Bio dad and legal dad is two different things. If the man leaves and another man wants the baby he can be the legal father. So he has rights to the child and cant abandon the child. If your not sure ask for a DNA test right then in the hospital.
Ali Alahmad What I am stating is basically if a woman tells her husband, boyfriend , one night stand or whatever that he is the Dad but let's say she has been cheating. If he is not the real father and someone else is he should not be legally obligated to pay because he signed a birth cert! If he is attached to the child and still wants to provide that's fine! However some men are jailed behind not paying support for a child that is not theirs!
@Shanna B nah, it's free but you probably have to pay for a paternity test. I went through it years ago. Test said I'm not the father, went to family court to clear my name. Actually I don't think I was removed from the birth certificate, I would have to do that myself. This just protected me from future child support and stuff........but at the end of the day, I chose to still be in my daughter's life. Now she's in medical school
That should really only make sense if there’s proof she cheated around conception, which she claimed she didn’t and there’s no proof that she did. People make mistakes and she doesn’t seem like a bad person just really lost and naive. I think it’s just the fact he was really demeaning and rude about it. It makes sense that he has doubts since she’s cheated before but you don’t need to go about it like he did.
Unfortunately, not enough older sisters are involved with "teaching" the younger sisters. So they are left to their own devices, the advice of peers, uninformed or uncaring males and the street. But yes, it definitely is a problem.
If I hear “I didnt grow up with a dad so I didnt want that for my kid." Then use that logic before sleeping around unprotected. Stop with the ridiculousness already.
I agree with you. Having grown up "without a dad" should, if anything, make a man or woman more committed to a faithful relationship BEFORE the fact, not AFTER.
Ingrid Burnett it all depends on the single parent and what they teach their child and what they let their child be exposed to, if a child have a mom that promiscuous with a lot of guys, the kid taking all that in, believe it or not, and will do the same thing when they get older
People saying her best friend is no true friend; her friend is a good person. Only good people can be good friends. Good friends hold their friends accountable.
If her friend was a good friend would of discouraged her from those actions and have a conversation with her also encouraging her to tell him the truth and if doesn't then tell him but that's no good friend.
Her friend , to me, was looking to steal her man. Instead of confronting her friend she told the man then took him. Then she started to feed him lies about the baby so she could have the man all to herself. She wasn't a friend. A friend doesn't sleep with her friend's baby Daddy.
“You’re a beautiful woman. But that doesn’t mean you go lay down with every man, that says you cute.” I love when Judge Lake speaks life into these women. Yes, mistakes have been made. But it’s up to you, to fix it.
@@BernardBethea6339 ...not after the fact. You can fix the future but if you start down that road (or any road equally as messy) you earned your consequences. The children don't, and you have no one to blame for their pain but yourself.
That’s why I’m not having nobodies kid I’ve taken extreme measures to make sure I will not get pregnant. I’m not depending on no dude to be responsible for my body sorry!
@@Omar-qm5sf I suspect the reason the mother thought the dad was cheating is because the "friend" said he was cheating. I know an ex-friend of mine kept trying to get me to break up with any guy I was with and wouldn't introduce me to any male friends of hers out of fear I would "steal them". Says a lot about how people think sometimes.
What NEEDS to happen is mandatory paternity test for every birth to confirm who is the father before the certificate is signed. That would solve A LOT of problems
@@elvee7444 sweetie hi.. it's his mama .. that said that... so therefore.... it wasn't the father granny that said.. it....it was his baby's granny that said it.........be blessed
Exactly! If you grew up without parents you should make sure you know who the other parent to your children are and not keep ending up in paternity court!
according to the judge "I do not care about the man's stress" but when a girl who spreads her legs to god knows how many men this judge says "I can feel that your hurt this must be hard", and everybody claps. God forbid a girl should be accountable for her own actions they are treated like there saint these days.
Me neither, but I feel like this case was different because the girlfriend wasn't badmouthing her or anything she was just offering (mostly) relevant information.
They wasn't listening. If her due date is Nov. 30th, then the conception of Feb. 17th-24th is wrong. The gf due date is the 19th, so 11 days later would be March 6th or 7th
@@deekay2710 He meant people who are messed-up bringing forth children who may eventually become messed-up. They should have worked on themselves first before they think of having a family
I just HATE IT when they bring their new girlfriend with them to court to come and defend them. Your boyfriend and his ex girlfriend paternity problems have nothing to do with you!
He gone get her pregnant again and she could be now, He and knows He still go over there ..the new baby mom looks alright but she isn't as pretty as the current.
She's attitude changed real fast. I think here in the courtroom she just realized that he didn't cheat. That she blew the good thing and now she's a single mom. And she missed the only decent guy that she made me in her whole life. Only one or two come by if a woman's lucky. Lots of guys will bump uglies. They'll take but find one that gives and learn to give to him
@@victoriahollister6875so he was supposed to stay with the cheating woman and that would make him a good father ?? So every woman with kids by multiple men is a bad mom? lol women so dumb
From experience, never sleep with a ex after the relationship has ended.. This goes for women and men sleeping with their ex..Saves Alot of drama people!
This is why DNA testing should always be mandatory when the child is born. We could eliminate all of this and so much more if DNA testing was mandatory.
@@organizedchaos4559 The state should pay for the DNA tests. I mean they pay for abortions and some are even on public assistance. The "Fathers" go to jail for non-payment of child support, which is also costing the state.
its about weaving a narrative so you get invested in the results, otherwise why care at all? theyre just strangers fighting over a baby. ill agree that these cases rarely justify a full half hour timeslot though. they should move to two cases per episode like most other court shows.
It always the cheater who thinks their partner is cheating. I think this is why most people cheat. If you don't trust someone then why are you with them?
No, she sucks. She does not speak on behalf of Men that have been falsely accused or spent time in jail for the lie the mother told. I disagree. She sucks.
@@orangegreen7 you didn't understand her (judge ) and at least the child will be taken care of better now and why the heck are ya boiling so much.. Just because of 1 case in which she(judge) isn't even wrong, you're saying she sucks.... Lol.. And why was his girlfriend so pridely saying she pregnant His matter with ex wasn't even cleared yet and then without a marriage she ept with him........ Bailey and Dark, other have done mistakes, but why should the CHILD suffer it's not his fault that THOSE two are like that..
