardian
He is such a deadbeat, dad… he doesn’t even know what’s going on where his kids are where they’re left off wow the CPS should’ve really taken his kids
She 😮
@@jeromebass7878She's a deadbeat dad? 😂
I think he did know, he just likes to have this woman pay for his part of the kids.
Y’all know Judge Judy would have let dad have it! She’s a firm believer you don’t let others pay for your kids, also in father’s rights. I try to be like her, I have kids but I’m auntie to a lot more. Especially teenagers, they need all the love and stability they can get.
I like coffee too. Wanna go for some? 😂
judge Judy is very partial and performs for camera...she is horrible. Judge Milian is outstanding
Go watch judge Judy then 🤷🏿♀️
@@keyanasteen3409 uh I do lol i watch them all. I love different things about all of them. Sometimes Judy’s bluntness and indifference is what I’m in the mood for. Judge Milian is just amazing. But that doesn’t mean I always agree with her ruling.
There needs to be a contract in order to get money for taking care of the kids.
The defendant is a two-bit hustler and a dead beat father and yes cps should have gotten involved.
I understand why she did not call CPS. The system will abuse and molest them. Destroy. He abandoned them essentially.
@@Patricia-sf2zk And technically that is not her problem, but it's hard to turn your back on children. Unless you're like the defendant and the children's mother.
She did as she should have as I’d never allow a child kicked out on the streets.
You’re the problem and enabling bad behavior. How is a kid going to learn, if you coddle them?
She is a good neighbor and friend to report abuse. Too many family members and friends keep quiet about child abuse.
Defendant is a beautiful lady, outside and in her heart! ❤ she cares for children.
She is a good person for not letting those kids be on the streets because if those girls go on the streets, they'd end up in worse hands and get in all sort of trouble. The Defendant isnso ungrateful. I pray this lady continues to be the great person she is and get the thanks she deserves. If those children get into the system, that's no good
I feel for this woman. She has a kind heart. He took advantage of her. WHAT A JERK
She did this to herself. She never should have just been letting that child stay without contacting the proper authorities.
Hello.
@@BREEZYM6015hey
Back in the day this would be no big deal. Nowadays you have to call the cops and let the child go into the system or you get in trouble. Because that's so much better
what a heartless statement calling the authorities is not always they answer they will put the kids in a foster home or group home which can be a nightmare for the kids.
I don’t think it is heartless placing them with authorities at the end of the day they are not her children their his. He is heartless for not taking care of his children's whereabouts.
She needs to stop getting involved and report so it comes under a proper agreement to look after them full-time or close too. If anything happens the way it is to these children in her care who do you think they are coming after.
He shot! Because he quick to say that the 14 year old is not his child. But yet want to take kudos for raising them. He is pathetic.
It's called legality stupid. She isn't his child, but he did raise her.
He maybe getting money for the children and not taking care of them. He could of help buy food he knew where the kids were but it gave him freedom not having them.
He a very bad parent what if she ain’t let them in where would they have went he doesn’t even seem to care 😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢
This woman was trying to take care of these kids and he probably hasn’t even thanked her
This woman needs to stay in her lane. She is a walking lawsuit.
@@b.dailey3180Well the kids feel safe and loved around her. That's why they're still staying with her.
@@SparkleInYourEyes2024 We don't know that... it's just our opinion. I wish I could say I trusted people but unfortunately I wouldn't trust anyone with my kids for any long length of time. We didn't spend the night at strangers homes cause everybody
homes aren't the same.
@@b.dailey3180 Accord to the Dad his daughters are staying at her house. He obviously doesn't care because he's not stopping them for going over there.
This was such a Ridiculous case
Gave me a headache 🙄
@6:25 he told so many lies in that one sentence. She had his youngest daughter for a day. They were supposed to spend the weekend. They weren't supposed to be at her house. They were supposed to be playing with a cousin. It was the stepdaughter. WTF. HOW TF WHERE THEY THERE EVEN FOR A DAY AND HE NOT KNOW. The lady on the street was right on point. Negligence on the father part. Thank god the plaintiff isn't a pedophile as far as what was stated she seems like a good person for the most part.
