I'm Pregnant, So Marry Me: Destiny Leonard v Destun Thomas

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  • Опубліковано 21 лис 2024

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  • @kadie-anncresser9220
    @kadie-anncresser9220 5 місяців тому +340

    Um, why would you want to marry someone who you say is a cheater? Girl bye! He's not the problem at this point, you are.

    • @brittanybrown484
      @brittanybrown484 5 місяців тому +9

      He's gotta go, NOW!

    • @nikkibeck2934
      @nikkibeck2934 5 місяців тому +21

      Exactly! He’s not a good BF but you want him as a husband…WHY?!?!

    • @viviancoleman8109
      @viviancoleman8109 5 місяців тому +7

      Just dumb trying to force someone to marry you sir run

    • @jessicadickerson9178
      @jessicadickerson9178 5 місяців тому +6

      Because they think a ring will change them. Or trying to prove a point to the women their “man” cheat on them with. It’s pathetic and heart breaking. But atp it’s her fault.

    • @movingforward789
      @movingforward789 5 місяців тому

      Marry, get pregnant by…none of it!!! 😂

  • @angelica7236
    @angelica7236 5 місяців тому +196

    His first statement was "I'm not ready to be married " They don't need to be together.

  • @gailsmith836
    @gailsmith836 5 місяців тому +192

    She’s quite a mess. Pregnant on purpose. Foolish to try to control him with a pregnancy. Now she will be a single mother. 😢

    • @soulmusic6049
      @soulmusic6049 5 місяців тому +6

      I literally said the same thing. She gives baby to keep him vibes.

    • @mindiaonidas8256
      @mindiaonidas8256 5 місяців тому +6

      Right, pregnant on purpose. I feel sorry for him because she is gonna be a very bitter baby mama

    • @avispajotte8535
      @avispajotte8535 5 місяців тому

      She is a hot mess. Checking how many new followers......OMG

    • @dwainmcwilliams2043
      @dwainmcwilliams2043 5 місяців тому +3

      He is the 1st of a long line sucession of Baby Daddies.😢

    • @TheCreoleSon89
      @TheCreoleSon89 4 місяці тому +2

      I agree but he is a fool too. You always protect yourself and wrap up. He is going to have to deal with this for 18 years. Play stupid games on both sides.

  • @kaidelowe5090
    @kaidelowe5090 4 місяці тому +25

    He keeps referring to her as the "mother of my child".... Sis, he don't want you!¡!

  • @janetsmith3203
    @janetsmith3203 5 місяців тому +161

    She has a very bad attitude and needs to grow up. They do not need to be together at this point in time.

    • @LethaLong-yi6yj
      @LethaLong-yi6yj 5 місяців тому

      @janetsmith3203 but my thing is if she attitude was so horrible why she having a baby by him why is she in a relationship with him that was so retarded she's stressing herself out she put her situation through that and the baby

    • @Shellygrrl2573
      @Shellygrrl2573 5 місяців тому +6

      I agree. And he needs to get a DNA test. Her whole demeanor is devious as all hell.

    • @LethaLong-yi6yj
      @LethaLong-yi6yj 5 місяців тому

      @@Shellygrrl2573 well they need to go to paternity court or come back on divorce Cout

    • @Shellygrrl2573
      @Shellygrrl2573 5 місяців тому +5

      ​@@LethaLong-yi6yjI wish they still had that show because like judge starr judge Lauren lake would have told her about her horrible attitude and destructive behavior damaging people's things.

    • @LethaLong-yi6yj
      @LethaLong-yi6yj 5 місяців тому +2

      @@Shellygrrl2573 will she 23 and he's 23 of course she have her ways but he has his ways to because he be cheating on her I guess she have her revenge on him they don't have to be together going to be co-parenting

  • @lavandermaro1401
    @lavandermaro1401 5 місяців тому +153

    You think he is a Cheater but you give him ultimatum to Marry you? You think being married gonna change everything? I doubt!

  • @dre23404
    @dre23404 5 місяців тому +111

    If this boy don't get a DNA test

    • @CEETV214
      @CEETV214 2 місяці тому +2

      On hood 👌🏿

  • @isthisreallystillathing5060
    @isthisreallystillathing5060 5 місяців тому +59

    Saying that a man you are ALREADY pregnant by has “3 months to marry me” is not an ultimatum. That baby is coming whether or not he marries you. You still gifted him a child.

  • @alexandralynn2795
    @alexandralynn2795 5 місяців тому +50

    I think she just like the thought of a wedding and not marriage itself

    • @LadyFay88
      @LadyFay88 5 місяців тому +5

      I think she doesn't like the title of Baby Mama. Wife sounds better to her, but it's not going to happen with her baby's father.

    • @papagrande2006
      @papagrande2006 5 місяців тому

      NO QUESTION

  • @AwkwardlyIntroverted
    @AwkwardlyIntroverted 5 місяців тому +58

    Girl just co-parent and find a man that wants to be with you. You can’t make a man marry you.