I mean it just shows some more that they aren’t ready to be parents. A simple google search would tell you, or a friends, or even common sense, they just don’t care.
@@charlesmasclef1309 Some don't care. Most are ignorant. Public schools should teach these basic paperwork things, from insurance to taxes, and far too many don't.
In some states the law won't allow a man to do a paternity test on a child without the mothers aproval. Therefore you need to go to court to get a judge to issue the paternity test. And then you can hopefully not pay child support for 18 years. Hopefully
There needs to be a system in place to make young couples or parents to be, to be informed of exactly what it means to sign a birth certificate. Like the Miranda rights speech.
@@shswtsxy1 do you know how costly and time consuming this process would be. You should do it if you want to and pay for it yourselves. The government expect for you at least to have the decency to know who the father is.
Azza S It would probably be more inexpensive to find out in the beginning. Especially for the government. How many men say a baby is not theirs because they are dogs dipping here and there, then not wanting to claim them. Some men know the truth but deny because of their own insecurities. And if it’s not in black and white they would never own up.
Someone explain this to me all the time I hear people say “ I didn’t have a dad, I grew up in the system I didn’t want that for my child” but yet they have basketball teams and not in a relationship
@@moniquethomas5596 it be true though and then they want to keep crying about how hard it is but yet you keep having children and at some point you have to be an adult and take responsibility
BRANDY D exactly! Did you hear the momma say that he doesn't take care of his daughter from another woman either? When he gets tired of the new girlfriend he'll kick her and her baby to the curb too!
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I think it's very important during dating to first really understand each other before sexually being involved. Understand each other's past and work through it so as not to have the past influence the "now" hence destroying your destiny.
Never speak ill of an innocent child before you have the proof. I agree with Judge Lake, children absorb negative energy even if they cannot express it.
Rather a loving single parent home than a toxic two-parent household. Marriage is not always the solution. Even when you're married, doesn't guarantee that both parents will be active in the kids life.
She not ready for marriage. FIrst she needs to mature I have compassion for her being she had no mother to teach her what a woman is suppose to be; nor a father to demonstrate what to look for in men. She'll get it together, and the right brotha will scoop her up like homemade ice cream.
Naw he sowed his girl the text. Cheating men don't do that, because it opens up a hole. Now she feels she can see his text anytime she wants. Cheating men/women don't want to set that presidence.
My mom was a widow mom and she worked so hard to raise me. I see this girl's and I just respect my mom even more. She never cried about it, never victimized herself for it, nothing. A woman of integrity from head to toe.
You're mom became a widow because of a situation beyond her control. This girl has 4 children out of wedlock with probably 4 baby daddies. This judge never calls out the women on her show for this irresponsible behavior. This girl is nothing but a welfare mommy taking our tax dollars because I'm sure most of these baby daddies stop paying the support. Mr. Morales - you were raised in a much different culture than this girl. You're Mom knew what integrity and family were about . This girl comes from a culture where her behavior isn't chastise by others, but accepted as the norm.
I’m sick of hearing the “I’m a single mom” line. My parents divorced when I was very young and my father disappeared. My mom raised me with no child support payments or assistance programs, and she not once brought attention to herself for doing so. An irresponsible woman like this sleeping around and getting pregnant 4 times, cheating on boyfriends, and thinks she deserves respect…give me a break.
The way the new girlfriend came swinging in with pride of pregnancy. He has not yet wifed her or even proposed and she is already pregnant with pride... make it Sense.
@@exclusive_mack5238 I did share your opinion before but I guess with time and experience my mindset has shifted. The way I see it is this, commitment comes before marriage, and thus it can exist outside of marriage. Unless, a person is committed to be with you for the long haul, he will not marry you. The moment he/she makes up his/her mind to be committed, the next chapter is what I call a formality, marriage. The danger most people make is to think that the formality is what hold people together or it is some kind of a safety net, in reality it is the mind of the people involved that does. I would encourage anyone to look for a person who is willing to be committed, not necessarily married. It is not to say that marrying before carrying is not good, it is better than having a child in a situationship.
"I grew up without two parents and I don't want the same for my kids" LOL Then stop sleeping with multiple men and spitting out kids without being married . It's It's not rocket science people.
Because he has a new one... I feel very sad to the mother of that baby! When she said she has no parents I can't control my tears. I wish she can find a good men who will give her a real love...
@@Princessmom9 I doubt she said that considering the baby was already born prior to her getting together with him so she had the chance to not be with him if she didn't want a guy with a child already but then again these days people can be petty and shortsided.
I know right... he will treat you with the same disrespect when it doesn't work out... never encourage a man to be less than a man because in turn he will be less than a man for you...👀
This will all finish once the welfare system has changed. After the first baby, no public assistance for the other children that comes after the first one.
He's throwing peen around too... Women get all the heat and shame, while men get a pass for doing the exact same thing. He has a daughter he's not raising and two kids exactly 1 yr apart... Not even married, just getting women knocked up left and right
We as Women always have to protect OURSELVES and know that regardless of what the man does or doesn't do....the children are OURS for the rest of our lives. And stop saying "I grew up without a father or had a broken family so I dont want that for my child/ren". Well if that is what YOU want or don't want....YOU need to get married before you have children so at least you can say you TRIED to give them what you didn't have.
I hate when so called “Current ” girl comes to court and say that things like: I don't think the child is my boyfriend's child. Thank nonsense should stop
Yeah, why would any of them ever say, " Yes I think he is the father"? They have a huge interest in him not being the dad. I guess the show thinks it makes the show more interesting, which it does.
@@Breathe_24 she put herself in the situation. She's a grown woman that deserves zero sympathy. I feel sorry for those poor children that have a hoe for mother and have to deal with men in and out of their lives.
You would if there was a chance he'd not only cheated on you but you'd have to put up with his ex for the rest of your life with him. Stop being mean, the lady's just standing up for someone she loves.