He’s smiling at the end like he won. Yet he’s a terrible father. That’s not winning. His girls could have been preyed on if they didn’t have this woman to help them. If she stops, what’s going to happen to them?
How can a human being neglect their kids and thankfully she wasn’t a predator . He’s a LOSER!
That’s a very put together nice woman! He should still give her something. That’s just ridiculous. Locking out a 9 year old?? Like wtf
She should've called child protective services, the police, somebody; this is fcking ridiculous, he's clearly unfit
Thank goodness for her being kindhearted towards those kids because this could have been a tragic story if they’d gone to the wrong person
She wanted to be a Good Samaritan and now that all she has gotten is crapped on she wants to be made whole but there was no obligation on the defendants part except to the kids. So this is nasty the father is nasty and deff owes her. She should have been charging for being a nanny
Plain and simple. There was no agreement or contract set in place for the care of his kids or the neighborhood children, for that matter.
The judge's decision was right and fair.
@@michaelm137712:22
@@michaelm1377 The judge's decision was legal and the only legal decision she could render.
His facial expressions are killing me 😂😂😂😂
Reminds me of Wesley Snipes lol
The plaintiff does deserve some money. Seems like a very nice lady. Help, but don't take on someone's responsibility. C.P.S. has a bad relationship but you must document abandonment issues.
I agree. She deserves some money morally. But not legally. He could’ve had a nice arrangement with her but he messed it up by being a deadbeat.
😂😂😂 Who is the Hood Ninja 😂😂😂
Somebody should have told the judge that ninja is skang for the n-word😂😂
He's a champ at work, but his daughters are suffering at home. He has a big smile on his face. He should be ashamed and should have paid for her phone just as a thank you for keeping his girls safe
The fact that he keeps claiming that's not his real daughter leads me to believe that this woman is telling the truth about him.Locking that little girl out disgusting !! If my kid tells me someone is holding them hostage.I'm calling the cops and i'm coming home and there's going to be a problem ! I don't believe a word.He says I feel so bad for those kids. 14:44 They are both to blame here and if she'd chose to take care of these children she cannot demand money. If he's lucky kids out she needs to call the cops every time that's not okay
She really wanted the phone replaced. She should have just let it go. CPS is not going to remove his children because of what is described. There’s no place for her to go anyway. No foster home or group home is going to be safer. Right now, her dad is not the best but she has a neighbor who looks after her. Really, dad should have let ACS put her in kinship foster care with the neighbor and then she would have financial assistance to care for her.
That weird lady needs to go have a child of her own and quit tryna steal someone else's kids!
But what you're saying makes too much sense and is the right thing to do. Common sense and love are missing from the system we live under.
If you make a choice to take on someone else’s kids be prepared for the expenses that come with it.
“Hood ninja got all the moves” 😂😂😂
Is that Eddie Murphy? 😂
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
@@BREEZYM6015haha! I was gonna say Temu Eddie Murphy
She needs to be turning the kids away. She can’t keep helping him and his kids without making condtions and expecting the court to make him pay.
He totally took advantage of her.
How he gonna throw out a 14yr old WILDDD
Oh please...n they get pregnant at that age
Right! That’s crazy.
I got kicked out of home younger than 14 . I was acting up tho but still. It was hard and it affected me as I got older
Have you seen how some of these 14 year old behave 😒
@@Sasha-ws6gv They act that way bc of how they were raised. PERIOD
She should have gotten some money. The law is so messed up idk how people have faith in it
Edit: Dead beat dad, he should be embarrassed and yet he’s smiling smh
People are really misinformed about the law. And if u haven't personally experienced it u think it's like tv where there's justice.
@@alyssahamlettamen! People with zero knowledge love to share their opinions as if they know what they’re talking about. So annoying.
With the number of kids being "lost in the system," do yall really want her to call the authorities?
Shout out to her for taking those young girls under her wing and looking out for them. She’s a queen for real
Exactly. He kicked those young girls out, a nasty pimp could've gotten his hands on them. She truly is a guardian angel.
There’s no reason to call in ACS if someone from the community is willing to step up and fill in the gaps.
But it's hard to fill in the parental gaps without money.
@@sereneamani1713 It is. But ACS shouldn’t be used to solve every parental problem.