  • @NaomyP
    @NaomyP 5 місяців тому +92

    Damn they’re too young, not ready to get married, and jumped too quick into pregnancy! They’re still both immature, wasted our time 🙄

  • @sweetsweet81
    @sweetsweet81 5 місяців тому +45

    Judge Start gave her the truth! She doesn't have the right attitude or mindset to be married.

    • @scottsh1120
      @scottsh1120 5 місяців тому +2

      Doesn't have a married state of mind

  • @happybakergirl1292
    @happybakergirl1292 5 місяців тому +42

    *lol* The minute someone says, "They shouldn't've gone through my phone." you know something’s up.
    The one I feel sorry for the most is the baby. To be saddled with both of them … *smh*

  • @_mojojojeaux
    @_mojojojeaux 5 місяців тому +98

    For the love of Christ, CONTRACEPTION UNTIL A MAN COMMITS TO YOU. A child is a LIFETIME commitment. How are you scared of/not ready for marriage but doing things irresponsibly to have a baby?

    • @jo-annbastings
      @jo-annbastings 5 місяців тому +3

      AMEN👏👏👏👏👏👍!

    • @LadyFay88
      @LadyFay88 5 місяців тому +5

      ABSTINENCE UNTIL A MAN COMMITS TO YOU

    • @jo-annbastings
      @jo-annbastings 5 місяців тому +3

      @@LadyFay88 come on, be realistic! Teenagers are driven by their hormones and emotions. Abstinence is NOT a contraceptive, it’s a point of view.

    • @Shellygrrl2573
      @Shellygrrl2573 5 місяців тому +4

      ​@@jo-annbastingsshe's not a teenager. She's a grown 23 year old devious brat. He needs a DNA test for that child. Her trying to push this marriage after being with another man is sus as hell.

    • @LadyFay88
      @LadyFay88 5 місяців тому +2

      @@jo-annbastings I am being realistic, and I never said abstinence was a contraceptive. Situations like this should deter people from being sexually active with someone is not committed to you. No matter how many hormones are running through your body, no one deserves your body if they cannot make a commitment to you.

  • @madstylechica1557
    @madstylechica1557 5 місяців тому +98

    Destun's Mother look like she could be his sibling! Wow. So young! Seriously, just coparent seperately.

    • @angelacarlisle1708
      @angelacarlisle1708 5 місяців тому +3

      She could have been 15 or so when she had him so she would look young

    • @theriawilliams818
      @theriawilliams818 5 місяців тому +5

      She also looks like she could be the girlfriend sister

    • @2intriguing1
      @2intriguing1 5 місяців тому

      When kids have kids who have kids. Pure buffoonery

    • @janice-q5n
      @janice-q5n 5 місяців тому

      I thought she was his sister!

    • @lastwon11
      @lastwon11 5 місяців тому +3

      Black Don’t Crack 4real

  • @esterepps8137
    @esterepps8137 5 місяців тому +121

    If she cheated that baby may not be his! DNA son!!

    • @angelacarlisle1708
      @angelacarlisle1708 5 місяців тому +4

      Who said she physically cheated she was messaging someone but then again so was he

    • @viviancoleman8109
      @viviancoleman8109 5 місяців тому +6

      Fast she is crazy for real

    • @Aquaria2291
      @Aquaria2291 5 місяців тому +10

      ​@@angelacarlisle1708 if she's sitting in someone's lap, kissing them, talking about she was planning to leave him, you can't really put anything past her.
      I would definitely DNA test that child before I sign a birth certificate.

    • @J3nJ3n_135
      @J3nJ3n_135 5 місяців тому +2

      That's what I just said

    • @FinDom1
      @FinDom1 5 місяців тому +7

      @@angelacarlisle1708she sat on someone’s lap and kissed them. If he was my brother or son he’d be getting a dna.

  • @dayciajtalk88
    @dayciajtalk88 5 місяців тому +29

    Smh this young man need to leave her get a DNA test if the baby is his they need to co parents, they should not be together she is toxic!!!

  • @shesuniqueinherownwaybenja7647
    @shesuniqueinherownwaybenja7647 5 місяців тому +64

    She’s doing too much, I hate all that looking in the phone mess. If u have to do all that leave them alone.

    • @scottsh1120
      @scottsh1120 5 місяців тому +5

      Period.

    • @Opinions-galore24
      @Opinions-galore24 5 місяців тому +1

      E X A C T L Y!!!!!!!!

    • @tareva_
      @tareva_ 4 місяці тому +1

      If u have to do allat… he ain’t your man. Period. Plus that’s too much energy just for you not to go any damn where.

  • @markydan1232
    @markydan1232 5 місяців тому +32

    She is every man's worst nightmare! Good luck Mr. Thomas 😭

  • @KayloveGreen
    @KayloveGreen 5 місяців тому +50

    He needs to leave. Get a DNA & joint custody.