@truth seeker naw she didnt need to be on the stand, she could've been in the audience for moral support. She didnt even contribute to the case, her part was hella irrelevant
@truth seeker wel said yeah she should be involved shes literaly carries evidence in side of her if she doesnt understand that plz dont raise anny kids mam
truth seeker well she looked like a fool because it is his baby yet she came with the the baby don’t look like him non sense and she pregnant by a man that is in a paternity case situation. She should have said, I’m not sure if he is the father but if he is I will support and accept this baby. Matter of fact I agree with what another person said, she should have just sat in the audience for moral support. Girlfriends have no business commenting and they usually look ridiculous, like this lady did.
I have so much respect for that judge. She says exactly what I believe- an adult has had their chance at life to make decisions that better themselves and their community around them, but a child has no voice and the court has to be that voice when parents can’t get along. The only one who truly suffers is the child.
because he probably still had feelings for her and her him, and it's easier to continue to sleep with someone you already know then to go find someone new. Sleeping with an ex is like a no strings attached relationship, UNTIL SHE ENDED UP PREGNANT!
This has got to be the most respectful man on this show I’ve ever seen. No crazy foolishness, no strange stories, no Ebonics talking. He came ready for business
@@Barak144 its funny- it also shows the poster has come to terms with thier fathers death so good news whichever way you look at it. People die. It doesnt mean we should be sad forever. Also i think the sense of humour comes from the father as well. The joke is really a tribute.
If ur serious about wanting ur dad's dna tested?(but hes now dead)get Ancestry dna and it will show ur closest relatives n more..a lot of people are finding close family even if ur parents are dead.
Anyone that signs a birth certificate and is proven not to be the father should be able to have their name removed automatically!!
Bio dad and legal dad is two different things. If the man leaves and another man wants the baby he can be the legal father. So he has rights to the child and cant abandon the child. If your not sure ask for a DNA test right then in the hospital.
James I no if they chose to it should be always easy but some people get attached to the child
Ali Alahmad What I am stating is basically if a woman tells her husband, boyfriend , one night stand or whatever that he is the Dad but let's say she has been cheating. If he is not the real father and someone else is he should not be legally obligated to pay because he signed a birth cert! If he is attached to the child and still wants to provide that's fine! However some men are jailed behind not paying support for a child that is not theirs!
@Shanna B nah, it's free but you probably have to pay for a paternity test. I went through it years ago. Test said I'm not the father, went to family court to clear my name. Actually I don't think I was removed from the birth certificate, I would have to do that myself. This just protected me from future child support and stuff........but at the end of the day, I chose to still be in my daughter's life. Now she's in medical school
The simple math to this is uncle Sam does not like to pay so he gotta make someone responsible.
“I told you he was yours”
When you cheat your word means nothing !
Amen! Couldn't said I any better
That should really only make sense if there’s proof she cheated around conception, which she claimed she didn’t and there’s no proof that she did. People make mistakes and she doesn’t seem like a bad person just really lost and naive. I think it’s just the fact he was really demeaning and rude about it. It makes sense that he has doubts since she’s cheated before but you don’t need to go about it like he did.
@@honeylilies1 but there was a previous child she said was his but was someone elses
nonctzen cheating isn’t a mistake, it doesn’t happen on accident
nonctzen she cheated on this guy and cheated on the ex
I love hearing "you were the only one I was with" and then "you're not the father".
G Dobbins 😭😭😭😭
Not this time
Me too...I thought it was just me!
😩👶🏾🤱🏾🤷🏽♀️😅😫 I'm TF hollering 💀😭😂😭🤦🏾♀️
🤣🤣🤣
This judge is so amazing and understanding of the full picture, I love it. So many judges put their own opinion and judgment on stuff, seems biased
Condoms need to sponsor this show so the judge can hand out condoms at the end
But many people now days enjoy it without condoms..or y
😂😂😂
she always tell them that they have resources for them to take advantage of 🤣🤣🤣
Easiest easy for condoms to be used is if women tell the man right away your not getting anything until you wrap it up
jackasses still isnt going to wear em
Judge said " don't lay down with everybody cause they say you cute"
Accurate
True...definitely teaching that to my daughter!
What women need to be preaching to the young girls now a day
This young lady is touched😔.I hope her kids have a village that loves them
Unfortunately, not enough older sisters are involved with "teaching" the younger sisters. So they are left to their own devices, the advice of peers, uninformed or uncaring males and the street. But yes, it definitely is a problem.
If I hear “I didnt grow up with a dad so I didnt want that for my kid." Then use that logic before sleeping around unprotected. Stop with the ridiculousness already.
Ingrid Burnett I agree I didn’t grow up with mines but I ain’t sleeping around unprotected with random ppl
@@kaybee3769 exactly
I agree with you. Having grown up "without a dad" should, if anything, make a man or woman more committed to a faithful relationship BEFORE the fact, not AFTER.
Ingrid Burnett thank you!!!
Ingrid Burnett it all depends on the single parent and what they teach their child and what they let their child be exposed to, if a child have a mom that promiscuous with a lot of guys, the kid taking all that in, believe it or not, and will do the same thing when they get older
People saying her best friend is no true friend; her friend is a good person. Only good people can be good friends. Good friends hold their friends accountable.
Most people want enablers and confuse with 'good friends '
facts
If her friend was a good friend would of discouraged her from those actions and have a conversation with her also encouraging her to tell him the truth and if doesn't then tell him but that's no good friend.
Hold them accountable is good. But not behind her back sneakily. Speak to her about it. And try again and again.
Her friend , to me, was looking to steal her man. Instead of confronting her friend she told the man then took him. Then she started to feed him lies about the baby so she could have the man all to herself. She wasn't a friend. A friend doesn't sleep with her friend's baby Daddy.
“You’re a beautiful woman. But that doesn’t mean you go lay down with every man, that says you cute.” I love when Judge Lake speaks life into these women. Yes, mistakes have been made. But it’s up to you, to fix it.
you can fix having babies from multiple men
@@BernardBethea6339 ...not after the fact. You can fix the future but if you start down that road (or any road equally as messy) you earned your consequences. The children don't, and you have no one to blame for their pain but yourself.