What reason is there to call if the parent has engaged the support of another trusted adult? This guy is saying all that because he doesn’t have her money. He knows where his daughters were.
This dude is no father to his kids, and denying one of them is a low blow. The kids were left in this kind woman's care and all he worried about losing his food stamps. Sad that even his latest baby mama is tired of his begging.
Food stamps 🙏 are a blessing
I Get The Law Will Not Compensate Her For Taking Care of His Children Because She Volunteered on Her Own But I Still Respect Her For Caring and Not Callling CPS Because That's Not Exactly a Safe Place For Most Children. 🤷🏾
She’s an angel…..end of story.
I don’t think she’s owed anything . If u gon do it do it out the kindness of your heart don’t be looking for anything.
THANK YOU!👏
@acacia1890 thank you for saying that!!
She’s a great woman for caring for the kids he’s neglecting. But she also can’t be surprised that he’s not helping. He’s not even caring for his own so what could she expect from him! I commend her for stepping in. She should have taken the proper steps to foster them, then she would have gotten help from the state.
Poor kids!
Ugh! Hate it when people use kids as a weapon whether in their relationship or in court! It’s just wrong. 😢
Mama abandoned them and dad is absent as well. I GUARANTEE these are the same kids who are absolute nightmares at school with their teachers. They have zero respect or home training because they literally have no adult at home raising them. It’s really sad.
This woman is an amazing woman. Thank you for being there for the kids. They obviously felt safe around you. Don’t give up being kind.
He's trifling and she (Plaintiff) should have had better evidence to demonstrate his neglect.
She is a sweet lady who perhaps wishes she had children of her own. She wants to nurture.
He is a horrible father. Those children do not have a parent. They just out there in the world alone. Where are their mothers? He is living his life as if he has no responsibility. He abandoned those children.
Don't watch someone's kids that aren't yours plain and simple😂
I don't know about that
I'm wondering what would have to that 14 year old if no one looked out for her
It's neighbors' jobs and adults' responsibility to protect children.
Why not?
It takes a village, two wrongs don't make a right. How can you with good conscience NOT help children
I feel for the lady. I do feel like she was willing to help him with the kids because she thought there was possibility of a romantic relationship with the dad. And he kind of exploited the feelings she had for him for free child care. He is taking advantage of her. But she is letting him.
I didn't get that part of the case at all because he already had a girlfriend in his house with him.
@@mexicanspec the original announcement....they don't get that information from no where unless he mentioned that
Still processing Childs mothers child 😂😂
hate when people make that distinction. it feels harmful for the kids, distinctions like "half sibling". if he has 1 biological child with that mother, any other kids she has is also part of the deal (particularly if they are still minors, if they are grown children that's different). If he doesn't want that many kids he shouldn't have had the 1 😂 DNA similarity does not make a family, it's often what starts it, but it's a choice after.
He doesn't want them. Especially the middle child
Broke breeding broke ♻️♻️♻️
🇺🇸❤️🙏🏽reality check J M plaintiff defendant / judge u done stepped into “hood” community child care. The father stepdad works late shift his words”imma work champ at my job” Bro ya gotta champ parent with your children, scary case of locked out children(he and his girlfriend)cause he could have given keys so the girlfriend couldn’t lock them out -9 year old coming in at 9pm pm on a school night and weekend from the “cousin” house. It’s dark outside and no child should go unescorted home. Plaintiff u sued for money and property, WRONG! You should have removed yourself out the equation so child services can remove the children, then a parenting plan, parenting classes, counseling could be implemented. If the community can’t protect those children with a positive care plan from the father/step dad cooperating with the neighbor, then the government must step in. 🇺🇸❤️🙏🏽
Do they hear the voice over when they walk in? The guys hiliarious 😂
They do
You can see the audience laugh when they hear the narration of some cases while the plaintiff and defendant are walking into the courtroom.
I want to know the guy’s name 😂
@michelleharper2940 the guy who does the intros is Curt Chaplin. He did Doug's exit interviews for a while when he was out too. If you listen you can tell it's his voice.
@@kissablestar OMG you’re right!! 😂😂 I thought Curt kinda came out of nowhere when Doug was gone, but he did a good job‘cause he was kind of a 🍆 lol! It all makes sense now- thanks!