    • @dwainmcwilliams2043
      @dwainmcwilliams2043 5 місяців тому

      And put on Child Support for the next 24 years (college included). Sad to say it.😢

    • @TheCreoleSon89
      @TheCreoleSon89 4 місяці тому

      He won’t get custody in Georgia. Just trust me. It has to be some real busted mom syndrome to maintain custody.

  • @FullofSouthernCharm
    @FullofSouthernCharm 5 місяців тому +23

    Does nobody enjoy just being young and dating and getting to know each other... figuring out what they like and don't like... Sheesh

  • @sandrarice4197
    @sandrarice4197 5 місяців тому +29

    Never, ever give a man an ultimateum. It never works. It will backfire on her. I agree with Judge Star, the young lady doesn't have a very nice attitude. She seems very immature with the fighting
    Hopefully, she will grow up real fast-like in 3 months when her baby's born!!!

  • @ybshadyii4375
    @ybshadyii4375 5 місяців тому +244

    WHY DO THESE 20 YRS OLD CONTINUE TO COME TO DIVORCE COURT? THEY'RE STILL TO YOUNG TALKING ABOUT MARRIAGE AND ALL THAT COMES WITH IT. STOP GETTING KNOCKED UP AND DUMP - IT'S NOT FAIR TO THE CHILDREN...

    • @ASMRnCats
      @ASMRnCats 5 місяців тому

      SAME REASON WHY 30,40,50,60,70 YEAR OLDS GO TO DIVORCE COURT. CAUSE PEOPLE CANT FIGURE STUFF OUT ON THEIR OWN. IVE SEEN PLENTY OF CASES WHERE ITS NOT ONLY 20 YEAR OLDS.

    • @cupcakes2234
      @cupcakes2234 5 місяців тому +35

      Nobody has grace with our generation anymore. The generation previously was no different. Only difference is yall were pregnant in unhealthy marriages. Domestic violence, cheating, and no communication. Same thing just different circumstances. Me being 20 I love to see episodes like this, so I don’t be in the same place as these 23 year olds. It doesn’t hit the same seeing 40 year olds in the shit. They can’t teach me nothing because they still in the same situation these 20 year olds are in.

    • @mrs.poised9820
      @mrs.poised9820 5 місяців тому +1

      Gets me every time

    • @mrs.poised9820
      @mrs.poised9820 5 місяців тому +11

      This generation doesn’t need grace honestly., I’m sick of it… feelings , lies , not listening to their elders and becoming a cycled generation

    • @movingforward789
      @movingforward789 5 місяців тому +13

      Why do people keep coming to divorce court and they are not even married!!! 😂

  • @janashockley8263
    @janashockley8263 5 місяців тому +22

    This girl is not playing with a full deck~her non~ chalant attitude is wild

  • @toyaward9818
    @toyaward9818 5 місяців тому +13

    Where is her family? Auntie, momma, grandma somebody explain to her that having a baby doesn’t make a man stay. That’s your baby, your responsibility

  • @toniporto8000
    @toniporto8000 5 місяців тому +5

    Why is it so hard to keep our legs closed ?

  • @tinarowe8256
    @tinarowe8256 5 місяців тому +15

    He was in Miami having big fun!

  • @Newtonwilson-yw4kg
    @Newtonwilson-yw4kg 4 місяці тому +147

    Relationships are hard, But I've figured out that there's always a way to fix things when there's a problem. Five years back, my wife and I were on the brink of divorce because of issues in our marriage, but we found a way to fix them. It was hard, but we made it through.

    • @oglaskubuot
      @oglaskubuot 4 місяці тому

      I really want to be happy too. I'm in a relationship, and even though we're apart now, I can't think of life without her; my love for her is big. I really miss her, and I'm determined to bring her back. We've tried different ways, like therapy, to fix things.

    • @Newtonwilson-yw4kg
      @Newtonwilson-yw4kg 4 місяці тому

      Parting ways with someone you deeply care about is never easy, but in my particular circumstance, I was aided by a spiritual mentor who averted the collapse of my marriage. Her name is Suzanne Ann Walters.

    • @oglaskubuot
      @oglaskubuot 4 місяці тому

      I appreciate this guidance. I'll quickly search for her online. Thank you. I'm optimistic that this approach will also bring me the results I desire; I miss her dearly

    • @Newtonwilson-yw4kg
      @Newtonwilson-yw4kg 4 місяці тому

      I promise you will not regret it.

    • @godschild2-yd3jy
      @godschild2-yd3jy 4 місяці тому

      You both must love each other.

  • @ELBONYBEAUTY27
    @ELBONYBEAUTY27 4 місяці тому +6

    She has made the decision to disappoint herself for the next 18 years.