You are beautiful wanna play
@@johanmany6059 bruh
@@johanmany6059 bruh😑
She has 4 kids and no man. Meanwhile, married women trying to build a family have a hard time getting pregnant. Life is crazy.
Biology is unforgiving
Man
That’s why I’m not having nobodies kid I’ve taken extreme measures to make sure I will not get pregnant. I’m not depending on no dude to be responsible for my body sorry!
Same for guys too. Most black womenswear would rather have a loser with 10 kids smh
IKR 😢
Best friend spilled the beans because she wants him herself.
Exactly Audrey Jefferson
Or best friend spilled the beans because she cant sit and watch an innocent man be hurt.
@@Omar-qm5sf I suspect the reason the mother thought the dad was cheating is because the "friend" said he was cheating. I know an ex-friend of mine kept trying to get me to break up with any guy I was with and wouldn't introduce me to any male friends of hers out of fear I would "steal them". Says a lot about how people think sometimes.
@@lindaliriel you're not even lovely
@@distheos6139 aren't you charming. Well, I still seemed to pose a threat to her ego somehow. De gustibus non disputandum
What NEEDS to happen is mandatory paternity test for every birth to confirm who is the father before the certificate is signed. That would solve A LOT of problems
Well said!!
She started crying as soon as he started to speak facts. Oh the manipulative crocodile tears 🙄 I’m glad he ignored it
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True... She tryna be pitiful
@@byec_2376 yeah, she was gambling to get whatever brownie points she could. That being said, he def had a responsibility too
Why why
Tell them that it's female nature
Why why
The girlfriend is too proud to be another babymama without the ring smh...
That was her best friend
Because the government is basically their husband, they will always be taken care of no matter what
I'm wondering if his new girlfriend has cheated on him while he's over at his ex getting polished?
She’s probably gonna get a ring you never know my parents married after they had my sister 2 kids then my sister then married
Jae Kay I swear I was like 🤦🏽♀️
Quarantine have me watching all type a weird recommended channels😅😂
same here
Haha same
Same here
Same
right how tf I get here
I love the lessons and support from Paternity Court here.
Thanks so much.
God bless Yall.
God bless the Judge and the Team. 🙏
Grandma "you better get that baby away from here"
Grandma "you better bring that baby back over here"
Anita P that part
That part was so sad,unbeknown to Grandma she was rejecting her own blood smh...
Amazing that you think his Grandma said that at her own funeral! haha.
@@elvee7444 sweetie hi.. it's his mama .. that said that... so therefore.... it wasn't the father granny that said.. it....it was his baby's granny that said it.........be blessed
Treating a child like that is wrong, regardless of paternity
She’s so physically beautiful but so mentally lost smh
Emotionally Destroyed. I Agree.
You know, that’s a great way to put it.
It's alot of them out their like that.
Yup, it's sad
i had one... sad
SOME WOMEN BE PUTTING THEMSELVES IN THESE CIRCUMSTANCES...THEN WANNA CRY .🙄
Right! I hate that!
Exactly! If you grew up without parents you should make sure you know who the other parent to your children are and not keep ending up in paternity court!
@Joseph White Jesus
EXACTLY.
Yeah I know. Sometimes we look to the wrong things to heal our hearts.
She looked legitimately concerned before the results. She definitely wasn't 100% sure, meaning she definitely lied about not being with anyone else
I agree. She knew she had been sleeping around, and she thought it was about to come out. "A guilty conscience has no accuser"
Forcing a man to pay child support because he signed the birth certificate is also wrong.
Chris Oneil S But he’s acknowledging and accepting paternity and responsibility? 🤔Fugg I miss?
it is not -
No, it’s not. What’s wrong is not properly explaining what they are signing which is the case a lot of times
according to the judge "I do not care about the man's stress" but when a girl who spreads her legs to god knows how many men this judge says "I can feel that your hurt this must be hard", and everybody claps. God forbid a girl should be accountable for her own actions they are treated like there saint these days.
@@MsBdoll87 well, with mandatory dna testing at birth, we'd know what we're signing.
Her: "You cheated on me."
Him with evidence: "No u."
Her: *starts crying*
I give up
😂😂
LOLL
Did he say he didn't cheat?
If you really believe he cheated and can't or won't rebuild trust, just break it off for good and move on!
I really can't stand current girlfriends who testify on behalf of the child of their "man" not being the father of an ex's kid. Like shut up 🙄
For real 😆
Me neither, but I feel like this case was different because the girlfriend wasn't badmouthing her or anything she was just offering (mostly) relevant information.
She wasn't even in the picture when all this mess happened... 🙄
U sound like u have had these baby daddy issues... typical....lol
brooklynforever1990 like seriously
They wasn't listening. If her due date is Nov. 30th, then the conception of Feb. 17th-24th is wrong. The gf due date is the 19th, so 11 days later would be March 6th or 7th
Girl: cheats
Guy: finds out
Girl: 😭
Josh Playz and vise versa 🤷🏾♀️
True
Mariecee Bhadd 😘 nah
Mariecee Bhadd 😘 false
@@marieceebhadd8071 True
Broken people bringing broken innocent kids into this world. Lord have mercy.
Not one time in the video they say they were broke. Racist
@@deekay2710 not broke, broken. they weren’t talking about money
@@deekay2710 um they talked about mental health and not money. read that comment again.
@@deekay2710 He meant people who are messed-up bringing forth children who may eventually become messed-up. They should have worked on themselves first before they think of having a family
@@deekay2710 it’s about people who are mentally broken. Not broke. Anyways how is that racist
I'm tired of hearing, my father wasn't there....... 5 ..6 children later!! Let's think about this before the first child.
thank you!!!!!!
Right
She said both parents
My thoughts exactly 🤷🏽♀️🤷🏽♀️🤷🏽♀️
Shocked she criticized that dad for not being in his child life yet as if that’s not why he’s in court trying to get a paternity test.
I am so sick of people talking about "that baby look just like him."
he does
So what! It's his baby dufus!!!
+Tamika Amira
overreaching hun
I didn’t see it on this one
He's the father so you have no point
The real victims are the children of these broken people.