I’m sorry for those children. I’m sure he’s a horrible parent and so is the mother in VA to leave her child with this bum.
If you raised a child from an infant to teen etc its your child too. Because she's not biologically yours means nothing
If she ever has children she will be an awesome mother
I can already tell by the way the defendant showed up to court that this would be a doozy of a case. Who dressed him-the early ’90s?
Shes kinda sounds like a enabler, and she probably didnt want to be lonely so didnt mind kids staying with her
DeadBeat!!! Smh!!!
This shit sounds crazy on both sides
😂
She slow and he is a trash dad!
It sounds like dad is too busy doing everything else. The girlfriend wouldn't even come to the door to get his kids that LIVE IN THE HOUSE. Dad and his gf sound like negligent people. I think the neighbor was genuinely trying to help, BUT dad isn't responsible for the things she wants.
She need to mind her business and worry about her house before somebody hit her with kidnapping. Ion care what a child tells you you contact that parent and you don’t ever let children spend the night at your home without doing everything you possibly can yo locate a parent or guarding. Ion know who the plaintiff think she is but she need tell those kids stay away from her house. And if she was so darn concerned she should’ve informed the police or CPS and let professionals deal with it. Old nosey tail self. She think she looked good harboring someone else’s children. Kids lie and stretch the truth to get what they want. She need her own kids.
I agree nobody has sense anymore!
That woman was working with the abandoned parent. Came to court and lied.😮 The woman is crazy. If he would have entertained her she would not have sued.
Her braids are cute w the greys peeking thru
What a deadbeat dad I feel bad for these children
all these people wanting his kids to go into the system (because that WILL happen to 9 and 14 y.o that isn't even his) don't understand how messed up and over burdened the system is. Yes she's doing a lot but better her than foster care with strangers who don't know their background or community
Dead beat dad. Lazy girl. The neighbor seems like a good person.
8:15 Who allows children to stay at their home and not speak with a parent.. She's at fault for her own actions
She took on the responsibility to care for and feed children that she didn't have. The nerve of the Dad to KNOW his children were with her and assume no financial responsibility for their care. The judge should have brought him to task about kicking out underage kids and she should have praised this woman. I don't think the judge listened enough. Oftentimes, these judges throw questions out and don't take the time to listen to detail before throwing out another question after obviously having their own preconceived notion about the situation. She should have listened more. Seemed rushed.
I can't imagine locking my 9 yr, 14 yr old or older teenager out of the house. The world is crazy. Protect those kids because daddy ain't doing it.
Did she ever verify the kids were
Kicked out or did they just tell her that and she went with it . Sounds like the kids were able to manipulate the situation
He’s definitely a doofus and disconnected is raising his children. Complete negligence. Homegirl was definitely doing it for the sake of the kids but I can’t but think she wanted to play house with him. They’re both crash dummies and God help those kids.
If you help you don’t turn around & demand payment. Send the kids home or call CPS but if you continue to help them it’s on you.
Those poor children man
Who lets a 9 year go anywhere by themselves and lock them out.WOW? Poor babies...just letting his kids rome all over the neighborhood. So sad. Deadbeat & Neglect at its finest.
She needs some business and he needs parenting classes and a case worker
Poor kids
It sounds like he works overnight, which leaves hìs two children and a bonus daughter home with his girlfriend. The girlfriend doesn't want the responsibility of his children. He seems like a person thats mentally capable of caring for the children past the financial part.
Something is wrong with that dude, CPS better keep an eye on those kids. That woman needs to call each time because the math ain’t mathing on this situation.
Never seen someone react so well to the audio they hear. You forget sometimes that they hear the opening since they usually just stand there
Yall come correct me if I'm wrong, but how was he abandoning his children and a deadbeat if they were left with an 18 year old while he was at work?? He was taking care of a child that wasn't even his WITHOUT the mom being in the picture! Sounds like the mom is the deadbeat lol!
We dont know if the children were really locked out of the house? We only know that SHE said that they were. Child protective services didn't find anything wrong. She's probably just one of those ppl that lets anybody's kids stay at their house because they want to. I know ppl like that!
Am i missing something?
He looks like a bum.
There are risks and rewards with being a “good person.” These are the risks.
When JM said “ hood ninja “ i almost fell over