  • @scottsh1120
    @scottsh1120 5 місяців тому +12

    She doing too much. Why did you get pregnant by a guy who is not interested in getting married🤔

  • @islandgirlruby2750
    @islandgirlruby2750 5 місяців тому +38

    Dude run for your life

  • @viviancoleman8109
    @viviancoleman8109 5 місяців тому +11

    Church, college, career, marriage then children. Stop trying to be grown too early.

  • @ChristinaJohnson-u9l
    @ChristinaJohnson-u9l 5 місяців тому +13

    These couples are crazy. They aren’t doing anything but fighting, cheating and F-ing.

  • @Djdreamstudios
    @Djdreamstudios 5 місяців тому +10

    We need to pray for this child because these two are too much!!!

    • @sevenheaven3992
      @sevenheaven3992 24 дні тому

      and I promise that bubble girl granny is not going to make it any better.

  • @Josie3387
    @Josie3387 5 місяців тому +47

    His momma is fine as hell!!!!

  • @lillianwilliams5510
    @lillianwilliams5510 5 місяців тому +28

    They are not married and not teenagers.
    The defendant is just immature and irresponsible

    • @kimwilliams1402
      @kimwilliams1402 5 місяців тому +8

      Both of them

    • @Shellygrrl2573
      @Shellygrrl2573 5 місяців тому +1

      ​​​@@kimwilliams1402Exactly! BOTH of them. At this day and age it's not hard to get birth control. They just didn't care and now he resents it and she's trying to push marriage when she should have pushed contraception. Her devious grin is kinda sending she got pregnant on purpose thinking it would stop him from cheating vibes. Slow minded girl didn't realize that NEVER works. Especially when she's a cheater herself. He needs a DNA test

    • @angelacarlisle1708
      @angelacarlisle1708 5 місяців тому +2

      Not just her hes as bad

    • @jo-annbastings
      @jo-annbastings 5 місяців тому +3

      SHE is as immature as him and manipulative.

  • @emilysmith885
    @emilysmith885 5 місяців тому +17

    I will never understand why females act out just because they are in a relationship with a man. The way you behave says a lot about your character not the man. It’s important to learn self control. No need to disrespect your self because of someone!

    • @christinamenhennett
      @christinamenhennett 5 місяців тому +1

      Some men aren't trustworthy even when you trust them.

  • @sinavaitululeupolu1455
    @sinavaitululeupolu1455 5 місяців тому +7

    If he can't be trusted,why not use protection. They should stay single n co parent

  • @jasonleman1396
    @jasonleman1396 5 місяців тому +13

    Protection! I just dont get it. Not married, have your whole life ahead of you so who needs condoms, the pill or anything else?

  • @lillianwilliams5510
    @lillianwilliams5510 5 місяців тому +34

    They have been together too long from childhood. Neither had time to grow up.
    Typical story.

    • @thebarbieinvestor5428
      @thebarbieinvestor5428 5 місяців тому +3

      Typical hot mess! I’m so grateful my mom was not going for none of that growing up.

    • @julianiwhite
      @julianiwhite 5 місяців тому

      They’ve only been together 3 years, they’ve known each other since childhood

  • @Hannahrk9
    @Hannahrk9 5 місяців тому +19

    They will be on Maury next

  • @minkki5656
    @minkki5656 5 місяців тому +19

    The audacity of this young lady. Her attitude is so bad, you could just feel the anger from the screen. Why are these early 20 somethings getting pregnant? All of these different types of birth control, and she ended up pregnant. In these serious relationships. Have fun and enjoy your life. He better get ready because she's going to make his life hell. I can tell the way she stomped out with those heavy boots .

    • @LolaSkyyBlue
      @LolaSkyyBlue 4 місяці тому

      Them boots😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • @octaviusgreen1354
    @octaviusgreen1354 5 місяців тому +6

    This young man is making the rite decision.This young lady is very immature and controlling. She has a lot of growing up to do.

  • @Jessiesanders-f4r
    @Jessiesanders-f4r 16 днів тому +19

    Watching this captivating video stirs up painful memories of the recent end of my 4 year relationship. My beloved partner chose to depart, leaving me with an unyielding ache. Despite my relentless efforts to reconcile, I find myself grappling with frustration and an inability to envision a future without him. Despite attempts to purge him from my mind, I remain haunted by his absence, feeling compelled to express my longing here.

    • @ElizabethRedmond-r3y
      @ElizabethRedmond-r3y 16 днів тому

      It's hard to let go of someone you love; I went through a similar experience when my 12-year relationship ended. I tried everything to get him back, and eventually I had to turn to a spiritual counselor for assistance.

    • @Jessiesanders-f4r
      @Jessiesanders-f4r 16 днів тому

      Interesting! How did you locate a spiritual counselor, and how can I get in touch with him most effectively?

    • @ElizabethRedmond-r3y
      @ElizabethRedmond-r3y 16 днів тому

      His name is Father Akunna, and he is a great spiritual counselor who can bring back your ex.