The cycle continues...😔
We need more people that notice the cycle and make attenpts to change it
Well with that logic.... the broken people themselves are the victims as well.
Jen Tuesday Most people who bring destruction into the world have been hurt themselves.
thescrybe true true
No is that manipulative female. The man and kids are the victim.
I just HATE IT when they bring their new girlfriend with them to court to come and defend them. Your boyfriend and his ex girlfriend paternity problems have nothing to do with you!
Right!!!!! Like maim, you have nothing to do with this. Sit down and shut up🙄
That's the woman who told him the former girlfriend had cheated on him.
I like it bcs it adds some spice to the courtroom haha
for dramaaa
At the same time, she does, she is also pregnant, she can learn from his mistakes and make better decisions for her and the children.
The judge very conveniently blamed the man without holding the woman responsible for anything.
Women always do!!!
cause the red flags were their she has 4 kids and don't know the baby father at some point he should have known
bcos the man is a fool
@@MADNEWYORKER914not always tho
Her : he’s still calling me to get with me.
Also her: You never come over .
Sis...😩🤣
😂😂😂😂
That's that hoe-ology 101.
We didn't sign up nor take that class!
Lol ikr.
Genese Knox calling her to come and ’get with with me’ is different them coming over to check on or get his son.
He gone get her pregnant again and she could be now, He and knows He still go over there ..the new baby mom looks alright but she isn't as pretty as the current.
He aint crying because he denied the child, hes crying because hes the father! 🤣😂
😂😂😂😂 oh snap oh snap
exactly,he was hoping no
Kayang lol that's what I was saying too
Honestly I don't blame because she looks and sounds crazy lol XD
Original Brotha Fulla Soul XX
This woman is so beautiful but broken
Beautifully broken is what they call it for sure
@Lo Tlhalerwa Youre more than beautyful
Lo Tlhalerwa that’s what happens to most of us I can’t lie I still am
@@brittanydoughty5099 yall think yall broken? ppl think im crazy when all i wanna do is have fun with bats
She seems slow 😬
She's attitude changed real fast. I think here in the courtroom she just realized that he didn't cheat. That she blew the good thing and now she's a single mom. And she missed the only decent guy that she made me in her whole life. Only one or two come by if a woman's lucky. Lots of guys will bump uglies. They'll take but find one that gives and learn to give to him
A good man will provide for his children not have 3 kids by three different women. Actually she's better off being "a single woman."
@@victoriahollister6875 she cheated on him started fake crying then lied and everything
@@victoriahollister6875so he was supposed to stay with the cheating woman and that would make him a good father ?? So every woman with kids by multiple men is a bad mom? lol women so dumb
I wonder if "the friend" told her he cheated.
Tell em….
From experience, never sleep with a ex after the relationship has ended.. This goes for women and men sleeping with their ex..Saves Alot of drama people!
Agreed.
Broke up with ex bout 22yrs; never looking back.
True indeed, nothing but trouble waiting to happen...look back and think on why the relationship ended in the first place.
That's so hard to do 😂
John Haywood exactly.
i needed this....
This is why DNA testing should always be mandatory when the child is born. We could eliminate all of this and so much more if DNA testing was mandatory.
How much is dna testing?
@@organizedchaos4559
Way less than potentially running someone's life.
*@Kwan Chi*
Absolutely!
@@sarahlu7797 it might not be affordable to some people
@@organizedchaos4559
The state should pay for the DNA tests. I mean they pay for abortions and some are even on public assistance.
The "Fathers" go to jail for non-payment of child support, which is also costing the state.
These shows could be 40 seconds. People enter court, judge opens envelope, "you not/the daddy". Roll credits.
That would be so boring
Preach, Judge Lake re: promiscuity because someone out there may need to hear it.
😂😂😂😂
Yup
its about weaving a narrative so you get invested in the results, otherwise why care at all? theyre just strangers fighting over a baby. ill agree that these cases rarely justify a full half hour timeslot though. they should move to two cases per episode like most other court shows.
It's absolutely absurd to hold a man responsible for a child that's not his, because he signed a paper.
Good thing its his child
So absurd indeed
State doesn't care about the truth. It only cares about men paying child support. It can be any man.
It always the cheater who thinks their partner is cheating. I think this is why most people cheat. If you don't trust someone then why are you with them?
Keshia Gold exactly
Can I cheat with you
Keshia Gold Girl, tell that truth two times👍🏾💥
Shut up he wasn't cheating she was
Mojo King 1890 duh 🙄 she never stated he cheated , reread her comment
Judge Lauren Lakes is a beautiful woman and I love her wise words to the mothers and potential fathers.. love this show and what it represents!
She is so compassionate to everyone and gives such clear and loving advice..an amazing lady
@@sandramarc4858 agree with you!
Mine Gamer Network i
She is very beautiful.....and sane...
That speech about signing the birth certificate... yaaas!! Let them know
Judge Lake truly understands how a baby absorbs the emotional conditions of the parents .. she is an enlightened soul. Love her.
She's an amazing woman!
No, she sucks. She does not speak on behalf of Men that have been falsely accused or spent time in jail for the lie the mother told. I disagree. She sucks.
This episode could have been only 45 seconds long. Extended too long for rating purposes.
@@orangegreen7 you didn't understand her (judge ) and at least the child will be taken care of better now and why the heck are ya boiling so much.. Just because of 1 case in which she(judge) isn't even wrong, you're saying she sucks.... Lol.. And why was his girlfriend so pridely saying she pregnant
His matter with ex wasn't even cleared yet and then without a marriage she ept with him........
Bailey and Dark, other have done mistakes, but why should the CHILD suffer it's not his fault that THOSE two are like that..
4x single mother. They produce the worse outcomes for children. For example 9x more drop outs.
I love the judge she's so articulate and chooses the right words.
I like her too, but she’s wrong in some things.
I really wanted to see the current girlfriends facial expression when the results were read 🙃
Me too!