    • @ElizabethRedmond-r3y
      @ElizabethRedmond-r3y 16 днів тому

      he is father akunna, he has great powers, he can help you.

    • @Jessiesanders-f4r
      @Jessiesanders-f4r 16 днів тому

      I appreciate you providing this important information; I've just checked Father Akunna online, and wow, he's really genuine. Thank you so much again ❤

  • @BlueBoxGirl1837
    @BlueBoxGirl1837 4 місяці тому +1

    Judge Star, thank you for giving her life lesson information!

  • @BlackInsanity00
    @BlackInsanity00 5 місяців тому +7

    If he got any good sense he'd get that baby tested fresh out the womb. Kid if you find out it's not yours then GHOST HER as if she'd never existed.

  • @LoveAngel333
    @LoveAngel333 5 місяців тому +6

    I really think she is lying about being pregnant

    • @melissadarden3283
      @melissadarden3283 4 місяці тому

      FINALLY!!! I was looking for someone in the comments to feel the same way I felt. The only baby weight I saw for a 6 month pregnant woman was her nose. I’m not making fun of it because she’s a beautiful young lady, but I just didn’t see it.

  • @t.c.5456
    @t.c.5456 5 місяців тому +5

    Ha ha 😂 judge went HAM on her😂

  • @ShanetteLewis
    @ShanetteLewis 5 місяців тому +7

    me and hubby play a game! when the women say cheat, cheating, cheater, cheated etc hubby takes a shot. If the man says it, I take a shot! poor husband always loses 😂😂😂

    • @ImJustSayingGirl
      @ImJustSayingGirl 5 місяців тому +1

      I know your husband be in there stumbling and fumbling!😂🤣😂🤣

  • @ronnimartin7033
    @ronnimartin7033 3 місяці тому +3

    DC producers shouldn't let 24 and younger come on the show!!

    • @edenicgoddess
      @edenicgoddess Місяць тому

      I agree this is foolishness and if she was mine….. I would check this shit

  • @jo-annbastings
    @jo-annbastings 5 місяців тому +10

    The parents failed miserably to educate their children on the risk of unwanted pregnancy and STDs. At the beginning of the teenage years they should sit down with their kids and talk with them about it. Some parents seem to think abstinence is the best way to prevent pregnancy but it’s not true! Teenagers drive on their emotions and their hormones take over their good sense. That’s why parents should be practical and realistic about their children and their sexual education. The more children know, the more they are protected.

    • @lamishabryant9943
      @lamishabryant9943 5 місяців тому +6

      They can have the best parents in the world!!! The parents could've educated them and they just didn't want to listen sometimes it's not always on the parents it be the hard headed children that think they're grown and can do what they want and think the parents are wrong you don't know how they raised them so you can't speak on people situations y'all perfect patties get on my nerves with this

    • @julianiwhite
      @julianiwhite 5 місяців тому +4

      Just because you’re taught right from wrong doesn’t mean you will always do right

    • @christinamenhennett
      @christinamenhennett 5 місяців тому

      It does take over with some, but not with myself, sister, or my daughter.

  • @ehamblin143
    @ehamblin143 5 місяців тому +6

    Judge Starr was right about this crazy girl. The girl attitude is off the charts #delulu

  • @rhcsw1682
    @rhcsw1682 5 місяців тому +9

    I just don't understand. It is nothing wrong with dating and not BEING COMMITTED! Just be up front with your intentions and use birth control and condoms.

  • @sybilwhite1259
    @sybilwhite1259 День тому +1

    Let him go on his way i totally agree with what his mother said 😉 hopefully they can Co-parent successfully.

  • @780822
    @780822 5 місяців тому +29

    This boy needs to run for hills

    • @LethaLong-yi6yj
      @LethaLong-yi6yj 5 місяців тому

      @780822 let me ask you a question why does young lady want a young man to marry her after all that crap he put her through if he didn't want to be with her he could have told her that long time ago and put a baby in her stomach I don't get it but that's all her fault she only one that let out with this young man and had a baby with him that's my only thing but that's the reason why she left him because he was talking to other people messing around with the people why you want to stay with a young man that really don't want you I don't get it you can't make somebody to marry you I don't understand how to wear his mother got dragged in this I don't get it like it is so very immature between the both of them I don't get it but the same time this young lady need to calm down and chill out for a bit you know what I'm saying she's pregnant 6 months pregnant you want a young man to marry you that was so ridiculous I don't get it at the same time he only one and doing this and doing that to her why not move on but why she want to be with a young man

    • @hiddenjocelyn1088
      @hiddenjocelyn1088 5 місяців тому +4

      @@LethaLong-yi6yj did you watch the entire episode, a woman grabbing her man in front of the two parents. She’s throwing things at him, with so much force that a tail light was busted out of that man’s mother’s car, and she didn’t even offer to pay for it. She also cheated on the man, and only went back to him because she wasn’t feeling the man she was cheating with anymore. I have never seen anyone with so little accountability and remorse for doing things that are blatantly wrong. Not to mention she’s disrespected his family to their faces numerous times. She's absolutely horrible.

    • @LethaLong-yi6yj
      @LethaLong-yi6yj 5 місяців тому

      @@hiddenjocelyn1088 first of all I'm not retarded I did watch the episode but you're not answering my question all I was saying is why does young lady beg a young man to marry to her and put a baby on her I really don't care you cannot focus a man to marry you focus on being co-parenting it's not that hard it's not that easy we all women don't you get that thank you

    • @Director2024
      @Director2024 5 місяців тому

      @@LethaLong-yi6yjDidn’t sound like her raped her. She had to have willingly slept with him. You know. accountability is for all, not just men.

    • @Shellygrrl2573
      @Shellygrrl2573 5 місяців тому +2

      ​​@@hiddenjocelyn1088I agree. She's BEYOND horrible. She's a mans worst nightmare. I really hope that young man gets a DNA test. She's beyond sneaky and devious and is trying to push marriage on him so that way legally he will be responsible for that kid even if it's NOT his. When u sign that birth certificate it's hard to get your name off when your married, even when proven the child is not yours in most states. It's a darn shame how they do men in family court..smh..

  • @WesleyLindsey
    @WesleyLindsey 5 місяців тому +25

    The mama got PTSD? From a smashed light? I wish y’all never learned therapy words.

    • @nailahdawkins
      @nailahdawkins 5 місяців тому +4

      Thank you! Unless a person is duly _diagnosed_ they have no right using mental disorder diagnoses in everyday language. It's insulting, crass, and infruriating.
      Anyone want the mind-numbing brain migraines, soreness, and spasms that come with *my anxiety* episode (that's just one of my symptoms)?
      🧠🫨😓🤕
      Be my 🦆 ucking guest!

    • @Thegirl1936
      @Thegirl1936 5 місяців тому +3

      She said she got ptsd because of all the fighting and their toxic behavior.

    • @WesleyLindsey
      @WesleyLindsey 5 місяців тому +1

      @@Thegirl1936 my point is from everything we heard and know about this situation we don’t believe her PTSD claims

    • @Shellygrrl2573
      @Shellygrrl2573 5 місяців тому

      ​@@Thegirl1936maybe she has anxiety. I agree with u about the toxicity and maybe she's all wound up because HER property and peace of mind is being messed up by this out of control, bad attitude having trouble maker. Car damages aren't cheap and you know that jerk of a brat girl isn't going to pay for it.

  • @gailsmith836
    @gailsmith836 5 місяців тому +20

    Who lets an 11 year old child date.

    • @johannleonce7671
      @johannleonce7671 5 місяців тому +6

      LOL NO .. the knew each other from when she was 11 years but they have been dating for 3 years

    • @Shellygrrl2573
      @Shellygrrl2573 5 місяців тому +5

      ​​@@johannleonce7671 Right! Exactly. why does everyone keep saying that? Lol..does no one listen? They have only been dating 3 years and the judge clearly stated that🤣🤣

    • @johannleonce7671
      @johannleonce7671 5 місяців тому +3

      @@Shellygrrl2573 Yup!! she definitely did

  • @RosalynnAnne
    @RosalynnAnne 5 місяців тому +10

    I find it funny that people are saying this is too young to be married but back in the day (the recent back in the day) it was completely normal and common.

    • @stylefan32
      @stylefan32 5 місяців тому +11

      Back in the day 20 year olds were a lot more mature. 20 year olds now act like they're still 16.

    • @angelacarlisle1708
      @angelacarlisle1708 5 місяців тому

      Exactly

    • @zulu3274
      @zulu3274 5 місяців тому +4

      😊 it's because we treat our pre adults and 20 year olds like children these days that's why they are so soft, overly sensitive and needy... Men and Women BOTH....lol
      Hell judge Starr comes from that era with young people who made long-standing marriages... So I don't know why she often makes that comment "you two are extremely young" comment...

    • @emilyfeagin2673
      @emilyfeagin2673 5 місяців тому +1

      zulu3274
      I’m old. My friends got married and had children late teens early 20s.
      But since then we have learned that the human brain isn’t done developing until your mid 20s.
      Sone of my friends married early and are still together. Sone are not

    • @zulu3274
      @zulu3274 5 місяців тому

      @@emilyfeagin2673 I totally understand what you're saying but this has always been the way of the world... We have some 16 year olds that are smarter/mature than others... We have some 60 year olds that are dumber than others... Marriages have a 50% success and 50% failure rate... Nothing is ever perfect but just do the best you can with it all... Most of us would change a lot if we could go back in time... lol

  • @gailsmith836
    @gailsmith836 5 місяців тому +5

    The single worst baby mama in the history of baby mamas. You got that right. However the young man needed to take his own bc in hand.