Noooooooo...😂😂 You didn't wanna see that SHAME did you 😂
@@gcflstaff3515 Yesss I wanted to 😂😂😂
I really wanted to se if that current girlfriend still has that smug behind look on her face🤔
iiiMUNiiiQUE me toooo! Lol
Took him a court case to realize his pull out game weak
USE BIRTH CONTROL.
DK Broman hahahahaha bro u hella dumb!!! ahhhahahaha
Bjorgen Eatinger morning after pill
lol
Nooooo 😂😂😂😂
These comments 😂 are all missleading ... He is the father
Okay I was confused lol
praying for everyone is in this situation wish y’all the best
The birth certificate paperwork needs a big and bold disclaimer. Some of These men have no idea what they are doing when signing 🤦🏾♀️
No kidding you should see the dumb guys in Texas
I mean it just shows some more that they aren’t ready to be parents.
A simple google search would tell you, or a friends, or even common sense, they just don’t care.
@@charlesmasclef1309 Some don't care. Most are ignorant. Public schools should teach these basic paperwork things, from insurance to taxes, and far too many don't.
yeah I know got friends that own over 100 grand and not yours dam Gina
She did not cheat because she thought he was cheating, she cheated cause she no good.
Facts
This
Facts
True..and what she said was just a poor excuse.. she did it because that's what she wanted to do
Exactly
Why waste a lot of time in the court instead of doing DNA straight away????🙃
they got paid around 600$-1000$ for showing their face on TV.....
If they did that, you wouldn't be commenting right now XD
In some states the law won't allow a man to do a paternity test on a child without the mothers aproval. Therefore you need to go to court to get a judge to issue the paternity test. And then you can hopefully not pay child support for 18 years. Hopefully
Te segregate the black community
cause the build up is good! ha!
There needs to be a system in place to make young couples or parents to be, to be informed of exactly what it means to sign a birth certificate. Like the Miranda rights speech.
Or you can do a DNA
There should be mandatory Dna tests when babies are born
Robert Simms I have said this for years. It would help the whole situation
@@shswtsxy1 do you know how costly and time consuming this process would be. You should do it if you want to and pay for it yourselves. The government expect for you at least to have the decency to know who the father is.
Azza S It would probably be more inexpensive to find out in the beginning. Especially for the government. How many men say a baby is not theirs because they are dogs dipping here and there, then not wanting to claim them. Some men know the truth but deny because of their own insecurities. And if it’s not in black and white they would never own up.
Robert Simms agree 100 %
I agree and have been saying this too!
She’s on auto tune while crying
😂😂😭😭
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😂😂😂😂 Wow! I can't. 😂😂
😂😂
Omg😂😂😂😂😂😂
I love Lauren Lake! She’s so very good at speaking for the children!
So true😊
Judge: So now history is repeating itself
😂😂😂
Someone explain this to me all the time I hear people say “ I didn’t have a dad, I grew up in the system I didn’t want that for my child” but yet they have basketball teams and not in a relationship
Because they were looking for love and got nothing but lust.
@@mschocolatdevine wrong looking for a meal ticket free ride seen it alot.
You said basketball teams 🤣🤣
@@moniquethomas5596 it be true though and then they want to keep crying about how hard it is but yet you keep having children and at some point you have to be an adult and take responsibility
@@wresltgal
*I totally agree with you 100%*
His "genuine emotion" was f**k I'm stuck. He shook his head. He was shocked. He didn't want him. That was was of pure disingenuous emotion!
Yep cuz he been lyin to current baby momma the whole time. Sad, he showed ZERO emotion when the results were read. Smh
BRANDY D he was hoping that baby wasn’t his . The ratchidness
BRANDY D exactly! Did you hear the momma say that he doesn't take care of his daughter from another woman either? When he gets tired of the new girlfriend he'll kick her and her baby to the curb too!
@@AH-os9dy he going to do it like very soon cause been her 6 yrs so basically we might see them again.
I'm glad he was the dad, simply because he already signed certificate. I rather pay for mines than to pay for something that's not.
just use protection already!
not only for pregnancy prevention but also as a protection against STIs
They won't
Condoms don’t protect you from that
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Black women don’t believe in condoms
Especially if you dealing with someone that has cheated. You don't know who they messed with
I think it's very important during dating to first really understand each other before sexually being involved. Understand each other's past and work through it so as not to have the past influence the "now" hence destroying your destiny.
It’s just as trifling when men have kids for every GIRLFRIEND. Don’t argue with me. Stop making these temporary people permanent in yal lives.
Ebony that’s what I will never understand
I love how y'all absolve yourselves... It's cool it's y'all's credibility at stake
A bitter woman always popping up to defend they fellow hoes😂😂
@Roger King I agree with everything you said, but men have should be with one woman as well💯
They know theyre the mothers tho. So its not
Bruh how did this end up on my reccomended list?
good question
I felt the same way like what? Smh
O ma god ..so relatable!!
Same here, lol.
SAME! I done watched like 20 episodes
Never speak ill of an innocent child before you have the proof. I agree with Judge Lake, children absorb negative energy even if they cannot express it.
His mother was wrong for saying what she said.
Amber Wright it was refreshing to see that she acknowledges negative energy and it's effects on people...
Never speak I'll of a child PERIOD fym smh
there's still no proof judge the court determine he's the father
Man he go say my momma was like if you don’t get that baby up outta here took me out 😂😂😂
If she was raised without parents and wants her child to have both parents. Then get married darling.
There are just as many married women on this show as single ones. Marriage don't guarantee anything
Rather a loving single parent home than a toxic two-parent household. Marriage is not always the solution. Even when you're married, doesn't guarantee that both parents will be active in the kids life.
@@damellelatwaun Single motherhood only guarantees poverty. Married black women are more successful than single mothers.
She not ready for marriage. FIrst she needs to mature I have compassion for her being she had no mother to teach her what a woman is suppose to be; nor a father to demonstrate what to look for in men. She'll get it together, and the right brotha will scoop her up like homemade ice cream.
You're right
Bet his girlfriend don’t feel so special and cute now. She was smiling at homegirls pain now she realize she carrying a rebound baby
Tziporah Yisra'El you’re calling a baby a “rebound baby” you’re trash
Kylander Bates I agree
@@dondada6839 The truth hurts. 😂😂😂😂😂
@Kylander you got a few rebound babies, huh?