  • @givingyousportsfrommyview
    @givingyousportsfrommyview 5 місяців тому +4

    Proof he’s cheating but wants him to marry you 🤔🤦🏾‍♂️

  • @mimboyce6643
    @mimboyce6643 5 місяців тому +3

    She has a BIG problem. I hope he just co-parent. He better get a DNA test.

  • @MsTaurus37
    @MsTaurus37 5 місяців тому +2

    Young lady, this is a 23 year old young man. What's going to happen is, you're going to be "a baby mama". She's trying to hold on too tight. She just wants to say she has a husband.

  • @jaytay6675
    @jaytay6675 5 місяців тому +4

    The mother is beautiful

  • @stopit41
    @stopit41 5 місяців тому +2

    Where is her family

  • @prettiilexii672
    @prettiilexii672 4 місяці тому +1

    Why get pregnant by him then?
    She has a long road ahead.

  • @SB-tc2jr
    @SB-tc2jr 5 місяців тому +4

    I wonder what her home life was like.
    Wonder if she has a relationship with her parents... Siblings...

    • @emilyfeagin2673
      @emilyfeagin2673 5 місяців тому +2

      I thought that too. She is young , alone and scared. That’s why she’s angry. She thought she had a place where she belonged, now she doesn’t have that

    • @SB-tc2jr
      @SB-tc2jr 5 місяців тому

      @@emilyfeagin2673 yes...

  • @LIVEINPEACE2023
    @LIVEINPEACE2023 5 місяців тому +4

    Is that baby even his??? 🤔

  • @trevorkelly5036
    @trevorkelly5036 5 місяців тому +28

    Great video, My relationship of 5 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really love her so much I can’t stop thinking about her, I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of her, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss her and just can’t stop thinking about her

    • @JuanRodriguez438
      @JuanRodriguez438 5 місяців тому

      i have been in such a situation. i love my woman and unfortunately we separated about two years ago, but i could not let her go, so i had to do all i could to get her back, i had to seek the help of a spiritual adviser who helped me bring her back, now we are back together, and i must say i am enjoying every moment.

    • @trevorkelly5036
      @trevorkelly5036 5 місяців тому

      wow, please how did you get a spiritual adviser, and how do i reach her?

    • @JuanRodriguez438
      @JuanRodriguez438 5 місяців тому

      Her name is queen stella laveaux ,and she is great at what she does. you can look her name up online and you will find all you need.

    • @trevorkelly5036
      @trevorkelly5036 5 місяців тому

      Thank you for this valuable information, i just looked her up now online. impressive

    • @zoelife7272
      @zoelife7272 4 місяці тому +1

      Work on you. Fix you.

  • @bigdogboss2634
    @bigdogboss2634 4 місяці тому +2

    RUN BRO!! RUN FAST

  • @shanny0971
    @shanny0971 5 місяців тому +6

    Get a DNA test!!!!! Don’t you sign nothing until you get a test!

  • @hey2930
    @hey2930 5 місяців тому +9

    PTSD ?? Now ma’am 🤣🤣Shut up.
    They shouldn’t be together but she is pushing it

    • @petrinajackson8380
      @petrinajackson8380 5 місяців тому +2

      You don't know the extent of what happened. I'm sure his mom didn't want to air his dirty laundry.

  • @MekaMack
    @MekaMack 5 місяців тому +1

    You can’t make nobody marry you‼️

  • @mze9534
    @mze9534 4 місяці тому +1

    The mother looks younger than the girlfriend..lol

  • @yolandap6521
    @yolandap6521 5 місяців тому +6

    Girl. Bye!

  • @KevinA.Deckard-gm2he
    @KevinA.Deckard-gm2he 5 місяців тому +115

    This is a great Video. This brings back painful memories which i have been enduring. My relationship of 5 years ended 3 months ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really love her so much I can’t stop thinking about her, I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of her, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss her and just can’t stop thinking about her.

    • @beverlystephens6
      @beverlystephens6 5 місяців тому

      I am sorry about what you have been through. I have been through something similar and was almost depressed, till I contacted a spiritual counselor who helped me get my ex back and hence my life back

    • @KevinA.Deckard-gm2he
      @KevinA.Deckard-gm2he 5 місяців тому

      Interesting. Who is this counsellor, and how do I meet the person?

    • @beverlystephens6
      @beverlystephens6 5 місяців тому

      Online, you'll find shelly renee white, revered for her expertise as a spiritual counsellor. She has the ability to reunite couples and promote holistic well-being.

    • @KevinA.Deckard-gm2he
      @KevinA.Deckard-gm2he 5 місяців тому

      Thanks a lot. I just did. Impressive.

    • @ChainBonds
      @ChainBonds 5 місяців тому

      Text her one time if she got a new number ask her mom if the mother really liked you. Bet the mother an help cause if you was a good man to her child trust me the mom will help an talk to her to check her because she knows her probably wrong an wanted you to get back together anyway

  • @allanathomas6977
    @allanathomas6977 5 місяців тому +2

    With her behaviour I would honestly question the paternity of the baby...

  • @Rumblealsojennings2929
    @Rumblealsojennings2929 5 місяців тому +5

    these people get together no trust,
    cheating on each other just foul towards each other,
    then they have no sense to know they create a baby and its just suppose to be adorable huh ? people are so simple and just gullible

  • @Jaywhite305
    @Jaywhite305 5 місяців тому +1

    Do not settle down in your 20s live learn life as much as possible and learn people too

  • @sandramerrinvil4310
    @sandramerrinvil4310 5 місяців тому +3

    She is going to make his life miserable 😩 😔

  • @lillianwilliams5510
    @lillianwilliams5510 5 місяців тому +4

    Love Judge 's fashion. How does she keep her body in shape

    • @thebarbieinvestor5428
      @thebarbieinvestor5428 5 місяців тому

      I think she mentioned she plays tennis along with lifestyle change . She had weightloss surgery long time ago

  • @FullofSouthernCharm
    @FullofSouthernCharm 5 місяців тому +3

    Anybody noticing a theme with these cases???

  • @kimwilliams1402
    @kimwilliams1402 5 місяців тому +2

    Exactly no home training or common sense

  • @MissD-xk1xb
    @MissD-xk1xb 5 місяців тому +1

    The judge is styling in this episode ✨❤

  • @KiaSynthesis
    @KiaSynthesis 5 місяців тому +1

    I feel like this could’ve been handled outside of court. He’s not ready for marriage, he cheats, she’s manipulative and a possible cheater; no trust … breakup. The end.

  • @ShanetteLewis
    @ShanetteLewis 5 місяців тому +2

    she’s ridiculous! I would never agree with my son being in a relationship with a girl like that! I pray for the innocent baby she’s about to use against him.

  • @debarmt1167
    @debarmt1167 5 місяців тому +1

    I agree withthe Judge, this young lady needs more time to mature within herself.

  • @tyriastewart
    @tyriastewart 4 місяці тому +1

    The mom looks their age omg she’s stunning

  • @PatriciaMines
    @PatriciaMines Місяць тому +1

    They are too young and he is not ready for a family. She needs to accept that and focus on her education or whatever her life goals are. These young ladies get wrapped up with boys who are not ready to assume the role of husband or father.

  • @MomsSelfReliance
    @MomsSelfReliance 5 місяців тому +1

    I think the guy drove this young lady crazy, she loves him but he doesn't love her

  • @kymberleebyrd6021
    @kymberleebyrd6021 5 місяців тому +2

    She has a terrible attitude. He needed to leave her anyways.

  • @aixaalvarez4827
    @aixaalvarez4827 5 місяців тому +3

    Why is this called Divorce Court and they constantly have Single people on here? Just asking

  • @ashkatnoy3420
    @ashkatnoy3420 5 місяців тому +1

    Buddy wasn’t budging

  • @lillianwilliams5510
    @lillianwilliams5510 5 місяців тому +8

    Ready to have sex.but not get married.
    Typical too young and immature.
    First. Sex education is essential.
    These young women must learn to respect themselves and their bodies before they have sex.
    Safe sex is not absenteeism from sex.
    Protect yourself.
    These young ladies must protect themselves.
    Too young. Too insecure.
    She should have gone to MIAMI with him.

  • @edenicgoddess
    @edenicgoddess Місяць тому +1

    His mother is absolutely 💯 beautiful and she don’t like this girl… neither do i

  • @welcome2vonasworld821
    @welcome2vonasworld821 5 місяців тому +4

    Omg this is crazy u can't make a man merry you . He just said he not ready to get married. Her attitude is rude and nasty . N she gonna give him hell when that baby comes. I feel sorry for the baby . He young he wanna have fun n be 23 . She needs to check her attitude. Good luck

  • @jillianelliott4654
    @jillianelliott4654 4 місяці тому +1

    Lil girl and I say that loosely, how you gonna give someone 3 months to marry you and you think he's a cheater? He is clearly not ready. And, at this point neither are you. Just co-parent. And son, PLEASE get a DNA test. She is a TRIP!

  • @kellabillingsley5141
    @kellabillingsley5141 5 місяців тому +2

    What i get from her is she like to talk like she is so poise and mature when really she is very immature

  • @nailahdawkins
    @nailahdawkins 5 місяців тому +4

    1:35: That's _your_fault you don't have an engagement nor wedding band on your ring Missy.
    You did the relationship steps 👏🏾 out 👏🏾 of 👏🏾 order 👏🏾! Get your life together - *both* of you 💯.

  • @34Nails
    @34Nails 5 місяців тому +4

    Good enough to have his baby but not good enough to marry………okay🫠

  • @montreyacoppage8388
    @montreyacoppage8388 3 місяці тому +1

    She's giving stalker vibes!!