That’s tough
His reaction when she said he was still trying to hit her up. Somebody trying to save face in front of the new girlfriend
Yep!
Trash lie
Like her asking to come over to watch a movie.
Naw he sowed his girl the text. Cheating men don't do that, because it opens up a hole. Now she feels she can see his text anytime she wants. Cheating men/women don't want to set that presidence.
With Everything in this video and you bring this up? Surprising lol
Thank You Judge Lake, you’re kind and compassionate.
A woman can bounce from bed to bed too and have multiple partners but still get sympathy smh!! Double standards..
Jb8
You are so correct
@Joe Iracheta Facts.
With all due respect he's bouncing around also and he is actually the father and everyone was ready to call this lady all types of hoes.
Joe Iracheta i would smash her
My mom was a widow mom and she worked so hard to raise me. I see this girl's and I just respect my mom even more. She never cried about it, never victimized herself for it, nothing. A woman of integrity from head to toe.
Sounds like a beautiful woman & mom. I doubt they even make ‘em like your mom anymore!
You're mom became a widow because of a situation beyond her control. This girl has 4 children out of wedlock with probably 4 baby daddies. This judge never calls out the women on her show for this irresponsible behavior. This girl is nothing but a welfare mommy taking our tax dollars because I'm sure most of these baby daddies stop paying the support. Mr. Morales - you were raised in a much different culture than this girl. You're Mom knew what integrity and family were about . This girl comes from a culture where her behavior isn't chastise by others, but accepted as the norm.
I’m sick of hearing the “I’m a single mom” line. My parents divorced when I was very young and my father disappeared. My mom raised me with no child support payments or assistance programs, and she not once brought attention to herself for doing so. An irresponsible woman like this sleeping around and getting pregnant 4 times, cheating on boyfriends, and thinks she deserves respect…give me a break.
@Eric CORNUTE No she didn't. She was upset that she lost a good man period.
Was your mum an orphan too? Don't be to quick to put other women down
The way the new girlfriend came swinging in with pride of pregnancy. He has not yet wifed her or even proposed and she is already pregnant with pride... make it Sense.
Marriages ends too. So it is no guarantee.
Right🤣🤣🤣
@@jegramat true! but having a kid in a marriage is a whole lot better and means more than a baby mom/gf.. there’s no type of commitment with that.
@@exclusive_mack5238 I did share your opinion before but I guess with time and experience my mindset has shifted.
The way I see it is this, commitment comes before marriage, and thus it can exist outside of marriage.
Unless, a person is committed to be with you for the long haul, he will not marry you. The moment he/she makes up his/her mind to be committed, the next chapter is what I call a formality, marriage.
The danger most people make is to think that the formality is what hold people together or it is some kind of a safety net, in reality it is the mind of the people involved that does.
I would encourage anyone to look for a person who is willing to be committed, not necessarily married.
It is not to say that marrying before carrying is not good, it is better than having a child in a situationship.
@@jegramat Marriage has provisions and protections for the woman and the child, which those who aren't married don't have.
Smile of shame and funny after outcome got me in 😂
when a woman shows her fake tears ur done
when she shows them in front of a judge, SHE'S done
True
Lol
No. 😏😏
It was a paternity test...her tears dont change the outcome.
"I grew up without two parents and I don't want the same for my kids" LOL Then stop sleeping with multiple men and spitting out kids without being married . It's It's not rocket science people.
pam r exactly 🤦🏽♂️
You so right Pam
eye v It's an expression bud, you're smart enough to be able to post a comment on a UA-cam video, so you should be smart enough to know that.
@eye v lol..you must be about 11 I am guessing.
@eye v It is not a reference to another video.. it is an expression.. get off the computer and experience real people and real life once in a while.
He truly didn't want to be the father
His girlfriend probably told him if he was the father she was going to leave him.
PrincessmomJudith no she didn’t. She just didnt want her newborn to be having a half brother already
Because he has a new one...
I feel very sad to the mother of that baby!
When she said she has no parents I can't control my tears.
I wish she can find a good men who will give her a real love...
ANd if that's true Zoe that's an even more dumb logic.
@@Princessmom9 I doubt she said that considering the baby was already born prior to her getting together with him so she had the chance to not be with him if she didn't want a guy with a child already but then again these days people can be petty and shortsided.
“My baby looks exactly like him” everybody in the audience look at the monitor and then the dad lol
Jahmir is gonna pull up this video in 14 years whenever he gets into an argument with his Dad
D Man lol
Maybe not. Kids are realizing earlier now that their mothers are really the problem.
When he slowly blinked after hearing he is the father.. I swear I saw his soul leave his body😂😂😂
That’s how it be
And the judge" I saw how happy you were when I read the results"🙄😭
He is silly he shld have least waited , he got another person pregnant.
I wouldn't want to be the father to that woman's baby either💀
Now he gotta deal with her and all her kids, SHEESH
Gosh i hate it when woman say "i told you" when they aint 100% sure
But she told him
She said she was 100 percent sure and never waived.
She said she was sure tho
He was the one that wasn’t sure though lol she never had doubt
Lil annoying yea
It’s impossible to be sure if there’s multiple men involved but that’s what thinking with your heart sounds like.
They should do updates to every case in this court.
Going raw dawg with a chick who already has multiple kids, by multiple baby daddy's a foolish thing to do.
Exactly!
She never learned about the nature of every guy she slept with...
Amen
Whut chu said
amen facts
I don't get why the other baby mama was acting so high and mighty, that guy is no catch
What makes him not a catch nobody had a bad thing to say about him what has he done to be labeled a bad guy
He seems pretty decent to be honest, the mother is a mess thought
I know right... he will treat you with the same disrespect when it doesn't work out... never encourage a man to be less than a man because in turn he will be less than a man for you...👀
She thought the baby wasn't his. That's why she was acting like that....I know she feel some type of way now.
So he got the 3 kids now... she stated he has a little girls he don't do for...
She need to be on birth control if she gonna be out here wilding throwing that cat around 😩 cz this not fair to the babies she making smh 🤦🏽♀️
Not throwing the cat around 🤣🤣
That cat is definitely polluted and blown 🤢🤢
This will all finish once the welfare system has changed. After the first baby, no public assistance for the other children that comes after the first one.
He's throwing peen around too... Women get all the heat and shame, while men get a pass for doing the exact same thing.
He has a daughter he's not raising and two kids exactly 1 yr apart... Not even married, just getting women knocked up left and right
@@autumnskai6383 he throws bananas around
I fell so sorry for the baby 😔 may God bless and protect him ❤
We as Women always have to protect OURSELVES and know that regardless of what the man does or doesn't do....the children are OURS for the rest of our lives. And stop saying "I grew up without a father or had a broken family so I dont want that for my child/ren". Well if that is what YOU want or don't want....YOU need to get married before you have children so at least you can say you TRIED to give them what you didn't have.
Ebony Davis *insert slow clap* 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
Ebony Davis Exactly
nunya beeswax insert HUGE EYE ROLL
Absolutely correct
Amen👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
Her crying and talking sounds like the tik tok filter😂
😂😂😂
你孩瘋了。。。。
😂😂😂😂😂😂
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I said that too
I hate when so called “Current ” girl comes to court and say that things like: I don't think the child is my boyfriend's child. Thank nonsense should stop
Right! Now she looks crazy. And the comment about she likes attached men. He been cheating on her.
Yeah, why would any of them ever say, " Yes I think he is the father"?
They have a huge interest in him not being the dad.
I guess the show thinks it makes the show more interesting, which it does.
I guess current chic was peeping through the window watching them get it on and he didn't get the job done according to her 🤣
I have always said everyone should establish paternity at birth. This is sad, I hope they get the emotional support they need.
Lord please shower her with your love and wisdom ,Bailey is hurting
hurting, and with 4 kids, all by her self, i really feel sorry for her :(
Renelle Davis amen 🙏🏼
@@Breathe_24 she put herself in the situation. She's a grown woman that deserves zero sympathy. I feel sorry for those poor children that have a hoe for mother and have to deal with men in and out of their lives.
Amen
@Solemn Solace your comment is the reason why I'm glad God is not like man,don't judge what you don't understand.
His girlfriend is a bird! I'd never get involved with my man's dispute with his ex, let alone his EX-wife!
You would if there was a chance he'd not only cheated on you but you'd have to put up with his ex for the rest of your life with him. Stop being mean, the lady's just standing up for someone she loves.
@@hakimdaaloul9886 it's not her place to be involved in his legal problems. She only came to rub this in the other birds face.
@truth seeker naw she didnt need to be on the stand, she could've been in the audience for moral support. She didnt even contribute to the case, her part was hella irrelevant
@truth seeker wel said yeah she should be involved shes literaly carries evidence in side of her if she doesnt understand that plz dont raise anny kids mam
truth seeker well she looked like a fool because it is his baby yet she came with the the baby don’t look like him non sense and she pregnant by a man that is in a paternity case situation. She should have said, I’m not sure if he is the father but if he is I will support and accept this baby. Matter of fact I agree with what another person said, she should have just sat in the audience for moral support. Girlfriends have no business commenting and they usually look ridiculous, like this lady did.
I have so much respect for that judge. She says exactly what I believe- an adult has had their chance at life to make decisions that better themselves and their community around them, but a child has no voice and the court has to be that voice when parents can’t get along. The only one who truly suffers is the child.
She’s a cheater big bro stop trying to give every woman a pass
@@goddessyamato5238 totally missed his point
@@mteokay1246I swr this girl ended up in the wrong chat 😅
Good job ❤❤Watching from U A E keep it up
I notice that people continually put way too much faith in calculated dates of conception. They're just estimates based on averages ffs.
# dont lie people do. Also he lost anyway
What a mess. Why do you keep sleeping with her if you already broke up with her.
Max Lee because she allows it
because he probably still had feelings for her and her him, and it's easier to continue to sleep with someone you already know then to go find someone new. Sleeping with an ex is like a no strings attached relationship, UNTIL SHE ENDED UP PREGNANT!
Because that's all she was ever good for anyway.
@@shihoblade Well now she's good for being a co parent lol.
She must got that 🤤 I been in the same shoes and it ain't right but i understand 😁
Yeah this why I only get my wife pregnant 👍🏾
@Supersman2000FightChair from your statement it seems like you’re cheating on her. That’s none of my business ☕️
Terry Johnson // and I oop- 👁👄👁
@@terryjohnson1250 🤣🤣🤣🤣
Just be careful of the people you are not getting pregnant that they don't get pregnant and say it's yours lol
@@terryjohnson1250 😆😆😆
Its crazy how the men are chastised before the truth actually comes out...
Exactly u can tell she's a jump off she didn't know he was actually the father they lie until the truth is revealed
This has got to be the most respectful man on this show I’ve ever seen. No crazy foolishness, no strange stories, no Ebonics talking. He came ready for business
And the judge tried to blame the dude.
🤣🤣🤣
What's wrong with speaking ebonics and why do you consider it respectful to not speak it 🤔 QTNA
HA no I've been watching for weeks and I have also seen more respectful men AND women.
Did u miss the part when he said his family said to get that baby out of here. That made me sick
I wanted to see the girlfriends face when she announced the verdict.
Me too 😂
Me too
me four to infinity....they shouldve showed it
Same
Me too
Now sir, go tell your Mother she was wrong as 2 left shoes for denying her own grandson. Smh
That is what my grandmother told my father . I asked him to do a DNA ,but it seem that he would rather die than do it , yes he is dead.
Haa
@@barbaragardner9153 That's actually sad not funny at all.
@@Barak144 its funny- it also shows the poster has come to terms with thier fathers death so good news whichever way you look at it. People die. It doesnt mean we should be sad forever. Also i think the sense of humour comes from the father as well. The joke is really a tribute.
If ur serious about wanting ur dad's dna tested?(but hes now dead)get Ancestry dna and it will show ur closest relatives n more..a lot of people are finding close family even if ur parents are dead.
It's ridiculous to force someone to pay for a child that they can prove is not theirs